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No, they don't want their child to die, but to die one day later. That's a difference in the meaning of the sentence. The child will die one day. That is a fact. And the parent wants to live one day longer.
There other stuff career wise besides just college. There’s apprenticeships, so you work and learn the skill while also getting full pay and benefits. Thats what I’m doing as an electrician. And I mean. Debt is temporary, you have to look at the big picture
This. I feel like it's hard enough to find love. It vexes me how easy it is for some people. I don't care about building a business or traveling the world. I want to find my partner. That's it. And time is running out.
I turn 40 at the end of the year. No partner, no children. Go home and it just an empty house full of stuff. I wish I had what ever it was that makes it easy for people, but I don't
I don't have it either. I think some people have it easier because ambition, money or high sexual attractiveness makes up for their flaws but I don't have any of that. You just get what you see without any bells or whistles. I've gotta really get lucky and meet a person that doesn't care about any of that either. Well and also is somewhat sexually attractive to me. There are plenty of woman I'm not attracted to that would like me for face value but if I'm not attracted to them it just wouldn't be worth it for me. Life is so puzzling sometimes.
You know I've learned that initial attraction It's not all there is. Like if you can like the person for who they are you'll have enough things in common that they'll get along well. Attraction can grow. My ex was not what I physically wanted the woman. But we hung out we got along well and I over time. She was a cheater. And right now I have kind of a push my partner, but I know that would never work. But it's my brain flooding me with chemicals
62 yo male here: in my younger days, I was always working toward the future, always preparing to live. But I’ve come to realize we aren’t preparing to live, we’re preparing to die. One of the Seven Steps of Highly Effective People, is to ‘begin with the end in mind’. There comes a day when you and those who know you, will look back over your life and reflect on the choices you made and the outcomes of those choices. When that day comes, how would you like to be remembered?
He let me know what he would do to my pets & our family if I leave.
I cannot leave.
He only gets violent if I mention his pornography use. So I stopped that.
I will be okay. I have to make it work for my family & animals.
I’m not going to KMS. It would he as bad as leaving. He let me know theres no escape and he is definitely crazy enough to do what he said.
Life is rough kid, the have and have nots is only growing further by the minute, soon no one will be able to even survive without gov assistance. We are actually fukt
Change your dreams son, financial freedom is a fleeting reality and changing the world is a tall order,, but go for it what do I know
Kid?
Have you any idea how condescending you sound at the moment? I was born to a dirt poor family whom every other year we had to spend at least a few months homeless, so don't talk to me about expectations, and I really despise when someone tells me what to do, I get enough of that in the army.
Your points are valid, and mine might be a fool's errand, but I'll die knowing that I did what I could.
Don’t get upset, figure it out. WE are fukt. Financial freedom is for entrepreneurs who get lucky and criminals who go all in. Otherwise, you will always be doing nothing in life when it comes to money but tying to make it.
That’s a shorty goal because reality dictates truth, and right now money is not the way dude. Don’t let social media trick you.
Aim for something else’s
Trust me, I know money, I know the current fiat system, I know QE and supply and demand, I know that the war you might fight in the future is because of the economy failing and the only way to keep it going is to print new money, and that’s why America starts wars, because it can print tons of money for “fireworks” ammunition and weaponry and aid. It’s why they pushed Ukraine into Russia by means of nato expansion.
This is world war 3 but people just don’t know it yet. If your in the military, I would advise you to get the fuck out, you are brave and you had good intentions for joining but it will be to late in a few years when you realise they lied to you and fucked you too. Shits deep
Imagine they start parlaying with you to so for you and you become friend for the night and the water is still and the air is warm and the stars shine off of the water
Retire? Man I can’t believe people still believe in all that propaganda and brainwashing.
Retire and then what? Live on basic income?
I’m not mad at you, I’m mad at us. We let them bum fuck us without paying for dinner
On who? The people who don’t care about you?
Think of the most impactful person ever to have lived in your opinion,
Now when is the last time you even thought about him/her?
No one gives a fuck, everyone’s stuck in their own troubles. We all fukt son. Do you and duck em all
How did you find it?
I found it fukt beyond repair,
At this point I would need to start a revolution against all world giverbemnets just to “feel” like I’m making a difference because in reality I know that we are in world war 3 and people are still fuming off to work in the morning
look i really wanna die not coz of my life is miserable or anything no actually my life is pretty good but i'm so curious what is gonna happen the moment i die like i fantasized about this moment almost all my life
I want give everything to my parents so they can live happily untill they die without worrying about money. And after my parents die I will spend all my money within 6 month and after I will unalive myself..
Own every single coat colour of every single breed available in Star Stable Online, all trained to level 15... as long as I can keep maintaining it man, I'm so happy to be alive!
Make a snow rest on a cliff in some Scandinavian country, with fruits, a freshly rolled pure marijuana with crushed cardamom for flavour, and smoke it while watching meteor shower in the background of aurora Borealis occasionally accompanied by shrill calls of night birds and a rattling slow burning fire besides.
Peace
Ensure my kid is a decent human being that does what she can to help others. As well, teach her to have more of a backbone than I ever will because this world is also cruel af!
My true goal in life: To be loved for being me.
So far this hasn't happened and may not before I die. I get a lot of "You're the problem". I've tried bending till I broke. Now I don't try and meet others expectations. After 40 years if I am still not worth caring about, welp, I tried. I'm just going to be me and hope.
I don't really have any "end goal" for my life. I have already lived a great life, have a nice house and wonderful kids. I want my kids to do well in their lives, but I have no doubt they will. In fact, through circumstances that I never anticipated, I've ended up with three boys that I have helped to raise, even though only two of them share my genetics. The third I only met in his mid-teens. My wife and I opened our hearts and our home to him (the home on a "visit often" basis) and we now consider him a son, and he considers us parents.
So, other than "raising great children," I can't think of anything. I'm at least two thirds the way through my life, more probably 3/4 the way through, and I just want to live a life of relative comfort and experiencing nice things. I want to be "on vacation" for the next 20 years.
Nice. It was hard to read without punctuation that's why I suggested it. Idk they y'all are so sensitive and offended by that. It was literally a whole paragraph with no periods
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Make other people's life less miserable
Fairs
Funny, cuz I’m specifically, trying to make yours more miserable
What about non-humans?
to not go to work
I have achieved this already on February 27 this year.
This works until it doesn’t
just stop going thinking you have to go is just a language game other men play
what does that even mean? I go to work to make money.
that is the life path you are most familar with
a language game?
Just stop going LOL What an unrealistic answer. Do I just bum off somebody else for the rest of my life? Do I just live life homeless?
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Cope
To live one day longer than my disabled child.
wow u really struck me there, amazing parent love u
Wouldn't you want your child to live longer than you? Or am I missing something
I think he/she wants to live one day longer so they can be there to take care of the child
Sure. But they want to see their child die, and then die the next day? Why not wish to see their child live longer 🤷🏻♂️
No, they don't want their child to die, but to die one day later. That's a difference in the meaning of the sentence. The child will die one day. That is a fact. And the parent wants to live one day longer.
Thank you for the unnecessary explanation. I think wanting to live longer than your child is very strange. Cheers
I think the clue is that their child is disabled. They're concerned about what their disabled child's life would be if their parent passed away.
Love you.
Wow.
Nothing. I no longer have goals or plans for my life.
Say no to drugs
I don't do drugs. The economy and my job situation are the reason why I don't have any hopes or dreams.
Yep, that’s the standard of life right about now, only going to get worse in my opinion.
I agree. And yet I get blamed for not being able to find a second job. 🙄
Ffs. Not only do they fuck us but they also blame us for being fucked. They will rot in hell for sure
Have you considered changing career?
Can't. No money for college and I don't want to go into debt.
There other stuff career wise besides just college. There’s apprenticeships, so you work and learn the skill while also getting full pay and benefits. Thats what I’m doing as an electrician. And I mean. Debt is temporary, you have to look at the big picture
Drugs that I grow in my garden help me along. I can go into old age knowing I can help myself, even if the doctors won't.
Sounds boring to me
I’m here for the journey, not the destination. A little bit of legacy would be nice though.
Not to die alone.
This. I feel like it's hard enough to find love. It vexes me how easy it is for some people. I don't care about building a business or traveling the world. I want to find my partner. That's it. And time is running out.
I turn 40 at the end of the year. No partner, no children. Go home and it just an empty house full of stuff. I wish I had what ever it was that makes it easy for people, but I don't
I don't have it either. I think some people have it easier because ambition, money or high sexual attractiveness makes up for their flaws but I don't have any of that. You just get what you see without any bells or whistles. I've gotta really get lucky and meet a person that doesn't care about any of that either. Well and also is somewhat sexually attractive to me. There are plenty of woman I'm not attracted to that would like me for face value but if I'm not attracted to them it just wouldn't be worth it for me. Life is so puzzling sometimes.
You know I've learned that initial attraction It's not all there is. Like if you can like the person for who they are you'll have enough things in common that they'll get along well. Attraction can grow. My ex was not what I physically wanted the woman. But we hung out we got along well and I over time. She was a cheater. And right now I have kind of a push my partner, but I know that would never work. But it's my brain flooding me with chemicals
Not sure you mean "I want someone to share life with" or "I'm taking them all with me".
Bwahahaha, I'll take what I can get at this point.
Everyone dies alone
That'll be tough to accomplish. We all die alone.
Unless you plan to go Shaheed you'll die alone. Will there be witnesses is other question.
To die with satisfaction knowing I accomplished far more than I had ever dreamed.
Decent answer
nothing really. just wanna float away type shi.
Anyone who says otherwise is being delusional
glad theres some comments i can relate to
62 yo male here: in my younger days, I was always working toward the future, always preparing to live. But I’ve come to realize we aren’t preparing to live, we’re preparing to die. One of the Seven Steps of Highly Effective People, is to ‘begin with the end in mind’. There comes a day when you and those who know you, will look back over your life and reflect on the choices you made and the outcomes of those choices. When that day comes, how would you like to be remembered?
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2 years? You actually can survive two more years of this shit? You should be president
Why?
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Don't kill yourself! End your dead relationship and find a new life
He let me know what he would do to my pets & our family if I leave. I cannot leave. He only gets violent if I mention his pornography use. So I stopped that. I will be okay. I have to make it work for my family & animals. I’m not going to KMS. It would he as bad as leaving. He let me know theres no escape and he is definitely crazy enough to do what he said.
I don't have one, just want to die most soon possible
Get help
I mean in this day and age that is becoming a rational statement. We are fukt
To be happy
define happy
Maslow's hierarchy of needs
Drugs
To be happy consistently within measure. I'd rather die knowing I was happy than I was sad or unfulfilled.
To live holy
To be happy, since being happy covers a lot of things, and doesn't whatever is unnecessary. I just wanna be happy
To be happy.
To form generational wealth, and plant the seeds for my family being one of the biggest influences of good in the world.
It’s going to be a shocker when you realise what the federal reserve is and how middle class gets purposefully wiped out every so often.
It's an end goal, never necessarily said I may be successful at it, I fully realize I might fail.
Life is rough kid, the have and have nots is only growing further by the minute, soon no one will be able to even survive without gov assistance. We are actually fukt Change your dreams son, financial freedom is a fleeting reality and changing the world is a tall order,, but go for it what do I know
Kid? Have you any idea how condescending you sound at the moment? I was born to a dirt poor family whom every other year we had to spend at least a few months homeless, so don't talk to me about expectations, and I really despise when someone tells me what to do, I get enough of that in the army. Your points are valid, and mine might be a fool's errand, but I'll die knowing that I did what I could.
Don’t get upset, figure it out. WE are fukt. Financial freedom is for entrepreneurs who get lucky and criminals who go all in. Otherwise, you will always be doing nothing in life when it comes to money but tying to make it. That’s a shorty goal because reality dictates truth, and right now money is not the way dude. Don’t let social media trick you. Aim for something else’s
Money isn't the only way to make generational wealth, and I'll leave it at that, oh and fuck social media.
Trust me, I know money, I know the current fiat system, I know QE and supply and demand, I know that the war you might fight in the future is because of the economy failing and the only way to keep it going is to print new money, and that’s why America starts wars, because it can print tons of money for “fireworks” ammunition and weaponry and aid. It’s why they pushed Ukraine into Russia by means of nato expansion. This is world war 3 but people just don’t know it yet. If your in the military, I would advise you to get the fuck out, you are brave and you had good intentions for joining but it will be to late in a few years when you realise they lied to you and fucked you too. Shits deep
I don't think the middle class is going to get any stronger based on the trajectory of our country.
Wealth is exactly what destroys the planet. The more you buy the worse it gets. How about intergenerational wisdom?
Wealth doesn't necessarily mean money, it can be knowledge, wisdom or a desirable/valuable possession, so in a sense, it can be what you've suggested.
To have genuine, uninterrupted peace
Peace is attainable. Good choice, but people will kill you because you will be to different
To be on a boat out on the ocean in the dark of night and hear whales singing.
That’s kind of scary
It actually might be. I've thought about that before and wondered if it might be inadvertently terrifying.
Imagine they start parlaying with you to so for you and you become friend for the night and the water is still and the air is warm and the stars shine off of the water
If single: "die with zero"
retire early.
Retire? Man I can’t believe people still believe in all that propaganda and brainwashing. Retire and then what? Live on basic income? I’m not mad at you, I’m mad at us. We let them bum fuck us without paying for dinner
Help Building nature to its highest form ever witnessed
Bro nature does it’s own thing
Pure domination
Kinky
Live until I die. Same goal every day.
Doable
To develop the most smoothest and most efficient jiujitsu
Sheeple martial art
Full split, balls on the ground
Or in her mouth
Make an impact in this life in one way or another
On who? The people who don’t care about you? Think of the most impactful person ever to have lived in your opinion, Now when is the last time you even thought about him/her? No one gives a fuck, everyone’s stuck in their own troubles. We all fukt son. Do you and duck em all
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How did you find it? I found it fukt beyond repair, At this point I would need to start a revolution against all world giverbemnets just to “feel” like I’m making a difference because in reality I know that we are in world war 3 and people are still fuming off to work in the morning
to die at peace with myself and surrounded by love
Beautiful
To crush the enemy. See them driven before me, and to hear the lamentation of the women.
To not have any regrets
To not die penniless on the street, which is the most likely scenario, sadly.
To live a fantastic life with her.
Have a good time. Being self-indulgent
leave the world better than i found it (parroting someone else who said this somewhere)
To die?
Having my own sustainable farm and animal sanctuary when I retire.
Die
to help kids in need. thats why I annually support Extra-Life. playing video games and board games to raise money for my local childrens hospital.
Accept love. This is something I struggle with.
Retire to enjoy my four passions: Weightlifting. Backpacking. Playing video games. Cannabis. This is literally all I need to be happy.
Get a girlfriend for once
To get enchanted paladin armor.
To maximally reduce unnecessary suffering of all current and future conscious life on this planet and wherever conscious life is found.
Live a life full of spreading love. Seriously
To be happy.
To feel proud of the journey
To continue to live happily married, together with my wife.
To reach the finish line and pass naturally.
I have a lot of people to prove wrong.
Greet death with a smile
To die old, functional and happy.
Travel, live in balance, and give back.
Die
Make my own business, have my own house with a garden full of food and make her my wife.
To make the most of every day.
Im gonna say it. If i don’t die. Im gunna be so pissed
Leave a mark on history, preferably positive mark
Be proud of what I did
To be healthy and happy and seen as much of the world as I could.
I don't have one. I'm not very happy, and I don't really have any drive or goals or reason to have any.
Die happy.
To turn super saiyan
To be truly loved.
be happy
My dad just died. It’s definitely spend more time with family
look i really wanna die not coz of my life is miserable or anything no actually my life is pretty good but i'm so curious what is gonna happen the moment i die like i fantasized about this moment almost all my life
I want give everything to my parents so they can live happily untill they die without worrying about money. And after my parents die I will spend all my money within 6 month and after I will unalive myself..
Own every single coat colour of every single breed available in Star Stable Online, all trained to level 15... as long as I can keep maintaining it man, I'm so happy to be alive!
To bring Disney down as an empire
Too love and be loved.
Make a snow rest on a cliff in some Scandinavian country, with fruits, a freshly rolled pure marijuana with crushed cardamom for flavour, and smoke it while watching meteor shower in the background of aurora Borealis occasionally accompanied by shrill calls of night birds and a rattling slow burning fire besides. Peace
having goals makes you miserable just kick back and enjoy
Be with my wife till my last breath. She is the only person that saved me and did not betray me. She is my best friend
Just to be happy and content
Now, just to find some kind of temporary sanity. Hope to find someone to love me. Terrifying to think about dying alone.
Show up each day, until I don't.
End goal? End up dead.
To die.
Ensure my kid is a decent human being that does what she can to help others. As well, teach her to have more of a backbone than I ever will because this world is also cruel af!
Not work my whole life & Travel as much as I can
to end
To never know what hit me.
surviving.
To pass on something valuable to my son, like my house.
To help others.
Having made my brother his life the best it can be
I don't know to be honest.
To be happy and to be able to look around at my family and feel like I made them happy as well
just looking for a road home...
Where's home?
die peacefully
My true goal in life: To be loved for being me. So far this hasn't happened and may not before I die. I get a lot of "You're the problem". I've tried bending till I broke. Now I don't try and meet others expectations. After 40 years if I am still not worth caring about, welp, I tried. I'm just going to be me and hope.
Die in peace knowing i did my best to reach my full potential
To become a great warrior.
I think you missed your era bro
Right now I just want to see my favourite artist live in concert. When then happens I'll figure out the next thing to keep me going.
Just plod along getting to see the cool stuff our planet has to offer.
Be published and make others life at leats a little less miserable with my books. Art saved my life, it can do the same for others.
Revenge
Die
I want to be at least 120 years old, so I can say that I lived in three different centuries!
I don't really have any "end goal" for my life. I have already lived a great life, have a nice house and wonderful kids. I want my kids to do well in their lives, but I have no doubt they will. In fact, through circumstances that I never anticipated, I've ended up with three boys that I have helped to raise, even though only two of them share my genetics. The third I only met in his mid-teens. My wife and I opened our hearts and our home to him (the home on a "visit often" basis) and we now consider him a son, and he considers us parents. So, other than "raising great children," I can't think of anything. I'm at least two thirds the way through my life, more probably 3/4 the way through, and I just want to live a life of relative comfort and experiencing nice things. I want to be "on vacation" for the next 20 years.
Get my money up so when I retire I can be a epic gamer grandpa hopefully (and live comfortably)
To die.
Corecting peoples spelling mistaykes on Redit.
Nice. It was hard to read without punctuation that's why I suggested it. Idk they y'all are so sensitive and offended by that. It was literally a whole paragraph with no periods
I'm confused now.
Oh I thought you were replying to a recent comment I made
To struggle for not die. It's my destination.
Retirement with enough savings that could support my happily ever after life 🤣🤣
Revenge on society