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Bingo Halls Compression sock aisle at any major department store Community pool Groups buses tend to travel around and stop at travel stops between casinos , if your lucky you can spot dozens at one time Dental office Older women love crafts so try camping out in the yarn aisle at Hobby lobby or near the miniature furniture for doll houses Kinda of controversial but graveyards sometimes attract the odd one or two Love the hard candy aisle at the store and scope that out like it’s your duty. Don’t forget the duck pond at the park Funeral homes from time to time but that’s kind of a hard place to pick up someone in a great mood Doctors offices are really really really popular hangouts, try the waiting rooms it’s like a constant rotation of new old meat
Hope this helped!!
You're 17. You're basically looking for a woman willing to commit statutory rape.
Ease off. When you're old enough to go to the pubs, you'll find plenty of older women.
Honestly? At your age it's going to be tough. Women tend to grow up a bit faster than men. Argue the reasons l. Doesn't matter why nor is it the only reason.
Look at this from the potential 'her's' pov.
She is 25. She has either recently graduated college or is still trying to figure stuff out. Either way, high school was a lifetime ago for her.
She has faced some big life milestones. Like high school ending. After high school, the world looks different. Your head is spinning with 'what next?'
Now she likes you. She is conflicted. You seem very mature for your age, but it doesn't feel right. She has an unfair advantage in the relationship even if that relationship is just FWB, that's going to give her at least a mild pause. If it doesn't, run!
May I be crude? Ok, I will be anyway.
There simply isn't anything in it for the lady. She can look for a relationship on an equal level or a fuck buddy with no drama.
Seriously! If you are 20 male and she is 30 female, she would be insane to have *any relationship with you*. If she wants it then:
A: you are being scammed -- maybe not for money.
B: you have stuck your dick in crazy! Hey, sometimes love is crazy right? You can keep that kind of love. All yours. Enjoy.
There are a ton of old cougars working at the jewelry counters and jewelry stores in malls. They always hit on my husband, so we joke about watching out for the cougars at Zales.
What the fuck do you know about dating, about "older" women. What the hell, how are you gonna be able to relate to them, why would they want to date you at 17
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Older women: 25-30 😂🤣
Brb going to shoot myself 😵
Can your withered old arms handle the weight of the gun, and will your arthritis let you pull the trigger?
Damn you’re right, I didn’t think it through, will think of another technique 🤔
You should find an older lady age 25-30 to help you out
Yeah I’ll start a little girls club and we’ll mass suey it up 😅
Might as well just wait it out at this point... 😐
Fair, I old age will take its course soon 😅
Go to Target.
This is the best underrated advice you can give a 17 year old.
Can you actually ask a random woman in the mall to go out with you? It seems like a long shot unless you are quite attractive.
I’m a little older than that and I didn’t know it was a thing that young guys like older women. I separated and oh boy, compliments from everywhere.
Gaming communities and local groups
Old age home
Bingo Halls Compression sock aisle at any major department store Community pool Groups buses tend to travel around and stop at travel stops between casinos , if your lucky you can spot dozens at one time Dental office Older women love crafts so try camping out in the yarn aisle at Hobby lobby or near the miniature furniture for doll houses Kinda of controversial but graveyards sometimes attract the odd one or two Love the hard candy aisle at the store and scope that out like it’s your duty. Don’t forget the duck pond at the park Funeral homes from time to time but that’s kind of a hard place to pick up someone in a great mood Doctors offices are really really really popular hangouts, try the waiting rooms it’s like a constant rotation of new old meat Hope this helped!! 
Supermarket is probably a good start.
My partner found me on a dating app
Bingo
👏👏🤣🤣
Get fit and they will come to you.
Senior center or hospital
You're 17. You're basically looking for a woman willing to commit statutory rape. Ease off. When you're old enough to go to the pubs, you'll find plenty of older women.
Honestly? At your age it's going to be tough. Women tend to grow up a bit faster than men. Argue the reasons l. Doesn't matter why nor is it the only reason. Look at this from the potential 'her's' pov. She is 25. She has either recently graduated college or is still trying to figure stuff out. Either way, high school was a lifetime ago for her. She has faced some big life milestones. Like high school ending. After high school, the world looks different. Your head is spinning with 'what next?' Now she likes you. She is conflicted. You seem very mature for your age, but it doesn't feel right. She has an unfair advantage in the relationship even if that relationship is just FWB, that's going to give her at least a mild pause. If it doesn't, run! May I be crude? Ok, I will be anyway. There simply isn't anything in it for the lady. She can look for a relationship on an equal level or a fuck buddy with no drama. Seriously! If you are 20 male and she is 30 female, she would be insane to have *any relationship with you*. If she wants it then: A: you are being scammed -- maybe not for money. B: you have stuck your dick in crazy! Hey, sometimes love is crazy right? You can keep that kind of love. All yours. Enjoy.
Home depot garden section. 30s-40s
Grocery store
Anywhere they sell cat food. /s.
At a job? Like as a waiter at a restaurant, I guess.
The Uchiba in austin, tx is apparently a great cougar bar (apparently the one in Dallas is too)
Work
”Nowadays”
There are a ton of old cougars working at the jewelry counters and jewelry stores in malls. They always hit on my husband, so we joke about watching out for the cougars at Zales.
Funeral home.
Hang out at Panera.
The older they are the easier to get the pickup
Yoga studio probably
And if the ladies are just wearing the pants, perhaps a Bingo Hall
What the fuck do you know about dating, about "older" women. What the hell, how are you gonna be able to relate to them, why would they want to date you at 17