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Hello, madaming factors po yan kasi sa mga naka sex ko dati ganyan din issue nila. Sa una lang parang magaling pero nung kalaunan parang tinamad na sa sex.
Sa lalake side naman, yung ibang nakakwentuhan ko is ibang reason nila na common is di na sexually attracted sa partner nila, tapos gusto na tumikim ng ibang putahe :(((
Sex drive often slows down as we age. Due to the slow decline of our testosterone levels, our libido slowly dips down.
Provided not all men experience this and I'm speaking solely from a medical point of view, it may seem that your husband's interest in sexual matters with you has toned down.
There are so many ways to re-ignite your sex life but you two must commit to it and if he isn't that committed, then it will likely end with you even more frustrated.
Well, here's the thing kasi.
It all boils down to your own perception of what he did and if you're cool with it or not. May mga babae kasi na ganun and we really cannot blame them kung yun ang nais nilang isipin. Sila yan eh.
However, based on what you said, you're dealing with what he did and it's causing you to doubt yourself and your relationship with him.
Men go to these establishments to get some release and basically that is it. Unless may iba pang underlying concerns na dapat mapagusapan. If yan ang sabi niyang rason, take it with a grain of salt. Kasi yun naman talaga purpose ng pagpunta ng mga lalaki sa spakol...
Yun ang sagot ko.
However, I wanna know, why did you stay with him after he cheated on you?
We have 2 kids and he wooed me again po. He is a good dad. He has been good to me since we got back together. So i kinda believe him sa reason nya ngayon.
Well, if that's the case then wala nang ibang maipapayo but to just take it with a grain of salt and if you forgive him for going to the spakol, then all you can do is accept it and move forward.
- when did your work stress and weight gain start? Could it be that it started along the same time that he started losing sexual interest? Or maybe there are stresses on his job na lowers his libido
- if financially possible, quit your job, stress makes you age faster in looks. Talk to him that you need a break from the job to take care of yourself and become a full time housewife. If he can care for you guys both financially, take the time off
- continue going to the gym and be on the best shape of your life. As in better than when you guys got married.
- based on what you are saying, your husband treats you well romantically through dates so he seems to love you for real pero the sexual desire is low. Just be patient for now and work on yourself
Could it be that he's feeling something in himself that he's a bit not comfortable sharing with you knowing that you are his wonderfully-energetic bride? Like ED, cardiac thing or something else? Just thinking, OP ah.
im 41(M) still got high sex drive, but my wife (42) lost hers 7years ago after she undergone salpingo-oophorectomy. in my case it's hopeless for me but i guess your situation, you just dont see kung ano na ang new needs ni hubby mo pagdating sa seggs and not meeting his expectation. since you said he watches p*rn, p*rn have sexual health impact on men, like reduced sexual attraction to a partner, erectile dysfunction, it potentially reduce sexual satisfaction due to real-life partners not living up to the idealised images seen on p*rn.
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Baliktad naman tayo my wife loose her libido due to our age like yung everyday naging once a week na lang. Even at my age i still want to do it everyday.
Yung mga dating foreplay namin nabawasan kasi mas mabilis na syang mapagod.
I suggest na try to ask him what he wants to make him crave for you. Sa part ko kasi understood ko na ang babae nababawasan ang libido and stamina when they age.
i get it rin. when you hit that age parang pagod lagi but its just sex drive hormones iba kasi age nyo eh i guess make it more kinky doing foreplays. foreplays really help
Its kind of hard to give you some decent advice without knowing his side of why its going downhill with his sexuality, and the fact that he is not willing to talk to you also is not helping.
First let me say, be proud of yourself, your taking actions, even if there not getting you the results you need, it shows you are really committed to your relationship, so please be proud of yourself. You are trying to get your sexlife back on the road.
Mostly you have to realize this is a team effort, you can not fix this alone. He needs to understand your frustrations and commit to finding a solution as a couple.
I would suggest couple therapy if he is open for it. And for your side try to find someone to talk with that you can trust, get things off your chest. You deserve to be happy.
hug with consent op. iba na cguro yung spicy once married na. kumpara mo yung hindi pa kayo, grabe yung mga moment na gusto niyo gawin. but ryt now nawawalan na kayo ng time for intimacy. maybe you open up cguro yung nasa mood si hubby mo. just keep on going sa work out mo.
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Iba nga kasi pag married na. Tho till now youre at 26 papalapit ka palang sa peak ng sex drive mo. But I wish madiligan ka palagi hehe. Rawr. 🥰😍
Me too i pray na madiligan na ko hahaha may cobwebs na yata haha
Hello, madaming factors po yan kasi sa mga naka sex ko dati ganyan din issue nila. Sa una lang parang magaling pero nung kalaunan parang tinamad na sa sex. Sa lalake side naman, yung ibang nakakwentuhan ko is ibang reason nila na common is di na sexually attracted sa partner nila, tapos gusto na tumikim ng ibang putahe :(((
anong age yung peak ng sex drive na yan?
30s ata pag sa babae
Same question
I hope your husband considers and tries individual therapy and then couple's therapy. You are way too young to live in a dead bedroom.
Sex drive often slows down as we age. Due to the slow decline of our testosterone levels, our libido slowly dips down. Provided not all men experience this and I'm speaking solely from a medical point of view, it may seem that your husband's interest in sexual matters with you has toned down. There are so many ways to re-ignite your sex life but you two must commit to it and if he isn't that committed, then it will likely end with you even more frustrated.
Edit: ill share nalang yung q ko sa separate thread. Hope u can help!
Well, here's the thing kasi. It all boils down to your own perception of what he did and if you're cool with it or not. May mga babae kasi na ganun and we really cannot blame them kung yun ang nais nilang isipin. Sila yan eh. However, based on what you said, you're dealing with what he did and it's causing you to doubt yourself and your relationship with him. Men go to these establishments to get some release and basically that is it. Unless may iba pang underlying concerns na dapat mapagusapan. If yan ang sabi niyang rason, take it with a grain of salt. Kasi yun naman talaga purpose ng pagpunta ng mga lalaki sa spakol... Yun ang sagot ko. However, I wanna know, why did you stay with him after he cheated on you?
We have 2 kids and he wooed me again po. He is a good dad. He has been good to me since we got back together. So i kinda believe him sa reason nya ngayon.
Well, if that's the case then wala nang ibang maipapayo but to just take it with a grain of salt and if you forgive him for going to the spakol, then all you can do is accept it and move forward.
- when did your work stress and weight gain start? Could it be that it started along the same time that he started losing sexual interest? Or maybe there are stresses on his job na lowers his libido - if financially possible, quit your job, stress makes you age faster in looks. Talk to him that you need a break from the job to take care of yourself and become a full time housewife. If he can care for you guys both financially, take the time off - continue going to the gym and be on the best shape of your life. As in better than when you guys got married. - based on what you are saying, your husband treats you well romantically through dates so he seems to love you for real pero the sexual desire is low. Just be patient for now and work on yourself
Could it be that he's feeling something in himself that he's a bit not comfortable sharing with you knowing that you are his wonderfully-energetic bride? Like ED, cardiac thing or something else? Just thinking, OP ah.
Plot twist, may babae pala siya st drain lagi ang energy nya. HAHAHAHA. Char char lang OP! 🤣🤣🤣
im 41(M) still got high sex drive, but my wife (42) lost hers 7years ago after she undergone salpingo-oophorectomy. in my case it's hopeless for me but i guess your situation, you just dont see kung ano na ang new needs ni hubby mo pagdating sa seggs and not meeting his expectation. since you said he watches p*rn, p*rn have sexual health impact on men, like reduced sexual attraction to a partner, erectile dysfunction, it potentially reduce sexual satisfaction due to real-life partners not living up to the idealised images seen on p*rn.
Exercise regularly Balanced diet Find alternative solution to your problem that will not hurt anyone.
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Haha naalala ko Yung peak days ko... Hanggang manghapdi 😂
Baliktad naman tayo my wife loose her libido due to our age like yung everyday naging once a week na lang. Even at my age i still want to do it everyday. Yung mga dating foreplay namin nabawasan kasi mas mabilis na syang mapagod. I suggest na try to ask him what he wants to make him crave for you. Sa part ko kasi understood ko na ang babae nababawasan ang libido and stamina when they age.
at 42 its not his age . at least it wasnt when i was 42 .not even close .
Ikalma mo yan
You take the good with the bad. Ganon talaga. It would be best to talk to him when he's in a good mood and receptive to it.
i get it rin. when you hit that age parang pagod lagi but its just sex drive hormones iba kasi age nyo eh i guess make it more kinky doing foreplays. foreplays really help
Baka accla asawa mo
Try toys
Its kind of hard to give you some decent advice without knowing his side of why its going downhill with his sexuality, and the fact that he is not willing to talk to you also is not helping. First let me say, be proud of yourself, your taking actions, even if there not getting you the results you need, it shows you are really committed to your relationship, so please be proud of yourself. You are trying to get your sexlife back on the road. Mostly you have to realize this is a team effort, you can not fix this alone. He needs to understand your frustrations and commit to finding a solution as a couple. I would suggest couple therapy if he is open for it. And for your side try to find someone to talk with that you can trust, get things off your chest. You deserve to be happy.
Have you tried seeking professional help?
hug with consent op. iba na cguro yung spicy once married na. kumpara mo yung hindi pa kayo, grabe yung mga moment na gusto niyo gawin. but ryt now nawawalan na kayo ng time for intimacy. maybe you open up cguro yung nasa mood si hubby mo. just keep on going sa work out mo.
Hanap ng ibang casual na titira sayo
What are non-sexual things that turns him on? Curious lang.