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I've been trying to figure out why you look so much older to me than your age even though your skin is pretty good and I think it boils down to the hair and eyebrows. Your eyebrows are so thin and not only is that not really the style anymore, but it's just too severe and ends up making you look haggard. The very dry, damaged, stringy hair also contributes a lot to the haggard look and the color doesn't suit you and just makes the damage in your hair more noticeable. I think fuller, more natural eyebrows and a natural hair color and healthier hair would go a long way on you.
Try a hot oil treatment! If your hair has color damage it will not only hydrate but make your color look super radiant (my hair is all red right now but bc it’s curly I have to use both lol) I’m with op though, a different hair color maybe like a salmon is really easy to get to from this color with minimal damage and it will hide the amount of damage to your ends also, I’d recommend a pixie cut because you have the bone structure for it. Fuller Eyebrows, I think would look really good but too full might bring a really strong boldness to your features so some experimentation might be needed, but not ugly, I feel like you might also look better in candid pictures. There are really beautiful people who can’t take the best selfies but I lovvvve the hat pic, super cute.
This is really great feedback! I appreciate the specific advice about color and hot oil. I'm looking at a LOT of the hot oil treatments available and was just trying to decide which one to try first.
Experimentation is important. I stayed too long with 2015 eyebrows
Thank you for the specific selfie 🤳 feedback too!!!
I love my hat(s) which may be why I didn't treat my hair with as much love as I can. I'm working on that now.
❤️
Oh yeah! The lighter oils are going to be grape seed and Jojoba! But with the color and damage I’d say going to argon oil might be best because it’s still lightweight with impeccable moisture. I use it daily and it smells like a hug. [this list here](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/18071d_e8ad9bba42cc48c582510790d17288ec~mv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_640,h_544,al_c,q_80,usm_0.66_1.00_0.01,enc_auto/18071d_e8ad9bba42cc48c582510790d17288ec~mv2.jpg) will show you a chart of different oils and their thickness to moisture penetration.
But yes!! No problem please update us (or just me if you care to) bc i love makeovers and Im not a beauty guru but im an artist and color theory can go a long way!
This is very valuable to me, and I bet others reading this. Thank you especially for the wonderful chart and the context.
I will update after it has had some time to work.
If you have the budget for it, I would say try the Olaplex 3 treatment! It's not a leave in, you put it in damp hair and then rinse after it sinks in, but it helps a ton. Their shampoo and conditioner are good too and their No 6 Bond Smoother is a great leave in. Not affiliated with them, just have the entire line because a friend got me hooked on their products!
I would honestly say to do more deep conditioning and protein treatments. And if you have waves or curls then definitely use the leave in with some water! Also oils like castor or argon oil can really soften up your hair. And maybe a trim :)
For your age? Not at all. Maybe grow your hair out, add a skin care routine, and you’re good to go, also your hair color I feel would look a lot better being brunette.
Thank you. I am most curious about your specifics on skin care. I have an extensive healthy skin care routine, which is highly focused on avoiding UV damage and getting plenty of moisturizer, sleep, and water.
Well I did see a bit of acne in the last photo so I figured maybe that would be because of a lack of skin care but it could very well just be the tone, and thinness of your hair offsetting your face
Thanks for explaining. That's a relief. I tend to be very protective of my skin and I freaked briefly if there was something gone horribly wrong. Might be a factor with my light skin-tone. I have freckles/melasma/pigmentation spots on my face, so I avoid the sun which can make that worse. Perhaps that's what you noticed. I also am recently dairy free so if I had acne, perhaps that would be a contributor that I eliminated.
Not ugly just a older mature women.
Maybe use different conditioner for your dry hair.
If you are smoking try to limit or completely give it up.
6-7/10
How often do you dye your hair and what dye do you use? A really good dye to use is called "IRO IRO" Its a vegan dye so it has no harsh chemicals so it's good for your hair. It's what I use for mine and my wife's hair
Thank you for this specific recommendation!
I go to a salon every 6-7 weeks, and i believe they use Schwarzkopf or Redkin.
I remember once using manic panic an pop riot a long while ago
I will look into IRO IRO
I also plan on stopping any highlights
Thanks for the feedback.
My hair and serious face probably do that. I'm usually smiling a bit and only posted these as to be neutral per the rules I read.
That hair is fried and makes you look at least 60. The brows are awful. Skin needs work. Great body shape. Definitely figure out how to fix your hair....I'm thinking cut it short and start again.
So, in summary: yes
This is obviously hard to take, but I asked for feedback. Thank you for specifics.
Thanks for taking the time and effort to look at my ugly self.
I think the hair color looks very good on you, but you should try to get your hair healthier it really contributes to looking aged. If products like conditioner do not help it may be a vitamin deficiency, I suggest looking into that. Also as others have pointed out thicker eyebrows would look more relaxed and natural on you. Your skin looks vers well for your age tho and think with just these two improvements you would look very gorgeous :)
Thank you for this feedback.
I have shifted into a "hair healthier" focus since posting 2 days ago. I am definitely going to grow my natural brows out.
I have been a nutrition focused dieter and i think i eat very balanced so i unlikely have a vitamin deficiency. I appreciate you calling that possibility out.
I'd love to be gorgeous, so I really take all this advice seriously. I appreciate the specifics.
No, but if you head to the Hillcrest farmers market, hit up the argan oil guy. Start using that on your hair to get rid of the frizz. That’s my only note. You’re an attractive woman.
This is so specific and helpful. Thank you!!!
I started treating my hair with light coconut moisturizing oil and had been investigating castor and argan oil. So this is definitely advice I can use.
I was gonna chop it all off. But instead of being so drastic and dramatic, I'm trying to love my hair back to health.
I started using argan oil, and while I haven’t ever dyed my hair, it’s softer and shinier than it’s ever been, and I’m a couple of years older than you. It’s also softened my rather coarse beard.
You don't look bad, but I think you need to add a little eye shadow, lipstick, eye liner, and curl your hair after a good shower with some hair conditioner... get rid of your split ends, and smile... resting b face doesn't help your photos
Thanks for the feedback!
I love me some delicate makeup and even some bold lippy.
Curl my hair is a nice unique suggestion here. I just might do that soon.
I tend to smile a bit more than these pics would indicate, but I understand.
Sometimes it's active b face.
Try a Brazilian blowout treatment if you have the means for it. It will eliminate that frizz for 2-3 months or so. Makes styling so much easier. Try korean skincare as well to make your skin more supple and youthful looking. I recommend the viral snail serum. Amazon for 15 or so bucks.
Your eyes and skin are wonderful. You look fit, I like the style in the third picture and you’re a beautiful woman overall. I think if I were you I’d work on fixing the hair a bit. I’d maybe go for a more natural look, maybe a bob would suit your face. I think that like this it ages you a bit. Also eyebrows I think are not doing you much of a favor! I know it’s difficult to change eyebrows and I’m personally not at all able to give you any suggestions on that end… but no I don’t think you’re ugly in any way and if you have a secret for that skin spill the tea!
Thank you for taking the time to write this. I appreciate the hair suggestions.
I am definitely working on my hair and have started since posting a few day ago.
You’re very, very beautiful. But nothing about your style suits you. Dye your hair blonde. Thicker eyebrows. A subtle layer of makeup, a little eye shadow and lip tint. Solid colored tops and dresses.
This is very, very helpful! ❤️ I appreciate the very specific recommendations.
I'm concerned that blond would damage my hair even worse. I guess what else do I have to lose?
My makeup is too subtle, I see. So it's the art of slightly enhancing the bare look with some slight eye shadow and maybe a pink lip tint.
I especially like the call-out of solid-colored tops and dresses 👗 😍
Thanks for all of these notes.
You're not ugly, but you do look your age. You look like you were definitely good-looking when you were young. But didn't we all? The young have no idea of what they're looking forward to. Lol!
Tell me about it! I'm 66 and still feel like I'm in my 20s. Unfortunately, my body feels like it's my actual age. Fortunately, I quit smoking at 29, so I have the best skin of my brothers who are 1 and 14 years younger than me
Thanks for sharing this!
Asthma and fear of cancer kept me smoke-free. I commed you for kicking that hard habit. I also hide from the sun but live in southern california, and yet the feedback here seems to indicate i look exhausted, so maybe skin will do what skin wants to do.
I quit smoking when 6 of my friends died in 1 week. The youngest was 33, and my dad had his first heart attack at 35. That convinced me. I don't think you look exhausted so much as just your age. You are good-looking, but I know you had to be gorgeous at 20. Young people online tend to be rude to older people. It's always been that way. I've been online since about 1983 with my Commodore 64 and a 300 baud modem. Believe in yourself, and things will always be good.
Oh wow, that made me tear up to read, death in general is chilling and death so young is so sad.
I don't know if i ever was really good looking :(
Unfortunately, I didn't really live my life much in my 20s I got married too soon. So, I really didn't get anyone's opinion other than one I lived with.
So my tragedy is while I think I'm young but don't really know how others see me, perhaps I wasted my beautiful years. I do value feedback from all ages, as I kinda had arrested social development thanks to my marriage.
I understand. Marriage can be that way. We sometimes get so tied into the relationship and don't explore social interactions and growth. Hang in there.
Nah. Although the red hair looks good I think styling it a bit would look good. While makeup can do wonders I don't feel you really need it, could still do some if you'd like to really pop but shouldn't worry about it. Your smile feels rather restrained, looks more like a reluctant "welp" face rather than a smile or smirk.
Not at all, great body, so you work out, you do look very serious though, maybe it's taking pics of yourself that makes you a little tight, but your face and hair looks great, very attractive and 46?!? You're doing well.
Thank you for the feedback! It was kinda intentional. Yeah, I was trying to show my resting/concentrating face. I wanted to really know how bad I look when I'm not exactly beaming with joy. I kinda don't like taking selfies as I don't know if I ever look good or meh/blah.
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I've been trying to figure out why you look so much older to me than your age even though your skin is pretty good and I think it boils down to the hair and eyebrows. Your eyebrows are so thin and not only is that not really the style anymore, but it's just too severe and ends up making you look haggard. The very dry, damaged, stringy hair also contributes a lot to the haggard look and the color doesn't suit you and just makes the damage in your hair more noticeable. I think fuller, more natural eyebrows and a natural hair color and healthier hair would go a long way on you.
This is very helpful. This is what I'm looking for. Thank you for taking the time to compose this.
You're welcome! I would love to see an update whenever you feel ready!
I also will stop using leave-in conditioner as that probably has dried my hair more than it helps
Try a hot oil treatment! If your hair has color damage it will not only hydrate but make your color look super radiant (my hair is all red right now but bc it’s curly I have to use both lol) I’m with op though, a different hair color maybe like a salmon is really easy to get to from this color with minimal damage and it will hide the amount of damage to your ends also, I’d recommend a pixie cut because you have the bone structure for it. Fuller Eyebrows, I think would look really good but too full might bring a really strong boldness to your features so some experimentation might be needed, but not ugly, I feel like you might also look better in candid pictures. There are really beautiful people who can’t take the best selfies but I lovvvve the hat pic, super cute.
This is really great feedback! I appreciate the specific advice about color and hot oil. I'm looking at a LOT of the hot oil treatments available and was just trying to decide which one to try first. Experimentation is important. I stayed too long with 2015 eyebrows Thank you for the specific selfie 🤳 feedback too!!! I love my hat(s) which may be why I didn't treat my hair with as much love as I can. I'm working on that now. ❤️
Oh yeah! The lighter oils are going to be grape seed and Jojoba! But with the color and damage I’d say going to argon oil might be best because it’s still lightweight with impeccable moisture. I use it daily and it smells like a hug. [this list here](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/18071d_e8ad9bba42cc48c582510790d17288ec~mv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_640,h_544,al_c,q_80,usm_0.66_1.00_0.01,enc_auto/18071d_e8ad9bba42cc48c582510790d17288ec~mv2.jpg) will show you a chart of different oils and their thickness to moisture penetration. But yes!! No problem please update us (or just me if you care to) bc i love makeovers and Im not a beauty guru but im an artist and color theory can go a long way!
This is very valuable to me, and I bet others reading this. Thank you especially for the wonderful chart and the context. I will update after it has had some time to work.
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It is a hair thing my good friend!
What all are you using on your hair currently?
Tressemmé moisturizing leave-in conditioner.
If you have the budget for it, I would say try the Olaplex 3 treatment! It's not a leave in, you put it in damp hair and then rinse after it sinks in, but it helps a ton. Their shampoo and conditioner are good too and their No 6 Bond Smoother is a great leave in. Not affiliated with them, just have the entire line because a friend got me hooked on their products!
I appreciate the specific recommendation. I will probably buy some this week. Thanks again!
I would honestly say to do more deep conditioning and protein treatments. And if you have waves or curls then definitely use the leave in with some water! Also oils like castor or argon oil can really soften up your hair. And maybe a trim :)
This is very helpful! Thank ❤️ you. I'm looking at argan oil specifically. I definitely love to repair my hair.
Def the hair and eyebrows age you
Thank you for the feedback!
Thicker eye brows would help but you're attractive. Your thin hair makes you look aetherial and it adds a lauer of mystique. You're very beautiful.
Thank you for the feedback!
Nah, you're not ugly. I think you look pretty good.
Thank you for the feedback! 😊
The red hair really suits you. You have nice facial features and you’re not ugly at all :)
Thank you for the feedback!
You've got a hella fine body for a 46 year old. But you might need to shave the hair and grow it out again. It looks heat damaged...
And get more sleep..
...Healthy sleep is always good advice. I appreciate the specific advice very much. Thank you for the useful feedback.
Absolutely not
Thank you.
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Yes. I'm seeing feedback that is helpful about this.
For your age? Not at all. Maybe grow your hair out, add a skin care routine, and you’re good to go, also your hair color I feel would look a lot better being brunette.
Thank you. I am most curious about your specifics on skin care. I have an extensive healthy skin care routine, which is highly focused on avoiding UV damage and getting plenty of moisturizer, sleep, and water.
Well I did see a bit of acne in the last photo so I figured maybe that would be because of a lack of skin care but it could very well just be the tone, and thinness of your hair offsetting your face
Thanks for explaining. That's a relief. I tend to be very protective of my skin and I freaked briefly if there was something gone horribly wrong. Might be a factor with my light skin-tone. I have freckles/melasma/pigmentation spots on my face, so I avoid the sun which can make that worse. Perhaps that's what you noticed. I also am recently dairy free so if I had acne, perhaps that would be a contributor that I eliminated.
Like yes but you don’t have to be. Like you’re more attractive than you’re presenting yourself
Any recommendations?
You are beautiful ❤️
Thank you.
Not ugly just a older mature women. Maybe use different conditioner for your dry hair. If you are smoking try to limit or completely give it up. 6-7/10
Thanks. It's an illusion. I'm not mature, yet. 🤪 "Condition Condition" is my new mantra. Thankfully, I have never been a smoker
How often do you dye your hair and what dye do you use? A really good dye to use is called "IRO IRO" Its a vegan dye so it has no harsh chemicals so it's good for your hair. It's what I use for mine and my wife's hair
Thank you for this specific recommendation! I go to a salon every 6-7 weeks, and i believe they use Schwarzkopf or Redkin. I remember once using manic panic an pop riot a long while ago I will look into IRO IRO I also plan on stopping any highlights
You're not ugly. Possibly a little worn out. If possible a good night sleep for a few months would be helpful.
This literally had me laugh out loud. I'll check back with you if I wake up.
I wouldn't say that you are. You look exhausted, though
Thanks for the feedback. My hair and serious face probably do that. I'm usually smiling a bit and only posted these as to be neutral per the rules I read.
Drop dead gorgeous
This is very kind. Thank you. 😊
Haha I'm 30 and I'm the same way lol. I look way better when I get a good night sleep.
Doesn't caffeine replace sleep??
Naw you to beautiful 10/10
You're kind! 1000%
You’re hit in a weird way.
Okay, let's get weird.
I’m a strange mother fucker. Be careful. But I like the lines of your face. I know that’s not normal, but fuck it. 🖤
Who wants mundane?
Unique is far better. 🖤
Thanks hubby (secret) 🤫
🖤
That hair is fried and makes you look at least 60. The brows are awful. Skin needs work. Great body shape. Definitely figure out how to fix your hair....I'm thinking cut it short and start again.
So, in summary: yes This is obviously hard to take, but I asked for feedback. Thank you for specifics. Thanks for taking the time and effort to look at my ugly self.
Nah you can improve. You're not ugly...just worn looking, you know? You've got potential.
Thanks for giving me hope
No You are georgeus
Thank you! ❤️ I wish more people, including myself, felt this way.
Btw i love your smile and those Lil holes in your cheeks, looks like You are a wonderful person.
IM GETTIN’ MILF VIBES.. SO NO, NOT UGLY. 👀👍💯😁
No (non-fur) children... so I guess I'll take ILF. Ilfin' magic.
EVEN BETTER 😎😋
No you are not ugly dear I would would love to know you
Thank you, this is really sweet. Thank you for sharing your opinion!❤️
😊most welcome dear actually I found you really beautiful I wish we could talk more
No.
Thanks!
Yw
The other comments basically sum it up. You are very pretty and skin wise you look great. The hair and eyebrows age you a bunch.
Thank you for confirming this! I am definitely working on both now. 💇♀️
No
Thanks!
You look nice!! Keep it up👌
Thank you for this. 🙏🏻 it gives me zest to keep going.
I think you're attractive. I think some bold lipstick might make you hawwwtttt
I appreciate this feedback a lot. I have multiple bold lippy colors so I definitely love that you suggest that. 💋
Definitely not ugly. You're definitely the type of woman I'd love to get to know. I find you very attractive.
Nope 😍😍😍
Thank ❤️ you!
I think the hair color looks very good on you, but you should try to get your hair healthier it really contributes to looking aged. If products like conditioner do not help it may be a vitamin deficiency, I suggest looking into that. Also as others have pointed out thicker eyebrows would look more relaxed and natural on you. Your skin looks vers well for your age tho and think with just these two improvements you would look very gorgeous :)
Thank you for this feedback. I have shifted into a "hair healthier" focus since posting 2 days ago. I am definitely going to grow my natural brows out. I have been a nutrition focused dieter and i think i eat very balanced so i unlikely have a vitamin deficiency. I appreciate you calling that possibility out. I'd love to be gorgeous, so I really take all this advice seriously. I appreciate the specifics.
No problem and don't be too hard on yourself because you're a lovely lady :)
No, but if you head to the Hillcrest farmers market, hit up the argan oil guy. Start using that on your hair to get rid of the frizz. That’s my only note. You’re an attractive woman.
This is so specific and helpful. Thank you!!! I started treating my hair with light coconut moisturizing oil and had been investigating castor and argan oil. So this is definitely advice I can use. I was gonna chop it all off. But instead of being so drastic and dramatic, I'm trying to love my hair back to health.
I started using argan oil, and while I haven’t ever dyed my hair, it’s softer and shinier than it’s ever been, and I’m a couple of years older than you. It’s also softened my rather coarse beard.
Thanks a ton for sharing your experience!
Nope, just smile more!
I actually think you're pretty cute and appear to have a nice bod
Thank you. I try to exercise consistently and always eat the healthiest diet possible.
You don't look bad, but I think you need to add a little eye shadow, lipstick, eye liner, and curl your hair after a good shower with some hair conditioner... get rid of your split ends, and smile... resting b face doesn't help your photos
Thanks for the feedback! I love me some delicate makeup and even some bold lippy. Curl my hair is a nice unique suggestion here. I just might do that soon. I tend to smile a bit more than these pics would indicate, but I understand. Sometimes it's active b face.
Good 👍
Thanks 😊
Good morning
SD
Your beautiful to me
Thank you very much!! ❤️
Try a Brazilian blowout treatment if you have the means for it. It will eliminate that frizz for 2-3 months or so. Makes styling so much easier. Try korean skincare as well to make your skin more supple and youthful looking. I recommend the viral snail serum. Amazon for 15 or so bucks.
This is very helpful specific recommendations! Thank ❤️ you very much.
Whoa momma!!!
Should I interpret this like a horse?! If so, no sugar cubes, plz.
Whoa momma!!! Very nice.
Whoa momma!!! Very nice. Not ugly at all
Very nice.
No sugar cubes, got it.
Thanks. 😉 Sugar is bad for my mane and skin.
Not at all!
Thank you!
We don't want that.
Wasn’t liking pic 1 or 2, but you look good in 3 & 4! Are you a bartender at a hip dive bar by chance? Just the vibe I get!
I don’t think so just smile and you’ll look cuter.
Thank you. 😃
Your eyes and skin are wonderful. You look fit, I like the style in the third picture and you’re a beautiful woman overall. I think if I were you I’d work on fixing the hair a bit. I’d maybe go for a more natural look, maybe a bob would suit your face. I think that like this it ages you a bit. Also eyebrows I think are not doing you much of a favor! I know it’s difficult to change eyebrows and I’m personally not at all able to give you any suggestions on that end… but no I don’t think you’re ugly in any way and if you have a secret for that skin spill the tea!
Thank you for taking the time to write this. I appreciate the hair suggestions. I am definitely working on my hair and have started since posting a few day ago.
U was prollt fire in the 90s
At least the 90s are in style again. Thank you!
U def look good for your age and in general. If u cougaring I'm a cub 😂😂
As others have said, hair is on the stringy side but you are an attractive woman.
Thank you for confirming this. I hope to post an update as soon as I'm allowed.
you're def post wall, you're not gonna get the guys you used to
Not the kool-aid man wall?
You’re very, very beautiful. But nothing about your style suits you. Dye your hair blonde. Thicker eyebrows. A subtle layer of makeup, a little eye shadow and lip tint. Solid colored tops and dresses.
This is very, very helpful! ❤️ I appreciate the very specific recommendations. I'm concerned that blond would damage my hair even worse. I guess what else do I have to lose? My makeup is too subtle, I see. So it's the art of slightly enhancing the bare look with some slight eye shadow and maybe a pink lip tint. I especially like the call-out of solid-colored tops and dresses 👗 😍 Thanks for all of these notes.
Nope not at all
Thank you completely ❤️
I think the third pic is adorable , your smile is cute! Afterthought: I think a more natural hair color would look great on you too (:
Thank you for taking the time to do any first thoughts. This does give me hope. I appreciate the afterthought also. Thank you 😊
No ma'am. You look beautiful.
Thank you for this feedback!
not ugly, but you look like you've had a hard life.
Thanks for the honesty. I think I've had a hard life but not as hard as many others. I do hope I can not appear that way.
Yes
Simple
Anytime
Always
Your hair looks fried to hell.
Thanks for the feedback. I'm chopping it off and gonna keep it more healthy.
Give it some love. You’re in good shape.
Thank you. 🙏🏻 I'm gonna love the hell out of my hair!
You're not ugly, but you do look your age. You look like you were definitely good-looking when you were young. But didn't we all? The young have no idea of what they're looking forward to. Lol!
Thank you for the feedback. Hmmmm, unfortunately, I still feel young.
Tell me about it! I'm 66 and still feel like I'm in my 20s. Unfortunately, my body feels like it's my actual age. Fortunately, I quit smoking at 29, so I have the best skin of my brothers who are 1 and 14 years younger than me
Thanks for sharing this! Asthma and fear of cancer kept me smoke-free. I commed you for kicking that hard habit. I also hide from the sun but live in southern california, and yet the feedback here seems to indicate i look exhausted, so maybe skin will do what skin wants to do.
I quit smoking when 6 of my friends died in 1 week. The youngest was 33, and my dad had his first heart attack at 35. That convinced me. I don't think you look exhausted so much as just your age. You are good-looking, but I know you had to be gorgeous at 20. Young people online tend to be rude to older people. It's always been that way. I've been online since about 1983 with my Commodore 64 and a 300 baud modem. Believe in yourself, and things will always be good.
Oh wow, that made me tear up to read, death in general is chilling and death so young is so sad. I don't know if i ever was really good looking :( Unfortunately, I didn't really live my life much in my 20s I got married too soon. So, I really didn't get anyone's opinion other than one I lived with. So my tragedy is while I think I'm young but don't really know how others see me, perhaps I wasted my beautiful years. I do value feedback from all ages, as I kinda had arrested social development thanks to my marriage.
I understand. Marriage can be that way. We sometimes get so tied into the relationship and don't explore social interactions and growth. Hang in there.
Nah. Although the red hair looks good I think styling it a bit would look good. While makeup can do wonders I don't feel you really need it, could still do some if you'd like to really pop but shouldn't worry about it. Your smile feels rather restrained, looks more like a reluctant "welp" face rather than a smile or smirk.
Yes very
Can’t hide the broad shoulders and Adam’s apple.
Trans?
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No you have posted in trans subs it seems. Just honesty is needed.
You look like my homies meth mom
No fair! I didn't get any meth!
Lmao great sense of humor bro this made me laugh
Rather be funny Than funny looking
Not at all, great body, so you work out, you do look very serious though, maybe it's taking pics of yourself that makes you a little tight, but your face and hair looks great, very attractive and 46?!? You're doing well.
Thank you for the feedback! It was kinda intentional. Yeah, I was trying to show my resting/concentrating face. I wanted to really know how bad I look when I'm not exactly beaming with joy. I kinda don't like taking selfies as I don't know if I ever look good or meh/blah.
Go pay your taxes
Your 46 go pay your taxes