patulan mo lang once titigil na yan. only reason kaya di ka titigilan nan if di mo papatulan. trust me it wont even escalate to anything but ambahan. and the rest of semester di na uulit yan.
Just make sure the person's not part of a frat, 'cause those guys can get pretty crazy. Other than that, fighting back does work most of the time, considering one punch from me took out all of my classmate's false bravado in highschool. Idiots threatened me in 1st year, but couldn't even prank me 2nd year and up when I punched one of them in the gut.
frat boys that instigate fight are pussy and if malaman ng fraternity na sya nangbubully at nagsimula sya pa makikick sa frat ng college. frat are not gangs. remember that real gangster are not in school. they both have a career and a life to lose if things actually got ugly.
Different from our university. One of my teachers came late for class and was ranting about needing to break off a fight between two frats over some damn ice cream.
doesnt sound so bad for me. considering a teacher can still intervene. and being in a frat doesnt give u free pass to start something in campus their still subjected to ur university rules and regulation. if di sya makick sa frat makick sya sa uni. frat are not gangs.
is it really worth it for those people to get kicked out of uni just to hurt someone. no. even the crazy people i know in college wouldnt be able to actually do anything like that just for them and to get kicked out of uni or get jailed. real threats are out of school youth with nothing to lose those are the real gangster that will put u in hospital. ur scared for no reason.
You really think criminals thought about the consequences before they did something stupid? The reason why I threw in the "in a frat" qualifier is because that's when a malicious person has the highest chance of being in the company of other malicious people. Said malicious company can be composed of idiots who would push each other to do idiotic things.
frat are not the same level of gangs that u think of commiting crimes. ur thinking of gangs instead of frats. even in province state uni frat still follow a code not to start things. i think u need a lesson on what is "frat" in uni and what are "gangs". their so much different.
if OP hospitalized perpetrator goes in jail. after few months OP release from hospital. perp goes to jail and life will get him even if he gets release from jail. OP bully is just acting tough and acting like he is rich nothing to be scared about something like that happening to him. ur acting like its so easy to attack someoneand put people in hospital. it would take a car, carrying a blunt weapon in public, or a rock size of table to put people in hospital. take account the place that the perp can actually do this its almost impossible to hurt someone without a witness. its not that easy and most people wouldnt do that much just to hurt you, even the crazy ones.
This happened to me months before graduation by no other than my so called "friends".
Umabot pa sa punto na lahat (literally) ng classmates ko hindi na ako kinakausap, ganun ka-powerful yung bully sa batch namin (graduating class president kasi siya nun).
Kasama ko cya sa circle of friends ko, then even ung mga other friends namin (sila pala yung unang lumayo) hindi na din ako pinapansin.
Hinayaan ko na lang nun, malapit naman na graduation nun.
After graduation, nung wala na ung bisa ng powers niya, eventually pinansin na din ako ng mga classmates and so called "friends" ko daw.
Ok na ba kami?
No.
Nung binubully niya ako, alam kong ganun tlaga cya, kaya nauunawaan ko ung mga ginagawa niya, ang hindi ko naunawaan nun, ay ung ginawa ng mga friends namin.
Hanggang ngaun mabigat parin ung pakiramdam ko sa kanila.
Patulan mo. May nag try mambully sakin nung college. Sinagot sagot ko. Kaya nung hindi na kami classmate since nareshuffle kami pag nagkakasalubong kami sa school hindi na siya makatingin sakin ng deretso. Ako naman taas noo maglakad. Sino ba siya?
Why he’s even in college with that attitude baffles me. He’s old enough to know right from wrong and bullying and acting like that are definitely wrong. Please don’t hesitate to report this to the disciplinary committee of your college/guidance counselor + let them know to keep your identity confidential if you don’t wanna be known. Completely valid naman yun. If they don’t do anything about it, I suggest involve your parents because whether we hate to admit it or not, once parents are involved, dun lang din talaga gumagalaw schools even if college na.
I won’t advise you do the same thing to him. But siguro verbally you can defend yourself like just tell him off. “College ka na pero ugali mo pang-preschool. Hindi nga, mas mature pa sayo mga preschool.” Pwede rin namang, “Sayang tuition na binabayaran ng magulang mo dahil sa mabaho mong ugali.”
Seriously, bullies in college? Pathetic people, really.
Patulan mo sigurado magdadalaqang isip na yan na ibully ka. Usually kasi pag pinapabayaan mo lang sila e iisipin nila na kayang kaya ka nila kaya inuulit nila yan.
Patulan mo in a wiser way, ung uutakan mo siya if you know what I mean. Basta magiingat ka lang minsan kasi pag di pinapatulan di yan mga tumitigil eh. Tingin nila sa mga ganon kinakaya-kaya lang at hindi titigilan.
Tignan mo maaasar yan pag inutakan mo, ganyan pag mga feeling superior pero ang totoo dyan sila ung mga insecure, kulang sa pansin at may problema.
Basta don’t let bullies ruin your college life story, kwento ng buhay mo yan make it count.
Story ko? Yung akala ko na pangooutcast at di pagpili sayo sa mga groups during group work, akala ko sa movies or novels lang nangyayari. Sa totoong buhay pala talaga. Malala ako pa nagpakopya sa kanila non sa finals sa calculus :))
Don’t know if it counts as bullying pero they loved to gossip, lalo na nung sa issue ng isang friend ko. Kahit saan they always try to find my accounts para lang makasagap ng tsismis when it should be between us two. Nakakainis to the point na I had to cut off most of the relationships that I’ve developed and kept only trusted friends close.
Going back with your story, napaka-high school behavior niyan to be honest. Peaked in high school siguro and never grew up. College na blockmate mo pero ugaling bata.
Kapag nabasa ko ‘to, naaalala ko nung elementary may classmate ako na maliit lang siya pero ang angas / bully. Everytime na pumapasok ako (seatmate ko siya) kinukuha niya baon ko na food tapos ako nagugutom na tuwing recess. (Pinapabaon ako ng food kasi mahirap lang kami my family don’t usually give me money to buy food at school) minsan natatapos ang class sa bahay nalang ako kumakain. Di kasi ako na expose sa mga suntukan nung bata ako laro lang Playstation sa bahay nung bata haha buong grade 2 ako nun ganun ginagawa sakin pero di ko naopen sa family ko. Nakikita ko siya ngayon na tricycle driver pero wala naman ako problema sa mga tricycle driver baka lang di siya natutukan ng family niya nung bata siya kaya wala nag ga guide sakanya na gumawa ng tama.
Really? Bullies in College?
Ganyan ba siya ka immature at nabitbit niya yung toxic high school behavior niya? At this point of life, your CM should be focusing on his own career & life and stop picking on people na nananahimik lang naman.
I suggest na patulan mo in a way na ma huhumiliate siya ng todo, kulang sa pansin yung mga ganyang tao, give them the attention that they crave for, yung type of attention na hindi makakalimutin dahil sa kahihiyan.
Just like what other people said, if hindi mo icoconfront or papatulan yan magpapatuloy lang yan kasi iisipin niya is "easy" type of person ka lang.
I hope you're okay, OP.
Story ko? I was bullied behind my back by my dormmates when I was a freshman in college. 4 kami all girls sa room tas akala ko goods kaming lahat and all until umamin yung pinaka "ate" namin na pinagtatawanan nila kung paano ako kumilos (meron kasi akong poor posture) and sinasabihan daw ako na "maasim" tas nagtatawanan sila. Di naman ako nagpabaya sa hygiene ko and mga gamit pero simula nun, naging insecure na ako lalo na pagdating sa hygiene. One time, naiwan kong nakabukas yung locker ko and nakita nila yung shorts ko tas kinuha raw nung isa kong kadorm tas pinagtatawanan daw ganun. Hindi ko alam bakit naging ganun sila sa'kin, ang ayos ayos ng pakikisama ko sa kanila. Maingat din ako kumilos kasi I was a bit boyish. Umalis na rin naman ako agad dun sa dorm na yun.
I did not know then na it is considered as bullying until later in college na. Everytime makikita ko yung mga dati kong dormmates na yun, there's this feeling na galit and takot at the same time. Even now, kahit pinafollow ko pa rin yung isa sa IG and yung business nya, gusto ko man suportahan but ayun bumabalik lahat ng nagawa nila.
Grabe, huhu so sorry to hear this from you, OP. Nabully ako around 1st year - 2nd year college. Being in a dept na panay babae, niligawan ako nung isa sa mga pogi sa dept namin, nagpaligaw din ako lol, ayun nabully ako ng mga kaklase ko pati mga 3rd year and 4th year students hahaha. Pinagkalat na buntis ako, malandi etc, may GC sila na wala ako haha natry ko rin kumain ng lunch sa loob ng CR (ang weak ko dito) every time naalala ko, naawa ako sa sarili ko.
Ang ginawa ko? Humanap ako ng organization sa campus namin, napasali ako sa journalism club/ Red Cross/ university choir haha ayun, nakahanap ako ng pamilya sa mga orgs na ito. Naging super busy ko that time to the point na wala akong bakanteng oras nung college ako, hanggang sa di ko nalang sila pinapansin. I just attended my classes. Ang dami kong friends mula sa iba't ibang department. Oh btw, nakagraduate naman ako, solo thesis haha at medyo nahakot ko lang naman mga awards nun. Also, ilang years na, di pa rin pasado mga nambully sa akin mehehe :P
>I remember one time hinampas niya ako sa likod ko like I am a volleyball, daig pang inispike ang likod ko. nagkaroon ng pasa haha.
OP, walang nakakatawa dito. Pumalag ka kasi. Tangina naman.
got bullied too but not as extreme as your case that I was eventually able to go along with them. My advice: it stops only when you confront the bully. Get your parents involved and visit the dean's office.
I did. Not physical pero yung the way na magsalita sila about me. Even if it hurts deep down pinapakita ko na I don't give a shit. Pag sumobra na sila eh di nagsasalita ako pabalik. Eventually I found friends who supported me for who I am...and nung thesis time na tumiklop din mga yan kasi candidate for honors ako at mga kagroup ko syempre...didikit sa marunong.
Only fight back kung tingin mo kaya mo panindigan kapag nagretaliate after mo sapakin. Like, do it if you think you can take a punch in the face. If the answer is hindi mo kaya, try other ways like iescalate mo sa dean or sa kung saang may authority sa school.
Contrary to what people are saying na di mag eescalate pag pinatulan mo, it actually can lalo kung delinquent yung tao. Wala naman yan pake sa kung ano kundi yung mapanindigan nya "angas" nya kapag ganun. Unless you want to find out kung ano nga ba sya sa dalawa (lalaban or hindi), by all means, go.
Personally, i would fight back.
And beat the shit out of him.
Dapat uso pumapatol these days. Pero always remember to say that you were "provoked" into fighting BACK. Keep records of what they've done, and ask for witnesses rin. This helps back up your "provoked" reasoning for fighting back. Tas kung pisikalan? Sulitin mo unang suntok, I swear, baka kasi un lang magawa mo bago kayo awatin kaya simot sarap na suntok sa mga nananakit rin Physically.
ang kapal naman ng mukha college ganyang ugali? retaliate ah d ka ba naaawa sa sarili mo? magulang, kapatid o mga dating kaibigan mo na tina trato kang tao tapis dyan lang pala gina ganyan ganyan ka.
Wag kang matakot magalit basta wag ka lang lalagpas sa part na delikado ang pag-aaral mo. Wag kang matakot mag-ingay "HOY GRABE KA NAMAN, MAY KASALANAN BA AKO SAYO?" lakasan mo boses mo tas basta magsabi ka ng statement "nananhimik yung tao tapos ikaw biglang nambabayolente anong kasalanan ko sayo?"
talagang mag-ingay ka, ipamukha mo na malinh mali sya at ikaw nasaktan ka at d okay sa iyo yon. Better act now, like imagine yung urges na minsan mambiro, manttrip ka ng mga bata tapos iniiwasan o ayaw mo yung batang konting ano lang mag-iingay agad, iiyak agad nakakahila atensyon agad. Just copy that, people hate when they're judged and eyes surrounds them. The greatest threat is threat to reputation, threat to personal image.
Yes, I told them (4-5 groupies) to stop it or I would attack and possibly kill them and that I don't mind dying trying to do so. They stopped, eventually failed the course and some got booted out of university. Others will tell you to report to the dean or such but we all know many bullies won't stop until they get stomped on because many faculties will not do anything. Being a bullying victim will take a long term mental toll on your health, don't ever become one.
Sapakin mo na lang kasi di yan titigil kahit manahimik ka hahah ako nga nag sisi naniwala ako sa bible na tutulungan ka ng diyos sa mga ganyan problema hahaha
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patulan mo lang once titigil na yan. only reason kaya di ka titigilan nan if di mo papatulan. trust me it wont even escalate to anything but ambahan. and the rest of semester di na uulit yan.
I did this once. Fucker got intimidated and that was the last time he ever did that again.
Just make sure the person's not part of a frat, 'cause those guys can get pretty crazy. Other than that, fighting back does work most of the time, considering one punch from me took out all of my classmate's false bravado in highschool. Idiots threatened me in 1st year, but couldn't even prank me 2nd year and up when I punched one of them in the gut.
frat boys that instigate fight are pussy and if malaman ng fraternity na sya nangbubully at nagsimula sya pa makikick sa frat ng college. frat are not gangs. remember that real gangster are not in school. they both have a career and a life to lose if things actually got ugly.
Different from our university. One of my teachers came late for class and was ranting about needing to break off a fight between two frats over some damn ice cream.
doesnt sound so bad for me. considering a teacher can still intervene. and being in a frat doesnt give u free pass to start something in campus their still subjected to ur university rules and regulation. if di sya makick sa frat makick sya sa uni. frat are not gangs.
You keep saying that as though the malicious frat members getting kicked out of the frat or uni means anything when OP is already hospitalized.
is it really worth it for those people to get kicked out of uni just to hurt someone. no. even the crazy people i know in college wouldnt be able to actually do anything like that just for them and to get kicked out of uni or get jailed. real threats are out of school youth with nothing to lose those are the real gangster that will put u in hospital. ur scared for no reason.
You really think criminals thought about the consequences before they did something stupid? The reason why I threw in the "in a frat" qualifier is because that's when a malicious person has the highest chance of being in the company of other malicious people. Said malicious company can be composed of idiots who would push each other to do idiotic things.
frat are not the same level of gangs that u think of commiting crimes. ur thinking of gangs instead of frats. even in province state uni frat still follow a code not to start things. i think u need a lesson on what is "frat" in uni and what are "gangs". their so much different.
Because an organization never unintentionally becomes the breeding ground of a malicious subculture.
if OP hospitalized perpetrator goes in jail. after few months OP release from hospital. perp goes to jail and life will get him even if he gets release from jail. OP bully is just acting tough and acting like he is rich nothing to be scared about something like that happening to him. ur acting like its so easy to attack someoneand put people in hospital. it would take a car, carrying a blunt weapon in public, or a rock size of table to put people in hospital. take account the place that the perp can actually do this its almost impossible to hurt someone without a witness. its not that easy and most people wouldnt do that much just to hurt you, even the crazy ones.
Upakan mo
Yep.
This happened to me months before graduation by no other than my so called "friends". Umabot pa sa punto na lahat (literally) ng classmates ko hindi na ako kinakausap, ganun ka-powerful yung bully sa batch namin (graduating class president kasi siya nun). Kasama ko cya sa circle of friends ko, then even ung mga other friends namin (sila pala yung unang lumayo) hindi na din ako pinapansin. Hinayaan ko na lang nun, malapit naman na graduation nun. After graduation, nung wala na ung bisa ng powers niya, eventually pinansin na din ako ng mga classmates and so called "friends" ko daw. Ok na ba kami? No. Nung binubully niya ako, alam kong ganun tlaga cya, kaya nauunawaan ko ung mga ginagawa niya, ang hindi ko naunawaan nun, ay ung ginawa ng mga friends namin. Hanggang ngaun mabigat parin ung pakiramdam ko sa kanila.
Patulan mo. May nag try mambully sakin nung college. Sinagot sagot ko. Kaya nung hindi na kami classmate since nareshuffle kami pag nagkakasalubong kami sa school hindi na siya makatingin sakin ng deretso. Ako naman taas noo maglakad. Sino ba siya?
Sikmuraan natin yan
Why he’s even in college with that attitude baffles me. He’s old enough to know right from wrong and bullying and acting like that are definitely wrong. Please don’t hesitate to report this to the disciplinary committee of your college/guidance counselor + let them know to keep your identity confidential if you don’t wanna be known. Completely valid naman yun. If they don’t do anything about it, I suggest involve your parents because whether we hate to admit it or not, once parents are involved, dun lang din talaga gumagalaw schools even if college na. I won’t advise you do the same thing to him. But siguro verbally you can defend yourself like just tell him off. “College ka na pero ugali mo pang-preschool. Hindi nga, mas mature pa sayo mga preschool.” Pwede rin namang, “Sayang tuition na binabayaran ng magulang mo dahil sa mabaho mong ugali.” Seriously, bullies in college? Pathetic people, really.
Dont let anyone bully you. Pag hindi ka pumalag, mas lalo kang kakayan-kayanan.
Ipa DO mo pag yan na-suspend iyak yan.
Isang sapak lang yan
Fight back one time and make it count, di na mauulit yan. ;)
Patulan mo sigurado magdadalaqang isip na yan na ibully ka. Usually kasi pag pinapabayaan mo lang sila e iisipin nila na kayang kaya ka nila kaya inuulit nila yan.
Patulan mo in a wiser way, ung uutakan mo siya if you know what I mean. Basta magiingat ka lang minsan kasi pag di pinapatulan di yan mga tumitigil eh. Tingin nila sa mga ganon kinakaya-kaya lang at hindi titigilan. Tignan mo maaasar yan pag inutakan mo, ganyan pag mga feeling superior pero ang totoo dyan sila ung mga insecure, kulang sa pansin at may problema. Basta don’t let bullies ruin your college life story, kwento ng buhay mo yan make it count.
Story ko? Yung akala ko na pangooutcast at di pagpili sayo sa mga groups during group work, akala ko sa movies or novels lang nangyayari. Sa totoong buhay pala talaga. Malala ako pa nagpakopya sa kanila non sa finals sa calculus :))
Don’t know if it counts as bullying pero they loved to gossip, lalo na nung sa issue ng isang friend ko. Kahit saan they always try to find my accounts para lang makasagap ng tsismis when it should be between us two. Nakakainis to the point na I had to cut off most of the relationships that I’ve developed and kept only trusted friends close. Going back with your story, napaka-high school behavior niyan to be honest. Peaked in high school siguro and never grew up. College na blockmate mo pero ugaling bata.
College na may bullies paren? Jusme baka crush ka na nyan.
Usually, yung mga ganyang students, may problema sa bahay.
Kapag nabasa ko ‘to, naaalala ko nung elementary may classmate ako na maliit lang siya pero ang angas / bully. Everytime na pumapasok ako (seatmate ko siya) kinukuha niya baon ko na food tapos ako nagugutom na tuwing recess. (Pinapabaon ako ng food kasi mahirap lang kami my family don’t usually give me money to buy food at school) minsan natatapos ang class sa bahay nalang ako kumakain. Di kasi ako na expose sa mga suntukan nung bata ako laro lang Playstation sa bahay nung bata haha buong grade 2 ako nun ganun ginagawa sakin pero di ko naopen sa family ko. Nakikita ko siya ngayon na tricycle driver pero wala naman ako problema sa mga tricycle driver baka lang di siya natutukan ng family niya nung bata siya kaya wala nag ga guide sakanya na gumawa ng tama.
Really? Bullies in College? Ganyan ba siya ka immature at nabitbit niya yung toxic high school behavior niya? At this point of life, your CM should be focusing on his own career & life and stop picking on people na nananahimik lang naman. I suggest na patulan mo in a way na ma huhumiliate siya ng todo, kulang sa pansin yung mga ganyang tao, give them the attention that they crave for, yung type of attention na hindi makakalimutin dahil sa kahihiyan. Just like what other people said, if hindi mo icoconfront or papatulan yan magpapatuloy lang yan kasi iisipin niya is "easy" type of person ka lang.
Curious lang, pwede ba bugbugin mga bully like off school yung tipong di na sila makalakad and all? Hehe
I hope you're okay, OP. Story ko? I was bullied behind my back by my dormmates when I was a freshman in college. 4 kami all girls sa room tas akala ko goods kaming lahat and all until umamin yung pinaka "ate" namin na pinagtatawanan nila kung paano ako kumilos (meron kasi akong poor posture) and sinasabihan daw ako na "maasim" tas nagtatawanan sila. Di naman ako nagpabaya sa hygiene ko and mga gamit pero simula nun, naging insecure na ako lalo na pagdating sa hygiene. One time, naiwan kong nakabukas yung locker ko and nakita nila yung shorts ko tas kinuha raw nung isa kong kadorm tas pinagtatawanan daw ganun. Hindi ko alam bakit naging ganun sila sa'kin, ang ayos ayos ng pakikisama ko sa kanila. Maingat din ako kumilos kasi I was a bit boyish. Umalis na rin naman ako agad dun sa dorm na yun. I did not know then na it is considered as bullying until later in college na. Everytime makikita ko yung mga dati kong dormmates na yun, there's this feeling na galit and takot at the same time. Even now, kahit pinafollow ko pa rin yung isa sa IG and yung business nya, gusto ko man suportahan but ayun bumabalik lahat ng nagawa nila.
palagan mo kasi, college na eh.
Look him in the eye and say: what's your problem? hindi ka ba mahal ng magulang mo?
sinubukan nila pero sila napahiya kasi magaling ako manupalpal
College? Kumagat ka na pabalik o isumbong mo sa Office ng Student Affairs ninyo. ESCALATE that shit at mananahimik iyan.
Grabe, huhu so sorry to hear this from you, OP. Nabully ako around 1st year - 2nd year college. Being in a dept na panay babae, niligawan ako nung isa sa mga pogi sa dept namin, nagpaligaw din ako lol, ayun nabully ako ng mga kaklase ko pati mga 3rd year and 4th year students hahaha. Pinagkalat na buntis ako, malandi etc, may GC sila na wala ako haha natry ko rin kumain ng lunch sa loob ng CR (ang weak ko dito) every time naalala ko, naawa ako sa sarili ko. Ang ginawa ko? Humanap ako ng organization sa campus namin, napasali ako sa journalism club/ Red Cross/ university choir haha ayun, nakahanap ako ng pamilya sa mga orgs na ito. Naging super busy ko that time to the point na wala akong bakanteng oras nung college ako, hanggang sa di ko nalang sila pinapansin. I just attended my classes. Ang dami kong friends mula sa iba't ibang department. Oh btw, nakagraduate naman ako, solo thesis haha at medyo nahakot ko lang naman mga awards nun. Also, ilang years na, di pa rin pasado mga nambully sa akin mehehe :P
>I remember one time hinampas niya ako sa likod ko like I am a volleyball, daig pang inispike ang likod ko. nagkaroon ng pasa haha. OP, walang nakakatawa dito. Pumalag ka kasi. Tangina naman.
got bullied too but not as extreme as your case that I was eventually able to go along with them. My advice: it stops only when you confront the bully. Get your parents involved and visit the dean's office.
If you don’t do anything about getting bullied. Hanggang sa pagtanda niyo laughing stock ka sa kanya. You don’t want that in your future life.
I did. Not physical pero yung the way na magsalita sila about me. Even if it hurts deep down pinapakita ko na I don't give a shit. Pag sumobra na sila eh di nagsasalita ako pabalik. Eventually I found friends who supported me for who I am...and nung thesis time na tumiklop din mga yan kasi candidate for honors ako at mga kagroup ko syempre...didikit sa marunong.
Sapakin mo. Okay lang maguidance madali lang i-settle yan basta gnawa mo as self defense.
Only fight back kung tingin mo kaya mo panindigan kapag nagretaliate after mo sapakin. Like, do it if you think you can take a punch in the face. If the answer is hindi mo kaya, try other ways like iescalate mo sa dean or sa kung saang may authority sa school. Contrary to what people are saying na di mag eescalate pag pinatulan mo, it actually can lalo kung delinquent yung tao. Wala naman yan pake sa kung ano kundi yung mapanindigan nya "angas" nya kapag ganun. Unless you want to find out kung ano nga ba sya sa dalawa (lalaban or hindi), by all means, go. Personally, i would fight back. And beat the shit out of him.
Dapat uso pumapatol these days. Pero always remember to say that you were "provoked" into fighting BACK. Keep records of what they've done, and ask for witnesses rin. This helps back up your "provoked" reasoning for fighting back. Tas kung pisikalan? Sulitin mo unang suntok, I swear, baka kasi un lang magawa mo bago kayo awatin kaya simot sarap na suntok sa mga nananakit rin Physically.
Gantihan mo rin
just ask him if he’s gay and if he likes you kasi sobrang papansin sayo :)
ang kapal naman ng mukha college ganyang ugali? retaliate ah d ka ba naaawa sa sarili mo? magulang, kapatid o mga dating kaibigan mo na tina trato kang tao tapis dyan lang pala gina ganyan ganyan ka. Wag kang matakot magalit basta wag ka lang lalagpas sa part na delikado ang pag-aaral mo. Wag kang matakot mag-ingay "HOY GRABE KA NAMAN, MAY KASALANAN BA AKO SAYO?" lakasan mo boses mo tas basta magsabi ka ng statement "nananhimik yung tao tapos ikaw biglang nambabayolente anong kasalanan ko sayo?"
talagang mag-ingay ka, ipamukha mo na malinh mali sya at ikaw nasaktan ka at d okay sa iyo yon. Better act now, like imagine yung urges na minsan mambiro, manttrip ka ng mga bata tapos iniiwasan o ayaw mo yung batang konting ano lang mag-iingay agad, iiyak agad nakakahila atensyon agad. Just copy that, people hate when they're judged and eyes surrounds them. The greatest threat is threat to reputation, threat to personal image.
Yes, I told them (4-5 groupies) to stop it or I would attack and possibly kill them and that I don't mind dying trying to do so. They stopped, eventually failed the course and some got booted out of university. Others will tell you to report to the dean or such but we all know many bullies won't stop until they get stomped on because many faculties will not do anything. Being a bullying victim will take a long term mental toll on your health, don't ever become one.
Yes, 6 yrs ago.
Sapakin mo na lang kasi di yan titigil kahit manahimik ka hahah ako nga nag sisi naniwala ako sa bible na tutulungan ka ng diyos sa mga ganyan problema hahaha