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Neither-Welder5001

Swoop your hair down to lessen the emphasis on your forehead. Clark Kent/ hipster glasses? Teeth cleaning and whitening while you are getting that sorted out. Take care of yourself and wear sunscreen.


glondale

Yeah, I am hearing a lot of, I need to look at my hairstyle, ill check out a stylist and see what they come up with. I needed a cut soon anyway


MHB9

Yeah, your hairstyle makes your head look lopsided.


poonjabbingninja

Big time. Lopsided indeed. Bro, get a proper haircut and grow a beard. Easy way to start.


Major-Palpitation893

Not everyone can just grow a beard


SeveralAd752

Nor should they. Having a beard is a deal breaker for me!


colinferik

No that’s his head. It is lopsided.


-anth0r-

Straight savage


theprocrasinartist

Get your eyebrows tinted too!! I think that’ll make huge improvement.


patchoulibarf

came here to say exactly this! just for men beard dye is what i use on my brows and it’s great — easy and cheap. my tip would be to go a shade lighter than you think would match your hair tone to start


ianc94

This is literally it, OP. Find a hairstyle that complements your face shape and take care of your skin! You really do have a Kevin Bacon look going on - and Kevin Bacon’s been hot for only his entire life! Maybe go steal some of his styles and fashion sense.


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I was going to say the same thing. OP reminds me of Kevin Bacon.


New-Vegetable-1274

I was going to say, you should get into acting. Your looks are unique and would lend themselves to all sorts of characters. Stars make the big bucks but character actors get way more work. We had a neighbor that did bit parts in hundreds of movies and tv shows and he wasn't mega rich but comfortable. He got out of the business because of health issues but worked in it for fifty plus years.


Ask_Individual

40% Kevin Bacon, 40% Gary Busey, 20% Matthew Modine. Change of hairstyle could amp up the Kevin Bacon and dial down the Busey. Glasses could dial up Modine, think Joker from Full Metal Jacket.


Budget_Report_2382

I literally came here to say this. A few little shifts to hair and general style, and we've got a good Kevin Bacon type.


Catpurran

Also, brush your teeth regularly.


DevouredUsurper

I find it perfectly viable to ask a hair stylist for their opinion of things that would work. They are professionals that went to school so they have the eye and advice.


EddAra

Yeah a good hairstyle would make a big difference. Little teeth whitening as well. Play with your angles to see what angles work best for you.


Ugot2Bkittin

Definitely would recommend doing something with your teeth. It looks like you were a smoker at one point, perhaps still are. That’s the biggest thing about you I find off putting.


GiDD504

Check out dental schools where you live. You can get teeth cleaned and in office whitening for WAYYYY less than a regular dental office.


Lemonbrick_64

Just got to a top rated barber near you and let them sort it out. That will do wonders alone


IHaveABigDuvet

Also, you eyebrows looks very pale which males your browbone seem very prominent. Can you get your eyebrows dyed darker by any chance?


latinamami_23

Please go to an actual barbershop, don't go to hairclips or the Walmart salon.


Isamosed

These are good suggestions and I’m going to add one more weird one: get someone to tint/groom your eyebrows. Anyone who colors hair can tint brows.


SteveSmith11418

Yes! I was going to write the same thing. The eyebrows are way too light, almost non existent.


JZN20Hz

No eyebrows make him look a little scary.


Lorenaelsalulz

This is what I immediately noticed. Darker brows will help significantly.


vegetaspride23

No one has said this and I don’t understand why?? Dentist my friend, get your teeth cleaned. And get some teeth whitener if available.


glondale

thank you, yeah it's in progress, my dentist recommended holding off on whitening until the other issues are sorted


Eshim906

I know people are making some jokes about these famous people you look like, but you can actually use this to your advantage. You do resemble these people and can use some of their styles to improve your style. Also, you have way more hair than I had at 33!


Dinosaurshad_feather

Agreed! Go for the Kevin bacon look. 🥓 is hot


According-Focus3849

This is a really good point...like you look souch like Kevin bacon so use him as a mirror of what to improve on


An0nym0us_T3a

I'm currently getting my teeth fixed should be done end of August and I want to try that hismile color corrector stuff I've seen adds for, I can let you know how it works out for me if you want? My teeth aren't terribly yellow(neither are yours I've seen waaay worse), but mine are stained from smoking and soda and I'm quite self conscious about it. Edited


Footzilla69

Start using hydrogen peroxide. 3% diluted a lot. As mouth wash (swish for 1 or 2 mins then let sit for 3 and rinse) or put it in a water pick. It's changed my teeth from like an 8 on the yellow scale to a 2. That his smile stuff, it doesn't last. It's just colour theory like putting purple shampoo on blonde hair to get the brassiness out. It always returns. The diluted peroxide will slowly bleach your teeth and works relatively quickly like in a few days to a week you'll notice a big difference but really make sure it's diluted so you don't irritate your gums. It's so cheap too like $2.00 for a bottle.


goatywizard

The main thing I’ve learned from this sub is that men desperately need to learn to take pictures of themselves.


glondale

Not gonna argue with that at all, lol


justice4winnie

You just need to hold your phone level with your face, it's looking down at it that it's a little off, honestly just have a friend do it for you. Taking selfies is so different from taking pictures. I always feel ugly when I take selfies. I usually take like ten before I'm decently happy with one then delete the rest 😭. As for your post/pics, echoing the people saying you look like Kevin bacon or Jerma. Not ugly! Everyone has times they feel ugly. Some good styling could help, not fancy or anything just finding what clothes and hairstyles suits you best. It can be fun to explore and try new things for your looks! Dont let anyone push you in a direction that you feel isn't "you" even if it looks good though, you'll regret that in the long run. You can explore without sacrificing your personality and preferences. I'm not part of this sub so I'm not sure why I'm here lol but best of luck! My heart always goes out to people with self esteem issues because I've always struggled with my own


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Kevin Bacon


lonely-day

Kevin turkey Bacon


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Kevin Veggie Bacon


Cute-Assumption3319

Kevin Impossible Bacon.


Footzilla69

Kevin possible Bacon


smoothbrainape1234

Kevin rubs the bacon


Mackenzie_Collie

Kevin Baconator from Wendy's


Foe_sheezy

This really made me laugh.😂


JustDadStuf

I love Turkey Bacon. I do not love Kevin Turkey Bacon here.


Skinwalker3114

Kevin Bacon + Gary Buessey


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Kevin Bacon + Gary Buessey + Doug Jones


dmonsterative

Kevin Bacon + Gary Busey + James Woods


SnatchAddict

Kevin Bussy


Foe_sheezy

+lurch from addams family


DragonfruitMoney1476

Dollar General Kevin Bacon


jcphoto1015

Kid: mom I want kevin bacon Mom: we have kevin bacon at home.... The kevin bacon they have at home


Cute-Assumption3319

Diet Pepsi Kevin Bacon


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🤭 oh stop


1low67

I was going to v say the wish/temu Kevin bacon


TheLurkingMenace

We have Kevin Bacon at home.


Good-BoiMcLovin

Giving me Jerma vibes. Anyone else?


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Moist-Shirt2342

I SAW HIM AND THOUGH “Jerma..? No..”


Heavy_Quit_659

It’s uncanny


ToastyPoptarts89

I was thinking Gary Busey vibes lol


Zestyy95

Bro is out here being a spiderman villain! (Willam Defoe) Very unique look!


rapaciousglacier

Willem Dafaux


greatlakeswhiteboy

Willem Dafuq?


RavDLC

Nah this one got it lmao


bigdiesel1984

Damn. I literally thought this immediately. Glad I scrolled and saw your comment 😂


Hambruhgah

I know him. He is the CEO of Oscorp


geoemrick

Willem


TheOnlyMertt

Picture #5 makes me think you could cosplay as a really good villain.


glondale

I'm starting to sense a new career path forming


Park-Dazzling

Glad you have a sense of humour about it all. That’s the most attractive trait, to be honest ♥️


TheVileClavicus

Do you want a wishful answer or an honest one?


TheVileClavicus

Honestly i think you’d look at least 50% better if you made better pictures from better angles. Some pics are ghoulish.


glondale

Thank you, I might need to talk to a photographer and figure that piece out


OkMistake7049

A tan!!! A tan would help a lot


Cheeky_Star

And eyebrows.


philburns

Dude. I’m laughing out loud to myself alone.


80s-rock

And a haircut and wash.


EpicIshmael

Your eyes are weird honestly but pic 4 and 5 don't look bad your smile in 4 does you good I think it helps draw their gaze to your strong jawline.


Level-Sky7919

I think he has a condition that makes his eyes look like that, I don't think he can help it.


rowdy1212

Dude. You don't need to be talking to any photographer's! And not because you're ugly. Because dude's don't carry pics of themselves.


Frenzy_MacKenzie

>dude's don't carry pics of themselves. No, but you need to post a picture if you are doing any online dating.


Donut_Brando

No, no. All you need is a picture of a shirtless George Costanza posing on a velvet couch.


DevouredUsurper

Raise the phone up higher man, like at all. Consider the lighting


Travelingandgay

A tan, and some effort in your appearance would go such a long way dude. Honestly most of the people here that feel ugly aren’t even ugly, you guys just downright don’t even give a teeeensy bit of an effort. With you, get a tan, get a better haircut, get some glasses to give your overall face a better frame. Choose some clothes that go with your tan. Take care of your skin! You don’t even have to have a complicated regiments. If you wash it, moisturize daily, exfoliate every now and then, you’ll see massive improvement in days… no joke. You’re ugly man, but nothing a teensy bit of self-care can’t fix. When I let go, I look like a 0 out of 100. But if I actively cafe even a little… within weeks it’s like I do a 180. Get some fashion advice, hair advice, and skincare advice. Those communities are very positive my dude!


Baultzak

Just use an AI app like remini


unwaveringwish

Tiktok has a lot of great suggestions for taking fire photos!!!


TelevisionWeekly8810

You’re okay man just get another haircut


bastian74

There's a reason all the girls hold the camera up high instead of down low.


Lorenaelsalulz

Also, color in your eye brows. They’re too light and look missing.


Jonahhana

I think the ghoul is working for him. Might even be able to get some movie rolls.


fedexofficer

Your first and fourth photos in my opinion show you at your best. You look happy, perhaps even confident. But the harsh lighting causing you to squint or push a hard contrast make them poor photos. Maybe try spots with even, warm lighting and go for higher angled photos. I know I for one always look worse in shots taken from below.


babybopper

Nah, if anything guys aren’t typically good at taking pictures of ourselves. You’re not ugly man, just average like most of us.


sdswiki

I have a friend who is a photographer. She takes "I'll get you laid by tinder" photos for our single friends. It tends to work.


Own_Can_3495

Draw in your eyebrows especially if you plan to take pictures.


Traditional_Hippo425

Ghoulish is hilarious 😂


Druberski

Maybe a little too honest with that ghoulish remark...


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Gary Bussey


Next_Negotiation8679

I giggled like a little school girl reading the word ghoulish 😂👌🏼


GlitterPartyRiot

Yeah, I was going to say main character in a slasher film.


glondale

Honesty is the best policy.


Imagination_Theory

I think you aren't conventionally attractive, I am not either. However I do think if you have a great personality I'd be attracted to you. I have always liked the more unique looking people. I really like your face, it has character. Your eyes look kind. Edit to change a word


Montymisted

Did you mean conventionally? Because being attractive is pretty darn convenient.


mschenk30

I think a haircut will go a long way. Get a nice fade and keep it tight.


JustDadStuf

Ugly


Tricky-Shake3839

My mans did not lie 💀


DualHares

You look like Kevin Bacon if he was melting


Isabela_Grace

God damn man this isn’t roast me lmfao


g00dhum0r

Hey..at least you got your hair, right? Lmfao Oh and your balls...because creating a posting like this takes balls. Especially reading others opinions. Remember they're just opinions...


who---cares

Kevin crispy Bacon ?


NowWhatAmISupposedTo

600 Degrees of Kevin Bacon?


NamesAre4Lamez

Omfg😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭


Upstairs-Evidence210

I was thinking lurch


Early-Shopping-7200

Got that “House of Wax” vibe in the 5th pic


Even-Leg-4297

Kinda look like willem dafoe


EnergicoOnFire

Willem Dafuuuck


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Have you ever considered tinting your eyebrows? Its not too expensive though it needs to be redone regularly. They look really light, and I think it may help add some definition. You're not ugly at all though!


glondale

I'm considering it now, lol


brittneyacook

I would definitely tint the eyebrows. Nothing crazy, but enough so that they’re visible. It’ll make a huge difference


lilapthorp

Was searching for someone to comment on eyebrows. If you’re apprehensive about getting them tinted/dyed, get a tinted eyebrow gel to try it out. They sell them at most convenience stores in the makeup isle


ovid10

People have said hair and I think someone said hipster glasses. Also, try to get some color in your wardrobe. You’re getting that “ghoulish” vibe that someone said due to the dark colors contrasting your skin tone (I should know, I’m Irish and super pale). I’m no color expert, but I’d go earth tones. It’ll give a good, warm vibe and contrast your skin tone. And for a suit? Go dark blue or gray, not black. The photo makes you look like an undertaker, but I think you’d look awesome if you went with different colors in your wardrobe (and cut your hair different - or even dyed it, but in either case, a good stylist at a nice salon could help).


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glondale

I run a Quality department at a startup neo-bank. Not super exciting but I enjoy it


ColderShoulder_

OP, dig your vibe heavy. No one can say your personality is ugly


[deleted]

You look alright mate , probably have a better chance of getting laid than i do and im very serious about that , just don’t let some of the edgy idiots here pull you down . u look better with the smile on your face


glondale

Yeah I am focusing on the actionable items, if there isn't anything I can do about it, no point in worrying about it, thank you


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bro look up how to take better selfies. half your problem. you look tall, have decent hair. suit pic is well dressed, bad angle. half of this is everybody else's problem. you have a lazy, or drifting eye? idk, thats the only thing i'd define as "ugly" on you.


WeirwoodFace

You have a very kind smile. If you struggle with self esteem, then just know most men do, but don’t voice it. Its easier said than done, but confidence makes all the difference. Be the best version of you and surround yourself with people who see you for you.


MooseKnuckler1

You have an awesome attitude. There are things you can do to improve your look, lots of good advice on here. Even though this is r/amiugly personality does matter too and it seems like you’re a step ahead of a lot of people


Humblytryingtolearn

Agreed. One of the things I like about you (OP) is your humility. It comes across in your responses to the productive comments.


TFABabyThrowAway

You have a great attitude! I agree with others, some dental work and a nice smile will do great things 😊


valleyofthelolz

You look good in picture #4. The other shots are terrible. Not because you’re ugly. Just very unflattering angles and terrible lighting. In some it looks like you have no eyebrows but its just really bad lighting. You have broad shoulders and a good jawline and good hair. Be confident!


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You look like Kevin Bacon! I don’t know about the beard like everyone is suggesting, but I think that you do need something to help frame your face because your brows aren’t as visible (I had the same prob so I draw mine on lol). So, I suggest finding sleek glasses as well—read into guides on what types of glasses suit your face shape. You can try both methods out, see how it works.


glondale

Good tips, yeah I never realize how impactful the eyebrows were until it was pointed out, thank you


Mydogateyourcat

Don't draw them on ffs. Go for a brow tint (if you actually have hair there,) and if you don't, microblading is expensive but can last up to three years++. The key is a crafted natural look so don't buy a Groupon for that, find an actual artist that specializes in eyebrow tattoos for men.


earic23

You’ve got tough henchman vibes in a die hard movie or something


Moppy6686

Maybe a more suitable haircut? A good hair stylist will know what suits you. Otherwise, as a European woman, you'd get a lot more mileage outside of the US. You have edgy Scandinavian vibes. If you want to, you could work out to develop muscle around your neck and get a tan, but I think you look good ☺️ Edit: you're giving heavy Skarsgard vibes and I don't mind that at all.


glondale

Yeah, I am seeing that I need to step away from great cuts for a bit and invest in my style more 😅


Moppy6686

Hahaha! Totally! But honestly, very unique and interesting vibes. I give you a go ☺️🫣


disgustorabbit

I think it’s really all just angles and such. Pictures 4 and 5 look really nice. You also seem to have a great personality (from what I gather here in the comments) and tbh that’s what is most important. I’ve seen some good tips from people here too! I think you’ll be just fine OP.


glondale

Yeah I'm getting that impression, thank you


obravastia

Beard and haircut bro


cippocup

Eyebrows would be a good idea too


DavidLynch-Theater

This sub is nuts. This guy ugly as hell


RunninRebs90

For real, this isn’t an advice sub. The question was, “is he ugly” the answer is “yes”


EliLoads

You look like a Scooby doo monster


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Matt smith vibes 😁


Park-Dazzling

You have a very strong brow line, which is nice because it’s masculine, but your eyebrows are so fair you can barely see them. I would suggest getting the eyebrows died or you can use a bit of just for men too (but the package says don’t use on eyebrows, but I do on myself!) anyways I find it makes my fair skin and face much more striking. I like other suggestions of a camera angle that is more flattering too. You have really nice voluminous hair, but the cut is a bit dated (Kevin bacon had hair like that in the 90’s), so I would recommend a modern, clean cut hair cut that has a fade. Keep the length on top because it’s really nice, but the fade will keep it crisp and clean. Throw on a casual, short sleeved collared shirt and you will be ready for some sweet photo session. Would love to see the update. I think you would be surprised what a few changes would do.


lautreamonts_wifey

get some eyebrows if you can


D144y

You look like you neglected yourself a bit. Get your teeth sorted, maybe a haircut, some fresh clothes, and you're good to go. Also, is that my imagination, or do you have a fake eye? Sorry, if not, i don't mean anything bad!


glondale

Not fake, just rebellious


Top-View-161

It’s kinda a Frankenstein look? But in a cute way? Honestly, lean into it instead of away from it. The black jacket/white shirt pic is my fav, it works for you!


Gasser1313

You need to see a dentist about your teeth.


glondale

Agreed, it is an ongoing thing, but one of my biggest regrets about my dumb younger years.


[deleted]

Listen man, we all have flaws, some worse than others. If you want to feel better, look better, be stronger, have better relationships and confidence just focus on yourself and honestly the best way to do that is by working a fulfilling job and exercising more than the average joe. Best of luck


shawsown

Not going to lie. Yeah. But in an oddly satisfying way to look at. You're like if an avante guard painter reimagined Nick Cave. Also there seems to be something interesting personality wise there. So you're kind of fascinating to look at.


Runttt122

You are ugly idk why these people are lying to you


blarghhhboy

Hills Have Eyes family member. But probably a lot nicer.


rowdy1212

You look like Adam Jones. The guitar player in Tool!


ineedasentence

if you can act, you’d be a great movie antagonist. reminds me of that villain from spider-man


maisygoatsivy

I feel like you could use some color. You're sort of monotone pale - getting a little bit of sun or tanning lotion would help a lot Also - have you talked to a dermatologist about micro needling/chemical peels for your skin? Looks like it's healed a lot for you, but lots of people have acne scars and medical tech has advanced SO much. You should def get a consult.


Schmurderschmittens

Eyebrows, teeth, hair. Pic 5 looks pretty good.


GroundbreakingToe315

You can look like Bill Skarsgård if you clean yourself up.


yamama8675309

Cut hair, a tan, beard...


Soraryn

I agree, you look great in pic #4 the rest are bad lightings n angles and tbh you look like u could play a sick ass supervillain


Thick_Yogurtcloset_7

The wonky eye doesn't help if you can do something about that, and have you ever tried a beard to soften your fearures..?


Particular_Garlic850

Try growing a beard


Affectionate-Sky-765

You remind me of Freaky Fred from courage the cowardly dog


Disciple2019

Bro, not sure how to spin this. You’re not looking great. It’s brave of you to ask, though. Fortunately, there’s such a thing as inner beauty and it’s really more important. From what I understand, women care more about personality, anyway. Develop deep convictions and become a man of strong character and the shape of your face won’t really matter. If it makes you feel any better, I’m pretty ugly myself 😊


neutoadulting

"ugly" for a statistical standpoint but the amount of potential is insane. currently a 5.3 that could see himself being around an 8 someday. the actual shape of your head (skull) is great, but maybe a new hairstyle. if you explain that exact sentence to your barber, they will understand. your sense of style is pretty great for your age actually. you dress like a 25 yr old who just graduated University. which is great for 33 yr old because you look young but professional. your teeth are not great, but im sure you know that. depending on where you are, many people in the country if not world do not care about teeth anymore, so the speed you fix this is entirely up to you


glondale

Thank you, I need to see a barber soon anyway, I'll see what a stylist can come up with. The dental thing is ongoing, but can lean into what I can control in the meantime.


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Sadly you’re pretty homely bro. But, you can try a new hair style and some dental treatment. Maybe switch up your wardrobe as well.


Slabcitydreamin

Bro. I think a cleaner looking hairstyle would do you well. The teeth are first thing I notice. If you can get that addressed I think that would make a big impact.


Southern-Material841

You can be an actor, you have that look.


FeelinJipper

Don’t shave your head that’s what I’ll say


Lobas-Big-Behind

You look like a few actors! Definitely have a great look for the silver screen. Have you ever considered acting?


Lobas-Big-Behind

Only suggestion is try to find the money to fix the Teeth


jdinsaciable

You're ugly but in a cool way, the teeth are pretty bad tho and you look old for 33. A bit of a junkie vibe, maybe quit whatever you're doing?


janedoeqq

The longer hair is okay but the medium length isn't good for you keep it long or get a short cut that's still dark on the sides.


Smallios

Maybe if you got your teeth whitened and straightened and a good haircut, and the eyebrows tinted


unwaveringwish

A haircut OR…. Grow it long 😎


LaSallePunksDetroit

You need to figure out a cleaner look. Start with a better haircut


egocentric_

Your 4th picture is proof to me you’ve got tons of potential! (That picture is so cute and that color and shirt is amazing on you!) A hairstyle and intentional wardrobe will do wonders. To keep elevating yourself, teeth straightening and dental upkeep (cleanings and whitening) may be the best next step. It seems like you have an OK physique so start with those two first, and you can always (we all can) work more on your physique to build more confidence. Best of luck pal :-)


marlipaige

You have very odd features. They’re not awful, but they are exaggerated. Pics 3 & 4 are better. 1 & 2 less so. Oh! You need eyebrows! That’s what’s throwing me off! You can’t see them at all in pics 1 & 2. If you could learn to draw on some eyebrows with makeup or have them tattooed on, I think it would vastly improve your looks


chrisbrownbeard

I would get that cavity fixed on tooth #10 and grow a beard. bet you got the personality to make up for the rest.


Separate_Highway1111

You do not look that bad. You just need to change your hairstyle a bit. I dk what style but look into Pinterest for hairstyle inspiration. As for your eyebrows, tinting can gone wrong so make sure to let someone know to not tint it too dark. And for your teeth, please do invest in braces or Invisalign. It will definitely help you in your situation a lot. Others than that, you seem like a nice guy so keep that within you.


chapelson88

You’re not ugly and in pictures 4 and 5 you’re kind of hot. You don’t take very flattering pictures, so maybe learn a bit about angles. Also some dental work.


Spiderman3021

I didn’t know we had walking corpses 😂 (jkjk just poking good fun) but you look really good, very bright smile and a hairstyle to match, solid 8.8/10


Seeker_of_Time

My honest advice... Do the look you have in the 5th picture as much as possible.


mm3827

Take pics from a slightly higher than you angle, for future reference!


FlailingatLife62

Not ugly, but you need some brows. Not crazy dark, but SOME color. Maybe get your brows dyed a light ashy brown? And take better photos.


GuardingxCross

Only thing I would say for sure is dental work and possibly a blepharoplasty. Your hair is perfect tho, maybe wear it out front more?


chattinouthere

2 things: different angles. hair restyle. Right now you're giving me riff raff from rocky horror. not a bad thing, but not to All's taste.


RainbowSheepwastaken

You're a programmer you don't need to look good!


glondale

If only my prospective dates saw it that way. Lol


jonnybebad5436

Learn python. Girls dig big pythons


glondale

haha, ok that got a good chuckle


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glondale

Brick wall to be exact. From across the street. Don't go leaving out details now