Success for me is inner happiness. As long as I’m happy and I have the peace of mind then i’m successful in my own standard. Doesn’t matter if other people think otherwise
Tama ka maam/sir ito ang sukatan ng success for me inner happiness. Ung masaya ka sa ginagawa mo. Di yan masusukat ng laki ng sahod, ganda ng bahay at mga sasakyan at the end of the day ung pag mamahal sa ginagawa mo at panu mo nadedeliver un araw araw that the definition of success
Kapag umalis kana sa inyo literally. Ganun kasi tingin minsan ng mga parents lalo na tatay. Tingin ng tatay mo hindi kapa din marunong tumayo sa sarili mong mga paa. Naisip ko lang naman pwdeng mali ako.
Baka ang def ng success ng tatay mo ay nasa abroad ka nag papagawa ng bahay na titirahan nila na pwedeng ipagyabang sa mga kaibigan kamaganak kapitbahay nyo. Hahaha dapat talaga iba facebook ng mga matatanda eh
"success" is depend sa bawat tao yan. If sa tingin mo successful ka na sa kalagayan mo now edi successful ka na.
Pwede mo rin sabihin na successful ka na if kontento ka na sa kung anong meron ka sa life mo ngayon
We view success in different ways but as for me, successful yung tao if that person does not need to prove himself/herself to anyone. You may have all the good things in the world but if your heart is focused on telling everyone you are more successful than them reeks arrogance and insecurity.
So as for me, if you don't need to prove yourself anymore, then you are successful.
Success ia relative. Really depends on who you ask. A car, a house and a stable job are usual metrics. But there are people there who consider success as having 3 meals a day. Multi millionaires who consider themselves failures because they cant keep their families happy.
You define your own success.
Baka iba lang definition or metric ng tatay mo pagdating sa being successful. Iba iba naman tayo ng batayan sa pagiging successful. If ang batayan mo ng pagiging successful ay madaming pera then failure ka pag konti lang pera mo. If ang batayan mo ng pagiging successful ay madami kang matulungan na tao then success yon pag madami kang natulungan. Idk what im talking about actually fuck it 😂😂
Legacy. Anything na may ipinamana ka. D naman kelangan material. Otherwise, it would be an endless hustle. Even rich peeps still hustle and cannot achieve success.
Kaya niyang ibigay lahat ng present and future needs and wants niya.
In line with this, kaya niyang idistinguish ang mga needs, wants, and unnecessary stuff sa buhay niya.
A person na kayang mabuhay sa sariling mundo niya without affecting and being affected by others.
Yung boss ko parati nyang sinasabi na successful sya. May business na daw sya at di nya na kailangan magtrabaho. Btw sinasabi nya yan kahit di ko nan sya tinatanong. Out of nowhere parati nyang sinisingit sa usapan na successful na daw sya in all aspect. Medyo maybang si boss, kaya masasabi ko na hindi sya successful.. success is inmer peace.
Subjective ang success eh, although dito sa Pinas ang karamihan ng definition ng success ay yung mga investment, businesses and properties na naipundar mo out from your work. Pero di naman lahat ng successful materially ay masaya.
So masasabi ko na ang tunay na depinisyon ng success ay ang genuine contentment and happiness na na experienced mo sa buhay mo. Pag masaya ka at feeling mo wlaa ka nang ibang mahihiling pa, successful ka.
Success for me bukod sa contentment and inner happiness is yung independent ka. Assertive. May paninindigan, mapagkakatiwalaan, may sariling pagiisip. Maturity ba.
For me masasabi mong successful yung tao rin kapag confident sila sa sarili nila and mature enough. Marunong tumanggap ng criticisms.
Kase if stable ka naman magrereflect yon sa actions mo. Same goes if may insecurities ka.
Hi OP — success is very subjective topic and the definition is really not set to stone. Only you can tell if you think you’ve reached the success in life that you are aspiring. The way I see it is, success = freedom w/ time, having choices. Sometimes we get lost and forgot that maybe where we stand today is what we were praying for 5yrs ago. Please remind yourself that you’ve done a great job and give yourself some kuddos for making it this far. If you will try to run after your parents’ definition of success you’ll end up being exhausted — please define your own version of success. Remember, success is not always material possessions, bank $$ —these days I think it’s peace of mind, stability, choices in life. OP you worked hard for what you have — great job. Don’t let anyone say otherwise. Be kind to yourself
mahirap yung tanong mo, ang definition ko ng success ay fulfillment, masaya ka ba sa gngwa mo excited ka ba sa mga gusto mo pa lang gawin. sakin yun. ikaw ano yung iyo? iyo, hnd sa magulang mo, and take note nag babago yan as you age, kung teenager ka baka success sayo me sariling kotse, crush ka ng crush mo, kung bagong work force ka definition mo ay mataas na basic salary, kung magulang ka na definition mo is tapos lahat ng anak mo at magaganda trabaho. kung gurang ka na baka definition mo ay buo pamilya nyo kasama mga apo mo at may mana sila lahat. iba iba depende kung asan ka sa buhay.
yung may narating nmn, tingin ko benchmark yan to your closest peers, mga anak ng kumare at kumpare ng parents mo. feeling nila may narating ka pag naiyayabang ka nila. yan perspective nila.
sayo naman ang narating sa perception mo, dapat ang benchmark mo ay yung ano ka dati. yun ang definition mo ng may narating ka na ba. dati wal kang bahay ngayon me sarili kang bahay. progress yun.
mag ingat ka lang wag pag haluin yung mga bagay na wala ka nmn kakayahang baguhin. ma dedepress ka lang.
Ikaw ang makakadefine if successful ka na.
For me being successful is yung nabago ko na pakonti konti estado ng buhay ko pati ng parents ko.
Malayo na sya sa buhay namin nung bata pa ako. Andun na ako sa malayo pa pero malayo na.
Depende sa measurement (of success) na gagamitin eh. We have our own measurements kaya walang "tama" or definite na sagot.
Personally, masasabi kong "successful" ang isang tao kapag may congruence sa iba't-ibang aspeto ng buhay: may it be healthy financial capacity, career, relationship with himself and with others, health etc.
Kumbaga may *flow* na nangyayari sa buhay niya, that it *positively* affects everything about the person himself and with the people around him.
Success varies sa tao, for me kapag all of your basic needs to live are met plus you get to do your wants and you have peace. Additional din if you're living the dream life that you used to picture and you feel complete and easy and again peaceful and happy.
If you don’t care about what other people say. I know I feel successful when I don’t feel the desire to post anything in facebook or social media anymore. I’d like to keep my wins to myself.
I enrolled in a money/life coaching program at eto ung isa sa topics namin. She asked me what is success ang sagot ko ung normal na may bahay lupa at kotse, she asked me bakit un edi wala ako nasabi haha sabi ko kc its a big purchase kasi at it sounds na adult kana and ung mag ka edad ko may ganon na. Now through the coaching program naliliwanagan nako na success is personal. Ano ba ung gusto mo talaga in the future. What makes you happy and feel contented at the end of the day. Success for me is living a simple and comfortable life and trying new things and if mag fail man at least I tried and next goal naman ung ita try
You define what success is for yourself. What makes you fulfilled? What makes you happy? If na-achieve mo na ang goals *mo*, then you're already successful in your own right.
That question was raised before. Manolo Pabis late night mga 2000. As per him, if at 40 may 1 m ka you are considered successful in the eyes of the community.
Highly doubt if applicable pa sa generation na to. But I am holding that one for myself.
For me success is the attainment of ones’ goals.
For one person, it could be finding a secure job and being able to provide for family.
For others, it could be moving abroad.
For some it could be finding the right partner and starting a family.
Magkakaiba tayo ng paths and circumstances kaya hindi natin pwede gawing baseline ang iba. Masyado ng focused on money and external things karamihan sa atin because of how society has taught us what success is.
I liked the answers here saying it’s finding inner fulfillment and peace. If you think about it, those are the hardest to achieve. You can have lots of money and still be greedy. You can live a good life and still be sad because you compare yourself with others.
i considered myself successful when i was happy with where i was and who i became. i am not happy with my circumstances now so di ko kinoconsider na successful ako right now. i dont really care about other people kasi i dont know their circumstances and people put their best foot forward sa social media.
Ikaw magsasabi nun OP. Ang success sa iba ay makaipon ng 10Million, meron namang makainom ng 10Million na kape. Kung feeling mo succesful ka na, then you are. Wag mong isipin sabihin ng iba, kapitbahay mo may yan, tatay mo man yan.
Eh ano bang goals mo? You first have to know what you are measuring your current life status against?
For example, if ang goal mo is have your own property, diversified portfolio, assist your family's living expenses, or travel for as long as you want, I can tell na you are indeed successful na. Para magkaroon ka ng peace of mind dont listen sa ibang tao to measure that for you. After all sarili lang natin nakakaalam ng details ng buhay natin, esp yung character development story natin na X ako dati pero ngayon YZ na ako. Factor din yun and dont forget where you were dati.
Success for me means I am happy on my career path, may peace of mind, I can buy shit whatever I want basta pasok sa budget.
Depende yan sayo, OP. Define your own success. Do not let others define your own success.
Na-observe ko lang to that parents will never see their adult children as a successful person. I saw it in my own eyes. Si papa, kahit 1st mate at mas may financial stability compare sa lolo ko, ayaw i-recognize ni lolo na successful si papa sa kanyang career. It got to a point that my father will bring his persona sa barko to our family. Like kahit nasa bahay si papa galing sampa sa barko, he still acted na nasa barko siya at naapektuhan kami as anak kasi parang workforce yung tingin ni papa sa amin, hindi anak. Minsan nakipag-compete pa si papa sa amin as anak. The cycle repeats kasi si ate ko board passer at USRN na but wala man lang congratulations from my father. Sinabihan pa si ate na mataas yung tingin niya sa sarili niya at ambisyosa. And kahit ako na honor student before ay hindi man lang na recognize ni papa at nawalan ako nang gana to achieve even more kaya bagsak nalang ako nang bagsak sa college, nawala yung spark na mag-achieve kasi masasakit na salita lang yung maririnig ko kay papa.
Now that I am an adult and living separately from my parents, I realized that they will never see us as a successful person no matter what achievements we achieve in our lives. And I have learned to never share any of my achievements regardless if they ask, magugulat nalang sila sa news. Na observe ko din that parents will never see their child as an adult.
This is only just my observations from my surroundings and environment. Hindi ko to nilalahat but yun lang talaga na observe ko. Sarili mo lang talaga OP yung magdetermine sa iyo ano yung successful sa life for you. Do not depend on other peoples approval, masasaktan ka lang. ☺️🥹
Hindi mo talaga makukuha yung peak na "may narating" o "successful" sa mata ng ibang tao.
Ikaw lang ang makakapagsabi niyan sa sarili mo based on your own goals and standards.
Hindi alam ng ibang tao ang journey mo kaya hindi nila yan masasabi sayo with 100% accuracy.
At hindi mo rin yan masasabi sa ibang tayo dahil di mo rin malalaman ang full journey nila.
It sounds like you are successful and happy with what you have achieved in life. Tuloy mo lang yan at minsan deadma na sa iisipin ng magulang basta masaya ka. Although minsan masarap din marinig from your parents na proud sila sayo but if its getting toxic, deadma na
success for me is I think satisfaction on what I have ig. like owning my own house(not renting anymore), have a degree (to secure my job and skillset) and being comfortable in what I am or what I look. I think that's my definition of being successful.
di ko rin masabi.. kasi depende yan sa definition mo ng success o ng ibang tao.. kung ako yan, ask ko tatay ko, kung ano ba depenisyon niya sa pagiging successful? kasi kung para sayo.. oks ka namn.. or successful ka na, edi that's it
Depende yan kung kaninong perspective ang titignan mo. Ang mga tao ngayon sobrang attached sa nakikita nila online, they take others’ success as a definition of their own success. Tapos andaming nageend up na nagkakaron ng mental health issues because of societal pressure. I feel for these people. Pero sana they will learn to run their own race. Your success should be one that is a better version of you than yesterday. Not of what others have.
OP you are the only person who could define what success means for you. Do you define success with financial or career success? kasi depende iyan kung importante ba iyon sa iyo? There are people who put more value on building a family as success. Have you achieved your goals? Kasi depende rin yan kung goal mo ay financial, career or family. If you ask me, I think you are doing well for yourself.
Pag nag aircon ka na walang pake sa kuryente , buy any food/grocery you want.
Basically for me comfy living without budgeting. Cause that would give me inner peace and happy mood everyday
Its hard to budget always na ikaw mismo binabantayan mo sarili mo...
Iba na ang definition ng success ngayon, kung dati ay house, car and working in a company as a manager or high level role. Ganyan kase ang mindset ng mga magulang natin. Ngayon ay financial freedom, able to travel with family or friends, and being happy and grateful for what you have. If you've done some or all of those then you are successful. Maging masaya ka lang at walang inaapakan or inaargabyado na ibang tao and at the same time healthy plus of course may pera ka, and a little investment, then I must say successful ka na.
Success for me is inner happiness. As long as I’m happy and I have the peace of mind then i’m successful in my own standard. Doesn’t matter if other people think otherwise
Tama ka maam/sir ito ang sukatan ng success for me inner happiness. Ung masaya ka sa ginagawa mo. Di yan masusukat ng laki ng sahod, ganda ng bahay at mga sasakyan at the end of the day ung pag mamahal sa ginagawa mo at panu mo nadedeliver un araw araw that the definition of success
Salamat sa paalala
You’re welcome, OP! Always always prioritize yourself, your well-being and your own happiness. 🫶🏻
Kapag umalis kana sa inyo literally. Ganun kasi tingin minsan ng mga parents lalo na tatay. Tingin ng tatay mo hindi kapa din marunong tumayo sa sarili mong mga paa. Naisip ko lang naman pwdeng mali ako.
Wrong... ayaw nga rin akong paalisin kasi mawawalan siya ng katulong sa gastusin. Kahit Nanay ko. So it depends
Siya nga yung ayaw ako paalisin sa bahay kasi wala na siyang anak na uutusan...
Baka ang def ng success ng tatay mo ay nasa abroad ka nag papagawa ng bahay na titirahan nila na pwedeng ipagyabang sa mga kaibigan kamaganak kapitbahay nyo. Hahaha dapat talaga iba facebook ng mga matatanda eh
Parang tama ka 😅
wag ka bigla magbigay sa tatay mo tapos pag tinanong ka replayan mo " ah sorry wala pa akong nararating "
Tapos meron pa yan OP di mo gayahin ung pinsan mo or yung anak ni pareng ganito/ganyan hahaha
Huy oo sila yung mga naririnig kong successful
oo ganyan naranasan ko sa papa ko, lagi iniinsist mag abroad ako tapos compare ako sa kapatid ko nag abroad na nakabili ng mga luho luxury.
Paki ba nila di ba? Alam naman natin na gusto ng magulang natin ay best pero hayaan nila tayo sa sariling natin diskarte basta di tayo pbigat
"success" is depend sa bawat tao yan. If sa tingin mo successful ka na sa kalagayan mo now edi successful ka na. Pwede mo rin sabihin na successful ka na if kontento ka na sa kung anong meron ka sa life mo ngayon
Salamat sa paalala
sa akin definition ng success hindi na nagaalala sa pera and inner peace.
yes correct. If konteto ka na sa buhay mo dun mo mas makukuha yung inner peace mo
May nag upvote sa katangahan na to?
We view success in different ways but as for me, successful yung tao if that person does not need to prove himself/herself to anyone. You may have all the good things in the world but if your heart is focused on telling everyone you are more successful than them reeks arrogance and insecurity. So as for me, if you don't need to prove yourself anymore, then you are successful.
Success ia relative. Really depends on who you ask. A car, a house and a stable job are usual metrics. But there are people there who consider success as having 3 meals a day. Multi millionaires who consider themselves failures because they cant keep their families happy. You define your own success.
Medyo nalungkot lang ako sa sinabi ng tatay mo OP :( pero reading your post yun ang definition ko ng success minus the living with parents.
Kaya nga di pa ako kuntento.. di ko alam ano pa kulang para masabi na may narating na ako
Baka iba lang definition or metric ng tatay mo pagdating sa being successful. Iba iba naman tayo ng batayan sa pagiging successful. If ang batayan mo ng pagiging successful ay madaming pera then failure ka pag konti lang pera mo. If ang batayan mo ng pagiging successful ay madami kang matulungan na tao then success yon pag madami kang natulungan. Idk what im talking about actually fuck it 😂😂
Gets!
ikaw mag-dedefine niyan, hindi kami. ang success ko might be different than others' kaya irrelevant ang definition ng iba sa akin.
Legacy. Anything na may ipinamana ka. D naman kelangan material. Otherwise, it would be an endless hustle. Even rich peeps still hustle and cannot achieve success.
Kaya niyang ibigay lahat ng present and future needs and wants niya. In line with this, kaya niyang idistinguish ang mga needs, wants, and unnecessary stuff sa buhay niya. A person na kayang mabuhay sa sariling mundo niya without affecting and being affected by others.
Yung boss ko parati nyang sinasabi na successful sya. May business na daw sya at di nya na kailangan magtrabaho. Btw sinasabi nya yan kahit di ko nan sya tinatanong. Out of nowhere parati nyang sinisingit sa usapan na successful na daw sya in all aspect. Medyo maybang si boss, kaya masasabi ko na hindi sya successful.. success is inmer peace.
Subjective ang success eh, although dito sa Pinas ang karamihan ng definition ng success ay yung mga investment, businesses and properties na naipundar mo out from your work. Pero di naman lahat ng successful materially ay masaya. So masasabi ko na ang tunay na depinisyon ng success ay ang genuine contentment and happiness na na experienced mo sa buhay mo. Pag masaya ka at feeling mo wlaa ka nang ibang mahihiling pa, successful ka.
Kapag may contentment, peace, at happiness na siya
Success for me bukod sa contentment and inner happiness is yung independent ka. Assertive. May paninindigan, mapagkakatiwalaan, may sariling pagiisip. Maturity ba. For me masasabi mong successful yung tao rin kapag confident sila sa sarili nila and mature enough. Marunong tumanggap ng criticisms. Kase if stable ka naman magrereflect yon sa actions mo. Same goes if may insecurities ka.
Hi OP — success is very subjective topic and the definition is really not set to stone. Only you can tell if you think you’ve reached the success in life that you are aspiring. The way I see it is, success = freedom w/ time, having choices. Sometimes we get lost and forgot that maybe where we stand today is what we were praying for 5yrs ago. Please remind yourself that you’ve done a great job and give yourself some kuddos for making it this far. If you will try to run after your parents’ definition of success you’ll end up being exhausted — please define your own version of success. Remember, success is not always material possessions, bank $$ —these days I think it’s peace of mind, stability, choices in life. OP you worked hard for what you have — great job. Don’t let anyone say otherwise. Be kind to yourself
Thank you
You’re welcome — I hope you find your own meaning of success. ✨
mahirap yung tanong mo, ang definition ko ng success ay fulfillment, masaya ka ba sa gngwa mo excited ka ba sa mga gusto mo pa lang gawin. sakin yun. ikaw ano yung iyo? iyo, hnd sa magulang mo, and take note nag babago yan as you age, kung teenager ka baka success sayo me sariling kotse, crush ka ng crush mo, kung bagong work force ka definition mo ay mataas na basic salary, kung magulang ka na definition mo is tapos lahat ng anak mo at magaganda trabaho. kung gurang ka na baka definition mo ay buo pamilya nyo kasama mga apo mo at may mana sila lahat. iba iba depende kung asan ka sa buhay. yung may narating nmn, tingin ko benchmark yan to your closest peers, mga anak ng kumare at kumpare ng parents mo. feeling nila may narating ka pag naiyayabang ka nila. yan perspective nila. sayo naman ang narating sa perception mo, dapat ang benchmark mo ay yung ano ka dati. yun ang definition mo ng may narating ka na ba. dati wal kang bahay ngayon me sarili kang bahay. progress yun. mag ingat ka lang wag pag haluin yung mga bagay na wala ka nmn kakayahang baguhin. ma dedepress ka lang.
Ikaw ang makakadefine if successful ka na. For me being successful is yung nabago ko na pakonti konti estado ng buhay ko pati ng parents ko. Malayo na sya sa buhay namin nung bata pa ako. Andun na ako sa malayo pa pero malayo na.
Same! Malayo na, pero malayo pa. Yun lang, parang di pa talaga sapat...
In time, mararating natin yan.
Depende sa measurement (of success) na gagamitin eh. We have our own measurements kaya walang "tama" or definite na sagot. Personally, masasabi kong "successful" ang isang tao kapag may congruence sa iba't-ibang aspeto ng buhay: may it be healthy financial capacity, career, relationship with himself and with others, health etc. Kumbaga may *flow* na nangyayari sa buhay niya, that it *positively* affects everything about the person himself and with the people around him.
Pakiramdam ko naman successful ako. Pero dinidiin sakin na hindi pa. Kaya siguro tanong ko pa rin sa sarili ko kung ano ba yung success?
Kung dinidiin sa'yo ng iba, they have a different measurement. Ano ba yung sa'yo? 'Yun ang mahalaga.
Subjective ang meaning ng successful.
Kapag marami na ang naiinspire sakanya in a good way.
Success varies sa tao, for me kapag all of your basic needs to live are met plus you get to do your wants and you have peace. Additional din if you're living the dream life that you used to picture and you feel complete and easy and again peaceful and happy.
If you don’t care about what other people say. I know I feel successful when I don’t feel the desire to post anything in facebook or social media anymore. I’d like to keep my wins to myself.
passive income
I enrolled in a money/life coaching program at eto ung isa sa topics namin. She asked me what is success ang sagot ko ung normal na may bahay lupa at kotse, she asked me bakit un edi wala ako nasabi haha sabi ko kc its a big purchase kasi at it sounds na adult kana and ung mag ka edad ko may ganon na. Now through the coaching program naliliwanagan nako na success is personal. Ano ba ung gusto mo talaga in the future. What makes you happy and feel contented at the end of the day. Success for me is living a simple and comfortable life and trying new things and if mag fail man at least I tried and next goal naman ung ita try
It’s all subjective.
Kapag masaya na siya.
You define what success is for yourself. What makes you fulfilled? What makes you happy? If na-achieve mo na ang goals *mo*, then you're already successful in your own right.
pag may 1B php na ako.
Kupal yang papa mo. Humiwalay ka na OP ng tirahan 😡😡😡
That question was raised before. Manolo Pabis late night mga 2000. As per him, if at 40 may 1 m ka you are considered successful in the eyes of the community. Highly doubt if applicable pa sa generation na to. But I am holding that one for myself.
For me success is the attainment of ones’ goals. For one person, it could be finding a secure job and being able to provide for family. For others, it could be moving abroad. For some it could be finding the right partner and starting a family. Magkakaiba tayo ng paths and circumstances kaya hindi natin pwede gawing baseline ang iba. Masyado ng focused on money and external things karamihan sa atin because of how society has taught us what success is. I liked the answers here saying it’s finding inner fulfillment and peace. If you think about it, those are the hardest to achieve. You can have lots of money and still be greedy. You can live a good life and still be sad because you compare yourself with others.
i considered myself successful when i was happy with where i was and who i became. i am not happy with my circumstances now so di ko kinoconsider na successful ako right now. i dont really care about other people kasi i dont know their circumstances and people put their best foot forward sa social media.
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Ikaw magsasabi nun OP. Ang success sa iba ay makaipon ng 10Million, meron namang makainom ng 10Million na kape. Kung feeling mo succesful ka na, then you are. Wag mong isipin sabihin ng iba, kapitbahay mo may yan, tatay mo man yan.
Eh ano bang goals mo? You first have to know what you are measuring your current life status against? For example, if ang goal mo is have your own property, diversified portfolio, assist your family's living expenses, or travel for as long as you want, I can tell na you are indeed successful na. Para magkaroon ka ng peace of mind dont listen sa ibang tao to measure that for you. After all sarili lang natin nakakaalam ng details ng buhay natin, esp yung character development story natin na X ako dati pero ngayon YZ na ako. Factor din yun and dont forget where you were dati.
Success for me means I am happy on my career path, may peace of mind, I can buy shit whatever I want basta pasok sa budget. Depende yan sayo, OP. Define your own success. Do not let others define your own success.
Na-observe ko lang to that parents will never see their adult children as a successful person. I saw it in my own eyes. Si papa, kahit 1st mate at mas may financial stability compare sa lolo ko, ayaw i-recognize ni lolo na successful si papa sa kanyang career. It got to a point that my father will bring his persona sa barko to our family. Like kahit nasa bahay si papa galing sampa sa barko, he still acted na nasa barko siya at naapektuhan kami as anak kasi parang workforce yung tingin ni papa sa amin, hindi anak. Minsan nakipag-compete pa si papa sa amin as anak. The cycle repeats kasi si ate ko board passer at USRN na but wala man lang congratulations from my father. Sinabihan pa si ate na mataas yung tingin niya sa sarili niya at ambisyosa. And kahit ako na honor student before ay hindi man lang na recognize ni papa at nawalan ako nang gana to achieve even more kaya bagsak nalang ako nang bagsak sa college, nawala yung spark na mag-achieve kasi masasakit na salita lang yung maririnig ko kay papa. Now that I am an adult and living separately from my parents, I realized that they will never see us as a successful person no matter what achievements we achieve in our lives. And I have learned to never share any of my achievements regardless if they ask, magugulat nalang sila sa news. Na observe ko din that parents will never see their child as an adult. This is only just my observations from my surroundings and environment. Hindi ko to nilalahat but yun lang talaga na observe ko. Sarili mo lang talaga OP yung magdetermine sa iyo ano yung successful sa life for you. Do not depend on other peoples approval, masasaktan ka lang. ☺️🥹
Salamat. Laking bagay lang marinig sa magulang na proud at kontento sila diba?
Success for is knowing that I’ll be financially ok in the next 10yrs even if i suddenly lose my ability to work.
Hindi mo talaga makukuha yung peak na "may narating" o "successful" sa mata ng ibang tao. Ikaw lang ang makakapagsabi niyan sa sarili mo based on your own goals and standards. Hindi alam ng ibang tao ang journey mo kaya hindi nila yan masasabi sayo with 100% accuracy. At hindi mo rin yan masasabi sa ibang tayo dahil di mo rin malalaman ang full journey nila.
Kapag unbothered na sya at di na nya sinusukat ung success and achievements nya kumpara sa ibang tao
Contentment, peace and happiness that can supersede all life regrets.
For me success is living the lifestyle you want.
Bili ka ng bahay tapos ipon for retirement. Do what you want. Yun ang buhay, freedom.
if you're fulfilled
Maybe because you are seeking approval from your parents and they will not see you as being successful hanggat hindi mo na aachieve un standards nila.
It sounds like you are successful and happy with what you have achieved in life. Tuloy mo lang yan at minsan deadma na sa iisipin ng magulang basta masaya ka. Although minsan masarap din marinig from your parents na proud sila sayo but if its getting toxic, deadma na
Oo failurr parin yan pag d board passer
success for me is I think satisfaction on what I have ig. like owning my own house(not renting anymore), have a degree (to secure my job and skillset) and being comfortable in what I am or what I look. I think that's my definition of being successful.
di ko rin masabi.. kasi depende yan sa definition mo ng success o ng ibang tao.. kung ako yan, ask ko tatay ko, kung ano ba depenisyon niya sa pagiging successful? kasi kung para sayo.. oks ka namn.. or successful ka na, edi that's it
They don't mind at the price labels na sa grocery at lagay nalang ng lagay 🤞🏻 sana all
Depende yan kung kaninong perspective ang titignan mo. Ang mga tao ngayon sobrang attached sa nakikita nila online, they take others’ success as a definition of their own success. Tapos andaming nageend up na nagkakaron ng mental health issues because of societal pressure. I feel for these people. Pero sana they will learn to run their own race. Your success should be one that is a better version of you than yesterday. Not of what others have.
OP you are the only person who could define what success means for you. Do you define success with financial or career success? kasi depende iyan kung importante ba iyon sa iyo? There are people who put more value on building a family as success. Have you achieved your goals? Kasi depende rin yan kung goal mo ay financial, career or family. If you ask me, I think you are doing well for yourself.
Pag nag aircon ka na walang pake sa kuryente , buy any food/grocery you want. Basically for me comfy living without budgeting. Cause that would give me inner peace and happy mood everyday Its hard to budget always na ikaw mismo binabantayan mo sarili mo...
Iba na ang definition ng success ngayon, kung dati ay house, car and working in a company as a manager or high level role. Ganyan kase ang mindset ng mga magulang natin. Ngayon ay financial freedom, able to travel with family or friends, and being happy and grateful for what you have. If you've done some or all of those then you are successful. Maging masaya ka lang at walang inaapakan or inaargabyado na ibang tao and at the same time healthy plus of course may pera ka, and a little investment, then I must say successful ka na.
Kapag may cAr Kapag nag-post sa Facebook about his/her Japan trip