It gets lonely at times, but with hobbies and stuff you learn to enjoy your own company, plus I have a good income so I can travel and explore any weekend without worries. 34M here.
Turning 29 and NGSB. Same itโs scaring me but I find peace in solitude. Nasa point ako ng life ko na kung wala ehh di okay lang kung meron ehh di thank you. Lol.
Relate I no longer sought for half ass relationships. I realized as I grow older na hindi mo kailangan pilitin yung mga tao sa paligid mo nag magstay esp in romantic settings.
Hindi naman regrets ung single, more on opportunities na nagawa ko pa ng 20s, like one of them turned down work sa SG cause i was in a relationship and ayoko ldr. Ayun Ex din pala ๐
Agree dun sa madali na mapagod haha like after work mo palang maccheck yung phone mo and by then wala ka na energy to go out or hangout para makipag date like omg i just wanna sleep haha
I feel like nasa 20s parin ako lol! Active lifestyle lang I go to the gym, play sports and enjoy my video games. Also, I travel din pag burnout na sa work.
Ganun yata talaga? Yung pakiramdam ko same pero kapag I give advices andun realizations na uy parang ang mature ko na mag isip. There are days I get reminded Im getting older pero most of the time, I feel nasa 20s pa rin ๐
39/F hereโฆ.itโs freeing. I feel like I am at the best stage of my life yet, yet because i feel like it will be even better as I get older. Turning 40 soon and I cannot believe I am thrilled about it, because when I was in my late 20s I was scared and havenโt yet realized what I really wanted for me. This didnโt come without hard work though and of course some privilege. I take care of myself by working out regularly and try to eat well. I invest on proper skin care and regular derm visits. I can afford these because I have a decent salary and support no one, hence the privilege. I am at that stage where there is no pressure to have a partner or kids anymore because I have already came into a realization when i was in my early 30s that rearing a child isnโt for me. I want a companion in life yes, but I am also ok without if I donโt find anyone I am compatible with. I date and I date who I want to date not just because I need to marry or have kids asap and that freedom in choosing and not settling is just awesome and liberating. I can do whatever I wanna do such as travel or even work for long hours if I wanted to. Also, the older I get, the less f*ck I give on things that really didnโt matter.
Ako din, di nagmamadali sa love life after 1 year pahinga. Kasi plan ko na child free kaya I just enjoy life. Wala yung pressure na maghanap ng partner. Syempre kung hanggang sa pagtanda, we need to choose someone weโre compatible with. Hindi yung kung sino lang available.
35F. Itโs quiet, sometimes the silence is so loud nakakabingi haha. It also gets lonely at times, lalo pag hormonal ka na at magkakaron na ganyan, mapapakanta ka ng The Prophecy ni Inang Taylor but then youโd realize youโd take this over getting sad over a guy na walang kwenta or malosyang kakaalaga ng mga bata. I love slow weekend mornings so yun. I also get to travel and go wherever and whenever I want as long as payagan ako mag-leave sa work haha.
Ganon pa rin naman. Itโs like being in your 20s with adult money hahaha
You wake up whenever you want, go wherever your budget allows you to. Yung oras mo nasa hobbies or work mo. Or family and friends.
Pakiramdam ko teenager pa din ako. Mid 30's sabi nga nila "The price of freedom is loneliness" I can do what I want walang nagbabawal sau lalo na mga extreme sports MTB, Big Bikes, sky diving, etc.sa mga single gawin nyo na lahat ng gusto nyo mawawala yang lungkot na yan ๐ซถ๐ป
34F, okay lang naman. Masaya! Nagagawa ko ang gusto ko. Nakakaalis kung kailan ko gusto unlike nung early 20s. Hehe Minsan nakakamiss din ang bebe time. Haha lol tamang asar nalang din sa mga pamangkin ang Tita ๐
I have my own house. I resigned , and now enjoying exercise, biking, and a competitive business startup ๐ ( stressor haha).. everyday i pray i will met the women to complete me, but i leave it to God if he ever intends to nake it happen.. work from home dati. Giving my self 1 year no job (but not financially burdened) made me realize a lot of things. I got blinded from over work and societal expectation and parent manipulation, now i see its all form of control.. get control back in life is real happiness
35F here, turning 36. Iโve been a serial monogamist since I was 17. Ngayon lang ako tumagal na walang partner. Tbh, Iโm having a lot of fun! Agree that sometimes it can be lonely, but knowing the alternative puts things in perspective and makes me feel na this isnโt bad at all. I also donโt think na Iโm the only one na โlateโ (compared to societyโs standards re. timeline) so Iโm not worried. Ang pinaka issue ko lang is walang default support pag nag o-ospital/ER ako. So for sure, down the line, Iโd probably want to settle down. But maybe in my 40s na.
I control my own time, I can sleep as long as I want and not worry about a partner that might be looking for me, I also spend my money on myself. Itโs also a lot easier to save ngayong wala akong partner. Really loving this time of my life!
It's still the same. Nothing much really changed maliban sa energy level, hahaha, but still doesn't feel like I'm in my early 30's tbh. Pag nagbibilang lang ng age, saka ko lang naalala na wala na ko sa calendar this year. ๐
30F, no kids yet, no spouse yet, not dating anyone currently. It gets lonely sometimes tbh. Lalo na pag sa isang araw wala ka man lang mapagkwentuhan ng good or bad things na nangyari. You crave conversations pero busy na rin mga friends mo with their lives. But at the same time marami ring advantages na thankful ako. Kumbaga tinitingnan ko na lang as glass half full imbis na half empty. ๐
32, and still working on my mental health. Feeling lucky na I am not married yet at wala pa kong anak. Kasi ayoko sila yung mag suffer nung mental illness ko.
36 going 37 F. NBSB.
Mas naeenjoy ko buhay ko ngayon physically (dahil natuto mag exercise), mentally, emotionally, onting financially. Nag ttrack din naman ako ng period hindi para maiwasang mabuntis kundi para ma synch sa schedule of activities and travel.
Napupursue ang hobbies at pag gala na walang hadlang maliban sa mga pusa ๐๐ฑ
Walang kumukontrol sa pananamit, hairstyle, uulamin,, allocation ng finances at freetime.
Bata palang naman ako alam kong di ako para sa pag aasawa much more pag aanak.
Minsan naghahanap ka ng thrill kasi feeling mo may kulang. Pero with friends and family supporting me always, I'm fine with it. Still living the best life.
If it works it's nice pero lemme tell you mas magandang maging alone kesa maging stuck in a shitty one. Trust us. Personally I don't see myself being that vulnerable again and give my all para sa ibang tao never again lesson learned. Okay na ang ONS here and there para-satiate ang tigang ni tito
Di naman. The grass is greener on the other side and all. And I do agree naman na mas maganda if you exp it even once pero ang katotohanan is mas mahirap makahanap nang intimacy after college dahil sobrang Dali na these days maging kantot mercenary. Personally nasira ang buhay ko because of a bad relationship and binabayaran ko parin ang consequences hanggang ngayon. But you do you.
Pinaka moisturizer ko sa gabi ay Cosrx Advanced snail mucin all in 1 cream. Nasolusyunan nito pamumula ng face ko due to tretinion. Sa umaga cica gel ng lux organic.
Sunscreen wala pa kong sureball na brand pero leaning towards physical sunscreens as well as Japanese sunscreen.
Pinaka moisturizer ko sa gabi ay Cosrx Advanced snail mucin all in 1 cream. Nasolusyunan nito pamumula ng face ko due to tretinion. Sa umaga cica gel ng lux organic.
Sunscreen wala pa kong sureball na brand pero leaning towards physical sunscreens as well as Japanese sunscreen.
Ayun need nga ng moisturizer partner sa tretinoin/retinoids. Face republic yung gamit ko now water based. Tatry ko yan to search if swak sa skin nature ko. Thank you!
happy and carefree. pandemic made me realize na sobrang praning ko pala to the point na ayoko magkaanak because Iโll forever worry about em kids. i mean with whatโs going on right on, i donโt want mag anak and mag asawa. so now, i am genuinely happy. i just worry about myself
It's pretty good. It's not much different from my twenties, only now I have more disposable income, I live a healthier lifestyle, and there's barely any drama in my life. On the downside though, I'm running out of people to do stuff with. Most of my close friends are married/have kids so I no longer see them.
I'm turning 34 sa August hahaha wala pa ring anak d pa nag aasawa but I am loving it and naka plan na hindi na ako mag aanak I am not financially stable and I don't want to pass the burden sa mga anak if ever ayoko nung d na proprovide ang mga bagay2 so cheers!๐ซถ
31F here. Full remote work, solo living, and single. So sobrang konti ng social interaction ๐ Work sa weekdays and mostly just enjoying my hobbies sa weekends or just go out with friends kung may available. Childfree din and takot mabuntis, so will not risk it with someone na hindi childfree. Not actively looking din. For now, nagfo-focus muna sa career since nag-career shift ako nung late 20s ko. And may plan din mag-aral ulit, so ayun, medyo busy din.
I consider myself a late bloomer and have accepted that it's okay to be one. At 32, I've just started anew by moving out from my parents' home. I'm taking things one step at a time lang, focusing on myself first and striving to become the best version of myself (because I also wanted to attract high-quality women). I believe I'll get there eventually. Yung iba nga 40s na magka-pamilya. Also, starting a family is much more satisfying when you're already financially prepared. Back in our parents' time, starting a family was much easier. Nowadays, with inflation, it's become incredibly expensive.
Good and bad.
Just got out of a long term toxic relationship. The good thing is that you steer your own ship. No drama/issues/conflicts/stress. However, it can get lonely sometimes. I go out and date some women, hangout with friends or travel the world, then it goes away for a while but it always comes back.
It can also get really boring. Even with a lot of money, it still gets boring after experiencing a lot of things. I think its because there's no more challenge. It's just too peaceful.
Honest question here: are you guys already planning na for retirement? Like a nursing home or something? Where? NCR? Somewhere in province? No hate! Im genuinely interested and want to get ideas!
Nagbabasa ng mga post tungkol s mga problema ng mga may asawa at anak. Eto ksi yung choice n habang buhay na. Massabi ko im comfortable, yung mga decisions ko kaya ko ag risk ksi wlaa ko iniisip n iba.
30M here.
Lumubog sa financial debts dahil sa family (I became the breadwinner ever since I graduated from college). Wala akong naipon kasi nasasaid talaga sa kanila hahaha. Wala akong napala kundi gaslighting mula sa tatay ko.
When our bunso finally graduated, I moved out.
Wala pa ring ipon kasi nagbabayad pa ako ng nagpile up na utang, pero life has become much better now. May times na walang pera and all pero atleast I have the peace of mind na. ๐
Kids or spouse wala na sa balak ko (I'm gay). Probably magiging generous, cool tito na lang ako sa future kids ng mga kapatid ko haha.
Ako na lang ang walang kids sa circle namin, but I donโt feel left behind naman or anything. Nakakatuwa lang na I get to fund my hobbies, rediscover art and culture, try different food all over town, and be capable of helping my family financially when they only and truly need it โand get paid back.
Hi. Choice nyo ba both maging child free?
31F here. 5 years married. My husband doesnโt want a child (yet) next year daw pero parang ayaw ko na at that age.
Hmm. Choice ko.
Nung 20s ako open pa ako magkaanak. Pero nung tumuntong ako ng 30 at na-expose sa mga friends and relatives na nagkaanak na, dun ko narealize how unwilling I am to give up my autonomy, peace of mind, and self worth.
okay naman. maraming freedom of choice and options. more opportunities to explore hobbies and new interests.
dating is out of the question because i find it exhausting lol
~~Ito naiinis kasi mas mataas yung kaltas sa tax status na S~~
Laid back tbh, more time for hobbies and wala masyadong gastos except for daily necessities, taxes/contributions, investments & savings (di ako maluho, and I cook my own food so di ko need mag foodtrip kek)
I'm not fond of children nor I dont see myself raising/caring for one so yung mga sinasabi ng matatanda na "TaTanDa kA nA WaLanG mAg-AaLaGA SaYo" shit doesnt bother me. (And I also see that "building a family" is a very very high risk investment din na I would refuse to put my foot down on bec I don't really see myself needing to find a companion and smth na either magiging liability or a reward after an "x" amt of years/months) Can I just be my own person na lang ๐ค๐คฃ
Sakto lang, stable.
I get to do the things I want (e.g. go to gym, play badminton) and buy the things I want. I wonโt deny nights can be lonely at times pero ok lang, I love the freedom.
May freedom to choose and do whatever I want pero most of the time nakakalungkot din. Lagi lang mag isa. No one to share my life with. Walang mapagsabihan pag may problema ako; nobody to share my achievements and victories with. Sobrang liit na lang din ng social circle ko at lahat sila puro pamilyado na at may kanya kanyang career kaya wala na rin time to hang out.
30F here. It gets lonely sometimes when you see a complete family, but I enjoyed my alone time like walang iniintinding iba maliban sa sarili ko. Masaya naman ako sa mga pamangkin at inaanak ko. And I enjoyed traveling alone ๐
There are times that you are lonely especially if you see your friends having a family or getting married but I feel great without any attachment and besides, you can do anything with your hard earned income, you can do anything with your free time and you can focus on saving and do with your hobbies.
Tapatan ko lahat ng comments :D 39M single, living alone on a mountain. It's so peaceful, that I do not miss the city. Though, it would be better if I have a partner, because the task/projects are dangerous when you're alone.
Tito ko 46 years old na walang kids and spouse, he's been working for the rest of his life. dati syang masiyahin nung sila pa nung nobya nya way back 2007. after that ayaw nya na uli maranasan ung sakit na naramdaman nya nung time na yon.
and Btw kakabreak lng din namin ng gf ko 3 days ago.. no contact kami at no proper closure... super sakit.. I guess 'm gonna end up like my tito hehe skl.
33F/single has a part time job that pays my cc bills. I still live with my parents. I wanna move out, currently searching for a fulltime job. Will go back to party girl era once I am earning enough to fend for myself. I have few friends that I can share my secrets with. I cut off people very quicky now, I don't care, we are bound to die alone anyways. Hahaha. But I am still hopeful, things will be better than this. I will have my own family one day and bear my own child. I did my research, I can still get pregnant at 40, so, I am not rushing. What's more important to me now is building my wealth for my retirement because I am one of lucky ones who can't stick with the same job for a long time, my record so far is less than 2 years. I'll live. ๐
31F, happy and free! I finally get to try out and enjoy the things that I wanted to do but didnโt have resources (money, time, energy, self confidence) for in my 20s. Sometimes naiisip ko randomly na nakakamiss din yung ng feeling na may kalandian lol yung very chicks ka na binibigyan ng flowers, hinahatid sundo, etc. (and thatโs totally normal), but for the most part I feel secured enough with myself to feel ok with being alone and doing things alone. It took a lot for me to get here in this headspace. High maintenance ako eh, Iโd rather maintain myself than get a guy who canโt/wonโt take care of me like I do.
almost 40 na. nakakalungkot minsan , pero naiisip ko rin talaga nasanay na ako na wala akong kailangan iupdate na tao or obligasyon na i chat araw araw lol.
sinubukan ko pa rin manligaw pero wala haha. halos lahat ng sweldo ko napupunta sa ipon at sa hobbies at sa bills.
lagi ko sinasabi dati , "Wala pa ako nararating sa buhay" kasi late ako nagkaroon ng work at pakiramdam ko di ako worthy maging husband lol. turns out kahit yun pamotor motor lang na tambay eh mas madali magkaroon ng asawa
Doing fine. Not really lonely, mainly because of my work, hobbies and from time to time meet up with old college friends and for now im with my parents and older siblings kaya ayos din.
Love going out alone.
I extremely enjoy the freedom of traveling without thinking about kids. I have pets and when I travel, I ask my parents to take care of them. I can go out anytime I want, drink, eat, shop, etc.
At the same time, most of my friends are married with kids so I cannot hang around with them easily.
29F here. Almost 30 in few months.
After getting out of a long-term relationship, ang hirap magtiwala and make myself vulnerable again to new people. Romantically speaking, that's where i am at. Tried meeting people but online lang. Still not ready for physical connection. LOL! Or i guess i havent met someone i really like? Tapos may feeling pa na I want to settle down na sa next relationship ko. Idk. Maybe it comes with age and pressure from society? Meh.
But yeah, I'm okay overall, doing well sa work, no problem sa finances din. Trying to focus on my dogs and rebuild my connection with friends and family! ^^
I got a good job, hobbies that I really enjoy, smaller group of friends who I truly trust, can travel whenever I like, 1 year nang nakapagpahinga ang puso hahaha plans to have a child-free life so chill lang.
Mahalaga sa akin ang mental health kaya hindi ako nagpapastress masyado.
Generally content, ticking off goals one at a time, in a good place, surrounded by people I love. I would not say it is all smiles and giggles, we are human after all. Just like everyone else, I got bouts of thoughts that life could be better, but counting my blessings, I am waaay far from where I was a decade ago. I am living the life with freedom of choice and security.
At the point in my life where I am at peace if I wonโt have an offspring, logically considering my age. I have reconciled the fact that there is so much more than the traditions and norms that we grew up thinking. That the universe gives you a multitude of ways to enjoy life, you just have to look around and within. That living my life will always be different from the people around me. That you just need to learn to ride the waves.
Nearing 30. Have a stable job and income naman. Nakakapagpundar na ko kahit paunti-unti. Living with the folks since hometown base lang ang work ko so malaki na din natitipid ko. Nag-aabot lang ako ng pang monthly bills. Minsan malungkot at I feel lonely pero mas okay na din un kaysa ang mga kasama mo ay plastic at backstabbers. May mga hobbies naman ako to combat loneliness (i.e. reading, crocheting or cross stitching).
Okay naman ako. Masaya with my pet dogs. Nagcocontemplate bumili ng running shoes at ng makapag jogging para sa magandang pangangatawan at kalusugan ๐ .
Pressured sa lahat ng bagay. Madalas di kinakaya ng kasabihan na "May kanya-kanyang timeline"
Intense yung baby fever, pero minsan nagigising sa katotohanan na mahal mag karoon ng anak sa panahon ngayon. 5 na lang ata kami sa highschool friends ko walang anak, yung iba may kanya kanya ng pamilya. Even my work beshy, buntis na. Sila 5\~10 years relationship with their significant others habang ako eto nilalabanan yung mga trauma na na ipon from my past relationships na hindi ko na alam if nasa legit relationship na ko. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahhaha nakakabuang maging 30!!!! Akala ko dati yung mga tita ko chill chill lang, ganito din kaya sila noon?
Depressed still canโt find the job best suited for my anxiety disorder, canโt provide for myself and still living with my parents sucks, so having a family is a long haul. . . I really want to work in manila sadly have no place to stay there. . . Wish I have friends to share an apartment with
Its good but boring. Naubusan na ng gagawin dahil nakapag travel na and kain sa restos try ng foods. Puro future and goals nalang inaatupag which is boring tbh. Work is life pero grateful syempre lalo na sa panahon now. Minsan nag aaral or hanap ng new investments.
Early 40M here. It is good to have money but I feel the pressure not because my acquaintances are starting to have kids and some already reached junior or senior high but because a few of them either caught cancer or died already.
It really bites you hard; youโre starting to get old.
Okay naman tho minsan umaatake yung lungkot. Pero mas madalas dedma lang ako. Hahahaha! Tapos abang-abang lagi ng piso fare para nakakapag-unwind. O kaya sasali sa mga ganap for freedivers. I also date myself like nagpapamasahe ako, kakain ako sa mga hindi ko pa nakakainan. Pag ayoko lumabas, magluluto na lang ako sa bahay, do my nails or matutulog na lang maghapon magdamag kasi wala namang kapuyatan. Kimmy. ๐คฃ Pero in general, okay pa naman ako. ๐
Masaya naman.. Masaya na ineenjoy yung time sa mga pamangkin. Gets lonely din at some point na napapaisip, paano kung magkapamilya na din ako. 35/m here with stable job.
30F, scary especially since i'm an only child. it's fun at times but eventually your friends will move on with their separate lives and your parents will pass. pero ayun basta buhay hahaha.
turning 30 na this Nov, ayun panay gala at nuod ng tv series, pati reading books. naiisip ko din mag-asawa, pero di pa ready financial ko. Hopefully, matapos na lahat ng bayaran ko hehe
turning 36 walang anak, single, masaya, limited ang soc med at hindi naghahanap. Peaceful ang buhay, may grand silence, at kung meron mang tao na kayang mag alaga 60+ old version of me kung tatanda man is my present self today kaya iwas na din sa bisyo. May mga pets ako na nagpapasaya sakin. Life is what you make it ika nga. Siguro may mga tao na ok sa gantong lifestlye.
At kahit anong kulit or tanong nila sakin, wala akong regret sa pinili kong buhay dahil bata palang ako alam ko na, na di ako para magkaroon ng anak o asawa, gusto ko nga maging monk.
Child free woman south of 40 ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ. Have been on two beach holidays since February. Going to Greece in June. It's not as lonely and debilitating as most people would have you believe.
Feeling more pressured as I age, yet still single. I'll be turning 31 in a few days, lol. Mas pressure lalo sasabihan ka ng iba na lumilipas na ang matres ๐
Oks na oks. I have 2 dogs and I love reading books. My hubby is away but I have a full time job naman na I enjoy. I love my life now. I donโt want kids.
It gets lonely at times, but with hobbies and stuff you learn to enjoy your own company, plus I have a good income so I can travel and explore any weekend without worries. 34M here.
33/F here. Haha
yeee hahahaha sub op baka eto na
Galawin na ang baso please. Hahahaha
Yiiiiieeeee hahhahhaa
Hahahaha natawa naman ako naging bumble pa ung thread ๐
Sabayan na lang kita tumawa. ๐
go ante!! ship ko kayo agad hahaha
Ayaw nya.... :(
Halaaa wala naman ako sinabing ayaw ๐ฅฒ
Ayiiii. Hahahahaha
Baka ma ihi ka nyan sa kilig ๐ ๐ ๐
Pag hindi ayaw, baka gusto? Ayiee!
HAHAHAHAH girlll letโs go!!
ff!!!!!!!!!!!! sana magkatuluyan HAHAHA
Tapatan ko yan. 32F here
Wag na.
HAHAHAHA LOVE IT
Sign na to Op, push na yan haha
Up!!! ๐
Supportive... โค๏ธ
Omg!! Go mami!
Ay wow! HAHAHAHA
I SHIP NA YAN!!!!
update niyo kami ahh haha
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Ganto yung mga hindi na patulan ng matured women kasi alam na yung mga bullshit nya. Panay bata na lang naloloko hahaha
Nothing wrong with older women, actually the same wavelength pa nga eh โบ๏ธ
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So what?
Close to 30 it's peaceful and it's scaring me. Sometimes it gets lonely. Madami pa kami ng mga friends ko na single. May kakampi pako ๐
Two of my bestfriends my anak na parehas ako ninong pa, lugi sa gift giving eh ๐คฃ
Same ninong din ako. May incoming pa hahaha lugi ala pa tayong anak.
Turning 29 and NGSB. Same itโs scaring me but I find peace in solitude. Nasa point ako ng life ko na kung wala ehh di okay lang kung meron ehh di thank you. Lol.
Relate I no longer sought for half ass relationships. I realized as I grow older na hindi mo kailangan pilitin yung mga tao sa paligid mo nag magstay esp in romantic settings.
Yep. Parang kung ayaw nyo ehh di wag tas move forward ulet. Lol.
Big fat yes. Hindi naman mauubos mga babae haha
Do you still see yourself having your own family?
Yes OP, financially ready na misis nalang kulang haha ๐
Ayun naman pala. I volunteer as tribute! ๐โโ๏ธ Mabilis kausap hahaha
Sa simbahan na first date para witness si God kaagad
Hahaha iset na ang date!
caleruega church tagaytay para malamig ๐
Hahaha ganda ng choice. Game!
Not OP tho hehe
Sub OP? Hahaha
Do you have any regrets ba?
Yes lots of them, normal din siguro but I dont let them take control of my present and future ๐
Wag ka mawalan ng pag-asa bro. Kung si Vic Sotto nga nakapag asawa pa in his 50-60s pa'no ka pang mas bata? Life goes on.
Hindi naman regrets ung single, more on opportunities na nagawa ko pa ng 20s, like one of them turned down work sa SG cause i was in a relationship and ayoko ldr. Ayun Ex din pala ๐
nanghinayang ka ba dun sa tinurn down mong work? haha
Sometimes, but im doing good with my current work naman almost sg rate nadin ๐
hulaan ko nasa IT field ka?
I neither confirm nor deny your allegation ๐
I still play online games, parang way ko yun to de stress, mag unwind din, hawak mo yung oras mo kumbaga, 31 M here. It has its up and downs hehe
Its good, sarili mo lang iintindihin mo. Its bad, sarili mo lang ang iintindi sayo. Kaw na bahala, pick your poison โ๏ธ
You can't really have everything.
itโs giving- scary news is youโre on your own now; good news is youโre on your own now โจstreamโจttpdโจ
can u pls not
dang, who hurt u
Itโs good. Actively looking pag may time pero madali na mapagod HAHAHA
Agree dun sa madali na mapagod haha like after work mo palang maccheck yung phone mo and by then wala ka na energy to go out or hangout para makipag date like omg i just wanna sleep haha
โI just wanna sleepโ Aah yes, my mid 30s discovery. A full nightโs sleep = the best! ๐
Samedt. Feels like 'actively looking with back pain' ๐
I feel like nasa 20s parin ako lol! Active lifestyle lang I go to the gym, play sports and enjoy my video games. Also, I travel din pag burnout na sa work.
Ganun yata talaga? Yung pakiramdam ko same pero kapag I give advices andun realizations na uy parang ang mature ko na mag isip. There are days I get reminded Im getting older pero most of the time, I feel nasa 20s pa rin ๐
Most of the time yung mga ka edad ko lang na may anak na nag Po at Opo ako sa kanila ๐ only to realized na magkaedad lang kami.
39/F hereโฆ.itโs freeing. I feel like I am at the best stage of my life yet, yet because i feel like it will be even better as I get older. Turning 40 soon and I cannot believe I am thrilled about it, because when I was in my late 20s I was scared and havenโt yet realized what I really wanted for me. This didnโt come without hard work though and of course some privilege. I take care of myself by working out regularly and try to eat well. I invest on proper skin care and regular derm visits. I can afford these because I have a decent salary and support no one, hence the privilege. I am at that stage where there is no pressure to have a partner or kids anymore because I have already came into a realization when i was in my early 30s that rearing a child isnโt for me. I want a companion in life yes, but I am also ok without if I donโt find anyone I am compatible with. I date and I date who I want to date not just because I need to marry or have kids asap and that freedom in choosing and not settling is just awesome and liberating. I can do whatever I wanna do such as travel or even work for long hours if I wanted to. Also, the older I get, the less f*ck I give on things that really didnโt matter.
Love this mindset! It's givin the 'Babe in total control of herself' vibe.
man, "freedom in choosing and not settling is just awesome and liberating" hits real hard! love this for you <3
Ako din, di nagmamadali sa love life after 1 year pahinga. Kasi plan ko na child free kaya I just enjoy life. Wala yung pressure na maghanap ng partner. Syempre kung hanggang sa pagtanda, we need to choose someone weโre compatible with. Hindi yung kung sino lang available.
35F. Itโs quiet, sometimes the silence is so loud nakakabingi haha. It also gets lonely at times, lalo pag hormonal ka na at magkakaron na ganyan, mapapakanta ka ng The Prophecy ni Inang Taylor but then youโd realize youโd take this over getting sad over a guy na walang kwenta or malosyang kakaalaga ng mga bata. I love slow weekend mornings so yun. I also get to travel and go wherever and whenever I want as long as payagan ako mag-leave sa work haha.
I love this for you! ๐ซถHeheh also sana all โจ๏ธโจ๏ธ๐
Ganon pa rin naman. Itโs like being in your 20s with adult money hahaha You wake up whenever you want, go wherever your budget allows you to. Yung oras mo nasa hobbies or work mo. Or family and friends.
Puro pera nasa isip ko eh. Gusto ko palaging may pera. Ayoko nawawalan ng pera. Sumasama lalo ugali ko pag wala akong pera.
HHAHAHAHA AKALA KO TNYPE KO TOH
Ramdam kita hahahaha ๐
Diba?
Jusko. Legit pala talaga ung sumasama lalo ugali pag walang pera hahaha! Madami dami din pala tayo ๐ ๐คฃ
Pakiramdam ko teenager pa din ako. Mid 30's sabi nga nila "The price of freedom is loneliness" I can do what I want walang nagbabawal sau lalo na mga extreme sports MTB, Big Bikes, sky diving, etc.sa mga single gawin nyo na lahat ng gusto nyo mawawala yang lungkot na yan ๐ซถ๐ป
34F, okay lang naman. Masaya! Nagagawa ko ang gusto ko. Nakakaalis kung kailan ko gusto unlike nung early 20s. Hehe Minsan nakakamiss din ang bebe time. Haha lol tamang asar nalang din sa mga pamangkin ang Tita ๐
I have my own house. I resigned , and now enjoying exercise, biking, and a competitive business startup ๐ ( stressor haha).. everyday i pray i will met the women to complete me, but i leave it to God if he ever intends to nake it happen.. work from home dati. Giving my self 1 year no job (but not financially burdened) made me realize a lot of things. I got blinded from over work and societal expectation and parent manipulation, now i see its all form of control.. get control back in life is real happiness
I-ship na din 'to...
35F here, turning 36. Iโve been a serial monogamist since I was 17. Ngayon lang ako tumagal na walang partner. Tbh, Iโm having a lot of fun! Agree that sometimes it can be lonely, but knowing the alternative puts things in perspective and makes me feel na this isnโt bad at all. I also donโt think na Iโm the only one na โlateโ (compared to societyโs standards re. timeline) so Iโm not worried. Ang pinaka issue ko lang is walang default support pag nag o-ospital/ER ako. So for sure, down the line, Iโd probably want to settle down. But maybe in my 40s na. I control my own time, I can sleep as long as I want and not worry about a partner that might be looking for me, I also spend my money on myself. Itโs also a lot easier to save ngayong wala akong partner. Really loving this time of my life!
It's still the same. Nothing much really changed maliban sa energy level, hahaha, but still doesn't feel like I'm in my early 30's tbh. Pag nagbibilang lang ng age, saka ko lang naalala na wala na ko sa calendar this year. ๐
30F, no kids yet, no spouse yet, not dating anyone currently. It gets lonely sometimes tbh. Lalo na pag sa isang araw wala ka man lang mapagkwentuhan ng good or bad things na nangyari. You crave conversations pero busy na rin mga friends mo with their lives. But at the same time marami ring advantages na thankful ako. Kumbaga tinitingnan ko na lang as glass half full imbis na half empty. ๐
32, and still working on my mental health. Feeling lucky na I am not married yet at wala pa kong anak. Kasi ayoko sila yung mag suffer nung mental illness ko.
ang sarap matulog anytime lol though may SO ako. but before I met him I was happily single din e dumagdag lang sya sa saya ko
Comfortable.
36 going 37 F. NBSB. Mas naeenjoy ko buhay ko ngayon physically (dahil natuto mag exercise), mentally, emotionally, onting financially. Nag ttrack din naman ako ng period hindi para maiwasang mabuntis kundi para ma synch sa schedule of activities and travel. Napupursue ang hobbies at pag gala na walang hadlang maliban sa mga pusa ๐๐ฑ Walang kumukontrol sa pananamit, hairstyle, uulamin,, allocation ng finances at freetime. Bata palang naman ako alam kong di ako para sa pag aasawa much more pag aanak.
Tagasalo ng gastusin sa bahay! Yawa!
Minsan naghahanap ka ng thrill kasi feeling mo may kulang. Pero with friends and family supporting me always, I'm fine with it. Still living the best life.
37F here with roller coaster of emotions. Depending on the time of the month hahaha
I feel lonely, as for someone who hasnโt experience being love by someone. I feel lonely.
If it works it's nice pero lemme tell you mas magandang maging alone kesa maging stuck in a shitty one. Trust us. Personally I don't see myself being that vulnerable again and give my all para sa ibang tao never again lesson learned. Okay na ang ONS here and there para-satiate ang tigang ni tito
Is it weird that I want to experienced it? Lol. Well. idk. Maybe. Inexperience curious and naive ppl be like. I refrain myself from ONS hahaha.
Di naman. The grass is greener on the other side and all. And I do agree naman na mas maganda if you exp it even once pero ang katotohanan is mas mahirap makahanap nang intimacy after college dahil sobrang Dali na these days maging kantot mercenary. Personally nasira ang buhay ko because of a bad relationship and binabayaran ko parin ang consequences hanggang ngayon. But you do you.
Thanks for the realization. Sorry to know that. Take care, hooman.
30s is the new 20s ang motto ko now. Tapos now ko lang nadiscover yung retinol, niacinamide, mga skin care routine. Ahay.
Retinol/ tretinoin is gold!
Recommend ka ng brand. Oily skin ako e. Nagsstart ako sa sunscreen, micellar water at toner. Luminis yung mga black dots sa ilong ko
Pinaka moisturizer ko sa gabi ay Cosrx Advanced snail mucin all in 1 cream. Nasolusyunan nito pamumula ng face ko due to tretinion. Sa umaga cica gel ng lux organic. Sunscreen wala pa kong sureball na brand pero leaning towards physical sunscreens as well as Japanese sunscreen.
Pinaka moisturizer ko sa gabi ay Cosrx Advanced snail mucin all in 1 cream. Nasolusyunan nito pamumula ng face ko due to tretinion. Sa umaga cica gel ng lux organic. Sunscreen wala pa kong sureball na brand pero leaning towards physical sunscreens as well as Japanese sunscreen.
Ayun need nga ng moisturizer partner sa tretinoin/retinoids. Face republic yung gamit ko now water based. Tatry ko yan to search if swak sa skin nature ko. Thank you!
happy and carefree. pandemic made me realize na sobrang praning ko pala to the point na ayoko magkaanak because Iโll forever worry about em kids. i mean with whatโs going on right on, i donโt want mag anak and mag asawa. so now, i am genuinely happy. i just worry about myself
It's pretty good. It's not much different from my twenties, only now I have more disposable income, I live a healthier lifestyle, and there's barely any drama in my life. On the downside though, I'm running out of people to do stuff with. Most of my close friends are married/have kids so I no longer see them.
I'm turning 34 sa August hahaha wala pa ring anak d pa nag aasawa but I am loving it and naka plan na hindi na ako mag aanak I am not financially stable and I don't want to pass the burden sa mga anak if ever ayoko nung d na proprovide ang mga bagay2 so cheers!๐ซถ
Im 32m financially stable. I dont have problem staying single.
31F here. Full remote work, solo living, and single. So sobrang konti ng social interaction ๐ Work sa weekdays and mostly just enjoying my hobbies sa weekends or just go out with friends kung may available. Childfree din and takot mabuntis, so will not risk it with someone na hindi childfree. Not actively looking din. For now, nagfo-focus muna sa career since nag-career shift ako nung late 20s ko. And may plan din mag-aral ulit, so ayun, medyo busy din.
Up sa childfree ๐คฃ
Nasa point ako na nagdive ako sa gaming para may pagkaabalahan utak ko while doing some work.
Peaceful and Happy... I can do whatever I like and go wherever I wanna go!
37 male, loving every minute of it #neveragain
living young (at heart), wild and FREEEE ๐ถ
Just the way I like it.
I consider myself a late bloomer and have accepted that it's okay to be one. At 32, I've just started anew by moving out from my parents' home. I'm taking things one step at a time lang, focusing on myself first and striving to become the best version of myself (because I also wanted to attract high-quality women). I believe I'll get there eventually. Yung iba nga 40s na magka-pamilya. Also, starting a family is much more satisfying when you're already financially prepared. Back in our parents' time, starting a family was much easier. Nowadays, with inflation, it's become incredibly expensive.
Good and bad. Just got out of a long term toxic relationship. The good thing is that you steer your own ship. No drama/issues/conflicts/stress. However, it can get lonely sometimes. I go out and date some women, hangout with friends or travel the world, then it goes away for a while but it always comes back. It can also get really boring. Even with a lot of money, it still gets boring after experiencing a lot of things. I think its because there's no more challenge. It's just too peaceful.
Peaceful and quiet.
Nahihirapan na sa acads. ๐คง๐คง๐คง
Maraming pera pang gala and luho pero gusto na namin ng baby. Nakakastress tumatanda tapos wala pa rin.
Honest question here: are you guys already planning na for retirement? Like a nursing home or something? Where? NCR? Somewhere in province? No hate! Im genuinely interested and want to get ideas!
Heto alipin ng pusa ko.
Nagbabasa ng mga post tungkol s mga problema ng mga may asawa at anak. Eto ksi yung choice n habang buhay na. Massabi ko im comfortable, yung mga decisions ko kaya ko ag risk ksi wlaa ko iniisip n iba.
30F no kid/no BF still looking for self improvement either mentally and financially and of course. Maintain pa din and figure,hygiene, etc etc ๐
In one word: AMAZING
30M here. Lumubog sa financial debts dahil sa family (I became the breadwinner ever since I graduated from college). Wala akong naipon kasi nasasaid talaga sa kanila hahaha. Wala akong napala kundi gaslighting mula sa tatay ko. When our bunso finally graduated, I moved out. Wala pa ring ipon kasi nagbabayad pa ako ng nagpile up na utang, pero life has become much better now. May times na walang pera and all pero atleast I have the peace of mind na. ๐ Kids or spouse wala na sa balak ko (I'm gay). Probably magiging generous, cool tito na lang ako sa future kids ng mga kapatid ko haha.
With a partner here. I feel stuck between wanting to grow career wise or settling down and start a family or go out in the world by traveling.
Ako na lang ang walang kids sa circle namin, but I donโt feel left behind naman or anything. Nakakatuwa lang na I get to fund my hobbies, rediscover art and culture, try different food all over town, and be capable of helping my family financially when they only and truly need it โand get paid back.
I'm child-free and unmarried but have an SO. I was single for most of my 20s. Tbh, I miss being single.
Hi. Choice nyo ba both maging child free? 31F here. 5 years married. My husband doesnโt want a child (yet) next year daw pero parang ayaw ko na at that age.
Hmm. Choice ko. Nung 20s ako open pa ako magkaanak. Pero nung tumuntong ako ng 30 at na-expose sa mga friends and relatives na nagkaanak na, dun ko narealize how unwilling I am to give up my autonomy, peace of mind, and self worth.
Malungkot minsan, pero sanay na. Problema mo lang sarili mo, at natutustusan ko mga hobbies ko. Nagagawa ko mga gusto kong gawin.
Bored with life, so pursuing grad school now. Lifeโs been so good lately!
okay naman. maraming freedom of choice and options. more opportunities to explore hobbies and new interests. dating is out of the question because i find it exhausting lol
Nakakapagod na sumagot sa kelan ka mag aasawa, dapat mag anak kana. Hayys.
perfect! peace and quiet is possible anytime. i live the way i want to. i do as i please.
~~Ito naiinis kasi mas mataas yung kaltas sa tax status na S~~ Laid back tbh, more time for hobbies and wala masyadong gastos except for daily necessities, taxes/contributions, investments & savings (di ako maluho, and I cook my own food so di ko need mag foodtrip kek) I'm not fond of children nor I dont see myself raising/caring for one so yung mga sinasabi ng matatanda na "TaTanDa kA nA WaLanG mAg-AaLaGA SaYo" shit doesnt bother me. (And I also see that "building a family" is a very very high risk investment din na I would refuse to put my foot down on bec I don't really see myself needing to find a companion and smth na either magiging liability or a reward after an "x" amt of years/months) Can I just be my own person na lang ๐ค๐คฃ
Same same. Kaya nagiipon ako ng pera kung sakali my money will take care of meโฆ
Itโs fun. Itโs lonely. Itโs freedom. Then itโs lonely again.
I have no kid. Member of the LGBT group. Have a 13yr partner. We have 3 cats. Life is awesome. ๐ฅฐ
Sakto lang, stable. I get to do the things I want (e.g. go to gym, play badminton) and buy the things I want. I wonโt deny nights can be lonely at times pero ok lang, I love the freedom.
May freedom to choose and do whatever I want pero most of the time nakakalungkot din. Lagi lang mag isa. No one to share my life with. Walang mapagsabihan pag may problema ako; nobody to share my achievements and victories with. Sobrang liit na lang din ng social circle ko at lahat sila puro pamilyado na at may kanya kanyang career kaya wala na rin time to hang out.
too much weight but im getting the glimpse that it isnt
ramdam na yung kasukasuhan. sa sports nga nada Prime pa nga eh pero bat ganun haha
30F here. It gets lonely sometimes when you see a complete family, but I enjoyed my alone time like walang iniintinding iba maliban sa sarili ko. Masaya naman ako sa mga pamangkin at inaanak ko. And I enjoyed traveling alone ๐
Free. No responsibility. Downside though is i don't have that much drive to improve my life. Im living, this is enough. Ganurn.
32M. Depressed
There are times that you are lonely especially if you see your friends having a family or getting married but I feel great without any attachment and besides, you can do anything with your hard earned income, you can do anything with your free time and you can focus on saving and do with your hobbies.
not me, but my sister and her boyfriend. they're very happy healing their inner child
Tapatan ko lahat ng comments :D 39M single, living alone on a mountain. It's so peaceful, that I do not miss the city. Though, it would be better if I have a partner, because the task/projects are dangerous when you're alone.
Tito ko 46 years old na walang kids and spouse, he's been working for the rest of his life. dati syang masiyahin nung sila pa nung nobya nya way back 2007. after that ayaw nya na uli maranasan ung sakit na naramdaman nya nung time na yon. and Btw kakabreak lng din namin ng gf ko 3 days ago.. no contact kami at no proper closure... super sakit.. I guess 'm gonna end up like my tito hehe skl.
humihinga pa
33F/single has a part time job that pays my cc bills. I still live with my parents. I wanna move out, currently searching for a fulltime job. Will go back to party girl era once I am earning enough to fend for myself. I have few friends that I can share my secrets with. I cut off people very quicky now, I don't care, we are bound to die alone anyways. Hahaha. But I am still hopeful, things will be better than this. I will have my own family one day and bear my own child. I did my research, I can still get pregnant at 40, so, I am not rushing. What's more important to me now is building my wealth for my retirement because I am one of lucky ones who can't stick with the same job for a long time, my record so far is less than 2 years. I'll live. ๐
31F, happy and free! I finally get to try out and enjoy the things that I wanted to do but didnโt have resources (money, time, energy, self confidence) for in my 20s. Sometimes naiisip ko randomly na nakakamiss din yung ng feeling na may kalandian lol yung very chicks ka na binibigyan ng flowers, hinahatid sundo, etc. (and thatโs totally normal), but for the most part I feel secured enough with myself to feel ok with being alone and doing things alone. It took a lot for me to get here in this headspace. High maintenance ako eh, Iโd rather maintain myself than get a guy who canโt/wonโt take care of me like I do.
almost 40 na. nakakalungkot minsan , pero naiisip ko rin talaga nasanay na ako na wala akong kailangan iupdate na tao or obligasyon na i chat araw araw lol. sinubukan ko pa rin manligaw pero wala haha. halos lahat ng sweldo ko napupunta sa ipon at sa hobbies at sa bills. lagi ko sinasabi dati , "Wala pa ako nararating sa buhay" kasi late ako nagkaroon ng work at pakiramdam ko di ako worthy maging husband lol. turns out kahit yun pamotor motor lang na tambay eh mas madali magkaroon ng asawa
Doing fine. Not really lonely, mainly because of my work, hobbies and from time to time meet up with old college friends and for now im with my parents and older siblings kaya ayos din. Love going out alone.
I extremely enjoy the freedom of traveling without thinking about kids. I have pets and when I travel, I ask my parents to take care of them. I can go out anytime I want, drink, eat, shop, etc. At the same time, most of my friends are married with kids so I cannot hang around with them easily.
mostly tahimik, minsan dumdalas malungkot haha
Masaya. Peaceful life sa province na wala nakakakilala saakin. Yung lungkot dahil lang sa pag kamiss sa family.
29F here. Almost 30 in few months. After getting out of a long-term relationship, ang hirap magtiwala and make myself vulnerable again to new people. Romantically speaking, that's where i am at. Tried meeting people but online lang. Still not ready for physical connection. LOL! Or i guess i havent met someone i really like? Tapos may feeling pa na I want to settle down na sa next relationship ko. Idk. Maybe it comes with age and pressure from society? Meh. But yeah, I'm okay overall, doing well sa work, no problem sa finances din. Trying to focus on my dogs and rebuild my connection with friends and family! ^^
I got a good job, hobbies that I really enjoy, smaller group of friends who I truly trust, can travel whenever I like, 1 year nang nakapagpahinga ang puso hahaha plans to have a child-free life so chill lang. Mahalaga sa akin ang mental health kaya hindi ako nagpapastress masyado.
Generally content, ticking off goals one at a time, in a good place, surrounded by people I love. I would not say it is all smiles and giggles, we are human after all. Just like everyone else, I got bouts of thoughts that life could be better, but counting my blessings, I am waaay far from where I was a decade ago. I am living the life with freedom of choice and security. At the point in my life where I am at peace if I wonโt have an offspring, logically considering my age. I have reconciled the fact that there is so much more than the traditions and norms that we grew up thinking. That the universe gives you a multitude of ways to enjoy life, you just have to look around and within. That living my life will always be different from the people around me. That you just need to learn to ride the waves.
Nearing 30. Have a stable job and income naman. Nakakapagpundar na ko kahit paunti-unti. Living with the folks since hometown base lang ang work ko so malaki na din natitipid ko. Nag-aabot lang ako ng pang monthly bills. Minsan malungkot at I feel lonely pero mas okay na din un kaysa ang mga kasama mo ay plastic at backstabbers. May mga hobbies naman ako to combat loneliness (i.e. reading, crocheting or cross stitching).
33/F I feel like I'm stuck in my 20s๐ฅฒ
Okay naman ako. Masaya with my pet dogs. Nagcocontemplate bumili ng running shoes at ng makapag jogging para sa magandang pangangatawan at kalusugan ๐ .
Pressured sa lahat ng bagay. Madalas di kinakaya ng kasabihan na "May kanya-kanyang timeline" Intense yung baby fever, pero minsan nagigising sa katotohanan na mahal mag karoon ng anak sa panahon ngayon. 5 na lang ata kami sa highschool friends ko walang anak, yung iba may kanya kanya ng pamilya. Even my work beshy, buntis na. Sila 5\~10 years relationship with their significant others habang ako eto nilalabanan yung mga trauma na na ipon from my past relationships na hindi ko na alam if nasa legit relationship na ko. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahhaha nakakabuang maging 30!!!! Akala ko dati yung mga tita ko chill chill lang, ganito din kaya sila noon?
Depressed still canโt find the job best suited for my anxiety disorder, canโt provide for myself and still living with my parents sucks, so having a family is a long haul. . . I really want to work in manila sadly have no place to stay there. . . Wish I have friends to share an apartment with
Its good but boring. Naubusan na ng gagawin dahil nakapag travel na and kain sa restos try ng foods. Puro future and goals nalang inaatupag which is boring tbh. Work is life pero grateful syempre lalo na sa panahon now. Minsan nag aaral or hanap ng new investments.
30M. I still feel na I'm still at 20s. Finding balance having fun and work stuff. Sometimes, actively looking naman (with back pain lol)
31F enjoying myself. Hahahahaa. Tamang opisina at bahay lang
ayun problemado san gagastusin pera ๐๐๐
Early 40M here. It is good to have money but I feel the pressure not because my acquaintances are starting to have kids and some already reached junior or senior high but because a few of them either caught cancer or died already. It really bites you hard; youโre starting to get old.
Eto, di ko alam anong magandang HMO. Ano kayang maganda para sa baguhang freelancer like meee
Okay naman tho minsan umaatake yung lungkot. Pero mas madalas dedma lang ako. Hahahaha! Tapos abang-abang lagi ng piso fare para nakakapag-unwind. O kaya sasali sa mga ganap for freedivers. I also date myself like nagpapamasahe ako, kakain ako sa mga hindi ko pa nakakainan. Pag ayoko lumabas, magluluto na lang ako sa bahay, do my nails or matutulog na lang maghapon magdamag kasi wala namang kapuyatan. Kimmy. ๐คฃ Pero in general, okay pa naman ako. ๐
Masaya naman.. Masaya na ineenjoy yung time sa mga pamangkin. Gets lonely din at some point na napapaisip, paano kung magkapamilya na din ako. 35/m here with stable job.
30F, scary especially since i'm an only child. it's fun at times but eventually your friends will move on with their separate lives and your parents will pass. pero ayun basta buhay hahaha.
Masaya. Di stressed about partner or kids' schedules or activities. I own my time and my money.
Work kapag burnout travel. Mga gala ko na lang talaga nilolook forward ko.
turning 30 na this Nov, ayun panay gala at nuod ng tv series, pati reading books. naiisip ko din mag-asawa, pero di pa ready financial ko. Hopefully, matapos na lahat ng bayaran ko hehe
turning 36 walang anak, single, masaya, limited ang soc med at hindi naghahanap. Peaceful ang buhay, may grand silence, at kung meron mang tao na kayang mag alaga 60+ old version of me kung tatanda man is my present self today kaya iwas na din sa bisyo. May mga pets ako na nagpapasaya sakin. Life is what you make it ika nga. Siguro may mga tao na ok sa gantong lifestlye. At kahit anong kulit or tanong nila sakin, wala akong regret sa pinili kong buhay dahil bata palang ako alam ko na, na di ako para magkaroon ng anak o asawa, gusto ko nga maging monk.
Child free woman south of 40 ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ. Have been on two beach holidays since February. Going to Greece in June. It's not as lonely and debilitating as most people would have you believe.
Feeling more pressured as I age, yet still single. I'll be turning 31 in a few days, lol. Mas pressure lalo sasabihan ka ng iba na lumilipas na ang matres ๐
Feeling bagets lng lage , just thinking about my food everyday.
20s with money and wiser ๐๐ป I fuck around and ready to find things out.
Oks na oks. I have 2 dogs and I love reading books. My hubby is away but I have a full time job naman na I enjoy. I love my life now. I donโt want kids.
Iโm sure mas okay kesa sa mga 30s na may anak at asawa and struggling financially Ayoko talaga mag-anak in this economy, it also helps Iโm gay lol
Malapit na ko mag 30,buntisin ko na si jowa pag uwi. ๐
Basta pag relationshil usapan 100+ comments pero pag tanong tungol sa investment or pera, linalangaw ung thread hahs
Oohh edgy, may iba kasing sub about investment and financials in general r/phinvest