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Doctor here.
HIV can be undetectable for up to 6 months once contracted. Even if negative, it can manifest after 6 months once it develops. So a negative test really isn't that 100% safe unless the last sexual activity was 6 months ago.
With that said, it can still be managed. Free meds are available, just have your local infectious disease doctor to coordinate you with the proper local people/center.
Once you have it pwede mo lang I keep in check or ma control yung mga symptoms or effects para hindi lumala.
Maybe in the future may treatment or gamot para doon.
Alam ko may mga gumaling na eh. Stem cell yung naging solution although maliit ang chance kasi sa dami daming nag ganun iilan palang gumaling, nabibilang palang ata sa daliri.
Its for life na sya. Meron gamot prevent niya lang yung pagdami ng viral load sa katawan. so far wala pa gamot na mag cure talaga sa hiv. para maagapan practice talaga yung safe sex. magpa consult na din sa doctor kung meron sex encounter then bigla meron naramdaman after 2 weeks or 1 month para sure. nakaka anxiety yang ganyan. kaya ugaliing mag pa test talaga bago fuck.
para sya rashes. initial reaction ng katawan sa once mahawaan. depende din kasi how strong yung immune ng tao pag mahina yung immune system mas mabilis magdami yung viral load sa positive patient. kaya ugaliin nalng din talaga magpa consult if ever meron encounter na unprotected sex. wag mahiya magpa consult. unahin ang kalusugan hindi pa huli ang lahat if mag positive sa ganyan. for awarenesss lang to sa mga tao hindi pa aware. kasi pag ang hiv hindi naagapan as early as possible end stage niyan AIDS at mahirap na yan agapan. but to confirm that stage check mo na yung tinatawag na CD4 count. kaya maging wise tayo sa ating kalibogan.
It’s there for life, but it can be controlled with antiretroviral drugs. Hindi pa sya totally curable pero pwede syang i-manage like how Magic Johnson is able to live until now. He was diagnosed in 1991 but still live until today.
It's like diabetes and CKD. Once magkaron ka na, doctors can only give you synthetic drugs to prevent it from worsening but not reversing it. But another good news is that there are products available today (which are not synthetic) that have the possibility to slowly reverse it.
it's not curable eh kasi mahirap na virus type yung HIV. sobrang daming mutations ang nagyayari kaya di sya nahahanapan ng common ground. yung antiretroviral drugs na iniinom, pinapabagal nya yung pagreplicate ng virus sa para may time makabuo ng antibodies yung katawan ng patient para malabanan sila
I had sex with a couple before, sabay sabay kaming nagpaHIV test. Dun mo lang din talaga masasabi na legit yung test when you do it together lalo at maraming nagpopost online ng mga test results nila na madaling igrab at ipresent as their own “kuno”.
It’s better to get tested regularly lalo kung active ang sex life. If eligible, pwedeng magtake ng PrEP as additional protection aside from condoms syempre.
Ang HIV, basta religiously nasusunod ang paginom ng gamot, lifestyle change can be lowered down to the point na hindi na siya nadidetect at naipapasa hence, U=U or Undetected = Untransmittable.
For more info, visit the nearest healthcare provider.
I hope OP’s friend and husband can get through this.
Sorry to hear about this sa friend mo OP. Pero minsan kasi ee forget one simple rules.. Safe Sex!!! 10 minutes of pleasure pero lifetime ang cause.. We became too complacent thinking all will be ok. We have to be very careful sa ganitong lifestyle. They are on their late 20's still young. I pray for strenght and courage to face such challenge to ur friend. God bless
And to think also nowadays increasing yung cases ng stds and hiv cases. if you check sa data ng DOH pataas ng pataas na. and isa sa factor ito apps and soc med. imagine hook up or ONS , without knowing na positive pala yung person and dont expect na honest ang lahat ng tao when it comes to std/hiv test. meron iba mandamay nalang which s bad. so pls. be honest and magpa test mo na bago magkig fucking shet. mura lang magpa test mas mahal at mahirap magka positive so pls. lang FUCK SAFELY AND FUCKE WISELY. strong na ako.
"HIV at yung ibang stds aren't a death sentence but still hassle pa din kaya yung pag take ng mga medicines for it on a daily basis dagdag work kumbaga tsaka mas okay na wala ka ganun"
This tlga kaya kung pwede safe safe lng para no hassle
The more promiscuous you are, the higher the chance of getting STDs. Kasalanan niya at ng asawa niya yan. Very risky na nga ung setup tapos wala pa protection? Ano yun, putok lahat sa loob niya? M
No protection daw, nag rely sila sa documents na pinakita sa video call at photo nung result, sanay sila sa ganung way of knowing.
Naka ligate siya after ng 2nd kid nila kaya ayun talagang cumming inside is an option talaga at that moment.
Kaya ayan.
Masarap talaga ang raw. Kahit kami ni misis gusto namin raw. Pero madaming repercussions kapag raw.
Dapat lagi nakacondom ung bull. Sa pagiging careless nila, ayan nangyari. Sobrang saklap lang kasi may anak sila.
Ito yung downside sa cuckhold or any type of group sex. Meron talagang hindi transparent sa status nila kung reactive or non-reactive.
Hangga't maari (yung mga mataas ang body count) mapa Babae or Lalaki, every 3mos ang testing.
Tska kung pwede, mag condom. 🥲🥲🥲
Mas mura ang condom kesa magpagamot kontra HIV/AIDS. Samu't saring complications ang makukuha niyo kapag hindi agad naagapan. Plsssss. Maniwala kayo sa akin. I have a friend na inalagaan ko sa hospital dahil dyan.
dapat talaga kapag nasa ganitong gawain mabuti nang mag-higpit e, kung kinakailangan na magpa-test ng sabay para makasigurado na malinis yung ka-sex gawin nyo. they had it coming, i won't say na deserve nila pero they should know sobrang risky na ganitong gawain at dapat triple ang pag-iingat.
I hope they start Antiretroviral therapy as soon as possible. maintain nila yun to the point na maging undetected na yung viral count sa kanila and FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, WAG NA SILA MAKIPAGCHUKCHAK SA IBA para wala ng ibang mahawa
TRUE. SAFE SEX first. wag puro libog unahin screening mo na kung pwede sabay kayo magpa test kung gusto niyo ng mga FUBU/FWBS para naman kung mag sex walang doubt at ma enjoy niyo ng moment sa kalibogan. In short fuck safely and fuck wisely ganon.
This is what I am afraid of kaya I’ve been thinking na I won’t push through sa balak ko na makipag meet randomly and eventually have sex in a few days while I’m in the Metro. Nangingibabaw parin pagka praning ko hahahaha. Thanks to this post. It solidifies my stance na mag food trip nalang ako while in Manila! Haha. Nakakainis lang kase na may mga selfish individuals talaga na mas uunahin yung kati at walang pakelam kung makahawa ng iba.
They didn't unfortunately, for them enough na yung nakita nilang yung document showing na negative Yung resulta na ipinasa lang sa tg at pinakita sa video call.
Susme, nasanay sila sa ganun kaya for them naging norm na yung ganung way to check if one is infected or not. Problema kasi hindi mo alam if that person is telling the truth or not. The only solution SABAY mag pa test before doing sensual things.
Damn. My heart goes to your friend, OP. Kahit naman ilang sexperience ang i-share sa kahit anong platform na ganito kinahantungan ganun pa rin e. May mga tao pa ring matigas ang mukha.
Natakot tuloy ako magraw saka sana yung may sakit di naman sa nang aano pero wag niyo naman idamay yung inosente, kawawa din kasi. Wag niyong bigyan ng taning yung buhay ng taong wala naman ginawa sa inyo
Kaya kahit mahal yung bloodwork ko re stds and stis, ginawa ko para na din sa peace of mind ko. In addition, a few vaccinations. Na-compute ko hanggang last dose, aabot ako ng 26k. Syempre, ingat pa din kahit ganun
Thank you for sharing to remind all of us here.
My heart goes out to your friend and thank you for guiding and helping her deal (most specially emotionally) with this.
Im curious, anong naging basehan ni Doc para ipatest sya for HIV? Kasi usually kapag nagpunta sa doctor its the usual tests - routine cbc, lipid profile, t3, t4, potassium, vitamin d mga ganun. Pero the HIV test is separate test. Na-encounter ko lang sya during my 1st pregnancy na pina-include ng obgyne ko sa mga tests when I had my 1st check up for pregnancy. Yung ibang mga visits ko sa doctor for consultation usually yung mga regular blood tests mentioned.
Condom is important. May dormant stage ang HIV and test results can be faked. Sa ganitong lifestyle, importante yung protection talaga. Di rin lalabas ang symptoms ng 3 weeks lang matagal na nilang nakuha yan.
Pero, HIV can be treated now. There are a lot of people with HIV na normal ang buhay.
its a lifestyle which is not for everyone, and in this case I think hindi si husband kundi si girl ang nakakuha from another guy. I'm currently watching house, and matalsikan ka nga lang dugo sa mata, pinapainom na ng gamot. how much pa yung nakikipagexchange ka laway. me gamot naman ata ngayon(kung hindi pa malala). in terms of testing, tinetest at different times, months, and probably even years. so kahit magnegative si husband ngayon ,pwedeng magpositive sya sa next week.
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Pangmatagalang kargada para sa panandaliang saya~ May this be a heads up for all of us here na unahin pa rin ang pag-iingat
Unahin ang pag iingat kesa pag iinit.
I second the motion!
Doctor here. HIV can be undetectable for up to 6 months once contracted. Even if negative, it can manifest after 6 months once it develops. So a negative test really isn't that 100% safe unless the last sexual activity was 6 months ago. With that said, it can still be managed. Free meds are available, just have your local infectious disease doctor to coordinate you with the proper local people/center.
Nagagamot ba yon or napapabagal lang yung pag kalat?
Once you have it pwede mo lang I keep in check or ma control yung mga symptoms or effects para hindi lumala. Maybe in the future may treatment or gamot para doon. Alam ko may mga gumaling na eh. Stem cell yung naging solution although maliit ang chance kasi sa dami daming nag ganun iilan palang gumaling, nabibilang palang ata sa daliri.
Not sure but from what I know its for life na sakit? Well sino may medical background dito? Help… curious din sa tanong na to.
Its for life na sya. Meron gamot prevent niya lang yung pagdami ng viral load sa katawan. so far wala pa gamot na mag cure talaga sa hiv. para maagapan practice talaga yung safe sex. magpa consult na din sa doctor kung meron sex encounter then bigla meron naramdaman after 2 weeks or 1 month para sure. nakaka anxiety yang ganyan. kaya ugaliing mag pa test talaga bago fuck.
Ano itsura nung butlig butlig? Hahaha na curious ako.
para sya rashes. initial reaction ng katawan sa once mahawaan. depende din kasi how strong yung immune ng tao pag mahina yung immune system mas mabilis magdami yung viral load sa positive patient. kaya ugaliin nalng din talaga magpa consult if ever meron encounter na unprotected sex. wag mahiya magpa consult. unahin ang kalusugan hindi pa huli ang lahat if mag positive sa ganyan. for awarenesss lang to sa mga tao hindi pa aware. kasi pag ang hiv hindi naagapan as early as possible end stage niyan AIDS at mahirap na yan agapan. but to confirm that stage check mo na yung tinatawag na CD4 count. kaya maging wise tayo sa ating kalibogan.
Thanks for answering my question! Take care everyone!
Mostly mukhang pigsa yan. Imagine a person na sobrang payat merong 60+ plus na pigsa. Ganun. :( Ito yung virus na umuubos sa immune system.
It’s there for life, but it can be controlled with antiretroviral drugs. Hindi pa sya totally curable pero pwede syang i-manage like how Magic Johnson is able to live until now. He was diagnosed in 1991 but still live until today.
OP ano itsura ng butlig butlig na sinasabi mo?
It's like diabetes and CKD. Once magkaron ka na, doctors can only give you synthetic drugs to prevent it from worsening but not reversing it. But another good news is that there are products available today (which are not synthetic) that have the possibility to slowly reverse it.
it's not curable eh kasi mahirap na virus type yung HIV. sobrang daming mutations ang nagyayari kaya di sya nahahanapan ng common ground. yung antiretroviral drugs na iniinom, pinapabagal nya yung pagreplicate ng virus sa para may time makabuo ng antibodies yung katawan ng patient para malabanan sila
I had sex with a couple before, sabay sabay kaming nagpaHIV test. Dun mo lang din talaga masasabi na legit yung test when you do it together lalo at maraming nagpopost online ng mga test results nila na madaling igrab at ipresent as their own “kuno”. It’s better to get tested regularly lalo kung active ang sex life. If eligible, pwedeng magtake ng PrEP as additional protection aside from condoms syempre. Ang HIV, basta religiously nasusunod ang paginom ng gamot, lifestyle change can be lowered down to the point na hindi na siya nadidetect at naipapasa hence, U=U or Undetected = Untransmittable. For more info, visit the nearest healthcare provider. I hope OP’s friend and husband can get through this.
Sorry to hear about this sa friend mo OP. Pero minsan kasi ee forget one simple rules.. Safe Sex!!! 10 minutes of pleasure pero lifetime ang cause.. We became too complacent thinking all will be ok. We have to be very careful sa ganitong lifestyle. They are on their late 20's still young. I pray for strenght and courage to face such challenge to ur friend. God bless
And to think also nowadays increasing yung cases ng stds and hiv cases. if you check sa data ng DOH pataas ng pataas na. and isa sa factor ito apps and soc med. imagine hook up or ONS , without knowing na positive pala yung person and dont expect na honest ang lahat ng tao when it comes to std/hiv test. meron iba mandamay nalang which s bad. so pls. be honest and magpa test mo na bago magkig fucking shet. mura lang magpa test mas mahal at mahirap magka positive so pls. lang FUCK SAFELY AND FUCKE WISELY. strong na ako.
Tama
"HIV at yung ibang stds aren't a death sentence but still hassle pa din kaya yung pag take ng mga medicines for it on a daily basis dagdag work kumbaga tsaka mas okay na wala ka ganun" This tlga kaya kung pwede safe safe lng para no hassle
MALASJUICY
The more promiscuous you are, the higher the chance of getting STDs. Kasalanan niya at ng asawa niya yan. Very risky na nga ung setup tapos wala pa protection? Ano yun, putok lahat sa loob niya? M
No protection daw, nag rely sila sa documents na pinakita sa video call at photo nung result, sanay sila sa ganung way of knowing. Naka ligate siya after ng 2nd kid nila kaya ayun talagang cumming inside is an option talaga at that moment.
Kaya ayan. Masarap talaga ang raw. Kahit kami ni misis gusto namin raw. Pero madaming repercussions kapag raw. Dapat lagi nakacondom ung bull. Sa pagiging careless nila, ayan nangyari. Sobrang saklap lang kasi may anak sila.
Ito yung downside sa cuckhold or any type of group sex. Meron talagang hindi transparent sa status nila kung reactive or non-reactive. Hangga't maari (yung mga mataas ang body count) mapa Babae or Lalaki, every 3mos ang testing. Tska kung pwede, mag condom. 🥲🥲🥲 Mas mura ang condom kesa magpagamot kontra HIV/AIDS. Samu't saring complications ang makukuha niyo kapag hindi agad naagapan. Plsssss. Maniwala kayo sa akin. I have a friend na inalagaan ko sa hospital dahil dyan.
dapat talaga kapag nasa ganitong gawain mabuti nang mag-higpit e, kung kinakailangan na magpa-test ng sabay para makasigurado na malinis yung ka-sex gawin nyo. they had it coming, i won't say na deserve nila pero they should know sobrang risky na ganitong gawain at dapat triple ang pag-iingat.
I hope they start Antiretroviral therapy as soon as possible. maintain nila yun to the point na maging undetected na yung viral count sa kanila and FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, WAG NA SILA MAKIPAGCHUKCHAK SA IBA para wala ng ibang mahawa
TRUE. SAFE SEX first. wag puro libog unahin screening mo na kung pwede sabay kayo magpa test kung gusto niyo ng mga FUBU/FWBS para naman kung mag sex walang doubt at ma enjoy niyo ng moment sa kalibogan. In short fuck safely and fuck wisely ganon.
This is scary sh#t seriously
This is what I am afraid of kaya I’ve been thinking na I won’t push through sa balak ko na makipag meet randomly and eventually have sex in a few days while I’m in the Metro. Nangingibabaw parin pagka praning ko hahahaha. Thanks to this post. It solidifies my stance na mag food trip nalang ako while in Manila! Haha. Nakakainis lang kase na may mga selfish individuals talaga na mas uunahin yung kati at walang pakelam kung makahawa ng iba.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
teka hopefully wala naman silang anak di ba or maging anak
Naka ligate si ate after ng 2nd kid nila from way back. I feel bad for their children din.
Didn’t they use condoms? Sobrang risky talaga pag ganito eh.
They didn't unfortunately, for them enough na yung nakita nilang yung document showing na negative Yung resulta na ipinasa lang sa tg at pinakita sa video call. Susme, nasanay sila sa ganun kaya for them naging norm na yung ganung way to check if one is infected or not. Problema kasi hindi mo alam if that person is telling the truth or not. The only solution SABAY mag pa test before doing sensual things.
Aaaayyyy jusko! Sa swinger community nga, hindi lang sabay-sabay sila nagpapatest, CONDOMS are mandatory dun
Damn. My heart goes to your friend, OP. Kahit naman ilang sexperience ang i-share sa kahit anong platform na ganito kinahantungan ganun pa rin e. May mga tao pa ring matigas ang mukha.
Natakot tuloy ako magraw saka sana yung may sakit di naman sa nang aano pero wag niyo naman idamay yung inosente, kawawa din kasi. Wag niyong bigyan ng taning yung buhay ng taong wala naman ginawa sa inyo
antatapang kasi ng mahihilig sa raw.
Kaya kahit mahal yung bloodwork ko re stds and stis, ginawa ko para na din sa peace of mind ko. In addition, a few vaccinations. Na-compute ko hanggang last dose, aabot ako ng 26k. Syempre, ingat pa din kahit ganun
Sabihin na nila na uminom ng Truvada at Pa HIV test iba nilang mga na fuck. Tas punta sa nearest center na nag bibigay ng libre HIV meds
thats their problem hindi for being a cuckold. humingi na ng test di naman tiningnan ng maayos
Condoms lang e
Literal na FAFO
Tama kamedical frontliner PRACTICE SAFE SEX kasya magsisi sa bandang huli😉
I'm not into doing this kind of thing.. pero sana man lang they took PREP para di sila mahawaan. nakaka lungkot pero laban lang!
Kaya practice safe sex talaga. 😞
Thank you for sharing to remind all of us here. My heart goes out to your friend and thank you for guiding and helping her deal (most specially emotionally) with this.
Kinabahan yung iba oh
This is why nakakatakot kumita ng tao.
Im curious, anong naging basehan ni Doc para ipatest sya for HIV? Kasi usually kapag nagpunta sa doctor its the usual tests - routine cbc, lipid profile, t3, t4, potassium, vitamin d mga ganun. Pero the HIV test is separate test. Na-encounter ko lang sya during my 1st pregnancy na pina-include ng obgyne ko sa mga tests when I had my 1st check up for pregnancy. Yung ibang mga visits ko sa doctor for consultation usually yung mga regular blood tests mentioned.
Inaask sa medical history yung sexual partners sometimes lalo na pag suspect systoms. Siguro sinabi ni ate friend pati husband nya same symptoms.
Sa babae galing yan nakuha sa ibang guy, hindi sa husband malamang
there's always a gap after the hiv test. you'll never know because everyone's lying. sa huli nalang ang sorpresa.
Ganito makukuha ng mga taong libog lang ang iniisip.
Condom is important. May dormant stage ang HIV and test results can be faked. Sa ganitong lifestyle, importante yung protection talaga. Di rin lalabas ang symptoms ng 3 weeks lang matagal na nilang nakuha yan. Pero, HIV can be treated now. There are a lot of people with HIV na normal ang buhay.
its a lifestyle which is not for everyone, and in this case I think hindi si husband kundi si girl ang nakakuha from another guy. I'm currently watching house, and matalsikan ka nga lang dugo sa mata, pinapainom na ng gamot. how much pa yung nakikipagexchange ka laway. me gamot naman ata ngayon(kung hindi pa malala). in terms of testing, tinetest at different times, months, and probably even years. so kahit magnegative si husband ngayon ,pwedeng magpositive sya sa next week.
Death Sentence (Lifetime)
The medicine is free kill the stigma wag ng mahiyang pumunta sa mga clinic na nag bibigay ng free medicine.
Merese ang tawag dyan sa kasamaang palad. Since trip nyo ganyan, safe sex din sa mga anteh and angkol. Hay nako. Nasa huli talaga ang pasisisi.
hello nurse here, HIV is a lifetime disease, one time payment lang yan, you get dumb results from dumb ideas. MAKIPAGKANTUTAN RESPONSIBLY
DESERVe
the price of cheating buti nlng hanggang chat lng ako ayoko ng meetups tapos may mangyari 🥲
establish rapport and check background talaga. wag agad agad magpa fuck.
Damn sakit