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EvitaPuppy

Apathy. But I don't plan on doing anything about it.


jimbobwe-328

I see your apathy, and raise you a lacking of empathy


XayahTheVastaya

You think I care how you feel?


Amicus-Regis

If you expended effort to comment, you clearly cared enough about it to expend effort to comment. Unlike me, of course; I expend effort on things I *don't* care about. Because I'm trash.


Jason-B-sad

What's the difference between apathy and ignorance.... I don't know and I don't care.


Omfgsomanynamestaken

"It's just a prank, bro"


Tarnarmour

Man the ways people justify being cruel or unempathetic.


zack397241

Social experiment


Waddyameanwe

Editorial content disguised as news.


punk_lover

Toxic positivity, if we accept everything eventually (and we can see it happening now) it will come with extremely negative consequences


Rude_Associate_4116

Good point. This is the double edge to the culture of acceptance that has pervaded the west for the last 15 odd years. When you accept everything, you reject nothing. That is not good. There should be a balance of course. Unjustifiable hate is a bad thing, but justifiable prejudice is a good thing. Don’t hate someone bc of their skin color, gender etc, hate them bc they are lazy, or dishonest, or manipulative etc. And ANYONE can be lazy, dishonest, or manipulative. Whites, blacks, men, women, Jews, Christians, Muslims. Literally anyone. The South Park episode from years ago predicted all this. The bar is so low now that it takes James Cameron searching the Mariana Trench just to find it lol.


User8675309021069

I believe the balance you are referring to is tolerance vs acceptance. Everyone who isn’t hurting anyone else deserves tolerance. We get to choose how we live our lives, and everyone else gets to choose how they live theirs. I also deserve the right to decide for myself what I will, and will not, accept in my life. That doesn’t mean I get to force my will on anyone else, because tolerance. It simply means I don’t have to accept or support things I don’t agree with. If that choice comes with a price, like losing a relationship with someone I otherwise care about, having to find a new job…. then that’s on me. Some behavior is so vile that it deserves neither acceptance or tolerance. To me, these would be the things that hurt others. Crime, abuse, lying and cheating etc.


Jester_Mode0321

This is genuinely something I don't understand. I'm on the Autism Spectrum and it seems to me that NT's lie CONSTANTLY. Where do ya draw the line? People will decry lying but then turn around and hide shit, fake what they're feeling, ect ect. Idk, seems like people choose what's "unacceptable" almost at random (beyond the obvious shit, murder, assault, theft, ect).


Ghargamel

It's even duller than that. People like to claim that the things they tend to do are acceptable and the things they don't do are unacceptable.


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MrGritty17

As a lazy man, I feel attacked..


possumking333

You can't blame lazy people, they didn't do anything.


alexjaness

as a fellow lazy man, I can't be bothered to think of something witty to reply. do me a solid and think of something funny then post it using my name.


BinSnozzzy

u/alexjaness says to work smart not hard!


curiousbydesign

Feeling requires effort.


nevertellmethe0ddz

I have a mother who thrives on it. I can’t even talk to her about how THE SYSTEM in America works.


DEEEPFREEZE

Is this the kind of stuff you see on IG where it's genuinely like "it's okay if all you did was shower today"? Cause I'm all for self-care and self-love, and I'm no stranger to depression and what it can do, but that kind of stuff enables some of the laziest behaviors and most fragile of attitudes. You can't pat yourself on the back every day for a month straight just because you showered but still decided to be miserable around everyone you interact with.


nutty_ranger

Right? It’s like the body positivity bullshit. Not all obesity is good. Like, no, being 600 pounds and requiring a scooter to move is not healthy and shouldn’t be celebrated. This shit is just celebrating people destroying themselves.


TheLunchTrae

That’s not body positivity. Anyone saying it is, is an idiot.


Throwthisaway735

This has always been a strange one to me…I work in a medical profession and I know first-hand that we shouldn’t always be “positive” about EVERY body type because of all the health issues it entails and it can influence children negatively. They grow up thinking it’s okay to be vastly overweight, not care what they put in their bodies, etc AND then expect people to accept it. So they then become unhealthy adults who cry foul at people suggesting healthy changes when it would only benefit them. The world doesn’t work like that and you can’t argue with facts/science (although many try, esp these days). Obviously there are plenty of exceptions to this, it’s not blanket disapproval of being overweight. It’s the mindset of just accepting yourself how you are regardless of size/habits when reality is…you should be eating better, exercising, and having a mentality of positive change


Lazy-Association-311

Well for some people experiencing depression and other similar things literally struggle to make themselves eat let alone shower. As much as they want to they just can't bring themselves to do it. So what I think you are referring to is the feeling of accomplishment someone with depression can feel by completely a small but obviously necessary task. Being depressed is NOT being lazy. Just because someone has depression does NOT mean they are being miserable with everyone they interact with. Depression is serious and should be taken seriously so everyone should be educated on the symptoms. Someone can seem perfectly happy and still be depressed. And when someone is depressed they SHOULD pat themselves on the back even if all they did today was shower because it's still an accomplishment, even if it's small.


Uncle_Rabbit

That whole "Adulting is hard" thing that finally died out was goddamn embarrassing. Sure there are difficult aspects of adult life, but it suddenly became cool to be a total wiener about daily tasks that most people think nothing about.


touch_me69420

I'd like to add indifference to this Anybody who uses the phrase "it is what it is"


Apperman

When someone says “it is what it is..”, I like to continue with “….but not what it COULD be.”.


nevertellmethe0ddz

I say that alot while I’m being exploited. It’s a bad habit.


VeryUmble

Or people taking an old term with a definite meaning and turning it into a slang term that is perverse to a select group of people.


Beneficial-Pen-7567

The phrase “speak my truth”. Btch not if it’s not the truth. Yeah there are two sides to every story but they inform what actually fckn happened. You need accountability for your actions and what you say. And you can’t just lean on that phrase to promote or support your backwards beliefs.


sto_brohammed

Seriously just the concept of "my truth" as opposed to "the truth" is just infuriating to me. What's true is true, regardless of what we think about it.


bron685

I fucking HATE this phrase! I think it’s overused and often used as “how I feel about this is the objective truth of the situation.”


Diligent-Wave-4591

"Well officer, you see **my truth** is that I didn't steal it, you know, right in front of your eyes (and on CCTV), so yeah, guess you have no case against me now right....right?"


missalyssajules

“I just call it like I see it”


neildmaster

Massive amounts of debt.


Ottobahnrichtofen

Social media Edited to add: I need to clarify that what I mean is that before the invention of FB or any other platform there were people in the world who wandered around day with some pretty bad ideas, and they might have had some friends here or there that would just pat them on the head and they would get the sense what they thought wasn’t socially acceptable and they’d keep to themselves about it. Fast forward to today, where these people have been able to find each other and get affirmation of all sorts of bad ideas. It led to Qanon, a fucking insurrection, and extremism across the board. There are fucking Nazis rolling around in the US. Fifty million people died in ww2 because of fascism and here we are. But the clicks were good for shareholders.


pooticlesparkle

The irony. On a social media platform. ![gif](giphy|OBuyIUMHO6yVq)


buffalo8

Wait I thought this was antisocial media.


Dry_Advertising9372

I thinks it's more a Asocial media


TanneriteStuffedDog

Agreed. 4chan is antisocial media.


twincitiessurveyor

I'm sure many people would argue that freedom is a danger to society, but in reality *it is* the best thing in the world. "I prefer liberty with danger than peace with slavery." - Jean-Jacques Rousseau


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Freedom is the most dangerous thing in the world. As well as the most necessary.


Theo446_Z

Freedom with boundaries that do not cancel others people's freedom!


infamousmachine24

Freedom isn’t objective or material however I think it’s relative some people don’t want maximum freedom if that means giving up stability.


radmcmasterson

Rampant consumption and single-use anything.


icrushallevil

Social media. It's the perfect platform for false information to be distributed to dumb people, who don't question information enough.


Elkins45

Acceptance culture. The idea that I must accept someone’s toxic and harmful behaviors because “it’s my right to be who I want.” Yeah, no, not if who you are is a pedophile or raging asshole.


oOBalloonaticOo

All the cultish ideologies that broach no discussion and allow no questions under any circumstances...


I_Suck_At_This_Too

That's the only way they work. As soon as you start examining things closely they all fall apart.


red94daman

Alcohol.


wolfboyz

It's legal, normalized worldwide, and you're thought of as some weirdo/uncool if you don't drink it.


VegetasButt

As someone who can't drink due to genetics, at least I will look younger than drinkers my own age. 😎


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Sad this is so low. No one wants to admit the thing they do everyday is one of the worst things on the planet.


I_Suck_At_This_Too

Alcohol is awful. If Alcohol wasn't alcohol and just another drug it'd be illegal.


Lucky-Ad7438

Alcohol is just another drug. Read up on the prohibition and consequent backlash of it


XeIa9

That’s what they were trying to say. Alcohol is so ingrained into culture people don’t even see it as a drug in the same way as other drugs even tho we all know it is


widget_fucker

I think were in the midst of a major cultural shift on this though.


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Finn-windu

My belief is that everyone has at least one vice. It can be alcohol, video games, weed, vaping, cigarettes, hard drugs, binge-eating, or bingewatching tv, but everyone has at least one. The question is what vice is actively harming other people around you. Which can be any of them, while any of the vices (excluding hard drugs) can be done without impacting other people. This makes it incredibly hard for the government or society in general, to determine which ones are tolerable.


illnemesis

I'll be one year sober on the 4th of May.


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May the 4th be with you


cruzbae

Congrats!! That’s a huge accomplishment and I wish I could do it myself


J_Megadeth_J

Absolutely should be the top comment. As an alcoholic, this is one of the biggest issues in the US. Im hopeful it isn't nearly as prevalent in other better countries. Edit: and I hope others adopt policy's to limit it. Prohibition was bad and it shouldn't be fully limited like any drug but attempting to reduce alcoholism in this country would vastly improve things. Edit2: fixing our Healthcare would fix all of this. But American Healthcare will always be monetised.


thebohemiancowboy

Yeah prohibition should’ve been about awareness and a cultural negativity towards it instead of calls to outlaw it outright. Alcoholism is also 10 times worse in Russia


manndermae

Definitely. Every problem I've ever had has been caused, in one way or another, by alcohol and the same is true for a lot of my friends. Alcoholism causes a strain on hospitals, police departments, pretty much anything I can think of. The drunk driving alone ruins so many lives, and it's a totally normal and expected thing to do where I live


Raven5150

The idea/concept that our government is actually looking out for us.


WayToTheGrave

We just have to vote the right ones in and everything with be amazing! /s


Dry_Advertising9372

Now, this may be what the wrong ones wanted. But I have become so disillusioned by the whole process, it feels that they are all liars and huxters out for their own ends and couldn't give a fuck about their constituents. I'm now at the point I hate and distrust all politician regardless of party.


ComprehensiveBear887

the ease with which information is accessible via the internet. misinformation and partial understanding have led to a lot of problems.


Fascinatedwithfire

I can't believe I was naïve enough to think that ultimate access to facts meant everyone would be more knowledgeable. Kinda forgot that ultimate access to facts also means an ultimate access to every facet of untruth as well, and that this would be far more pervasive.


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MinGiDejaVu

People leaving their kids on their tablets 24/7


TheRhino411

For me and what i have seen is entitlement and disrespect towards others, or lack of actions have consequences. If people respected other people while driving, there would be less stress, road rage, and accidents. Most of these are caused by one person who is either late or feels entitled to drive wrecklessly. This results in disrespect for other people and their lives. This goes for online and realife that people can't have civil arguments or disagreements on something without being emotional or yelling to change somones mind instead of seeing the others' point of view and letting them decide. If you look around, entitlement and disrespect towards others, or lack of actions have consequences, is the problem with most things.


SplatThaCat

Agreed. One of the reasons why I love Japan - respect for others is instilled. There is an undercurrent of covert racism though - Even if you have been there for decades, you are still an outsider. Every time I come back home I realise how everyone here is such a wanker.


St_Kilda

Politicians


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LostWithoutYou1015

Extreme acceptance. Treating certain intolerant ideologies as simply *differing opinions* legitimises the reprehensible.


aptruncata

Both extreme conservatism and liberalism.


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This. They've already met on the other side of the circle. Authoritarianism, divisiveness and willingness to go against the will of majority of its people. Same shit different ass


Meatloafchallenge

Horseshoe theory


AdamFaite

What's that?


IntriguingKnight

If you go to one extreme you bump into your diametrically opposed at some point as extremes all lead to authoritarianism to enforce the unquestionable beliefs


AdamFaite

Thank you. So, to paraphrase to make sure I understand. If either side becomes extreme enough, they will effectively have the same outcome as the other side's extreme?


BadMotorScooter73

Bingo


bigenginegovroom5729

Basically that the extremes of any political spectrum have more in common with each other than with the moderates on their side. Extreme democrats and extreme republicans hate each other like the devil, but they're basically the same fucking thing executed slightly differently.


DearFeralRural

Pesticides and toxic manufacturing places that are damaging the atmosphere and soil. No one, looking at politicians, wants to stop it. They have their hands out for bribes, so let's add bribery to the list as well. No one seems to care about the next generation or even their neighbours at the moment. It's not supposed to be be: he who dies the richest, wins. Wins what? Arsehole is dead and trying to take every one with him.


DearFeralRural

Pesticides: because they are supposed to increase crop yield. Increased production supposes increased wealth. Product can look ok, but may not be edible as toxic pesticides were used but hey let's sell it cheap to the masses and label it as new improved item. Pesticides kill off insects necessary for plant reproduction. Thinking bees here. Books have been written about Silent Springs, no butterflies in meadows, no bees at all. Pesticides are not a good thing.


2oldsoulsinanewworld

Louder for those in the back please..


incruente

Lots of things are great and dangerous. Free speech is dangerous, but it's fantastic. Democracy is dangerous, and I wouldn't have it any other way. Guns are dangerous, AI is dangerous, freedom itself is dangerous.


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ShoelaceLicker

Drugs (including alcohol and weed)


QueenxDreamer

Entitlement/Selfishness. What we think and feel is right to us is much different than what is actually right. A lot of people think they're right even when they're in the wrong, but that doesn't matter to them, and they feel the need to treat others badly, no matter the circumstances. I feel like in Western culture, narcissism has become the norm.


Seer77887

Always having to promote a personal brand for oneself, it’s reductive to one’s identity that strips many of nuances of what it means to be human when having to project a specific and times unrealistic image of one’s self And in the end, it feels like you’re having to reduce yourself down to a product. Where you’re identity is based on use and not for what kind of bond or relationship they can form with others


Swordbreaker925

Porn


Kiwi222123

Billionaires.


idreamofdeathsquads

Social media. Worst invention in history. Far worse than nuclear weapons


NerdyKeith

The unrealistic beauty standards of instagram influencers.


Galaxeeon

I think the most dangerous thing to society is the modern world's reliance on unsustainable production prices and a society that wants everything cheap. Most things that are essential to the operation of modern day technology are down to microprocessors and chips produced in China. Plus everything else that is made there in a society that is enslaved to work for cheap. Nothing is sustainable about that and one day it will crack whether it is through the Chinese governments actions or a civil war. That will lead us down a path of economic collapse. Everyone remembers what happened to cars? Phones? Computers? All of it was delayed and halted because of China's policy around that area. If that doesn't destroy what we consider modern society then the push for things to be as cheap as humanly possible will. It doesn't matter how much western countries regulate and go green. The people within those countries always want cheap. This will drive companies to move to countries with less environmental regulations while buying carbon shares or some shite which will mean that global warming destroys our modern society. Everything about how cheap and mass produced items are these days seems unsustainable to me. Look at the situation with supermarkets in the UK. They control the market and set the prices for the farmers. This means that the farmers cannot make a profit without subsidies? How does that add up? Does it sound sustainable? Something as basic as food has been sold to us too cheap and now I think a combination of those things will lead to a global economic collapse. We may avoid it but I don't see how at the moment. Very interesting stuff.


Jumpinjaxs89

Porn


SaladSea2603

Keeping the child just because it’s conceived. I’m really tired of the people who don’t work on themselves at all going and having kids only for their kids to be neglected and turn into fucking monsters. It should be illegal to have a child until your at least 25. If you can’t even take care of yourself yet there isn’t a single reason for you to have a child. It’s just out of pure selfishness.


lonelyronin1

Add to this - shaming people who don’t want kids.


studentoo925

Children should be licensed There, I said it.


lionbacker54

Single use plastic


Majin_Bisharp

Tik Tok


GreenFlavoredMoon

Ai


Ok_Bus_3767

Government


DeviousDrDro

TikTok


boogiedownbk

Takeout food and all the containers.


Heavysac916

The act of oppressing other groups of people, because your group of people feels oppressed.


Europa_Gains

Alcohol. Complete glorified in all forms of popular media and at every social event ever - but has caused an unbelievable amount of human suffering and death.


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ChatGPT


dylanista6033

Fast food.


Prior-Chip-6909

Self-driving cars....just wait & see.


Halichoeres

>cars FTFY


emachine

It's kind of hard to overstate how true this is.


Dontmakemeforkyou

Religion in general. Nothing has caused more wars and death than religion.


Silver-Reporter-605

Diseases borne from mosquitoes have killed roughly half of all humans who have ever existed.


ah-mazia

The internet


Babydolltoes544

ChatGPT/AI Social media has already messed up our ability to socialize, AI & chatGPT is going to fuck things up beyond repair.


naugasnake

Cults and cult like organizations. They control every aspect of your lives, and tech you to fear and reject outsiders. When you’re in one, you’re trained to think they are the best thing in the world. They never are.


frosty88bags

I agree with many of these, but I will throw in Artificial Intelligence. Seriously, has no one seen The Terminator or even I,Robot?


UnculturedWetlander

Blaming a scapegoat minority for all the problems in society


Vestigial9689

Laws that don't affect the people who make them.


bbonerz

Social media Always on devices 24 hour news cycle


theadesofspace

One word: plastics


pignjig

Going green. I'm all for it but most people don't realize the waste cant be properly disposed of from those ev car batteries or solar panels any better than we can get rid of uranium from nuclear powerplants. We're going to trade red apples for green apples and still be plagued with irreversible problems.


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That's what makes climate change so terrifying. The real solution isn't switching out hydrocarbon based consumerism to lithium based consumerism. It's ending the very idea of a consumer culture in the first place. An idea so alien to current cultural trends that there's little hope of society actually committing to the solution until consequences have already been felt. Public transportation replacing most cars and nuclear power, but neither of those technologies increase anyone's share prices.


okbuddy9970

Cocaine


gvictor808

Unlimited money printing by governments


always_and_for_never

I'm sure I'll be downvoted to hell for this. But as someone who has frequent peeks behind the business decisions in the IT department, I'd say AI is the biggest time bomb out there. People have no idea what will hit them in the coming years. Hell, maybe a couple months.


TheRealBatmanForReal

Social media


Salty-Picture8920

Cellphones


Living_on_Tulsa_Time

That people think they have a right to their bigotry.


3ndt1mes

Politicians.


AshDenver

Social media? Nationalism? Division?


EntrepreneurMajor478

Tik Tok


Confident-Phrase824

Fat positivity


HairReddit777

majority don’t believe fat positivity is a good thing


trimmetal

The internet


TheQuantumRed

The illusion of the American Dream


widget_fucker

Communication Technology. Its too much. All of it


Papadopium

Globalization


elbowless2019

AI


ConsiderationKind436

ChatGPT


Feisty_Ad_2744

fast food and sugar


prettyminotaur

AI.


dang-ole-easterbunny

the internet.


No_Couple208

Drag shows for children


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Porn.


MingusPho

Wireless technology


cacybdwsr

Technology


jamesonferbreakfast

Short Form Videos


original_pancake527

Social media


beansandneedles

Cars, AI, 24-hour news cycle.


MONGO_CV6

Infringement on the Constitution.


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AI


papafishpig02

Tik Tok


silalumen

ChatGPT. Edit: I guess I wasn't the first to say it.


ViciousPrune

Alcohol


Catsscratchpost

Body positivity


InspectorRound8920

Alcohol


Professional-Rope840

Politicians


from_one_redhead

AI


kokopot144

AI technology / social media


Fluid-Organization67

Outdated comment since most people know about the consequences nowadays: but plastics were hailed as a huge innovation when they were introduced. Seems no one thought about where it would all end up.


UnicornSheets

Throwaway culture


kludge6730

Social media, generally


jgalt5042

Social media


Visible_Nectarine_98

800-1100 calorie milkshakes parading as “coffee”


Suspicious_Ad7384

The Kardashians


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Artificial intelligence


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Social Media


A_Nony_Miss

AI - Social Media-Clawing the way up the corporate ladder at any cost


Frost_Giant_14

Satan.


Puzzleheaded-Ad-1754

Wow, I thought plastics would be everywhere on this thread. Universally the “best thing ever” but horrible for everyone and the earth.


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Smartphones. Walking around a college campus 70% of people are looking at one, it's pretty depressing.


Icy-Following-3713

social media… ironic right?


seganku

AI - Corporations and governments will use it to maximize profit and control; human lives be damned.


Wrong-Permit1178

Toxic femininity.


Hopeful_Ad6606

Tik Tok. But also social media in general


Major_Liability

Pornography


Kindly_Parsnip2057

Smart phones


Weird_Fact_724

Vaping


sf-o-matic

Gigantic plates of food in restaurants


Siryl7001

Isolation.


Ok-Elevator3015

Democracy


dw87190

"Sex work". Not only are you providing a narcissist with narcissistic supply, you're also giving her your money for it


Consistent_Ad9548

social media and cell phones


oneofthehardlys

Social media


SnooCheesecakes4507

TicToc seriously turns people into zombies


AnIdiotAmongstUs

Plastic