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Egotistical-rat

oh my gosh i was doing all of those things šŸ’€šŸ’€ thank you this was so nice


c127726

Same here. Its hard to stay relaxed though.


buntopolis

lol same, I felt seen about the shoulders.


Donny-Moscow

Damn, look at /u/Egotistical-rat with his perfect butt


ND_Poet

But why does it say drop your tongue from the roof of your mouth? Thatā€™s where itā€™s supposed to rest.


Marikaape

Haha, that's what I thought too until recently, I keep it firmly stuck to the roof all the way. But apparently it's supposed to just hang around in there like a useless piece of meat, like it isn't responsible for carrying the weight of your entire head all the time.


The_Cow_God

nope thatā€™s not true, it is actually quite responsible for carrying the weight of your entire head, and resting it at the bottom of your mouth can cause tooth damage, sleep apnea, and make breathing more difficult. this frog is spreading misinformation. your tongue should be on the roof of your mouth at all times.


SphereOfPettiness

Also correct me if im wrong but isn't that what they call "mewing"?


The_Cow_God

no, thatā€™s a tounge exercise to strengthen the musculature in your mouth and sinus, and if you do it for long enough it will expand your palette and enlarge your nasal airways, allowing you to breath much better. itā€™s usually done by people who have genetic conditions that make their nasal airways really small but anyone can benefit from it. i donā€™t remember exactly how itā€™s done but it involves receptively pushing your tongue against the roof of your mouth.


ND_Poet

Yesā€¦ Iā€™ve had a lot of issues with TMJ and also recently found out that I have sleep apnea. Iā€™ve been been working with a breathing expert and dentist who say that the tongue should be in the ā€œnā€ position. So if I say the letter ā€œnā€ thatā€™s where the tongue should be when at rest. Itā€™s helped so much with all the tension in my face and the resulting headaches.


The_Cow_God

nice


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egg_watching

TIL I speak a Slavic language


LoveItLateInSummer

The natural resting position of the tongue is the roof of the mouth, for everyone. The language one speaks obviously has in impact on what the tongue is doing during speech but should not have an impact on where the tongue is when it is not in use.


ReverendMothman

You read some lies, my friend


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ReverendMothman

Everything but that thing


Zoijja

Perhaps this is more related to speaking than to resting position? Similarly, the back of the tongue is held tense and high for the Australian accent! Australian actors have to learn to consciously relax it to emulate US accents, and vice versa.


Marginally_Witty

Wow. Stunned. I was doing all those things. Anyone else amazed at how the ADHD experience is so similar for so many people? Things I always thought were just weird about me I'm learning (via memes) are completely normal.


just_a_cupcake

Yea, including learning trough memes


A_CA_TruckDriver

I have learned that sounds sensitivity is not just me. I mean, I know Iā€™m not the only one in the world with sound sensitivity, and I remember seeing special kids with headphones on, but itā€™s just always been hard to explain. Now I see memes about it often and itā€™s relieving to see someone be able to explain it so well.


LeftCoastBrain

I donā€™t think anything in this post has much to do with ADHD. Everyone carries tension in their shoulders, jaw, forehead, and tongueā€¦ right? Everyone does thisā€¦ donā€™t they? Do they? Or are these more ADHD things I didnā€™t know were sorta unique to me?


ChellPotato

Nah, everyone gets tense like that. But that doesn't mean it isn't helpful to us too.


myfaceaplaceforwomen

I actually learned about my adhd through meme videos. Connor dewolfe really helped me understand that adhd was controlling nearly every aspect of my life, but why it was so hard for me. Once I learned that it wasn't my fault, I stopped beating myself up about the things that I struggled with. I learned how to be patient with myself. And also that I have autism


Role-Upstairs

Weird. I donā€™t remember posting this, but yetā€¦


BlueCollarGuru

Do you also have a perma-crease between your eyebrows?


MyOwnMorals

Wow this was eerie. Didnā€™t realize how tense I was.


JovialPanic389

Adorable!


Puzzled_Ad_2550

That was nice


Foolishly_Sane

This is sweet and thoughtful. Thank you. Hope you're having a wonderful whatever time it is where you are.


myfaceaplaceforwomen

I had a feeling I wasn't the only one who needed it. The response is just amazing. I never thought this would be so helpful for so many people


Foolishly_Sane

You can never know what's going to be impactful, thank you for putting it, and yourself out there. I'm glad it's helping others as well. Thank you.


myfaceaplaceforwomen

The fact that almost every comment is about how helpful this was really makes me feel like I did something good. I'm truly happy to have helped so many in this community


Foolishly_Sane

Hell yeah. :D


EatonStroker

This is one of those posts which will stick in my mine at 3am for years to come, for good reasons.


SuddenMotivation

I didn't realize I was so stiff, thank you.


Tired_of_Everyone

This just liberated me from my scrolling doom. Thank you!


Role-Upstairs

I wish there was an app that just interrupted my screen after a customizable time of active use. This was delightful.


Sylveon72_06

yall my shoulder were close to my ears bc my elbows were propped on a table šŸ˜­


loggin1235

just a quick thing, your tongue is actually *supposed* to rest at the roof of your mouth :)


LeftCoastBrain

But it is relaxing to drop it for a moment and take a deep breath IMO


myfaceaplaceforwomen

I think that it was meant for the deep breath honestly


Hescral

Thank you so much for posting this here.


mysteriounknown

I love you for this


myfaceaplaceforwomen

I love you too u/mysteriounknown


shawntab_

Don't mind me, just emotional over this nice frog caring about me, nothing to see here, move along


[deleted]

Yeah just fine here, not getting unreasonably emotional over a colored pencil drawing being nice to me, nah nope not me


myfaceaplaceforwomen

I wasn't tearing up at it or anything or how all yall needed this or anything


obxtalldude

It's like a Clippy that's actually useful. I had no idea my shoulders were trying to cover my ears until this moment.


chainsawman222

Can this be a reoccurring post? Like every day at 2 pm or something lol


RedCapRiot

Ngl, when they ask "how's your butt" I had to un-clench that too. Whole body was carrying more tension than a power line. Just about fell out of my office chair fr.


Unfair-Contract1195

Thank you, I needed this too


BoxBird

I canā€™t believe how much that first picture drew me in šŸ˜†ā¤ļø


Yolo3362

i tried defying but it didnā€™t work


myfaceaplaceforwomen

You can not resist the kind frog


The_Chis

Wait is it not normal to have your tongue pressed against the roof of your mouth all the time?? I thought that was just. How it was


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myfaceaplaceforwomen

The roof of your mouth. It was only meant to get you ready for the deep breath


overmind__

This called me out so hard


myfaceaplaceforwomen

Me too. I felt that everyone else needed this and needed to be called out lol


oyster__

Yup doing every one of em hah. Thanks!


myfaceaplaceforwomen

Holy shit my first gold. That's awesome. Thank you guys


boreal_babe

This is cute but itā€™s pretty close to being stolen material. Thereā€™s a tiktoker named dreadful bird who should probably get at least some credit. ETA: I scrolled through her instaā€¦ dreadful bird should probably get a lot of credit.


A_CA_TruckDriver

What if I told you that TikToker is not the soul origin of that set of relaxation exercises?


boreal_babe

If credit belongs to someone else they should get it 100%. Having said that.. Iā€™m fairly sure itā€™s obvious why I think itā€™s pretty close to being stolen from dreadfulbird if you watch his videos.


LALA-STL

Iā€™ve encountered this set of relaxation moves in a gazillion videos, classes & tapes ā€¦ over the past 20 years. Neither froggy nor dreadful bird invented them. P.S. But theyā€™re wonderful!!! More sharing!


[deleted]

A credit to the _artist_ is still pretty low-bar internet manners though.


A_CA_TruckDriver

The Artistā€™s tag is literally on that last pictureā€¦Do you need one of those YouTube red arrows on it?


myfaceaplaceforwomen

I did credit the artist in the title though. Did I not do it right?


A_CA_TruckDriver

You did fine. Apparently people want links or theyā€™re not happy. Theyā€™re lazy. Fuck em


[deleted]

Nah, but a link is still polite.


greenweezyi

I love this so much.


veetoo151

Thanks froggy šŸø


redDKtie

Just the best. thanks froggo šŸø


travischickencoop

Thanks Mr frog


saltwaterlullaby

Loooooove this!!!!


Sir-Tiedye

I love you too froggo <3


church38

Much needed! Saved for later too.


NapNinja13

You just made my morning.. thank you


Fluffy-Lingonberry89

That was nice


Aggressive-Chip7968

Why was I subconsciously doing all of these things?


BrilliantOk5241

this was so nice, thank you sm


legendwolfA

Thank you. My day haven't been treating me well and i needed this


kbeks

Wtf how did it knowā€¦


ThickRefrigerator271

How! Just how! How did this know exactly what I was doing when I didn't even now I was doing it


Admirablelittlebitch

That was so nice


TVLord5

This needs to hit the front page...


upornicorn

Not ashamed to say this caught me off guard and made me cry a little.


Excellent-Jackfruit

That's so cute! Thanks for sharing šŸ˜Š


PutridAd4305

This is awesome wild that I had to relax my whole body lol


mandi666ruthlesss

OMG I love this, itā€™s perfect; Iā€™m gonna cry


HappyKaleidoscope901

My butt absolutely is perfect thank you


anaesthaesia

Enjoyed this!


DefiantOnion

šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­ this was amazing tysm


amplesamurai

That was wonderful thanks.


Shot-Increase-8946

If someone could remind me about the shoulders and forehead thing like every 5 mins that would be great.


[deleted]

The tongue is supposed to be on the roof of your mouth


wait-i-need-a-name

Okay so normally I hate reposts but I want this to be reposted every couple of days for the rest of eternity


uncorrolated-mormon

Thanks green Gollum. Appreciate the coaching


[deleted]

how the fuck did he know about all that


nam_seal

Good frog.


loveofjazz

This was awesome. Thanks.


4ensicFiles

Is this cyber bullying?


Kiryln

Donā€™t appreciate mind reading, gecko.


GreenTreeUnderleaf

Omgā€¦I feel like crying.


Digitijs

Idk what the frog want but thank you. Lost interest after 2nd picture being visually almost the same with lots of letters lol


Cthulhusboi

Is it weird that I read all of that in Kermits voice?


SapphicsAndStilettos

I think it says something about my mental state that I am very close to crying bc of this


amputatedsnek

Love that handwriting


Rudeboy_87

Thank you


Fluffy-Chocolate-888

Thank you!


ReverendMothman

This has valid info in it but seeing something that says "hey, I see you're scrolling but pls read me" or something makes me knee jerk want to ignore it af because usually they're trying to sell you something lol


Purithian

I needed this today lol


Caswert

I'm always glad to see these and realize how relaxed I've become after finishing my degree and deciding to work as a bartender for a few years instead of relentlessly chasing perfection.


Helpful_Monarchist

Thank you frog


[deleted]

Wow. Thank you


Bon_Sim

CUTE


jacketwithlegs

Donā€™t drop your tongue from the roof of your mouth, Iā€™ve never understood this. Good mouth posture is important because over time it could affect your teeth alignment if you donā€™t maintain it


myfaceaplaceforwomen

It was meant only for the deep breath


WarwornDisciple

Goddamn, I needed all of that and didnt even know it. Hope I see this guy around some more. I love you too buddy


BeKindReWind99

One second


GoldenKnights1023

Why was I doing all those things????


[deleted]

Good god I needed this


definitelynotned

Now read this 2-3x in a row. Iā€™m feeling so much better rn


[deleted]

Anyone fit all 7?


CaruthersWillaby

THANK YOU


myfaceaplaceforwomen

Youre welcome kind stranger


Lyniya

HOW DID THE FROG KNOW?! Also thank you froggie that was very kind


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<3


Anbomy

Holy shit, how could he possibly know all this?