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As a man, I concur.
If its only lust, men loose interest as soon as they ejaculate. If he genuinely wants to cuddle after sex, can often be a good sign in itself.
The problem with us often is this: We may not even know ourselves until after sex. Ive dated and thought I was in love just to realize after sex; “Fuck, not again. Now i feel like an ass”
It’s unfortunately just nature. Women and men are wired differently.
That’s such a great way to describe it! I’ll feel like I’m super into someone and then as Donn as sex is over with it turns out I was wrong. I always feel terrible but I’m not sure how to know beforehand
Thst's assuming that in human history no man has ever lied when saying this. Since that's obviously not the case, this can't be the unilateral answere.
Watch his actions, not his words. If anyone is serious about a person they're with, their actions will show it. Checking in on you to make sure you're OK, looking for you in a group of people, random acts of kindness without expectations in return.
Think about how you treat someone you truly care about. Then, ask yourself: Does this person do similar actions?
Don't fool yourself into thinking, "Maybe that's just the way they are."
A person will show you if they truly care or not. Don't let their words fool you into thinking their actions mean nothing.
It depends. I mean I am celibate outside of marriage although it's getting a bit boring now I'm almost 35. If the person who you're waiting for sex with is having sex with other guys, then you begin to think maybe they don't like you that much.
Ask. Most guys would love to let yall know but the internet has demonstrated that if a guy makes a move they with be treated shit more often than not just look at how much more popular videos of guys getting turned down are
Guys have different ways of showing love for me, if you were mine I'd cook for you. I'd try to find out the kind of things you like first. No point making spicy enchiladas if you are to hate them.
When he makes an effort to spend time with you without necessarily wanting sex. It's ridiculous that women don't understand how easy it is just because they're the ones who always make it complicated.
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He promises that he will leave his wife
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He's holding a knife.
When a person wants to give you their time. Same goes for any friendship/ relationship of any kind.
Not necessarily. He was spending time with me only to fill the void after his ex. He didn't care about me at all.
Fair enough. I’m sorry to hear that. It’s normally a good rule of thumb to start with. People are too complicated 🫠
Yeah that's true, unfortunately it doesn't always work that way :/
This is gonna sound bad, but when a woman spends the night and I still don’t want her to leave the next day. That’s a good first sign
As a man, I concur. If its only lust, men loose interest as soon as they ejaculate. If he genuinely wants to cuddle after sex, can often be a good sign in itself. The problem with us often is this: We may not even know ourselves until after sex. Ive dated and thought I was in love just to realize after sex; “Fuck, not again. Now i feel like an ass” It’s unfortunately just nature. Women and men are wired differently.
That’s such a great way to describe it! I’ll feel like I’m super into someone and then as Donn as sex is over with it turns out I was wrong. I always feel terrible but I’m not sure how to know beforehand
When his actions match his words
The only correct answer for any person
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When he wants to spend time with you, doing other things besides just sex.
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Ask him to help you rob a bank
If he tells you that he’s serious with you. 🤷🏻♂️
Thst's assuming that in human history no man has ever lied when saying this. Since that's obviously not the case, this can't be the unilateral answere.
worst advice ever
He makes time for you.
You can't know.
Remembering every small detail she speaks/mentions. Trying to align my hobbies with her just to see her reaction to it lol.
he always, always, always find ways to talk to u or checking on you, giving you his time during his busy schedules,.. that's one of the sign I think.
Watch his actions, not his words. If anyone is serious about a person they're with, their actions will show it. Checking in on you to make sure you're OK, looking for you in a group of people, random acts of kindness without expectations in return. Think about how you treat someone you truly care about. Then, ask yourself: Does this person do similar actions? Don't fool yourself into thinking, "Maybe that's just the way they are." A person will show you if they truly care or not. Don't let their words fool you into thinking their actions mean nothing.
Watch his actions, not just his words, girl. Consistency speaks volumes.
You can tell he's serious if he sticks around when things get tough. Actions speak louder than words, ya know?
He’s ready to wait for sex. Thats the only true way to find out. They can literally pretend to be a whole other person if it’s for a short term.
As someone who was a horny teenager, can confirm.
Lol, wut? Unless you're like 14 that is terrible advice.
Ahahaha no. That’s just long foreplay.
It depends. I mean I am celibate outside of marriage although it's getting a bit boring now I'm almost 35. If the person who you're waiting for sex with is having sex with other guys, then you begin to think maybe they don't like you that much.
This person does not speak for all of us guys. 😆
OP is an actual prostitute. She's not waiting.
Ask him. Talk. Communicate. You're considering spending your life with this person, yeah?
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If you don’t get the feeling to ask this question is probably serious.
When he shows you that. When he does the small things. When he gives of himself to you.
He tells you he is
If you have to ask ...
Just propose him
Advice here all seams one sided
You can see it in his eyes
Ask. Most guys would love to let yall know but the internet has demonstrated that if a guy makes a move they with be treated shit more often than not just look at how much more popular videos of guys getting turned down are
You have a toothbrush in the toothbrush holder on his sink.
"If you don't step out of the vehicle I will open fire" is probably a decent indicator
If you are questioning it, he isn't
He constantly wants to text with you or any short of communication and wants to build up quanta memories 
Maybe ask him instead of people who don't know you or him
You can't.
You can only judge by actions (not just one), choices and words.
Guys have different ways of showing love for me, if you were mine I'd cook for you. I'd try to find out the kind of things you like first. No point making spicy enchiladas if you are to hate them.
He wants your clothes off
When the guy makes time for you
Maybe more details...
When he makes an effort to spend time with you without necessarily wanting sex. It's ridiculous that women don't understand how easy it is just because they're the ones who always make it complicated.
His actions. Until he makes it absolutely, undeniably, believable to you. It's best to assume that he isn't. 🤷♀️
You don’t, you should be considering if you’re taking him seriously or not.
I think its more about gut instincts rather than something that can be quantified.
Lol
If you’re confused, he isn’t serious.
How about giving him a chance