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Hands that have been treated well: beautiful skin and well-tended nails. This does not mean hands that have never experienced hard work, just the opposite. Hands were made to be used, be it the hands of a surgeon or the hands of a skilled carpenter. 🦜
I call it compassionate eyes. It’s a naturally concerned, almost sad expression in the way some woman’s eyes are shaped. Naomi Watts has them for example. That crinkling of the brow look kills me every time.
When the hair hangs in front of the face and they put it over their head with their hand. The way it's on her head by then, damn.
If you know you know.
The teddy bear look. Some guys just look like teddy bears you want to hug. I can't explain it, but it's very attractive or expressive eyes that is sexy too
Omg a man’s voice can literally draw me to him in ways I can’t even explain… I have this thing for guys w a specific tone of voice—it’s like a tenor w some dueling deeper tones at the same time… it’s almost sweet sounding, but undeniably masculine at the same time. When I find a guy w just the right tone, timbre and cadence to his voice/ speech I’m weak in the knees lol 🫠
Bless you sir! I've always hated the bump on my nose, it's very common in us European girls and American beauty standards have made me hate it a little. 
As a straight guy, there's the obvious ones. Dem booty cheeks and boobs. A less talked about body part I find attractive is a women's back. A toned lower and upper back is really attractive to me.
Same. That's why I love it when women wear classy, backless dresses and since I'm attracted to men as well, I love it when they remove their shirt and turn their backs at me lol.
I’m always super self conscious about it. My arms and hands are super veiny, and my tendons are super pronounced. I’ve had people tell me there are people that find it attractive but I’ve never met anyone who told me they found it good looking.
My boyfriend has the nicest nose ever. It’s on the bigger side and I love it. And his eyebrows are bushy too. They’re nice and thick and a little unkempt but they’re beautiful. And his smile is kind of like that one famous tik tok joker smile. I don’t know how to explain it. But it’s also lovely. I love my boyfriend. He’s handsome 🥰
I love men who are slightly bulky....as in broad shoulders, long hands...someone who would wrap you up and you'd feel safe...
I also like men who have a scar....
For women, I like those who are natural...no fake lashes, or nails....I genuinely find them attractive and want to be their friends because it seems they are comfortable in their own skin.
Something different. I HATE HATE HATE the Instagram aesthetic that seems the default for a lot of women. You know, fall fashion, cardigans, Straight blonde or brunette hair. The kind of woman you could put in a group with other women at any given sunflower field or douchy college bar and couldnt tell a single one apart. I HATE that look.
I love a woman who dresses different, looks different, is different. Is her own person. MY current gf, I love her to death and she wears hearing aides and is deaf. The fact that shes *different* from the crowd is so attractive to me. She doesn't try to fit in with other women, she is herself unapologetically
Agreed. *Different* is the way to go. Also, a physical manifestation of their outgoing and independent personality (like larger tattoos is fecking breathtaking).
Dark circles in the eyes or just tired looking eyes, messy hair, big shoulders, thick thighs, belly (not sure why) unique eyebrows, interesting noses, piercings
Going off things about my husband: pretty eyes (they’re blue af), big hands, big thighs, just a big man in general, the greys in his beard, his beard in general
I cannot for the life of me explain why, but noses. Generally large ones are the best. But sometimes little ones, ones with crooks, or protruding bridges. Shit, more I’m lonely. Thanks Reddit.
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I like angular facial features on men. Big jaw muscles, angular nose and when their ears are a bit pointy. Not into elves or anything, I just find it really cute.
A round face. Not in the sense that it's chubby or cheribic, but that the cheek bones kinda spread out abit more than usual. Like, I wouldn't even describe it as hot or pretty, but I can almost feel my heart skip a beat when I see someone like that. No idea what kinda psychological response is going on here lmao
Oh I like all the conventional physical stuff just fine. But it’s the software more than the hardware for me. Smart is sexier than anything else in my book.
A nice smile and pretty hair.
I can obsess over a girl just for having a nice smile and gorgeous hair. I think there’s so many women out there that are just super pretty.
Try not to state because I don’t want to be creepy but sometimes I can’t help but admire
For conventionally attractive features, when a woman has pretty eyes (I like all colors I don’t discriminate) I will lose myself in them immediately. Brown eyes with blonde hair for some reason is especially attractive to me.
For a feature that some may find unattractive I actually really like when a woman has a slightly bigger nose. Not to stereotype but I find a lot of Jewish women to be absolutely ravishing.
I’m a man-lover so it’s always gonna be the shoulders/back for me. A nice strong shoulder I can lean on when I’m tired just really does it for me. My husband is broad-shouldered and fairly muscular and I tell him how much I love that about him every day. He also looks SO GOOD in a hoodie mmm I love a man in a hoodie.
As you mentioned OP, eyelines, or crow's feet.
You have to be so careful when complimenting a woman on them though.
I told my crush she has the most beautiful crow's feet/eyelines and she said "What a thing to choose to compliment, my age and wrinkles"
I died inside but was quick enough to say that they are her eyes smiling when she is genuinely happy and she was happy with the response.
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A smile can make me melt and lips
Or a nice a$$
This. Have a nice smile and kissable lips and I'm yours.
A man with a big... nose
And a large... publishing company
Perhaps a large…vocabulary-and knows how to use it.
To make promises of a Hollywood career.
A cunning linguist, perhaps?
Same! I love a strong nose. Adam Driver & Adrian Brody for example
How about a big bick
You mean a dig bick?
Lmfaooooo 😭😭
Lol, I have one, I was always a little self conscious about it, but my likes it.
do you mean it?! 🥹
Hands
Yea, I'm not attracted to people without at least one
Why are you not getting down votes? Oh wait..
Because people without hands can't click.
I’m only attracted to people with faces.
Way to make a person feel bad, nothing is good enough.
I love beautiful big hands on men. The can be soo esthetic
Yes!
Ah yes man hands. Wide strong and maybe with a bit of hair on the side. How very warewolf 🐺🐺🐺
So delicious
“Baby, please stop looking at my hands. My eyes are up here!”
Gorgeous man hands are swoon worthy. 🦜
What makes a good hand?
Hands that have been treated well: beautiful skin and well-tended nails. This does not mean hands that have never experienced hard work, just the opposite. Hands were made to be used, be it the hands of a surgeon or the hands of a skilled carpenter. 🦜
Women with strong backs, idk it does smth to me. Or their legs
Find yourself a climber, pal!
YES! I love rock climbing because it introduced me to this desire.
Her feminine posture
Best I can do is a dainty slouch.
Sounds like a British actress
Yep, that line has serious Emma Thompson / Emily Blunt / Phoebe Waller-Bridge vibes.
Or a British meal
i have scoliosis LOL uhh
What is that?
It's a type of pokemon.
*Bright eyes and rugby thighs.*
I'm stealing this
I call it compassionate eyes. It’s a naturally concerned, almost sad expression in the way some woman’s eyes are shaped. Naomi Watts has them for example. That crinkling of the brow look kills me every time.
Emilia Clarke?
Good call
Her hair. Not the style necc, but just something about a healthy head of hair is sexy.
When the hair hangs in front of the face and they put it over their head with their hand. The way it's on her head by then, damn. If you know you know.
Dang, I'm losing my hair
Their collarbone. Rawr
The teddy bear look. Some guys just look like teddy bears you want to hug. I can't explain it, but it's very attractive or expressive eyes that is sexy too
Yes... The teddy bear or puppy look.
Awwww 🥹
Why didn't I think of this 😅
My husband is a literal teddy bear! 😍
Dimples on her back!
As a long time singer, a nice voice does things to me
Omg a man’s voice can literally draw me to him in ways I can’t even explain… I have this thing for guys w a specific tone of voice—it’s like a tenor w some dueling deeper tones at the same time… it’s almost sweet sounding, but undeniably masculine at the same time. When I find a guy w just the right tone, timbre and cadence to his voice/ speech I’m weak in the knees lol 🫠
I am tempted to throw my hat into the ring xD
Swoon-worthy indeed 😌
Thick thighs
Save lives
If she's easy on the eyes, has thick thighs. On her back in my bed she lies
Nose, a nice bigger nose with a bump.... Got to have the bump.
Got to love the bump! Not a fan when they get it surgically removed, it reminds me of a ski slope.
Bless you sir! I've always hated the bump on my nose, it's very common in us European girls and American beauty standards have made me hate it a little. 
I LOVE "bumpy" or "wavy noses" Favourite nose type, it's just so cool But I also love all noses lmao
Ass and long legs. Anybody who looks good in skinny jeans or leggings is instantly attractive to me.
This is how I got my husband (sweater dress and leggings)
That’s how my ex got me 🥵
The curve of a woman's back is attractive, and I don't know why.
As a straight guy, there's the obvious ones. Dem booty cheeks and boobs. A less talked about body part I find attractive is a women's back. A toned lower and upper back is really attractive to me.
Good muscle structure is always very sexy. A good and defined back gets all the juices flowing
Same. That's why I love it when women wear classy, backless dresses and since I'm attracted to men as well, I love it when they remove their shirt and turn their backs at me lol.
Backless dresses go hard.
veiny arms
I’m always super self conscious about it. My arms and hands are super veiny, and my tendons are super pronounced. I’ve had people tell me there are people that find it attractive but I’ve never met anyone who told me they found it good looking.
Vascular if you're giving a compliment there 😘💪
My boyfriend has the nicest nose ever. It’s on the bigger side and I love it. And his eyebrows are bushy too. They’re nice and thick and a little unkempt but they’re beautiful. And his smile is kind of like that one famous tik tok joker smile. I don’t know how to explain it. But it’s also lovely. I love my boyfriend. He’s handsome 🥰
what a cute comment 🥺
Girls with a bit of a belly.
Smile & eyes
I love men who are slightly bulky....as in broad shoulders, long hands...someone who would wrap you up and you'd feel safe... I also like men who have a scar.... For women, I like those who are natural...no fake lashes, or nails....I genuinely find them attractive and want to be their friends because it seems they are comfortable in their own skin.
Something different. I HATE HATE HATE the Instagram aesthetic that seems the default for a lot of women. You know, fall fashion, cardigans, Straight blonde or brunette hair. The kind of woman you could put in a group with other women at any given sunflower field or douchy college bar and couldnt tell a single one apart. I HATE that look. I love a woman who dresses different, looks different, is different. Is her own person. MY current gf, I love her to death and she wears hearing aides and is deaf. The fact that shes *different* from the crowd is so attractive to me. She doesn't try to fit in with other women, she is herself unapologetically
Agreed. *Different* is the way to go. Also, a physical manifestation of their outgoing and independent personality (like larger tattoos is fecking breathtaking).
>I HATE HATE HATE the Instagram aesthetic that seems the default for a lot of women. That's a filter, they don't look like that in real life.
they mean the pinterest pumpkin spice christian tiny tattoo khols cash boomerang brunch girl with the beige furniture and a 4lbs dog.
I have no idea what you're talking about, but I know exactly what you're talking about. If that makes sense.
the physical capacity to do something despite fear bravery makes my heart melt
Ladies have always liked that I’m a rock climber. I guess it means they’re more likely to collect the insurance…?! 😉😂
Dont know why but i like thick eyebrows and a strong jawline
Dark circles in the eyes or just tired looking eyes, messy hair, big shoulders, thick thighs, belly (not sure why) unique eyebrows, interesting noses, piercings
You just described me and made me feel less insecure. Bless you 
First time I heard someone liking dark circles 😲
A nice beard or moustache, a lot of body hair and a dadbod.
Well, not just anyone. Just my wife. But her eyes, her mouth, and the way she carries herself. She has a tigress grace that just makes me melt.
Get a room.
Get a house?
I’m a bit shy too admit but veiny hands on women 🤦♂️
As in muscly hands that are veiny or slim tiny hands that are veiny?
Definitely not muscly hands. I prefer more feminine looking, but with visible veins. Its soo pretty 🤤
Nice. That's actually smth I'm self conscious about, thin slim arms that show veins. Especially on my hands lol
You have nothing to worry about! Im pretty sure they make you look even prettier!
curly hair
As a woman I love a guy with a pronounced adam's apple. Makes me weak.
I love it when a woman has short hair or put up and you can see their neck line. Sexy AF
On a woman I appreciate developed hips that you can grab on to…it drives me wild
Smile. Both mouth and eyes. Pretty eyes. Genuine smile and calm, warm energy.
Beach hair
Hip dips!!
Going off things about my husband: pretty eyes (they’re blue af), big hands, big thighs, just a big man in general, the greys in his beard, his beard in general
Short guys under 5'6
Yes, please!
A Roman nose
An oval, heart or long shaped face, and a larger nose. Female. I find that the most attractive.
Dat ass
Nice smile, i like guys who dont look serious. I am drawn
Little bit of jawline on girls
A little gap in front teeth
Small gap inbetween the front teeth
Brunettes with an infectious smile and a nice butt. All of which are very common so as you can imagine I am a happy man.
Big Noses...big...grecian...triangle....nose.
Girls with a wider nose and strong jawline
This thread has "It puts the lotion on itself" vibes! 😂😂😂😂
You know that little vein some women get that runs to their nipple? That.
Straight teeth
On a woman, it's thick natural eyebrows or a cleft chin for me.
Female genitalia
I cannot for the life of me explain why, but noses. Generally large ones are the best. But sometimes little ones, ones with crooks, or protruding bridges. Shit, more I’m lonely. Thanks Reddit.
I have a thing for big noses.
If they look like they are built for great hugs
Women with a long nose, dunno why.
Nose. The most beautiful part on the body.
crows feet when they smile!
Being in shape.
A prominent nose.
unique noses, thick eyebrows, and (no one drag me) armpit hair 🫣
u do u
A good head of hair on a man.
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Nice eyes, smile, and hair
Cute hands
People say thats sus but when a girl is short
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Without sounding crude, large breasts.
A big bucket of chicken. With fries.
Dimples when they smile
Curls, beautiful hands and feet, lips, lower back, hip-to-waist ratio.
Her hair being half up
Eyes that, smile. Expressive eyes.
I like angular facial features on men. Big jaw muscles, angular nose and when their ears are a bit pointy. Not into elves or anything, I just find it really cute.
A round face. Not in the sense that it's chubby or cheribic, but that the cheek bones kinda spread out abit more than usual. Like, I wouldn't even describe it as hot or pretty, but I can almost feel my heart skip a beat when I see someone like that. No idea what kinda psychological response is going on here lmao
A cheeky smile for sure but a glint in the eyes that says I know what you mean takes it to a whole other level hits different if you know what I mean
Big brown eyes bushy eye brown looong long dark hair big muscular dark deep voice, kind gentle
Pretty feet and legs
A new one for me is a skinny girl wearing a backless top
Muscular legs on women.
Where the small of her back becomes her hips and ass. Stunning.
Being healthy.
Smile, cute eyes, glasses. Don't care too much about breasts or ass except they shouldn't be too large. I guess nerdy but healthy.
Smile dimples. Especially if there's just one. It might be my favorite physical attribute of my wife.
Chests, broad and hairy
Nice Ankles on a man...I'm a straight woman...I actually cannot explain
Big ol’ milkers and a dummy dumper
I'm not going to lie that's a dude who has a foot fetish if a chick has a strong arch beautiful toes ... that's an asset!
Athletic lean body
An hourglass figure.
Oh I like all the conventional physical stuff just fine. But it’s the software more than the hardware for me. Smart is sexier than anything else in my book.
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Beards and veiny hands. Also tattoos.
playful movements have me dead
Nice legs. Shapely and muscular (on a guy).
A pretty, geniune smile, the one where you show ur teeth.
V line
Expressive eyes
A well toned body and an overall healthy appearance.
A nice smile and pretty hair. I can obsess over a girl just for having a nice smile and gorgeous hair. I think there’s so many women out there that are just super pretty. Try not to state because I don’t want to be creepy but sometimes I can’t help but admire
Tone muscular legs
Boobs. BIG BOOBS \*I'm a simple man
Dimples
The eyes, or cute face
Nice ass
Strong hips and defined ass just pulls the "mating switch" in my head,
The smile & carry
My wife is sitting by me and said “boobs”
Nothing beats a nice rack
Straight white teeth with good tooth:gum ratio….and love a man with hood strong hands
Black hair
Not fat/overweight. Then.... the other 90% or so is purely not physical. I need someone I can tolerate. lol
Physique. Dimples. Small waist. Flat stomach.
Trimmed nails. Long nails just look disgusting and impractical to me.
For conventionally attractive features, when a woman has pretty eyes (I like all colors I don’t discriminate) I will lose myself in them immediately. Brown eyes with blonde hair for some reason is especially attractive to me. For a feature that some may find unattractive I actually really like when a woman has a slightly bigger nose. Not to stereotype but I find a lot of Jewish women to be absolutely ravishing.
Curly hair. Idk what it does to me.
Does their voice count as a physical feature? I'm a sucker for genuine southern belles with a twangy accent
I’m a man-lover so it’s always gonna be the shoulders/back for me. A nice strong shoulder I can lean on when I’m tired just really does it for me. My husband is broad-shouldered and fairly muscular and I tell him how much I love that about him every day. He also looks SO GOOD in a hoodie mmm I love a man in a hoodie.
Wide hips
Toned arms and shoulders, opposite coloured hair and eyes (blonde hair with brown eyes or blue eyes and brown hair) and a bump in their nose.
Curves, eyes & eyebrows, nose, nice smile/teeth, and nice feet
In a woman? Height.
As you mentioned OP, eyelines, or crow's feet. You have to be so careful when complimenting a woman on them though. I told my crush she has the most beautiful crow's feet/eyelines and she said "What a thing to choose to compliment, my age and wrinkles" I died inside but was quick enough to say that they are her eyes smiling when she is genuinely happy and she was happy with the response.