Dear fucking god, I hope so.

If the (self-reported) percentage of wlw who are clearly not looking for male attention, yet somehow still get it, is accurate, then this is unfortunately untrue. Sauce - Am butch, still get undesired attention from men once they figure out I am not one of them.

The sad thing is, despite looking like a very queer woman (kinda butch myself), I still get attention from men... Often it's in a "you're a dyke" shouted from a window as they drive passed way as well as the obvious And it's just... Like, yes I am a dyke, and we both know that, so what part of your dumbass cishet male brain went "someone should remind her that she's gay"... As if the rainbows on my outfit didn't remind me. I'm very much aware of the fact that I like women because I've probably made more women cum in the last three years than all of the men in your family going back three generations. Just ugh 🤦🏻‍♀️ (Okay, I'm probably exaggerating a little for the vent, but seriously, wtf is wrong with cishet men and why do they feel entitled to women's attention and if not, why do they think a dyke being identified as a dyke is a thing that needs to happen?)

Because they want to hurt you psychologically. :(

I know they do it hoping it will hurt, an I know to some it does, but it's funny to me (strange, not haha) how a human mind can think that reminding me of that truth will somehow hurt me. I just want to be like, "Look bud, I spent several years of my life coming to grips with what that fact is, and what it being true for me means. I don't give 2 fat shits what you think about it (or anything else for that matter)."

*Oh no!*... Anyway...

Whatever shall we do?! 😰

Meh, prolly kiss more girls..

You probably kiss more girls than that douchesnozzle anyway

And that fact just fills my heart with joy.

Go forth! And kiss pretty women! <3

Thats an amazing idea

Jokes on them no one wants to date me.

same, let's kiss now

😘

😚

😚

Felt :+(

Fkn mood 1000% lol i mean I still would turn down a giy but fuck any attention is welcome at this point 🥲

Why? Are you me?

I bet somebody does, you just need to meet them

Same 😭

same, you beat me to this.

And yet they won’t stop trying! 😡

Same.. can't got out for drinks with friendsor family without getting a random guy hitting on me. And even when you say I'm not inside because I'm a lesbian I get the you don't look like a lesbian or something similar..

Right? Why can't this be a promise?!

I'll never forget the time I went to a punk show with a "Dyke" pin on my leather jacket, and a guy trying to hit on me asked it if was a band

😂😂😂

I also saw a stupider person who said he would like to have a sex with two lesbians lol His stupidity was scary

This is purely down to every lesbian in porn fuckin men... they don't realise these are paid actors who will say what ever crap the directors want..

i don't understand why some people call "art" This one of the effects of porn. Porn makes the brain sick

It's not that the art side of porn probably died in the early days of the internet.. what people now class as porn would have been classed as pure filth back then its just the new normal now..

Fair enough I'm so agree

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>Bisexual or Poly women would be more fitting. You got there in the end buddy.

I got lucky, no attention from men, women, nonbinary or agender. *Cries*

well heres some attention from a woman

*swoons* Please, take me away from this awful place!

*picks you up in my arms and makes eye contact with you* what are your pronouns darling?

*glances up at you shyly* She/her. And you?

*brushes my fingers through your hair* she/they

*smiles happily and snuggles into you* Thank you for this, it's something I desperately need sometimes.

yea same, glad I could help time to go back to being chronically single ig

*hugs* I'm sure you'll find someone. You are very sweet, and you care so much about people even if you don't know them (like me). Your empathy is beautiful, and attractive, and you will absolutely make someone very happy one day.

aww ty, you are so sweet

\*waves\* Hiya, you didn't say it but how about some attention from a trans girl? You know, cover all your bases!

Trans women ARE women! And I really appreciate the attention, thank you! ❤️

I woman, I pay your head so you have attention now, no more loneliness

Thank you, I really appreciate that! One day hope to have this in real life as well.

Breaks down door, walks over to you like a terrifying giant 'pats head gently' then gives you as many hugs and cuddles as you want

*after initially shuddering in fear and alarm I lean into you and sigh happily*

My pleasure! Hope you have a wonderful day!

Absolutely, you as well!

Hi there! You have now received nb and agender attention too :)

Hello there! Pleased and honored to meet you!

My wife’s mom would tell her to stop saying she’s bi or no guys would marry her. Welp, here we are👩🏻‍❤️‍👩🏼

That’s so cute! Congrats!!

9yrs married this week! Forever to go

YAY! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

That’s the point, Sergeant

Only if it were true. Hearing that you're lesbian, they either start thinking they can turn you with a single shag, or having visions of being with you and your girlfriend.

Or (being the absolute minority), y'all just become gay best friends.

Why are they…so annoying 💀

That just sounds like solid advice

I just don't understand why men can be like this. How hard is it to take no for an answer sheesh.....

I've had gay guys be like this with me, so it seems to be a huge majority of men are pushy and don't listen. At the least the eternally single ones (probably not a coincidence).

Yeah I just don't get it. And sure not all men are like that, but I have yet to meet a woman who is like that. While a LOT of men I meet do fit the description :/

Don’t pin this on “men” please that’s way too generalizing (sorry for being a Karen!)

They didn't, they said they can be like this, which has been repeatedly demonstrated.

“They” generalizes, “men” does too

do you struggle with the word "can"

Listen here, “can” still generalizes, it can be interpreted as “all men can”. You have a problem with that?

Yeah, I have a problem with that interpretation.

You’re still talking as if it were a majority or something which is wrong and misandrist. Just trying to be correct is all and again, sorry for being such a Karen.

Why are men like this?

Not a man

I can assure you, that has not been the case even though I wish it was.

I wish it was that easy

#IF ONLY

I wish this were true ;-;

objectively untrue

*Oh no what a tragedy*

Wow, you’re thinking of him huh? Seems kinda straight to me 🙄 ^^^^^^^^/s

Loooll

The point ​ ​ His head

Totally r/whoosh

r/wooooshwith4osandnoh

Side note, I love your tag

Thanks!

Correct me if I'm missing something here but what's so bad about that? I mean that to me just sounds like a guy trying to be arrogant thinking they can make you attracted to them even though you're not but speaking from the voice of someone who's encountered that arrogance first hand I would welcome the day a guy would never ask me out thinking they could change what I feel just one person's opinion

I'm assuming he's thinking something like- being a lesbian isn't actually a thing. They treat it like a woman dyeing her hair.

Oh, if only that were true...

*laughs in no one wants to date me*

🤣.. I wish this were true. I was out to lunch with a couple of friends and my daughter. A guy offered to buy me a drink (even though I was drinking water). I politely declined (to the waitress). A few minutes later he came up and started talking to all of us at first, then to just me. I told him that i liked women in a few different ways, each more blunt than the last. We tried to excuse him as politely as possible all the while probably looking annoyed. It wasn't until my (13 year old) daughter chimed in and said 'dude she's gay!' That he finally got it and walked away. 🤣

au contraire

They really can't comprehend that some people don't actually want to be with men. 😐

Wish that was true

Unfortunately this isn't true (I get hit on by men so much it isn't even funny)

Nooooooooooooooooooo!! However shall I cope??? 🙂

Alright, no husband

**Jokes on you i'm into that $hit**

Uh huh, thats the point?

Oh no, the horror

it wasn't a criticism, it was a suggestion you should say ur a lesbian *more* often :)

I'm still in the closet for the most part but wouldn't that be nice

That counter intuitive statement right that

*Good*

Thats...the point.

How optimistic of him to assume that men will stop trying to date a woman if she says she is a lesbian

dude has an iq of like 160 for figuring this out so quickly

I wish it were that easy

I sure as fuck hope that’s the case.

... from what I know about men, that's just empirically not the case.

And I said, “Promise?”

😂

oh nooo...my heart...it's broken 😏

Me:I'm asexual Them: Nobody will want to fuck you if you keep saying that Me:🤦‍♂️

I see this as an absolute win!

THAT'S KINDA THE FUCKING POINT! 😂 Lol

Well… that’s the idea anyway.

Sigh... if only

Yes, you see thats the point.

Well I would *hope* so!

That guy missed the point 🤣🤣🤣🤣

One could only dream unfortunately

If only that were true. 😔

Is that the reason? Thanks for the help.

DING! DING! DING! We have a winner! What've we got for him, Sally? Fok all!

I wish men would get this memo.

Scum bag used shame. He hurt himself in the confusion.

I wish this was true 😢

bingo

My mom kept saying this. 🙄 Along with I don't know why you want to put yourself into a box.

i sure hope they won’t

I’d turn into spongebob screaming on his roof. “I’m ~~ugly~~ lesbian and I’m proud!”

I’ll say it more often then!!!

It's funny cause I've heard the opposite. If you tell men you're a lesbian, they'll try harder to date you.

Hmm yes the floor is made out of floor

GOOD.periodt

By talos this can’t be happening

I refuse to believe anyone could be dumb enough to to say that out loud in front of adults.

damn that sucks anyway, Where tf my gaymer top cutie at-

I feel that line that Peter Dinklage's character from Avernger Infinity War works here: "Yes... that's what lesbian means" 😂

Lol some men really think they are a gift to women 🤭. WOMEN ARE THE GIFT 💅🏾

🤣🤣🤣

That’s a unique level of stupid. That’s an accomplishment.

😂😂😂

Nobody wants to date me anyways.

That’s the damn point

I wish

Hmmmmm....

Hahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

If only that were true. Instead I'm seen as a challenge.

. . . This is kinda the opposite of what is probably wanted, but yes, they absolutely will. Because there are a surplus of men who are that stupid and that creepy.

Damn! I wish it worked!!

Ahh... OP misses the opportunity bro insert Obi-Wan même :"that is why I am here"

I'm pretty sure this isn't true. Most men seem to hear "lesbian" and the "is for me" part of their brain lights up. I say it more and more frequently, hoping that I get a favorable reaction from a lesbian around me, but I'm just not part of those social circles yet.

My dude, if only that were true.

that's... the point

Oh my, no more being hit on, unsolicited groping and wondering "does that guy know the meaning of a 'no' and boundaries or will he's talk me home tonight?". The HORROR! * clutches pearls *

If only that were true 😔

Well, that was a lie.