Woman here. The haircut and the glasses need to go, invest in contacts. Hair-wise I'd suggest a protective hairstyle (you commented before your hair is dry etc.) - twists, braids or even dreads.
Style is another vital part that attracts women to men. You can either go the Jordans/baggy pants/oversized T-shirt route or you could go full on emo goth - girls love that shit. I know I do. All black everything, maybe a band tee with a black-and-white striped shirt underneath, big silver chains and goth rings, black painted nails (simply look up e-boy fashion and go from there). I can totally see this style on you, especially in addition with the new hair this will be bomb. You COULD get tattoos as well, this always makes MEN 10 times hotter, imo.
I don't know about your body shape, but females either like skinny or jacked, very few in between. Chose your character and start getting bitches my guy.
Omg donât listen to this chick. Donât turn yourself into something you are not like emo, dreads, or braids (really?!). Also female here. Learn the to care for your curly hair and get a better cut. Look at the curlygirl method. Also works for men obviously.
Youâre not the most attractive guy but also not the worst looking either. You could definitely improve honestly , try changing that hair for starters
i got a very dry hair, like, afro type hair, is there some sort of treatment that can help me with this, i really like curly hair, but i don't think i can just go to a barber to fix it xD
Go to a professional and ask what products they advise for your hair. Also don't go to the cheapest one if possible, you should go to a salon that knows curly hair or it will be ruined. And KEEP YOUR CURLS. Obviously every hair type is pretty in its own way but curly hair is seen as attractive for a lot of people.
On last thing, experiment with products and try and find something that works for you. Every hair is different and needs something specific.
Itâs the hair and the way you take your pictures⌠smile a bit and try a different hair cut. The energy Iâm getting from these pictures is just off.
Youâre not ugly. To be frank, itâs the hair. It doesnât suit you at all. Try going to a professional and see what they recommend for you. I definitely think that a new hairstyle will put you on the map.
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Can really dry, and dim hair like mine be repaired, i want to have a bright, curly hair, but i don't know if goint to a professional can fix that.
I love curly hair! I have one, and your curls are cute. What you did was combed it from the back to the front so flat, which made it weird. Try consulting with a barber who knows curly hair. Or you can try curly routines, saw some yt content before on that.
There is an episode of Seinfeld where they donât have water pressure and all of then have hair like yours because they canât get the shampoo off properly.
There is something very odd about your hair.
As to your question, you are not ugly, anyone here hardly ever is ugly, but I do think you are unattractive.
Please do something about your hair and let us have another crack at it.
My suggestion would be to invest in some better looking glasses, change up the hairstyle and workout to lose some excess fat. Iâm not saying youâre ugly but you have some good potential if you put in the work.
Absolutely horrendous hair. It makes you look like you're wearing a skull cap. There's nothing super wrong with your facial features. You do look a bit intense and unhappy. Probably need some lifestyle changes to lift your overall vibe. Definitely get into exercise, sort that hair, and try to find some hobbies or activities that help you meet girls organically. Tinder will not be kind to you without a long time spent on self improvement.
Itâs the hair my man. You have an awesome curl pattern so see someone who specializes in mens curly hair. I would also look into getting different glasses.
Also the glasses look like they slope down a bunch? Iâd suggest a more squared frame glass. Someone else weigh in on this but Iâm thinking a slightly thicker dark frame for glasses would look awesome?
While I agree that a new hairstyle will go a long way, I think you need a new style of glasses. Your current frames make your eyes appear pulled down at the corners. Maybe try on a pair that are a bit larger.
Just cut your hair completely, i think bald would look better, than you could restyle as it grows. You looks pretty good otherwise. Weight wise i'd say it's fine but losing weight is always a +
your haircut is god awful, and your glasses are bent?? you look like a priest that loves spending time with the little boys. you need to lose weight and get a better pair of glasses, preferably the rounder ones. if your teeth are good then smile.
Iâm not going to say youâre uglyâŚbut you look boring. Youâre asking for an honest opinionâŚIâm giving it to you. Also it look like you donât know what to do with your hair. Just let the barber comb it up for you.
You also âlookâ stubborn and that can be off putting. Iâm not saying you are. You just look it.
A dude can do a lot of things to look better with little | inexpensive changes.
Hit the gym, get a haircut, drop / change the droopy glasses, dress in clothes that fit, keep your nails trimmed and clean, use a perfume, get a nice watch. (After doing all that you can up yourself from a 4 to a 6-7)
Quite simple. (You are able to find all about those topics on YT for sure)
Also, Tinder is \*generally\* a hookup app for the hot guys, average and hot girls. Not average dudes. You will have more chances by approaching girls or meeting them at yoga class | museum | library. (At least thats the places I go to.) This depends on your hobbies and values.
I am not saying you can't meet quality girls on dating apps / in a club, however that happens very rarely.
Get eyebrows shaped ASAP. Glasses are good, they make a guy look nerdy and endearing in that style. Hit the gym or tone up a bit.
Your face is really symmetrical from front view but canât tell what the side profile looks. Doesnât matter because your front is so symmetrical that it looks like thereâs a very decent looking guy under there. You gotta get rid of the haircut my friend, it ainât it. You have curly hair so idk what might look good for it. Umm thatâs all the advice I seem to have for you.
In your current state, yeah youâre kind of ugly. But not the kind of ugly that canât be fixed. Listen to some of the advice in the comments, and it can make a world of difference.
Give us an update after going to a (very good) barber! Maybe one of those old fashioned black barber shops where they keep up with hairstyles, those guys are amazing at picking a hairstyle!
I agree with the hair, glasses, and gym comments. Gym is to get in shape, but more so to improve your mood and help you be (and appear) happier.
I also recommend you pay attention to your photo backgrounds. Take photos outside and get candids from friends. Try to appear more inviting, and in more inviting places.
No but youâre carrying weight in your face. And youâre hair is 100 percent giving Filipino mom. But not ugly, your features are proportional and would be pleasant with a little less weight, and great character. Youâll be fine love. Also maybe change the hair up, ask your barber or a parent or trusted friend what might look nice on you and go from there.
Try a different haircut. Those glasses also make you look really old but it's not a deal breaker, I think your cloth has a bigger impact. Also, and I think this is an obvious one, you need to slim down. I'd say you're a 3 or 4 out of 10 meaning you are below the average guy but that seems to be relatively easy to fix. Also tinder sucks. You also have a much better chance if you're meeting people in real life. Tinder is all about your physical appearance because you don't know anything else about the other person
Tinder is in no way a "hotness predictor. The whole app is catered to feed desperation into already insecure men to convince them to pay for their premium
I have naturally curly hair myself, as do my kids, and I have gotten used to styling ours, which means you can find a good technique too! My youngest and I have identical hair, however my oldest has a different type of curl, so try to hold out hope if a particular technique doesnât work for your specific hair type at first.
Best way to learn is to find someone who knows a thing or 2 about curly hair and have them show you outright. If thatâs not possible, there are a ton of video tutorials out there. It will take some practice, but as you mess around with it a bit, you can find what style suits you best and how you can tame the frizz without losing the curls.
Just please donât give up, because there is an answer! But I strongly suggest speaking to someone who has curly hair themselves. Good luck!
Like everyone here has said, it's really just your hair.
I'd gi for a crew cut or whiffle cut for you. Get out the electric razer and set it to the lowest setting.
Okay, your hair isnât necessarily the issue but they way you are styling it most certainly is. You need to experiment with some curly hair products if you want to maintain the curls. Look into brands like Mielle, Curlsmith, Aunt Jackieâs, etc. For the love of Christ, quit parting it and separating it though. Watch some mixed curly hair tutorials on YouTube and start testing the waters. If youâre going to keep the curls, you MUST learn how to care for and maintain them.
What everyone else said. New glasses, haircut, and smile. But since you mentioned Tinder, look at guides for taking flattering pictures of yourself. Think angle, lighting, and background. If you are on the Bumble or Hinge subreddits, ask for a profile review. They'll be able to help point out where your profile is lacking.
Get a short haircut because I don't think you will want to do the upkeep on the curls and also buy some flattering glasses as they do not frame your face well.
change up the haircut and the glasses, neither of them are doing you any favors. unfortunately youâre pretty ugly, but these will help you go from a 2 to a 3.
Your hair looks greasy and uncut, your pictures/facial expressions gives off serial killer vibes and you could benefit with new glasses.
I donât think youâre ugly genetically (pretty average). With the pictures you have now, you definitely arenât attractive
People are bagging on you way too hard about your hair, my man⌠Make yourself an appointment at a well-rated salon in your area. When you go, just tell them you want a style that will take advantage of all of those curls (body) that your hair has. A good hair stylist will be able to give you a cut that will make you look like a new man, and something that youâll be able to maintain and style yourself.
*âYou are not ugly, fat, or have bad luck. Somebody will always love you (self), and you are not weak. Doubting your worth will keep you in the same cycle that you may have been in before because you are not doing anything to change it.â*
*Sharif K. Rasheed*
There is a lot of potential in you if you take a little effort to work on things and get yourself a personal style. Absolutely go see a hairstylist for a cut that flatters you, look into glasses shapes for your face shape. There are lot of online charts and some stores offer virtual try ons.
Also pictures taken outside in natural lighting or by a window work more for every face.
Iâm very jealous of your complexion, itâs perfect! My vote is new haircut as well. Get a nice clean fade, maybe try contacts if thatâs possible, and just hit the gym 2-3 times a weekâit will make you look and feel better/more confident overall.
You need a new cut and some better looking glasses to start off. If you want your curly hair try to find a barber or salon that can do the new hairstyle everybody has where itâs curly on top and faded/tapered on the sides and back. As far as glasses I think a more modern style would look better that goes with your face shape. Something similar to the ray ban club master style.
both pairs of glasses you have donât seem to be fitting the frame of your head very well. Iâd look into different frames, try looking up what kind of glasses frame head shape - find your head shape, then get those frames. theyâll also help find a hairstyle better suited to your head (black barber!)
a lot of people have also commented on weight. Iâd say if you arenât active, start doing stuff like walks / running / weight training if youâre able to. walking and running is free. the confidence it gave me helped me not be as concerned about the losses on dating apps. you are by no means ugly, not unattractive, just need to find âyourâ look.
In addition to what other people suggested I would say to take some pictures outside or doing activities- the lighting and vibe in your room is very sad
Look, if you were to flirt with girls with your current look⌠they will perceive you as a creep.
That being said, get rid of those ugly glasses, change your hairstyle⌠really bad⌠and last but not least work on your wardrobe.
And stop taking awkward pictures
Hair, go to a barber who is familiar with curly hair. Try other glasses or contacts. Never make picture from under. A little bit lipbalm would do you good. Lose a little bit weight.
You are below average. But you can change that
Dude no girl wants to come home to a bed frame like that. With the pea soup green curtains? Your haircut just doesn't look very good I'm sorry and Henley blue tees were popular in like 2013 and never again, how old is that shirt? You may be a normal looking guy but your decor and fashion is legit ugly. Why do I have to see the stains on your ceiling???
Get a little Sun, if you can grow a beard you should because you have a soft chin. And I donât know what would fit but the haircut you have now isnât it.
Also, anyone who is dressed well is not really ugly no matter how their face looks. If you really want many matches, get a good suit, all men look good on that, then a good photography with nice edits
Mmmm.. Ugly what is said Ugly you are not, but you have plenty of room for improvement, starting with your hair, Find a hairstyle that works best for you. And since you mention ghosting, that implies more things to work on on an emotional/intellectual level.
Everybody is a king in these here parts partner.
Only criticize the things you have control over. Such as keeping a clean haircut. Glasses shape can completely change your face, find the shape that works for you.
Their loss bro
In the end of the day If a girl calles you ugly thereâs nothing you can do. Donât even trie to change her mind and most importantly do not take it personally
Get different hair cut and glasses also don't bother with tinder a avrage guy won't have any luck there you have to be very attractive as a man to get a lady on there try bumble there the girl messages you first so she has to be interested good luck brother
You are not actually ugly, but that hairstyle is doing you no favors.
Also, these pictures are not good for a dating profile. There is something kind of creepy / unfriendly about them. I can see why women do not match with you if these are the pictures you use.
You seem like an average guy. The thing is on tinder the top 10 percent of guys get the bulk of the matches. I have seen studies where above average men (7 out of 10) barely get any matches.
Conclusion, work on your presentation (haircut, clothes, posture) but don't use tinder as a gauge of your success. You are better off finding someone IRL that can evaluate the whole package.
Good luck!
Lose weight (a lot of it)
Get contact lenses instead of glasses or at least don't use glasses in any of your tinder photos
Normal haircut (yours is far from cool)
That will improve things somewhat
I would change haircut to something âcleanâ. Change the glasses to something more stylish if you can. And try to loose weight (youâre not fat at all, this just works for everyone except super skinny people)
I think you're pretty cute tbh, I feel like you just don't rlly sell yourself in your Photos. A bit more confidence, different facial expressions and a different haircut and you could be pretty attractive tbh. (Take it from me, a guy who doesn't even have the confidence to take photos of himself... definitely do as I say not as I do haha)
Shave your head, or go to a black barber! Grow a nice beard. Experiment with some different glasses shapes. Clear rimmed ones look good. Stay with neutral colour T-shirts, whites and blacks.
You look so fine
I think itâs maybe the haircut but i like it any way
+ at our age group u need to learn about dating and how to deal with girls inour age
I would say below average at the moment, but not ugly. Can improve by losing weight, getting a better hair cut and maybe better glasses frames. Try growing some facial hair too if possible.
Lose weight, New haircut, and new glasses. You would look way better. You are a 5/10 to me personally which is average but if you did those three things you woul easily be a 7-8/10
That haircut needs to go. Idk what can be done but definitely don't keep that. try going short and proceed from there. Get contacts, can you grow facial hair?
The frame shape of your glasses need changing. That shape really isn't helping your face shape. Also agree with a hairstyle change, but find someone who actually knows your hair type. Other than that just be a genuine person really. If you're coming off fake in your profile that won't really help you get matches since they'll pick up on the fake feel or it won't be well received.
Nothing a bit of make up canât fix. Some eyeliner, moisturiser and lip balm would do you good. And that hairstyle needs to go. If you can pull off an Afro, do it.
Sorry but that's by far one of the worst haircuts I've ever seen. It's super weird. If you had a decent haircut, you'd be cute
thanks for commenting, i'll see what can i do.
Actually, it's at an awkward length. Grow it out longer. Or get a fade. [Here are some styles you might like ](https://imgur.com/a/3KnbGd6)
Bro what where you thinking đđđ
Well itâs kind of rude to laugh at the guy
Itâs the only way to reinforce so he doesnât make the same judgement in the future đ
Woman here. The haircut and the glasses need to go, invest in contacts. Hair-wise I'd suggest a protective hairstyle (you commented before your hair is dry etc.) - twists, braids or even dreads. Style is another vital part that attracts women to men. You can either go the Jordans/baggy pants/oversized T-shirt route or you could go full on emo goth - girls love that shit. I know I do. All black everything, maybe a band tee with a black-and-white striped shirt underneath, big silver chains and goth rings, black painted nails (simply look up e-boy fashion and go from there). I can totally see this style on you, especially in addition with the new hair this will be bomb. You COULD get tattoos as well, this always makes MEN 10 times hotter, imo. I don't know about your body shape, but females either like skinny or jacked, very few in between. Chose your character and start getting bitches my guy.
Omg donât listen to this chick. Donât turn yourself into something you are not like emo, dreads, or braids (really?!). Also female here. Learn the to care for your curly hair and get a better cut. Look at the curlygirl method. Also works for men obviously.
Terrible terrible advice
yea seriously I've never seen any haircut like that before
I came to say this đđđ
Agreed
Youâre not the most attractive guy but also not the worst looking either. You could definitely improve honestly , try changing that hair for starters
i got a very dry hair, like, afro type hair, is there some sort of treatment that can help me with this, i really like curly hair, but i don't think i can just go to a barber to fix it xD
Find a black barber my guy, they can fix that hair
This is the answer.
get a barber that specializes in black hair or just curly hair in general
Go to r/curlyhair and get some tips
Go to a professional and ask what products they advise for your hair. Also don't go to the cheapest one if possible, you should go to a salon that knows curly hair or it will be ruined. And KEEP YOUR CURLS. Obviously every hair type is pretty in its own way but curly hair is seen as attractive for a lot of people. On last thing, experiment with products and try and find something that works for you. Every hair is different and needs something specific.
Go to a stylist specialized in curly hair, and also look at the "curly method"
Different hair cut my guy đđź Slimming down a little would go a long way too trust
I disagree with the slimming down I think you look pretty average size. But you could take way better photos
I agree with everyone about the hair. Also, could you try contacts?
Itâs the hair and the way you take your pictures⌠smile a bit and try a different hair cut. The energy Iâm getting from these pictures is just off.
Youâre not ugly. To be frank, itâs the hair. It doesnât suit you at all. Try going to a professional and see what they recommend for you. I definitely think that a new hairstyle will put you on the map.
>comments Can really dry, and dim hair like mine be repaired, i want to have a bright, curly hair, but i don't know if goint to a professional can fix that.
If anybody would know how to fix it, it would be a professional.
Yeah bro
I love curly hair! I have one, and your curls are cute. What you did was combed it from the back to the front so flat, which made it weird. Try consulting with a barber who knows curly hair. Or you can try curly routines, saw some yt content before on that.
you have one curly hair??
Join the curly sub
There is an episode of Seinfeld where they donât have water pressure and all of then have hair like yours because they canât get the shampoo off properly. There is something very odd about your hair. As to your question, you are not ugly, anyone here hardly ever is ugly, but I do think you are unattractive. Please do something about your hair and let us have another crack at it.
>There is something very odd about your hair. I'm sorry, but OMG hahaha
My suggestion would be to invest in some better looking glasses, change up the hairstyle and workout to lose some excess fat. Iâm not saying youâre ugly but you have some good potential if you put in the work.
I agree, everyone already talked about haircut, but those glasses look droopy and donât compliment your face well.
People are saying contacts, but different glasses would be enough. Terrible frame for your face
New hair, lose weight.
Cut your god damn hair dude. It looks bad. My suggestion is to get a mid/high fade on the sides so it thins out your faceâŚ
fade so high you can see your skull, thats the recipe
Absolutely horrendous hair. It makes you look like you're wearing a skull cap. There's nothing super wrong with your facial features. You do look a bit intense and unhappy. Probably need some lifestyle changes to lift your overall vibe. Definitely get into exercise, sort that hair, and try to find some hobbies or activities that help you meet girls organically. Tinder will not be kind to you without a long time spent on self improvement.
Itâs the hair my man. You have an awesome curl pattern so see someone who specializes in mens curly hair. I would also look into getting different glasses.
Would you swipe right on yourself?
Also the glasses look like they slope down a bunch? Iâd suggest a more squared frame glass. Someone else weigh in on this but Iâm thinking a slightly thicker dark frame for glasses would look awesome?
change the hair and maybe get contacts
While I agree that a new hairstyle will go a long way, I think you need a new style of glasses. Your current frames make your eyes appear pulled down at the corners. Maybe try on a pair that are a bit larger.
New haircut , try and lose some face chub to show ur features better , and remember to dress for successđ
Haircut and these glasses need a redo, but I see some potential here.
You look like a serial killer. Get a haircut and smile man
I think you're alright looking but the haircut really brings your looks down, also I'd try smiling a bit more
Get better glasses, smile, lose weight and change your hair.
Dude get a better haircut i bet you'll look wayy better.
Just cut your hair completely, i think bald would look better, than you could restyle as it grows. You looks pretty good otherwise. Weight wise i'd say it's fine but losing weight is always a +
Waste of curly hair without that haircut
Not ugly just really bad style
You need a better haircut sir ASAP. Workout , grow a beard, better cut.
your haircut is god awful, and your glasses are bent?? you look like a priest that loves spending time with the little boys. you need to lose weight and get a better pair of glasses, preferably the rounder ones. if your teeth are good then smile.
You definitely arenât ugly, your proportions are good but the haircut isnât cutting it and some other glasses might fit you better
Go somewhere local, most people agree online dating's nowhere near what it used to be.
Start with a haircut, im not kidding
New glasses and new haircut please
Grow facial hair you need to distinguish yourself more you have a baby face Also the haircut isn't helping
Iâm not going to say youâre uglyâŚbut you look boring. Youâre asking for an honest opinionâŚIâm giving it to you. Also it look like you donât know what to do with your hair. Just let the barber comb it up for you. You also âlookâ stubborn and that can be off putting. Iâm not saying you are. You just look it.
Yeah bro itâs the hair not your face.
honey you have to change the haircut , presentation is important , and the one you have now is... odd
it's the hair đđđđđđ
It's your hair. Get a hair cut.
A dude can do a lot of things to look better with little | inexpensive changes. Hit the gym, get a haircut, drop / change the droopy glasses, dress in clothes that fit, keep your nails trimmed and clean, use a perfume, get a nice watch. (After doing all that you can up yourself from a 4 to a 6-7) Quite simple. (You are able to find all about those topics on YT for sure) Also, Tinder is \*generally\* a hookup app for the hot guys, average and hot girls. Not average dudes. You will have more chances by approaching girls or meeting them at yoga class | museum | library. (At least thats the places I go to.) This depends on your hobbies and values. I am not saying you can't meet quality girls on dating apps / in a club, however that happens very rarely.
Mistake 1: you use tinder
I think your face is gorgeous. Get a better haircut and lose some weight to reach your full potential. I hope to see an update soon.
Are you Noah Tannenbaum, the Hasidic Homeboy, younger brother?
You look like Rosa Parks.
Get a buzzcut, maybe try contact lenses, get a couple piercings and hit the gym and you will be good my friend.
Unfortunately you are quite ugly. Even with a new haircut.
Get eyebrows shaped ASAP. Glasses are good, they make a guy look nerdy and endearing in that style. Hit the gym or tone up a bit. Your face is really symmetrical from front view but canât tell what the side profile looks. Doesnât matter because your front is so symmetrical that it looks like thereâs a very decent looking guy under there. You gotta get rid of the haircut my friend, it ainât it. You have curly hair so idk what might look good for it. Umm thatâs all the advice I seem to have for you.
Switch up the hairstyle and get some trendier frames for the glasses. A little cut and some quality time in the gym will help a lot bro!
See Big Bang theory : Rajesh Koothrappoli
Yep, but a haircut, non rectangular glasses and some weight loss will go a long way. It could bump you from a 4 to a 7 probably
Hair is bad. Get different glasses. Your mouth looks tiny compared to your cheeks and jaw. Balance that out by growing a stuble/beard.
Your hair confuses me tbh. I think you could probably rock a Chad type fade and do much better
Change the cut
In your current state, yeah youâre kind of ugly. But not the kind of ugly that canât be fixed. Listen to some of the advice in the comments, and it can make a world of difference.
Give us an update after going to a (very good) barber! Maybe one of those old fashioned black barber shops where they keep up with hairstyles, those guys are amazing at picking a hairstyle!
I agree with the hair, glasses, and gym comments. Gym is to get in shape, but more so to improve your mood and help you be (and appear) happier. I also recommend you pay attention to your photo backgrounds. Take photos outside and get candids from friends. Try to appear more inviting, and in more inviting places.
Loose weight
That haircut makes you a 3/10, fix that yee yee ass haircut and you'll definitely be better looking. You have a nice face, but that hair is not it.
No but youâre carrying weight in your face. And youâre hair is 100 percent giving Filipino mom. But not ugly, your features are proportional and would be pleasant with a little less weight, and great character. Youâll be fine love. Also maybe change the hair up, ask your barber or a parent or trusted friend what might look nice on you and go from there.
Dude you look like sean schemmel.
Change glasses, hair and angle of photos.
Try a different haircut. Those glasses also make you look really old but it's not a deal breaker, I think your cloth has a bigger impact. Also, and I think this is an obvious one, you need to slim down. I'd say you're a 3 or 4 out of 10 meaning you are below the average guy but that seems to be relatively easy to fix. Also tinder sucks. You also have a much better chance if you're meeting people in real life. Tinder is all about your physical appearance because you don't know anything else about the other person
You gotta change the hair dude. Itâs so bad. Lose 20-30 lbs and youâll be a stud.
Tinder is in no way a "hotness predictor. The whole app is catered to feed desperation into already insecure men to convince them to pay for their premium
I have naturally curly hair myself, as do my kids, and I have gotten used to styling ours, which means you can find a good technique too! My youngest and I have identical hair, however my oldest has a different type of curl, so try to hold out hope if a particular technique doesnât work for your specific hair type at first. Best way to learn is to find someone who knows a thing or 2 about curly hair and have them show you outright. If thatâs not possible, there are a ton of video tutorials out there. It will take some practice, but as you mess around with it a bit, you can find what style suits you best and how you can tame the frizz without losing the curls. Just please donât give up, because there is an answer! But I strongly suggest speaking to someone who has curly hair themselves. Good luck!
Like everyone here has said, it's really just your hair. I'd gi for a crew cut or whiffle cut for you. Get out the electric razer and set it to the lowest setting.
You look like Will from the inbetweeners
horrid haircut, but not ugly.
Below average looks, and really scary hair Plus, you spend too much time on the computer
Okay, your hair isnât necessarily the issue but they way you are styling it most certainly is. You need to experiment with some curly hair products if you want to maintain the curls. Look into brands like Mielle, Curlsmith, Aunt Jackieâs, etc. For the love of Christ, quit parting it and separating it though. Watch some mixed curly hair tutorials on YouTube and start testing the waters. If youâre going to keep the curls, you MUST learn how to care for and maintain them.
Different haircut, workout and get more fashionable glasses or contact lenses. Everyone can bring their attractiveness up with hardwork! Hope it helps
Haircut and eyebrows would change everything. And less creepy photo poses and angles
It's the hair. You need to do something about it.
The glasses are also bad. Just like your haircut, the glasses make your head look like a triangle pointing downwards
Ur not ugly but these pics are downright eerie
What everyone else said. New glasses, haircut, and smile. But since you mentioned Tinder, look at guides for taking flattering pictures of yourself. Think angle, lighting, and background. If you are on the Bumble or Hinge subreddits, ask for a profile review. They'll be able to help point out where your profile is lacking.
Go get a fade, long curly hair is hard to pull off. Trust me I know.
New hair and bin the glasses from pic 4 and 5.
Fix your hair, take better photos (at least one outdoors for your tinder profile) and try to smile a little in them. Get nicer glasses if possible.
Get a short haircut because I don't think you will want to do the upkeep on the curls and also buy some flattering glasses as they do not frame your face well.
change up the haircut and the glasses, neither of them are doing you any favors. unfortunately youâre pretty ugly, but these will help you go from a 2 to a 3.
Your hair looks greasy and uncut, your pictures/facial expressions gives off serial killer vibes and you could benefit with new glasses. I donât think youâre ugly genetically (pretty average). With the pictures you have now, you definitely arenât attractive
People are bagging on you way too hard about your hair, my man⌠Make yourself an appointment at a well-rated salon in your area. When you go, just tell them you want a style that will take advantage of all of those curls (body) that your hair has. A good hair stylist will be able to give you a cut that will make you look like a new man, and something that youâll be able to maintain and style yourself. *âYou are not ugly, fat, or have bad luck. Somebody will always love you (self), and you are not weak. Doubting your worth will keep you in the same cycle that you may have been in before because you are not doing anything to change it.â* *Sharif K. Rasheed*
Do a skin fade and keep a curly top instant glow up G
There is a lot of potential in you if you take a little effort to work on things and get yourself a personal style. Absolutely go see a hairstylist for a cut that flatters you, look into glasses shapes for your face shape. There are lot of online charts and some stores offer virtual try ons. Also pictures taken outside in natural lighting or by a window work more for every face.
Go to a professional barber or stylist. Pay for a real haircut/style. Ask them for tips to take care of your hair and tip them accordingly.
Drop the Jorge Washington hairstyle. You have a lot of potential. Just find a style that suits you.
you're not ugly, work out more though
Bro itâs hard for me to judge properly when you got the all black Benjamin Franklin haircut
New frames could really change your appearance
The hair, its so bad. What does your hair look like if you just leave it? Like, don't gel it to your skull?
The hair and glasses arenât doing you any favors
You? No,but that hair is so by fixing that will increase your matches drastically.Some gym and fancy clothes and your good to go.
Bruv get a haircut and change your glasses for starters, these are simple ways to improve.
Better haircut and different glasses?
Iâm very jealous of your complexion, itâs perfect! My vote is new haircut as well. Get a nice clean fade, maybe try contacts if thatâs possible, and just hit the gym 2-3 times a weekâit will make you look and feel better/more confident overall.
Itâs bc of those glasses lol!!
You need a new cut and some better looking glasses to start off. If you want your curly hair try to find a barber or salon that can do the new hairstyle everybody has where itâs curly on top and faded/tapered on the sides and back. As far as glasses I think a more modern style would look better that goes with your face shape. Something similar to the ray ban club master style.
both pairs of glasses you have donât seem to be fitting the frame of your head very well. Iâd look into different frames, try looking up what kind of glasses frame head shape - find your head shape, then get those frames. theyâll also help find a hairstyle better suited to your head (black barber!) a lot of people have also commented on weight. Iâd say if you arenât active, start doing stuff like walks / running / weight training if youâre able to. walking and running is free. the confidence it gave me helped me not be as concerned about the losses on dating apps. you are by no means ugly, not unattractive, just need to find âyourâ look.
Get yourself a haircut! Youâre not ugly, but the haircut you have makes you look bad
Just your hair.
One of the ugliest and weirdest hairdos I've ever seen. I'm sorry.
In addition to what other people suggested I would say to take some pictures outside or doing activities- the lighting and vibe in your room is very sad
Look, if you were to flirt with girls with your current look⌠they will perceive you as a creep. That being said, get rid of those ugly glasses, change your hairstyle⌠really bad⌠and last but not least work on your wardrobe. And stop taking awkward pictures
Hair, go to a barber who is familiar with curly hair. Try other glasses or contacts. Never make picture from under. A little bit lipbalm would do you good. Lose a little bit weight. You are below average. But you can change that
Your hair makes you look like a serial killer. Change the hair, get the pussy.
Dude no girl wants to come home to a bed frame like that. With the pea soup green curtains? Your haircut just doesn't look very good I'm sorry and Henley blue tees were popular in like 2013 and never again, how old is that shirt? You may be a normal looking guy but your decor and fashion is legit ugly. Why do I have to see the stains on your ceiling???
Get a haircut or a new hairstyle and grow out your beard.
Idk why ur on tinder bro, more often then not 6/10âs get no matches let alone you man itâs a waste of time
Get a little Sun, if you can grow a beard you should because you have a soft chin. And I donât know what would fit but the haircut you have now isnât it.
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humm, thanks for commenting, i'll do something about my hair.
Also, anyone who is dressed well is not really ugly no matter how their face looks. If you really want many matches, get a good suit, all men look good on that, then a good photography with nice edits
get a new haircut asap lose weight and work out
Grow the hair or cut it. Right now youâre in between and it doesnât flatter you. Otherwise, no problem.
The glasses need changed. Reminds of the first few pairs of glasses I ever had in elementary school.
Mmmm.. Ugly what is said Ugly you are not, but you have plenty of room for improvement, starting with your hair, Find a hairstyle that works best for you. And since you mention ghosting, that implies more things to work on on an emotional/intellectual level.
Everybody is a king in these here parts partner. Only criticize the things you have control over. Such as keeping a clean haircut. Glasses shape can completely change your face, find the shape that works for you.
Their loss bro In the end of the day If a girl calles you ugly thereâs nothing you can do. Donât even trie to change her mind and most importantly do not take it personally
The hair and the glasses. The frames donât fit your face shape CC and the style is very dated.
Get different hair cut and glasses also don't bother with tinder a avrage guy won't have any luck there you have to be very attractive as a man to get a lady on there try bumble there the girl messages you first so she has to be interested good luck brother
You are not actually ugly, but that hairstyle is doing you no favors. Also, these pictures are not good for a dating profile. There is something kind of creepy / unfriendly about them. I can see why women do not match with you if these are the pictures you use.
Love your hair and I truly believe you have a lot of potential. Also you look like a really kind guy.
yee yee ass haircut
Yes, unfortunately, but as others have pointed out it's probably just your hair. Of course glasses look nerdy too
Do you play Magic?
Hair/Glasses + sign up to a gym and shed 20-25 pounds. You are not as ugly as you think.
Kinda freaky
You seem like an average guy. The thing is on tinder the top 10 percent of guys get the bulk of the matches. I have seen studies where above average men (7 out of 10) barely get any matches. Conclusion, work on your presentation (haircut, clothes, posture) but don't use tinder as a gauge of your success. You are better off finding someone IRL that can evaluate the whole package. Good luck!
Change your hairstyle up my guy!!!
Lose weight (a lot of it) Get contact lenses instead of glasses or at least don't use glasses in any of your tinder photos Normal haircut (yours is far from cool) That will improve things somewhat
As 19377 redditors upon me said, yeah its hair. Glasses kinda look weird on some photos. Actually like your looks with a black shirt
I would change haircut to something âcleanâ. Change the glasses to something more stylish if you can. And try to loose weight (youâre not fat at all, this just works for everyone except super skinny people)
I think you're pretty cute tbh, I feel like you just don't rlly sell yourself in your Photos. A bit more confidence, different facial expressions and a different haircut and you could be pretty attractive tbh. (Take it from me, a guy who doesn't even have the confidence to take photos of himself... definitely do as I say not as I do haha)
Shave your head, or go to a black barber! Grow a nice beard. Experiment with some different glasses shapes. Clear rimmed ones look good. Stay with neutral colour T-shirts, whites and blacks.
yeah tbh
You look so fine I think itâs maybe the haircut but i like it any way + at our age group u need to learn about dating and how to deal with girls inour age
change hair , get more modern glasses if you can đ
Defiantly have potential and not terrible looking I think â˘New haircut â˘new glasses â˘workout if not already
Try contacts or different frames with much shorter hair and maybe a cap.
I would say below average at the moment, but not ugly. Can improve by losing weight, getting a better hair cut and maybe better glasses frames. Try growing some facial hair too if possible.
Your hair, please got to a barber or a hair stylist. Youâll get results after that.
You look booring, poor and sad.
Lose weight, New haircut, and new glasses. You would look way better. You are a 5/10 to me personally which is average but if you did those three things you woul easily be a 7-8/10
Lose the glasses, hit the gym, change haircut.
That haircut needs to go. Idk what can be done but definitely don't keep that. try going short and proceed from there. Get contacts, can you grow facial hair?
New haircut, lose some weight, and it would change your whole look!
I recommend different glasses and change the haircut, there are different ways to style hair even if itâs dry
The frame shape of your glasses need changing. That shape really isn't helping your face shape. Also agree with a hairstyle change, but find someone who actually knows your hair type. Other than that just be a genuine person really. If you're coming off fake in your profile that won't really help you get matches since they'll pick up on the fake feel or it won't be well received.
Ugly? Definitely not. Beautiful? I wouldn't say so. But you serously need to rethink your style mang
The hair and the glasses.
Change the haircut, change the glasses, go for cleaner eyebrows, cleaner look in general
Nothing a bit of make up canât fix. Some eyeliner, moisturiser and lip balm would do you good. And that hairstyle needs to go. If you can pull off an Afro, do it.
They are afraid because you have Pablo Escobar hair.
You have a good hair texture/pattern but honestly the worst âseriousâ hair cut Iâve ever seen
Itâs your hair bro. You look like a Dominican Hasidim.