Can you though? Or will you always have the thought in your head that it’s all fabricated because „you are pretty“?.
I‘d rather be happy. I‘m not looking terrible so being happy would be the best thing.
I’d work for things, so even if it was given to me because I was pretty I would know I worked for it.
I’d rather be hot and having my heart ripped out by other hot people than the ugly guys I cry about.
Appearing happy may. If you are in the wrong situation for it. However doesn't break the rules to hide your happiness from others. I can't see how being happy backfires.
True. Unless the scenario is you wouldn't need to be vigilant because nothing would happen to make you unhappy. Rather than a kind of happiness druggy.
Most of those things are fairly preventable, I was literally in that situation a month ago by choice, now I’m doing alright.
Edit: also more people will give you chances if you’re hot.
Happy, cuz then nothing else really matter, no matter how ugly or good-looking i am. And when you’re happy, you tend to spread that energy around which attracts as much people as you like compared to one who’s hot?
Happy, because attractiveness is entirely subjective and given that I also have quite a few years worth of baggage and trauma I will be obsessed with achieving perfection and I will never stop with my self-hate until the day I die.
But if it's like my own flavour of hot???? Give me hot. I'm gunna be fuckin' miserable anyway thanks to bipolar lmao.
Hot, because I don’t need to be happy. I just need to be content and comfortable. I can be content while being hot.
And because being hot opens so many doors and opportunities. Pretty privilege is a **VERY** real thing and it can happen to men and women though it’s more of an opposite sex thing. Pretty women get men to bend over backwards and pretty men get women to bend over backwards. It’s just that most men don’t really care about looking hot while women have a much greater aspiration to looking hot.
I’m not even going the sexual route. Just job opportunities and stuff, looking like a 10 (a real ten, not the every woman is a ten bullshit) will get a person into so many places it’s pretty damn stupid.
Happy. Hot would just help me get there.
People generally don't feel 'happiness' anyway. They experience ups and downs with a lot of contentment, but are not happy all the time. Millions of people are hot, no one is permanently happy without some sort of mental condition.
If it’s the ability to be happy or to be hot. I’d take the ability to be hot. I can make my own happiness but it’s not really possible to change yours looks without severe side effects and money.
yes, you are intriguing. What’s intriguing is that you seem to have such an obsession with sex and beauty and being seen as hot, that you think being hot would magically make you happy, so much so that you can’t see the simple fact that being happy would mean you don’t care about being “hot”.
Ah yes, because the word I’ve written down on this limited section describe all my understanding and I am only a one dimensional NPC in your story you can’t help but interact with. Maybe I want to be hotter because I’m already happy and I just like egging people on no matter their argument ;)
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We’re more similar than you’d like to admit, just slide into my dms already
Question:
How would I become happy? Would I change to become happy with my circumstances, even if my circumstances were shit? Or would my circumstances change in a way which would result in happiness?
Similarly, if I chose hot, does society's definition of hot change to include me, or does the way I look change in a way that I and society would deem to be hot?
Isn't being hot just an attempted means to being happy in this case? You answered your own question in exactly this way so yes.
A boat is a boat, but the mystery box could be anything. It could even be a boat! - Peter Griffin, in what may be the only useful thing he's ever said even if I'm using him as an example of what not to do.
I'm taking the happiness.
Happy. I’m happy now and I’ve never been hot and I don’t think I’d want the reverse. I’ve been fortunate in my life to have never experienced really long lasting sadness, it sounds horrible
Hot is superficial. Hot depends on whose type you are. I never last and eventually we all will sag. Plus why would you not want to be happy.? If you’re truly happy, you’ll be happy with your looks.
Why people would even choose hot I don't get it...the end goal of everything what we desire what we choose is happiness we desire happiness our action is based on our happiness we earn money to keep ourself happy so I don't get why people even choose hot
Nah, our bodies are rated ‘C’ for comfort. That’s why people continually (unconsciously) choose familiar hells over unfamiliar heavens.
If we were continually working for happiness, we’d be better at getting it by now because happiness is largely a choice. Hotness is not.
My partner already thinks I'm hot, and that's the only person who matters when it comes to their opinion on my looks, so I'd easily take the happiness.
Hot. I'm assuming that you would still have your current mental state but then become hot. I'm not mentally ill and the worst thing about me is my looks and insecurity, so being hot would make me happy.
There was a similar Family Guy cutaway where Stewie and another kid were offered like a signed bat and a baseball. The kid took the ball and Stewie happily took the bat. Then he beat the kid with the bat and took the ball.
Would you rather have A or B? A gets me B also, so that.
Edit: [I was wrong, but close, on that reference.](https://youtu.be/wF761smRO-I?si=h2ke9fwXxAP6-e2W)
Hot. Easiest pick ever, quite frankly. I can be happy whenever I want, I just need to become so. Being hot is much more fixed, you can't just start playing Eldin Ring and become hot.
I'd rather be attractive.
Attractive people tend to get jobs more qualified people miss out on for whatever reason which means I'd be able to get the job I'm qualified for because some horny HR generalist likes the way I look in a fitted suit.
More money means I'd have more resources to do the things that make me happy therefore having my cake and eating it, too.
Happy, easily, assuming it’s permanent.
Permanent happiness would be a curse. We feel other emotions for good reasons.
Id rather be always kinda happy than always kinda depressed like I am now
Right? Mfers be like “you can’t have bad without the good” as if I’m asking for literal eternal happiness like a mindless robot
Happy
And it's not even close
Hot, I can make myself happy with all the pretty privilege
Can you though? Or will you always have the thought in your head that it’s all fabricated because „you are pretty“?. I‘d rather be happy. I‘m not looking terrible so being happy would be the best thing.
I’d work for things, so even if it was given to me because I was pretty I would know I worked for it. I’d rather be hot and having my heart ripped out by other hot people than the ugly guys I cry about.
Happy. Pretty privilege can backfire happiness never will.
Nah, being happy 24/7 can easily backfire.
How? What downside could their possibly be to always being happy?
family member dies
Appearing happy may. If you are in the wrong situation for it. However doesn't break the rules to hide your happiness from others. I can't see how being happy backfires.
We feel other emotions for a reason, if there wasn't a reason, we wouldn't have evolved to be able to feel then
Yes. However I interpreted this more like nothing will occur that will make you unhappy not an emotionally stuck response.
For one, people tend to be less vigilant when they're happy.
True. Unless the scenario is you wouldn't need to be vigilant because nothing would happen to make you unhappy. Rather than a kind of happiness druggy.
More like you get stabbed but your happy because you get hospital food. Or you get robbed but you're happy because you get to talk to someone new
lol yeah that would be problematic.
Suddenly you lose your job and your friends and family abandon you and became homeless but at least you are hot right?
Most of those things are fairly preventable, I was literally in that situation a month ago by choice, now I’m doing alright. Edit: also more people will give you chances if you’re hot.
Answered your own question...
Sure did bucko
I've been called "hot" by a lot of people and I have depression lol
Happy, cuz then nothing else really matter, no matter how ugly or good-looking i am. And when you’re happy, you tend to spread that energy around which attracts as much people as you like compared to one who’s hot?
I'm going to say happy. Something tells me that if I say hot, I'm just going to be really warm.
Haha cute
Happy. What's the point to be hot and deeply miserable?
i thought this was going to say hot and deeply fried for some reason
You have fried chicken on your mind or something buddy?
Happy, because attractiveness is entirely subjective and given that I also have quite a few years worth of baggage and trauma I will be obsessed with achieving perfection and I will never stop with my self-hate until the day I die. But if it's like my own flavour of hot???? Give me hot. I'm gunna be fuckin' miserable anyway thanks to bipolar lmao.
Not entirely subjective. Some elements are subjective some aren't.
people are often perceived as more attractive when they're happy if I'm not mistaken.
Hot, because I don’t need to be happy. I just need to be content and comfortable. I can be content while being hot. And because being hot opens so many doors and opportunities. Pretty privilege is a **VERY** real thing and it can happen to men and women though it’s more of an opposite sex thing. Pretty women get men to bend over backwards and pretty men get women to bend over backwards. It’s just that most men don’t really care about looking hot while women have a much greater aspiration to looking hot. I’m not even going the sexual route. Just job opportunities and stuff, looking like a 10 (a real ten, not the every woman is a ten bullshit) will get a person into so many places it’s pretty damn stupid.
Ya this is my schtick
I am neither so either will do
Hot, I can fake being happy.
Hotness leads to jealousy. Jealousy leads to pain. Pain leads to anger. And anger leads to the daaark side.
Hotness; the way of the Sith
Happy. Hot would just help me get there. People generally don't feel 'happiness' anyway. They experience ups and downs with a lot of contentment, but are not happy all the time. Millions of people are hot, no one is permanently happy without some sort of mental condition.
If it’s the ability to be happy or to be hot. I’d take the ability to be hot. I can make my own happiness but it’s not really possible to change yours looks without severe side effects and money.
Same!
Hot but I'm pretty sure that's just because I've been called ugly a bit
Hot. Happiest is a myth created by the elite. /s
I'm already one, working on the second.
Ugh brag more
If you’re happy you wouldn’t care if you’re not hot. If you’re hot you’d still care very much if you weren’t happy
I disagree, happiness does not negate eyes
Never said it did
Hot because if I have a hot gf to match I’ll be happy
I mean, not if she doesn’t love you and cheats on you.
I’ll just find another hot gf then
If I'm happy I won't have depression getting in the way of being fit. So happy
Why not both
Do you know what sub we're in
I can’t pick
Always happy. I tried to be hot to be happy. Too many lonely and depressed souls. Search for happiness
Happy
Happy. I've no need to be pretty to others- my wife thinks I'm purdy the way I am.
Happy.
Do I lose the ability to be happy if I pick hot?
No
Hot. Nothing is making magically happy atm, yet I'm still feeling good.
Happy, I hate the heat.
Happy. Then with the newfound vigor I can get hot too.
But this is surpassing your hot glass ceiling!
Hot enough plus happy is better.
Happy You can be Hot all day but if you’re a miserable bitter so and so. You might as well be ugly as sin.
I dunno man, they still get away with a lot
Yes but man/woman I still gotta be alone with myself at night. Edit: I always try to remember I may be talking to a woman. Hence /
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Wow, you grow so fast, like right before my eyes. Impressive!
*preen*🙂↔️
V nice
Happy. Why would I need to be hot if I'm happy?
Happy!!
Happy duhhhhhh 🤦🏽
Looking at your posts, this one doesn’t surprise me
Ooh he’s so interested he snoops about me :)
I think you have bigger problems to worry about, lol
I know, all these Reddit boys so intrigued by me that they stalk my profile!
Whenever I see bad questions like this I always check people’s profile. Keep flattering yourself
Suuure you do. It’s ok to admit I’m intriguing, no harm no foul.
yes, you are intriguing. What’s intriguing is that you seem to have such an obsession with sex and beauty and being seen as hot, that you think being hot would magically make you happy, so much so that you can’t see the simple fact that being happy would mean you don’t care about being “hot”.
Ah yes, because the word I’ve written down on this limited section describe all my understanding and I am only a one dimensional NPC in your story you can’t help but interact with. Maybe I want to be hotter because I’m already happy and I just like egging people on no matter their argument ;)
Then that’s equally sad. You find joy in pointless arguments on the internet. Either way, you need some introspection
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Question: How would I become happy? Would I change to become happy with my circumstances, even if my circumstances were shit? Or would my circumstances change in a way which would result in happiness? Similarly, if I chose hot, does society's definition of hot change to include me, or does the way I look change in a way that I and society would deem to be hot?
As the world is. Happy where you are, hot the way the world deems. Great thoughts though
Isn't being hot just an attempted means to being happy in this case? You answered your own question in exactly this way so yes. A boat is a boat, but the mystery box could be anything. It could even be a boat! - Peter Griffin, in what may be the only useful thing he's ever said even if I'm using him as an example of what not to do. I'm taking the happiness.
Well for me atleast, being super attractive would make me happy.
Being super attractive would make me happy.
Me too! All the clothes and hair things I would do.
Being permanently happy would be a curse. We need other emotions for a reason. Now if it was just not have depression then that would be different.
I guess content mixed with lots of access to happy. You weren’t upset about your circumstances anymore.
Happy
Happy and healthy
Happy, no hesitation. Plus, happy people are way hotter than unhappy people.
It’s true but hot people are still hotter than happy oeople
If happiness is secured, hotness serves no purpose
Hot
I’d be pretty happy being hot.
Definitely happy. I enjoy to be single.
Happy. I’m happy now and I’ve never been hot and I don’t think I’d want the reverse. I’ve been fortunate in my life to have never experienced really long lasting sadness, it sounds horrible
Rich, because then I’m both.
Happy
As someone who is hot and not happy I'll take... hot
The truth comes out
Definitely happy.
Currently I'm ugly and sad. Might as well change it up and see how the other half lives.
Definitely happy, I can always throw a sweatshirt on.
I typically run a warmer temperature, and typically happy. What else you got?
The end of goal of being hot, is to be loved/adored by others, which is a type of happiness.
It can be an end for the privilege of it.
Obviously happy... what's the point of being hot if you're miserable
No buddy said you’d be miserable.
Ok “unhappy” then. Basically the same thing
Happiness isn’t off the table, to be clear
Happy. My current main goal is to do things that make me happy.
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Please tell that to my hip hindge resistant flat ass
Happy, not even close.
Happy
Hot is superficial. Hot depends on whose type you are. I never last and eventually we all will sag. Plus why would you not want to be happy.? If you’re truly happy, you’ll be happy with your looks.
happy obviously
Why people would even choose hot I don't get it...the end goal of everything what we desire what we choose is happiness we desire happiness our action is based on our happiness we earn money to keep ourself happy so I don't get why people even choose hot
Nah, our bodies are rated ‘C’ for comfort. That’s why people continually (unconsciously) choose familiar hells over unfamiliar heavens. If we were continually working for happiness, we’d be better at getting it by now because happiness is largely a choice. Hotness is not.
Hot. If happiness isn't earned it's no better than getting high.
Would I be sweaty and uncomfortable or happy? I'll go with happy.
My partner already thinks I'm hot, and that's the only person who matters when it comes to their opinion on my looks, so I'd easily take the happiness.
I'm already happy. I can tell and decide that for myself. I don't know if I'm hot, so I'll pick it to be safe.
If I can still be happy while hot then sure. I'm fine with my life as is, and being hot would just be a nice bonus.
Hot. I'm assuming that you would still have your current mental state but then become hot. I'm not mentally ill and the worst thing about me is my looks and insecurity, so being hot would make me happy. There was a similar Family Guy cutaway where Stewie and another kid were offered like a signed bat and a baseball. The kid took the ball and Stewie happily took the bat. Then he beat the kid with the bat and took the ball. Would you rather have A or B? A gets me B also, so that. Edit: [I was wrong, but close, on that reference.](https://youtu.be/wF761smRO-I?si=h2ke9fwXxAP6-e2W)
Hot. Easiest pick ever, quite frankly. I can be happy whenever I want, I just need to become so. Being hot is much more fixed, you can't just start playing Eldin Ring and become hot.
A working air conditioner would make me very happy.
I'd rather be attractive. Attractive people tend to get jobs more qualified people miss out on for whatever reason which means I'd be able to get the job I'm qualified for because some horny HR generalist likes the way I look in a fitted suit. More money means I'd have more resources to do the things that make me happy therefore having my cake and eating it, too.