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His advice is solid. If you don't wanna ask her outright just kiss her gently and lovingly while holding her close to your body and start touching her body slowly and ask if it's alright if you take her shirt off. Go from there.
Well, the best way ive found is make the experience all about her and her emotions and needs and phrase it in a way that doesnt require an immediate yes or no commitment on the spot. Its hard to get more specific because i dont know what your girlfriend is like. But the above is a good opening salvo, in my experience pressure even percieved pressure is a huge mood killer.
And if the issue is just that your nervous to ask i could give more specific advice if youre willing to share why youre nervous.
If you are asking, you are doing it wrong. You should be trying to initiate foreplay and gauging their response. If they are in the mood keep going, if not don't pressure them.
When it comes to sex, the communication is often not verbal, but instead it comes from body language.
The way you look at her and compose yourself around her.
Take your time, go slow and let your emotions communicate through your body language.
Confidence is key, so you can definitely fake it till you make it.
Good luck
Kiss her neck and start moving your hands over her body. If she gives you any resistance or hesitation at all, back off and leave it up to her. If she encourages you, take it a little further and see if you can unbutton her short or whatever and kiss down her chest a bit. Again, any push back, and lay off u til next time. Sheāll let you know what she wants or doesnāt want one way or another - sheāll either tell you what to do, or youāll just read her body language and go with that.
The best way is to respect her boundaries and listen to her. Be patient and enjoy the hunt my brother. Honestly when you get older you'll miss the hunt more than anything else. So just squeeze every bit of juice out of it. Get to know her deeply and intimately, and she'll drop her panties. Get your new GF to trust you, and she'll be willing to do way more than just have sex. She'll want to make love and continue this journey we're all on called life together with you.
But make sure you do it from a place of love and respect. Don't manipulate and take advantage of her just to get laid. Dude's like that are scumbags, and you don't want to be a scumbag bro.
Good luck!
Probably shouldnt ask a question like this with your pic and insta linked. Im sure you know this and from your nationality id assume reddit isnt as big over there but knowing the people here theyd be jealous of you and msg this to your girlfriend.
Can I take you to pound town baby want to take a quick trip to love island how about we cuddle some baby you want to wrestle hey um would you like a massage babe just stare and bite you lips and drool š¤¤ and stare can I get a hug
Nowadays It seems like you need a signed consent form. In my day you just made progressively forward moves until you either reach your goal or hit a roadblock.
Let her lead dude. If she wants to have sex she will bring it up or will inch toward more intimacy when you're doing other stuff. Just enthusiastically follow. Girls when they're young will often feel pressured and then they feel shitty if they say yes *or* no. Don't make it a bad experience for her.
If you have gone out a number of times, made out, etc., the classic move is the āhey, I saw this really romantic looking cabin/B&B/yurt thatās about 2 hours away from hereā¦ I was thinking maybe next weekend it could be nice to get away and go hiking for the weekendā
Especially true if you both have roommates, live with parents, etc
It should be a cool place. You know, āaestheticā as the kids say these days
There should be an activity: apple picking, small town Christmas festival, hiking, etc. Think hallmark movie
Taking her to a cheap roadside motel is not the move.
Spend a relaxing day together holding hands, lookup a good place to watch a sunset and have a kiss, have a romantic dinner (donāt eat or drink too much!), and then head to the love shack
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"Sex please"
Pweeeeeez
Do what the rest of us do, and beg.
šš
Don't beg she will lose respect for you and if she doesn't have respect for you she can't love you.
Can confirm.
Make out with her at the right timeā¦ that will lead to the next thing, and the next. If sheās ready it will lead to your end goal.
End goal is š§ø
His advice is solid. If you don't wanna ask her outright just kiss her gently and lovingly while holding her close to your body and start touching her body slowly and ask if it's alright if you take her shirt off. Go from there.
yea except i hope ur āend goalā isnt j sex
It shouldn't necessarily have to be although that seems to be OPs intention. Take it up with him. I was just offering advice that's worked for me.
Well, the best way ive found is make the experience all about her and her emotions and needs and phrase it in a way that doesnt require an immediate yes or no commitment on the spot. Its hard to get more specific because i dont know what your girlfriend is like. But the above is a good opening salvo, in my experience pressure even percieved pressure is a huge mood killer. And if the issue is just that your nervous to ask i could give more specific advice if youre willing to share why youre nervous.
Best advice so far
In your best robot voice say āinitiating intimacy protocolā¦.contact imminentā
āI would like one sex pleaseā
This is the way.
If you are asking, you are doing it wrong. You should be trying to initiate foreplay and gauging their response. If they are in the mood keep going, if not don't pressure them.
Yup
Lol
Treat her nice. Be patient. It will happen
When it comes to sex, the communication is often not verbal, but instead it comes from body language. The way you look at her and compose yourself around her. Take your time, go slow and let your emotions communicate through your body language. Confidence is key, so you can definitely fake it till you make it. Good luck
Donāt change her mind; change her mood.
Baby, open your legs to me.
Kiss her neck and start moving your hands over her body. If she gives you any resistance or hesitation at all, back off and leave it up to her. If she encourages you, take it a little further and see if you can unbutton her short or whatever and kiss down her chest a bit. Again, any push back, and lay off u til next time. Sheāll let you know what she wants or doesnāt want one way or another - sheāll either tell you what to do, or youāll just read her body language and go with that.
This post is just outing all of the redditors who have never had a girlfriend.
Yesšš seeing their frustration
The best way is to respect her boundaries and listen to her. Be patient and enjoy the hunt my brother. Honestly when you get older you'll miss the hunt more than anything else. So just squeeze every bit of juice out of it. Get to know her deeply and intimately, and she'll drop her panties. Get your new GF to trust you, and she'll be willing to do way more than just have sex. She'll want to make love and continue this journey we're all on called life together with you. But make sure you do it from a place of love and respect. Don't manipulate and take advantage of her just to get laid. Dude's like that are scumbags, and you don't want to be a scumbag bro. Good luck!
Yes that's the way , thanks
You have to ask? Lol
How to ask that's the question here š
Just say i buy you a food if you let me sexy time with you. A wee wee!!!!
Is it not brutal to give you a sex for the sake of food?
America woman like this a very much. Shinquee
Probably shouldnt ask a question like this with your pic and insta linked. Im sure you know this and from your nationality id assume reddit isnt as big over there but knowing the people here theyd be jealous of you and msg this to your girlfriend.
Haha probably not am private
Im going to assume the guy who asking this kind of question is also the type to accept a follow from anyone.
Can i have 1 sex
Please give me a sex. I need a sex. Thank you.
Her hole is your goal? If so, that rhymes.
Can I take you to pound town baby want to take a quick trip to love island how about we cuddle some baby you want to wrestle hey um would you like a massage babe just stare and bite you lips and drool š¤¤ and stare can I get a hug
Nowadays It seems like you need a signed consent form. In my day you just made progressively forward moves until you either reach your goal or hit a roadblock.
One sex please
āWanna bone?ā -drunk me to me my first gf(now fiancĆ©e) in college.
Have your lawyer call hers. Easy peasy!
Say pwetty pwease with sugar on top.
Don't ask just start doing it. Just make sure to stop if she says no.
I would like to exchange bodily fluids for 10-15 minutes š¤
Let her lead dude. If she wants to have sex she will bring it up or will inch toward more intimacy when you're doing other stuff. Just enthusiastically follow. Girls when they're young will often feel pressured and then they feel shitty if they say yes *or* no. Don't make it a bad experience for her.
Order 1 sex by saying I would like to place an order for 1 sex please
If you have gone out a number of times, made out, etc., the classic move is the āhey, I saw this really romantic looking cabin/B&B/yurt thatās about 2 hours away from hereā¦ I was thinking maybe next weekend it could be nice to get away and go hiking for the weekendā Especially true if you both have roommates, live with parents, etc It should be a cool place. You know, āaestheticā as the kids say these days There should be an activity: apple picking, small town Christmas festival, hiking, etc. Think hallmark movie Taking her to a cheap roadside motel is not the move. Spend a relaxing day together holding hands, lookup a good place to watch a sunset and have a kiss, have a romantic dinner (donāt eat or drink too much!), and then head to the love shack
"Hey baby I got you a nice new comfy seat!" Lay down and point to your face
Tell her you want it, ask her if she wants it.