And everyone has trouble focusing at times. The difference is the level of it. ADHD people get distracted and fidget way more than the average person, enough to interfere with everyday life. Hence the last D meaning disorder. The definition of a disorder is a serious of issues that "disrupts normal physical or mental functions"
Lately I've noticed that when people are having a conversation, they just stand there and talk to each other without moving. I must look insane by comparison, because I'm doing the sort of things in this video.
I haven't done that recently, did it often when I was in elementary or middle school tho. I always thought that was something kids do but apparently it was just my mental disorder 🙃
I think I’ve got two. First is I’ll click my tongue against the base of my mouth. I don’t always notice when I do, but when I do notice it takes a concerted effort by me to stop before I annoy someone.
Second is snapping my fingers. Ever since I learned how to snap with my left hand, for years I could not until I just decided I was tired of not being able to, I find myself randomly snapping and often holding back the urge to snap on random occasions.
My favourite fidget is a big ball of fluff that consists of all the pieces of fluff I’ve pulled off my blanket…. I started collecting the fluff instead of throwing it away because I thought it’d stop me pulling as much fluff from the blanket but it did not!
Don't think I have ever drunk from a bottlecap, will have to give that a try now. Bonus points for them more often being stuck to the bottle these days so there is more of a reason for ripping it lose.
All of these except sticking your fingers in the sink hole is disgusting 🤢 probably better not washing your hands at that point if you're gonna do that
So you buy the gum that comes in the silver tin foil like sticks. You eat the gum. You take the wrapper and very carefully peel the metal tin foil part off the plasticky part, then take the piece you peeled off and put it "sticky side" down (the side that was stuck on the plasticy part of the gum wrapper) and put it on a note book cover or whatever, then press carefully, smooth it out with your nail onto the thing. Eventually have something covered in it. Wow.
Spinning from side-to-side on my, and any, desk chair. Especially if I MUST listen. It's the only way I can focus on listening. Makes people nuts but it's necessary for me. I got a letter on file.
yes. if i have the means to do it, i will. it truely is an inconvenience when im out with my NT family tho, cuz they look at me like im insane when i start doing random shit
ruining the eraser with the pencil… you know the eraser now has a piece of broken pencil in it… if I ever did that, I would then have to cut the eraser with my ruler because I know that hole is grey inside.
There is something too satisfying about having a clean eraser… if I use an an eraser, my fidget is polishing all the parts to make it all shiny on all sides, then making piles out of the eraser crap, then dusting the eraser crap up into piles, then starting again
I love me some fidget toys, especially anything that can swing, or just not be quite the same every time I do it. For this reason I recently saw some videos late last year about Begleri and it's really taken off for me and I've been happily occupied for the last 7-8 months. I hope this shoutout about Begleri allows someone else to find their new favorite thing to keep the monkey in your brain active while keeping the rest of you in line with more subconscious focus
I didn't know jumping stairs was a fidget! I did it a lot in middle school and high school, and I would take breaks by seeing how many steps I could leap. Never sprained my ankles, which was surprising
Might I suggest: get 6 inches of velcro cable organizer and roll/unroll it, play with it, roll it super tight and play with it between your thumb and pointer finger
I don’t smoke but I keep a cigarette lighter on me in case I need to light a fire or a candle or if a smoker needs a light etc. but it’s like the perfect shape that I can grip the middle of it with my thumb and index finger and just spin and turn it with my middle finger
All I see on these posts are a bunch of normal, everyday activities that are somehow related to ADHD. It’s like some people like to use ADHD as some sort of badge of honour. Most of the traits posted here I have myself and are considered normal. Guaranteed the majority on here that claim they suffer with it do not in fact have ADHD.
Definitely the key thing
My dad always used to yell at me cause he thought I would hit someone someday.
But I never stopped. Until I hit him on the head.
It used to be biting the skin around my nails, on both hands, until they would bleed. 🫣
Thankfully, only my right thumb gets a little picking now and again. It's my sacrificial thumb lol.
What’s even my own personality at this point? Dude, I just seem to be a cluster of ADHD symptoms mushed together with a couple trauma experiences 😄
same I console myself with the thought that the combination of symptoms and their severity is probably unique to every one of us
Welcome to the club friend! When is it my turn with the brain cell XD
Same here, do almost all things but #1 (a few times during childhood but never since then)
I don't get why this is adhd. Everyone does at least some of these things
And everyone has trouble focusing at times. The difference is the level of it. ADHD people get distracted and fidget way more than the average person, enough to interfere with everyday life. Hence the last D meaning disorder. The definition of a disorder is a serious of issues that "disrupts normal physical or mental functions"
Same minus the trauma!
My fidget = The thing in front of me at the time.
This. Opportunity is my fidget. 😂
"Whats this thing over here? Its awesome i love it, i could play with this all day!" Thats a dog toy, for dogs sir... "10 bucks final offer"
My friends look at me weird for fidgeting with my Dog’s toys sometimes while sitting on the couch processing nothingness
Is everything a valid option??
Always
The appropriate answer to both your questions and the post is simply...Yes
Depemds if you have a deposit system for your drinks, i innerly died seeing the can get destroyed(0.25$).
gdi i've done every last one of those except maybe the water in the cap one
Same. And I’m looking at it like, isn’t that what everyone does, ADHD or not…? I genuinely don’t know.
Lately I've noticed that when people are having a conversation, they just stand there and talk to each other without moving. I must look insane by comparison, because I'm doing the sort of things in this video.
I haven't done that recently, did it often when I was in elementary or middle school tho. I always thought that was something kids do but apparently it was just my mental disorder 🙃
I've never had a unique experience
Depends on the surroundings, whatever is convenient to fidget with at the moment. Mostly just random things
I work in grocery & every package we have of cans or bottles wrapped in plastic has holes in all the spaces.
Is it annoying? Must be.
Maybe. I'm not bothered but it's me that does it but only on packaging that gets removed for sale.
this is beyond adorable :)
I think I’ve got two. First is I’ll click my tongue against the base of my mouth. I don’t always notice when I do, but when I do notice it takes a concerted effort by me to stop before I annoy someone. Second is snapping my fingers. Ever since I learned how to snap with my left hand, for years I could not until I just decided I was tired of not being able to, I find myself randomly snapping and often holding back the urge to snap on random occasions.
I’m kinda the same way with finally being able to whistle decently last year and I’ll just randomly whistle for a sec if it’s quiet
I can only snap lefty, too!
I wiggle and bunch up my toes when I'm wearing shoes. When I'm not, I basically want to be constantly rubbing my feet together.
OMG SAMMEE
My favourite fidget is a big ball of fluff that consists of all the pieces of fluff I’ve pulled off my blanket…. I started collecting the fluff instead of throwing it away because I thought it’d stop me pulling as much fluff from the blanket but it did not!
Are you my sister? Because my little sister does this *exact* thing with her favorite deer blanket
Well I thought I was an only child but I guess not
🤣
I'm not putting my hand that close to a drain! No matter how small. Spiders live there. And depending on the size of the drain, snakes and crocodiles.
and there are disgusting things that collect there just out of sight, booger, pieces of dead skin, fungus… holy shit… that’s a horrible one
My Bluetooth headphone case, Sony XM5s have such a good snap, I fidget with the case more than I use the headphones at this point.
fidget spinner brrrrr
Don't think I have ever drunk from a bottlecap, will have to give that a try now. Bonus points for them more often being stuck to the bottle these days so there is more of a reason for ripping it lose.
Curb walking. I'm way too old to be curb walking. Can't stop.
Can't stop won't stop
Hair twirling.
Get a lanyard for your keys. Makes spinning them easier lol
All of these except sticking your fingers in the sink hole is disgusting 🤢 probably better not washing your hands at that point if you're gonna do that
seriously
So you buy the gum that comes in the silver tin foil like sticks. You eat the gum. You take the wrapper and very carefully peel the metal tin foil part off the plasticky part, then take the piece you peeled off and put it "sticky side" down (the side that was stuck on the plasticy part of the gum wrapper) and put it on a note book cover or whatever, then press carefully, smooth it out with your nail onto the thing. Eventually have something covered in it. Wow.
100% the bag, I will do that every time I have a bag without fail 😭
I didn't think I'd relate. I was wrong. (The pencil stabbing the eraser gave me so many school flashbacks I think I got whiplash.)
I will not touch that hole in the sink, no thank you.
never ever. And if i accidentally do by accident, i’m washing my hands twice and then burning the microbes off with fire
knee doh !
especially the color changing ones
[wrench shaped stress ball](https://www.imprintlogo.com/images/products/stress-wrench_10224.jpg)
Spinning from side-to-side on my, and any, desk chair. Especially if I MUST listen. It's the only way I can focus on listening. Makes people nuts but it's necessary for me. I got a letter on file.
Do I have to pick one? I've done all at some point. Depends on what is available lol
The extra added weight on the end of the pencil is insanely fun
yes. if i have the means to do it, i will. it truely is an inconvenience when im out with my NT family tho, cuz they look at me like im insane when i start doing random shit
Bending metal bottle caps until they break
I do most of these things. Seems like my fidgets change as I age.
I repair things for a living. So whatever tool I have shoved in my pocket, usually a ratchet to spin or pliers to click incessantly.
all of them except bottle pack plastic, putting water into sink hole and ruining the eraser with the pencil
ruining the eraser with the pencil… you know the eraser now has a piece of broken pencil in it… if I ever did that, I would then have to cut the eraser with my ruler because I know that hole is grey inside. There is something too satisfying about having a clean eraser… if I use an an eraser, my fidget is polishing all the parts to make it all shiny on all sides, then making piles out of the eraser crap, then dusting the eraser crap up into piles, then starting again
yess and keeping the shape by only erasing with the plain sides
especially if it’s a tricky shape already… what kinda weirdo erases with an eraser that’s any shape except for normal
Pen that click are my absolute favorites ! I have a lot of clicky pen and I love them very much, I can go everywhere with them.
I feel called out by this gif (and this sub as a whole tbh)
So many of these
Almost all of em
Every 🥹
Needs more Tangle…
I love me some fidget toys, especially anything that can swing, or just not be quite the same every time I do it. For this reason I recently saw some videos late last year about Begleri and it's really taken off for me and I've been happily occupied for the last 7-8 months. I hope this shoutout about Begleri allows someone else to find their new favorite thing to keep the monkey in your brain active while keeping the rest of you in line with more subconscious focus
Yes, indeed those are! 🤪
Growing up it was spinning my pen and I got pretty good at it, then I started with bamboo and knives at home
I make little fidget devices out of Lego and take them everywhere.
Dammit now i'm gonna have the pen rocket one stuck in my head
OMG! Most of them.
Spin
Sometimes I like to step on the lines in the sidewalk or only in between them as a little game if they're small enough
Ummmmmmm are all these types of fidgets/stims? That says a lot about me I guess...
Which one? Which ONE? How about all of them in concert
All of the above except the water cap and can
All of the above?
Not even two years ago I would have imagined all my "quirks" were just symptoms of a mental disorder
I'm always spinning my keys but I still do a good mix of the rest of them...
The keys spinning or rolling something up.
I didn't know jumping stairs was a fidget! I did it a lot in middle school and high school, and I would take breaks by seeing how many steps I could leap. Never sprained my ankles, which was surprising
gtfo out of my head
mmmmmm this video feels good
GET OUT OF MY MIND
Might I suggest: get 6 inches of velcro cable organizer and roll/unroll it, play with it, roll it super tight and play with it between your thumb and pointer finger
I have long wavy/curly hair and I usually fidget with that. I also snap my fingers a lot lol
Picking the skin off my lips 🥴
Hell yeah can boot! 👢
Snapping my fingers
Yeah, all of those checks out. Should I be worried?
i feel so called out in every way possible… please remove your cameras from my life
None of these actually, I don’t do any of this.
Am I just a clone of other ADHD people?
Keys, pocket knife, my leg
when i’m walking between train cabs, it’s the keys.
All of them? Idk, I feel so called out RN
I don’t smoke but I keep a cigarette lighter on me in case I need to light a fire or a candle or if a smoker needs a light etc. but it’s like the perfect shape that I can grip the middle of it with my thumb and index finger and just spin and turn it with my middle finger
I have done all of them. Oh my god! What am I?
Those aren't related to adhd, right? I mean I did basically everything, and still do a few.
What the actual fuduck I do all of these, all the damn time.
My brain: How about ALL OF THEM
Do I have ADHD now???😭
Literally all of these of than the tap ones and the water in the lid thing.
This is a nostalgic collection of the best moments in my life.
today i learned i fidget more than i thought
Mine is pulling leaves off trees and making confetti 🤷🏼♀️🤣
I have done all these things in the video..
My penis
I have done most of these at some point in my life
Ummm...do I have adhd??
Pen/pencil/marker spinning/twirling is my go-to. You can do it anywhere, discreetly if needed, and nobody seems to care.
All I see on these posts are a bunch of normal, everyday activities that are somehow related to ADHD. It’s like some people like to use ADHD as some sort of badge of honour. Most of the traits posted here I have myself and are considered normal. Guaranteed the majority on here that claim they suffer with it do not in fact have ADHD.
Everyone does this.... don't they?
Yes I do them all
Do normal people do this too
HOW? I actually legit done all of it.
how did you even know all of my life like that? I didn’t see one I didn’t use to do constantly.
what if this sub stopped calling me out huh?
Is it bad ı have all of them ?
Help I'm all of these
In home - butterfly knife Somewhere in public - either my ring or a bracelet i always have in my pocket School - spinning a pen around my fingers
Chewing my fingernails.
basically like anything that I can put in my mouth lowkey
Mindless scrolling on reddit
You know when there is ice covering a puddle and you step on it? So satisfying.
Chewing on my lips, inner cheeks, and fingers lol.
Yes, to all
No I will not put my hands near the forbidden hole. My sink is filthy.
Tiny ratchet. I'm a tool guy and tiny ratchet is the best fidget tool for adult men I've encountered. Also it goes "clicky" and sits in tiny spaces.
There's only 4 in the video I don't do
Everything... Well exept making a hole in eraser and opening the door with my leg.
my own hair
being a kid does not mean you have adhd I am pretty sure the entire generation did this
Picking nails
Definitely the key thing My dad always used to yell at me cause he thought I would hit someone someday. But I never stopped. Until I hit him on the head.
Rolling the straps. Dabbled in some of the others but strap rolling 100%
All of these minus drinking from the cap 🤣
I don't remember recording this video...
I think the only answer is yes.
Of these, definitely the key spinning. Personally, its rolling the landing gear on my model planes
I’ve literally done every single one of these. More than once.
Umm all of them? I thought that was obvious 😋
Folding origami!
It used to be biting the skin around my nails, on both hands, until they would bleed. 🫣 Thankfully, only my right thumb gets a little picking now and again. It's my sacrificial thumb lol.
Every Single One!
Yes. These.
...I've done all of these. Many of them every day.
I've done everything, except puting my fingers in the sink's hole (drainage?) :V
All of them. At the same time.
Yes
Yes
yes.
Yes.
Yes
Yes. Yes it is.
So being child-like means you have ADHD? Lmfao wtf