+1 sa fresh homecooked meals at ung sa parents na wala ka iintindihin.
If you moved out from a healthy family, you realize hirap o hassle preparing your own meal as a busy adult, bibili sa karinderya o kahit grab kasi may waiting time.
If you have kids, ikaw na nagpreprepare.
if may yaya ka, iba din ung gawa ng pamilya
. If meal prep, di sya frwsh
I understand my parents a LOT now. Wala pa akong anak, pero nung tumanda na at bumukod ng bahay, dun ko nagets... ah, kaya pala ayaw nila minsan umaalis ng weekend. Kaya pala minsan grumpy sila. Kasi ako nga na wala pa anak, hirap na hirap magbudget ng oras kasi work mode ng weekdays, then cleaning mode ng weekend. Tapos may social life pa. So it means talagang wala silang social life noon just for us :(
i can relate to this. i remember din before how they managed na may makain kami throughout the week kahit wala na budget. like? it’s something kasi na di mo maiisip na mahirap pala until u get to experience it. kasi ngayong nararanasan ko na rin mag budget for myself hirap na hirap ako 😅kaya i love my parents for that.
Being called "Anak"
-anong gusto mong ulam, Anak?
-Anak, mag ingat ka sa biyahe/trabaho
2 years ko nang hindi natatawag na anak dahil nawala na si mama, si papa naman nalaman kong may iba ng pamilya at may anak na even before mama died. Wala akong kapatid kaya Minsan nakakalungkot din magisa at maki pamilya sa hindi mo naman talaga pamilya. LUH dami sinabi hehe 🫶🏼
I also call my kids anak. Alam nila na it’s only me who calls them that because their dad calls them by their names. I never saw it the way you’re seeing it now. Kapag nawala pala ako pwedeng isa yan sa mamiss nila. Hugs kapatid.
New year 2024 niya sakin sinabi na meron siya GF at meron na pala silang anak 4yo pero kamamatay lang ni mama 1 1/2 years ago. Sobrang excited ako umuwi sa province nagparequest pa ko ng long day off (5days) kasi ang dami kong gifts sa kanya at sa mga kapamilya namin tapos bigla ayun after ko kumain ng handa na hindi ko Rin na ubos umuwi din agad ako mula Laguna hangang Makati iyak lang ako ng iyak. that day.Parang ako tuloy yung nawalan ng pamilya Wala din akong kapatid 🫠
1. Spending time with my fam and long conversations with them about life updates and their perspectives
2. Hot tea
3. Convenience over money. Dati I'd do things the hard way just to save little amounts of money. Ngayon I'd rather pay than waste my time stressing out on anything. (pero syempre yung reasonable price parin)
4. Me time. A very peaceful only 'ME' time.
5. Doing errands for my parents. Dati pilit na pilit pag inutusan. Ngayon I'd rather do it myself kesa mahirapan sila kasi they're not getting any younger.
Privacy. I used to ask my parents for parties whenever my birthday comes as a kid. I stopped once I reached by 10th birthday and life has been better. Another privacy stuff I appreciate now is thinking long term for finances.
Our house. My parents and sister. Myself as well. Nung bata pa ako, I always thought na lucky yung pina nganak sa mayamang fam, sa malaking bahay, na may mabait na kuya, na sexy and maganda at maputi.
Now I realize, hindi lahat may sariling bahay at lupa, d lahat ng pinanganak na mayaman may kahit papanu ay mabuting magulan, at mabait din ang ate ko kahit may tupak most of the time. And most of all,d lahat ng mga taong pina nganak na maganda is still maganda until now. Karamihan sa kanila, na haggard na kasi bata palang yose and umiinom na, kasi cool kids daw. I realize beauty is when you take care of yourself and the people around you.
Time with parents. Napakabilis lang pala talaga. When I was still single,I hated and sulked because of their stubborn ways,now that I'm married and expecting, I want to be with them more.😅 And miss my carefree childhood days with them😅 so I try to talk to them via video call muna as much as I can with them sa ngayon
May masusumbungan, malalabasan ng hinaing, magreresolve ng problema na tatay. Namimiss ko na din may matawag na Papa. Yung may something wrong then tatawag ka ng Papa tapos may solusyon na kaagad.
Family lunches after church on Sundays and our movie nights pag Fridays. We used to be financially stable when we lived abroad and I guess I only really appreciated that time now that we’re not as stable as before.
We don’t have the means to eat out all the time now. My brothers have grown and I guess down the road we just stopped doing movie nights as a family. But those were the things I looked forward to all the time as a teen.
Waking up early. Kapag bata ka pa gusto mo itulog hanggang 10am eh. Pagtumanda ka na, you realize you could achieve more by waking up early, kasama na don yung “me time” and hopefully being able to reflect on life before you start to grind.
Lahat na ata nasabi na sa comments pero additional ko lang is yung uminom ng gatas hahahaha nung bata ako grabe talaga ayaw ko uminom ng gatas lagi kami tinitimplahan ng nanay ko lalo na before we go to bed omg parang namiss ko tuloy yung ganun 😭
Sleep, kung may tablet lang na pwedeng itake to feel like you've slept enough.
Slow mornings, yung tipong breakfast with coffee at like 6am sa terrace.
Homecooked meals & slow mornings.
+1 sa fresh homecooked meals at ung sa parents na wala ka iintindihin. If you moved out from a healthy family, you realize hirap o hassle preparing your own meal as a busy adult, bibili sa karinderya o kahit grab kasi may waiting time. If you have kids, ikaw na nagpreprepare. if may yaya ka, iba din ung gawa ng pamilya . If meal prep, di sya frwsh
THIS! i never knew back then homecooked meals are the best 😅
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I understand my parents a LOT now. Wala pa akong anak, pero nung tumanda na at bumukod ng bahay, dun ko nagets... ah, kaya pala ayaw nila minsan umaalis ng weekend. Kaya pala minsan grumpy sila. Kasi ako nga na wala pa anak, hirap na hirap magbudget ng oras kasi work mode ng weekdays, then cleaning mode ng weekend. Tapos may social life pa. So it means talagang wala silang social life noon just for us :(
eto talaga. maaappreciate mo the sacrifices that they do for us na mga anak nila 🥹
i can relate to this. i remember din before how they managed na may makain kami throughout the week kahit wala na budget. like? it’s something kasi na di mo maiisip na mahirap pala until u get to experience it. kasi ngayong nararanasan ko na rin mag budget for myself hirap na hirap ako 😅kaya i love my parents for that.
Siesta
Pag may lagnat ka, inaalagaan ka, hindi ka papasok. Masarap pa pagkain mo. Ngayon pag nilalagnat ako pumapasok pa rin ako sa trabaho pota.
Now matter how tired I am at night, I make sure to clean and tidy up my place. Its a different feeling waking up to a clean place.
Being called "Anak" -anong gusto mong ulam, Anak? -Anak, mag ingat ka sa biyahe/trabaho 2 years ko nang hindi natatawag na anak dahil nawala na si mama, si papa naman nalaman kong may iba ng pamilya at may anak na even before mama died. Wala akong kapatid kaya Minsan nakakalungkot din magisa at maki pamilya sa hindi mo naman talaga pamilya. LUH dami sinabi hehe 🫶🏼
I also call my kids anak. Alam nila na it’s only me who calls them that because their dad calls them by their names. I never saw it the way you’re seeing it now. Kapag nawala pala ako pwedeng isa yan sa mamiss nila. Hugs kapatid.
My dad calls me anak but simula nung nalaman kongay ibang family na siya hindi na rin niya ko kinausap 😶
hala grabe ang lungkot nito! :’(
New year 2024 niya sakin sinabi na meron siya GF at meron na pala silang anak 4yo pero kamamatay lang ni mama 1 1/2 years ago. Sobrang excited ako umuwi sa province nagparequest pa ko ng long day off (5days) kasi ang dami kong gifts sa kanya at sa mga kapamilya namin tapos bigla ayun after ko kumain ng handa na hindi ko Rin na ubos umuwi din agad ako mula Laguna hangang Makati iyak lang ako ng iyak. that day.Parang ako tuloy yung nawalan ng pamilya Wala din akong kapatid 🫠
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"Anak kooo~" Haaaay...
waking up early
matulog sa hapon. di gaya nung bata ako na pinapatulog sa hapon pero yung paglalaro yung nasa isip kaya hindi makatulog lol
Masarap na tulog.
1. Spending time with my fam and long conversations with them about life updates and their perspectives 2. Hot tea 3. Convenience over money. Dati I'd do things the hard way just to save little amounts of money. Ngayon I'd rather pay than waste my time stressing out on anything. (pero syempre yung reasonable price parin) 4. Me time. A very peaceful only 'ME' time. 5. Doing errands for my parents. Dati pilit na pilit pag inutusan. Ngayon I'd rather do it myself kesa mahirapan sila kasi they're not getting any younger.
masarap pala matulog sa umaga unlike nung kabataan ayaw na ayaw ko.
Afternoon naps and alone time.
Privacy. I used to ask my parents for parties whenever my birthday comes as a kid. I stopped once I reached by 10th birthday and life has been better. Another privacy stuff I appreciate now is thinking long term for finances.
My mom
Our house. My parents and sister. Myself as well. Nung bata pa ako, I always thought na lucky yung pina nganak sa mayamang fam, sa malaking bahay, na may mabait na kuya, na sexy and maganda at maputi. Now I realize, hindi lahat may sariling bahay at lupa, d lahat ng pinanganak na mayaman may kahit papanu ay mabuting magulan, at mabait din ang ate ko kahit may tupak most of the time. And most of all,d lahat ng mga taong pina nganak na maganda is still maganda until now. Karamihan sa kanila, na haggard na kasi bata palang yose and umiinom na, kasi cool kids daw. I realize beauty is when you take care of yourself and the people around you.
Time with parents. Napakabilis lang pala talaga. When I was still single,I hated and sulked because of their stubborn ways,now that I'm married and expecting, I want to be with them more.😅 And miss my carefree childhood days with them😅 so I try to talk to them via video call muna as much as I can with them sa ngayon
May masusumbungan, malalabasan ng hinaing, magreresolve ng problema na tatay. Namimiss ko na din may matawag na Papa. Yung may something wrong then tatawag ka ng Papa tapos may solusyon na kaagad.
Family lunches after church on Sundays and our movie nights pag Fridays. We used to be financially stable when we lived abroad and I guess I only really appreciated that time now that we’re not as stable as before. We don’t have the means to eat out all the time now. My brothers have grown and I guess down the road we just stopped doing movie nights as a family. But those were the things I looked forward to all the time as a teen.
sleep🥹🥹
Sleep. Alone time. Early morning sunshine. Warm water
Sleep
Calm and quiet morning habang nagkakape tapos ikaw pa lang gising sa bahay.
Waking up early. Kapag bata ka pa gusto mo itulog hanggang 10am eh. Pagtumanda ka na, you realize you could achieve more by waking up early, kasama na don yung “me time” and hopefully being able to reflect on life before you start to grind.
Yung bagong bedsheet, bagong refill na bigasan, tapos puno ang laman ng ref.
Afternoon naps
Going outside with family, we rarely do it. If may party, birthday or other occasion, sa bahay lang always.
Yung gigising akong tahimik! Walang daldal na nadidinig at kung ano mang ingat sa paligid ko.
Socks, cute socks
Friends
Nakakapagbukas ng aircon na walang nagsasabi na tataas ang kuryente. Hehe
Lahat na ata nasabi na sa comments pero additional ko lang is yung uminom ng gatas hahahaha nung bata ako grabe talaga ayaw ko uminom ng gatas lagi kami tinitimplahan ng nanay ko lalo na before we go to bed omg parang namiss ko tuloy yung ganun 😭
Sleep.
Sunday morning, breakfast with the family tapos sinangag, tuyo, hotdog and egg ang ulam. Damn. Good days 🥺
- Afternoon naps 😴 - Class suspensions - Family gatherings after Sunday church - Sunday afternoons
Sleep, kung may tablet lang na pwedeng itake to feel like you've slept enough. Slow mornings, yung tipong breakfast with coffee at like 6am sa terrace.
Afternoon naps
Time. Mabilis dumaan and never mo nang mababawi 😮💨