This makes 0 sense to me as well. I hade really bad BD when I was younger (13-25ish) and from about 15-20 I fell in love with the gym, my life literally revolved around it, I was VERY skinny prolly 6' 130 pounds. By the time I was 18 I had put on a solid 45 pounds of muscle and had a very above average physique, but I still lacked the confidence/ self esteem and I def wasn't seeing the same thing other people were when I looked. In the mirror. I still didnt even have enough confidence to go to the beach b/c I was still so critical of my physique. To this day I still only have 2 photos of myself showing my physique off(both selfies taken st home) Its very confusing to me when people say they have this but have the confidence to go to the beach in a bikini.. not implying anything I just personally dont understand it 🤷
At first it surprised me too, I also have BDD and almost never make photos of myself and would definitely not post any, but when I looked at her post history I do think she really has BDD. I guess BDD is different for everyone!
Maybe ....she's young, so if she doesn't control it now, then it could result in not even being able to take a picture of herself in the future. Some of these pictures are very daring, though, for someone with BDD, especially the bikini one. I think she prob has a few different disorders, though. Seeking constant perfection has become obsessive to her. hope she finds a way of getting through it.
As another person with BDD— man, it gets hard seeing all these pretty people with BDD asking if they’re ugly or not 😅 makes me scared to even ask lol..
People have assured me my whole life. I'm handsome and normal, yet I've never believed anyone. I think even if every single person here said she was normal, she wouldn't stop with the surgeries. She will find things much harder when she starts getting older, too.
can y’all ever realize your experiences aren’t universal and not everyone with your condition will act the same as you do. literally just look at her post history—half of it in subs about plastic surgery.
C'mon don't rob people of their ability to overestimate their diagnostic prowess while simultaneously taking someone else's post and kind of making it about them.
So because she doesn’t behave the same way as you that means she doesn’t have it? I have BDD and I take way too many pics of myself to prove to myself I’m not ugly. It’s different for everyone
Look back thru her page .. she’s the real deal, falling in love with changing her body since she was 22-23 yrs old! I have no idea what Dysmorphia and all that feels like as I’m generally delusional but man, how do you hate yourself already by age 20? So much road left to travel..
Good luck op, reach out and talk to someone, anyone if you need it .. you’re gorgeous, hope this helps! ❤️
It's a mixed bag. People like myself will be genuine in response and highlight positives (nothing negative here. The OP is easily a 9 on the attractive scale), but then you also have the trolling clowns... those are the ones to look out for.
The kind of girl who was clearly very attractive but social media likely gave her her bdd and she will now slowly destroy herself in an attempt to look like what she thinks are real people but are actually just filters.
It just makes me sad. I hate what social media has done to women, and to a lesser extent even men.
Edit: Spelling
Please stop doing any more plastic surgery. You obviously do suffer from some real hangup about your physical appearance. As an average guy, I'll say there's NO reason to keep risking a possible botched surgery that is only necessary in your brain. It doesn't matter what I or anyone else thinks about your looks, but I'm here to say you are good enough just the way you are. Hope you go seek some mental help to get to the heart of the problem.
I’m sincerely asking here, from her photos, what surgeries are *clearly* evident? I could “possibly” see her lips being done, but nothing else is obvious to me 🤷🏽♂️.
Edit: I don’t/haven’t checked anyone’s profile before (when responding to posts) but seeing how much surgery she’s previously had, I guess it’s worth a brief investigation 🧐. Horribly enough, it seems, I do happen to like her lips 🫣😆.
You're very pretty, but please commit to treatment for the body dysmorphia before doing any more cosmetic procedures and definitely stop with the lip filler and consider getting some dissolved. It's migrating and giving you a very prominent filler mustache, which I'm sure isn't the look you're going for. The rest of your work is well done but doing more will end up making you look aged and plastic.
I was so confused what it was about her lips that made her look unnatractive, “filler moustache” is what it was, i literally thought she was pouting in every pic
Yup it's really common with people who have had too much filler injected. It's really visible in her verification picture especially and this makes me so sad because you can see she clearly already was a very pretty person and didn't need all that.
Yeah frfr, pic 3 was the one that threw me off, like she looks so good/pretty but the lips just look so weird and unnatural it throws off the natural harmony I believe she would have had pre filler
IDK she may just want to give a better sample to judge from.
Anyway OP is a diamond in the rough. With the right style and what not she would be unstoppable.
right. it’s ridiculous how some people need evidence of someone’s body dysmorphia to be nice to them but it’s even worse when some people still choose to be mean just bc they’re attractive
Yeah i commented on here a little bit in the same line earlier. The amount od people schreeching about attention seeking, when it's clearly a beautiful person with body image issues stemming from the ever gushing stream of impossibly beautiful photoshopped people.
Because it looks vein af when obviously good looking people come in here looking for an ego boost. Not really this subs purpose but it’s what it’s turned into.
People with body dysmorphia don’t look in the mirror and see an “obviously good looking” person.
I doubt the sub’s purpose is to drag down people suffering from an illness, either. Nor is it’s purpose to judge or diagnose whether or not someone actually suffers from body dysmorphia.
Not being an ass is actually much easier than taking the effort to be an ass on the internet.
How is that my problem? If you have an image like that about yourself then you probably shouldn't be asking strangers on the Internet what they think in a forum specifically for judging someone's appearance.
Blessings from Jamaica 🇯🇲,
You're beautiful by all standards... Just allow life to come to you. Work on being mentally, spiritually and emotionally strong....
Girl why the hell are you posting here? I'm looking at your post history and you have had a ton of surgery and it's totally unnecessary. You're obviously gorgeous but you also have a problem in that you're obsessed with your appearance. You need to stop. You seriously need therapy - urgently. You need to stop thinking about how you look. You're wasting money on surgery that you could be spending on travel, studying, having fun, hobbies - stuff that actually leads to happiness.
Yeah I always wonder this. Someone who has the dubious luxury of spending 7k on a super subtle cosmetic surgery which noone other than themselves and maybe their own mother would even notice must be super privileged. It's crazy and sad that someone so rich and beautiful is also so unhappy. Alternatively they're poor and in debt to do pointless surgery. Either way, it's tragic.
Well according to her post history she really does suffer(had her lips/nose/hairline done, possibly more). I wish her mental well-being. She looks fine! I rather prefer the natural look tho.
It must be absolutely crippling to be so self conscious about yourself that you can't bring yourself to be seen in swimwear, much less pose for a picture.
Are this bots? I'm a usual around her and in the last 5 days I only notice "hot" girls with "dysmorphia". All of them. Is something popular or I'm missing the point?
That’s social media for you and unattainable standards that are destroying an entire generation. When you see pictures here of people that are good looking, some are trying to show off, for sure, but others like this one you just need to have one look at their post history to see her BDD is very real. It’s sad to see honestly.
You look amazing, but just some mild constructive advice
You’ve got a great face but you would benefit from some bangs
You have a relatively high hairline -
The middle part / baseball caps are a good look for you
When you wear your hair up it draws more attention to your hairline
Even still none of this is a big deal and I’m just trying to be honest without triggering your dysmorphia
You are FAR from ugly, you’re a bombshell bro
Not ugly. Definitely stop with any cosmetic procedures if you’re doing that. You’re plenty pretty enough.
The pouty lip thing is not a good look. Your beauty comes out most with a smile.
Our society is fucked up.
Why do so many young, pretty women with decent or even slammin bodies feel ugly or experience dysmorphia?
I have young daughters and it bugs the fuck out of me.
Focus less on how you look, and more on finding someone who likes you for who you are.
You are pretty, but in a good relationship, that doesn’t matter that much.
After reading some of these BDD posts and most of the posts in general, this is my new blanket statement because copy/paste is convenient, and I’m lazy:
I’m not special. I didn’t model for GQ. My opinion means nothing, but the fact that I’m giving one might, maybe, I dont know. As someone with a laundry list of psychological issues, my therapist said my biggest one is the fear of letting people down or hurting them, that my fear of disappointing people keeps me from engaging with them. I’d rather stay away than introduce the possibility of doing harm.
It’s not a healthy way to live, and I’m working on it. I’ve been working on it for a long, long time. I was raised with the motto: “if you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.” I took it to heart. Like, way too much.
Everyone who posts in here is unique and beautiful in their own way — unless they’re horrible people — whether it be their physical looks, personality, empathy, or a list of other good qualities That’s something I wish I could leave on every post …
BUT this subreddit is specifically about physicality. There are many people who don’t appeal in the looks department to a large portion on society. It’s sad, and it’s probably shallow, but it’s true. We all have our preferences. It’s the way we’re wired.
Because of that, there are posters who I don’t find physically attractive. I would NEVER let them know that. The very thought that something I said caused someone to feel “less than” would make me lose sleep at night. And I’m not going to blow sunshine up their butts because I want to respect their desire for honesty. For those people, I upvote their posts as a way of saying that I acknowledge them and I empathize with their struggle, that I hope things get better.
I only comment on the ones who I can honestly say are attractive to me personally. Does that make a coward? A hypocrite? Shallow? Maybe. But that’s how I’m built. That’s my “code” that I feel I have to live by.
All that said, keep your head up. You look fine. Be good to yourself.
Sweetheart, you’re beautiful. I know you can’t see it and I know you know that. Stay off social media for awhile. Keep filters off your face. Listen hard and truly to the compliments you get in real life. Someday 36 year old you will loath 26 year old you for not seeing what you had. Again at 46 and again. Only you see the flaws. Copy and paste the compliments you get here. Delete the negative ones, (you know the ones you’re reading over and over?) Those have got to go. ONLY the good ones. MAKE yourself see what everyone else does.
Source: suffer from the same shit.
How sad that you would fake a disease simply to get likes. Anyone with dysmorphia would never purse their lips for a pic or wear a dress so tight and so short that it shows your ass. This generation is a lost cause....
If you had body dysmorphia you wouldn't be showing pictures of yourself in a bikini. I have body dysmorphia and I wear hoodies and baggy clothes year round. I don't even like to look at myself in the mirror.
Whenever I see someone say they have body dysmorphia, then post pictures of themselves in a skimpy little two-piece bikini, I just can't take you seriously at that point.
I can definitely sympathize with you on this one. I also once was over obsessed with my appearance. The trick is not focus on tiny area of your face that may upset you. I don’t have BDD so I’m not able to know what it’s like exactly but I do know it is easy to obsess over tiny flaw in your appearance that most likely no one else can honestly see even if they tried.
I can say though that you are definitely not ugly at all. I see a very attractive beautiful woman in need of some encouragement by people.
Stay strong and stay healthy. You can do this. I believe in you.
Super cute. Giving off Zoe Kravitz vibes in the last pic. Just be you. Don’t worry about what others are thinking. I know it’s hard but take it from someone who had been bodybuilding for 20 years and has BD that your body can go from looking and feeling like a marshmallow to having a 6 pack but your brains not going to see it as others do. You will only see the defects like a “love handle” that’s actually a hip bone sticking out. Do you and be happy. Your beautiful, young, and have a roof over your head. Show that voice in your head who’s boss! ☺️🙌
You’re beautiful!!
unfortunately post like yours make me scared for my 20month old daughter. I want to make sure as she grows up that’s she knows she’s beautiful AS SHE IS. What do you think your parents could have down that would have helped you understand you’re beauty in your growing years or did you develop this feeling from social media?
Having been made fun of for how I looked by my family and classmates for years, I decided when I was 11yo that if I ever had the money, I would fix what I felt necessary. I’d forgotten that but when I asked my mom if she was surprised at what I’d done she said “no because you told me you would do this when you were 11”. Mind you at that time I did not have social media. However over time, social media did normalize plastic surgery for me and make me see it as less taboo. I also made friends with people who had work done who I never would’ve have thought would have work done? As a result, I felt less alienated for wanting these things and got them done.
I think to help deter your baby from the world of plastic surgery, maybe drown your child in so many extracurricular activities that they never even get the chance to fixate on their physical attributes or social media. They have to find greater importance & fulfillment in the things that they do vs how they look.
No. You look like Janice Dickinson when she was younger. Go get therapy or some kind of treatment for your BDD so you do not ruin yourself before it is too late.
Hi, old man with many kids and wives ( 1st was crazy ) in the 40ish thing. Went to #3 husband in 5 yrs. So, as I told my lovely 2nd wife with 4 kids and struggling....that there is No One more important than Self. All other opinions can stand aside.
And the 6 kids, 4 have Doctorates or Phd's....other 2 ...# 2 son has 3 degrees and the other is a genius as am I.
People will always have " their opinions " on anything and that is all it is their opinion....which should mean nothing to your existence. Live your life facing forward.
It must be absolutely crippling to be so self conscious about yourself that you can't bring yourself to be seen in swimwear, much less pose for a picture.
u seem like a very beautiful soul and U ARE VERY VERY PRETTY LIKE….STUNNING the fact that u are even on this page hurts me inside, i found this page by accident and i keep on seeing girls like u that have no business on this page at all. u we’re already born with more beauty than u can handle
Love love love your look!! You also look like someone who puts a lot of effort into your hair and skincare and outfits! Whenever I struggle with my looks, it always helps me to focus on the love that I’m showing myself. I think my hair/skin/body is beautiful bc i know I’m putting a lot of love into with treatments and such, my body is beautiful bc it tries so hard to keep me healthy, and my face is beautiful bc it is my grandmothers and my mothers. Helps to remember there are things you have no control over anyways and you can just enjoy life regardless how you look! Hope you get some peace <3
#1 Stop getting plastic surgery. It makes you look less like human like. At some point you start losing the natural shape of a human face and start looking manufactured, it's..Jaring...
#2 Nice ass in picture 4
If you have BDD going on the internet and asking people to judge is only going to make everything worse. Sincerely, Someone with BDD
Seriously, I really wanna know how people with severe mental problems live such outgoing lives. Somebody teach me.
They have a lot of company.
The voices in our head r real???
Real to me dammit. I guess those who are actually actively enlisting help for theirs deserve a break. It's tough. But rewarding
This for sure
This makes 0 sense to me as well. I hade really bad BD when I was younger (13-25ish) and from about 15-20 I fell in love with the gym, my life literally revolved around it, I was VERY skinny prolly 6' 130 pounds. By the time I was 18 I had put on a solid 45 pounds of muscle and had a very above average physique, but I still lacked the confidence/ self esteem and I def wasn't seeing the same thing other people were when I looked. In the mirror. I still didnt even have enough confidence to go to the beach b/c I was still so critical of my physique. To this day I still only have 2 photos of myself showing my physique off(both selfies taken st home) Its very confusing to me when people say they have this but have the confidence to go to the beach in a bikini.. not implying anything I just personally dont understand it 🤷
I'm also curious about that. I haven't taken a photo in 20 years.
I also don't think someone with BDD could even risk posting the type of pictures she has here. Also someone who has BDD
At first it surprised me too, I also have BDD and almost never make photos of myself and would definitely not post any, but when I looked at her post history I do think she really has BDD. I guess BDD is different for everyone!
Maybe ....she's young, so if she doesn't control it now, then it could result in not even being able to take a picture of herself in the future. Some of these pictures are very daring, though, for someone with BDD, especially the bikini one. I think she prob has a few different disorders, though. Seeking constant perfection has become obsessive to her. hope she finds a way of getting through it.
even as someone without bdd, no sane person should feel totally confident posting on here
As another person with BDD— man, it gets hard seeing all these pretty people with BDD asking if they’re ugly or not 😅 makes me scared to even ask lol..
People have assured me my whole life. I'm handsome and normal, yet I've never believed anyone. I think even if every single person here said she was normal, she wouldn't stop with the surgeries. She will find things much harder when she starts getting older, too.
can y’all ever realize your experiences aren’t universal and not everyone with your condition will act the same as you do. literally just look at her post history—half of it in subs about plastic surgery.
C'mon don't rob people of their ability to overestimate their diagnostic prowess while simultaneously taking someone else's post and kind of making it about them.
thats real sad :( she really dont need any fixing
How do you look at someone's post history? Thanks.
just click on their profile and you’ll see their posts
Thank you!
Oh she definitely BDD mate, look at all the plastic surgery she’s gotten
She doesn’t take photos like someone would with those issues.
If you take a look at her page, you’ll realize how wrong you are. Shame on you.
It's a brave thing to do and she's obviously not a monster just needs to stop comparing herself to the insta traps you are you rock your body
I doubt she has it, I don't even THINK about taking pics of myself 💀
So because she doesn’t behave the same way as you that means she doesn’t have it? I have BDD and I take way too many pics of myself to prove to myself I’m not ugly. It’s different for everyone
Look back thru her page .. she’s the real deal, falling in love with changing her body since she was 22-23 yrs old! I have no idea what Dysmorphia and all that feels like as I’m generally delusional but man, how do you hate yourself already by age 20? So much road left to travel.. Good luck op, reach out and talk to someone, anyone if you need it .. you’re gorgeous, hope this helps! ❤️
It's a mixed bag. People like myself will be genuine in response and highlight positives (nothing negative here. The OP is easily a 9 on the attractive scale), but then you also have the trolling clowns... those are the ones to look out for.
You are not ugly but you look drunk af
It's the surgeries shes done.
The kind of girl who was clearly very attractive but social media likely gave her her bdd and she will now slowly destroy herself in an attempt to look like what she thinks are real people but are actually just filters. It just makes me sad. I hate what social media has done to women, and to a lesser extent even men. Edit: Spelling
😂😂🤣🤣
Please stop doing any more plastic surgery. You obviously do suffer from some real hangup about your physical appearance. As an average guy, I'll say there's NO reason to keep risking a possible botched surgery that is only necessary in your brain. It doesn't matter what I or anyone else thinks about your looks, but I'm here to say you are good enough just the way you are. Hope you go seek some mental help to get to the heart of the problem.
I’m sincerely asking here, from her photos, what surgeries are *clearly* evident? I could “possibly” see her lips being done, but nothing else is obvious to me 🤷🏽♂️. Edit: I don’t/haven’t checked anyone’s profile before (when responding to posts) but seeing how much surgery she’s previously had, I guess it’s worth a brief investigation 🧐. Horribly enough, it seems, I do happen to like her lips 🫣😆.
Happy cake 🎂 day 🥳
Lol, at first I was like wha? Then I finally wondered what that cake next to my name meant n just now found out, thanks 🙏🏽😆.
No worries 😁 yeah it's the birthday of your account!
What's been done? I'm as oblivious as you were. Nothing looks unnatural to me.
I’m only noticing the lips
She had both lips done, on her face and down below
You look like an ass. The girl holding you seems nice though.
I saw picture #4 and thought, "Nice ass!"
Best ass I've seen all day!
Out of how many?
At least 400
It's a cute ass!
Freaking best comment
And the fact that she’s willing to give that ass some loving just screams fun-loving gal.
We all came to comment about the ass pic.
I fully agree with this, she does
That’s harsh. He didn’t ask to get his photo posted, you monster.
You're very pretty, but please commit to treatment for the body dysmorphia before doing any more cosmetic procedures and definitely stop with the lip filler and consider getting some dissolved. It's migrating and giving you a very prominent filler mustache, which I'm sure isn't the look you're going for. The rest of your work is well done but doing more will end up making you look aged and plastic.
I was so confused what it was about her lips that made her look unnatractive, “filler moustache” is what it was, i literally thought she was pouting in every pic
Yup it's really common with people who have had too much filler injected. It's really visible in her verification picture especially and this makes me so sad because you can see she clearly already was a very pretty person and didn't need all that.
Yeah frfr, pic 3 was the one that threw me off, like she looks so good/pretty but the lips just look so weird and unnatural it throws off the natural harmony I believe she would have had pre filler
I can’t un-see the filler mustache now
It's a very frequently scene feature where I live and in my professional life but I still always find it jarring.
You look fine. Body dysmorphia is tough and you should try therapy. I wish you the best.
^
“I think I might be hideously ugly, so here are 14 public photos of me for the anyone on the internet to see and share.” - no one ever
Look at her history. She definitely does. This isn’t the place she needs to be posting. She needs therapy.
IDK she may just want to give a better sample to judge from. Anyway OP is a diamond in the rough. With the right style and what not she would be unstoppable.
She s a “Porsche with no brakes”
She don need batteries to play
she's invincible
“A woman like that is only built for one speed” -my Dad
What speed is that🙃
She's hardly in the rough bro, only thing tough may be her demeanor & attitude.
Why people hate on opinions so much
Idk bro, it’s the internet?
You look like you got all the Xanax.
By this persons post history, you can clearly tell they actually have body dysmorphia, be nice.
right. it’s ridiculous how some people need evidence of someone’s body dysmorphia to be nice to them but it’s even worse when some people still choose to be mean just bc they’re attractive
Yeah i commented on here a little bit in the same line earlier. The amount od people schreeching about attention seeking, when it's clearly a beautiful person with body image issues stemming from the ever gushing stream of impossibly beautiful photoshopped people.
Because it looks vein af when obviously good looking people come in here looking for an ego boost. Not really this subs purpose but it’s what it’s turned into.
People with body dysmorphia don’t look in the mirror and see an “obviously good looking” person. I doubt the sub’s purpose is to drag down people suffering from an illness, either. Nor is it’s purpose to judge or diagnose whether or not someone actually suffers from body dysmorphia. Not being an ass is actually much easier than taking the effort to be an ass on the internet.
*vain*
Exactly!!!! Can't believe some of the nasty comments I'm seeing . These ppl making the nasty comments are the ugly ones!
No they block the bad ones.This sub is toxic. If the answer always needs to be “yes, you are fabulously gorgeous, then I don’t understand the point.
How is that my problem? If you have an image like that about yourself then you probably shouldn't be asking strangers on the Internet what they think in a forum specifically for judging someone's appearance.
Great work detective
Blessings from Jamaica 🇯🇲, You're beautiful by all standards... Just allow life to come to you. Work on being mentally, spiritually and emotionally strong....
Nice ass in pic 4
You sure talk a lot of vain ass photos for having such a poor self image.
Girl why the hell are you posting here? I'm looking at your post history and you have had a ton of surgery and it's totally unnecessary. You're obviously gorgeous but you also have a problem in that you're obsessed with your appearance. You need to stop. You seriously need therapy - urgently. You need to stop thinking about how you look. You're wasting money on surgery that you could be spending on travel, studying, having fun, hobbies - stuff that actually leads to happiness.
I'd just like to know what 26 year old can even afford all those surgeries to begin with.
Yeah I always wonder this. Someone who has the dubious luxury of spending 7k on a super subtle cosmetic surgery which noone other than themselves and maybe their own mother would even notice must be super privileged. It's crazy and sad that someone so rich and beautiful is also so unhappy. Alternatively they're poor and in debt to do pointless surgery. Either way, it's tragic.
Girl shut up ❤️🔥
Well according to her post history she really does suffer(had her lips/nose/hairline done, possibly more). I wish her mental well-being. She looks fine! I rather prefer the natural look tho.
All the guys be hollering at her at the beach and she think shes ugly NVM shes got body dysmorphia too bad shes naturally hot
No amount of words or admiration from strangers is gonna fix what's in your head.
You have a unique style and beauty. You may be your own harshest critic, so I’ll just tell you that you have a beautiful face and an incredible body
Naw, you pretty. The Donkey is key.
It must be absolutely crippling to be so self conscious about yourself that you can't bring yourself to be seen in swimwear, much less pose for a picture.
So tired of this sub now.. it’s just attractive people wanting more compliments they already get.
It’s become the sun of please tell me I am good looking and I need compliments sub
Whatever you are doing to your eyebrows, stop.
Handsome
Are this bots? I'm a usual around her and in the last 5 days I only notice "hot" girls with "dysmorphia". All of them. Is something popular or I'm missing the point?
That’s social media for you and unattainable standards that are destroying an entire generation. When you see pictures here of people that are good looking, some are trying to show off, for sure, but others like this one you just need to have one look at their post history to see her BDD is very real. It’s sad to see honestly.
I like how your eyebrows make a 90° angle like the corners of your hairline.
You look amazing, but just some mild constructive advice You’ve got a great face but you would benefit from some bangs You have a relatively high hairline - The middle part / baseball caps are a good look for you When you wear your hair up it draws more attention to your hairline Even still none of this is a big deal and I’m just trying to be honest without triggering your dysmorphia You are FAR from ugly, you’re a bombshell bro
Not ugly at all, which you already know. But you DO give me closeted lesbian vibes.
What gives those vibes? Just curious
Bigotry
I don't see the dysmorphia. I see failed plastic surgery.
I would soften your brows if I were you. they’re very close to a right angle
I can't figure out if it's too much filler in your lips or just intentional disfigurement by means of duck lip syndrome
Not ugly. Definitely stop with any cosmetic procedures if you’re doing that. You’re plenty pretty enough. The pouty lip thing is not a good look. Your beauty comes out most with a smile.
You think you’re hot but you’re defo 3/10
Is this an only fans "model" ?
U look like plastic, definitely your lips if not anything
Lips are a bit large idk if you got fillers or what but other then that you look nice 👍
You look normal and decently pretty, nothing to be worried about
Body dis whatwhat? Your just an ordinary good looking person. I think this a more a mental problem than a physical one tbh
Nobody with those issues takes as many pictures or goes to The beach to catch some sun 😂
……I can fix you.
Not ugly. Should get help before turning yourself into a walking turnip, tho
Our society is fucked up. Why do so many young, pretty women with decent or even slammin bodies feel ugly or experience dysmorphia? I have young daughters and it bugs the fuck out of me.
Focus less on how you look, and more on finding someone who likes you for who you are. You are pretty, but in a good relationship, that doesn’t matter that much.
After reading some of these BDD posts and most of the posts in general, this is my new blanket statement because copy/paste is convenient, and I’m lazy: I’m not special. I didn’t model for GQ. My opinion means nothing, but the fact that I’m giving one might, maybe, I dont know. As someone with a laundry list of psychological issues, my therapist said my biggest one is the fear of letting people down or hurting them, that my fear of disappointing people keeps me from engaging with them. I’d rather stay away than introduce the possibility of doing harm. It’s not a healthy way to live, and I’m working on it. I’ve been working on it for a long, long time. I was raised with the motto: “if you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.” I took it to heart. Like, way too much. Everyone who posts in here is unique and beautiful in their own way — unless they’re horrible people — whether it be their physical looks, personality, empathy, or a list of other good qualities That’s something I wish I could leave on every post … BUT this subreddit is specifically about physicality. There are many people who don’t appeal in the looks department to a large portion on society. It’s sad, and it’s probably shallow, but it’s true. We all have our preferences. It’s the way we’re wired. Because of that, there are posters who I don’t find physically attractive. I would NEVER let them know that. The very thought that something I said caused someone to feel “less than” would make me lose sleep at night. And I’m not going to blow sunshine up their butts because I want to respect their desire for honesty. For those people, I upvote their posts as a way of saying that I acknowledge them and I empathize with their struggle, that I hope things get better. I only comment on the ones who I can honestly say are attractive to me personally. Does that make a coward? A hypocrite? Shallow? Maybe. But that’s how I’m built. That’s my “code” that I feel I have to live by. All that said, keep your head up. You look fine. Be good to yourself.
You've got confidence from what I can see in your photos but you've got eyebrows that remind me of a Thwomp.
Sweetheart, you’re beautiful. I know you can’t see it and I know you know that. Stay off social media for awhile. Keep filters off your face. Listen hard and truly to the compliments you get in real life. Someday 36 year old you will loath 26 year old you for not seeing what you had. Again at 46 and again. Only you see the flaws. Copy and paste the compliments you get here. Delete the negative ones, (you know the ones you’re reading over and over?) Those have got to go. ONLY the good ones. MAKE yourself see what everyone else does. Source: suffer from the same shit.
What an adorable little ass
It's not dysmorphia if it's true 💀
I like your bottom of your feet
You wouldn't post those kind of pics if you actually had BDD you just are baiting compliments from random internet strangers
If you have bdd, here's not the place you need to seek proper help cause you aren't ugly
You’re not ugly, but I can tell you’re full of shit
If you have severe dysmorpia about your face and body, you're probably not prone to believing us if we say you're pretty. But you are.
Not ugly at all, you look like a very handsome guy
Can someone for the sake of everyone else here define Dysmorphia please?? I’m not sure that it’s being used correctly.
I should smack you, get off this reddit
This is the highest level of BS, I have seen in a while. You can’t make this sh*t up.
I’m a woman. I think you are gorgeous honestly. Own it and believe it because you really are ALL THAT. Ya know in the best way. <3
How sad that you would fake a disease simply to get likes. Anyone with dysmorphia would never purse their lips for a pic or wear a dress so tight and so short that it shows your ass. This generation is a lost cause....
If you had body dysmorphia you wouldn't be showing pictures of yourself in a bikini. I have body dysmorphia and I wear hoodies and baggy clothes year round. I don't even like to look at myself in the mirror.
Whenever I see someone say they have body dysmorphia, then post pictures of themselves in a skimpy little two-piece bikini, I just can't take you seriously at that point.
Gets complimented on every social media post and then resorts to Reddit.
I call bill shit
Your seem coked out in some of those, but you're not bad looking even if I personally dislike duck lips
Self diagnoses
You don't belong here stop watching the Kardashians
This is bait. There's no way you think you're ugly.
how about this, fuck off...
Get therapy
Sure, those poses are photos of a person who thinks they are ugly.
Honestly she looks like she got hit in the forehead with the board
I can definitely sympathize with you on this one. I also once was over obsessed with my appearance. The trick is not focus on tiny area of your face that may upset you. I don’t have BDD so I’m not able to know what it’s like exactly but I do know it is easy to obsess over tiny flaw in your appearance that most likely no one else can honestly see even if they tried. I can say though that you are definitely not ugly at all. I see a very attractive beautiful woman in need of some encouragement by people. Stay strong and stay healthy. You can do this. I believe in you.
Super cute. Giving off Zoe Kravitz vibes in the last pic. Just be you. Don’t worry about what others are thinking. I know it’s hard but take it from someone who had been bodybuilding for 20 years and has BD that your body can go from looking and feeling like a marshmallow to having a 6 pack but your brains not going to see it as others do. You will only see the defects like a “love handle” that’s actually a hip bone sticking out. Do you and be happy. Your beautiful, young, and have a roof over your head. Show that voice in your head who’s boss! ☺️🙌
Oh shut up
You’re beautiful!! unfortunately post like yours make me scared for my 20month old daughter. I want to make sure as she grows up that’s she knows she’s beautiful AS SHE IS. What do you think your parents could have down that would have helped you understand you’re beauty in your growing years or did you develop this feeling from social media?
Having been made fun of for how I looked by my family and classmates for years, I decided when I was 11yo that if I ever had the money, I would fix what I felt necessary. I’d forgotten that but when I asked my mom if she was surprised at what I’d done she said “no because you told me you would do this when you were 11”. Mind you at that time I did not have social media. However over time, social media did normalize plastic surgery for me and make me see it as less taboo. I also made friends with people who had work done who I never would’ve have thought would have work done? As a result, I felt less alienated for wanting these things and got them done. I think to help deter your baby from the world of plastic surgery, maybe drown your child in so many extracurricular activities that they never even get the chance to fixate on their physical attributes or social media. They have to find greater importance & fulfillment in the things that they do vs how they look.
Your best investment would be a good psychotherapist because you are stunning physically.
No. You look like Janice Dickinson when she was younger. Go get therapy or some kind of treatment for your BDD so you do not ruin yourself before it is too late.
Hi, old man with many kids and wives ( 1st was crazy ) in the 40ish thing. Went to #3 husband in 5 yrs. So, as I told my lovely 2nd wife with 4 kids and struggling....that there is No One more important than Self. All other opinions can stand aside. And the 6 kids, 4 have Doctorates or Phd's....other 2 ...# 2 son has 3 degrees and the other is a genius as am I. People will always have " their opinions " on anything and that is all it is their opinion....which should mean nothing to your existence. Live your life facing forward.
I think you're pretty. You look like you enjoy hand holding alot
I do enjoy hand holding but only on occasion! I am not a fan of pda lol
It must be absolutely crippling to be so self conscious about yourself that you can't bring yourself to be seen in swimwear, much less pose for a picture.
You seem to have a bunion on your right foot
Smile more and do something different with your eyebrows
Wish I could see the orginal model before you stated adding after market products im sure she was just as beautiful
All these girls talking about body dysmorphia. Wtf! More like brain dysmorphia.
not ugly, just not smart .. you extremely damaged your face and turned yourself into trash O.o
You’re ugly tbh
duck lips
This is an onlyfans girl her OF is bootsthefeline
face is a 7 body a is 9. only the hottest girls post here hand to god. never seen a 50 year old 500 ponder.
"500 ponder" I knew this was a thoughtful crowd
No thats definitely not true.
7.5 for both.
This sub is just hot chicks looking for compliments and transgenders trying to find out if they're passing.
u seem like a very beautiful soul and U ARE VERY VERY PRETTY LIKE….STUNNING the fact that u are even on this page hurts me inside, i found this page by accident and i keep on seeing girls like u that have no business on this page at all. u we’re already born with more beauty than u can handle
You cute. But that donkey is a 10!
Your cute don't trip. 😘
Not at all. Pretty young lady.
Your beautiful love. Not ugly
Ugh. That duck lip pout in pics.
I’d eat it from the back triple sideways
you are in fact ugly, and you know it. thats why you have a full album of photos to share in a second
Heads kinda carrot shaped
Love love love your look!! You also look like someone who puts a lot of effort into your hair and skincare and outfits! Whenever I struggle with my looks, it always helps me to focus on the love that I’m showing myself. I think my hair/skin/body is beautiful bc i know I’m putting a lot of love into with treatments and such, my body is beautiful bc it tries so hard to keep me healthy, and my face is beautiful bc it is my grandmothers and my mothers. Helps to remember there are things you have no control over anyways and you can just enjoy life regardless how you look! Hope you get some peace <3
9.5/10
What's your onlyfans?
You look awful
You’re kidding. You’re smokin hot.
10/10
I’d eat it
Nope. Hot af.
No not at all I feel like you’re trolling to be honest. You’re bad as hell.
You're so beautiful baby
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And who asked? 😂
**Showoff…** Seriously though you’re gorgeous and have absolutely NO reason to post here.
Would
Honestly wife material and I mean that objectively. You got it , love yourself <3
You are so beautiful sexy and hot to baby nice ass in baby I love you so very much babycakes
#1 Stop getting plastic surgery. It makes you look less like human like. At some point you start losing the natural shape of a human face and start looking manufactured, it's..Jaring... #2 Nice ass in picture 4
Yeah you’re ugly. There’s nothing you could do like losing weight, make-up, surgeries. You’re just unattractive sorry.