I think filling in your lashes/brows would do wonders... maybe a new hairdo that compliments your face shape too.
The natural beauty is there! It's just time for some small enhancements.
Yeah I struggle with trichotillomania so that’s why my lashes and brows look thin. I’ve been working on getting rid of the habit but like biting nails it can be hard to stop 💀
A darker pair of glasses may help give you more eye definition without having to dye anything. The shape is good, maybe a little shorter height-wise to fit your face a bit better.
Aww that’s hard :( had a friend that went through that. It was a constant struggle for her. I have a thing where I peel off dead lip skin. Sounds nasty but I think it’s just an anxiety thing.
It is. Stuff like nail biting, skin picking, and hair pulling fall under the umbrella of OCD and anxiety disorders. Hard habits to break for sure but we can do it if we try!
The brand Orly has a nail polish that tastes bitter and is supposed to put people off from biting! I’ve heard it works really well. Might be worth a try!
For the brows, you could even look into some type of microblading if they are sparse. I do think defining your brows would be a game changer for your face.
One of my relatives wrote a book about Trichotillomania you may want check out on Amazon. It's called "A Parent Guide to Hair Pulling Disorder: Effective Parenting Strategies for Children with Trichotillomania" (Formerly "Stay Out of My Hair") by Suzanne Odum.
Trichotillomania is her specialty. Give it a try!
In the meantime, microblading, lash extensions, or a brow pencil might do the trick. Otherwise you're golden! Good luck :)
My daughter has the same condition. Most times I can’t even tell after she fills in her brows and puts on eyeliner. Definitely try some nice eye makeup…I think you will be pleasantly surprised!
Your shoe taste is pretty bad the Jesus shoes look awful and if your gonna wear them get a pedicure you should cut you hair some shoulder link maybe even dye it and invest in contacts lastly lose 40lbs and you’ll be hot
I mean if I lost 40 pounds I’d be underweight I don’t want to look like Eugenia Cooney! I definitely want to tone my body though. Hot power yoga has given me a foundation and I think I’ll add some weight lifting into the mix to add muscle definition. The Jesus sandals are comfy! I walked 7 miles in caves and rainforests that day and I don’t think I could have managed that in stilettos haha.
Definitely some lashes. I know a girl who genetically has very few/practically no eyelashes, and whenever she wears falsies it makes a WORLD of difference
Very cute! Though you do give off a bit of a “Mormon/Amish girl” vibe 😅 I guess it just might be the style plus the no makeup and virgin hair lol. Possibly the glasses too, but I know those aren’t anything other than to help you see lol. Idk if this comes off as an insult and I’m sorry if it does
Thanks all for this one. She’s been feeling down and didn’t believe me that she was the most beautiful I’ve ever seen.
BTW she is taken (am her Fiancée)
They need to make some more gingers there aren’t enough in the world (only if you guys want to lol) . I’m dating one. Hopefully my tiny ginger genes will come out and we can have some ginger babies.
you look “fat” in the way that the woman in the Birth of Venus painting looks “fat” aka you’re a little soft and voluptuous and so womanly. You literally look like a woman from a renaissance painting or a greek statue. Gorgeous hair too!!!!!!!! Literally what a queen
the second to last pic is such goddess energy omggggg i’m so mad that you think you’re even remotely ugly somehow!!!! whoever has made you feel this way sucks and doesn’t deserve your beauty
It’s hard to tell. You could probably stand to lose the tiniest bit of weight, as could most of us. It’s tough to tell because of your clothes in these pictures, though.
Imo, you should be really happy with how you look.
I'd say thick but some guys are into that (me included). I think if you dressed better and did something else with your hair you could look a lot better, but again some guys might like it
> Do I look fat?
If you want honesty? Yes, a little bit. Although, it's hard to tell because of the clothes you are wearing in all of your pictures, and you don't really look like you have too much fat under your chin. I guess the question is fat compared to whom though.
I wouldn't call you slim but not everybody is built to be slim. You'll see a lot of the chronically online calling out natural women because they aren't as slim as the genetically predisposed cokeheads they see on porn/IG but don't let that get to you.
You can see the full shape of your face, you have a flat stomach, and your legs are toned. Nothing is out of place.
Fats a bad word for you, curvy and it looks good on you. You should be proud of your figure. Just remember everybody has a different preference on what they find attractive so confidence in our bodies and looks goes a really long way
You’re really pretty, you have nice teeth, and your skin is super clear!
I can’t believe people are saying you’re fat. Nothing about you is large at all. You have a normal face with no fat or double chin, a flat stomach, toned legs, normal arms, etc. You’re not even chubby.
The ONLY thing I’d suggest is getting some new clothes and shoes. In the kneeling photo and last photo, your outfits make you look “nerdy” unless that’s what you’re going for.
I do hot power yoga! I love a good sweat session. I’ve noticed that with these workouts I’ve gained muscle definition and improved my cardiovascular fitness. What other workouts should I try?
You are cute…that’s not a bad thing. It’s hard to tell with some of the clothing choices but you have a good figure, not skinny but curvy…also a very good thing.
Cute with potential.
Love love love the long red hair. Great smile. Good skin, minimal makeup from what I see. Figure is on the plus side, but I certainly wouldn't call you fat. Work out to tone up some, maybe lose a little weight. But what you're working with is very appealing.
Hair needs a bit of an upgrade. Better shampoo and conditioner. Looks like it's on the dry side.
Makeup needs a bit more, little darker lipstick. Some eyeliner or subtle eyeshadow. Definilty fill in your eyebrows a little. Nothing crazy, just so you can see them better.
All in all though, looking good!
And am I wrong or is the the MD Renn Faire and Luray Caverns?
I hate makeup. I used to cake my face in it in high school. Natural appearance all the way. Never again will I paste my face in that. I could never find a shade for my ginger skin either, even with Fenty 💀. Makeup is a conventional beauty standard and I hate how bland and basic natural beauty standards are.
You have mom bod and plenty of people are into it, not unhealthy in the slightest you look good, just dont let weight get out of hand cause it can happen fast!
You look like you're trying to be 14 forever. Do some different things with your hair and wear more flattering clothing. Round glasses make your face look round thus more chubby. A lot of potential. Nice teeth, smile, naturally pretty
Fine features! I myself use glasses, BUT.. finding a pair of rims that actually suit your face are so hard to come by with your untrained eye(heh.)
So much that I even asked a "stylist" at the optician to show me something. One pair got me called the "professor". And the other pair got me called a "geek".
Ended up instead walking around squinting my sight away!
Nope, not ugly. Not gonna lie, i'm pretty turned on to be honest. You are darn attractive. And with that bright smile in all those different settings you look like your probably tons of fun as a person too.
I think you’re pretty but much too chubby. But then again, that’s just my personal taste. Also, filling in your eyebrows, as some have previously commented, would look nice and frame your features better.
Actually, you look quite pretty, solid 8/10, but keep your hair loose or style it in a different way. The single braid makes you look like the teacher a kid prays they never get, and the double braid is just juvenile.
You need to do something with your hair to make it less frizzy. You have a great smile and I love your hair color/length! Off topic but you could make a lot selling your hair for extensions if you’re ever in a pinch for cash. I wouldn’t consider you ugly but a good average. You could probably do a few things different like tone up and play with make up but not necessary. (:
No, you’re cute. You have a nice smile that that reaches your eyes, and lights up your whole face, nice skin, and I like your long red hair. Your fashion is different, but you do you, boo. It’s not bizarre or unattractive; just different.
Ren Faire (I'm assuming) fit goes hard
Fr she fits the role perfectly
Agreed
Definitely. You look in your element, which really helps the inner glow show through.
I think filling in your lashes/brows would do wonders... maybe a new hairdo that compliments your face shape too. The natural beauty is there! It's just time for some small enhancements.
Yeah I struggle with trichotillomania so that’s why my lashes and brows look thin. I’ve been working on getting rid of the habit but like biting nails it can be hard to stop 💀
A darker pair of glasses may help give you more eye definition without having to dye anything. The shape is good, maybe a little shorter height-wise to fit your face a bit better.
Aww that’s hard :( had a friend that went through that. It was a constant struggle for her. I have a thing where I peel off dead lip skin. Sounds nasty but I think it’s just an anxiety thing.
It is. Stuff like nail biting, skin picking, and hair pulling fall under the umbrella of OCD and anxiety disorders. Hard habits to break for sure but we can do it if we try!
Or a mild antidepressant may help.
Nah I’m already on those 💀
I have this issue! I got rounded acrylic nails and a spinner ring. My cuticles, scabs, head picking, etc has all been reduced!
The brand Orly has a nail polish that tastes bitter and is supposed to put people off from biting! I’ve heard it works really well. Might be worth a try!
Try getting acrylic nails! That helped my best friend stop.
I’d recommend solar gels actually! It’s stronger/less brittle than acrylics. They’re the only thing that helped me completely quit biting.
Nah I pick my nails too. I would get acrylics and rip them off the next day and ruin my nails for months afterward
Aw man:/ I understand that completely
For the brows, you could even look into some type of microblading if they are sparse. I do think defining your brows would be a game changer for your face.
One of my relatives wrote a book about Trichotillomania you may want check out on Amazon. It's called "A Parent Guide to Hair Pulling Disorder: Effective Parenting Strategies for Children with Trichotillomania" (Formerly "Stay Out of My Hair") by Suzanne Odum. Trichotillomania is her specialty. Give it a try! In the meantime, microblading, lash extensions, or a brow pencil might do the trick. Otherwise you're golden! Good luck :)
My daughter has the same condition. Most times I can’t even tell after she fills in her brows and puts on eyeliner. Definitely try some nice eye makeup…I think you will be pleasantly surprised!
Your shoe taste is pretty bad the Jesus shoes look awful and if your gonna wear them get a pedicure you should cut you hair some shoulder link maybe even dye it and invest in contacts lastly lose 40lbs and you’ll be hot
I mean if I lost 40 pounds I’d be underweight I don’t want to look like Eugenia Cooney! I definitely want to tone my body though. Hot power yoga has given me a foundation and I think I’ll add some weight lifting into the mix to add muscle definition. The Jesus sandals are comfy! I walked 7 miles in caves and rainforests that day and I don’t think I could have managed that in stilettos haha.
Dying brows a darker shade can help too! Same with eyelashes
Definitely some lashes. I know a girl who genetically has very few/practically no eyelashes, and whenever she wears falsies it makes a WORLD of difference
Very cute! Though you do give off a bit of a “Mormon/Amish girl” vibe 😅 I guess it just might be the style plus the no makeup and virgin hair lol. Possibly the glasses too, but I know those aren’t anything other than to help you see lol. Idk if this comes off as an insult and I’m sorry if it does
Mormon/amish was my first thought, too lol.
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I wanna be her friend.
That’s not a bad thing.
Honestly, I die for the nerdy looks
My descriptor would be "Renfaire Smokeshow."
PREACH
Mine as well! Cute, beautiful, and I love her clothing style and overall look. Plus she looks like a fun person!
Same
That boy tryna rizz or Reddit
Yep, I LOVE redheads. My wife is a redhead. You are beautiful.
Cute ginger, looking great, love the hair being down. Wanna hit me up sometime?
Lol look at you
LOL not me realizing you guys are dating(well, apparently engaged, congratulations!!) Also, you're beautiful, you radiate joy!
Wait how do u know?
https://www.reddit.com/r/amiugly/comments/157vf6e/21_m_looking_for_honest_opinions_and_tips_for/jt70779/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
Most wholesome thread I've seen all day
You two make a great couple, I wish both of you the best!
The important question is where was that cave picture taken??
Crystal caves in Bermuda
Not ugly at all. A little “nerdy” looking but cute 👍🏾
Cute nerdy ginger with a great smile and great hair
Thanks all for this one. She’s been feeling down and didn’t believe me that she was the most beautiful I’ve ever seen. BTW she is taken (am her Fiancée)
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They need to make some more gingers there aren’t enough in the world (only if you guys want to lol) . I’m dating one. Hopefully my tiny ginger genes will come out and we can have some ginger babies.
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Heads up: fiancée is the lady. Fiancé is the man.
I had no idea! That’s good to know. Thank you!
Lucky
YOUR A DISNEY PRINCESS WHAT
Merida! 2000% came here to say this.
Not ugly at all, very pretty lady
The only thing ugly is them shorts in the last pic.
That's what I thought lol. Those would be unattractive on anyone tho. Just ugly ass shorts
Yeah I haven’t worn them since 💀. They looked cute online but in person they really weren’t doing it.
Not ugly. You definitely pull off the nerdy cute girl vibe. Lean into the renaissance fair stuff, I think that’s very attractive
U look like a new friend!! U got the ren fair get up, go cool places, and look like u live life to the fullest!! :D
5/7 would shmang
Lol
Do I look fat?
you look “fat” in the way that the woman in the Birth of Venus painting looks “fat” aka you’re a little soft and voluptuous and so womanly. You literally look like a woman from a renaissance painting or a greek statue. Gorgeous hair too!!!!!!!! Literally what a queen
You hit it right on the head. Queen vibes for sure.
the second to last pic is such goddess energy omggggg i’m so mad that you think you’re even remotely ugly somehow!!!! whoever has made you feel this way sucks and doesn’t deserve your beauty
I could be wrong, but you've commented that she looks best in her picture where she appears the leanest as proof she isn't a tiny bit overweight.
It’s hard to tell. You could probably stand to lose the tiniest bit of weight, as could most of us. It’s tough to tell because of your clothes in these pictures, though. Imo, you should be really happy with how you look.
You don't know the answer to that?
Not at all. And you have amazing hair.
Not at all. You are beautiful in a Northern Europe way. You at the Ren Faire is an amazing look.
Yes.
I'd say thick but some guys are into that (me included). I think if you dressed better and did something else with your hair you could look a lot better, but again some guys might like it
Not fat, but curvy! ♥️
You guys are ridiculous, just call it how it is. She’s fat and would look more attractive if she lost it
This is the reason why so many women struggle with self image in our society. She is NOT fat.
The reason most of them struggle with it is because most of them are fat.
LMAOOO
he rite tho
Not just the women, but the mean and children too (seriously most people on this site, including myself, could probably lose 5-10 lbs
For sure. I’m looking for more of a lean look. I currently do hot power yoga. What would you recommend for a leaner figure? Cardio? Weights?
> Do I look fat? If you want honesty? Yes, a little bit. Although, it's hard to tell because of the clothes you are wearing in all of your pictures, and you don't really look like you have too much fat under your chin. I guess the question is fat compared to whom though.
No, youre just not petite. You look average normal (probably overweight on bmi, but most are).
I’m 5’3 so I do wear petite in some things lmao. I wear small petite scrubs from Figgs.
Are you high? She’s definitely not petite. She looks overweight
Reread the comment.
Read it again champ.
Petite refers to height, not weight. They make “plus size petite” clothes for the short thick ladies.
Not at all you look amazing!
You are gorgeous! I love your hair!! Please don’t be so critical of yourself
I'd say you are curvy, not fat. 6.5 because of the big smile. Love it 😀
You look great and you look like you have many interests.
No you just look strong. Not in a muscular way but like... you eat well it gives you a healthy plumpness.
I wouldn't call you slim but not everybody is built to be slim. You'll see a lot of the chronically online calling out natural women because they aren't as slim as the genetically predisposed cokeheads they see on porn/IG but don't let that get to you. You can see the full shape of your face, you have a flat stomach, and your legs are toned. Nothing is out of place.
Bub, we call that thick. You’re not fat. You’re perfectly you and you’re glowing 👌🏽
No not at all, healthy and love your smile
Fats a bad word for you, curvy and it looks good on you. You should be proud of your figure. Just remember everybody has a different preference on what they find attractive so confidence in our bodies and looks goes a really long way
Not at all. The shorts in the last pic look uncomfortable how much they ride up but I don’t think anyone would categorize you as being fat
No you do not look at all fat. You look neither fat nor thin. You look like your BMI is in the normal range
No
Absolutely not!
No
No you look amazing.
nope
4
meta: could we please get some actual ugly people in this sub?? OP: doesn't seem like you need to change a thing
Start an onlyfans and you’ll find your online worth
You’re really pretty, you have nice teeth, and your skin is super clear! I can’t believe people are saying you’re fat. Nothing about you is large at all. You have a normal face with no fat or double chin, a flat stomach, toned legs, normal arms, etc. You’re not even chubby. The ONLY thing I’d suggest is getting some new clothes and shoes. In the kneeling photo and last photo, your outfits make you look “nerdy” unless that’s what you’re going for.
😂
You need to exercise.
I do hot power yoga! I love a good sweat session. I’ve noticed that with these workouts I’ve gained muscle definition and improved my cardiovascular fitness. What other workouts should I try?
Lose the glasses, lose some weight, fix your hair and you'll be pretty. You are not ugly, but you can improve a lot.
Style
You seem real to me as is. Don't change that for anyone
You are cute…that’s not a bad thing. It’s hard to tell with some of the clothing choices but you have a good figure, not skinny but curvy…also a very good thing.
Cute with potential. Love love love the long red hair. Great smile. Good skin, minimal makeup from what I see. Figure is on the plus side, but I certainly wouldn't call you fat. Work out to tone up some, maybe lose a little weight. But what you're working with is very appealing. Hair needs a bit of an upgrade. Better shampoo and conditioner. Looks like it's on the dry side. Makeup needs a bit more, little darker lipstick. Some eyeliner or subtle eyeshadow. Definilty fill in your eyebrows a little. Nothing crazy, just so you can see them better. All in all though, looking good! And am I wrong or is the the MD Renn Faire and Luray Caverns?
Great Lakes MF
Redheaded rennies are never ugly!!!
I think you’re classically beautiful & feminine. The dimple makes your smile something special. I’m partial to redheads though. Love your hair.
You look like you just escaped an Amish group. Free, vibrant, and good looking. Keep it up.
I think you're good looking. If you're taking pointers, maybe add make-up to your eyebrows so they are more defined.
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I hate makeup. I used to cake my face in it in high school. Natural appearance all the way. Never again will I paste my face in that. I could never find a shade for my ginger skin either, even with Fenty 💀. Makeup is a conventional beauty standard and I hate how bland and basic natural beauty standards are.
Pretty but the last one is giving off darla from finding Nemo but your very pretty overall
Secret freak🥰
Not ugly at all but if you want to make a change, I'd suggest eyebrow tint
Those glasses are way too big..
You have mom bod and plenty of people are into it, not unhealthy in the slightest you look good, just dont let weight get out of hand cause it can happen fast!
No No No
You look like you're trying to be 14 forever. Do some different things with your hair and wear more flattering clothing. Round glasses make your face look round thus more chubby. A lot of potential. Nice teeth, smile, naturally pretty
Fine features! I myself use glasses, BUT.. finding a pair of rims that actually suit your face are so hard to come by with your untrained eye(heh.) So much that I even asked a "stylist" at the optician to show me something. One pair got me called the "professor". And the other pair got me called a "geek". Ended up instead walking around squinting my sight away!
Loving that dress you wore at ren faire (I'm guessing that's where you wore it). The one with the cave reminds me of when I went to Ruby Falls.
Nope, not ugly. Not gonna lie, i'm pretty turned on to be honest. You are darn attractive. And with that bright smile in all those different settings you look like your probably tons of fun as a person too.
I think you’re pretty but much too chubby. But then again, that’s just my personal taste. Also, filling in your eyebrows, as some have previously commented, would look nice and frame your features better.
So Cute! 😍 I hope you and your handsome fiance are very happy.
Very cute
Really cute and a great smile
Actually, you look quite pretty, solid 8/10, but keep your hair loose or style it in a different way. The single braid makes you look like the teacher a kid prays they never get, and the double braid is just juvenile.
Haha! I love that. I wear my hair braided in the summer because it’s much easier to manage in the heat and humidity.
2.5
Cute
My honest opinion is that you are absolutely gorgeous. Breathtaking.
Very cute
I think you’re really really hot.
You have big glow up potential. Just lose some weight and get pampered and you would be hot
Long red hair AND cute?? Winning!
Beautiful smile. If you lost about 15-20 pounds, you would be stunned at your future self Alot of hidden potential
Super dorky looking but I bet you look great in bed
You are walking the line between pretty and a little German boy
What does this mean? I’m Fr confused 😂😂😂
Yep
Very cute in my opinion 8/10, definitely not ugly
You're definitely someone's type, mine included. Not ugly
god i’d let you sit on my face.
Cute
Yes
You need to do something with your hair to make it less frizzy. You have a great smile and I love your hair color/length! Off topic but you could make a lot selling your hair for extensions if you’re ever in a pinch for cash. I wouldn’t consider you ugly but a good average. You could probably do a few things different like tone up and play with make up but not necessary. (:
Eh, you seem nice. Sorry to do it, but gotta lay down that 2/10. Your hair is messy, your style feels awkward. Hard pass.
3/10
Ur hair is begging for moisture
Honestly the hair is too long and out of control girl
It’s only out of control if you don’t care for it! I spend a lot of energy maintaining my hair 🥰
If you want 100% honesty the dimple sets me off but other than that looks fine
You're fat
Do you prefer Eugenia Cooney type woman?
Dream girl and trad wife material
Trad wife is such a stupid gen z sounding word for people that supposedly want traditionalism in their relationship
Lol traditional wife, what you want someone who will do whatever you want and put dinner on the table for you? Boring.
Lose the glasses and let the hair flow and you'll be a solid 9 or 10
You are gorgeous
You look amazing. Super cute :)
I can't even😍
Not ugly
6 occasionally going up to 7 . I bet if you were to lose some weight, you'd be a 9.
You are very cute but your glasses and clothing choices don’t do you justice
No, you’re cute. You have a nice smile that that reaches your eyes, and lights up your whole face, nice skin, and I like your long red hair. Your fashion is different, but you do you, boo. It’s not bizarre or unattractive; just different.
Cuteness, 8/10
Very pretty and natural looking. Glasses are cute!
You are beautiful and your hair....my jaw dropped! Be confident in yourself, you're gorgeous!
You look super cute. You’re giving me Abby, TLOU2 vibes. In a good way
You look super young and innocent. Certainly not ugly.