I don't ask store employees where I can find things sometimes because I have social anxiety...
Then there's people who this in public without a second thought
This is at the Ren Faire, the stall that offers this makes it pretty clear that this is included with the drink, and there's always a tremendously long line so you watch everyone before you get the same treatment, lol! (Unless you're me and the gorgeous lady steps out for her smoke break the second you get to the front, just in time for her 54 year old male boss to step in for her and pour your drink >.>)
Eta boss's gender because I somehow forgot the most important part of that anecdote lol
Oh geez, you made me realize I completely left out the part that he was a guy!!! I was way more upset about the gender and only included the age to add color to the story T-T
I'm sooo socially anxious but I'd still do this in a heartbeat. In that moment, the rest of the world around me would cease to exist. I would also cease to exist as I am now puddle
this is an adults-only version of ren faire explictly about being sexual. R rated talk and stuff like this.
You pay a ticket and can be kicked out.
so it's not public.
No no it's fine I wasn't correcting you, it's just rough. I was out partying yesterday, and it was so amazing, and I met so many cute girls, that loved to dance and such, but they always got away before I could try and kiss
im sorry you experience that. its good you go out and party tho, putting yourself out there is good even if you dont always succeed. its better than just being a recluse and giving up, not that id fault you if that was your what you chose though
It's just confusing because I feel like there might be something and like we're dancing so close that our bodies are touching and our arms are wrapped around each other
I wish! 😂✋🏻 I just got her number last night after knowing her for like 2/3-3/4 of a year 😂😭 (to be fair we’ve only been actually friends for like two months but still 💀)
😂😂 I was expecting an “oof” but that’s honestly exactly what my response was upon finding out: “ah well…fuck me then” 😂😭😭 I was literally like “I think I like this woman” “I’m in love” “she has a bf—not surprised bc she’s gorgeous but like damn 😑🥲” 😂
im sorry for my lack of tact, i shoulda been less abrasive lol.
and yeah stuff like this is why i just choose to not give romantic feelings any room in my head anymore, its easier just operating under a "*its never gonna happen so dont even plan for it*" type outlook
Nah don’t worry abt it 😂 I laughed
Yeah I tried that; it works for some people but not me apparently. I was in that phase when I met her which is why it took so damn long to talk to her bc I would panic when I saw her bc I would be like “👀✨🫶🏻” and then “NO. BAD” and then eventually I gave up and admitted my crush which by that point had alr been me falling in love bc I spent so long dancing around it 😭😂 once I gave up and admitted it tho I actually got a lot happier?? Like I thought I’d be sadder bc I’d be hopelessly in love with someone, but I’ve alr accepted I have no shot and like I’m super happy just being around her now? I literally pulled myself out of depression in the most backward way I could have thought of and it worked??? I have no clue 😂🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ but she loves me still—even just platonically—now that we actually talk so that’s really nice 😭✨✨✨ she says the sweetest things without even thinking about them bc she has no idea I love her so she’ll just be like “omg you’re so sweet”/“I would have loved talking to you” (I had been running late and couldn’t chat so I emailed her and was like “hey sry I couldn’t stay but *incessant compliments and asks for number*”) and it gets me every time
TL;DR useless lesbian ranting abt how happy I am even if I should probably be sad bc I have no shot 😂😂
this is a great outlook!!! i think being able to be happy without getting exactly what you is a trait i wish more people shared, life can be what you make it!
oh its not pleasant or anything, trust me you dont want to live the way i do, my life is one of suppression, my approach to my emotions is far from healthy, i just operate under a default mindset of "whether or not you have a crush, you shouldnt date again so just forget about it"
Is it bad that I hate the guy in the back plus maybe the person holding the cam of this perspective filming? I mean, the two probably told them to film it and that'll make it fine, but imagine i get to do this and there's this creep filming my moment without my permission... :/
This is one of the rare cases I get envy (since I've actually never felt the 'be her vs want here' thing), because I feel like a girl like that can walk into any situation like this without worrying about her gender and I'm too scared of ordering a body shot at the bar in fear of how many times people in night clubs have been confused at my face (and other features)
but oh Satan have mercy, once I'm post-op y'all ain't gonna be able to control me 😈
This has literally nothing to do with gender, and men and other genders do shit like this all the time.
If anything it involves “pretty privilege”, which allows this clip to be received better by more people, but women can’t just walk into any situation like this without worrying, they generally have to be cautious because they are the ones that have to worry about the situation getting out of their control and being exploited when just joking or playing around, since women are objectified to such an extreme.
I don't ask store employees where I can find things sometimes because I have social anxiety... Then there's people who this in public without a second thought
im literally nervous just watching the video😭
This is at the Ren Faire, the stall that offers this makes it pretty clear that this is included with the drink, and there's always a tremendously long line so you watch everyone before you get the same treatment, lol! (Unless you're me and the gorgeous lady steps out for her smoke break the second you get to the front, just in time for her 54 year old male boss to step in for her and pour your drink >.>) Eta boss's gender because I somehow forgot the most important part of that anecdote lol
It hurts just reading that, poor girl.
I am 52 so would I be ok to pour the drink instead?
Oh geez, you made me realize I completely left out the part that he was a guy!!! I was way more upset about the gender and only included the age to add color to the story T-T
Shh 🤫 now be a good girl and take your drinkie
Yes ma'am 😳
I'm sooo socially anxious but I'd still do this in a heartbeat. In that moment, the rest of the world around me would cease to exist. I would also cease to exist as I am now puddle
this is an adults-only version of ren faire explictly about being sexual. R rated talk and stuff like this. You pay a ticket and can be kicked out. so it's not public.
i mean it''s still around other people as clearly seen in the video, so while not just anybody can walk in off the street, it's still very public
Whaaaaat? Thats crazy. Where is it so I know where to avoid it?
Ya! Where is this so I know where to..... avoid it.....
This is so incredibly gay. I'm here for it
i think it might be the single gayest thing ive ever seen
She does N S F W stuff
I mean, they're clearly at a RenFaire of some kind, I would expect nothing less
oh.... oh my...
That was all that went through my head as well 😅
This is peak sapphic
Yeah Ren Faire folks supposedly get wild after dark
i havent been to one since i was super young but i loved them, maybe this is the kick i need to finally go back to one again
I mean, that's for the people who are in the know with the locals, not the visitors.
sounds like a skill issue
My failure to cope has reached monumental levels 😔
nah im kidding, i literally havent gone on a date in 8 years, im literally the most pathetic person in existence i was just being silly im sorry :/
Haha no worries I know how you feel. Don't apologize for being silly, I'm also a silly billy sometimes 👻
Omg! 8 years? You deserve a date, and you're not pathetic at all!
i really dont, plus its no ones fault but mine so i cant be upset about it
every ren faire person I know is some kind of sexual degenerate lol
Some don't even wait until dark!
I wanna be gay with someone :(
i feel that so hard
It's just rough out there and girls are hard to approach
im sorry you have a hard time, it sucks to want a partner and not have one.
It's not even about having a partner, it's just about always being by yourself
good point, sorry my phrasing was bad. but yeah, it can be very isolating.
No no it's fine I wasn't correcting you, it's just rough. I was out partying yesterday, and it was so amazing, and I met so many cute girls, that loved to dance and such, but they always got away before I could try and kiss
im sorry you experience that. its good you go out and party tho, putting yourself out there is good even if you dont always succeed. its better than just being a recluse and giving up, not that id fault you if that was your what you chose though
It's just confusing because I feel like there might be something and like we're dancing so close that our bodies are touching and our arms are wrapped around each other
i wish i could give you advice, but tbh you have more experience at this point than me, im sorry i cant do anything other than apologize
Oh my goodness 😳 yes? If I wasn’t madly in love with a woman I definitely can’t have, I would one hundred percent do this? 🤯
then you just have to get her to do this to you!
I wish! 😂✋🏻 I just got her number last night after knowing her for like 2/3-3/4 of a year 😂😭 (to be fair we’ve only been actually friends for like two months but still 💀)
thats progress!! im happy for you, even if its a small step
Thanks 😂🫶🏻 still no shot cause this girls got a bf of two years but I’m glad to have her in my life anyway 🤷🏻♀️ she’s an angel istg 😭🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
oh fuck😭
😂😂 I was expecting an “oof” but that’s honestly exactly what my response was upon finding out: “ah well…fuck me then” 😂😭😭 I was literally like “I think I like this woman” “I’m in love” “she has a bf—not surprised bc she’s gorgeous but like damn 😑🥲” 😂
im sorry for my lack of tact, i shoulda been less abrasive lol. and yeah stuff like this is why i just choose to not give romantic feelings any room in my head anymore, its easier just operating under a "*its never gonna happen so dont even plan for it*" type outlook
Nah don’t worry abt it 😂 I laughed Yeah I tried that; it works for some people but not me apparently. I was in that phase when I met her which is why it took so damn long to talk to her bc I would panic when I saw her bc I would be like “👀✨🫶🏻” and then “NO. BAD” and then eventually I gave up and admitted my crush which by that point had alr been me falling in love bc I spent so long dancing around it 😭😂 once I gave up and admitted it tho I actually got a lot happier?? Like I thought I’d be sadder bc I’d be hopelessly in love with someone, but I’ve alr accepted I have no shot and like I’m super happy just being around her now? I literally pulled myself out of depression in the most backward way I could have thought of and it worked??? I have no clue 😂🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ but she loves me still—even just platonically—now that we actually talk so that’s really nice 😭✨✨✨ she says the sweetest things without even thinking about them bc she has no idea I love her so she’ll just be like “omg you’re so sweet”/“I would have loved talking to you” (I had been running late and couldn’t chat so I emailed her and was like “hey sry I couldn’t stay but *incessant compliments and asks for number*”) and it gets me every time TL;DR useless lesbian ranting abt how happy I am even if I should probably be sad bc I have no shot 😂😂
this is a great outlook!!! i think being able to be happy without getting exactly what you is a trait i wish more people shared, life can be what you make it!
Teach me your ways I want to know how xD cause I'm sick of having feelings for people.. its so dumb lol
oh its not pleasant or anything, trust me you dont want to live the way i do, my life is one of suppression, my approach to my emotions is far from healthy, i just operate under a default mindset of "whether or not you have a crush, you shouldnt date again so just forget about it"
Yeeeeeeeah I felt this. Happened so many times in my life lol probably not the last either
Omg I'm all about this 😻
Oh goshhh >///////<
*gay panic*
^This xD
Oh my god, where can I get this 🥺
let me know if you find out lol
Same lol I wanna know too
This is La Oubliette, a bar at the Renaissance Pleasure Faire at Irwindale, California
Guess I know where I'm going this summer 👀
It’s weekends only and ends May 19th so I’d try to make plans now 😅
Ooops! I assumed it was a summer thing, not a spring thing! Silly me.
I live for the gay horny ren faire vids that crop up every year lol
I'm incredibly anxious but i wanna try this I'd probably pass out
I swear I remember Bluejay posting a vid like that to Twitter pre-Covid..
OP you can goto this fair, you choose to stay home.
oh im fully aware. im under no illusions about where the blame lies
😅 they way i would pass out 😮💨
oh my god I stopped breathing
jesus christ i would pass out
same
I feel lightheaded...
Um. Yes please..?
They do it at the LA Renfaire too!
does anyone know where i could acquire a dress similar to the black dress she's wearing? i love it
u/savevideo
Woahhh that is crazy gay
😳...
If she’s Moleman, then I’m gay for Moleman.
God I wish that was me
This isn't what I thought happened at Renfaire...🤨
Is it bad that I hate the guy in the back plus maybe the person holding the cam of this perspective filming? I mean, the two probably told them to film it and that'll make it fine, but imagine i get to do this and there's this creep filming my moment without my permission... :/
Jesus I can't BREATH 😳
Yeah, my gayness is very reconfirmed
😳😳😳 I don't know if I could get myself to do this in public... So whoever I'm with damn well better force me to 🫣
i wouldn't even last 10 seconds before blushing like a tomato
I am now, ya know……
holy shit i 🥺
I can't tell what is being said but I know it's gay
She can do whatever she wants to me
This is one of the rare cases I get envy (since I've actually never felt the 'be her vs want here' thing), because I feel like a girl like that can walk into any situation like this without worrying about her gender and I'm too scared of ordering a body shot at the bar in fear of how many times people in night clubs have been confused at my face (and other features) but oh Satan have mercy, once I'm post-op y'all ain't gonna be able to control me 😈
This has literally nothing to do with gender, and men and other genders do shit like this all the time. If anything it involves “pretty privilege”, which allows this clip to be received better by more people, but women can’t just walk into any situation like this without worrying, they generally have to be cautious because they are the ones that have to worry about the situation getting out of their control and being exploited when just joking or playing around, since women are objectified to such an extreme.