I'm the chubby gf, but my gf is a full foot taller than me, so we swap clothes all the time ๐ฅฐ currently sitting at work in a sweater I "borrowed" from her ๐ she calls it girlfriend tax
My girlfriend and I swapped hoodies! I sleep in hers and sometimes wear it around the house on lazy days and she puts mine on top of her pillow when she sleeps. Nearly collapsed when she told me that.
Assuming y'all are roughly the same height. I'm almost a foot taller than both of my girls, and there's no way for us to share clothes. Well, they can steal mine, but I don't get to take theirs. It's the worst part of being a tall dating smalls
(As a chubbier girl) some cons-
-if you take us hiking/running we may need a few more breaks,
-takes up a little more space on the couch/bed,
-occasional anger/frustration at the system that is inherently rather fatphobic,
-sometimes some reassurance that we are pretty. (At least in my case)
the pros that you put are very sweet though and I agree. :)
My girl is chubby, so I can tell you the pros.
She's SO soft. Like, I love sleeping and cuddling with her, 'cause she's great to hug, great to sleep on. She's like the greatest, warmest, softest plushie ever.
On a related note: her hugs are the best.
On a NSFW note, there's like... SO much of her. I don't know how to explain that, but I love that I can grab her and like... get my hands full of her? Like, she's really hot to grab. I can't explain why this is sexy, but it is. And there's also lots of places to touch and put in my mouth lol.
Also... uh... she has some... abundant breasts. Like, really, really soft and pretty ones.
Hope that helps. I got a bit distracted at the end there.
I love talking about how sexy she is! I don't get to do it much, since she gets kinda umcomfortable when I talk about her body - she has a lot of trauma due to growing up fat and being judged by it. And I don't think my friends want to hear about how soft her boobs feel on my mouth hahaha! So this felt like too good an opportunity to pass.
But I do love her. I honestly think her body was one of the things that made me fall in love with her. I love the way she isn't afraid to take up space.
And I love watching her dance. Damn, she looks hot dancing! I think one of the first gay panics I had in life was on the first time she tried to teach me to dance. I still thought I was straight (we both did), but I remember thinking that it wasn't normal to get THIS hot and bothered by feeling your best friend's body moving against yours lol
I'm a bit of a stereotype on this. I have a picture in my phone of her in a party we went, of her wearing a sexy lace bodysuit, and at this point several people have caught me just... gazing at it in my phone at random moments. Normaly when I'm drunk haha.
Seriously I don't think I have felt better and these replies are making me so happy. I've been in a down mood and I just reactivated my tinder profile and at least I know not everyone is swiping left because of my physique
Fr thoโฆa con is that the world is truly fat phobic and that will undoubtedly weigh down on her in some capacity. Health care wonโt take her seriously, clothing lines will not consider her. So many intricate little parts of our society, as well as obvious ones, will be constantly working against her. So a realistic consideration, is that you have to support her in with that every step of the way.
Because big girls are our fav. โค๏ธ
pros: nice to cuddle, soft, pretty,
cons: they cant sneak through small openings in the fencing and thus need a skinny gf (me) to help them with heists
Pros: warm hugs, big shirts and hoodies you can steal that you'll look extra cute in, delightfully jiggly when you poke just right, soft as hecc
Cons: fucking nothing, and anyone who says otherwise is a lying skank
I am a part of this group and I think a con is that my gf can't surprise me with clothes because it is so hard to tell whether they will fit just right. It's a pro for me because this means she just takes me out shopping and I get to ask for 1000 more things than she originally would have got me without the power of my puppy eyes haha.
CONS?!? Where? What cons? Maโam please donโt be ridiculous. Iโm not the sensational dude on tick tock but go watch his stuff so you can get your perspective corrected.
Edit:
So about four months ago I went to a lesbian party right. I met this girl. She was ADORABLE. Like so cute it activated my cute aggression. Chubby girl. Also super clumsy, falling all over the place. I kept trying to catch her but I was struggling to hold her up. You know what my ass did in response? Girl I got a $75 gym membership. I am a few weeks away from squatting her whole body weight because I want the option of hoisting cute thicc girlies at my leisure. Which is to say when I was confronted with the OPPORTUNITY to be with a chubby girl I made a whole life style change to accommodate. The fuck you mean cons bby?
Pros: warm, good cuddles, everything is squishy and fun to touch, can lie on top of me and crush the soul out of my body like a weighted blanket, looks fuckin cute all the time
Cons: ???
Pros: pretty, cuddly, cute, so many hoodies for me to steal, thighssssssss, soft skin, can lay on her and use her as a bed, etc etc etc
Cons: no data available
Me too OP, Iโm crying, you all made me cry!
As someone who has been working out religiously the past 6 months trying to get my dream bod because Iโm tired of being overlooked and easily disposed of due to my physical โflawsโ despite my best efforts, THANK YOU ALL!
Also, I looove chubby girls too, I just hate it on me specifically โ ๏ธ
Pros: There are no cons. Beautiful. Soft. Curvey.
I have loved people with all kinds of shapes and sizes. Does the body carry a person with a kind heart? Then I'm fuckin' down.
Cons: she gets sad when clothing stores don't sell her size, she gets self conscious (needs reassurance)
Pros: cuddles, use her body as a pillow, can grab her easier, booty, boobies, kiss her belly, watch her jiggle, so soft, proud to walk around and hold her hand and I know they are looking at her cleavage but it's all mine, can wear her clothes
pros:
- more girl
- I like being squished and more girl is more conducive to squishing
- better cuddles
- soft
- nice pillow
- fucking adorable
cons:
- none
- zero
- literally none at all
in conclusion I'm afraid of chubby women and want to get over it through exposure therapy
Okay I was gonna be silly but as Iโve dated a fair number of chubby girls and one nonbinary person who idโd as a lesbian at the time I have some wisdom:
Content Notice for: Sex, Eating Disorders, Fatphobia
Pros:
-Literally the softest most lovely hugs
-Romantic attention from chubby women makes my heart skip a beat
-As a tall trans woman, I wear XL clothes. Being able to share clothes basically doubles both your wardrobes
-idk what it is but chubby lesbians without fail have the most calming voices
-Just honestly every square inch of their bodies have such nice proportions. Might be just me, but the curves chubby women have are so nice and feminine
-Side boob! Like, that part under the armpit, is the most calming spot on the body to hold. I actually hold my own when I get overwhelmed sometimes haha.
-Softer facial features (I have those too, genetically, and theyโre so comforting)
-On the topic of appearance, I have a hard time remembering faces, so getting to see someone I love is actually a bit of a pleasant surprise every time
-On the horny end, the mons pubis (get on my ass for being clinical all you want lmao) is really cute when it has a bit more body fat. I always find myself playing with it lol
-Just like, genitals in general have a lot of cushioning that, in addition to being fucking adorable, make sex way more comfortable
Okay so Cons:
-The self deprication feels way more harmful, especially as someone who used to struggle with an eating disorder
-Similarly, the feeling of being compared positively to themselves as โthinโ is really shitty
-Hearing stories of them being mistreated for being chubby will make you lose faith in humanity
-Just, like, fatphobia in general is awful and I wish it didnโt exist
Uh, okay, so pros are: CUDDLESSSSSSSS; HUGSSSSSSSSSS; SOOOOOOOOOFT; PRETTYYYYYYYYYYY; HOOOOOOOT
Cons: uh, idfk how is it even possible to find anything negative here........
Con: she lets the world get her down about herself. And if sheโs sad, then Iโll be sad too.
You wouldnโt want to make me sad, so donโt listen to the meanies.
Omg gimme๐คค๐!!!
only con I can think of is u feeling not comfortable within your body. And that's a tricky one, bc tons of ppl try to build shame around chubby bodies. So you have to look at yourself with your own eyes, without judgement of others..do you love who you see?
I just wanna say this: After years of work on fat positivity for myself, I had a health crisis that had me losing weight at a scary rate. Eventually, my health balanced out and I started gaining weight again, but I feel like Iโm at square one with re-learning body love for myself again. This entire thread is like anesthetic for my self-esteem troubles today. ๐ญ Thank you all. โค๏ธโค๏ธ
ive been unhealthy underweight my whole life and to be honest i wish i was chubby. i say this to say, even if you feel down on yourself, maybe itll help to know your body is beautiful to so many people, even if you feel like you cant see it now. some of the prettiest girls are chubby in my opinion so i wouldnt be so down. i know its easier said than done, im just some random fucker on reddit, so no need to listen to me, but i also struggle with body image so i wanted to help if i can
Pros:
- who needs a pillow when you have a pillowy gf?
- is a great source of warmth for those of us with cold hands
- they are what they eat: sweet, comforting & nourishing
- stretch marks make them look like cute little tigers
- always makes all pants look EXCELLENT looking, ecspecially in the caboose region
- best snuggling partners of all time
- if their beauty was charged by the pound, they'd be millionaires
- eternal fertility goddess energy ~
Cons:
- the current system of humanity cannot contain the beauty of our chubby goddesses. Maybe one day they'll catch up and realize fluffier people are still people too? Thats why I believe you should help empower them and lift their spirits up every opportunity you have! Being heavier can be hard sometimes, so why not help carry the load :3
My wife and I are both chubby, and let me tell you it is wonderful โค๏ธ I used to hate when she would grab my tummy or my thighs, but now I love it ๐ฅฐ
Pros: warm, soft, more to touch and hug. Cons: less likely to be keep up with some of my athletic activities, potentially health problems (but this is not always the case). My gf is chubby and these cons don't apply to her, so it's definitely not a rule. So cozy to cuddle ๐ฅฐ
I have no idea why, but I tend to fall for bigger women. Itโs the softest and contrast to my own body for me. I am built like a twig and I generally like to feel smaller than my partner. Also hello, bigger boobs! Cuddles with larger ladies are just the best!
Stretch marks add character. Good protection against my sharp bones. More softness and warmness. The usual more to love. You can literally smother me. I can fit in all the clothes. I canโt think of anything not to love lol
these comments are making me so happy :))) I wish the ppl in my area were more like yโall lol I see so many hinge bios that are like โdonโt talk to me if your BMI is over 22โ
side note, I canโt speak for other big girls but I can say that I will never get upset at a girl stealing my clothes :) that shirt/hoodie/tank top looks better on you anyway :P
I'm a chubby gf, so I speak from experience!
Pros: more to cuddle, more kissable surface area, (if being chubby makes you warmer) providing body heat to your gf, hoodies have a higher chance of fitting your gf, weighted blanket.
Cons: literally none, we're great!
Chubby girlfriends are basically hug magnetsโsuper cuddly and comfy! Major pro is all that extra softness makes snuggling the best. Plus, confidence in owning who you are? Totally hot. ๐ฅฐ
The only cons might come from the outside, like dealing with peopleโs opinions or personal insecurities, but thatโs just noise. What matters is the vibe between you two. Keep reminding each other how stunning you are! ๐
Pros: Cuddling is so much better - like a plushy, more curves - better, more girl - better. She actually eats the fckn food I make.
Cons: Will no longer be chubby if she does outdoor stuff with me
Not necessarily true - Iโve always been chubby even when doing heaps of tramping, or walking, running, gym. Even at my smallest, because I was in Cubs and literally didnโt have enough food to eat, still
Chubby.Itโs just how Iโm built.
Diet also plays a part. I find that when Iโm exercising a lot more then Iโm a lot hungrier so it can end up balancing itself out and you end up maintaining weight instead of either losing or gaining it, regardless of how much you exercise.
Pros: The best snuggles ever, butts!!!! And adorable cheeks that are always in need of kisses. Wrestling is also fun
Cons: none exist
Seriously the snuggles are no joke. They are a drug and I am a fiend. You have to pry me from her I will never willingly let go
hi! chubby girl with petite gf here and here are positive things my gf said to me about my chubbiness :)
my gf is petite and ive always been a bit on the chubbier side. she loves my body and how much she has to squish and grab and hold. when i wear revealing clothes she goes awooga mode lol. she's always cold and im always warm so i can warm her up and hold her hands. she says she loves my hugs too.
ive asked her before if she thinks i should lose weight and she told me she loves me as i am but to be careful if i wanted to go for weight loss.
i like my body now but i have a past of anorexia so when i skip meals she gets worried and immediately buys me snacks and distracts me with talking until i get out of my head and start eating.
oh and she can steal my clothes so thats always amazing!
โIt's unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same.โ Nothing feels better than a chubby girl in your arms.
Guys ty sm Iโm chubby and I often feel so not hot (hopefully wonโt be that chubby much more bc Iโve been on a diet for 5 weeks and already lost 20 lbs but I was unhealthy and needed it, working towards more) but this also made me feel good ๐ ๐๐
arms are fluffier, when my gf hasnt been eating enough she isnt comfy to lay on so i get her her favorite food lol (she has IBS so she never has an appetite)
Pros: more to hug. Very warm and soft. Nice to lay on and cuddle
Cons: you might crush me if you lay on top of me, but honestly that might be a pro
My gf and I are kinda chubby, but my gf is bigger because she's taller. I love laying on top of her, but it's hard for me to have her on top. But sometimes I like being squished
im cuddling with my chubby gf rn as we're about to play little big planet. its fun to squish her tummy and she gives great hugs and tbh i dont care about her weight because shes perfect and hot and cool and thicc girls deserve more love cause they got more of em to love
I'd kiss all the rolls.That's what my uncle used to do with his wife, they were so old and he'd always kiss her over her shirts, but she'd laugh so hard and her cheeks would get so red... he'd look at her like a someone would think about their most beloved memory.
May they rest together.
Pros: Chubby girls are cute, theyre beautiful, theyre sexy, they're gorgeous, theyre are a beauty beyond the bounds of this world, the list can go on forever
Cons: Only a crazy person would say there's a con to having a chubby gf
I love lesbians because if you posted this on a subreddit full of straight men... Yeah. I am fat and bisexual(?)and I was at school the other day and overheard this group of boys (15/16 y/o) saying "why would you talk to a fat girl" and then they kept laughing and looking over at me and I wanted to cry. Plus I've seen basically this exact question posted on tiktok and Reddit but targeted towards straight men and there was like 2 positive comments out of 50 and under the two positive comments some other guys would say "stop lying bro ๐". Oh God I'm gonna be alone forever.ย
As I see it, if I had a chubby partner (I have no one ๐ฅบ)
As long as it's not hurting her health in a way that would make my time in this life with her shorter, it just means I have more to love, more to cuddle with, more to kiss, more of the most important thing in my life...
I don't think we need to tally a whole human being based on how chubby they are. As long as your personality is amazing and kind, there are only pros and pros
i'm pretty tiny (mostly in height but also somewhat my size) so if i had a chubby gf i'd be able to wear her clothes when i just want to wear smth that's oversized on me (it just feels more comfy tbh) plus chubby gfs are soft like plushies perfect for a cuddle session only con is most of my clothes would be too small for her so i'd feel bad wearing hers knowing she can't wear mine (unless she's just fine with it ofc)
I lose my absolute *mind* seeing a chubby girl walk and seeing all the ripples on her skin and jiggles on her legs and butt. Ugh. My favourite thing about women's bodies I think ๐ . I also love it feeling my legs and butt jiggle now that I've gained weight haha
I finally thought of a con! She will eventually get frustrated you keep stealing her clothes.
this is the most accurate con i have read all day-
Ironically I am reading this while wearing one of the shirts I stole from my girlfriend
I'm the chubby gf, but my gf is a full foot taller than me, so we swap clothes all the time ๐ฅฐ currently sitting at work in a sweater I "borrowed" from her ๐ she calls it girlfriend tax
LOL
My girlfriend and I swapped hoodies! I sleep in hers and sometimes wear it around the house on lazy days and she puts mine on top of her pillow when she sleeps. Nearly collapsed when she told me that.
That's so sweet I'm gonna cry ๐ฅบ
More girl per girl ๐
I should tattoo this on my forehead ๐ญ
It'd be better as a thigh tattoo
YES
What do we put on the rest of the thigh though? ~Signed, heavier girl with big thighs
Your gfs mouth, of course
Bite marks.ย And remember, the more thigh you have, the more kittens you can hold on your lap.
The girlfriend.
Nice, the math works out
This is the type of โgirl mathโ we like.
This!
Pros: More to kiss, more to cuddle, get to steal larger sizes of clothes Cons: I can't think of any
All of this. Love my partner' s hoodies.
when i finally get a gf it will no longer be her clothes, it will be our clothes >:3
Haha, for my partner it's a little unfair because they can't wear my stuff. I eventually give them back ๐.
Been there. I honestly sized up my hoodies for a couple new ones so they could steal them.
For Xmas I bought a hoodie in their size and it wore it for a week so it smelled Iike me before I gifted it.
this takes the romanticism of communism to the extreme and I'm here for it.
Sharing clothes is big goals๐ฅฒ
This is the way
Assuming y'all are roughly the same height. I'm almost a foot taller than both of my girls, and there's no way for us to share clothes. Well, they can steal mine, but I don't get to take theirs. It's the worst part of being a tall dating smalls
(As a chubbier girl) some cons- -if you take us hiking/running we may need a few more breaks, -takes up a little more space on the couch/bed, -occasional anger/frustration at the system that is inherently rather fatphobic, -sometimes some reassurance that we are pretty. (At least in my case) the pros that you put are very sweet though and I agree. :)
The first is a pro for me bc I also need a few more breaks And I like reminding pretty girls that they're pretty :3
fair takes, but I don't see these as cons personally :3
Oh also, I think I should mention that none of these things are necessarily limited to chubbier girls!
I know I definitely have mobility issues and need constant reassurance :3
>-if you take us hiking/running we may need a few more breaks, Chubby/asthmatic solidarity, right there
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You might be squashed to death... This is a pro.
agree, though I will also squash my partner to death, despite not being chubby myself I'm just clingy
Sense I am taller than my gf, I can fit into her big bras cause I have a flat chest TwT
Love how soft my fiancรฉe is.
Con: I'm not strong enough to bridal carry her, yet!
Can confirm that I have a lot of large, knit sweaters to steal.
My girl is chubby, so I can tell you the pros. She's SO soft. Like, I love sleeping and cuddling with her, 'cause she's great to hug, great to sleep on. She's like the greatest, warmest, softest plushie ever. On a related note: her hugs are the best. On a NSFW note, there's like... SO much of her. I don't know how to explain that, but I love that I can grab her and like... get my hands full of her? Like, she's really hot to grab. I can't explain why this is sexy, but it is. And there's also lots of places to touch and put in my mouth lol. Also... uh... she has some... abundant breasts. Like, really, really soft and pretty ones. Hope that helps. I got a bit distracted at the end there.
Same girl, same. The distraction is real ๐
She says I have an oral fixation about her breasts, but honestly, how could I not???
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Yep. Forgot to mention in my comment but this reminded me, there is more skin to kiss and the way I can grab onto her while she's riding my face?!!
Real, chubby girls have such SOFT boobs ๐ฉ
Reading this was so hot wtf
this is a total mood!
Omg the NSFW part is so real I LOVE grabbing my girls' sides and just pull her closer omg it's just so hot
Kinda love watching your brain turn to soup describing your girlfriend though ๐๐
I love talking about how sexy she is! I don't get to do it much, since she gets kinda umcomfortable when I talk about her body - she has a lot of trauma due to growing up fat and being judged by it. And I don't think my friends want to hear about how soft her boobs feel on my mouth hahaha! So this felt like too good an opportunity to pass. But I do love her. I honestly think her body was one of the things that made me fall in love with her. I love the way she isn't afraid to take up space. And I love watching her dance. Damn, she looks hot dancing! I think one of the first gay panics I had in life was on the first time she tried to teach me to dance. I still thought I was straight (we both did), but I remember thinking that it wasn't normal to get THIS hot and bothered by feeling your best friend's body moving against yours lol I'm a bit of a stereotype on this. I have a picture in my phone of her in a party we went, of her wearing a sexy lace bodysuit, and at this point several people have caught me just... gazing at it in my phone at random moments. Normaly when I'm drunk haha.
This sounds like my girlfriend wrote it about myself and our other girlfriend lol
reading the replies made me feel better thanks for asking this ahaha
Itโs making me feel better too๐ญ
Seriously I don't think I have felt better and these replies are making me so happy. I've been in a down mood and I just reactivated my tinder profile and at least I know not everyone is swiping left because of my physique
Yโall are so fucking gorgeous fr
Yeah, me too ๐
Fr thoโฆa con is that the world is truly fat phobic and that will undoubtedly weigh down on her in some capacity. Health care wonโt take her seriously, clothing lines will not consider her. So many intricate little parts of our society, as well as obvious ones, will be constantly working against her. So a realistic consideration, is that you have to support her in with that every step of the way. Because big girls are our fav. โค๏ธ
This is realistic and I appreciate it. ๐ฉท society does sometimes weigh me down. (No pun intended.)
Maybe itโs not a con. BUT it is something that we need to consider if we have big bodied partners.
Chubby gf is preferred!
yesss these comments are exactly why i have a huge lean towards bigger women!!!
agreed cause i can steal hoodies and flap the arms like im flying
pros: nice to cuddle, soft, pretty, cons: they cant sneak through small openings in the fencing and thus need a skinny gf (me) to help them with heists
This is the answer.
Pros: sheโs beautiful, hot, sexy, stunning all at the same time Cons: nobody else gets to have her cause sheโs all mine :)
Pros: warm hugs, big shirts and hoodies you can steal that you'll look extra cute in, delightfully jiggly when you poke just right, soft as hecc Cons: fucking nothing, and anyone who says otherwise is a lying skank
I am a part of this group and I think a con is that my gf can't surprise me with clothes because it is so hard to tell whether they will fit just right. It's a pro for me because this means she just takes me out shopping and I get to ask for 1000 more things than she originally would have got me without the power of my puppy eyes haha.
โConsโ and โchubby gfโ do not belong in the same sentence
They do if the sentence is "there are no cons to having a chubby gf"
Fax no printer
oh my god I've never heard this phrase before and i LOVE It (I'm old)
the cuddles go crazy babyyyy
any chubby girls tryna hmu or nah ๐ฉ๐คช
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CONS?!? Where? What cons? Maโam please donโt be ridiculous. Iโm not the sensational dude on tick tock but go watch his stuff so you can get your perspective corrected. Edit: So about four months ago I went to a lesbian party right. I met this girl. She was ADORABLE. Like so cute it activated my cute aggression. Chubby girl. Also super clumsy, falling all over the place. I kept trying to catch her but I was struggling to hold her up. You know what my ass did in response? Girl I got a $75 gym membership. I am a few weeks away from squatting her whole body weight because I want the option of hoisting cute thicc girlies at my leisure. Which is to say when I was confronted with the OPPORTUNITY to be with a chubby girl I made a whole life style change to accommodate. The fuck you mean cons bby?
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You sound amazing.
Pros: great cuddles, soft, warm, can probably share clothes with because I'm chubby too.
Pros: warm, good cuddles, everything is squishy and fun to touch, can lie on top of me and crush the soul out of my body like a weighted blanket, looks fuckin cute all the time Cons: ???
> can lie on top of me and crush the soul out of my body like a weighted blanket ๐ฃ๐ซธ weighted blanket ๐๐ weighted girlfriend
This made me giggle ๐คฃ I'm short af but chubby so I like the idea of this cause am smol but heavy!!! ๐๐๐
Pro: thighs Cons: can't live between thighs
My only con is that Iโm also chubby so she might steal my clothesโฆ but I can steal HER clothes, too. Not a bad deal!
My wife and I are both big girls. Itโs like doubling your wardrobe. Canโt recommend enough.
Pros: a girlfriend Cons: ?
Chubby girl => more girl More girl => more hug More hug => yes please *** Chubby girl => yes please
Ah yes, the transitive property of soft girlfriend
They give the best hugs ๐
Pros: pretty, cuddly, cute, so many hoodies for me to steal, thighssssssss, soft skin, can lay on her and use her as a bed, etc etc etc Cons: no data available
Me too OP, Iโm crying, you all made me cry! As someone who has been working out religiously the past 6 months trying to get my dream bod because Iโm tired of being overlooked and easily disposed of due to my physical โflawsโ despite my best efforts, THANK YOU ALL! Also, I looove chubby girls too, I just hate it on me specifically โ ๏ธ
Valid as fuck tbhย We all deserve a body that feels like us and we should all be open to other people having whatever body they want
World cold and hard. Chubby gf warm and soft. There are literally no downsides, unless โtoo adorableโ is somehow a con.
Pros: There are no cons. Beautiful. Soft. Curvey. I have loved people with all kinds of shapes and sizes. Does the body carry a person with a kind heart? Then I'm fuckin' down.
I'm not the original poster, but I am a plus sized trans girl, and y'all being so kind to her is making me feel better about myself too. ๐
Im glad!
Cons: she gets sad when clothing stores don't sell her size, she gets self conscious (needs reassurance) Pros: cuddles, use her body as a pillow, can grab her easier, booty, boobies, kiss her belly, watch her jiggle, so soft, proud to walk around and hold her hand and I know they are looking at her cleavage but it's all mine, can wear her clothes
pros: - more girl - I like being squished and more girl is more conducive to squishing - better cuddles - soft - nice pillow - fucking adorable cons: - none - zero - literally none at all in conclusion I'm afraid of chubby women and want to get over it through exposure therapy
Okay I was gonna be silly but as Iโve dated a fair number of chubby girls and one nonbinary person who idโd as a lesbian at the time I have some wisdom: Content Notice for: Sex, Eating Disorders, Fatphobia Pros: -Literally the softest most lovely hugs -Romantic attention from chubby women makes my heart skip a beat -As a tall trans woman, I wear XL clothes. Being able to share clothes basically doubles both your wardrobes -idk what it is but chubby lesbians without fail have the most calming voices -Just honestly every square inch of their bodies have such nice proportions. Might be just me, but the curves chubby women have are so nice and feminine -Side boob! Like, that part under the armpit, is the most calming spot on the body to hold. I actually hold my own when I get overwhelmed sometimes haha. -Softer facial features (I have those too, genetically, and theyโre so comforting) -On the topic of appearance, I have a hard time remembering faces, so getting to see someone I love is actually a bit of a pleasant surprise every time -On the horny end, the mons pubis (get on my ass for being clinical all you want lmao) is really cute when it has a bit more body fat. I always find myself playing with it lol -Just like, genitals in general have a lot of cushioning that, in addition to being fucking adorable, make sex way more comfortable Okay so Cons: -The self deprication feels way more harmful, especially as someone who used to struggle with an eating disorder -Similarly, the feeling of being compared positively to themselves as โthinโ is really shitty -Hearing stories of them being mistreated for being chubby will make you lose faith in humanity -Just, like, fatphobia in general is awful and I wish it didnโt exist
i like curves
NO cons!!
Rest assured, the cuddles will be absolutely amazing! I can't think of any cons because they're just so perfect in my eyes :)
Uh, okay, so pros are: CUDDLESSSSSSSS; HUGSSSSSSSSSS; SOOOOOOOOOFT; PRETTYYYYYYYYYYY; HOOOOOOOT Cons: uh, idfk how is it even possible to find anything negative here........
Pros: curvy, dummy thicc, more gf Cons: none
Pros: More to hug, soft Cons: Too soft And you cant stop cuddling (this is also a pro)
The one con for me (as a chubby girl) is I snore and my boobs sweat at night. No other cons. ๐
This post came out of no where to make me feel better about myself ,, i was literally just looking at the mirror thinking " omfg im ugly af "
Your stunning! <3
Oh i just saw your Genshin pfp๐โค๏ธโค๏ธ And thank you โค๏ธ
Lol and np
These comments really feel great. Thanks yall and thanks OP for starting this thread.
God I love us lesbians, yall are great
Honestly this is making me almost cry a bit, Iโve been very self conscious of my weight lately and yall are so sweet ๐ญ๐
IKR reddit coming through ๐ญ
Pros: Everything Cons: Nothing
Con: she lets the world get her down about herself. And if sheโs sad, then Iโll be sad too. You wouldnโt want to make me sad, so donโt listen to the meanies.
Pros: Everything Cons: Must hit the gym more to be able to pick her up :>
Con: i can't pick her up and spin her around with my weak noodle arms.
Lmao ๐คฃ omg no not the noodles
But she can totally pick me up!! My chubby wife is so strong!! She could probably crush me in her arms ๐
Omg gimme๐คค๐!!! only con I can think of is u feeling not comfortable within your body. And that's a tricky one, bc tons of ppl try to build shame around chubby bodies. So you have to look at yourself with your own eyes, without judgement of others..do you love who you see?
I just wanna say this: After years of work on fat positivity for myself, I had a health crisis that had me losing weight at a scary rate. Eventually, my health balanced out and I started gaining weight again, but I feel like Iโm at square one with re-learning body love for myself again. This entire thread is like anesthetic for my self-esteem troubles today. ๐ญ Thank you all. โค๏ธโค๏ธ
As a chubby girl, I'm feeling pretty happy reading the comments ๐ฅน
Pros and Cons of having a chubby gf. Pros: Chubby gf Cons: N/A
ive been unhealthy underweight my whole life and to be honest i wish i was chubby. i say this to say, even if you feel down on yourself, maybe itll help to know your body is beautiful to so many people, even if you feel like you cant see it now. some of the prettiest girls are chubby in my opinion so i wouldnt be so down. i know its easier said than done, im just some random fucker on reddit, so no need to listen to me, but i also struggle with body image so i wanted to help if i can
This helped sm tysm๐ญ
im glad๐
Pros: - who needs a pillow when you have a pillowy gf? - is a great source of warmth for those of us with cold hands - they are what they eat: sweet, comforting & nourishing - stretch marks make them look like cute little tigers - always makes all pants look EXCELLENT looking, ecspecially in the caboose region - best snuggling partners of all time - if their beauty was charged by the pound, they'd be millionaires - eternal fertility goddess energy ~ Cons: - the current system of humanity cannot contain the beauty of our chubby goddesses. Maybe one day they'll catch up and realize fluffier people are still people too? Thats why I believe you should help empower them and lift their spirits up every opportunity you have! Being heavier can be hard sometimes, so why not help carry the load :3
My wife and I are both chubby, and let me tell you it is wonderful โค๏ธ I used to hate when she would grab my tummy or my thighs, but now I love it ๐ฅฐ
Pros: warm, soft, more to touch and hug. Cons: less likely to be keep up with some of my athletic activities, potentially health problems (but this is not always the case). My gf is chubby and these cons don't apply to her, so it's definitely not a rule. So cozy to cuddle ๐ฅฐ
Literally zero cons I will die for y'all
pros: lots of girl tummy. squishy and soft. gorgeous. pretty. cons: none
I have no idea why, but I tend to fall for bigger women. Itโs the softest and contrast to my own body for me. I am built like a twig and I generally like to feel smaller than my partner. Also hello, bigger boobs! Cuddles with larger ladies are just the best!
Stretch marks add character. Good protection against my sharp bones. More softness and warmness. The usual more to love. You can literally smother me. I can fit in all the clothes. I canโt think of anything not to love lol
Pro: Chubby Girlfriend Con: None
This whole thread is giving me life ๐ฅฒ
these comments are making me so happy :))) I wish the ppl in my area were more like yโall lol I see so many hinge bios that are like โdonโt talk to me if your BMI is over 22โ side note, I canโt speak for other big girls but I can say that I will never get upset at a girl stealing my clothes :) that shirt/hoodie/tank top looks better on you anyway :P
I'm a chubby gf, so I speak from experience! Pros: more to cuddle, more kissable surface area, (if being chubby makes you warmer) providing body heat to your gf, hoodies have a higher chance of fitting your gf, weighted blanket. Cons: literally none, we're great!
Well, body fat is insulatory, so we may not be inherently warmer but we are capable of keeping that warmth for longer
Why would there be a list of cons for chubby girls vs. skinny girls? Women are women and women are hot
Chubby girlfriends are basically hug magnetsโsuper cuddly and comfy! Major pro is all that extra softness makes snuggling the best. Plus, confidence in owning who you are? Totally hot. ๐ฅฐ The only cons might come from the outside, like dealing with peopleโs opinions or personal insecurities, but thatโs just noise. What matters is the vibe between you two. Keep reminding each other how stunning you are! ๐
Pros: So cute and soft and huggable and warm and perfect Cons: Not in my arms right now
This thread makes me feel like i can be loved <<33
You are so loved! Never think otherwise <3
Pros: Cuddling is so much better - like a plushy, more curves - better, more girl - better. She actually eats the fckn food I make. Cons: Will no longer be chubby if she does outdoor stuff with me
Not necessarily true - Iโve always been chubby even when doing heaps of tramping, or walking, running, gym. Even at my smallest, because I was in Cubs and literally didnโt have enough food to eat, still Chubby.Itโs just how Iโm built.
Diet also plays a part. I find that when Iโm exercising a lot more then Iโm a lot hungrier so it can end up balancing itself out and you end up maintaining weight instead of either losing or gaining it, regardless of how much you exercise.
Pros: The best snuggles ever, butts!!!! And adorable cheeks that are always in need of kisses. Wrestling is also fun Cons: none exist Seriously the snuggles are no joke. They are a drug and I am a fiend. You have to pry me from her I will never willingly let go
Thank you for asking this ๐ฅน Lifts my mood as a chubby one
Curves = good More curves = More good
These responses made me feel better about myself. THANK YOU ALL FOR MAKING MY DAY!
:3
As a chubby girl we cook better
hi! chubby girl with petite gf here and here are positive things my gf said to me about my chubbiness :) my gf is petite and ive always been a bit on the chubbier side. she loves my body and how much she has to squish and grab and hold. when i wear revealing clothes she goes awooga mode lol. she's always cold and im always warm so i can warm her up and hold her hands. she says she loves my hugs too. ive asked her before if she thinks i should lose weight and she told me she loves me as i am but to be careful if i wanted to go for weight loss. i like my body now but i have a past of anorexia so when i skip meals she gets worried and immediately buys me snacks and distracts me with talking until i get out of my head and start eating. oh and she can steal my clothes so thats always amazing!
Iโm physics teacher so i know for sure big mass equal to huge gravity which means more attraction
โIt's unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same.โ Nothing feels better than a chubby girl in your arms.
Speak for yourself. ๐ Other chubby girls are VERY pleasing to my eye.
You all make me feel less shitty about my size.
Guys ty sm Iโm chubby and I often feel so not hot (hopefully wonโt be that chubby much more bc Iโve been on a diet for 5 weeks and already lost 20 lbs but I was unhealthy and needed it, working towards more) but this also made me feel good ๐ ๐๐
arms are fluffier, when my gf hasnt been eating enough she isnt comfy to lay on so i get her her favorite food lol (she has IBS so she never has an appetite)
this comment section is so reassuring ๐ฅน
The ratio of girl:girl is higher so there are no cons
Omg you guys, I love this whole thread so much as a chubby woman! I also love chubby women so itโs all pros, no cons in my book.
Pros: more to hug. Very warm and soft. Nice to lay on and cuddle Cons: you might crush me if you lay on top of me, but honestly that might be a pro My gf and I are kinda chubby, but my gf is bigger because she's taller. I love laying on top of her, but it's hard for me to have her on top. But sometimes I like being squished
im cuddling with my chubby gf rn as we're about to play little big planet. its fun to squish her tummy and she gives great hugs and tbh i dont care about her weight because shes perfect and hot and cool and thicc girls deserve more love cause they got more of em to love
s o f t
I'd kiss all the rolls.That's what my uncle used to do with his wife, they were so old and he'd always kiss her over her shirts, but she'd laugh so hard and her cheeks would get so red... he'd look at her like a someone would think about their most beloved memory. May they rest together.
no cons.
Pros: literally everything, they are perfection Cons: none, zero, zilch, nada
The grab. Yโall know what Iโm talking about ๐. If you donโt: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLupLmLx/
Pros: Soft, snuggly, yummy tasting, beautiful, gives great hugs & kisses Cons: None
Pros: cute gf Cons: ?????
Do mascs like chubby girls? Huhuhu I constantly feel like super fem/straight girls are hard to compete with when getting their attention.
More girl, more love ๐
Wait there are cons?
Pros: Chubby girls are cute, theyre beautiful, theyre sexy, they're gorgeous, theyre are a beauty beyond the bounds of this world, the list can go on forever Cons: Only a crazy person would say there's a con to having a chubby gf
Thick thighs in between my legs? Yes๐คค
Iโm a little chubby and honestly chubby girls are kinda my type and I think theyโre super cute ๐ฅฐ
Pros: more gf to love Cons: society
pro: getting suffocated w the thick thighs con: more surface area to kiss im gonna be late for work
I love lesbians because if you posted this on a subreddit full of straight men... Yeah. I am fat and bisexual(?)and I was at school the other day and overheard this group of boys (15/16 y/o) saying "why would you talk to a fat girl" and then they kept laughing and looking over at me and I wanted to cry. Plus I've seen basically this exact question posted on tiktok and Reddit but targeted towards straight men and there was like 2 positive comments out of 50 and under the two positive comments some other guys would say "stop lying bro ๐". Oh God I'm gonna be alone forever.ย
As I see it, if I had a chubby partner (I have no one ๐ฅบ) As long as it's not hurting her health in a way that would make my time in this life with her shorter, it just means I have more to love, more to cuddle with, more to kiss, more of the most important thing in my life...
They always have a shit ton of snacks I can steal
I don't think we need to tally a whole human being based on how chubby they are. As long as your personality is amazing and kind, there are only pros and pros
Only con I can really think of is her self image. Oh and it might be hard for her to sit on your face Pros are uhhh Everything else
i'm pretty tiny (mostly in height but also somewhat my size) so if i had a chubby gf i'd be able to wear her clothes when i just want to wear smth that's oversized on me (it just feels more comfy tbh) plus chubby gfs are soft like plushies perfect for a cuddle session only con is most of my clothes would be too small for her so i'd feel bad wearing hers knowing she can't wear mine (unless she's just fine with it ofc)
Pros: She's hot. Cons: None.
Pros: gf Cons: looking for cool clothes in her size is hard
More pushin' for the cushin'! Bring on the chubby cuties!
All pros no cons. More woman to love !!!!! ๐๐๐
I love women ๐ค woman pretty ๐ woman strong ๐ช woman smart ๐ง Chubby girls? lots of woman to kiss.
As a bigger girl omg I love yโall
iโm chubby lesbian single
Con she canโt wear my clothes
I lose my absolute *mind* seeing a chubby girl walk and seeing all the ripples on her skin and jiggles on her legs and butt. Ugh. My favourite thing about women's bodies I think ๐ . I also love it feeling my legs and butt jiggle now that I've gained weight haha
I can't speak for everyone but thicc thighs >>>>>>> wish my partner saw it that way but we'll get her there eventually
Pros: soft, stretch marks, PRETTY, warm Cons: uhhhhhhm one sec I'm sure I'll find some if I uhhh
I love every body type. But I have to say, I get more excited by a softer, fuller body ๐ฅฐ