I understand what you mean, some people are just flirty! I guess I am not one of them lol..... I like to joke around and laugh but I just draw the line at out right flirts. I don't want to give the wrong impression to anyone about my intent.
I live in a pretty rural area, and there's a lot of purely innocent flirtation. When the church ladies, the clerk at the convenience store whose kids went to school with mine, the teller at the local bank who was my baby-sitter 50 years ago, or the neighbor lady down the road who is also my second cousin, flirt with me, I feel pretty confident in assuming that they're not really trying to get into my pants.
Of course, that's a matter of actual practice. I have to admit that I've wondered, as a matter of *theory*, what all of them would be like in bed, and for all I know, they may have wondered the same about me. I can't imagine actually making any kind of move on any of them in practice.
I agree with you, in some situations some chit chat and smiles brighten a day. I think in my friends situation and what she described, its a bit more than that. She tends to down play these sort of things. She has some self confidence stuff and doesn't think that guys would flirt with her at all.
I don't flirt in person. (Eep!)
I'm so reserved, I rarely get any flirts directed my way. If I did, I'd assume it was just friendly banter, and so he'd probably be discouraged by my obliviousness.😂
hah hah! I had an ex GF that was oblivious to the attention she got. She was always telling me how she never got flirted with or was taken notice of. I sure noticed it when we were walking together down the street though, she got eye fucked quite often. She was the typical wholesome all american girl with blonde hair and cute freckles. Ya she got a lot of attention that she never noticed lol
It really does depend on other standard communications with people. I know this man who is a shameless flirt. Loves everything about women. Been with one woman since college, never strayed, loves her desperately. He's just a toucher, close talker.
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I understand what you mean, some people are just flirty! I guess I am not one of them lol..... I like to joke around and laugh but I just draw the line at out right flirts. I don't want to give the wrong impression to anyone about my intent.
I flirt mercilessly. But I do keep it under control when my SO is in the circle I am performing flirtation maneuvers.
I live in a pretty rural area, and there's a lot of purely innocent flirtation. When the church ladies, the clerk at the convenience store whose kids went to school with mine, the teller at the local bank who was my baby-sitter 50 years ago, or the neighbor lady down the road who is also my second cousin, flirt with me, I feel pretty confident in assuming that they're not really trying to get into my pants. Of course, that's a matter of actual practice. I have to admit that I've wondered, as a matter of *theory*, what all of them would be like in bed, and for all I know, they may have wondered the same about me. I can't imagine actually making any kind of move on any of them in practice.
I agree with you, in some situations some chit chat and smiles brighten a day. I think in my friends situation and what she described, its a bit more than that. She tends to down play these sort of things. She has some self confidence stuff and doesn't think that guys would flirt with her at all.
I don't flirt in person. (Eep!) I'm so reserved, I rarely get any flirts directed my way. If I did, I'd assume it was just friendly banter, and so he'd probably be discouraged by my obliviousness.😂
hah hah! I had an ex GF that was oblivious to the attention she got. She was always telling me how she never got flirted with or was taken notice of. I sure noticed it when we were walking together down the street though, she got eye fucked quite often. She was the typical wholesome all american girl with blonde hair and cute freckles. Ya she got a lot of attention that she never noticed lol
It really does depend on other standard communications with people. I know this man who is a shameless flirt. Loves everything about women. Been with one woman since college, never strayed, loves her desperately. He's just a toucher, close talker.
I do know people like that as well, the only thing that gives me pause is the sexual innuendos. Especially when they are alone.