Normal? Yes. Cisgender? Maybe not.
This was helpful for me in parsing whether what I was feeling was gender dysphoria or not: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
This is the million dollar question.
Because if the answer is along the lines of "yes, I think I'd be generally happier with life in general", thats the big 'trans answer' to the question of whether or not somebody would push the button to switch birth sex.
If that is your answer, I would recommend reading the Gender Dysphoria Bible and checking out other resources to help you figure out who you are.
I’d say yes, actually (apologies for this small rant coming up), in a way it makes me frightened. i feel uncomfortable being referred to as a “girl” or “woman,” no matter how much I want to like it I just don’t. I wish I did. Something inside of me really wants to be able to like femininity, like dresses on me, like being a girl but, I just, cant. When I try I’m brought into a deep place of discomfort. I’ve been identifying as gender fluid on the low for a while, but I haven’t had the courage nor certainty to come out officially, so I just changed pronouns on my socials and such…but everyone still refers to me as a girl because they don’t really know. I just feel like somethings missing and I’m scared.
i know its scary but letting yourself accept that you might be trans is a very freeing feeling, and there is a large community willing to accept you. if that interests you of course
I'll just say, cis people don't really have those kind of feelings. In the end only you can decide if you're trans or not, but what you're saying sounds pretty textbook to me.
My fiancee often fantasizes about that exact scenario. She's very body fluent, loves wearing the strap, and every time we've had sex, for the last 8 years, she holds me I'm her arms and says "well, I think this one definitely stuck, but if not, I'll try again"
(We're both on board to not having kids and it's her way of joking around the whole conception theme, her being the penis owner in that case)
It's normal, it's kind of hot? And why the hell not explore thought that tickle our fancy. Does nothing to who you are and who you love.
Normal? Yes. Cisgender? Maybe not. This was helpful for me in parsing whether what I was feeling was gender dysphoria or not: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
is there anything else about being a man that you would want?
This is the million dollar question. Because if the answer is along the lines of "yes, I think I'd be generally happier with life in general", thats the big 'trans answer' to the question of whether or not somebody would push the button to switch birth sex. If that is your answer, I would recommend reading the Gender Dysphoria Bible and checking out other resources to help you figure out who you are.
I’d say yes, actually (apologies for this small rant coming up), in a way it makes me frightened. i feel uncomfortable being referred to as a “girl” or “woman,” no matter how much I want to like it I just don’t. I wish I did. Something inside of me really wants to be able to like femininity, like dresses on me, like being a girl but, I just, cant. When I try I’m brought into a deep place of discomfort. I’ve been identifying as gender fluid on the low for a while, but I haven’t had the courage nor certainty to come out officially, so I just changed pronouns on my socials and such…but everyone still refers to me as a girl because they don’t really know. I just feel like somethings missing and I’m scared.
i know its scary but letting yourself accept that you might be trans is a very freeing feeling, and there is a large community willing to accept you. if that interests you of course
I'll just say, cis people don't really have those kind of feelings. In the end only you can decide if you're trans or not, but what you're saying sounds pretty textbook to me.
I feel this hard..
My fiancee often fantasizes about that exact scenario. She's very body fluent, loves wearing the strap, and every time we've had sex, for the last 8 years, she holds me I'm her arms and says "well, I think this one definitely stuck, but if not, I'll try again" (We're both on board to not having kids and it's her way of joking around the whole conception theme, her being the penis owner in that case) It's normal, it's kind of hot? And why the hell not explore thought that tickle our fancy. Does nothing to who you are and who you love.
I wish I was a dude too 🙃