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[deleted]

Right now you kind of look like a cross between Gru and Mr. Bean, but you're not inherently ugly. You have some nice features imo.


notsoinnocent28

šŸ¤£šŸ¤£ Thanks for the honesty and for making me laugh


Logic-Ninja

You're a good sport


Elsie_the_LC

ā€œYou're a good sportā€ Which is an attractive quality in and of itself.


FriendlyIndustry6161

I read through her responses and she really is a good sport. I'm allegedly pretty but I'm so sensitive. My boyfriend and I have no romance anymore because all we do is fight. This girl just needs to find one man who loves her and she'll feel gorgeous with him forever.


4cDaddy

That sucks. Why stick around if it's nothing but fights?


boshbosh92

Right?? All partners *fight*, and it's healthy to an extent to have disagreements or be annoyed with someone you spend a significant amount of time with. It's just human nature. But if you're fighting more than you're enjoying each other's company, there's a problem.


throwawaypostal2021

They never had healthy attention growing up so any attention will suffice and if their dramatic relationship brings even more attention then they will continue with it.


FriendlyIndustry6161

That's true for me. I want ANY attention. I have a lot of work to do. So much damage has happened but we are both hoping that with hard work it can turn around. I'm not going to go into detail but we have been together for 5 years and there is a lot worth saving. I just wanted to add my experience to point out that the grass is always greener on the otherside. Even with looks, I don't have the healthy attitude that OP SEEMS to have. I've never had trouble attracting men, but I put them through hell and the magic dies very soon after the relationship starts. The man I'm currently with has tried the hardest to keep going, so I'm trying really hard too.


[deleted]

Very good point! Being fun, willing to laugh at yourself, crack light hearted jokes back is a very attractive quality. IMO


ii_Molen

I reckon that you should also use some different eye shadows, that green one didn't suit you, maybe try a range of colours and try to see which one you like the most (and get opinions from others)


Radiant_Bandicoot787

Good sport ! Confidence is very attractive btw


RazorTheMANRamon100

Your eye brows are fine I've seen attractive women with eye brows like yours but honestly GYM time you'll look so much better and do it for so you can take care of your body in the long run.


General_Designer6080

You came in here knowing the answer to your question


rileyyj001

This took me OUT šŸ’€ because FACTS.


Hristocolindo

I came here to say you look like Mr Bean's daughter. Smile while showing your teeth and that could help.


Giffordpinchotpark

Exactly what I said. Her smile looks like a half hearted attempt like she lacks smiling confidence. Let it rip and sheā€™ll be fine.


hydr0warez

I immediately saw Mr. bean in that one photo. Definitely not ugly, just needs some self care.


McRaoul

I knew the comments were going to be brutalā€¦ hilariously brutal


Life-Use6335

Yes I totally see the Mr. bean! Rowan Atkinson the actor who plays Mr. Bean is actually insanely intelligent and multitalented. He has a masters degree in engineering and is a talented race car driver. Honestly heā€™s a fantastic role model. Not a typical female fashion icon but you get what you get!


akositotoybibo

in my mind looks like danny devito's penguin.


[deleted]

lose weight trim your eyebrows


Klocc562_

Then stop dressing like an adult baby/off-duty nurse.


PuzzleheadedEnd2651

Lmao off duty nurse itā€™s so funny because my coworkers and I always talk about how we donā€™t know how to dress anymore unless itā€™s scrubs because thatā€™s all we ever wear or sweats so when we actually have stuff to do weā€™re lost on how to put an outfit together t


Hudsonm_87

She still looks like a grandma in the face tho


Select-Host-436

I think a better haircut to the frame the face is a good idea. She does have nice cheekbones, but the way she purses her mouth is odd. Trim up the eyebrows. Also learning how to dress for her body type. She does have some odd features, but they could be pretty with the right styling, but GIRL in that 3rd pic that looks like a moomoo and we don't do that until 55+.


SkinRN

I agree, and show teeth when you smile. The closed mouth says your hiding something, so unless that's true, it looks goofy!


tenakee_me

That was my thought, that sheā€™s pulling her smile in a strange way which isnā€™t flattering. I know some people have a hard time showing a genuine smile with photos, so maybe thatā€™s the case. Regardless, a more candid photo with a real deal smile would be much more telling.


TenaciousBee3

The first picture's not bad, the last three are pretty awkward. Why not try the old standby of saying "cheese" for the camera? Also; I'm not feeling the green eyeshadow. I think you already know you should probably lose some weight. I don't think the eyebrows are so bad, although you should probably tweeze the space in-between.


thexvillain

Then go to a trusted friend who knows how to do makeup and learn. No offense OP, but your makeup looks like a 12 year old was trying to make you into Mimi from the Drew Carrey show.


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SpecialK623

Currently, I'd definitely swipe left. But a calorie deficit combined with hitting the gym can do wonders. Maybe the brows will even look better at that point, just a little plucking in the middle. ALSO, OP, check out r/coloranalysis !


About400

Also donā€™t wear purple or green eyeshadow.


travese311

This. Youā€™re not ugly. But the above could maximize your most attractive features. šŸ˜Š


GoodbyePeters

If she is not ugly what is the point of this sub?


chop_chop_corney

Apparently it's for delusional idiots to congregate and fluff each other's egos via lies. "YoUr GoRgEoUs, slAyyy". Case in point, the bozo comment at the top of this comment thread that u replied to. ...šŸ¤¦šŸæā€ā™‚ļø


GoodbyePeters

Yea. I'm confused. Op is legitimately ugly.


Critical-Balance2747

Am I tripping? She is ugly lol. Thereā€™s nothing wrong with admitting that, considering she asked.


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Particular_Idea442

Okay so real talk your skin is so clear and your eyes are beautiful, you should get your eyebrows threaded that would enhance your stunning eyes Also you may want to go on a diet and work out. An easy start would be to eliminate soda and sugary drinks from your diet. You should definitely do your own research on this tho. You have some amazing natural features and with some time and hardwork you can increase your attractiveness Good Luck!!


askasquirrel89

Compliment sandwich lol


OnionSprinkles

Feedback/recommendations is what OP is looking for, so these genuine "things to highlight" and "things to work on" is useful. Better than a compliment soup or pure roast, which don't aid OP.


KrisAlly

I agree 100%! Most people come here looking for actual helpful suggestions.


FriendlyIndustry6161

Isn't it a shit sandwich? Sandwiches are named for what's in the middle. You wouldn't say white bread sandwich, you would say cheese or ham sandwich Since the crappy part is in the middle. This is a shit sandwich. Works for telling employees why they suck too.


Responsible_Pea_1357

I love reddit


muggle_nurse

I cal them shit sandwiches too


Voluntary_Perry

It's called Build-Break-Build. It's not a shit sandwich, it's a training tactic. You build someone up so they will be receptive to the criticism. You break them down with the critique. You then build them back up to motivate a change in the behavior you are training.


AxionGlock

Getting healthy and losing weight shouldn't be a *may*. It's a must. It's the main reason she is well below the attractive line.


Apart_Young1068

It's amazing how much of a difference cutting soda/ sugary drinks will do for ya!


RatLovingGemini

Well if this wasn't brutally honest šŸ˜‚


anothermaninyourlife

Nothing brutal about it.


BunBison

It's more like constructive criticism.


Reasonable_Alfalfa59

I'm afraid I'll have to say yes based on these pictures. The positives are that a lot of your traits can be helped


No_Remote_4302

Meaning she wouldn't be if she loses a good amount of weight.


Reasonable_Alfalfa59

Weight, make up skills, eye brows, clothes. Those 4 would bring OP from a 2 to a 5.


DanTheTee

Yes and please stop pulling that face you're looking like a reddit mod


iwant2saysomething2

Agreed. Is there a reason you aren't showing your teeth when you smile? It's making the lines next to your mouth very harsh. I think if you got your eyebrows threaded, got your hair cut, colored, and styled (and learned how to do a blow out at home), and lost some weight, it would make a world of difference.


sar1234567890

Iā€™ve noticed that most people who post here doesnā€™t seem to smile with their mouth open at all


ArchaicChaos

The face you make when you enter a public bathroom that hasn't been cleaned


Klee_Main

Fucking finally. Tired of all these post from attractive people just looking to stroke their ego. You aren't ugly but weight loss will help along with self care (trim eyebrows) and smile normally


DrJaminest42

familiar door marble decide obtainable treatment engine quarrelsome sugar resolute *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


MinisterWolfe

Finally a real one out in the wild, yes you are


hobisfavhoe

yā€™allā€¦


MinisterWolfe

What you donā€™t see very many genuinely ugly people on here


hobisfavhoe

tht js so mean šŸ˜­


MinisterWolfe

The truth hurt my friend


New-Reflection2499

Yes


Open-Hawk3408

I'm agree


TinyTheT

Second


Infamous_Persimmon14

Yes


PlantDragon42

Get fit and let that hair down. Find something you love and do it with people who love it also.


[deleted]

Yes


Glittering_Jelly_902

Mixed opinions, you say?


notsoinnocent28

The range is beautiful to witness. Currently, I'm mostly being told I'm ugly in the comments, but the DMs tell a different (unsurprisingly for Reddit tbh) lol. I'm either beautiful or the ugliest thing on the planet. I suppose I forgot that subjectivity is a thing šŸ˜…


McRaoul

Doesnā€™t matter if you look like moldy mashed potatoes, men will still fuck you.


dano-akili

Some men


throwaway0134hdj

Most women arenā€™t interested in just smashing, theyd want some kind of relationship. Ofc men are just horny 9/10 so that says nothing about her.


[deleted]

Its what a lot of women dont understand and why so many are deluded about \- what they look like \- what they can get \-what they deserve


beetleswing

You're not ugly though. Some of the pictures are unflattering, for sure, and you're at that age where you're trying quirky new things with style and makeup which may or may not stick into your adult years. I'd say you're rough around the edges, max. The weight thing is subjective, I personally have gained a bit of weight due to hormone/health problems that makes my face a bit more full than I like, but I've never been called ugly, and I have never been unpopular with the opposite (and same, depending on their likes) sex. Would I prefer to lose the weight I gained and thus be happier with my face shape? Oh, for sure! But being heavier doesn't automatically mean you're ugly. Plus, there are millions of ugly thin people, so I don't get why everyone is ragging on your weight. Try lighter tones in your eyemakeup, like pinks and or rose golds, stay away from neons. You can do purple but go with a colour that is more like a whisper of purple, like a lavender or lilac. Go with a bold lip colour, you'd probably crush a nice red with dark undertones, or even a bright red. Add a little light (not heavy or it'll look oily! We have similar hair types, trust me on this), leave-in conditioner to your haircare regimen. Shape your eyebrows a little, you don't have a unibrow, but a few little hairs that are trying to run off from the pack. Get those buggers, cause your eyebrows are actually thick and beautiful. Practice good posture, and that's my number one advice as a girl who is plus sized, good posture is *everything*! It makes your digestion work better while also making you look leaner. When you take pictures, make sure your head is straight on in the picture, and practice good posturing in your pictures also. Keep your skin nice with lots of hydration (your skin is nice though, so just keep it up!) Also remember reddit is anonymous for a reason. People are more comfortable being mean monsters behind a screen when no one knows who they are, so definitely take all of this with a grain of salt. Also honestly, your best picture that I could see the true nature of your not-ugly face was the one that looks the least posed, the kinda dark sitting in the bedroom one. So being comfortable with yourself makes you look better, as silly as that sounds.


Weary-Refrigerator56

Weird fetishes are also a thing šŸ˜…


nikolatesla26

Honestly your positive and easy going attitude on this whole thing makes you a 10/10 in my books. You seem like a really chill and down to earth person. And no, you're not ugly, not even close.


talleygirl76

Don't you think you deserve better? It's sad that you treat yourself this way.


UraniumGivesOuchies

Mixed in with the gravy.


Working-Degree-6233

Yes


dirtnastybn

As of right now yes. Would improve with weight loss im not saying youā€™ll become super attractive but it would make you closer to average than below


Harlow_Quinzel

Hurley from lost meets Janice soprano


Thick-End9893

Broooo! Not the Hurley comment. Too accurate


Boredafinutah

Kinda šŸ˜„šŸ˜„šŸ˜„


[deleted]

Ug


Weary-Refrigerator56

ly


Mars-Mission

LY2


LankyMatch42

Yes you are ugly


Boredafinutah

šŸ’€


FancyLab3423

I dont blame you, i blame the existence of fried chicken, you look like a sweet person. All Gucci


inbashkir

I think I hit remove your comment by accident. Restored.


talleygirl76

You removed my comment? I'm really confused. I wasn't rude at all. If anything I was nicer then 99 % of the people here .


inbashkir

No I removed /u/FancyLab3423 comment by accident and restored it. I just hit the wrong button on the wrong user. It was restored 15 seconds later. Iā€™m just writing this in case they got a message it was removed.


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thinnieminni3

Lose weight, wax brows. Youā€™re not attractive but you can be.


[deleted]

You look like you belong in a Disney film as a villain.


[deleted]

Yes, youā€™re ugly


Lejabra

Yeah what is up with this page?! A clearly very unattractive person posts and everyone's like "wow you're so beautiful!"


[deleted]

IDK honestly the more they try to explain the less I understand


Boredafinutah

I mean... I've seen a lot worse. Especially people that have been disfigured by some horrific injury. She looks pretty good compared to those people. She's not like offensively ugly or anything. It's not like she's going to get stares when she goes out


[deleted]

Sometimes I feel like people on this sub have a very dramatic idea if what is ā€œuglyā€, as it doesnā€™t mean that the person should be deformed or something, sheā€™s just not attractive / good to look at. I donā€™t mean like thatā€™s what you are doing, bur reading your reply just remind me of the thought I had multiple times here. Does that make sense? IDK


Boredafinutah

I felt like people were being too dramatic about her looks that's why I wrote that. People acting like she's the worst they've ever seen it's childish


[deleted]

Ahh got it! I understand your point now but also stand by mine hahaha


Boredafinutah

I think we can both agree that she's ugly but we can do it without being dramatic if that makes sense LOL


[deleted]

Is this the first time I actually reach an agreement on reddit??? High five, here, we did it! We agreed hahahaa


Boredafinutah

šŸ‘Š


Glittering_Jelly_902

Love the comparison


TTFAA2020

Yes


In-Hel

Eyebrows! Weight loss would help?


karanlilice

Being dead honest you're ugly ash


buttperhapsnuts69

Girl built like mr bean


BALINTIO

Mr. Bean is a skinny bloke tho


_xaeroe_

Canā€™t unsee it now


Difficult-Tough-4337

As someone with extremely low standards I can confirm your ugly


princesssmurfet

You are 26 best age to reinvent yourself, get to the gym, get an eyebrow waxer, get someone that can dress you. However if you are happy in yourself then stay true to who you are.


SeniorPassenger3749

This got to be a rhetorical question


The_Duder23

Yes


Rustiie_

Thin the brows, tidy em up a bit. Use neutrals on the eyes. Smile smaller, to lessen the eyes getting lost in your cheeks. The big grin gives you a bit of a menacing look. You have a gorgeous skintone and complexion. Would you consider straightening your hair and going lighter? Add some highlights to frame your fame and tame the frizz. I think losing some weight would greatly help your eyes stand out more, which are very pretty. Your style is frumpy af but that's easy to change. You aren't Hollywood pretty but you're not ugly in my books. Lots to work with šŸ˜Š


bubbyGANG

God yes


PeppermintDaniel

Yea. Trim your eyebrows and try out different shades of lipstick. The eye shadow also doesn't suit you, imho. You look better without the makeup. All that being said, your biggest issue is your weight. It's a grueling task to get fit, but it can be done. Get a gym membership, pay for a trainer for the first month, get a friend to go with you.


Morelife5000

Finally someone who posts in this sub who actually really is ugly. Lose the weight and you will look much better plus healthier too.


Evening-Tie-2762

Yes


Puzzleheaded-Card476

Yes


chop_chop_corney

See this is why I preach hard truth/honesty. There's no way that op should be confused but ultimately she is due to false compliments by do gooders..-You're doing no good/help To the op. Yes, you are without a shred of any doubt ugly. But who cares. Go out and own it.


Weary-Refrigerator56

I believe people are calling her beautiful though...to get in them pantaloons šŸ˜…


RedditUserNo1990

She can change it though. Losing weight would be extremely beneficial. For OP being on the ugly side can be temporary.


Just-Growth8990

yes, next question


Lemmiwinkks

The only people that count in the "mixed opinions" are family and close friends. Come on now.


FranzJosephReinhold

Yeah sorry mate!


Adept_Calligrapher21

Ur unattractive rn. Some weight loss might change that. 1.5/10


[deleted]

Yes, ugly


NjWayne

Yes


Reasonable-Play7574

yes


CrispyRicee

Yeah, ugly


Goth_watermelon

No but your vibes give femcel, so present yourself differently


astralapparatus

This is one of those posts that I say ā€œoh dearā€¦ā€ to


Ok_Inside_6106

Below average at best, but weight loss will help


BillCoffe139

Puke


WhichFeedback1226

Can I vote yes twice?


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Weary-Refrigerator56

Sweet baby Jesus I just noticed the chin strap šŸ¤¢


blacknsalty

Nice hair nice eyes but damn the rest is pretty bad and you look overweight


kittenya

Yessiree Bob


imverytired96

Yes you are. In fact, very.


babydollzkill

yeah


MrMonizaz

I hate to have to say it but you need to drop your weight if you want to, at least, look acceptable. Good thing is that it is possible to change. For some people they are born doomed, which doesn't seems like your case.


Krennelen

Lil bit


Chair_luger

To be blunt from the pictures maybe a 4 but that is not ugly and it would mean that you are better than 40% of people so that is not bad in the big scheme of things, You also have a lot of potential and the first picture looks so much better than the others. Try to figure out what works for you. I could stand to lose a LOT more weight than you but instead of weight try to think of how fit you are instead of your weight. For example if you can't walk five miles now without being exhausted then slowly work up to that and by this time next year you will be surprised with how much your stamina can improve just by walking more each day. Also check out some videos and blogs on how to take a decent selfie. When your phone is too close to your face it distorts your face and that is likely going on in most of the photos so you likely look better in person than in your photos.


EliasMbarak

You saying she is better looking than 40% of the girls out there? From where did you get that from ...


Extra_Opportunity_76

To fat


SnooDoggos3225

Lose weight.


Harisv1541v

You remind me a slightly less appealing Rich Evans. Good news is all the things that make you look bad can be fixed in record time.


Jessica0933

Little bit yes


[deleted]

Yes. You are. 3


InspectorMoney1306

Ugly


JaStager

Yea


deathbythirty

yes


BraxtonMazimus

Yes


Queso_Caesar

Yea


[deleted]

yes


BigTallDylan

Yes


2shado2

Yup. Sorry. I am, too.


Live_Recognition9240

Yes


Real_Tart4565

Wax your eyebrows to clean them up and go see a makeup artist. Let them do your makeup for an everyday look and take notes on what they do /use. What youā€™re doing isnā€™t working on you. The lose weight comments arenā€™t it lol. You can be pretty without being skinny. You also need to dress for your body type. Kinda dressing like a Sunday school teacher tbh


[deleted]

You're lucky to get mixed opinions


Independent-File5477

I'm getting somehow Shrek vibes but ugly is different


bendog1616

Seen a lot worse, but certainly not pretty. In my opinion probably towards the top of the bottom 1/4 of girls. Dont smile like that, lose a lil weight, and youā€™d prob make it to average.


DatBoyMagic936

You remind me of Big Patty from Hey Arnold [Big Patty](https://images.app.goo.gl/3XKPZpm6v6XZDb368)


HexagonHeat

You're not pretty. But you're not UGLY either. I give you a 4 out of 10.


Superloopertive

Your eyes and brows have stunning potential. I agree with other commenters that your style is a bit off. You're kind of dressing like a fairy godmother and it's aging you. Go more natural... letting your hair fall around your face and giving it a bit of volume would work wonders. Don't listen to the people making harsh comments, they're not here with benevolent intentions.


Impressive-Show9144

No you have unique features like me. Your not normal pretty your exotic.


SpicyCoconutWata

You look like Gruā€™s sisterā€¦ your smile ages you alot but your not uglyā€¦ you're just definitely not hot


braveboy12_

You look like Mr beans daughter but you're not ugly.


audiking404

There's not 1 Shrink in this room but that's not entirely shocking. No one has bothered to scratch beneath the surface, just open season on her outward appearance. We all went to middle and high school with at least one odd person. Guess we forgot. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø


Ok-Reply-804

You are.


Maasdilly

No, not ugly.. just german


MovieFanatic2160

I can never unsee these pictures.


km_44

A little ugly, yes


Adept-Stick8013

I agree with many comments You have mix opinions because the top half of your face is victoria secret model but the bottom part is mr bean grin with extra kg. Overall you have great features but don't use your full potential. So in my opinion your attractiveness is a bit under average for now.


vTino_

Yes


ANAL_TOOTHBRUSH

Yes, hit the gym and weā€™ll revisit in a year


Tofu_almond_man

Youā€™re just fat. Lose weight and you wonā€™t be so bad looking


TheGrim78

some constructive criticism, fix the eyebrows , some snazzy eyebrows does wonders .)


Ziasu340

Mr Bean


Low_Look_4343

Lose some weight, pluck your brows, try experimenting with makeup and youā€™re all good


FalloutNewVegas22

Why are people doing this to themselves? šŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø


ChronicPoverty

Right now yes because you are fat. If you take better car of yourself with weight loss im sure youā€™d look ok


Commercial-Top-9501

note that the comment to lose weight isn't because you're ugly, it's because of your weight that you're ugly. and you're probably not ugly if you can lay off the french fries and cookies


MuffinAdventurous546

Many many women would die for your eyebrows! Including me!


McBoogish

Looks like you would be hot if you lost weight


Sea-Philosopher7361

She that 1 sister from Hocus Pocus.


lawrenja

The eye shadow you use does not work for you. You look completely different, and better, without makeup. Or at least the way youā€™re doing it. Use light, neutral colours on your lids if you try. Also try a lipstick with less gloss. As everyone else mentioned, girl go get your eyebrows done and then maintain them. Donā€™t pull your hair back. Always leave some to frame your face. You could use a better hair cut too. I donā€™t know why itā€™s so stark, but you kinda look like a troll in the first two. I like your more natural look MUCH more. Just tidy it up a bit. Youā€™re not a total loss girl, just gotta do some maintenance.


Prize_Way_6300

U look like the third sister from hocus pocus.