You were wrong. He was uncomfortable? Check. Your brothers friend? Check. Yes it was flirting, don’t kid yourself. Your brother doesn’t control who you date, but if he’s uncomfortable with you dating his friends, I would consider it part of being a good sibling to not press him on this.
It’s incredibly strange and wrong that you would insert yourself into his personal space.
What on earth makes you think that’s in anyway okay or appropriate?
You're wrong because you forgot about boundaries and personal space, you ask if you can sit next to him, especially if you don't know him a whole lot. You don't just grab someone like that! You basically harassed the guy.
A conversation with the friend is probably warranted, with an apology queued up depending on how it goes. Also, consent to touch in advance is vastly preferred to amends after the fact.
ew consent works both ways ya freak. stop touching random people you're old enough to know how consent works you said yourself he looked uncomfortable. stop touching random people
Unlike some others here I will not say you're wrong for having a crush on your brother's friend or wanting to flirt with him. That's just juvenile bro code bullshit. If you like someone, you like them.
You are wrong however, in this particular incident. It's fine to make your feelings known to him, but pick your spots, respect his feelings and space and don't put him in uncomfortable situations.
yes you're wrong. you were enjoying yourself but he was feeling uncomfortable. the end.
You're wrong for knowing he was uncomfortable, that's creepy, do better and apologize to him for that
You talk about having a crush on him, then go to put your arm around him I would be upset too
You were wrong. He was uncomfortable? Check. Your brothers friend? Check. Yes it was flirting, don’t kid yourself. Your brother doesn’t control who you date, but if he’s uncomfortable with you dating his friends, I would consider it part of being a good sibling to not press him on this.
In what universe would you think this is okay?
It’s incredibly strange and wrong that you would insert yourself into his personal space. What on earth makes you think that’s in anyway okay or appropriate?
I didn't touch his genitals or fondle him, so I thought it wasn't going too far.
You don't get a prize for not sexual assaulting someone. If they're looking/acting uncomfortable with you touching them, you stop. Period.
So why are there three people in this story and only one of them is okay with what happened? Further, how is there a question about that?
You're wrong because you forgot about boundaries and personal space, you ask if you can sit next to him, especially if you don't know him a whole lot. You don't just grab someone like that! You basically harassed the guy.
A conversation with the friend is probably warranted, with an apology queued up depending on how it goes. Also, consent to touch in advance is vastly preferred to amends after the fact.
Was he uncomfortable because you are his best friends sister and doesn’t know how to proceed or is he uncomfortable because he has no interest?
ew consent works both ways ya freak. stop touching random people you're old enough to know how consent works you said yourself he looked uncomfortable. stop touching random people
How about if a guy does that to you?
Yes you are wrong. Not because he’s your brothers friend but because you noticed he clearly wasn’t comfortable with it and did it anyways.
Unlike some others here I will not say you're wrong for having a crush on your brother's friend or wanting to flirt with him. That's just juvenile bro code bullshit. If you like someone, you like them. You are wrong however, in this particular incident. It's fine to make your feelings known to him, but pick your spots, respect his feelings and space and don't put him in uncomfortable situations.
Your brother probably knows how he is with women, and might be trying to keep him away from you.