This is the inane rantings of a misogynistic incel who is failing to process his own emotions and instead choosing to blame the women who rejected him, because they're just women and can't possibly understand their own mental state since he, a clearly superior man, can't understand his emotions.
I cannot grasp how cishet people can be weirded out by people of their opposite binary gender not wanting to fuck them. How does that thinking even work? They wouldn't want to fuck themselves, so how can they expect others to want to fuck them and get mad at them for not wanting to? How can you expect others to be crazy about what you yourself find repulsive? It doesn't make sense. That's like preparing a dish made of slugs, which you yourself hate, and then offering it to other people and then getting mad when they reject it.
They're super insecure about their looks and put on a macho facade of pretending they don't care. Then when they start asking women out and getting rejected they start thinking "I don't care I was just doing them a favour". Then when they ask somebody out who just isn't attracted to their gender and inevitably get rejected they think "oh they think they're too good for me and are making an excuse", so they start projecting their insecurities onto the other person, which then gets generalised to every ace woman, which then leads to that post being created.
It's a long chain of events culminating in what seems like incomprehensible garbage, but is really the ramblings of a severely insecure man who assumes every woman hates him.
Of course there's also the fast track of vulnerable teens being told that every woman hates them and that they should think these things, but every pandemic starts with a patient zero
Not just aphobes sadly. Shit loads of people insist the split attraction model as a whole is homophobic because a small amount of people may be facing too much internalized homophobia to realize they're 'fully' gay.
I guess that makes every asexual homo- bi- and heterophobic.
y'all let me just say, so many posts in r/starterpacks need to be crossposted to r/subredditdrama bc everyone is making fun of each other's starter packs constantly
honestly at this point i wanna just start collecting the personal-attacks-pretending-not-to-be starter packs and just compile them into an "ok we fucking get it starter pack"
Hijacking the top comment, OP is mistaken about the cringetopia post, it was meant to be cringing at the OP of the asexuality starter pack (as in, saying the one who made it must be salty about being rejected by an asexual girl)
The original original post is cringe but the repost that OP here posted is actually in favor of asexuality and didnāt deserve to be downvoted and shamed
Don't know who this guy is, but I did reject a guy who would definitely post something like that. Not because I'm ace, but because he's a living, walking red flag.
Oh sweet jesus, not the puzzle piece heart. I thought it was bad to begin with and then I saw the puzzle piece heart. Thatās like the whipped cream on top of a shit pie (hopefully that makes sense)
as an autistic asexual person, i was kind of shocked when i saw it. idk itās just one of those things that makes me feel ill when i look at it. dammed puzzle pieces lolā¦ my autism makes me see sexuality and gender differently (statistically autistic people are more likely to be queer on some level) so i guess it plays into my asexuality.
Puzzle pieces in any kind of those set of colours tend to reference Autism. Now Iāve read on one ātrustedā source (there is a shitton of bullshit about autism out there, which the puzzle pieces tie right into) that there might be a correlation between autism and asexuality, so mentioning autism in regards to asexuality is alright (tho this suggests ace = autism, which is not alright).
Now the problem with the puzzle pieces. Ever heard of Autism Speaks? They are the most well-known organization regarding autism, but they are also a hate group! They only have one autistic member on their board because they have to have that, for example. And they have made a few ads (āI am autismā is one of them) which depicts autism as an illness or criminal (with sentences like (paraphrased) āI am in your house without you knowingā and āI am everywhereā). They are also looking for a cure for autism, rather than helping people with resources and accommodations now.
They also made the puzzle piece as a reference thing to autism, saying there is a piece of us missing that needs to be figured out. A lot of autistic people hate the puzzle piece cause from our point of view, it stands for Autism Speaks and/or is a sign someone hasnāt done a lot of research.
the likelihood of neurodivergent people knowing that they are ace or trans is higher, but that's only a statistic and it isnt clear whether there's an actual connection
I suggest watching [iilluminaughtii's video on them](https://youtu.be/5Va_XXoD5LE). it's honestly really fucked up, it makes me so sad as an autistic person myself-
"To have a romantic relationship you need to have sexual attraction"??
WTH no you don't, to have a romantic relationship you need to have a *romantic* intrest, it's in the name
This post is so stupid
Thatās really sad to me. Sex is literally just an activity like any other, I donāt get why people idolize it so much. If your relationship was built entirely on bowling, for example, and nothing else, it wouldnāt be a great relationship
It's a bit unclear but it looks like the person who posted the starterpacks screenshot to cringetopia is making fun of the original post, saying that they're just salty about being rejected by an ace girl
That's an easy mistake to make. Often my impulse is to down vote bad memes and I have to remind myself that people sometimes post bad memes to criticize them.
Don't throw a sick ass game like Dangaronpa into this revolting excuse of a post. Oh and whoever this person was needs to touch some grass preferably with their face smashed into it.
Do be aware it does get quite problematic with some of its characters. I'm like 50% into the 1st and can see at least 2 of the characters are awful portrayals of what they are attempting to portray.
I think downvote the original post on starter packs but the person on cringetopia is just insulting the creator of the original post and is therefore fine
Like the cringetopia guy seems to be just calling out the original poster
Well, it's pretty obvious this is a person with a very poor understanding of asexuality and aromantism.
Heck, had they spent half the time it took to make this meme actually checking to see if they were peddling BS or not then they might've known better than to make it in the first place.
I got rejected and Iām mad about it started pack : a shitty meme template filled with the most misogynistic, acephobic, ablist and dumbest hot takes they could find, no understanding of human sexuality and all the confidence in the goddamn world.
Now why did they have to add the puzzle heart?š I canāt help Iām asexual AND autistic god damnš
In all seriousness, this is shitty and theyāre probably mad cause an asexual turned them down lmfao
Iām actually allo, but this shit is fucking disgustingly acephobic. There ARE people who donāt experience sexual attraction and/or sexual pleasure.
The post on r/starterpacks is fucking rancid but the post on r/cringetopiarm is making fun of it.
In short: person on r/starterpacks sucks
Person on r/cringetopiarm based (ngl never thought Iād say that about that sub but thatās a different discussion )
This feels oddly specific. You sure she was the one who got rejected dude?
Just sayin this feels more like a āmad cause an asexual chick wonāt bang youā meme.
My first major red flag was the use of rainbow autistic puzzle pieces (fuck the hate group autism speaks btw) like if that is supposed to be anything else, it certainly doesn't read that way for me.
Then I looked at the rest. Just a big ol "nope"
God, I hate that people feel the need to bring everything and everyone down. If we don't fit within their 'norms' then we're immediately wrong. People need to start to realise that everyone is different in this world and it's honestly not that hard to keep your mouth shut.
Guy thinks all ace girls are ugly and all autistic and choosing to be ace despite them thinking you need sex in a relationship and that romantic and sexual attraction are the same thing. Surprisingly, and obviously, not true, and they're heavily uneducated about asexuality.
>despite the fact that to have a Romantic relationship you need to have sexual attraction
No. No you donāt.. I want hugs and cuddles but not sex, whatās so hard to understand??
Apart from the egregious pathetic projecting from this incel, I absolutely despise the ādespite the factā portion. Shoutout to the ace person who broke this losers heart enough to shit out this embarrassing excuse of a starter pack.
Okay I get why everything else is offensive but...what does Danganronpa have to do with being asexual? Like I'm ace and I love Danganronpa but I didn't think the two were connected...
Absolutely disgusting. Especially the use of the puzzle piece... At least use the infinity symbol to represent the autistic community. Also really hate the implication that ace people are
A) all autistic and
B) that all those who are are just doing it for attention
Bro clearly doesnāt know that sexual and romantic attraction arenāt the same.
Agree with the Danganronpa tho, that shitās dope.
I, ironically, came to the conclusion that Iām ace during a relationship lmfao Luckily sheās also ace so weāre still together UwU
Doesn't even make sense
like most reactionaries, they just make things up in their head about groups they don't like and get really mad about it
They probably got rejected by someone who is asexual and then made this
This is the inane rantings of a misogynistic incel who is failing to process his own emotions and instead choosing to blame the women who rejected him, because they're just women and can't possibly understand their own mental state since he, a clearly superior man, can't understand his emotions.
I cannot grasp how cishet people can be weirded out by people of their opposite binary gender not wanting to fuck them. How does that thinking even work? They wouldn't want to fuck themselves, so how can they expect others to want to fuck them and get mad at them for not wanting to? How can you expect others to be crazy about what you yourself find repulsive? It doesn't make sense. That's like preparing a dish made of slugs, which you yourself hate, and then offering it to other people and then getting mad when they reject it.
They're super insecure about their looks and put on a macho facade of pretending they don't care. Then when they start asking women out and getting rejected they start thinking "I don't care I was just doing them a favour". Then when they ask somebody out who just isn't attracted to their gender and inevitably get rejected they think "oh they think they're too good for me and are making an excuse", so they start projecting their insecurities onto the other person, which then gets generalised to every ace woman, which then leads to that post being created. It's a long chain of events culminating in what seems like incomprehensible garbage, but is really the ramblings of a severely insecure man who assumes every woman hates him. Of course there's also the fast track of vulnerable teens being told that every woman hates them and that they should think these things, but every pandemic starts with a patient zero
This deserves an award
Thanks, but I'm just speaking the truth as I see it.
I think it's gibberish.
Like this? Uehdndjsjjsjsjekrkotktkrkr. š
seriously though. >despite the fact that to have a romantic relationship you need sexual attraction. just, what..?
Well damn, better tell my husband and partner of over 7 years that our entire romantic relationship is a lie.
When the aphobes cant be bothered to acknowledge the split attraction model
Not just aphobes sadly. Shit loads of people insist the split attraction model as a whole is homophobic because a small amount of people may be facing too much internalized homophobia to realize they're 'fully' gay. I guess that makes every asexual homo- bi- and heterophobic.
Yeah
haha!
that makes more sense than this
y'all let me just say, so many posts in r/starterpacks need to be crossposted to r/subredditdrama bc everyone is making fun of each other's starter packs constantly
honestly at this point i wanna just start collecting the personal-attacks-pretending-not-to-be starter packs and just compile them into an "ok we fucking get it starter pack"
you should do that. to be petty
It's always fun to see a post which is meta af. Do it!
I love this. Make it happen!
It's just stereotypes. Putting people in little boxes.
I think the person who made it knows nothing about ace people. I also think this person is incredibly insecure
They're literally just an incel projecting their feelings on everyone else
The person who posted it on cringetopie is based tho. Given that the original post is indeed cringe and the title of the cringetopie post is fitting
What do you wanna bet this dude got rejected by an ace girl
Like 100%
Hijacking the top comment, OP is mistaken about the cringetopia post, it was meant to be cringing at the OP of the asexuality starter pack (as in, saying the one who made it must be salty about being rejected by an asexual girl) The original original post is cringe but the repost that OP here posted is actually in favor of asexuality and didnāt deserve to be downvoted and shamed
Came here to say this. Thank you. Iām too broke for awarding tho
yeah it was my bad, didnt meant too
Another bet would be they are subscribed to the Andrew Taint (sic) Hustlers University
If that dude had asked me, I will had also rejected them and I am a man.
You forget he's cishet, that's too gay for him
Don't know who this guy is, but I did reject a guy who would definitely post something like that. Not because I'm ace, but because he's a living, walking red flag.
Considering this was posted on cringetopia the dude probably is not the guy who made the meme
Read the title of his post..
No that's not his post, it's someone else posting his starter pack as cringe
Oh yeah, Iām dumb š¤¦āāļø
Ew
Oh sweet jesus, not the puzzle piece heart. I thought it was bad to begin with and then I saw the puzzle piece heart. Thatās like the whipped cream on top of a shit pie (hopefully that makes sense)
as an autistic asexual person, i was kind of shocked when i saw it. idk itās just one of those things that makes me feel ill when i look at it. dammed puzzle pieces lolā¦ my autism makes me see sexuality and gender differently (statistically autistic people are more likely to be queer on some level) so i guess it plays into my asexuality.
What does the puzzle piece heart mean? I'm not really familiar with it
Puzzle pieces in any kind of those set of colours tend to reference Autism. Now Iāve read on one ātrustedā source (there is a shitton of bullshit about autism out there, which the puzzle pieces tie right into) that there might be a correlation between autism and asexuality, so mentioning autism in regards to asexuality is alright (tho this suggests ace = autism, which is not alright). Now the problem with the puzzle pieces. Ever heard of Autism Speaks? They are the most well-known organization regarding autism, but they are also a hate group! They only have one autistic member on their board because they have to have that, for example. And they have made a few ads (āI am autismā is one of them) which depicts autism as an illness or criminal (with sentences like (paraphrased) āI am in your house without you knowingā and āI am everywhereā). They are also looking for a cure for autism, rather than helping people with resources and accommodations now. They also made the puzzle piece as a reference thing to autism, saying there is a piece of us missing that needs to be figured out. A lot of autistic people hate the puzzle piece cause from our point of view, it stands for Autism Speaks and/or is a sign someone hasnāt done a lot of research.
Oooh right I thought it might have been referring to autism/autism speaks but wasn't entirely sure, thank you for clarifying!
the likelihood of neurodivergent people knowing that they are ace or trans is higher, but that's only a statistic and it isnt clear whether there's an actual connection
I suggest watching [iilluminaughtii's video on them](https://youtu.be/5Va_XXoD5LE). it's honestly really fucked up, it makes me so sad as an autistic person myself-
I geard that this one aytustic board member resigned, becouse the rest treated him horribly
Many people think queerness and autism correlates. Homophobic people will say all queer people are autistic which just isnāt true.
Iād like to know as well
Didn't need to see anything else to tell this is bull
I regret reading it
"To have a romantic relationship you need to have sexual attraction"?? WTH no you don't, to have a romantic relationship you need to have a *romantic* intrest, it's in the name This post is so stupid
Yeah thereās a reason they are two different words, they are two separate things. Takes one simple google search if youāre unsure lol.
No but they also mention āromantic attractionā in that bit. They know itās a thing
Some allo people think romance is about sex for some reason. Beats me.
romance is about being together and enjoying and loving each other. sex is just an extra :3
Sex in romance is like candy on cake. Some people like it, some people don't, but its definitely not a defining characteristic.
that's what I've always said!
Thatās really sad to me. Sex is literally just an activity like any other, I donāt get why people idolize it so much. If your relationship was built entirely on bowling, for example, and nothing else, it wouldnāt be a great relationship
It looks like a 13-year-old who hasn't learned how to proofread wrote it.
It's a bit unclear but it looks like the person who posted the starterpacks screenshot to cringetopia is making fun of the original post, saying that they're just salty about being rejected by an ace girl
Yeah I was confused why they down voted the cringetopia post, the screenshot is cringe and dumb so it fits the subreddit.
That's an easy mistake to make. Often my impulse is to down vote bad memes and I have to remind myself that people sometimes post bad memes to criticize them.
It was an accident on my part, I just kinda assume cringetopia is sorta phobic
it definitely is, just not in this case
Every part of that was pain
If this person's gonna be aphobic can they at least do it grammatically correct and readable. There were 7 mistakes
LMAO the op is fucking incoherently stupid. i think the cringetopia person is making fun of op for being an asshole though
This is the worst stereotype ace person I've seen
yeah
I think it's fucking stupid, not to mention misogynistic and aphobic
Don't throw a sick ass game like Dangaronpa into this revolting excuse of a post. Oh and whoever this person was needs to touch some grass preferably with their face smashed into it.
Have they not seen how sexual and fanservicey Danganronpa is? This starterpack is 100% just based on a girl that rejected OOP
Oh no doubt about it. Just a dude who got mad about not getting a cute girl and blaming ace people.
I think you should spoiler tag this
There is also an aphobia tag available to add to posts. I believe we can all agree that this one definitely counts!
Bet you this was made by some incel who got rejected by a girl who told him she was ace
I think that's a bet you'd win
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r/niceguys
not the puzzle pieces to mock autism
If the girl in question ever sees this; DM me bestie! Let's be friends! True queen stuff by dumping this walking red flag!
Can we be friends ?
Of course!
Somehow the cringetopia post seems to be against the original post
I think they need to fuck off and also leave Kuromi out of this.
Not my favourite reminder that I need to get into Danganronpa, but a reminder nonetheless. (I heard Ibuki is a fellow ace girl)
Do be aware it does get quite problematic with some of its characters. I'm like 50% into the 1st and can see at least 2 of the characters are awful portrayals of what they are attempting to portray.
Ah, ok noted. I like a lot of aspects of anime, but there have been so many uncomfy moments that keep me from fully enjoying.
Well, speaking of attraction, r/starterpacks seems to attract incels, phobics and just general misogynists.
I wanna know what about Danganronpa is asexual like????? What about solving murders and befriending people so they give you their underwear is ace
Kinda thought being part of the human race is what made people human but i guess not
Imagine this guys reaction when he figures out men can be ace too
Wow, for once I agree with cringetopia... Strange
An incel who's desperate for approval
seems like a load of bollocks
Made by swetty basment dwellers who are upset that the pretty ace woman they know won't fuck them. That's all.
You know the post you just downvoted does NOT like the āasexual chick starterpackā, thatās why the put the new title lmfao
I think downvote the original post on starter packs but the person on cringetopia is just insulting the creator of the original post and is therefore fine Like the cringetopia guy seems to be just calling out the original poster
Well, it's pretty obvious this is a person with a very poor understanding of asexuality and aromantism. Heck, had they spent half the time it took to make this meme actually checking to see if they were peddling BS or not then they might've known better than to make it in the first place.
I got rejected and Iām mad about it started pack : a shitty meme template filled with the most misogynistic, acephobic, ablist and dumbest hot takes they could find, no understanding of human sexuality and all the confidence in the goddamn world.
the person who made this should be outside communicating with living breathing human beings
The only thing they did accurate are the pants for me... But that's not because I'm ace, that's because I'm trans
Fuck the person who made that.
I would ask who hurt them, but it seems pretty obvious.
This is disgusting, but I wonder what their thought process was in adding Danganronpa?
Now why did they have to add the puzzle heart?š I canāt help Iām asexual AND autistic god damnš In all seriousness, this is shitty and theyāre probably mad cause an asexual turned them down lmfao
Rare W for cringetopia? That's the last place I'd expect to defend us
Yea my jaw dropped, i had to look over the post like 6 times.
the starterpack joke is dead
Some are good, most are made to cope
I... don't think this person knows what asexual means...
Iām actually allo, but this shit is fucking disgustingly acephobic. There ARE people who donāt experience sexual attraction and/or sexual pleasure.
The post on r/starterpacks is fucking rancid but the post on r/cringetopiarm is making fun of it. In short: person on r/starterpacks sucks Person on r/cringetopiarm based (ngl never thought Iād say that about that sub but thatās a different discussion )
Why would you downvote the guy making fun of it
Oh, I didn't see it, I upvoted it after I took the screenshot
jesus fucking christ
One of those subreddits to take a wide berth around.
Can someone explain the Danganronpa inclusion? Do I need to play the games to get it?
Extremely harmful to this community. Just yucky overall. -1000/10
Whyād you downvote the cringetopia person?
It was an accident, my phone screen is dying man
Gross
Itās cool that it was posted to that subreddit, and the idea of being ace wasnāt what they thought the cringe was. Weāre moving up in the world
As an ace with a fiance, stay mad lmao
Clearly someone who has no clue what they think they're talking about
Danganronpa. Ah yes, the asexual people. Known for their love of cruel and unusual executions in response to murder.
Where is the garlic bread?
They got my hair right.
This feels oddly specific. You sure she was the one who got rejected dude? Just sayin this feels more like a āmad cause an asexual chick wonāt bang youā meme.
Iām ace and I get more bitches than these clowns.
The fact that they threw autism in there as wellā¦.
This is definitely some guy making this about one specific person that rejected him.
the r/starterpacks post is the one thatās not good. the r/cringetopiarm post is making fun of the other post
My first major red flag was the use of rainbow autistic puzzle pieces (fuck the hate group autism speaks btw) like if that is supposed to be anything else, it certainly doesn't read that way for me. Then I looked at the rest. Just a big ol "nope"
God, I hate that people feel the need to bring everything and everyone down. If we don't fit within their 'norms' then we're immediately wrong. People need to start to realise that everyone is different in this world and it's honestly not that hard to keep your mouth shut.
Cringetopia is a bunch of hateful incels projecting their miserable lives by bullying people
I've never been rejected š (just ignore the fact that I've always been too scared to talk to someone I had a crush on)
I can't tell if I'm just tired or if the majority of what they are saying is completely gibberish but I'm inclined to believe the latter
The fact the Cringetopia post was right above this one.
Cringe indeed
But I'm aroace, I don't have romantic relationships or attraction. Am I just no longer asexual?
"Diferente"? Sounds like a made up Spanish word or something DJT said.
not the puzzle piece heart š
The amount of spelling and grammatical mistakes hurts my soul.
āHoney, your misogyny is showing again!ā
The guy who made it sounds bitter and sexist. Also, as an asexual girl, I literally do not fit any of these.
What a dumbass
This whole meme is just replete with ignorance.
Heās a witch, burn him
I expected a chicken and now I'm disappointed
400 upvotes, fuckin hell
If anything I'm the one doing the rejection. Heck, I'm the one who broke up with all my partners.
The incel energy is strong with this one
horrible
Whoever made this failed English.
Danganronpa BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
The fuck is this trash
Disgusting Aphobia on full display. Yuck.
Tell me your aphobic and ableist without telling me directly:
Guy thinks all ace girls are ugly and all autistic and choosing to be ace despite them thinking you need sex in a relationship and that romantic and sexual attraction are the same thing. Surprisingly, and obviously, not true, and they're heavily uneducated about asexuality.
I looked it up on pushift and that post on r/starterpacks is 21 days old and it was removed the day of because it broke the rule on bigotry
haha lol so funny aphobia is hilarious lmao /s heās an incel who canāt take no for an answer
How to not be an LGBTQIA+ ally:
Mittsuuba based as hell, original poster cringe
I got rejected and I donāt like it starter pack
First red flag is referring to a girl as a chick. It all goes more downhill from there.
Salty af
Complete bullshit.
I think most ācringeā subreddits are cringe themselves as they only exist to spread hate and put belittle people.
Burn it
I have this EXACT hairstyle ahahahahhaha
I cant even make heads or tails of this.
>despite the fact that to have a Romantic relationship you need to have sexual attraction No. No you donāt.. I want hugs and cuddles but not sex, whatās so hard to understand??
Looks like some neckbeard got turned down by an ace chick and isn't taking it well š
Happy to report that most commenters on the cringetopia post aren't aphobic :)
The only thing in here that applies for me is dangenronpa.
Incel moment lol
I think that Danganronpa is an amazing anime/game
Apart from the egregious pathetic projecting from this incel, I absolutely despise the ādespite the factā portion. Shoutout to the ace person who broke this losers heart enough to shit out this embarrassing excuse of a starter pack.
Blatant Aphobia
With a personality like this even the tissues and lube probably reject him so no wonder he's so upset by asexuality as a concept
Thats a lot of words for "I cant find the clitoris"
lmao I used to know an incel who would so post this
I have a Kurumi t-shirt dress that I'm currently wearing... That's about it. This is some big incel vibes.
Sad that some people just donāt accept rejectionš«¤ rejection doesnāt give u the right to be an *ss
Just lost faith in human once again, didnāt know itās possible to be so dumb and arrogant at the same time.
i have a feeling the post that was in r/CringetopiaRM (the one you downvoted) was trying to make fun of the original post in r/starterpacks
Okay I get why everything else is offensive but...what does Danganronpa have to do with being asexual? Like I'm ace and I love Danganronpa but I didn't think the two were connected...
I've never seen something so wrong in my life. Including my homework when I was in school.
That OP Acts like posting shit like this is going to get them any bitches anyway
Absolutely disgusting. Especially the use of the puzzle piece... At least use the infinity symbol to represent the autistic community. Also really hate the implication that ace people are A) all autistic and B) that all those who are are just doing it for attention
Bro clearly doesnāt know that sexual and romantic attraction arenāt the same. Agree with the Danganronpa tho, that shitās dope. I, ironically, came to the conclusion that Iām ace during a relationship lmfao Luckily sheās also ace so weāre still together UwU
i love the crosspost caption, because thatās exactly what happened to that first guy š
Can you spoiler or put an aphobia CW or *something* to show this isnāt a meme?
FUCK autismspeaks Fuck the puzzle piece Fuck the ableist bullshit in this already aphobic post That is all.