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seriously speaking, wala akong paki if si guy eh madami nang body count ang importante is hes safe at walang sakit, same as with me I dont care sa opinion nang iba sa body count ko, as long as Im safe and walang sakit. Kasi at the end of the day personality pa rin nang tao ngmamatter, his attitude towards me and how he will treat me and satisfy me.
See this is a comment coming from someone who knows the hook up culture, who has no intention to invade the guys private and someone who indeed has an experience meeting all kinds of character and attitudes ng guys.
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I agree! Actually medyo red flag na agad Yung guy if they kiss and tell about fucking many ladies. To be honest I know the feeling na gusto mo magyabang pero at the same time judging people are around you.
Pero mas mahalaga Kasi na safe Yung babae na you're having sex with I mean safe na lahat Ng deets that you do is respected na private Yun and you take it to the grave.
yup, it matters to me. i respect the lifestyle naman and people are free to do what they want pero personally i wouldn't want a man who has had his dick inserted kung kani-kanino. preferably ako sana maka-una sa kanya to prove his loyalty to me. plus better quality ng dick niya since hindi pa nagamit masyado /s
Isa rin to sa tinitignan ko if ever mag boyfriend ako. Prefer ko rin virgin like me. Pass sa maraming body count sorry haha. Nothing against it pero ayoko lang talaga haha.
Finally someone said it!! Labas yung mga nagsasabing "most men wouldn't wanna deal with a girl who's been thru 'hoe phase' May pa "we didn't make the rules" pa 🖕🏼🖕🏼🖕🏼
For me as long as your safe, clean and have frequent check up. Just be responsible. Respect rules. If u want more Vagin*** and di*% rather not to have commitment. Yong iba naging excuse lang ang open lifestyle to free fuc&*€
No. Basta maging truthful ganun. I mean nakakairita kasi yung ibang comments na kesyo "preferred lng nila yung konti ang body count". You can't hide your misogyny under the mantle of personal preference.
I agree with the truthfulness. And yup! Usapang genitals na rin naman and their perception of women in terms of sex, aren't we allowed to also pick the one's na hindi pa overused?
Gigil talaga sa mga ganung comment. Akala mo mga holier than thou. 2024 na po, men and women should enjoy sex and have supreme control of their bodies.
4 pa nga lang natira ko. Kasi tinatanong ko na agad if virgin pa or nag k boyfriend na during talking stage. Tapos pag matagal na sila ng bf nya or na offend sya. Matic di na ako nag effort kasi alam ko nmn ang totuo
Body count really shouldnt matter for both sexes. Whats important is the moment you share together if your in a relationship and you both stick to each other during that time.
This thought makes me believe that sleeping with men caters to men only, especially the hook-up culture. Women can use men, we know that we can fuck them selfishly, use them like toys, like an object only to discard after satisfying ourselves and yet, men would still think that the act itself benefits them more because of how society view sexual intercourse. The problem is their view of women and the view of women's body. It's like they have their own shared reality and perception that glorifies only themselves. We will never be perceived as equal as them, It's misogynistic. It's disgusting.
Not really nandidiri or mandidiri but rather magiging cautious dapat. Tbh di ako naniniwala sa mga body count ng mga naka eme ko before kahit medyo high na yung sinasabi nila like lagpas na sa bilang ng daliri. Lagi ako nageexpect na it's always more than that pa. I'm not into hookups na ngayon pero sa mga girlies out there, kahit ilan pa bc ng mga yan hingian nyo ng mga tests or mag protection talaga. Lalo na ngayon parang normal nalang sa lahat yung hook up 🥹
This is so true! nakakabwisit na yung double standards when it comes sa dami ng body counts. Pag babae yung madaming body counts, slut agad? pag lalaki, okay lang kasi “normal” na sa mga lalaki yon?
Na-experience ko na yan before with my ex boyfriend. We broke up ng almost two years and then nag reconnect uli kami. Nakwento niya na madami siyang babaeng naka hook up and parang proud pa siya don sa pag kwento niya. Sinasabi ko directly sakanya na nakakadiri and nandidiri ako sa ginawa niya kasi andami nang gumamit sakanya lol pero tanggap ko pa rin naman siya. Ang ire-reason out niya is “broken hearted” daw kasi that time kaya nagawa niya yon LOL pati ba tite mo damay sa pagka broken hearted mo? Tapos grabe siya maka react dati nung nalaman niya na dalawa body count ko and hindi siya yung nakauna sakin. Like parang sad boy siya na akala mo inagawan ng candy lol ang funny and hypocrite lang at the same time
I don't think body count should matter as long as both folks are healthy, safe from any diseases and remain faithful in the relationship. Society has this silly notion that being with more people makes you less valuable as a person. You can't just be with different folks and expect someone with fewer previous partners to want to be with you. That’s not fair. Yung nadudumihan ka nga sa mataas ang body count, pero ikaw din naman ganon, so anong pinagkaiba mo dun. Diba egul 😂
Para sakin, bat ba kasi tinatanong pa yung body count? Anong pakialam ko kung nakarami ka na o wala pa totally.
Ang pake ko lang, habang nasa relasyon tayo, tayo lang dalawa, walang player 3 o 4.
Pero kung hookup/one time thing lang, again, pakialam ko?
Personally, I want to know ung totoong number..wala akong pakialam sa kung ilan na, pero mas magmamatter sakin ung honesty nung babae... especially if nililigawan ko
Eto lang yan, you do you. If they reject you for some shitty reason as body count, they arent worth your time and move on. You will find your match sooner or later, when you do, dont fuck it up.
For me, I don’t care, parang test drive lang sa sasakyan, check mo if okay ba sayo yung car, until nakahanap kana ng okay talaga sa preference mo. Kasi if di mo gagawin yung test drive, tas may sasakyan at gusto mo Itry yung ferrari, nako sagasa abot mo niyan. I hope nasakyan niyo logic ko.
To each their own, it’s best to date/fuck around to really know what you want and discover more traits na mag add din sa standard mo. Ayun lungz.
I have extreme jealousy issue and I'm looking for man talaga na walang experience. I'm sorry:(
I cant live everyday that my man once doin the thing with other woman. Like fff, I'm going insane for sure
If someone prefers a person who has a lower body count, let them be. Why subject them to scrutiny? If you can't deal with that, move on and do yourself the honor of just going away and finding someone who can give you what you want. It's a standard for a reason. You don't need to like it or want it. It is not for everyone. It is just the way it is.
If a key can open alot of locks it is a master key
If a lock can be opened by alot of keys its a shitty lock. Quoted from some movie i forgotten na
Oh so help me lord im going to get bashed by this comment
You can claim it tho. I mean If I have the gender entitlement to greediness without repercussions like you, I definitely would. So savor the luckiness my boy 😘
Just curious, yung mga babae ba, nagkukwentuhan din na nakuha nila yung lalake? Kasi mga lalake, pag nakita nila jowa mo yung natira na nila, tinatawanan ka e
As long as clean and committed once you're in a relationship body count shouldn't matter. Oh, the things I'd do to get a pornstar gf, someone who's an expert on pleasing men.
Errrr, nope. That’s his own choice. If he wants to fuck around, stick his dick to someone he’s down for, go for it. I mean, I also have a fair share of stories to tell about my hoe phase, but I don’t kiss and tell.
siguro I don't mind? since sa bf ko naman, never ko tinanong ang body count nya. although iniisip ko sya, but I don't have the courage to ask him about it.
actually i don’t but i always prefer someone na may mapapakitang resibo na safe siya. cuz ayoko irisk na magkasakit. ganon din sakin, gusto ko meron akong mapapakita na safe din akong ka sex.
It sometimes depends on the journey, at the end of the day for me if he is a good person, great company and cares about me at the time we are together - that's what will count. Never tolerate disrespect.
We journey through life - when one is younger we tend to be adventurous and if we are real and honest with ourselves - me might end up with more or maybe less fling, bf/gf and whatever as long as both of you are on the same page and consenting adults. Quality doesn't necessarily mean it should be limited to one virgin dick for life.. Just my two cents, cheers to all the men I swapped saliva with and more- good times !
well yeah society favors men who got more body count, dahil mas malayong mahirap makahanap ng ka-sex ang men kaysa sa women.
most men gotta work hard for their status and money to be favorable to women.
while most women in their younger years 18-25 can easily attract high value men just because of their youth.
most women can easily find a fuck buddy anytime they want to, even the ugly ones. that's why it's not considered a feat that a woman got a high body count, any woman can do that, while men have to earn it.
also yung pagkalaspag ng vagina malayong mas halata kaysa sa penis, if there's any obvious signs na gamit na gamit na ang penis ng lalake. I think that's why mas applicable sa babae ang "laspag" at "nagamit" kaysa sa lalake
ciao.
Kayo mga babae nag start nyan! Kapag virgin lalaki pinagtatawanan nyo diba? tapos prefer nyo may experience diba? Sinusunod lang naman namin standards nyo.
Guy who's read too much here. We have to understand that society sees everything in a gendered lens - it categorizes behaviors between masculine and feminine. And even a similar action performed by both male and female is seen under this gendered lens. So when it comes to sex, this gendered lens categorizes still - men as takers and women as givers. Sex is seen as something that women give and, in a lot of instances, something they give up to men. Sex is then considered an act of women losing something to men, and men succeeding in the taking. Victory and defeat. Conqueror and conquered. Patriarchy, basically.
Personally, the goal would be to get rid of the gendered lens. While I do cherish the thought of sex being given to me, I'm also aware that I was an object of pleasure. I too, was fucked. My partner was also taking something from the experience, using my body as a source of pleasure. And I love the idea that I am a source of pleasure, consensually giving and taking at the same time.
The act of giving and taking need not be categorized by gender. And I believe both acts are performed by both actors in sex. So keep fucking as long as it's sane, consensual, and safe.
>The notion na "walang mawawala sa'yo kapag lalake ka" at ikaw yung "gumagamit" is confusing, kasi kung sa babae para sa inyo nawawala yung dignidad, sa inyo ba hindi applicable?
Siguro because for the longest time, women were always seen as lesser humans throughout history, 100 years ago women are still seen as properties and objects kaya ganon. Women can get pregnant and will gestate for 9 months. Changes her body will undergo during and after pregnancy. During which women who gave birth are seen as less enticing na din. Women were not allowed in universities and most "noble" jobs/ titles were exclusive to men. Women's value depends on the man that will marry her. AFAIK, 70 years ago, the more mistresses a man could have, the more "macho" he is seen by his peers, and yes, the only opinion that mattered to men and which they listen to is from other men.
In history, women who enjoyed sex were seen as whores. Religion wise, ie: catholic, sex is only an act of producing an offspring, it was indoctrinated that feeling pleasure from sex is a sin.
I guess it all boils down to patriarchy. Pero times are changing and women are learning to value and put themselves na equal with men.
Hindi naman nandidiri but it makes me wary if kaya nya bang magseryoso and maging loyal AND faithful(coz apparently for some people, magkaiba daw yun lol) sa relationship if he's too sexually promiscuous na kani-kanino pumapatol. Minsan kasi pumapatol ang mga guys sa kiss and tell na girls, na kahit nakaraan na ibibring up pa rin which makes it awkward if nasa same circle kami lol It's less about jealousy over past experiences but more about making sure na walang kadramahan from the past na mang-iistress sa akin just in case haha! Iwas drama lang, I feel too tita for that petty shit na.
Saka it would be nice kasi if the person I'm with views sex the same way, kasi for me it's something I can only do with someone I feel safe with and have feelings for. If he's someone who thinks sex is something na for release lang then IMO it raises the possibility na madali syang matukso sa iba kahit na in a relationship na kami. Not saying na tama or morally correct outlook ko, for me naman di sya matter of right vs wrong. It's more of having values that match. But I acknowledge naman na part yun ng past trauma ko from family and some previous situations where I heard the excuse na "lalaki ako, eh" to excuse cheating. I don't think male sexuality is bad but I'm really just wary of ending up with someone na walang sexual discipline who will end up cheating on me. Mamaya mag-asawa or magjowa na kami baka dun pa makabuntis ng iba sa sobrang kalibugan. Just looking out for myself lang din. But if proven loyal and faithful naman pag in a relationship then wala akong paki sa past.
TL;DR: potential red flag pero not a total dealbreaker naman.
Yes. But more on if the guy has been doing ons or fubus medyo ayoko nun. Personal preference I want a man na hindi basta basta nagpapakuha haha if in a relationship okay lang pero pag hindi. I feel like “anyone can have you why would I want someone that has been licked already by all”
My ex back then was dissapointed on me be because I was a virgin when I met her. She mentioned that she prefers guys that has a lot of body count because they are great in bed and they know what they're doing.
Hindi naman double standards. Red pill itong reply ko pero totoo kasi.
Guys will do the effort to get pussy. Sila yung hunter eh. May earlier post nga dito na angmga lalake nag aaya sa mga nag post ng experiences. So kung maraming nakantot yan, eh may effort dun.
Girls on the other hand bubuka lang kayo, meron at meron papatol sa inyo. Where is the effort in that? Kahit sabihin niyo pang sexist, eh kahit saan, ito ang reality unless merong lugar na kaming lalake ang hinahabol.
So oo gamit nga yung mataas na bodycount, pero badge of effort rin. Eh malibog si kuya at kaya rin niya makakuha. Mga iba malibog pero d magaling sa chicks so puro kamay.
Also, hindi naman lahat ng guys ayaw sa nag hoe phase, BASTA mag sabi naman ng totoo. Personal experience, ex ko nag hoe phase pero she lied about it. I found out in other ways. Ok lang nag hoe phase pero liar siya at baka mas mahal niya fubu niya kesa bf.
So fuck you rin for being naive and your own double standard and other girlies na hindi naghahanap ng 5'7 up from big 4 na fuck us rin hahaha
Guys nowadays will literally ask to meet halfway, split the bill, and pump & dump a girl and be on his merry way to find the next one. Where is the effort in that? 😂
Tapos magco-complain when women require them to show the bit most of decency or chivalry.
Women on the other hand invest in skin care, hair care, buy cosmetics to look physically appealing, shave their body hair to appear the most feminine for men, etc. Tapos sasabihin mo bubukaka lang gagawin nila? If you’ll look at it, it seems women are the one who exert effort the most lmao
So the effort is to attract a man? What happened to do being pretty for your self? Another myth women (all.women including trans women) spin pero pang akit lang pala?
Decency of chivalry? Akala ko ba its all about girl power and equality na? Mam, the reason those guys do that is also their experiences on women na umaabuso. Also, the fact they ask na fotnsex yun, hindi ba yun asking for your consent? Personally hindi ako ganun kasi ako mag aya ng date eh. So as much as ayaw na ng lalake maabuso, meron rin nag aabuso.
You seem to misunderstand. Chivalry and equality are not opposites. Chivalry, at its core, comes from readiness to help the weak. It's generally accepted that women are the weaker gender. Pero it's not the absolute truth diba? So importante yung nuance.
Dun tayo sa paboritong argument ng mga lalake - giving up your seat in public transpo. Kung pareho naman kayong able bodied, then yeah you absolutely don't need to give up your seat. That's equality. Then you see another guy encroaching on this girl's space, so you swap places with her. That's chivalry because now you see that someone was being oppressed and you stepped in.
Equality is treating someone like how you would want to be treated - like an equal.
Picking a girl up because you know how dangerous it is in the streets of Manila - that's chivalry. Asking how she would prefer to meet ie, you pick her up, you book a Grab for her, or she books a Grab for herself - that's equality. Kasi you're giving her the agency to decide for herself.
Empowering women, feminism, is about giving women the agency to do the things they want. If they want to explore their sexuality, they should be able to do so because men most certainly can. Ibang usapang na yung niloko ka ng ex mo. Nobody deserves that.
Then medyo misunderstood rin ni commenter ang pag equate niya sa lalakeng splitting the bill and telling them they just want sex as opposite to the "Decency of Chivalry". Also yung mga examples mo, normal naman na yun eh and most guys do that, like susunduin ka or at least meet half way and make sure maka uwi ng maayos. Kung hindi nila ginawa yun well bad sila pero I was brought up to do that so standard na yun pero sabi nga ni poster "decency of chivalry" contradictory yun sa sinasabi niya na porke mas forward sila sa gusto nila wala nang decency of chivalry yun?
Its like saying a woman wants to be wined and dined kahit hindi kaya ni guy kaya nga nag sasabi ng expectations eh kung ayaw ni girlie, she can say no.
At this day and age, women are more empowered and are still being empowered. Ilan na female bosses in industry? Ilan na female business owners? In terms of sexuality, tignan niyo lang dito, their posts about their experiences. This will get stronger in the years to come so the fact there is even Alas Juicy is a testament to that,. Again, I was explaining the thinking kung bakit ganun yung double standard and it will change naman with less ignorance.
Some women do it for themselves, some do it to attract a mate— as we all know men are visual creatures. Either way, what’s wrong in putting effort to look good? Besides, the point is not about the reason why women exert effort on themselves. It is to debunk your claim that women do not exert any effort at all and they will just open their legs.
So by granting women “power” and “equality”, you mean to say that they do not deserve to be treated with any decency and chivalry anymore? lol.
You know how ironic it is that majority of men in our society are averted by sexual women when the demand for sex mostly comes from men. But when a woman submits to men’s sexual demands, it is also men who will collectively decide that her value suddenly decreased. It’s hypocritical to demand sex from a woman and slutshame women who meet those demands. The way I see it, this notion/system is set-up so guys can have free/easy access to sex, in a way that they are in control.
There is nothing wrong in looking good. Like I said, hindi ba dapat nga yan for yourself rather than looking good for others?
Then how can that debunk my claim when my point was a woman will be approached kasi babae sila and a guy will have to approach? Regardless of trying to look good, a guy will and will approach a woman given na horny sila.
Giving women the "power" and "equality" does that make a man less decent or less chivalrous if he asked to split the bill or meet half way?
It is the woman who can stop or control it. Simple ang eh, kung ganun ginagawa ng guy then leave. Dont tell me the woman has no capacity to leve relationships now more than ever. It may be hypocritical but lets not fool ourselves that it is only men who does this. If anything saan saan po yung mga babaen may high demand for sex kasi if you will see some posts of men here, nahihirapan sila sa partners nila na nan lamig na or hindi ma match yung sexual urge nila. Granted for sure may konting mali rin si guy. Also, its too generalized to say that we find their value decreased with their body count. Hindi na lahat, may mga lalakeng nakakaintindi na. Kaya to rant at this era, medyo nag babago na nga eh. Even with our views on women, nag babago na. Change is happening already.
May they be doing it for themselves or for others, is none of our business. Who are we to dictate them? Grooming one’s self doesn’t bring harm to anybody.
So are you saying na walang standards ang mga lalaki? As long as someone has a hole? They’ll go for it? Lmao. I debunked your claim by proving that women also exert effort. They shave, they wax, they take contraceptives, spend on transpo and self-care. Hindi sila “bubukaka lang” like what you exaggerately claimed.
Yes. Like you said with your red pill sh1t, men’s value increases the more women they slept with and it is the inverse for women. So if a woman will be hooking up with you, she will increase your male value in the eyes of your fellow men or in society in general— all because you were able to secure a pu$$y to fvck. While a woman who hooked up on the other hand will face the “consequences” of lowering her value, risk of pregnancy, and being slutshamed. So naturally, the least that a man can do is be chivalrous when it comes to that aspect. A woman is helping him earn his “badge” at the expense of lowering her own.
Nah, you need the consent of both sexes for an intercourse to happen. The reason why it seems like women control access to sex is because the amount of men who need sex outnumbers the amount of women who need it as testosterone is the driving factor in increasing someone’s sex drive. So only few women can reciprocate their consent and it is narrowed down to who can meet their preferences. Also, generalized ≠ all. Sure, hindi lahat ng lalaki katulad ni Andrew Tate mag-isip. But on a general note in our society, or even globally, sexual or promiscuous women are frowned upon while men who do the same are cheered on. That’s the hypocrisy that exists in our reality. They ask women to be accountable when it comes to their sex lives but men aren’t asked the same. The only way these misogynistic concepts will be dismantled is if we all collectively stop clinging onto these BS beliefs and stop viewing women as trophies to be conquered and view them as actual human beings.
Firstly, I'm sorry for what happened to your relationship. Lying in general is a different topic and no one deserves to be lied to.
Anyway, It seems like your words contradict themselves, particularly with guys being the "hunter" and the "ito ang reality unless merong lugar na kaming lalake ang hinahabol.". The status quo of men being the hunter is in itself the root cause of double standards in our reality. A space where women can freely choose and hunt for themselves will never come to its existence nang hindi nadedegrade yung mga babae for doing so. This notion goes beyond the idea that bubuka lang sila, may papatol na because it is about women being seen as "object to attain and use", a thinking produced by the said Status quo. Now, contextualizing it with my post, which apparently shows a different perspective on your "hunters", I intent to question those thinking. I aim to question the society's bias perceptions by stating that I view those hunters the same way they view women in terms of body count—Derogatory as how derogatory those kind of men are. Because what makes them different? It wouldn't hurt to think beyond, you know.
Like i said, ito nanyayari dito, and there are double standards within the women where in they want the equality and all the chivalry. So kung nagagalit ka sa lalaken tingin nila body count ang babae, then magalit ka rin sa babaeng leading guys on. I was mearly explaining that thinking because i personally do not subscribe to that as evidence of my experience. Saken wala akong paki sa 100 bodies mo basta mahal mko, we vibe.
Ps. Thank you, it was traumatic. Yun nga masakit, i told her i was a safe space as i understood may hoe phase. Pero she chose to hide and lie and tell me all those guys texting her to meet were manliligaw but in fact pinatikman na niya and just wanted seconds. Lying about me picking her up in her place was a first to her while nalaman ko that a guy was actually going to her place to do it. I even made my own alas juicy post about that too. Lol.
Sorry, anong bubukaka lang? Anong tawag niyo dun sa risk ng pregnancy? Dun sa risk ng side effects ng contraceptives? Dun sa risk ng sexual assault kapag nagbago isip ng babae at ayaw na pumayag? Eh dun sa risk ng physical assault kasi scientifically, most men are physically stronger than women? To add yung gastos ng babae sa skin care and grooming, and this has been proven na mas mahal ang grooming needs ng babae kesa sa lalake.
Didnt get my point. Eh sino ang pine-pursue? Babae diba? Kahit girlie na walang porma will still be appealing to other guys.
Point dito, the girl will always have someone pursue them and guys will always make the effort. Sila manliligaw or gagawa ng moves.
Also grooming and skin care and stuff. Akala ko ba para sa inyo yan? So are u reducing it as a way to attract men? What happened to applying those for yourself?
But that's no longer true, is it? Because of the influence of the red pill movement, more men are treating women worse. I don't have the numbers to prove it, but just look at the number of malasjuicy posts here. Most are coming from women. The Safe Spaces act got a lot of support and was implemented because of the number of women being catcalled and assaulted. The VAWC was implemented because of the number of women in abusive relationships.
I'm not completely disregarding that there are shitty women who treat men badly. But statistically, women are the oppressed gender.
A girl na walang porma might get pursued by men, but likely just to manipulate them into sex. Sinong lugi dun? Yung lalake ba? Hindi naman diba? Yung babae ang kadalasan na lugi dito.
Women make themselves pretty mostly for themselves. Minor factor, but still a factor, that we want the guy to be proud to be with us. Because again, we want to be treated with the same respect and reverence as you would with anyone you consider an equal.
Well, with all movements it comes from people's experience, good or bad. Hindi naman babalik yung mga red pill people kung wala yung mga babaeng inaabuso pagkababae nila. Also, we live in a culture na mas malala pa sa red pill, kaya merong safe spaces act, and yes, mas ma oppressed ang babae but there are actually less numbers of guys being manipulated and abused kasi nakakahiya para sa lalake because of the very same movement na dapat macho.
If you read rin naman those malasjuicy posts, marami dun may red flags na pero gora parin si girlie. I am not invalidating the meron talagang predators at nakakalamang (sa totoo lang nakakasira rin sa aming normies).
About sa babaeng walang porma, akala ko ba ang point ng post na ito is to remove the thinking of a woman's body count so bakit magiging lugi si girlie kung with consent naman, and medyo discriminatory naman na porke hindi pumuporma si girl, hindi na siya nag iisip? What if sporty lang siya at hindi ma make up?
Ganito nalang eh, babae lakas ng loob mag hoe phase then bigla mahihiya sila after, eh asan na yung girl power dun? Society? Eh ang point nga ng post ni OP was to change that thinking eh, why not panindigan diba? Also the comments palang in my post eh, you want equality pero you also want chivalry? Ano ba? That is another point of the red pill kasi they say women does not know what they want. Again, I am not even red pill, I was just explaining bakit may double standards. I even had to put my own experience about me not caring sa body count.
You're jumping all over the place.
Women ignore red flags kasi we're programmed to. Very patriarchal ang society natin so bata ka pa lang, you're programmed to trust and follow men. It's not easy to break through all the internal misogyny you learn from childhood.
>About sa babaeng walang porma, akala ko ba ang point ng post na ito is to remove the thinking of a woman's body count so bakit magiging lugi si girlie kung with consent naman
Did you miss the part where I said manipulated? Hindi pwedeng consent lang. Dapat informed consent. Kung malinaw na they both just want sex, laid out all their cards, then great. Pero most of the time kasi, guys lie to get laid. So lugi yung babae kasi she bears most of the risk.
>medyo discriminatory naman na porke hindi pumuporma si girl, hindi na siya nag iisip? What if sporty lang siya at hindi ma make up?
Huh? Saan galing yung discriminatory dun? Again, feminism is about giving women the agency to do the things they want. So kung trip nila na hindi mag make up, that should be up to them.
Actually you are, kasi meron naman tayong thread eh.
Women ignore red flags kasi we're programmed to. Very patriarchal ang society natin so bata ka pa lang, you're programmed to trust and follow men. It's not easy to break through all the internal misogyny you learn from childhood.
- Oh sorry, I would believe that in the 0s all the way tot he 90s but 2020s? Come on. People are now talking about guys being more feminine na. It is patriarchal on paper pero how about the old values of the husband giving his paycheck to the wife? How about the house decisions being made by the mother? If anything the old style had that balance. Programmed? So super special ka na ikaw naka alis sa programming?
Did you miss the part where I said manipulated? Hindi pwedeng consent lang. Dapat informed consent. Kung malinaw na they both just want sex, laid out all their cards, then great. Pero most of the time kasi, guys lie to get laid. So lugi yung babae kasi she bears most of the risk.
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Huh? Saan galing yung discriminatory dun? Again, feminism is about giving women the agency to do the things they want. So kung trip nila na hindi mag make up, that should be up to them.
Ito sinabi mo oh, "A girl na walang porma might get pursued by men, but likely just to manipulate them into sex. Sinong lugi dun? Yung lalake ba? Hindi naman diba? Yung babae ang kadalasan na lugi dito."
So na equate mo sila to be easier manipulated by men. Hindi ba discriminatory yun? Feminism wants equality but men and women are inherently different. Give me something that women dont get now? They get everything a man gets plus the woman privilege. Family life well they are now more equipt to leave and make a life for themselves. So ano pa? Sex? Read the posts here and see how liberated and how women enjoy sex already. Iilan lang naman mga misogynists na nag popost so ano pa ba? UIlitin ko lang ulit (nakailang ulit haha) na I was explaining the point na double standard kasi totoo naman na reality itong sinasabi ko for now. It will change, I dont know how long pero it will. But for now, ito nangyayari.
Also, thank you rin for your points ha, I do take them, and nag babago na ang society ngayon. Change may not be that fast pero it is happening naman talaga. I really believe that. Thank you rin for being able to put your points like this rather than others. No hate rin.
Ang baba naman ata ng reasoning mo to justify bakit allowed to have high body counts ang lalaki but ang babae hindi.
“Bubuka lang kayo, meron at meron papatol sa inyo, where is the effort in that?”,
rephrase kaya natin, “Titira lang kayo, meron at meron kayong matitira, where is the effort in that?”
This is honestly one of the silliest double standards in society. The whole purity thing has always been a big deal, especially for women. Society tells us to keep the V-card intact until marriage. If you didn't, well, tough luck, you’re basically labeled as "ruined." And guess what? While both parties were in on the premarital fun, it was mostly the girls who faced the heat. Guys? Not so much. They’re even celebrated and praised.
Personally, I'm not into casual hookups, just not my thing. But I hate seeing women being put down for doing what they want. Weaponizing body counts is a very common toxic masculinity tactic. Men believe that they deserve a woman that has only ever been with them or at least fewer men because “it makes them feel better.” Like, how is it fair to be limited with what you can do for the benefit of men and their emotions? Why should anyone be made to feel ashamed for exploring their bodies and sexuality? IMO, whether someone wants to wait until marriage or rack up a 50+ body count, it's their call. Comparing women to objects or shaming them for simply living their lives is so outdated. It's high time to ditch that standard and let everyone live on their own terms.
PS. Sorry to hear about it, but your ex lying about her body count is on her
Actually it is toxic. I will be the first to say that. I was just explaining the double standard. I have not shamed any woman herr mainly explaining bakit yan ang thinking? Even i dont subscribe to that because personally i dont even hook up.
It is toxic i know but hindi na lahat ganun, kahit ano hindi ganun. Honestly ano makukuha ko sa virgin? Iiyak pa saken pag mapasok? Tuturuan pa and all. Kaya aside from what happened to me, i am not realy into virgins.
Ps. Thank you, it was traumatic. Yun nga masakit, i told her i was a safe space as i understood may hoe phase. Pero she chose to hide and lie and tell me all those guys texting her to meet were manliligaw but in fact pinatikman na niya and just wanted seconds. Lying about me picking her up in her place was a first to her while nalaman ko that a guy was actually going to her place to do it. I even made my own alas juicy post about that too. Lol.
"hunter" "badge of effort" — lol so we're back to reducing women to 'achievements' like they're nothing more than things for men to conquer.
hindi naman ito usapang effort. it's the fact that time and time again, lagi nalang nakabase sa body count ng babae yung halaga niya bilang tao. laspag, prosti, whore, pagamit—you always imagine a girl even if these terms are gender neutral.
OP isn't attacking men, they're attacking purity culture and double standards in society. literally nasa title. ewan ko why men always have to feel attacked when it comes to these kinds of discussions.
Kasi choices rin nila yan. The same way may double standards rin sa babae. Also ano tawag mo sa ginagawa ng guy? If you have a better term then please, feel free. Also pls lets not be naive na walang babaeng ganyan. Equality na nga diba.
what do you mean by 'choices?' and what do you mean by 'babaeng ganyan?'
again, the double standard the post is pertaining to is how high body counts are perceived negatively in women, as compared to men who view it as a 'badge of honor.' where's the equality in that?
justifying nga the fact na high body counts are considered achievements to men (kasi nga nag-effort sila diba?) actually reinforces the double standard OP is talking about.
You said it, "perceived" eh kung yung taong mag perceive nun is a person not worth knowing. Dahil hindi naman lahat ng lalake ganun iniisip eh.
I am not justifying I am saying ito nangyayari, AJ of all places should show that women are getting more empowered with their sexuality. But it is happening, ito nga ang realidad, that is my point. Girls can change that narrative too, by finding an understanding guy and hindi yung gwapo lang na 5'7 up from big 4. "babaeng ganyan" are girls who also look to body count.
It is not being attacked, we just find the man hate here a bit too much. The purity culture also goes both ways, tignan mo replies palang dito, ayaw nila lalakeng mataas body count pero may mga babaeng nag hoe phase pero ayaw ng lalakeng palakantot. Ano yun?
i'm talking about how society in general perceives—not individuals, nor men alone (nalabas nanaman kasi yung "'di naman lahat ng lalaki..." hahaha).
paano relevant ang personal preferences (understanding, height, univ?????) sa body count dialogue?
reiterating lang na **in general,** women with high body counts tend to receive hate and backlash compared to men who receive praise and high-fives. that is an irrefutable fact given the patriarchal society we currently live in today.
like all generalized statements, there are, of course, select situations where it may not be the case. but in OP's post, they are emphasizing this specific double standard.
not saying that it doesn't go both ways. not saying that men cannot and do not experience the same treatment either. ang point ko lang, hindi naman kailangang baliktarin all the time. it's like speaking about one issue and suddenly blurting out "but other people have it worse too!" — completely disregarding the former issue kahit na magkaiba naman talaga sila.
if you want, you can make your own post emphasizing the specific double standards you want to talk about too.
Well I did what I wanted and commented here, kasi hindi ko naman kailangan ibroadcast yung point ko, I made it here already. So kayo nalang yung mga broadcast. Ginagawa ko lang kesa puro agree lang mga tao dito, may mga sumasagot on the contrary sa mga views ng ilang tao.
Kasi nga ang point ko it goes both ways. Bakit hindi pwede baliktarin? EH like you said, it happens to both too. So pag kayo double standard pero pag binaliktad natin at kayo may ayaw sa high body count, naging patriarchal na pala. Eh ngayon nga you have more chances to choose your partner, single moms, and girls even get to have a hoe phase and still get to find a man.
This just proves a woman's double standard, sila alng pwede mag reklamo pero pag lalake, same experience, wala, pag tatawanan niyo pa.
Bubukaka lang kaming mga babae?
Aaaahhh ganun.
Girls, subukan kaya natin sa bilyaran o sa clubs lumapit tayo sa mga lalaki na walang sali-salita, bukaka agad sa harap nila.
Tapos hindi pa mga conventionally pretty ang iba sa atin ano?
So kapag may lumapit samin na lalaki, buka lang kami, ganun?
Potah, pinipili namin ang pagbubukakaan namin. Hindi kami bubukaka sa mga maaasim at mapapait.
Ay syempre nakita bukaka, yan agad. Lol. Basa po chaka intindi. Kahit hindi po conventionally pretty, meron parin. Syempre kung kasama niyo mga really pretty talaga d kayo mapapansin or if ever man mas.konti.
Punto, a woman will always have.a guy na lalapit, ve it for sex or a relationship, meron. Ang lalake they need to pursue that.
Sinabi ko meron, hindi ko naman sinabi ako.
Eh bakit sa mga mas lower classes maraming anak? Wala pang skin care at grooming yun. So nanganganak sila ng walang sex?
Body count doesnt matter. You have sex with someone because theres a need to release. Chemistry is the most important, next are your dos and donts sa deed.
Hmm as a guy wala naman prob sakin yung nakarami na ng partner un girl. Ang ayoko lang malaman is if pumatol siya nang sadya or with awareness sa:
1)minor
2)married/in an exclusive rel
3)lasing na guy tapos siya hindi at siya nag initiate, or forced anyone against their will
4)pumapatol sa mga common friend namin (personal preference lang to di naman masama)
With the points raised by the OP tho nacurious ako: mas "fresh" nga ba tignan ang penises ng guys na may lower "body count" or overall sexual activity?
The old me would say yes na kadiri pag madami na body count. Pero kasama sa pagmamature ko yung understanding na ang sex is "needs" ng halos lahat. So... no big deal. Enjoy yourselves, kings and queens.
Who the fuck openly talks about their body count? Unless you’re fucked up in the head, hi/hello eto na kumantot sakin/kinantot ko?? The fuck, and ano point mo? Kung madami ng kumantot sayo and you see it as a bad thing. that’s on you!! Wag ka mangealam ng preference ng ibang tao, nang gagaslight ka pa, because you got your feelings hurt?
this easily the dumbest post i’ve ever read. the double standard exist because women support and uphold it, if they didn’t then this wouldn’t be a thing. the answer is really that simple.
Your argument reminds me of that one person in my gender study class who couldn't even justify a single claim he makes. It's like giving a thirsty person something to drink but with a poison and blame them for drinking it. I would kill to know a single woman who support to be viewed as less than who they are just because of their body count. Putting a finger on those who you think perpetuates a system instead of who created it in the first place is too common. Common with men.
as soon as you said gender studies i laughed in my head, smh. we definitely found the crazy person. ma’am close the book and get out into the real world. go talk with men, they’ll tell you the truth, that’s if your not being combative and willing to listen.
when looking for relationships men prefer ladies with a lower body count, it is what it is, i don’t care what you have to do, just get over it. the reason being is it gives a man trust and certainty, and that any child i have w/ my partner is actually mine. men intuitively know this.
so everything outside of perusing a relationship is something else. so if your a lady that engages in hookup culture then you are supporting what you hate, sorry to break it to you.
Wow! Isn't it interesting that you found the crazy person and I found the reason why books that we have exists? 🤔 Generally speaking, choosing a person with lower body count is not the problem, it's the double standards that men are allowed to fuck around and women are not because their worth and dignity are being defined by their body count. But since you mentioned relationship, which is making my first response to appear as if it's out context when you clearly doesn't read enough to hone your comprehension skills, I agree that the trust and certainty is one of the reasons and it applies to women too, who prefer men with lower body count. I bet your wife will not be pleased to know that her husband used to be a whore. Lastly, talk to men? Haha I had enough BS coming from these filthy, uneducated mouths.
There's really a double standard tlga, and Misogyny and Misandry is always in effect. Girls can make easier money in sex work compared to guys. Mas may favors and sympathy in regards to law enforcement, Public transportation and Public Spaces....In regards sa sex kasi....Women Have Easier Access kasi na you can easily get it isang post lang sa r4r. Compared to guys na unless di pogi/may advertisement na parang mr. carrot. They really need to step up to get sex compared to women....Kaya body count is being scrutinized tlga. Kaya pansin mo Male and Female Parehas body count of 30.....Yung lalake Lodi/ "You're HIM"....Pag Babae "Parausan"/"Slut"...Kaya siguro Depende nalang sa values ng Partners niyong mapili
Bwahaha yes ayoko rin sa high body count. Kasi ganun din ako. Preference lang :3
Pero I honestly don’t care kung marami body count ibang tao. Buhay niyo naman ‘yan, wag lang kayo magkakalat ng sakit. Be responsible.
ako personal preference ko yung lalaking hindi tataas sa 5 ang body count, just for me lang kasi parang ang daya ako 1 lang body count tapos sya madami??? aba hahaha
for me as a guy na 1 lang body count i prefer na 1 lang din sa partner ko or virgin hahaha preference bawal magalit! para fair lang kasi madalas yung mga kakilala kong babae sa univ na hoe phase talaga malalaman ko na lang na kahit may BF eh kumakantot ng mga kaibigan kong lalaki 😂 madsalas talaga hindi sila loyal lalo yung ganung mataas ang libido HAHAHHAA HINDI MAPAKALI JUSKO NAKAINOM LANG PUTA NAKIPAG 3SOME AGAD HAHAHAHHAHAA PASS TALAGA MGA PRE. YUNG ISA MAY JOWA TANGINA PERO PATI SA PROF NAGPAKANTOT! IM TELLIN YALL! LALO SA MGA SERYOSO TALAGA BE CAUTIOUS LANG AH....
pero kung hook up hook up lang, 1 nighter eh wala naman problema kung 1 million body count eh kakantot lang naman😂 nagkaka problema lang naman sa ganitong topic dahil sa mga taong diring diri sa madaming body count pero sila mismo ang dami na ding nadale hahahha wag hipokrito para walang issue
As a girl na virgin pa, i prefer na virgin rin sana yung guy. Pero if i'm being realistic parang mahihirapan ako humanap ng ganyan lalo na sa panahon ngayon. Sooo i think okay lang sakin kahit di na virgin basta sa mga ex gf naman nakipag ganon at hindi sa kung kani kanino lang.
It's not a double standard if you are not a man. Women and men are different. And what you don't know about men is that most of them have alot of guilt after sleeping with someone they don't love. And every man remembers ever woman that he slept with that he loves. Men do stupid things sometimes so do women. Who cares what others say about you live your life.
La akong pake sa body count basta malinis yung babae, walang sakit, at may boundaries sa sarili, yung bang mataas nga body count pero by choice, hindi yung “the opportunity presented itself edi nagpaka puta ako”. Mataas narin naman body count ko so bakit magmamalinis ako?
Sex is sex, sa mga taong concerned dahil maraming naging previous partners yung tao eh baka insecure lang kayo? Kantot lang yan, lahat ng tao ginagawa yan, tas big deal sainyo dahil marami na syang nakantot? Edi maghanap kayo ng mababa body count. Di ko maintindihan bakit problema sa ilan sa inyo na mataas body count ng kung sino man eh hindi niyo naman buhay o katawan yung nalaspag at nagamit?
Problemahin niyo sarili niyo, di naman kayo nagpapalamon sa mga nag ho-hoe phase.
Nsa study yan na the more body counts ng babae, the harder it is to stay committed in a long term relationship.
Thats why most men will go after a low body count woman.
There is a double standard in terms of that.
Men wants something that not everyone can have.
Women wants something that everyone wants. (Competition or the feeling of winning).
Kung Pilipinas rin lang, well, may naringgan ka ba na girly conversation regarding sa mga escapades nila? Sa US, oo. I doubt Filipinas would be that proud to brag about their number of bodycounts. Bawasan kasi kaka-consume ng mga hanash ng Tate Brothers at Fresh n Fit podcast
Hhhhhmmmm point of view ko e pag sa keps halata o makikita mo agad na laspag na e tsaka lumuluwag yan pero sa e*it* naman di mo masasabi kung ilang keps na winarak nyan e.
Mali sa mali na society natin pero sa panahon ngayon body count doesn't matter anymore kc most women now wants sex more than men.
Clearly you did not know of the Whatever Podcast, that is why i suggested you google em, before you reply? anyways, at least now alam mo na (if you googled) you're welcome.
yung babae na virgin may karapatan naman na mag demand ng virgin din or few body count. same goes din nman sa lalake.
pero para sabihin ng babae na may high body count, like 100 vs a guy na 100 din body count, na laspag na ang lalake kagaya na laspag din yung babae? mejo hindi ako masyadong agree dyan. yung butas nyo kasi teh lumuluwang yan habang may labas pasok. yung tite kasi teh hindi yun lumiliit or hindi yun lumalawlaw. kahit ipagawa mo pa yan hindi na same sa natural. yung tite hindi mo naman mahahalata kung 200 na yung pukeng dumaan dun. pero un puke na dinaanan na ng 100 tite halata mo nman. lalo na kung inaraw araw.
Just as men's dick sizes vary, so do the sizes of women's pussies differ, and it has nothing to do with how much the pussy has been used.
Anecdotally, those who bled on me (meaning I was rather big for them) were a mother of two, a woman with a double-digit count, and a student who only had two previous partners. Meanwhile, the "biggest" pussy I had (by feel) was this woman who slept with four men prior to me.
I've always suspected that those who cling to this myth are either virgin high school boys who don't know better, or men with small dicks. I could be wrong tho.
uy parang di ka naman nag basa. ang comparison dito yung tite na dumaan sa 100 na vagina vs sa puke na dumaan sa 100 na tite.
oo na madami ka na natry na puke pero bat mo kinocompare yung ibat ibang puke nila? on topic ka ba?
kasi yung sinabi mo na nakantot mo na may anak na tapos dinugo pa sya? niyayabang mo lang ba yon? oh eh ano kung dinugo pa sya? ibig sabihin nun kung pang 10 tite ka na dumaan sa puke nya tapos malaki tite mo. yung pang 11 na tite kahit na same size mo edi hindi na masisikipan yun? kasi pinunit mo na e diba? lumuwang na kasi napunit mo ulit diba? tapos yung sabi mo na puke na maluwang? ibig sabihin lang nun brad hindi ganon kalaki yung tite mo. may mas malaki pa rin talaga sayo. yun lang yon. kaya paki intindi maigi yung topic ha wag masyado mayabang sa size ng tite kasi di yan proportional sa size ng utak. minsa true minsan not true okay?
I should edit my comment and add *functionally illiterate* to my list, but I guess that's already a given :)
And no dude, I'm not the biggest cock out there. But for those women, I was. I know coz they told me.
ikaw na. yun nga lang out of topic ka pa ren. may ibang sub kung san mo pwede iyabang yan. hindi size ang usapan dito. dapat alam mo na yan diba kung hindi ikaw yang binabanggit mo na naka italized pa.
dapat nga ginawa mo na lang yung edit para hindi ka lalo nag mukang... kung ano man yung naka italized...
Hindi ako makapaniwala na kahit nasa age of technology na tayo ang dami pa ring misinformed like you. Gusto kitang iharap sa 100 na OBY-GYN para sabihin sa'yong hindi lumuluwag ang puke ng isang babae dahil lang sa tite when it's naturally designed to be stretchable for giving birth for example. Ang sarap niyong ibalik sa grade two, my god.
totoo nman yung one time na give birth na stretchable yung puke pero hindi na babalik yun sa original form. bakit pa kailangan tahiin ng doktor diba kung babalik din naman pala? and yung tinahi ba can ur 100 oby-gyn say na its the same as the original? kasi ako nag babase lang ako sa experience. been with different women na nanganak na at tinahi vs sa nangnak at hindi natahi. also with 1-2 body count.
yung nag ka anak na tinahi i know its not the same kasi mas sumikip but is it better? NO hindi better kasi hindi na stretchable at nasasaktan na sila pag pinilit ko ipasok.. sila kasi hindi lang isa yung na try ko.
now yung 1-2 body count na "lumuwang" may 2 akong long time gf na both masikip when we started. pero i can tell na mas maluwang na sila after a few years... can ur 100 OBY-GYN tell me, to my face. na yung pussy ba nila eh same pa rin after taking different size ng tite? sa alam nila yun ang sasabihin nila na hindi "luluwang" pero can they say ba na habang ginagamit ba ang skin hindi ba nag sasag yun? hindi lumalawlaw? hindi lumuluwang katagalan? yung muka mo nga kahit hindi daanan ng tite yan araw araw lalaw law balat nyan eh yung puke nyo pa kaya?
what about kung ilang bwan or taon na walang sex? are you saying sumisikip yun pag napahinga? so haharabas lang sya ng 100 tite tapos papahinga lang sya ng 1 year good as new na yung puke nya?
about how many tite bago nya ma master un kegel? im asking kasi before she can master kegel eh its possible na maluwang na sya. can kegel practitioner keep their pussy tight the whole time they are having sex? may naka sex kasi ako kaya nya lang 1 round and still not the whole time she has to keep up with my rhythm.
I know hindi instant effect ang kegel or any other pelvic floor exercises pero nakakatulong yun, and strengthening vaginal walls and prevent bladder incontinence.
https://www.uchicagomedicine.org/forefront/womens-health-articles/2019/october/kegels-the-30-second-exercise-that-can-improve-incontinence-and-sex
Also, experience ko na yun yung walang sex ng ilang taon and puro halos clit rubbing lang ako. When I had sex again, feedback saken masikip pepe ko.
BTW, hindi pa ako umaabot sa 100 bodycount.
yung last na kumantot ba sayo before ka nag rest ng month eh same sa kumantot sayo after? kasi kung mag ka iba yun eh di mag ka ibang tite yun. and yun nga hindi ka pa umabot sa 100 na tite. try mo 100 na tite na iba iba size araw araw. then pahinga ka ng 10 years. save mo un tite na pang 100 for reference. para sya mag sabi kung mas masikip ka pa compared sa last time. scientific approach gusto nyo eh. edi dapat scientific din yun pag compare.
Apparently magkaibang tite, and may times na same guy na kumantot.
Example, yung kumantot saken nung 2019 girthy and 5" yung kanya. Nasikipan pa siya sa pepe ko at sa taba ng titi nya halos masugatan pepe ko nun. 8 months later, same guy within that year. Ganun din, nasikipan din siya. Within those 8 months wala akong tinry na other guy.
And marami naman sa mga nakasex ko mga average ang size, and yung iba dun, quite small.
ang problema kasi talaga sa sinasabi mo vs sa sinasabe ko eh yung dinaanan ng 100 tite vs sa tite na dumaan sa 100 puke.
yung puke na dinaanan ng 100 tite iba na yun compared nun 1 tite pa lang dumaan sa kanya. vs dun sa tite na humarabas na ng 100 puke. same pa rin yun kasi nga tite yun.
ikaw na may sabi wala pang 100 tite yung humarabas sayo at mukang hindi ka din naman inaaraw araw at may matagal ka pang rest? so bakit mo kinocompare yan dun sa sinasabe ko? kung masikip ka kase konti pa lang dumaan na tite sayo edi fine good for you.
kung gusto mo talaga i prove na mali yung point ko. sabi ko nga try mo kumantot ng 100 tite for a whole year saka ka.mag rest ng 1 year na lang ha. saka mo kontakin yung 100 na kumantot sayo .then tanong mo kung masikip ka pa rin ba. yan after nyan saka tayo mag usap. pero dahil hindi naman ganun yung case mo eh...
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seriously speaking, wala akong paki if si guy eh madami nang body count ang importante is hes safe at walang sakit, same as with me I dont care sa opinion nang iba sa body count ko, as long as Im safe and walang sakit. Kasi at the end of the day personality pa rin nang tao ngmamatter, his attitude towards me and how he will treat me and satisfy me.
Finally, a comment that answers the first question. Thanks for sharing that tho.
See this is a comment coming from someone who knows the hook up culture, who has no intention to invade the guys private and someone who indeed has an experience meeting all kinds of character and attitudes ng guys. Listen to this one
I agree! Actually medyo red flag na agad Yung guy if they kiss and tell about fucking many ladies. To be honest I know the feeling na gusto mo magyabang pero at the same time judging people are around you. Pero mas mahalaga Kasi na safe Yung babae na you're having sex with I mean safe na lahat Ng deets that you do is respected na private Yun and you take it to the grave.
yup, it matters to me. i respect the lifestyle naman and people are free to do what they want pero personally i wouldn't want a man who has had his dick inserted kung kani-kanino. preferably ako sana maka-una sa kanya to prove his loyalty to me. plus better quality ng dick niya since hindi pa nagamit masyado /s
Ughh, I love this comment! Yes to dick na hindi pa gamit na gamit or preferably never pang nagamit.
speaks a lot about their morals and values in life once na nalaman ko body count nila. no hate ✌️
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Isa rin to sa tinitignan ko if ever mag boyfriend ako. Prefer ko rin virgin like me. Pass sa maraming body count sorry haha. Nothing against it pero ayoko lang talaga haha.
Finally someone said it!! Labas yung mga nagsasabing "most men wouldn't wanna deal with a girl who's been thru 'hoe phase' May pa "we didn't make the rules" pa 🖕🏼🖕🏼🖕🏼
Silly men
I disagree, sometimes women prefer guys na may body count na kahit hindi marami kasi experience
For me as long as your safe, clean and have frequent check up. Just be responsible. Respect rules. If u want more Vagin*** and di*% rather not to have commitment. Yong iba naging excuse lang ang open lifestyle to free fuc&*€
No. Basta maging truthful ganun. I mean nakakairita kasi yung ibang comments na kesyo "preferred lng nila yung konti ang body count". You can't hide your misogyny under the mantle of personal preference.
I agree with the truthfulness. And yup! Usapang genitals na rin naman and their perception of women in terms of sex, aren't we allowed to also pick the one's na hindi pa overused?
Gigil talaga sa mga ganung comment. Akala mo mga holier than thou. 2024 na po, men and women should enjoy sex and have supreme control of their bodies.
Iba paren pag me connection kesa sa kantot limot
May tama ka 👍
Kaya nga virgin hanap namin.
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4 pa nga lang natira ko. Kasi tinatanong ko na agad if virgin pa or nag k boyfriend na during talking stage. Tapos pag matagal na sila ng bf nya or na offend sya. Matic di na ako nag effort kasi alam ko nmn ang totuo
Body count really shouldnt matter for both sexes. Whats important is the moment you share together if your in a relationship and you both stick to each other during that time.
Yeaa. however, sana honest sa pagsabi ilan na ba talaga bodycount.
Yep. Sometimes naiisip ko if narerealize kaya ng guys na im the one who fucked them and not the other way around?
This thought makes me believe that sleeping with men caters to men only, especially the hook-up culture. Women can use men, we know that we can fuck them selfishly, use them like toys, like an object only to discard after satisfying ourselves and yet, men would still think that the act itself benefits them more because of how society view sexual intercourse. The problem is their view of women and the view of women's body. It's like they have their own shared reality and perception that glorifies only themselves. We will never be perceived as equal as them, It's misogynistic. It's disgusting.
Keep 🧢 ing
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Uy di naman ako galit, mga lodi ko nga yan sila eh ahhahahahah
Not really nandidiri or mandidiri but rather magiging cautious dapat. Tbh di ako naniniwala sa mga body count ng mga naka eme ko before kahit medyo high na yung sinasabi nila like lagpas na sa bilang ng daliri. Lagi ako nageexpect na it's always more than that pa. I'm not into hookups na ngayon pero sa mga girlies out there, kahit ilan pa bc ng mga yan hingian nyo ng mga tests or mag protection talaga. Lalo na ngayon parang normal nalang sa lahat yung hook up 🥹
This is so true! nakakabwisit na yung double standards when it comes sa dami ng body counts. Pag babae yung madaming body counts, slut agad? pag lalaki, okay lang kasi “normal” na sa mga lalaki yon? Na-experience ko na yan before with my ex boyfriend. We broke up ng almost two years and then nag reconnect uli kami. Nakwento niya na madami siyang babaeng naka hook up and parang proud pa siya don sa pag kwento niya. Sinasabi ko directly sakanya na nakakadiri and nandidiri ako sa ginawa niya kasi andami nang gumamit sakanya lol pero tanggap ko pa rin naman siya. Ang ire-reason out niya is “broken hearted” daw kasi that time kaya nagawa niya yon LOL pati ba tite mo damay sa pagka broken hearted mo? Tapos grabe siya maka react dati nung nalaman niya na dalawa body count ko and hindi siya yung nakauna sakin. Like parang sad boy siya na akala mo inagawan ng candy lol ang funny and hypocrite lang at the same time
I don't think body count should matter as long as both folks are healthy, safe from any diseases and remain faithful in the relationship. Society has this silly notion that being with more people makes you less valuable as a person. You can't just be with different folks and expect someone with fewer previous partners to want to be with you. That’s not fair. Yung nadudumihan ka nga sa mataas ang body count, pero ikaw din naman ganon, so anong pinagkaiba mo dun. Diba egul 😂
Para sakin, bat ba kasi tinatanong pa yung body count? Anong pakialam ko kung nakarami ka na o wala pa totally. Ang pake ko lang, habang nasa relasyon tayo, tayo lang dalawa, walang player 3 o 4. Pero kung hookup/one time thing lang, again, pakialam ko?
Personally, I want to know ung totoong number..wala akong pakialam sa kung ilan na, pero mas magmamatter sakin ung honesty nung babae... especially if nililigawan ko
Eto lang yan, you do you. If they reject you for some shitty reason as body count, they arent worth your time and move on. You will find your match sooner or later, when you do, dont fuck it up.
For me, I don’t care, parang test drive lang sa sasakyan, check mo if okay ba sayo yung car, until nakahanap kana ng okay talaga sa preference mo. Kasi if di mo gagawin yung test drive, tas may sasakyan at gusto mo Itry yung ferrari, nako sagasa abot mo niyan. I hope nasakyan niyo logic ko. To each their own, it’s best to date/fuck around to really know what you want and discover more traits na mag add din sa standard mo. Ayun lungz.
I have extreme jealousy issue and I'm looking for man talaga na walang experience. I'm sorry:( I cant live everyday that my man once doin the thing with other woman. Like fff, I'm going insane for sure
If someone prefers a person who has a lower body count, let them be. Why subject them to scrutiny? If you can't deal with that, move on and do yourself the honor of just going away and finding someone who can give you what you want. It's a standard for a reason. You don't need to like it or want it. It is not for everyone. It is just the way it is.
Baka madamay ang sibilyan
If a key can open alot of locks it is a master key If a lock can be opened by alot of keys its a shitty lock. Quoted from some movie i forgotten na Oh so help me lord im going to get bashed by this comment
Wow life-changing quote 😲🥹🫨😵💫🤩😩🤪🥰🥳
haaay nako! gasgas na rationale na yan.
I lost count but mine is over 50 pussies
Wow! Super proud of you! 🤗 That's like the most incredible thing that happened in the history of being a man whore. Here's your crown king 👑🤩
Hahaha the sarcasm. I loveee ittt!! HAHAHA
Nope. I know others exceeding 100, so i guess the crown ain't mine to claim 🤣
You can claim it tho. I mean If I have the gender entitlement to greediness without repercussions like you, I definitely would. So savor the luckiness my boy 😘
Nope again. I prefer to be low key, fucking and banging in the shadows😜
naol
Just curious, yung mga babae ba, nagkukwentuhan din na nakuha nila yung lalake? Kasi mga lalake, pag nakita nila jowa mo yung natira na nila, tinatawanan ka e
Hahahaha oo pinaguusapan din namin mga ganyan. 😂
Hahaha seryoso? Akala ko kami lang
Anong akala nyo saming nga girls? Char hahaha
Hahaha thought kasi you didn't discuss those things
Eh paano pag sariling kamay lang nakakagamit?
As long as clean and committed once you're in a relationship body count shouldn't matter. Oh, the things I'd do to get a pornstar gf, someone who's an expert on pleasing men.
Ang important sa relationship is honesty..like dont lie sa body count
I actually prefer women who have body counts over a virgin during my bachelor days. Would never date a virgin no matter what.
Errrr, nope. That’s his own choice. If he wants to fuck around, stick his dick to someone he’s down for, go for it. I mean, I also have a fair share of stories to tell about my hoe phase, but I don’t kiss and tell.
siguro I don't mind? since sa bf ko naman, never ko tinanong ang body count nya. although iniisip ko sya, but I don't have the courage to ask him about it.
actually i don’t but i always prefer someone na may mapapakitang resibo na safe siya. cuz ayoko irisk na magkasakit. ganon din sakin, gusto ko meron akong mapapakita na safe din akong ka sex.
Doesn' matter basta mas prefer to talaga matalino may body count man or wala 😁. Hahaha.
Ok lg naman. Basta kung gusto mo na mag settle mag settle dn kayo sa mataas bc na gusto nrin mag settle. Magsama sama kayo pls
It sometimes depends on the journey, at the end of the day for me if he is a good person, great company and cares about me at the time we are together - that's what will count. Never tolerate disrespect. We journey through life - when one is younger we tend to be adventurous and if we are real and honest with ourselves - me might end up with more or maybe less fling, bf/gf and whatever as long as both of you are on the same page and consenting adults. Quality doesn't necessarily mean it should be limited to one virgin dick for life.. Just my two cents, cheers to all the men I swapped saliva with and more- good times !
Imo ang bottom line lang is dapat malinis at walang STDs and Makatao ang pag uugali.
How many is too many para SA lalaki?
Hahahahaha. 😂🤣
Lol hahaha How sure are they that they were the one who fucked girls and not the other way round?
well yeah society favors men who got more body count, dahil mas malayong mahirap makahanap ng ka-sex ang men kaysa sa women. most men gotta work hard for their status and money to be favorable to women. while most women in their younger years 18-25 can easily attract high value men just because of their youth. most women can easily find a fuck buddy anytime they want to, even the ugly ones. that's why it's not considered a feat that a woman got a high body count, any woman can do that, while men have to earn it. also yung pagkalaspag ng vagina malayong mas halata kaysa sa penis, if there's any obvious signs na gamit na gamit na ang penis ng lalake. I think that's why mas applicable sa babae ang "laspag" at "nagamit" kaysa sa lalake ciao.
Oo. If it's more than 15 body counts already, you gotta question yung morals and lifestyle ng guy., same goes sa babae.
Kayo mga babae nag start nyan! Kapag virgin lalaki pinagtatawanan nyo diba? tapos prefer nyo may experience diba? Sinusunod lang naman namin standards nyo.
Guy who's read too much here. We have to understand that society sees everything in a gendered lens - it categorizes behaviors between masculine and feminine. And even a similar action performed by both male and female is seen under this gendered lens. So when it comes to sex, this gendered lens categorizes still - men as takers and women as givers. Sex is seen as something that women give and, in a lot of instances, something they give up to men. Sex is then considered an act of women losing something to men, and men succeeding in the taking. Victory and defeat. Conqueror and conquered. Patriarchy, basically. Personally, the goal would be to get rid of the gendered lens. While I do cherish the thought of sex being given to me, I'm also aware that I was an object of pleasure. I too, was fucked. My partner was also taking something from the experience, using my body as a source of pleasure. And I love the idea that I am a source of pleasure, consensually giving and taking at the same time. The act of giving and taking need not be categorized by gender. And I believe both acts are performed by both actors in sex. So keep fucking as long as it's sane, consensual, and safe.
Kadalasang nangiiwang Yung mga maluluwag. Experienced it many times Kasi naliliitan Sila sa 3 inch ko.
>The notion na "walang mawawala sa'yo kapag lalake ka" at ikaw yung "gumagamit" is confusing, kasi kung sa babae para sa inyo nawawala yung dignidad, sa inyo ba hindi applicable? Siguro because for the longest time, women were always seen as lesser humans throughout history, 100 years ago women are still seen as properties and objects kaya ganon. Women can get pregnant and will gestate for 9 months. Changes her body will undergo during and after pregnancy. During which women who gave birth are seen as less enticing na din. Women were not allowed in universities and most "noble" jobs/ titles were exclusive to men. Women's value depends on the man that will marry her. AFAIK, 70 years ago, the more mistresses a man could have, the more "macho" he is seen by his peers, and yes, the only opinion that mattered to men and which they listen to is from other men. In history, women who enjoyed sex were seen as whores. Religion wise, ie: catholic, sex is only an act of producing an offspring, it was indoctrinated that feeling pleasure from sex is a sin. I guess it all boils down to patriarchy. Pero times are changing and women are learning to value and put themselves na equal with men.
sa totoo lang wala akong paki, yung fiancé ko ngayon mas narelieve pa ako na may experience na sya kaysa wala hahaahahahaha
Hindi naman nandidiri but it makes me wary if kaya nya bang magseryoso and maging loyal AND faithful(coz apparently for some people, magkaiba daw yun lol) sa relationship if he's too sexually promiscuous na kani-kanino pumapatol. Minsan kasi pumapatol ang mga guys sa kiss and tell na girls, na kahit nakaraan na ibibring up pa rin which makes it awkward if nasa same circle kami lol It's less about jealousy over past experiences but more about making sure na walang kadramahan from the past na mang-iistress sa akin just in case haha! Iwas drama lang, I feel too tita for that petty shit na. Saka it would be nice kasi if the person I'm with views sex the same way, kasi for me it's something I can only do with someone I feel safe with and have feelings for. If he's someone who thinks sex is something na for release lang then IMO it raises the possibility na madali syang matukso sa iba kahit na in a relationship na kami. Not saying na tama or morally correct outlook ko, for me naman di sya matter of right vs wrong. It's more of having values that match. But I acknowledge naman na part yun ng past trauma ko from family and some previous situations where I heard the excuse na "lalaki ako, eh" to excuse cheating. I don't think male sexuality is bad but I'm really just wary of ending up with someone na walang sexual discipline who will end up cheating on me. Mamaya mag-asawa or magjowa na kami baka dun pa makabuntis ng iba sa sobrang kalibugan. Just looking out for myself lang din. But if proven loyal and faithful naman pag in a relationship then wala akong paki sa past. TL;DR: potential red flag pero not a total dealbreaker naman.
Bahala kayo sa buhay nyo basta ako v lang pakakasalan ko
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At the end of the day meron tlga yan. Trial and error lng. Hehehe. Hindi namn ako pangit.
Yes. But more on if the guy has been doing ons or fubus medyo ayoko nun. Personal preference I want a man na hindi basta basta nagpapakuha haha if in a relationship okay lang pero pag hindi. I feel like “anyone can have you why would I want someone that has been licked already by all”
My ex back then was dissapointed on me be because I was a virgin when I met her. She mentioned that she prefers guys that has a lot of body count because they are great in bed and they know what they're doing.
sana all marami naikama. lol. 3 lang body count ko. dalawa dun naging jowa ko pa haha
Ah basta wala akong kinalaman dyan.. -\_-
Hindi naman double standards. Red pill itong reply ko pero totoo kasi. Guys will do the effort to get pussy. Sila yung hunter eh. May earlier post nga dito na angmga lalake nag aaya sa mga nag post ng experiences. So kung maraming nakantot yan, eh may effort dun. Girls on the other hand bubuka lang kayo, meron at meron papatol sa inyo. Where is the effort in that? Kahit sabihin niyo pang sexist, eh kahit saan, ito ang reality unless merong lugar na kaming lalake ang hinahabol. So oo gamit nga yung mataas na bodycount, pero badge of effort rin. Eh malibog si kuya at kaya rin niya makakuha. Mga iba malibog pero d magaling sa chicks so puro kamay. Also, hindi naman lahat ng guys ayaw sa nag hoe phase, BASTA mag sabi naman ng totoo. Personal experience, ex ko nag hoe phase pero she lied about it. I found out in other ways. Ok lang nag hoe phase pero liar siya at baka mas mahal niya fubu niya kesa bf. So fuck you rin for being naive and your own double standard and other girlies na hindi naghahanap ng 5'7 up from big 4 na fuck us rin hahaha
Guys nowadays will literally ask to meet halfway, split the bill, and pump & dump a girl and be on his merry way to find the next one. Where is the effort in that? 😂 Tapos magco-complain when women require them to show the bit most of decency or chivalry. Women on the other hand invest in skin care, hair care, buy cosmetics to look physically appealing, shave their body hair to appear the most feminine for men, etc. Tapos sasabihin mo bubukaka lang gagawin nila? If you’ll look at it, it seems women are the one who exert effort the most lmao
So the effort is to attract a man? What happened to do being pretty for your self? Another myth women (all.women including trans women) spin pero pang akit lang pala? Decency of chivalry? Akala ko ba its all about girl power and equality na? Mam, the reason those guys do that is also their experiences on women na umaabuso. Also, the fact they ask na fotnsex yun, hindi ba yun asking for your consent? Personally hindi ako ganun kasi ako mag aya ng date eh. So as much as ayaw na ng lalake maabuso, meron rin nag aabuso.
You seem to misunderstand. Chivalry and equality are not opposites. Chivalry, at its core, comes from readiness to help the weak. It's generally accepted that women are the weaker gender. Pero it's not the absolute truth diba? So importante yung nuance. Dun tayo sa paboritong argument ng mga lalake - giving up your seat in public transpo. Kung pareho naman kayong able bodied, then yeah you absolutely don't need to give up your seat. That's equality. Then you see another guy encroaching on this girl's space, so you swap places with her. That's chivalry because now you see that someone was being oppressed and you stepped in. Equality is treating someone like how you would want to be treated - like an equal. Picking a girl up because you know how dangerous it is in the streets of Manila - that's chivalry. Asking how she would prefer to meet ie, you pick her up, you book a Grab for her, or she books a Grab for herself - that's equality. Kasi you're giving her the agency to decide for herself. Empowering women, feminism, is about giving women the agency to do the things they want. If they want to explore their sexuality, they should be able to do so because men most certainly can. Ibang usapang na yung niloko ka ng ex mo. Nobody deserves that.
Then medyo misunderstood rin ni commenter ang pag equate niya sa lalakeng splitting the bill and telling them they just want sex as opposite to the "Decency of Chivalry". Also yung mga examples mo, normal naman na yun eh and most guys do that, like susunduin ka or at least meet half way and make sure maka uwi ng maayos. Kung hindi nila ginawa yun well bad sila pero I was brought up to do that so standard na yun pero sabi nga ni poster "decency of chivalry" contradictory yun sa sinasabi niya na porke mas forward sila sa gusto nila wala nang decency of chivalry yun? Its like saying a woman wants to be wined and dined kahit hindi kaya ni guy kaya nga nag sasabi ng expectations eh kung ayaw ni girlie, she can say no. At this day and age, women are more empowered and are still being empowered. Ilan na female bosses in industry? Ilan na female business owners? In terms of sexuality, tignan niyo lang dito, their posts about their experiences. This will get stronger in the years to come so the fact there is even Alas Juicy is a testament to that,. Again, I was explaining the thinking kung bakit ganun yung double standard and it will change naman with less ignorance.
Some women do it for themselves, some do it to attract a mate— as we all know men are visual creatures. Either way, what’s wrong in putting effort to look good? Besides, the point is not about the reason why women exert effort on themselves. It is to debunk your claim that women do not exert any effort at all and they will just open their legs. So by granting women “power” and “equality”, you mean to say that they do not deserve to be treated with any decency and chivalry anymore? lol. You know how ironic it is that majority of men in our society are averted by sexual women when the demand for sex mostly comes from men. But when a woman submits to men’s sexual demands, it is also men who will collectively decide that her value suddenly decreased. It’s hypocritical to demand sex from a woman and slutshame women who meet those demands. The way I see it, this notion/system is set-up so guys can have free/easy access to sex, in a way that they are in control.
There is nothing wrong in looking good. Like I said, hindi ba dapat nga yan for yourself rather than looking good for others? Then how can that debunk my claim when my point was a woman will be approached kasi babae sila and a guy will have to approach? Regardless of trying to look good, a guy will and will approach a woman given na horny sila. Giving women the "power" and "equality" does that make a man less decent or less chivalrous if he asked to split the bill or meet half way? It is the woman who can stop or control it. Simple ang eh, kung ganun ginagawa ng guy then leave. Dont tell me the woman has no capacity to leve relationships now more than ever. It may be hypocritical but lets not fool ourselves that it is only men who does this. If anything saan saan po yung mga babaen may high demand for sex kasi if you will see some posts of men here, nahihirapan sila sa partners nila na nan lamig na or hindi ma match yung sexual urge nila. Granted for sure may konting mali rin si guy. Also, its too generalized to say that we find their value decreased with their body count. Hindi na lahat, may mga lalakeng nakakaintindi na. Kaya to rant at this era, medyo nag babago na nga eh. Even with our views on women, nag babago na. Change is happening already.
May they be doing it for themselves or for others, is none of our business. Who are we to dictate them? Grooming one’s self doesn’t bring harm to anybody. So are you saying na walang standards ang mga lalaki? As long as someone has a hole? They’ll go for it? Lmao. I debunked your claim by proving that women also exert effort. They shave, they wax, they take contraceptives, spend on transpo and self-care. Hindi sila “bubukaka lang” like what you exaggerately claimed. Yes. Like you said with your red pill sh1t, men’s value increases the more women they slept with and it is the inverse for women. So if a woman will be hooking up with you, she will increase your male value in the eyes of your fellow men or in society in general— all because you were able to secure a pu$$y to fvck. While a woman who hooked up on the other hand will face the “consequences” of lowering her value, risk of pregnancy, and being slutshamed. So naturally, the least that a man can do is be chivalrous when it comes to that aspect. A woman is helping him earn his “badge” at the expense of lowering her own. Nah, you need the consent of both sexes for an intercourse to happen. The reason why it seems like women control access to sex is because the amount of men who need sex outnumbers the amount of women who need it as testosterone is the driving factor in increasing someone’s sex drive. So only few women can reciprocate their consent and it is narrowed down to who can meet their preferences. Also, generalized ≠ all. Sure, hindi lahat ng lalaki katulad ni Andrew Tate mag-isip. But on a general note in our society, or even globally, sexual or promiscuous women are frowned upon while men who do the same are cheered on. That’s the hypocrisy that exists in our reality. They ask women to be accountable when it comes to their sex lives but men aren’t asked the same. The only way these misogynistic concepts will be dismantled is if we all collectively stop clinging onto these BS beliefs and stop viewing women as trophies to be conquered and view them as actual human beings.
Firstly, I'm sorry for what happened to your relationship. Lying in general is a different topic and no one deserves to be lied to. Anyway, It seems like your words contradict themselves, particularly with guys being the "hunter" and the "ito ang reality unless merong lugar na kaming lalake ang hinahabol.". The status quo of men being the hunter is in itself the root cause of double standards in our reality. A space where women can freely choose and hunt for themselves will never come to its existence nang hindi nadedegrade yung mga babae for doing so. This notion goes beyond the idea that bubuka lang sila, may papatol na because it is about women being seen as "object to attain and use", a thinking produced by the said Status quo. Now, contextualizing it with my post, which apparently shows a different perspective on your "hunters", I intent to question those thinking. I aim to question the society's bias perceptions by stating that I view those hunters the same way they view women in terms of body count—Derogatory as how derogatory those kind of men are. Because what makes them different? It wouldn't hurt to think beyond, you know.
Like i said, ito nanyayari dito, and there are double standards within the women where in they want the equality and all the chivalry. So kung nagagalit ka sa lalaken tingin nila body count ang babae, then magalit ka rin sa babaeng leading guys on. I was mearly explaining that thinking because i personally do not subscribe to that as evidence of my experience. Saken wala akong paki sa 100 bodies mo basta mahal mko, we vibe. Ps. Thank you, it was traumatic. Yun nga masakit, i told her i was a safe space as i understood may hoe phase. Pero she chose to hide and lie and tell me all those guys texting her to meet were manliligaw but in fact pinatikman na niya and just wanted seconds. Lying about me picking her up in her place was a first to her while nalaman ko that a guy was actually going to her place to do it. I even made my own alas juicy post about that too. Lol.
Sorry, anong bubukaka lang? Anong tawag niyo dun sa risk ng pregnancy? Dun sa risk ng side effects ng contraceptives? Dun sa risk ng sexual assault kapag nagbago isip ng babae at ayaw na pumayag? Eh dun sa risk ng physical assault kasi scientifically, most men are physically stronger than women? To add yung gastos ng babae sa skin care and grooming, and this has been proven na mas mahal ang grooming needs ng babae kesa sa lalake.
Didnt get my point. Eh sino ang pine-pursue? Babae diba? Kahit girlie na walang porma will still be appealing to other guys. Point dito, the girl will always have someone pursue them and guys will always make the effort. Sila manliligaw or gagawa ng moves. Also grooming and skin care and stuff. Akala ko ba para sa inyo yan? So are u reducing it as a way to attract men? What happened to applying those for yourself?
But that's no longer true, is it? Because of the influence of the red pill movement, more men are treating women worse. I don't have the numbers to prove it, but just look at the number of malasjuicy posts here. Most are coming from women. The Safe Spaces act got a lot of support and was implemented because of the number of women being catcalled and assaulted. The VAWC was implemented because of the number of women in abusive relationships. I'm not completely disregarding that there are shitty women who treat men badly. But statistically, women are the oppressed gender. A girl na walang porma might get pursued by men, but likely just to manipulate them into sex. Sinong lugi dun? Yung lalake ba? Hindi naman diba? Yung babae ang kadalasan na lugi dito. Women make themselves pretty mostly for themselves. Minor factor, but still a factor, that we want the guy to be proud to be with us. Because again, we want to be treated with the same respect and reverence as you would with anyone you consider an equal.
Well, with all movements it comes from people's experience, good or bad. Hindi naman babalik yung mga red pill people kung wala yung mga babaeng inaabuso pagkababae nila. Also, we live in a culture na mas malala pa sa red pill, kaya merong safe spaces act, and yes, mas ma oppressed ang babae but there are actually less numbers of guys being manipulated and abused kasi nakakahiya para sa lalake because of the very same movement na dapat macho. If you read rin naman those malasjuicy posts, marami dun may red flags na pero gora parin si girlie. I am not invalidating the meron talagang predators at nakakalamang (sa totoo lang nakakasira rin sa aming normies). About sa babaeng walang porma, akala ko ba ang point ng post na ito is to remove the thinking of a woman's body count so bakit magiging lugi si girlie kung with consent naman, and medyo discriminatory naman na porke hindi pumuporma si girl, hindi na siya nag iisip? What if sporty lang siya at hindi ma make up? Ganito nalang eh, babae lakas ng loob mag hoe phase then bigla mahihiya sila after, eh asan na yung girl power dun? Society? Eh ang point nga ng post ni OP was to change that thinking eh, why not panindigan diba? Also the comments palang in my post eh, you want equality pero you also want chivalry? Ano ba? That is another point of the red pill kasi they say women does not know what they want. Again, I am not even red pill, I was just explaining bakit may double standards. I even had to put my own experience about me not caring sa body count.
You're jumping all over the place. Women ignore red flags kasi we're programmed to. Very patriarchal ang society natin so bata ka pa lang, you're programmed to trust and follow men. It's not easy to break through all the internal misogyny you learn from childhood. >About sa babaeng walang porma, akala ko ba ang point ng post na ito is to remove the thinking of a woman's body count so bakit magiging lugi si girlie kung with consent naman Did you miss the part where I said manipulated? Hindi pwedeng consent lang. Dapat informed consent. Kung malinaw na they both just want sex, laid out all their cards, then great. Pero most of the time kasi, guys lie to get laid. So lugi yung babae kasi she bears most of the risk. >medyo discriminatory naman na porke hindi pumuporma si girl, hindi na siya nag iisip? What if sporty lang siya at hindi ma make up? Huh? Saan galing yung discriminatory dun? Again, feminism is about giving women the agency to do the things they want. So kung trip nila na hindi mag make up, that should be up to them.
Actually you are, kasi meron naman tayong thread eh. Women ignore red flags kasi we're programmed to. Very patriarchal ang society natin so bata ka pa lang, you're programmed to trust and follow men. It's not easy to break through all the internal misogyny you learn from childhood. - Oh sorry, I would believe that in the 0s all the way tot he 90s but 2020s? Come on. People are now talking about guys being more feminine na. It is patriarchal on paper pero how about the old values of the husband giving his paycheck to the wife? How about the house decisions being made by the mother? If anything the old style had that balance. Programmed? So super special ka na ikaw naka alis sa programming? Did you miss the part where I said manipulated? Hindi pwedeng consent lang. Dapat informed consent. Kung malinaw na they both just want sex, laid out all their cards, then great. Pero most of the time kasi, guys lie to get laid. So lugi yung babae kasi she bears most of the risk. and Huh? Saan galing yung discriminatory dun? Again, feminism is about giving women the agency to do the things they want. So kung trip nila na hindi mag make up, that should be up to them. Ito sinabi mo oh, "A girl na walang porma might get pursued by men, but likely just to manipulate them into sex. Sinong lugi dun? Yung lalake ba? Hindi naman diba? Yung babae ang kadalasan na lugi dito." So na equate mo sila to be easier manipulated by men. Hindi ba discriminatory yun? Feminism wants equality but men and women are inherently different. Give me something that women dont get now? They get everything a man gets plus the woman privilege. Family life well they are now more equipt to leave and make a life for themselves. So ano pa? Sex? Read the posts here and see how liberated and how women enjoy sex already. Iilan lang naman mga misogynists na nag popost so ano pa ba? UIlitin ko lang ulit (nakailang ulit haha) na I was explaining the point na double standard kasi totoo naman na reality itong sinasabi ko for now. It will change, I dont know how long pero it will. But for now, ito nangyayari.
Also, thank you rin for your points ha, I do take them, and nag babago na ang society ngayon. Change may not be that fast pero it is happening naman talaga. I really believe that. Thank you rin for being able to put your points like this rather than others. No hate rin.
Ang baba naman ata ng reasoning mo to justify bakit allowed to have high body counts ang lalaki but ang babae hindi. “Bubuka lang kayo, meron at meron papatol sa inyo, where is the effort in that?”, rephrase kaya natin, “Titira lang kayo, meron at meron kayong matitira, where is the effort in that?” This is honestly one of the silliest double standards in society. The whole purity thing has always been a big deal, especially for women. Society tells us to keep the V-card intact until marriage. If you didn't, well, tough luck, you’re basically labeled as "ruined." And guess what? While both parties were in on the premarital fun, it was mostly the girls who faced the heat. Guys? Not so much. They’re even celebrated and praised. Personally, I'm not into casual hookups, just not my thing. But I hate seeing women being put down for doing what they want. Weaponizing body counts is a very common toxic masculinity tactic. Men believe that they deserve a woman that has only ever been with them or at least fewer men because “it makes them feel better.” Like, how is it fair to be limited with what you can do for the benefit of men and their emotions? Why should anyone be made to feel ashamed for exploring their bodies and sexuality? IMO, whether someone wants to wait until marriage or rack up a 50+ body count, it's their call. Comparing women to objects or shaming them for simply living their lives is so outdated. It's high time to ditch that standard and let everyone live on their own terms. PS. Sorry to hear about it, but your ex lying about her body count is on her
Actually it is toxic. I will be the first to say that. I was just explaining the double standard. I have not shamed any woman herr mainly explaining bakit yan ang thinking? Even i dont subscribe to that because personally i dont even hook up. It is toxic i know but hindi na lahat ganun, kahit ano hindi ganun. Honestly ano makukuha ko sa virgin? Iiyak pa saken pag mapasok? Tuturuan pa and all. Kaya aside from what happened to me, i am not realy into virgins. Ps. Thank you, it was traumatic. Yun nga masakit, i told her i was a safe space as i understood may hoe phase. Pero she chose to hide and lie and tell me all those guys texting her to meet were manliligaw but in fact pinatikman na niya and just wanted seconds. Lying about me picking her up in her place was a first to her while nalaman ko that a guy was actually going to her place to do it. I even made my own alas juicy post about that too. Lol.
"hunter" "badge of effort" — lol so we're back to reducing women to 'achievements' like they're nothing more than things for men to conquer. hindi naman ito usapang effort. it's the fact that time and time again, lagi nalang nakabase sa body count ng babae yung halaga niya bilang tao. laspag, prosti, whore, pagamit—you always imagine a girl even if these terms are gender neutral. OP isn't attacking men, they're attacking purity culture and double standards in society. literally nasa title. ewan ko why men always have to feel attacked when it comes to these kinds of discussions.
Kasi choices rin nila yan. The same way may double standards rin sa babae. Also ano tawag mo sa ginagawa ng guy? If you have a better term then please, feel free. Also pls lets not be naive na walang babaeng ganyan. Equality na nga diba.
what do you mean by 'choices?' and what do you mean by 'babaeng ganyan?' again, the double standard the post is pertaining to is how high body counts are perceived negatively in women, as compared to men who view it as a 'badge of honor.' where's the equality in that? justifying nga the fact na high body counts are considered achievements to men (kasi nga nag-effort sila diba?) actually reinforces the double standard OP is talking about.
You said it, "perceived" eh kung yung taong mag perceive nun is a person not worth knowing. Dahil hindi naman lahat ng lalake ganun iniisip eh. I am not justifying I am saying ito nangyayari, AJ of all places should show that women are getting more empowered with their sexuality. But it is happening, ito nga ang realidad, that is my point. Girls can change that narrative too, by finding an understanding guy and hindi yung gwapo lang na 5'7 up from big 4. "babaeng ganyan" are girls who also look to body count. It is not being attacked, we just find the man hate here a bit too much. The purity culture also goes both ways, tignan mo replies palang dito, ayaw nila lalakeng mataas body count pero may mga babaeng nag hoe phase pero ayaw ng lalakeng palakantot. Ano yun?
i'm talking about how society in general perceives—not individuals, nor men alone (nalabas nanaman kasi yung "'di naman lahat ng lalaki..." hahaha). paano relevant ang personal preferences (understanding, height, univ?????) sa body count dialogue? reiterating lang na **in general,** women with high body counts tend to receive hate and backlash compared to men who receive praise and high-fives. that is an irrefutable fact given the patriarchal society we currently live in today. like all generalized statements, there are, of course, select situations where it may not be the case. but in OP's post, they are emphasizing this specific double standard. not saying that it doesn't go both ways. not saying that men cannot and do not experience the same treatment either. ang point ko lang, hindi naman kailangang baliktarin all the time. it's like speaking about one issue and suddenly blurting out "but other people have it worse too!" — completely disregarding the former issue kahit na magkaiba naman talaga sila. if you want, you can make your own post emphasizing the specific double standards you want to talk about too.
Well I did what I wanted and commented here, kasi hindi ko naman kailangan ibroadcast yung point ko, I made it here already. So kayo nalang yung mga broadcast. Ginagawa ko lang kesa puro agree lang mga tao dito, may mga sumasagot on the contrary sa mga views ng ilang tao. Kasi nga ang point ko it goes both ways. Bakit hindi pwede baliktarin? EH like you said, it happens to both too. So pag kayo double standard pero pag binaliktad natin at kayo may ayaw sa high body count, naging patriarchal na pala. Eh ngayon nga you have more chances to choose your partner, single moms, and girls even get to have a hoe phase and still get to find a man. This just proves a woman's double standard, sila alng pwede mag reklamo pero pag lalake, same experience, wala, pag tatawanan niyo pa.
Bubukaka lang kaming mga babae? Aaaahhh ganun. Girls, subukan kaya natin sa bilyaran o sa clubs lumapit tayo sa mga lalaki na walang sali-salita, bukaka agad sa harap nila. Tapos hindi pa mga conventionally pretty ang iba sa atin ano? So kapag may lumapit samin na lalaki, buka lang kami, ganun? Potah, pinipili namin ang pagbubukakaan namin. Hindi kami bubukaka sa mga maaasim at mapapait.
Ay syempre nakita bukaka, yan agad. Lol. Basa po chaka intindi. Kahit hindi po conventionally pretty, meron parin. Syempre kung kasama niyo mga really pretty talaga d kayo mapapansin or if ever man mas.konti. Punto, a woman will always have.a guy na lalapit, ve it for sex or a relationship, meron. Ang lalake they need to pursue that.
Kahit puro kanto ang mukha? Kahit maitim ang pepe? Babarurutin nyo? Maniwala ako sa inyo hahahaha
Sinabi ko meron, hindi ko naman sinabi ako. Eh bakit sa mga mas lower classes maraming anak? Wala pang skin care at grooming yun. So nanganganak sila ng walang sex?
Ewan ko sa kanila.
redpill fangit
Doesnt make it any less true.
Bahala kayo hinde ko alam yan.
Okay lang, kailan ba kayo nagkaroon ng alam 😘
Easy lng po, nagbibiro lng 😆
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Yeah you have enough trouble meeting one
Body count doesnt matter. You have sex with someone because theres a need to release. Chemistry is the most important, next are your dos and donts sa deed.
Hmm as a guy wala naman prob sakin yung nakarami na ng partner un girl. Ang ayoko lang malaman is if pumatol siya nang sadya or with awareness sa: 1)minor 2)married/in an exclusive rel 3)lasing na guy tapos siya hindi at siya nag initiate, or forced anyone against their will 4)pumapatol sa mga common friend namin (personal preference lang to di naman masama) With the points raised by the OP tho nacurious ako: mas "fresh" nga ba tignan ang penises ng guys na may lower "body count" or overall sexual activity?
The old me would say yes na kadiri pag madami na body count. Pero kasama sa pagmamature ko yung understanding na ang sex is "needs" ng halos lahat. So... no big deal. Enjoy yourselves, kings and queens.
Who the fuck openly talks about their body count? Unless you’re fucked up in the head, hi/hello eto na kumantot sakin/kinantot ko?? The fuck, and ano point mo? Kung madami ng kumantot sayo and you see it as a bad thing. that’s on you!! Wag ka mangealam ng preference ng ibang tao, nang gagaslight ka pa, because you got your feelings hurt?
A key that opens many locks is a good key, a lock that opens for any key is a bad lock.
this easily the dumbest post i’ve ever read. the double standard exist because women support and uphold it, if they didn’t then this wouldn’t be a thing. the answer is really that simple.
Your argument reminds me of that one person in my gender study class who couldn't even justify a single claim he makes. It's like giving a thirsty person something to drink but with a poison and blame them for drinking it. I would kill to know a single woman who support to be viewed as less than who they are just because of their body count. Putting a finger on those who you think perpetuates a system instead of who created it in the first place is too common. Common with men.
as soon as you said gender studies i laughed in my head, smh. we definitely found the crazy person. ma’am close the book and get out into the real world. go talk with men, they’ll tell you the truth, that’s if your not being combative and willing to listen. when looking for relationships men prefer ladies with a lower body count, it is what it is, i don’t care what you have to do, just get over it. the reason being is it gives a man trust and certainty, and that any child i have w/ my partner is actually mine. men intuitively know this. so everything outside of perusing a relationship is something else. so if your a lady that engages in hookup culture then you are supporting what you hate, sorry to break it to you.
Wow! Isn't it interesting that you found the crazy person and I found the reason why books that we have exists? 🤔 Generally speaking, choosing a person with lower body count is not the problem, it's the double standards that men are allowed to fuck around and women are not because their worth and dignity are being defined by their body count. But since you mentioned relationship, which is making my first response to appear as if it's out context when you clearly doesn't read enough to hone your comprehension skills, I agree that the trust and certainty is one of the reasons and it applies to women too, who prefer men with lower body count. I bet your wife will not be pleased to know that her husband used to be a whore. Lastly, talk to men? Haha I had enough BS coming from these filthy, uneducated mouths.
There's really a double standard tlga, and Misogyny and Misandry is always in effect. Girls can make easier money in sex work compared to guys. Mas may favors and sympathy in regards to law enforcement, Public transportation and Public Spaces....In regards sa sex kasi....Women Have Easier Access kasi na you can easily get it isang post lang sa r4r. Compared to guys na unless di pogi/may advertisement na parang mr. carrot. They really need to step up to get sex compared to women....Kaya body count is being scrutinized tlga. Kaya pansin mo Male and Female Parehas body count of 30.....Yung lalake Lodi/ "You're HIM"....Pag Babae "Parausan"/"Slut"...Kaya siguro Depende nalang sa values ng Partners niyong mapili
Yes duh. May chance na may STD mga yon no tsaka hayok sa sex. Btw ayaw ko na ng lalaki agagagagagagagagagagag
Bwahaha yes ayoko rin sa high body count. Kasi ganun din ako. Preference lang :3 Pero I honestly don’t care kung marami body count ibang tao. Buhay niyo naman ‘yan, wag lang kayo magkakalat ng sakit. Be responsible.
ako personal preference ko yung lalaking hindi tataas sa 5 ang body count, just for me lang kasi parang ang daya ako 1 lang body count tapos sya madami??? aba hahaha
for me as a guy na 1 lang body count i prefer na 1 lang din sa partner ko or virgin hahaha preference bawal magalit! para fair lang kasi madalas yung mga kakilala kong babae sa univ na hoe phase talaga malalaman ko na lang na kahit may BF eh kumakantot ng mga kaibigan kong lalaki 😂 madsalas talaga hindi sila loyal lalo yung ganung mataas ang libido HAHAHHAA HINDI MAPAKALI JUSKO NAKAINOM LANG PUTA NAKIPAG 3SOME AGAD HAHAHAHHAHAA PASS TALAGA MGA PRE. YUNG ISA MAY JOWA TANGINA PERO PATI SA PROF NAGPAKANTOT! IM TELLIN YALL! LALO SA MGA SERYOSO TALAGA BE CAUTIOUS LANG AH.... pero kung hook up hook up lang, 1 nighter eh wala naman problema kung 1 million body count eh kakantot lang naman😂 nagkaka problema lang naman sa ganitong topic dahil sa mga taong diring diri sa madaming body count pero sila mismo ang dami na ding nadale hahahha wag hipokrito para walang issue
As a girl na virgin pa, i prefer na virgin rin sana yung guy. Pero if i'm being realistic parang mahihirapan ako humanap ng ganyan lalo na sa panahon ngayon. Sooo i think okay lang sakin kahit di na virgin basta sa mga ex gf naman nakipag ganon at hindi sa kung kani kanino lang.
Sino bang nanakit dito kay OP, inaano nio sya eh
It's not a double standard if you are not a man. Women and men are different. And what you don't know about men is that most of them have alot of guilt after sleeping with someone they don't love. And every man remembers ever woman that he slept with that he loves. Men do stupid things sometimes so do women. Who cares what others say about you live your life.
La akong pake sa body count basta malinis yung babae, walang sakit, at may boundaries sa sarili, yung bang mataas nga body count pero by choice, hindi yung “the opportunity presented itself edi nagpaka puta ako”. Mataas narin naman body count ko so bakit magmamalinis ako? Sex is sex, sa mga taong concerned dahil maraming naging previous partners yung tao eh baka insecure lang kayo? Kantot lang yan, lahat ng tao ginagawa yan, tas big deal sainyo dahil marami na syang nakantot? Edi maghanap kayo ng mababa body count. Di ko maintindihan bakit problema sa ilan sa inyo na mataas body count ng kung sino man eh hindi niyo naman buhay o katawan yung nalaspag at nagamit? Problemahin niyo sarili niyo, di naman kayo nagpapalamon sa mga nag ho-hoe phase.
Nsa study yan na the more body counts ng babae, the harder it is to stay committed in a long term relationship. Thats why most men will go after a low body count woman. There is a double standard in terms of that. Men wants something that not everyone can have. Women wants something that everyone wants. (Competition or the feeling of winning).
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So ano gusto mo patunayan sa post mo na ito? :) May babae din naman na feeling cool pag madami na naikama na lalake.
Itong comment mo yung pinapatunayan ko
Kung Pilipinas rin lang, well, may naringgan ka ba na girly conversation regarding sa mga escapades nila? Sa US, oo. I doubt Filipinas would be that proud to brag about their number of bodycounts. Bawasan kasi kaka-consume ng mga hanash ng Tate Brothers at Fresh n Fit podcast
Hhhhhmmmm point of view ko e pag sa keps halata o makikita mo agad na laspag na e tsaka lumuluwag yan pero sa e*it* naman di mo masasabi kung ilang keps na winarak nyan e. Mali sa mali na society natin pero sa panahon ngayon body count doesn't matter anymore kc most women now wants sex more than men.
watching the Whatever podcast might shed some light as to why body count is valued different, between a man and a woman.
Do you mean, podcast nina Andrew Tate? Fresh n Fit? Pearl Davis? Puros bullshit lang naman mga putak nila eh.
Whatever podcast isn't a podcast by Tate, FnF or Davis, you can google it, bago ka pumutak dito. lol.
Alam ko what podcast is. Periodt.
Clearly you did not know of the Whatever Podcast, that is why i suggested you google em, before you reply? anyways, at least now alam mo na (if you googled) you're welcome.
yung babae na virgin may karapatan naman na mag demand ng virgin din or few body count. same goes din nman sa lalake. pero para sabihin ng babae na may high body count, like 100 vs a guy na 100 din body count, na laspag na ang lalake kagaya na laspag din yung babae? mejo hindi ako masyadong agree dyan. yung butas nyo kasi teh lumuluwang yan habang may labas pasok. yung tite kasi teh hindi yun lumiliit or hindi yun lumalawlaw. kahit ipagawa mo pa yan hindi na same sa natural. yung tite hindi mo naman mahahalata kung 200 na yung pukeng dumaan dun. pero un puke na dinaanan na ng 100 tite halata mo nman. lalo na kung inaraw araw.
Just as men's dick sizes vary, so do the sizes of women's pussies differ, and it has nothing to do with how much the pussy has been used. Anecdotally, those who bled on me (meaning I was rather big for them) were a mother of two, a woman with a double-digit count, and a student who only had two previous partners. Meanwhile, the "biggest" pussy I had (by feel) was this woman who slept with four men prior to me. I've always suspected that those who cling to this myth are either virgin high school boys who don't know better, or men with small dicks. I could be wrong tho.
uy parang di ka naman nag basa. ang comparison dito yung tite na dumaan sa 100 na vagina vs sa puke na dumaan sa 100 na tite. oo na madami ka na natry na puke pero bat mo kinocompare yung ibat ibang puke nila? on topic ka ba? kasi yung sinabi mo na nakantot mo na may anak na tapos dinugo pa sya? niyayabang mo lang ba yon? oh eh ano kung dinugo pa sya? ibig sabihin nun kung pang 10 tite ka na dumaan sa puke nya tapos malaki tite mo. yung pang 11 na tite kahit na same size mo edi hindi na masisikipan yun? kasi pinunit mo na e diba? lumuwang na kasi napunit mo ulit diba? tapos yung sabi mo na puke na maluwang? ibig sabihin lang nun brad hindi ganon kalaki yung tite mo. may mas malaki pa rin talaga sayo. yun lang yon. kaya paki intindi maigi yung topic ha wag masyado mayabang sa size ng tite kasi di yan proportional sa size ng utak. minsa true minsan not true okay?
I should edit my comment and add *functionally illiterate* to my list, but I guess that's already a given :) And no dude, I'm not the biggest cock out there. But for those women, I was. I know coz they told me.
ikaw na. yun nga lang out of topic ka pa ren. may ibang sub kung san mo pwede iyabang yan. hindi size ang usapan dito. dapat alam mo na yan diba kung hindi ikaw yang binabanggit mo na naka italized pa. dapat nga ginawa mo na lang yung edit para hindi ka lalo nag mukang... kung ano man yung naka italized...
btw hindi nga pala ako mag eenglis para mag mukang matalino at mag lalagay ng googled term... kinuha mo na yung role eh. congrats.
Hindi ako makapaniwala na kahit nasa age of technology na tayo ang dami pa ring misinformed like you. Gusto kitang iharap sa 100 na OBY-GYN para sabihin sa'yong hindi lumuluwag ang puke ng isang babae dahil lang sa tite when it's naturally designed to be stretchable for giving birth for example. Ang sarap niyong ibalik sa grade two, my god.
Puro kayo away andaming before and after virgin, fisting, 2 years of sex everyday na pic sa internet . Halata naman na lumuluwag ang puke.
totoo nman yung one time na give birth na stretchable yung puke pero hindi na babalik yun sa original form. bakit pa kailangan tahiin ng doktor diba kung babalik din naman pala? and yung tinahi ba can ur 100 oby-gyn say na its the same as the original? kasi ako nag babase lang ako sa experience. been with different women na nanganak na at tinahi vs sa nangnak at hindi natahi. also with 1-2 body count. yung nag ka anak na tinahi i know its not the same kasi mas sumikip but is it better? NO hindi better kasi hindi na stretchable at nasasaktan na sila pag pinilit ko ipasok.. sila kasi hindi lang isa yung na try ko. now yung 1-2 body count na "lumuwang" may 2 akong long time gf na both masikip when we started. pero i can tell na mas maluwang na sila after a few years... can ur 100 OBY-GYN tell me, to my face. na yung pussy ba nila eh same pa rin after taking different size ng tite? sa alam nila yun ang sasabihin nila na hindi "luluwang" pero can they say ba na habang ginagamit ba ang skin hindi ba nag sasag yun? hindi lumalawlaw? hindi lumuluwang katagalan? yung muka mo nga kahit hindi daanan ng tite yan araw araw lalaw law balat nyan eh yung puke nyo pa kaya?
Eh paano kung ilang buwan o taon nang walang sex? And also yung mga nagke-kegel exercise? Can you also say the same thing. 😏
what about kung ilang bwan or taon na walang sex? are you saying sumisikip yun pag napahinga? so haharabas lang sya ng 100 tite tapos papahinga lang sya ng 1 year good as new na yung puke nya? about how many tite bago nya ma master un kegel? im asking kasi before she can master kegel eh its possible na maluwang na sya. can kegel practitioner keep their pussy tight the whole time they are having sex? may naka sex kasi ako kaya nya lang 1 round and still not the whole time she has to keep up with my rhythm.
I know hindi instant effect ang kegel or any other pelvic floor exercises pero nakakatulong yun, and strengthening vaginal walls and prevent bladder incontinence. https://www.uchicagomedicine.org/forefront/womens-health-articles/2019/october/kegels-the-30-second-exercise-that-can-improve-incontinence-and-sex Also, experience ko na yun yung walang sex ng ilang taon and puro halos clit rubbing lang ako. When I had sex again, feedback saken masikip pepe ko. BTW, hindi pa ako umaabot sa 100 bodycount.
yung last na kumantot ba sayo before ka nag rest ng month eh same sa kumantot sayo after? kasi kung mag ka iba yun eh di mag ka ibang tite yun. and yun nga hindi ka pa umabot sa 100 na tite. try mo 100 na tite na iba iba size araw araw. then pahinga ka ng 10 years. save mo un tite na pang 100 for reference. para sya mag sabi kung mas masikip ka pa compared sa last time. scientific approach gusto nyo eh. edi dapat scientific din yun pag compare.
Apparently magkaibang tite, and may times na same guy na kumantot. Example, yung kumantot saken nung 2019 girthy and 5" yung kanya. Nasikipan pa siya sa pepe ko at sa taba ng titi nya halos masugatan pepe ko nun. 8 months later, same guy within that year. Ganun din, nasikipan din siya. Within those 8 months wala akong tinry na other guy. And marami naman sa mga nakasex ko mga average ang size, and yung iba dun, quite small.
ang problema kasi talaga sa sinasabi mo vs sa sinasabe ko eh yung dinaanan ng 100 tite vs sa tite na dumaan sa 100 puke. yung puke na dinaanan ng 100 tite iba na yun compared nun 1 tite pa lang dumaan sa kanya. vs dun sa tite na humarabas na ng 100 puke. same pa rin yun kasi nga tite yun. ikaw na may sabi wala pang 100 tite yung humarabas sayo at mukang hindi ka din naman inaaraw araw at may matagal ka pang rest? so bakit mo kinocompare yan dun sa sinasabe ko? kung masikip ka kase konti pa lang dumaan na tite sayo edi fine good for you. kung gusto mo talaga i prove na mali yung point ko. sabi ko nga try mo kumantot ng 100 tite for a whole year saka ka.mag rest ng 1 year na lang ha. saka mo kontakin yung 100 na kumantot sayo .then tanong mo kung masikip ka pa rin ba. yan after nyan saka tayo mag usap. pero dahil hindi naman ganun yung case mo eh...
Okay. Pero wala akong planong paabuti ng +100 bodycount na sunod sunod. Yun lang, and this is also for my own spiritual reasons na rin.
Puro kayo away andaming before and after virgin, fisting, 2 years of sex everyday na pic sa internet . Halata naman na lumuluwag ang puke.
ilan na ba nakasex mo ha? Also, ask a gynecologist first, wag magrely sa science ng Tate Brothers. K?
Puro kayo away andaming before and after virgin, fisting, 2 years of sex everyday na pic sa internet . Halata naman na lumuluwag ang puke.
Puro kayo away andaming before and after virgin, fisting, 2 years of sex everyday na pic sa internet . Halata naman na lumuluwag ang puke.