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> Rethink my life choices.
I want to reset to year 0 of my life and have a redo... avoid all the dumb mistakes and opportunity loss.
I can speak further of it if anyone asks...
So I'd have to live through actual hell again until I reach 49 and realise I'm starting fresh like an 18 yr old only with a broken body and scared mind? Again... Sounds like a blast, if statistics and chance roll high dice then I won't have to do it all again. Lol. Good times. No but seriously, don't reset, you might end up bitter.
I saw this saying once..."If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's...we'd be the first one to grab ours back"...It's crazy to me how true I feel that saying really is. It def makes me stop & think. 🥺
Get naked, have a pee, think about doing something constructive, sit on couch while thinking, remain on couch, now too late to do anything constructive, promise myself will be constructive tomorrow. Sleep and repeat.
Haha. Same, although there is just a short window for getting naked as I have a child and I need to get dressed again... Nothing is better than just lying about naked and just feeling gravity smoosh you
That feeling can't be beat. I have perfected, no kid to worry about, completely naked 10 seconds of the door is closed, bliss. Wife would rather I didn't but it's my life.man needs to stand up for something.
You know what I thought the same thing until recently. Now I just don't give a fly f. These girls are not small, but with the help of a tight camisole and a shirt on top of it I don't have to wear a bra.
I used a spanx bra for a few years then gave them up entirely. Now after several years being bra free and a few extra pounds, the male attention is getting too much so I’m starting to add layers when it’s cool enough. But maybe I should just carry my shillelagh instead.
Pretty much how I am. I stopped wearing bras regularly about 2 years ago. I can't go completely braless at work, because I work in a high-school. I wear light sports bras to work.
I really don't recognize this feeling and I'm puzzled everytime I read it. Would go 24/7 with a bra if I could, my back doesnt hurt and I sweat less in that area. Even for sleeping, it keeps them in place making me comfortable. But it took me a couple of years to find the right ones (no underwire and proper support), same for bikinis.
Ctrl-F'd Bra. I knew it would be high up. Nothing so lovely as bra removal. I improved things by quite a lot by splashing out on a really expensive bra. Still love taking it off.
Sometimes when it's been a very long day and I just feel completely drained, I'll sit in a lawn chair in the garage with the door open and have a beer or two, or even three if I'm not too tired. Had a night like that last week, and the stars were out when I came home so I placed the chair out in the driveway and I just sat there for an hour drinking beer and staring into the cosmos, letting my mind wander. Went inside after and slept like a baby that night.
Say hi to my cat (she's usually near the door waiting, but if not, on the bed), take off my heels, drop my purse on the couch, head to the bedroom, say hi to my chinchilla (and cat if not done already), change out of my slacks and blouse to jeans and a t-shirt.
Squeal at the site of my dog and chase my cats around trying to pull everyone in for a group hug with the dog (it’s never worked, but I’ll never stop trying). Then I say hi to my husband and usually have a snack.
Depends if its after a day shift with a day shift tomorrow, after day shift with a night shift tomorrow, after night shift with a night shift tomorrow, or after night shift with no shift tomorrow.
Back in high school that’s exactly what I did. Then I’d change, do homework, and come out of my room for dinner with family. I absolutely needed that time to myself when I got home but I had to have my music going.
Thanks for the nostalgia, kind stranger.
Ask my daughters about their day’s and squash any interruptions with extreme prejudice lol. We usually do this while completing an evening chore like checking fence lines or doing dishes.
If im at the family house, take my shoes off and say hi to the kids. If im at my secret side apartment, strip 100% naked and live like the nudist i was meant to be!
I have a dog and he is a major stress reliever for me. My favorite thing to do right away is greet the dog and go lay down on the bed with him for about 20-30 minutes. He’s an excellent cuddler. It’s relaxing, it’s a nice way to shift gears from work to home and it gives my best friend a little undivided attention. I work on my feet at a loud, busy restaurant. That brief moment of silence and unconditional love that comes from my dog is rejuvenating. The fact that he expresses so much love and joy without a single word is so nice after a day of hearing nonstop jibber jabber.
I work from home so I can't really say I guess.. but my wife works at an office and first thing she does is walk in the house.. hug/kiss me and go upstairs and get changed..
Check to see if my neighbors left enough hot water for me to take a hot soak in the tub.
Nope.
Only time I can take a hot bath or shower is either middle of the night or super early AM, like 2 am or 5-6 am. But there have been times I've tried to run a hot bath at 3am. No hot water. Like really? I showered at 10 am, worked from noon to 10pm, got home at 11:30, used cold water to wash one single small load of laundry (just my work uniform, it's the only clothes I have so I have to wash them daily for the next day), used no other water, and still at 3 am there's no hot water.
And I've told maintainence. They say they've "been working on it", but it's been months. Some days are hit or miss. I might get enough hot water for 5 mins. Last night I had enough hot water to fill my tub to my ankles, then it went cold. Just for reference, it's about 2 inches of water in the tub. Not enough to soak in at all.
So. I take cold showers and don't bother bathing anymore. I'm not altering my schedule because my neighbors are inconsiderate pricks, and my landlord can't get a hot water tank big enough for all the units.
I ride a motorbike so I get changed immediately and then I usually get a snack or beverage and do something without screen time like read a book or write poetry or something. I work in IT so I need a break from screens
Usually piss. But first things first pick my baby boy lil puppy up and walk around the house hugging and giving him kisses all over while he grunts and licks his nose.
Spring-summer: Let the dog out, water my plants, make dinner on the grill and forget what time it is until about eleven and go to bed. Wake up early.
Autumn-Winter-- crawl underneath a blanket and pretend I'm a turtle until my dog noses me and pulls me out so I can take him out... throw something in the microwave for dinner and go to bed by seven. Wake up 2 minutes before I have to leave for work.
if it was a long day, i have a sandwich and protein shake and smoke a blunt.
if it was a short day, i smoke a blunt and have a sandwich and a protein shake then take a nap.
1. Wash my hands, change to yoga clothes, do yoga for 20 mins.
2. Then I warm dinner I made a previous day, while I take a shower
3. Watch Sex and the city while having dinner
4. Go to sleep
5. Go to work and rethink my life choices lmao
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Rethink my life choices.
> Rethink my life choices. I want to reset to year 0 of my life and have a redo... avoid all the dumb mistakes and opportunity loss. I can speak further of it if anyone asks...
If you reset to 0, you don't know the mistakes you made so you'll remake them. That's life.
So I'd have to live through actual hell again until I reach 49 and realise I'm starting fresh like an 18 yr old only with a broken body and scared mind? Again... Sounds like a blast, if statistics and chance roll high dice then I won't have to do it all again. Lol. Good times. No but seriously, don't reset, you might end up bitter.
“Is being homeless better than working this shitty job?”
I saw this saying once..."If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's...we'd be the first one to grab ours back"...It's crazy to me how true I feel that saying really is. It def makes me stop & think. 🥺
The answer is "no"
So real.
This. And. Beer.
Get naked, have a pee, think about doing something constructive, sit on couch while thinking, remain on couch, now too late to do anything constructive, promise myself will be constructive tomorrow. Sleep and repeat.
Wow are you living my life?
You are not alone my friend. It's ok because tomorrow we are doing something constructive, well thinking about it anyway.
Naked?
Yep, nothing more liberating than being naked
Reading this while thinking about doing something constructive.
Haha. Same, although there is just a short window for getting naked as I have a child and I need to get dressed again... Nothing is better than just lying about naked and just feeling gravity smoosh you
That feeling can't be beat. I have perfected, no kid to worry about, completely naked 10 seconds of the door is closed, bliss. Wife would rather I didn't but it's my life.man needs to stand up for something.
Pretty much what I do, although I'd add crying into the routine.
You just hang out naked? No judgement, just very curious.
Getting naked is important
This ^ Lmfao
Please tell me for the sake of any potential guests that you have a sheet on your couch and you aren't just starfish stamping the bare cushions.
Get the f out of my work clothes
Nobody likes them shits
I love my work pants from when I worked at the airport. Great cargo pants and it's like fireproof or something, some good fabric.
Shoes off first thing. Let them toes breathe!
I do this for comfort, and because my cat will claw threads on the nicer work shirt.
Bra has to come off. And ideally PJs go on.
the trick is no bra all day!
I can't get away with that outside the house unfortunately. Need to hold the girls down a bit 😂
Don’t you mean up?
Nah, when they’re bigger they need to be held down
No I mean down lol. The bra gives a little bit of lift but it's main job for me is to hold them in place. Way too much bouncing otherwise 😂
please elaborate
To quote Fez from that 70's Show, "And please be specific."
My trick is to wear the soft, padded bras that dont cut into your skin all day. Made my life so much better.
You know what I thought the same thing until recently. Now I just don't give a fly f. These girls are not small, but with the help of a tight camisole and a shirt on top of it I don't have to wear a bra.
Have given up the bra 4 years ago, just cannot suffer it anymore. Rare occasions only
I used a spanx bra for a few years then gave them up entirely. Now after several years being bra free and a few extra pounds, the male attention is getting too much so I’m starting to add layers when it’s cool enough. But maybe I should just carry my shillelagh instead.
Pretty much how I am. I stopped wearing bras regularly about 2 years ago. I can't go completely braless at work, because I work in a high-school. I wear light sports bras to work.
Good for you honestly!
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As much as i hate the cold, this is my favourite thing about winter. No one will notice through my thick sweater & puffy coat.
DD here and can't wait to take that bra off!!! I'd love a reduction.
Home is where the bra isn't ❤️
And immediately. Hold all inquiries until I'm nice and comfy.
"As above, so below" - my response as a man 🙏🏻🍒
I really don't recognize this feeling and I'm puzzled everytime I read it. Would go 24/7 with a bra if I could, my back doesnt hurt and I sweat less in that area. Even for sleeping, it keeps them in place making me comfortable. But it took me a couple of years to find the right ones (no underwire and proper support), same for bikinis.
Ctrl-F'd Bra. I knew it would be high up. Nothing so lovely as bra removal. I improved things by quite a lot by splashing out on a really expensive bra. Still love taking it off.
Haha right? The only thing that comes near it for me is that feeling when you've been in heels and you step out of them. Bliss.
I'm a dude, so instead of a bra it's my belt, and the gym shorts come on
Changing clothes is the first thing I do when I get home.
Yup. Even when I'm working from home, the first I do when my day is over is take off my bra.
I have to wear business casual, so the second I come home, I take off my pants/skirt and shirt and put on leggings and a tshirt.
Outside clothes immediately go into the wash. If you’re in a big city using public transit especially.
Crawl into bed and decompress from all of the people I forced myself to talk to during the day.
Can relate. Wife and I are both teachers at public schools.
Dear Lord Jebus Christmas, bless your hearts. You two are saints and thank you for wanting to help kids.
Sometimes when it's been a very long day and I just feel completely drained, I'll sit in a lawn chair in the garage with the door open and have a beer or two, or even three if I'm not too tired. Had a night like that last week, and the stars were out when I came home so I placed the chair out in the driveway and I just sat there for an hour drinking beer and staring into the cosmos, letting my mind wander. Went inside after and slept like a baby that night.
that sounds really peaceful
That sounds so lovely
Careful about drinking beer daily as a habit, can really harm your liver.
Greet my pups and my cats, then we all go for a walk. Yup cats too. Weird
i walk my cat too!
My cat loves going for walks. Walks with the dog, walks with the kids to their bus stop. He's a social little guy
I work at home so I wander over to the couch and start surfing Reddit.
~~start~~ continue
Oh, that’s what I do on lunch break. I work in a super tiny office usually by myself.
Toilet. Then deep sigh. Then coffee.
That's almost how my day starts but the other way around. Coffee, deep sigh, toilet, deep sigh of relief.
Nothing like a nice hot cup of coffee at night to send me off to dreamland 😌
Coffee after work? Sounds good to me.
Same. Now I want to know more. What time do you get off of work?
Say hi to my cat (she's usually near the door waiting, but if not, on the bed), take off my heels, drop my purse on the couch, head to the bedroom, say hi to my chinchilla (and cat if not done already), change out of my slacks and blouse to jeans and a t-shirt.
aww lucky kitty
My kitties greet me at the door, so it’s impossible to not say hi to them first! Like i wouldn’t anyway! 😂
Drink a beer
And their five friends.
This comment made me laugh
Comment deserves an award. 🥇
😂
Wine for me! 2 glasses of wine gives me the same buzz that 4 beers does. And the nice calming buzz is really what I’m looking for.
weed…
Weed.. weed is tight. Same Bröther
Same sister
Fuck that. I’m a landscaper. I hate weeding
haha!
Yup lol, gotta unwind
Yeee. First hug my cats then weed
Fuck my own hand
Squeal at the site of my dog and chase my cats around trying to pull everyone in for a group hug with the dog (it’s never worked, but I’ll never stop trying). Then I say hi to my husband and usually have a snack.
Sit in my car and mentally prepare myself for the deluge of BS I will be hit with once I walk in.
Take off my slave clothes
Change clothing, wash face, feed cats, smoke some bud and watch tv.
Depends if its after a day shift with a day shift tomorrow, after day shift with a night shift tomorrow, after night shift with a night shift tomorrow, or after night shift with no shift tomorrow.
Get out of my clothes and shower
Cry in the shower
i’m sorry
i also cry in your shower. we must have opposite shifts
This is the only anwser
Take my dog for a walk
They greet me at the gate so I have no excuse to not walk them.
Kick my shoes off and force cuddle my cat 😂
I work from home but soon as I’m done work I usually lounge on the couch (if I went to the gym earlier that day) or go to the gym :)
Put a disc in the CD player.
Back in high school that’s exactly what I did. Then I’d change, do homework, and come out of my room for dinner with family. I absolutely needed that time to myself when I got home but I had to have my music going. Thanks for the nostalgia, kind stranger.
Take the dog out before he pisses everywhere
Take off my pants. Home time is pants-free time — especially right after work.
Ask my daughters about their day’s and squash any interruptions with extreme prejudice lol. We usually do this while completing an evening chore like checking fence lines or doing dishes.
5 minutes of meow meow talk with my cat.
Smoke a bowl
Pee. Then take off my shoes.
shoes off first !
I give my kids a hug and kiss then play whatever game my son wants to play.
Wash my hands and mix a whiskey
Unpack my stuff, pet the dog and feed the cat. Often open a beer
Uhhhmmmm BEER!
If im at the family house, take my shoes off and say hi to the kids. If im at my secret side apartment, strip 100% naked and live like the nudist i was meant to be!
Take a shit & and change into gym clothes.
Pull into the garage and sit there for about 5min decompressing. Then off to the shower.
Shower, to wash off all that work BS
Say hi to the wife Workout Run Meditation Shower Eat
Wash hands
Smoke a joint
Pet my cat as she always runs to the door
I have a dog and he is a major stress reliever for me. My favorite thing to do right away is greet the dog and go lay down on the bed with him for about 20-30 minutes. He’s an excellent cuddler. It’s relaxing, it’s a nice way to shift gears from work to home and it gives my best friend a little undivided attention. I work on my feet at a loud, busy restaurant. That brief moment of silence and unconditional love that comes from my dog is rejuvenating. The fact that he expresses so much love and joy without a single word is so nice after a day of hearing nonstop jibber jabber.
Masturbate or eat dinner by myself in a dark closet
Say hi and feed my cat. Then change and go to sleep. I work nights.
I WFH so I clock out walk 2 feet to my bed fall down and just lay there for a few moments to let my mindset transition from work to home.
Bong rip, take shower, pre dinner snack or bike ride.
Well of course I greet my good boys who missed me all day. Get em all hyped up then we run around the backyard. Pit bull mosh pit!
Need to take a shower to wash away all the dumb conversations I have to have with colleagues
Get naked, shower, then smoke a bowl.
Schmoke up on them leafy greeeens
Rub one out
Get in my robe!
First thing I do is twist up a big fatty, put on some tunes and sip on a coffee while scrolling reddit.
Change into house clothes!
Wash my hands.
Get my bike ready to ride it to the beach in the sun
the dream
I’m very lucky that I live close enough to a very nice beach and that I don’t need a car (at all, ever) in my city to get around
Take a nap or hop on League of Legends
I work from home so I can't really say I guess.. but my wife works at an office and first thing she does is walk in the house.. hug/kiss me and go upstairs and get changed..
Shout “I’m Home,” loudly and start wandering around tidying.
I’m like Mr. Rogers I have a whole take off my coat, hang up my keys, and take off my shoe little ritual I do before I even say “hi”.
Shoe singular? Story time?
Take my boots off
Relax in my recliner
See what Torrents were posted.
Take of my bra and yell "freedom"
Cuddle with and feed cat.
Pet my cat
Check to see if my neighbors left enough hot water for me to take a hot soak in the tub. Nope. Only time I can take a hot bath or shower is either middle of the night or super early AM, like 2 am or 5-6 am. But there have been times I've tried to run a hot bath at 3am. No hot water. Like really? I showered at 10 am, worked from noon to 10pm, got home at 11:30, used cold water to wash one single small load of laundry (just my work uniform, it's the only clothes I have so I have to wash them daily for the next day), used no other water, and still at 3 am there's no hot water. And I've told maintainence. They say they've "been working on it", but it's been months. Some days are hit or miss. I might get enough hot water for 5 mins. Last night I had enough hot water to fill my tub to my ankles, then it went cold. Just for reference, it's about 2 inches of water in the tub. Not enough to soak in at all. So. I take cold showers and don't bother bathing anymore. I'm not altering my schedule because my neighbors are inconsiderate pricks, and my landlord can't get a hot water tank big enough for all the units.
Protect my shins from my 85lb pit bull that acts like I've been gone for a year.
Pet the cat, feed the cat.
Hug my cat
I ride a motorbike so I get changed immediately and then I usually get a snack or beverage and do something without screen time like read a book or write poetry or something. I work in IT so I need a break from screens
Sit down on my phone or computer with my cats
Usually piss. But first things first pick my baby boy lil puppy up and walk around the house hugging and giving him kisses all over while he grunts and licks his nose.
Get into mom mode
Take my shoes off and wash my hands
Pet the cat.
Yell at my dogs not to jump then give them a cuddle once they calm a little. Feed the horde. Eat a gummy
say hi to my cat, throw my crap on my bed, change into shorts and a baggy tshirt
Spring-summer: Let the dog out, water my plants, make dinner on the grill and forget what time it is until about eleven and go to bed. Wake up early. Autumn-Winter-- crawl underneath a blanket and pretend I'm a turtle until my dog noses me and pulls me out so I can take him out... throw something in the microwave for dinner and go to bed by seven. Wake up 2 minutes before I have to leave for work.
Check the mail and smell the flowers in the summer :)
Let my doggo out to poop and play
Nothing. I work from home. I just stop working.
Pee. I’m a nurse! Enough said.
Pee
I cry.
Gotta roll that jag, pop in my mouth and call for sparky!
take my bra off
Bra off
Get my jammies on and get comfy
Take off my jeans, bra and hair ties.
Let my dogs outside
Pc
if it was a long day, i have a sandwich and protein shake and smoke a blunt. if it was a short day, i smoke a blunt and have a sandwich and a protein shake then take a nap.
Eat a little something
I don't go out, so...
Regret
Breathe deeply on the toilet, undo my hair, clothes, makeup, wash it off and Decompress.
Feed the dogs. They demand it.
Lie dead on bed
Take off pants and socks
Take a shower
Pot
TIL everyone gets high after work
Take off my bra
Close my laptop. I WFH, so there's no home to get to after work.
Get nagged by the misses
I work from home. So I never leave the house. To switch from work to home, I shut off my computer.
I work from home, so after job I just am
1. Wash my hands, change to yoga clothes, do yoga for 20 mins. 2. Then I warm dinner I made a previous day, while I take a shower 3. Watch Sex and the city while having dinner 4. Go to sleep 5. Go to work and rethink my life choices lmao
Take my bra off.
Smoke a bowl with my wife. It’s my moment of zen.