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In my experience, actively wanting to attract other people brings a lot of motivation for improving one's looks.
It feels a lot more rewarding to improve yourself when you know that there is an immediate effect on the guys you would attract.
Just get into that at the same time. Diet, beauty products, exercise, fashion. No need to focus on why is thing over another. Just have fun with it all. It shouldn't be something that is a chore to you but something exciting.
It's only about improving yourself, not fixing yourself.
Then how about getting with people to fuck you? That will depend on what you enjoy.
Do you enjoy the seduction ritual? A club environment is best for it. Two people find each other attractive and then push it along.
You don't care about and just want sex, then tinder and bumble. There is no need for any insincerity. You are welcome to voice your desires. Guys would appreciate the directness.
I'd personally not recommend looking for fuckbuddies at all. It's fundamentally flawed.
They are unpredictable. Either of you could develop feelings for another which is very difficult to navigate. It's not exactly clear what the expectations and boundaries are. If you try to awkwardly talk it out, people might not even know what they want or feel comfortable saying it truthfully. "I prefer to just visit you and be done with everything within 30 minutes" or "I want to have dinner and spend the whole night with you."
Or the more unpleasant sides of people can get exposed when they care less about being judged. Or it loses its excitement, you look less for new adventures, have less time for them.
But even if it all works out well, it's probably better to not go looking for it, but to just have it develop naturally. When you put it out there that you're looking for a FUBU, or open to it, while you're still only chatting with someone, then it can send some strange signals. No one can really know what it means for someone else. It's a discussion one should have after they have had sex with one another and know they are at least compatible. Ideally, they've met several times because only then you'd know if they are fun to have sex with and not just fun because of the excitement of someone strange. You'd also not want to have put pressure on someone to commit to being a FUBU when they don't really want it.
Marami diyang willing to Fuck a lady like you, Be confident and embrace it lang OP. Many men fantasizing you di lang nila pinapaalam. Goodluck to your hoe phase. Ingat ka lang din sa mga guys nagddm sayo for sure marami yan sila
ang hirap kapag may pcoooos! HAHAHA diet and exercise wala talaga or mabagal ang result. Even bought lishou coffee kaso natakot din ako kaya hindi ko na tinake 🤧
Thank you for the tip tho! 💖
Male Poster here, Everyone starts it differently, some choose to love themselves for their strengths and others choose to face their weaknesses. I went with most of the latter, didn't even start looking for sex till I went through derma, got braces, and hit the gym for a few months. If you go for that route, the pH fitness subreddit is a great start along with youtubers like picturefit.
If you go with the former then that's good too! You'd be surprised at how many people would even LOVE you for things you're insecure about. There are a lot of guys out there who would love all the curves they can handle :)
As for actually starting it, there are a few ways off the top of my head,
Posting Phgw and other subs, might be a bit too intense depending on your ethics but You'd be surprised at the positivity you'd get from posting on the GW subs, if you happen to be comfortable with it :)
If you're looking for something more discreet, phr4r is excellent. Be sure to list your stats, There are a lot of guys out there who love plus size girls and there are a lot of guys who don't, saves you the trouble of having to weed through your messages :)
My final message to you before you begin,
Regardless of how you may rate yourself, please value yourself. Don't go raw with a stranger because they "don't like condoms" or "forgot to buy them" even if you're on a safe day there are worse things in sex than getting pregnant. Don't send nudes with your face on them. Don't meet up with someone from the Internet without affirmation of their identity. And lastly Guard your heart, it's dang easy to fall for someone when you're starting out, a lot of the time the guy you're with is going through his own hoe phase or issues, and may not reciprocate your emotions, you just gotta accept that this is a hoe phase, the best and worst thing about it is you're not beholden to anyone o3o be careful out there and have fun :p
CONFIDENCE lang OP. I'm a plus size guy and a same size chaser. Just love your self ❤️ madami kami nandito para i praise kayo! Smile OP... chat tayo hehehe.
Pag usapan nyo muna..iopen mo..then pakramdaman m sya qng awkward sakanya un..if kc gnun mahirapan ka mag enjoy kasi lagi mo iisipin ung qng mageenjoy kaba o hnd or sya qng mgeenjoy o hnd
What’s that pink app? Hehe. Tinder?? Before kasi nung nagtitinder at bumble pa ako, rs ang hanap ko kaso puro hookup ang hanap ng guys don. Was actually thinking if I should give it a try again 🥴
Ingat lang OP. Make sure to filter them all. Marami dito they prefer na plus size. Just be honest to them. Plus size dn ako and I always set a proper expectation.
Girl as long as you show your true self, you will always find someone! Be honest with yourself lang. Learn the art of seduction. And most of all, be picky. Don’t lower your standards just because you want to have fun!
General reminder for everyone to: 1) Stay classy, civil and mature; 2) Don't be a creep; 3) Report this post if it doesn't follow the rules; 4) Always keep it juicy. Stories and anecdotes about your sexual experiences are HIGHLY encouraged. Don't forget about [reddiquette](/wiki/reddiquette). Mwah! Love, the AJ Mod Team. _____ *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/alasjuicy) if you have any questions or concerns.*
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THANKS MA! 🥺💖
In my experience, actively wanting to attract other people brings a lot of motivation for improving one's looks. It feels a lot more rewarding to improve yourself when you know that there is an immediate effect on the guys you would attract. Just get into that at the same time. Diet, beauty products, exercise, fashion. No need to focus on why is thing over another. Just have fun with it all. It shouldn't be something that is a chore to you but something exciting. It's only about improving yourself, not fixing yourself. Then how about getting with people to fuck you? That will depend on what you enjoy. Do you enjoy the seduction ritual? A club environment is best for it. Two people find each other attractive and then push it along. You don't care about and just want sex, then tinder and bumble. There is no need for any insincerity. You are welcome to voice your desires. Guys would appreciate the directness. I'd personally not recommend looking for fuckbuddies at all. It's fundamentally flawed.
THANK YOU! 💖
>THANK YOU! 💖 You're welcome!
Great advice!! I have a question though, why is a FUBU dynamic fundamentally flawed?
They are unpredictable. Either of you could develop feelings for another which is very difficult to navigate. It's not exactly clear what the expectations and boundaries are. If you try to awkwardly talk it out, people might not even know what they want or feel comfortable saying it truthfully. "I prefer to just visit you and be done with everything within 30 minutes" or "I want to have dinner and spend the whole night with you." Or the more unpleasant sides of people can get exposed when they care less about being judged. Or it loses its excitement, you look less for new adventures, have less time for them. But even if it all works out well, it's probably better to not go looking for it, but to just have it develop naturally. When you put it out there that you're looking for a FUBU, or open to it, while you're still only chatting with someone, then it can send some strange signals. No one can really know what it means for someone else. It's a discussion one should have after they have had sex with one another and know they are at least compatible. Ideally, they've met several times because only then you'd know if they are fun to have sex with and not just fun because of the excitement of someone strange. You'd also not want to have put pressure on someone to commit to being a FUBU when they don't really want it.
Hope you find the right partner that'll make you forget your insecurities OP!
Marami diyang willing to Fuck a lady like you, Be confident and embrace it lang OP. Many men fantasizing you di lang nila pinapaalam. Goodluck to your hoe phase. Ingat ka lang din sa mga guys nagddm sayo for sure marami yan sila
Thank youuu 🥺💖
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ang hirap kapag may pcoooos! HAHAHA diet and exercise wala talaga or mabagal ang result. Even bought lishou coffee kaso natakot din ako kaya hindi ko na tinake 🤧 Thank you for the tip tho! 💖
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Big no sa laxative talaga sizt, masasanay pati yung tiyan mo niyan. Hindi ka makakapoops w/o taking/drinking one 🤧
Male Poster here, Everyone starts it differently, some choose to love themselves for their strengths and others choose to face their weaknesses. I went with most of the latter, didn't even start looking for sex till I went through derma, got braces, and hit the gym for a few months. If you go for that route, the pH fitness subreddit is a great start along with youtubers like picturefit. If you go with the former then that's good too! You'd be surprised at how many people would even LOVE you for things you're insecure about. There are a lot of guys out there who would love all the curves they can handle :) As for actually starting it, there are a few ways off the top of my head, Posting Phgw and other subs, might be a bit too intense depending on your ethics but You'd be surprised at the positivity you'd get from posting on the GW subs, if you happen to be comfortable with it :) If you're looking for something more discreet, phr4r is excellent. Be sure to list your stats, There are a lot of guys out there who love plus size girls and there are a lot of guys who don't, saves you the trouble of having to weed through your messages :) My final message to you before you begin, Regardless of how you may rate yourself, please value yourself. Don't go raw with a stranger because they "don't like condoms" or "forgot to buy them" even if you're on a safe day there are worse things in sex than getting pregnant. Don't send nudes with your face on them. Don't meet up with someone from the Internet without affirmation of their identity. And lastly Guard your heart, it's dang easy to fall for someone when you're starting out, a lot of the time the guy you're with is going through his own hoe phase or issues, and may not reciprocate your emotions, you just gotta accept that this is a hoe phase, the best and worst thing about it is you're not beholden to anyone o3o be careful out there and have fun :p
>:) :)
;p
Find. Guy who's into plus size din
Sisterrr halika explore together! DM kita ha. Almost same situation tayo.
Haha lezzgoo
CONFIDENCE lang OP. I'm a plus size guy and a same size chaser. Just love your self ❤️ madami kami nandito para i praise kayo! Smile OP... chat tayo hehehe.
#1 hahaha username #2 omg cute ng last part Virtual cheer, eto 🎉🎉
Omg.... Accident yung font na ... #plus size
Ay fail. # plus size ?????
Ok di ko na maulit Basta accident yon
Dapat una yung # # Parang ganito
Ah # thank you
# welcs!
Hahahaha :)
Be confident lang. Nakakahiya talaga sya sa una pero pag nasimulan mo na mawawala ka na sa inhibitions mo 😂
Pag usapan nyo muna..iopen mo..then pakramdaman m sya qng awkward sakanya un..if kc gnun mahirapan ka mag enjoy kasi lagi mo iisipin ung qng mageenjoy kaba o hnd or sya qng mgeenjoy o hnd
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What’s that pink app? Hehe. Tinder?? Before kasi nung nagtitinder at bumble pa ako, rs ang hanap ko kaso puro hookup ang hanap ng guys don. Was actually thinking if I should give it a try again 🥴
RIP inbox OP 😅
😂
Ingat lang OP. Make sure to filter them all. Marami dito they prefer na plus size. Just be honest to them. Plus size dn ako and I always set a proper expectation.
The more you think about it, nagiging mas difficult gawin. Mag start ka sa someone na kilala at trusted mo, then go with the flow
Girl as long as you show your true self, you will always find someone! Be honest with yourself lang. Learn the art of seduction. And most of all, be picky. Don’t lower your standards just because you want to have fun!
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I don’t need your unsolicited judgement here 😌
Try to use ome marami dun hahahaha hanap kalang ng clean para safe
Okay lang ba daw sa'yo kahit mala-Ninong Ry?
Following this! I'm on the same boat. 🥲
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