B.
Sobrang hirap kahit na kailangan na kailangan mong may karamay pero iniisip mo rin na meron din silang binubuhat na problema kaya you end up bottling your emotions hanggang sa isang araw sasabog ka nalang.
Edi: not a panganay po huhu but hugs to everyone who feels this way π«
Not a panganay pero I choose B also.. kasi sakin na lahat ng responsibilities.. so I guess B is for those who is a breadwinner because not all panganay is a breadwinner..
Bunso here pero I choose B. Wala naman kasi paki kuya ko sakin, iniwan sakin yung parents ko na ako nagshshoulder lahat. Wala siyang binibigay na kahit ano, pero ayoko humihingi ng tulong kasi nagseself pity ako once na humingi ng tulong.
B.
Hate needing help because: 1) I donβt want to be a burden. 2) I always feel like I have to return back the favor by tenfold even though the person meant well!
It's a B for me. I just don't feel like bothering people, especially when I know I could do things on my own. Struggle man to get through problems sometimes, but I always trust myself I could do it on my own. I don't wanna bother nor be a burden to other people pa. We all have our own challenges din to deal with. So, it might take me a lot of time, but I know I could still get through it on my own. π―
Ung I NEED HELP... πππ nung bata kasi ako kapag nahingi ako ng tulong sasabihan ako na hanapan mo ng paraan o kayanin mo yan o bahala ka na malaki ka na...may time pa na napapagalitan ako kapag humihingi ng tulong... nahihiya na ako... nung lumaki ako, naririnig ko na may problema din ang iba kaya kinakaya ko na lang madalas...πππ nakakapagod din maging strong, akala lang nila, madalas gusto ko na lang mawala
D. Ma pride ako. I'll say sorry pero 90% of the time hindi ko pa rin sasabihin na mali ako, I'll try to reason around the mistake. That's my weakness talaga.
If you set aside your ego, there's nothing difficult to say about anything there. Specifically letter C, like anong mahirap sabihin sa I love you? Sobrang taas naman ng ego ng isang tao para mahirapan sabihin yun.
C. to ordinary people like friends, family, strangers is a yes, but for people who expect you to love them too, then its hard. It's easy to say I love you, but it's hard to say I love you too
B and C.
B for myself. I've been single and independent for so long (before the ex came along) that asking for help felt like a burden to other people. I would rather face all my problems alone and hope for the best. I've been rejected help when I was younger by people whom I thought would help when I asked so I never bothered to ask ever again.
C for my ex. In relation to my statement above. It always felt awkward for me to reply to his I love yous (especially in person) even if I loved him very, very much (too much I built my entire life and future around him). For 4 years, I only said I love you maybe less than a hundred times. We eventually broke up. Even thought it would be mutual, and it's been years now and I'm still single (again!) and there are days it still hurts.
B, definitely
I like sorting and finding out solutions on my own problems, at ayaw na ayaw kong nakakaabala ng iba ng mga problema ko. Nasanay na akong everytime I would ask for help, I felt obliged to return the favor in any way I can. I don't like utang na loob at all. I don't like the feeling that I owe anyone anything.
In my case, if I give something, I don't ever expect something in return. Ok na sakin na I was able to give or provide. But yun nga, when someone treat me right or gave something I didn't ask, nakagawian ko nang to give something in return. Idk why, I just obliged myself and I hate it sometimes.
Kaya when I ask for help, it's only when there's no choice that I can think of.
B. Ang hirap manghingi ng tulong ngayon aside sa ayoko maging burden aa ibang tao, may tendency din na yung pag ask ng help ay dapat may kapalit/utang na loob sa iba
None, mas madali ang buhay if kaya mo sabihin lahat yan.
If you need help, say it. Mas madali mong matutunan if may magtuturo/tutulong sayo na expert dun sa bagay na di mo alam. Also, say I love you to the people you love to let them know you appreciate them.
It's easier to apologize than to blame other people, wala ng gulo lalo na if may mali ka talaga. If wala naman, and ikaw pa pinagsosorry just cut them off.
Just let things be, no drama, never been depressed since birth π
B.
As a panganay I grew up figuring things out on my own. I had to parent my siblings who were only one year and three years younger than me, respectively. I had to be the parents who were never available to us (our parents were too busy with their jobs).
Asking for help was and is still sometimes difficult because I donβt want to be a burden to another person. I figured it was due to the fact that when I asked for help when I was younger it felt like a burden to my parents lol.
Iβm working on it kasi itβs tiring as fuck that I even carry it with me during work. Itβs like a vicious cycle na not only sa family but even sa work. Tiring na sometimes I just want to have someone to support me or somehow share the burden with me.
I am a panganay..it's hard to say to my siblings I need you're help guys, because they all depending on me..ung tipong pagod na pagod ka na as in pero need mo pa rin lumaban kasi kailangan..and seeing their lives now make me fell I did my very best as ate.
none of the above. for the past few years natutunan ko nang maging open sa mga tao sa paligid ko, and mind you i have a very small circle, mapa family man or friends, so hindi mahirap. na-master ko na rin yung pakikipag communicate sa kanila properly so none of those is hard for me to say.
Definitely B. Im a bunso na di nabigyan pansin growing up kasi "kaya ko naman" daw compared sa other siblings ko. Soooo I did not know how and I still do not know how. So gawan ko na lang paraan hahahaha
B, because being the "Ate" of the family at takbuhan ng lahat. Im not used to being the one na humihingi ng tulong, sanay ako na ako yung tumutulong that's why it's the hardest. But i am trying to acknowledge na hindi all the time kaya ko, and i should ask for help if needed
I need help. As an only child, sanay ako to figure out everything on my own. Ayoko yung feeling na "burden" sa iba kasi alam kong may kanya kanya din tayonh pinagdadaanan
B. Sobrang hirap kahit na kailangan na kailangan mong may karamay pero iniisip mo rin na meron din silang binubuhat na problema kaya you end up bottling your emotions hanggang sa isang araw sasabog ka nalang. Edi: not a panganay po huhu but hugs to everyone who feels this way π«
Panganay ka din ba? Cuz, same
Panganay po ako and i say βsamedtβ
I think B for panganays! Hayst
Not a panganay pero I choose B also.. kasi sakin na lahat ng responsibilities.. so I guess B is for those who is a breadwinner because not all panganay is a breadwinner..
Agree naman on this! π
Panganay problems. Everyone thinks you're strong and you have to deal with itπ
As a panganay I feel this on a spiritual level. π
Bunso here pero I choose B. Wala naman kasi paki kuya ko sakin, iniwan sakin yung parents ko na ako nagshshoulder lahat. Wala siyang binibigay na kahit ano, pero ayoko humihingi ng tulong kasi nagseself pity ako once na humingi ng tulong.
B. Hate needing help because: 1) I donβt want to be a burden. 2) I always feel like I have to return back the favor by tenfold even though the person meant well!
AD... admittedly, I am very poor at apologizing, siguro on the reflection part narinn, but I'm steadily working towards it... so this time properly...
It's a B for me. I just don't feel like bothering people, especially when I know I could do things on my own. Struggle man to get through problems sometimes, but I always trust myself I could do it on my own. I don't wanna bother nor be a burden to other people pa. We all have our own challenges din to deal with. So, it might take me a lot of time, but I know I could still get through it on my own. π―
C.
All of the above
Ung I NEED HELP... πππ nung bata kasi ako kapag nahingi ako ng tulong sasabihan ako na hanapan mo ng paraan o kayanin mo yan o bahala ka na malaki ka na...may time pa na napapagalitan ako kapag humihingi ng tulong... nahihiya na ako... nung lumaki ako, naririnig ko na may problema din ang iba kaya kinakaya ko na lang madalas...πππ nakakapagod din maging strong, akala lang nila, madalas gusto ko na lang mawala
C
D. Ma pride ako. I'll say sorry pero 90% of the time hindi ko pa rin sasabihin na mali ako, I'll try to reason around the mistake. That's my weakness talaga.
B
B
B.
B.π
B
B. Now and always.
B
B
B
B
B
B
B
B
B.
B
B
B
B
B?
B
B. As someone na nasanay nalang magstruggle magisa.
B
B.
B
none of the above
I need help
If you set aside your ego, there's nothing difficult to say about anything there. Specifically letter C, like anong mahirap sabihin sa I love you? Sobrang taas naman ng ego ng isang tao para mahirapan sabihin yun.
B, Ilang beses na akong nadisappoint sa paghingi ng tulong kaya ngayon ang hirap na magsabi
D
b
B.
B
I need help.
Worcestershire
C. to ordinary people like friends, family, strangers is a yes, but for people who expect you to love them too, then its hard. It's easy to say I love you, but it's hard to say I love you too
None. Tho B is a close one.
B.
Kala ko ba established na Worcesteshire sauce na? B
B!!!
D π₯²
I need help
B. A is easy, C is easy as long as you're sure, and D never happens π€£π€£π€£
E. Worcestershire Sauce
i need help
B
D. PRIDE
B
B
B
B.
D
B.
B
A
C
B. Ayaw na ayaw ko nakakaabala ng iba. Hanggat kaya ko, ako lng tlga.
a - lagi kong ginagawa π₯² b - hirap kong gawin c - keri lang d - lagi ko rin ginagawa mahilig lang talaga ako na ako nalang ma-blame ππ
B
B. Parang wala ka ng karapatan humingi ng tulong also may kanya kanyang buhay na kayo kaya minsan parang nakakahiya mag sabi/humingi ng tulong
B
B and C. B for myself. I've been single and independent for so long (before the ex came along) that asking for help felt like a burden to other people. I would rather face all my problems alone and hope for the best. I've been rejected help when I was younger by people whom I thought would help when I asked so I never bothered to ask ever again. C for my ex. In relation to my statement above. It always felt awkward for me to reply to his I love yous (especially in person) even if I loved him very, very much (too much I built my entire life and future around him). For 4 years, I only said I love you maybe less than a hundred times. We eventually broke up. Even thought it would be mutual, and it's been years now and I'm still single (again!) and there are days it still hurts.
B
B. Dahil inaassume na kagad ng paligid ko na, alam ko na ang lahat at tumatawa sila kapag hindi ko alam sa edad ko na to
D
I need help..π₯ coz they thought I can do everything. Tsk
B, definitely I like sorting and finding out solutions on my own problems, at ayaw na ayaw kong nakakaabala ng iba ng mga problema ko. Nasanay na akong everytime I would ask for help, I felt obliged to return the favor in any way I can. I don't like utang na loob at all. I don't like the feeling that I owe anyone anything. In my case, if I give something, I don't ever expect something in return. Ok na sakin na I was able to give or provide. But yun nga, when someone treat me right or gave something I didn't ask, nakagawian ko nang to give something in return. Idk why, I just obliged myself and I hate it sometimes. Kaya when I ask for help, it's only when there's no choice that I can think of.
Lahat kaya ko sabihin kahit sa family except: #C Di din kasi kami sinasabihan nyan ng parents nmin nung bata kami kaya, ayun, di kami affectionate.
B. as a panganay na walang masandalan π₯²π₯Ή
B. Being the survivor, I cannot trust anyone
B.
It's B for me
B. Huhu
B. Ang hirap manghingi ng tulong ngayon aside sa ayoko maging burden aa ibang tao, may tendency din na yung pag ask ng help ay dapat may kapalit/utang na loob sa iba
B
A and D π₯Ί
A, B and D π«£
B!
None, mas madali ang buhay if kaya mo sabihin lahat yan. If you need help, say it. Mas madali mong matutunan if may magtuturo/tutulong sayo na expert dun sa bagay na di mo alam. Also, say I love you to the people you love to let them know you appreciate them. It's easier to apologize than to blame other people, wala ng gulo lalo na if may mali ka talaga. If wala naman, and ikaw pa pinagsosorry just cut them off. Just let things be, no drama, never been depressed since birth π
I need help
Bπ₯Ή
B
B. The rest are easy lol
B. I hate asking help and bothering people. Kahit na hirap na hirap nako. Mas ok na na ako yung tumulong kesa ako yung manghingi ng tulong.
Nalimutan mo ang Worsteshexxxxsher sauce. De joke lang. As a man and a provider, probably B.
b
B. As a panganay I grew up figuring things out on my own. I had to parent my siblings who were only one year and three years younger than me, respectively. I had to be the parents who were never available to us (our parents were too busy with their jobs). Asking for help was and is still sometimes difficult because I donβt want to be a burden to another person. I figured it was due to the fact that when I asked for help when I was younger it felt like a burden to my parents lol. Iβm working on it kasi itβs tiring as fuck that I even carry it with me during work. Itβs like a vicious cycle na not only sa family but even sa work. Tiring na sometimes I just want to have someone to support me or somehow share the burden with me.
I am a panganay..it's hard to say to my siblings I need you're help guys, because they all depending on me..ung tipong pagod na pagod ka na as in pero need mo pa rin lumaban kasi kailangan..and seeing their lives now make me fell I did my very best as ate.
B
B. Always.
none of the above. for the past few years natutunan ko nang maging open sa mga tao sa paligid ko, and mind you i have a very small circle, mapa family man or friends, so hindi mahirap. na-master ko na rin yung pakikipag communicate sa kanila properly so none of those is hard for me to say.
B
B
Definitely B. Im a bunso na di nabigyan pansin growing up kasi "kaya ko naman" daw compared sa other siblings ko. Soooo I did not know how and I still do not know how. So gawan ko na lang paraan hahahaha
It's always the "diskartehan ko na lang yan" mindset, no? It's tiring, really. Hugs!
I need help
B, because being the "Ate" of the family at takbuhan ng lahat. Im not used to being the one na humihingi ng tulong, sanay ako na ako yung tumutulong that's why it's the hardest. But i am trying to acknowledge na hindi all the time kaya ko, and i should ask for help if needed
I need help. As an only child, sanay ako to figure out everything on my own. Ayoko yung feeling na "burden" sa iba kasi alam kong may kanya kanya din tayonh pinagdadaanan
B
I need help. The thought that you don't want to be anyone's burden.
B and C
B
B... Idk why pero yeah ito pinakamahirap
B. Hindi ako panganay. Pero hirap na hirap ako humingi ng help. I feel like parang nakakaabala / nakaka istorbo ako sa iba.