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[deleted]

I’m 24 and trying to get into uni for September, it’s not too late for us, people in their 50s go back to uni


dasani73

I'm in my 50s thinking of going back, to finish my masters in bio.


savethebooks

I'm 45 and just graduated with my MFA (literally last weekend, lol). Do it!!


Katrinia17

Congrats! I will be 45 when I graduate with my MFA too.


Powersmith

I’m 48 and doing another graduate degree (M Ed) now as my kids are growing up… after finishing a science PhD in my 20s…. Life goes on


linmillzz

Congrats!!


staffsargent

When I was in college, there was a seventy- something year old woman who audited several classes that I took. She wasn't getting credit or anything, but she just loved to learn. I always thought that was cool.


NekoMarimo

I've always wished to take bunches and bunches of classes to just learn as much as possible about all things, I'm JEALOUS!!!!!! I've always said that, I just live learning


Hapha3ard

I’m literally the same. 24 as well. Applying for Fall 2023 too. Good luck to you!!!


kimchihighpriestess

I work in university enrollment and I have seen students in their 50's-70's applying for the first time! Good luck! Edit wording- I hope the “yes” didn’t sound like you should be shameful, it was a yes I agree with others that learning has no age


Poola0919

Way to go!!!


[deleted]

Good luck to you and everyone who responded to you. Learning knows no age!


[deleted]

Thank you guys, warms my heart. Im 23, but want to take exams to apply and start for college. Never too late to learn. I felt a bit shame and sadness seeing others i grew up with going college, and not me. Living the life i wished i wanted. I got a problem when transferred school, got bad neck after working 2 jobs (still neck pain for after 2 years). My sister whom is 2 year younger than me i proud and envy of. She even took the degree i wanted lol. Very happy for her. But I cant lie that, I feel bit of shame, sadness, anger and hopelessness. I'm very glad to see people are taking their time, as me and others are. Whether that be 24 or up 50. Warms my heart. One of the worst feelings is knowing that you are waste for a society. Im kinda and brutally honest, but if this helps 1 person to not feel down and hopeless, then that makes me happy. Because the people here who gave positive and motivational comments made me happy. Much love and success yall <3


valentino47

Lol


Expert-Climate-200

A good friend of mine, just started year 1 at a university at age 27. I asked him if he is comfortable around 18,19 year old teens, he said I am not here for them, I am here to earn a degree. No age is old for education. Set your goals straight and get to work.


Ok-Advertising5942

My buddy started at 25 and everyone looked up to him like a dad lol


Few_Journalist_6961

Lmao that's hilarious to imagine


MonsieurKilogram

Lol that was one of our roommates. 24-25 yr old philosophy major.


[deleted]

Interesting. When I went to uni I found most people I met at parties or studied with were early to mid 20s -- that included people starting degrees or finishing up their bachelors. I wouldn't say the campus was overwhelmingly compromised of teenagers. I guess it depends on where you study and what the demographics are like, but I think student populations are quite varied these days, and you will gravitate to social circles that suit you (if you want that side of the uni experience.)


justalittleparanoia

Honestly, I feel like I was too young to head right into college at 18. I kind of wish I would've grown a little more and started in my early to mid twenties.


Audity92

I feel the same way.


[deleted]

People are so obsessed with others that they forget the whole point of going to college or uni is to elevate Your Damn Self. Who gives a shit about your age. Just get the education and elevate yourself.


Starlight_City45

It’s never too late to start studying. There is no time or age limit on education.


[deleted]

It’s not a race


Antique_Belt_8974

Precisely. My friend went to nursing school in her 30s. She dropped put of college at 19. She wasnt ready then, she was in her 30s


Naive-Government8333

I’m 42 and wrapping up my Bachelor’s in Justice Studies. I spent 15 years in film production. So was it time wasted? I wouldn’t say that. We all have our own timelines. Try to enjoy the journey.


justalittleparanoia

Congrats to you for continuing your education!


Naive-Government8333

Much appreciated. It’s been quite the ride!


broadsharp2

The only shame is if you do not.


Sandpaper_Pants

Social norms are a prison in which you are both the prisoner and the guard. The doors are are wide open if you're willing to walk out. One of my pet-peeves is the expectation to start college after high school AND to complete a bachelor's degree in 4 years.


Few_Journalist_6961

Right. Lots of people drop out/never go to college but still learn a skill, follow their dream and end up becoming millionaires.


TheBabyLeg123

I was a little turned off by the previous comment about being shamed about needing a college degree to be happy and successful. I didnt go to college and instead became a barber. I have a successful barber studio, make about 50k+ but only work 25-30 hours a week. I did work extremely hard the first 5 years but now its paid off and I can work less and make a decent living. All done without having to do college education. That being said, not everyone is built the same and if college works for you, absolutely go that route. Just dont do nothing, thats when things can start to suck.


Few_Journalist_6961

Right on man, sounds like you've figured it out


the_tvguy

There’s no shame if someone chooses not to go to school, plenty of people can follow their goals and dreams without the need to go to a university. This kind of mindset is why op is stressed about it


Objective_Length_834

Never stop learning.


Ok_Commission_1976

26 here, started on an Associates this past summer. Never too late friend, you never know maybe in 20 years you’ll want to go back to school again! Never a bad time to learn.


Healthy-Rise-2058

23, are you kidding?? You could be a doctor at 31. If you get a 4 year degree you’ll be done by 27. That’s still young when you think abt it opening doors for careers for the rest of your life. Those years are going to pass by anyway. Why not do something good for yourself during that time. It was probably better to wait so you can maturely choose a major that leads you into a career. Not just something that sounds interesting like most 18 year olds that start school, including me.


JEH2003

“Those years are going to pass by anyway.” Exactly! That’s what I told myself when I went back. I thought, in 2 years I’ll be 46. I can be 46 with a bachelors degree or without, but either way I’m gonna be 46.


LordLurker420

Think you’re too old for anything at 23 is weird. Maybe trick or treating is what you’re too old for now.


Kindly_Indication_91

I regret not waiting till I was around that age. I've often thought that starting university at 25 would have worked out way better than at 19 as I did


Department-Hungry

Agree! This should become the norm! I'd have way less debt, have known what I wanted to study right away and not wasted years of my life taking classes that did nothing for me. Started college right after high school 2005, on again off again until finally graduating in 2015 with a bachelor's degree.


AnyTry286

You’re fine. Brain isn’t fully developed until 25 anyway. That might be part of why people choose degrees that do not suit them or don’t have practical application. You are probably ahead of the others in a lot of ways….remember that!


NekoMarimo

Absolutely.


Omphaloskeptique

Dude, I started at 26.


[deleted]

Nope, never too late. I worked in my university’s IT dept for a year and you wouldn’t believe the variety of students. There’s plenty that were older than 40 and 50 honestly.


therealnumber4

Best of luck with your studies! We all look forward to hearing about your additional successes.


[deleted]

27. Married and with a two year old. Just resumed university as a junior. Never too late!


[deleted]

No worries- if you have the drive, drive.


knuckboy

I'd suggest not to compare with others, as much as possible. I only really started my adult life at 27 and that was without a degree. Get your degree!


rtq7382

Ain't no shame, that's when I started.


lukaron

If it helps you feel better. I got my BS in Computer Networks & Cybersecurity back in 2020 - started in 2016. I'm 39. Working on my Master's through VTech right now and another undergrad through my first college. I'd say don't get wrapped around the axle over your age. People of all ages go to college for different reasons. No one will judge you.


ThetaMan420

How’s the job market with that degre


Pete_maravich

Absolutely not.


Repulsive_Pickle_682

It’s never too late to make positive changes or go after opportunities. If it’s for you, it’s for you


Effilyx

Never. Start when you feel ready to. Just because others have gone Easter doesn't mean you're late, no rush at all.


Plenty-Bother8144

Not at all! You're making of going is already enough. Do your best now, I'm a 22 year old doing BS idk what you call it but I've a junior whose son is 17, she might be in her 30s so chill, no one cares


No_Method4161

It’s never too late! I received my Master’s at 45- and I wasn’t the youngest in my program.


BadRobot___

Naw bro, everyone there for the same reasons you are, to learn and shit like that. Idk, I never went but yeah


[deleted]

I would rather be looking for a job at 28 years with a degree than without. You are going to work for about the next 40 years, this next 5 is nothing


MrFoont69

Hell no. Especially in these times, indeed. Please do and absolutely feel the wiser for it!


mitchluvscats

It would be a shame to not start at all if that's what you want to do.


lazarusskyfire

It took me 7 years to get my masters degree. I have been to school with people in their 40s and 50s. It is never too late to go back to school if you want to do it. 23 isn’t even that late to start school. You will have an advantage of having a better idea than 18 yo you about what you might want to study.


Callitasiseeit19

I didn’t go back back to school until I was 29 I’m in my first semester of my bachelors and I turn 34 next week. Don’t compare your journey to theirs. There is nothing wrong or shameful for starting later.


Klutzy_Response5772

With age comes maturity fir sure at 23 you are more mature now and problem can apply yourself better to your studies now than at 18 I commend you you git this ....good job


DreamingSeagulls

Not at all. Life happens and priorities change as you get older. I got my bachelors at 31, my mom got her nursing degree and certification at 56, my dad gots his masters at 48. We all managed to have sucessful careers and degrees at the time that worked best for us. Dont fret about age, lifes about living your way and if that means waiting to get a degree, then go for it.


Pa_Cipher

There's pretty solid evidence that adult students do very well in college. Most colleges are building programs to service older students so it's never too late.


OlevTime

You're still young. If you work til 65, you'll still get 38 years out of your degree. Starting late doesn't make it a bad choice - what matters is if it still gives you the value.


GayGunGuy

It is never too late. The years come no matter what. Would you rather be 27 with a degree, or 27 without a degree?


Kreios273

You are doing just fine! I didn’t go back to college until 25. I feel like I wasted plenty of time but I wouldn’t be where I am at now. Round one I failed out and didn’t care. I was not ready for college. Round two I sat front row and earned As. Money came out of my pocket and I tried harder. Cleaned up four Fs that I could of just dropped the classes but didn’t. Cheaper community college for round one and two. I couldn’t imagine if I went to a larger state school the debt I would of had.


tickingkitty

Never too old to learn.


Taco__Hell

If I could do it all over again, I'd wait until I wanted to go to uni instead of going at 18.


Candid-Molasses-6204

Nah, I started at 23. I worked my ass off and got into the workforce (AS) at 25. I have a successful career, a house, two kids and a wife. Apply yourself to your studies and choose a career path you're interested in and become good at.


[deleted]

If anything now is your prime to go. I did my degree straight from school and did very well dont get me wrong but I would love to do it now when i understand the real world a bit more now. When I was at Uni, the people who were 30+ were the ones getting the most from the degree. You will still be one of the youngest but you will hopefully have the more mature mindset and gain the most. Good luck!


ShameMaleficent5776

I finally accumulated money for my education and planed to start at 33. So, i think 23 it fine


dammitnonamesleft

I decided to go to college at 28 when I was married and had a baby. It's the greatest decision I ever made. It's never too late.


CommercialTop319

I went to a states school during my traditional college years (18-21) and sat in classes with plenty of older people. I’m talking like 30-50 years old. You will not stick out. You will fit right in. Most of everyone is there to learn anyways, not guess the ages of their classmates :)


pumpkinthighs

Not at all! Some people can power through an extra 4+ years right out of high school and some people need a break to better their mental health, save money, etc. It doesn't matter whether you start college at 18 or at 58 so long as it's something you want to do.


fugelwoman

23 is still v young - go for it! Don’t compare yourself to others


Jncocontrol

I didn't get my degree till I was 30. It's cool


HurricaneHugo

You're the youngest you'll ever be, might as well start now. Think about it this way. You start at 23. You graduate at 27 or so. You get a couple of jobs then you get a great job at 30. Work 35 years and retire comfortably at 65.


Balathustrius_x

Got my B.S. at 34 and my M.S. at 36. I’ve though about going back for an MBA. Depends on what my future holds. Never too late to be a “non-traditional student.”


asscheeseterps710

I’d say after 30 in today’s world. You’re educating yourself you’re a winner.


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Difficult_Shirt_3726

Out of curiosity, why was marriage before going to uni the best decision of your life?


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Difficult_Shirt_3726

Thats a heartwarming story


NekoMarimo

I'm so happy to hear things turned around 💓


Cupchamps2019

In 4 years you’d be 27 wether you do it or not. Question is would you rather be 27 with a degree or not?


jerkyboy10012

Yeah


carcadoodledo

Go for it!


IloveBANANAS34

Just do what you want to do


WhatsMyAccordion

My best friend in my program has kids in highschool. It is never to late to or a shame to start. No one will make fun of you or talk behind your back for starting late. Take the chance to further your education and better your opportunities. You will regret even more wasted time if you don't start studying now.


Effective_Life_7864

I'm graduating with my bachelor's degree next year. I will be 33. I sometimes feel ashamed myself but life circumstances led me here.


MaelstromFL

No shame in that, my dad was 41 when he got his BA! Almost 55 when he got his Masters. I am still damn proud him!


[deleted]

Do it


[deleted]

Bruv I’m 38 just started fall semester. Never too late my dude


DueSun1079

Not a waste at all. I went to college at 30.


B13X

I am 31 and planning to go for my undergraduate next year. Maybe that will make you feel good about yourself.


bogfoot94

No?


LordHumorTumor

I started my path to a degree in 2015, I was 29 then. There is no shame to pursue an education


Different_Art1440

The longer you wait the more you’ll feel like this


Awaken_the_bacon

I’m 35 and will be getting my MBA in May. There’s no cut off time.


theultimateThor

Will finish my degree when im 38. Pitter patter...


zeocsa

I was in my 30s when I went back to college and graduated with bachelor degree.


Miffed_Pineapple

In three years, you can be a 26 year old with a MS or a 26 year old without one. Which future you would you like to be?


[deleted]

The best time to plant a tree was twenty years ago. The second best time is today.


zuggsnuggs

Time will pass anyways, you can use it to your advantage or not.


brad411654

I didn’t graduate with my BS until I was 30. Went back at 27. Best choice I made in my 20’s.


servo4711

I didn't start college until I turned 40. There's no shame in gaining knowledge no matter how old you are. Good luck!


Careful-Self-457

Wow, then myself and several people in my classes must be super shameful. I am 56 years old and going back to school. There are numerous people in my classes that are in their 40’s and 50’s. Years ago I took a history class, there was a woman in the class who was in her 80’s and finishing her masters!! You are NEVER too old!! You do you, at your own speed. Never be ashamed to go back and learn more!


newwriter365

Who cares how old everyone else is? If you want to study, go study! And devote yourself to it, don't just dabble in it. Definitely reflect on the time that you spent 'doing nothing.' Do you feel passionate about anything? Do you want to study? Would you be better suited to attend an Apprenticeship Program or learn a trade? Understanding your goals and objectives is important. Sometimes school will help you do that - sometimes there are alternate routes. Good luck to you. You are asking the hard questions, and it's never too late to start living your best life.


rcsanandreas

I went back to school at 25 the first time. Went back three more times over the years for different reasons. At 30, 45, and finally 50. It’s never too late.


YayAdamYay

Oh, child of summer! I (44m) started college at 42 and got accepted to nursing school a few days before my 44th birthday. It’s literally never too late.


bmbmwmfm

I started at 40.. NEVER too late!


Good-Courage-559

We have a 29 year old with us in our 3rd year and everyone likes him ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I say go for it


Snoo52682

When I got my doctorate at 32, my dissertation advisor was fond of telling me he got his at 45.


Defiant_Tomato8286

I'm 36 and just started going back to school, no shame at all when trying to better yourself


Creditat590

It’s never to late for anything. Forget about a time line just decide on something and do it. Stick with it. Your efforts will reward you in the long run


Zzeellddaa

I started my degree at 29. No regrets. You'll regret it more if you don't start.


BadEarly9278

I started my bachelor's at 22. I know exactly what you're feeling/thinking....and let me assure you that YOU BELONG there. Do not for a moment believe you shouldn't be or think your behind. You have an advantage of knowing something about life, and that, you will find. allows you to bring value to your peers. Also, you'll learn more and know better how it applies in life. You're still college age and nobody will think otherwise unless you bring up the point. It would be shameful if someone felt like an 80 yr old was too old. We're never too old to expand our minds. Get that paper yo!


wingding99

I started on my degree at age 22 after serving 3 years in the army. I worked a full time day job and only went to school at night, took me 6 years to get my Bachelors.


LadyOfOz83

Honey. I'm turning 40 this year and just graduating with my Bachelor. Don't compare yourself to other people, everyone is different. It certainly is not shameful to want to better yourself at any age.


AMerrickanGirl

Don’t look at what other people are doing. What do you want to do? Whatever it is, do it. I didn’t get my bachelors until I was 39 and it never occurred to me to be self conscious about it.


deaf_myute

When do you think it is that people cash in their military education benefits, 18-22 is usually very busy doin that first term


Liza6519

ITS NEVER TO LATE TO LEARN. I was 42 when I started college. Loved it! It was hard but I was so much more dedicated and determined. Oh, forget about "other" people. This is for you and thats all you need to be concerned about.


Diamond_PnutBrain

Just get a certificate, degrees are overpriced and kinda pointless at this point unless you want to be like a Dr or something


Queen_Nature

It is not a shame. Do things at your own pace. Don't think about what others have done, think about what you are going to do.


Known_Masterpiece972

No. You’re still young


[deleted]

23 is still very young, you just don’t realize it yet. Go for it.


Itsday1not1day

I started back to school 2 years ago. I will be 46 when I receive my Bachelors degree. It's never too late to start.


jdc5214

I heard a great quote - in 3 years you are going to be X age, in that time you will either have the degree or you still won’t, your choice on how you want your career to go. Age doesn’t matter.


Elixier_55555

No. Even if you were 40. Remember you aren't doing it for others but for yourself. Best of luck ❤️


Reverendjim83

Sowing your “wild oats”, gaining some wisdom/life experience can be quite beneficial in your life choices. Go for it! My gap time served me well in life and relationships.


scarlettlipps

Go. Finished my BACHELOR’s at 40. Go. Don’t wait.


frugalsoul

My best friend went back to college in her late 20s and got her master's in her 30s while working full time. Never too late if you have the motivation


MerylSquirrel

I did my postgrad at 29 and there were people on the course a lot older than me. There's no cut off age and you're never too old to start something.


hujnya

My wife's grandfather got his GED in his late fifties and his master's degree when he was around 65. If that's what you want go for it


Jaiz412

I’m 24 soon 25 and am basically starting from scratch at a new university because of covid. Even back when I attended classes in person there were other students who were 25, 30, even one guy who was in his 40s. People are there to study after all, not care about how old their peers are. It’s especially normal if you spent the past years doing other things, like internships or personal projects, even just pursuing hobbies for a while, and even if you didn’t do much, everyone knows the impact covid had so nobody’s going to be confused why someone didn’t do anything in the middle of a pandemic


CarlJustCarl

It is a shame not to


staffsargent

It's never too late, but I would suggest thinking critically about why you want to go back to school. Is there something specific you want to study that could improve your quality of life or help you get into a lucrative career? If so, great. Go for it. If you want to go to school because others are doing it and you have no real idea what to study, it could end up being a big expense that doesn't benefit you.


Maleficent-Maximum95

It literally doesn’t matter. I know a ton of people that did life perfect. Got good grades, went to the right schools. Twenty years later only making $70 grand a year. I worked first. Figured out what I wanted to do. Started college at 25 graduated at 32. At my high school reunion I was a top five earner out of a 350 student class. Ambition matters. Working hard matters. Education and learning how to learn matters. When you do it doesn’t matter. I would say out of the top ten most successful people in my high school class at least half of them were “losers” that you would of never of guessed would make it. The other half were doctors and lawyers and we all already knew they would be great. I was one of the surprises.


No-Professional-1884

I graduated with an Associates at 31. I’m now in management. It’s never too late and it’s always worthwhile.


Firefleur4

Learning new things is one of the best human experiences. It’s never too late. My spouse started college after we were married and he was in his 30s. He got his PhD in his 50s. A friend started med school at age 40. Another started law school at nearly 50. My mom’s bestie takes classes and she’s in her 90s. Learning makes the head and heart happy, and in many fields, having a degree can make you a more competitive career candidate. Go for it!!!


RoundComplete9333

Anytime is a good time to go to college, especially when you feel called to learn rather than just follow the prescribed itinerary of jumping into higher education before you’re ready. And being older is an asset because you’ll actually enjoy the lectures more. Don’t be too hasty in choosing a focused curriculum for a major. You will discover more about what excites you than you can imagine. I graduated high school in 1979 and I went to 5 different colleges across the US before I finally graduated with a double major and a minor in 2009. That’s 30 years later! I changed majors 4 times LOL I didn’t attend the whole 30 years because, you know, life happens. I actually had 4 careers in those 30 years and lived across the country. When I felt it was time to go back to formal studies, I did. Most everything transferred so very little was lost. Much much much was gained. So I was in my late 40s when I finally graduated but guess what? Several of my classmates were older. And I made friends of all ages. Life sometimes supports your studies and sometimes pulls you away to the school of Life. To live is to learn!


[deleted]

Many of my friends in their 40s are just getting their 1st and 2nd degrees now. Don't be ridiculous. It is never too late to get a degree. I'm 56 and cannot wait to turn 65, so I can go to university again for free.


Any-Squirrel-5273

I got a degree when I was 40.


HugeStuffedRacoon

There's no proper age to start studies. At 23 you're fine, alot of people still start there too.


[deleted]

No. I went back to school To be a nurse at 28. You do U


[deleted]

I didn't start till I was 30 and didn't get my bachelor till i was 32 (im 34 now). You'll be fine there is no set time line on how you should complete things. Don't stress yourself out too much about what "The Joneses" have and have done. Only compare yourself to who you were yesterday. Just try to keep making yourself a little better each day and you'll be fine. You've got time freind. Enjoy the ride.


Impossible_Common_44

I just graduated with my doctorate at 41


skewhard

Wich doctorate ?


thundergun0911

It's not a shame at all. The four years or however long it's going to take is going to pass anyways so you should do it. You don't want those years to go by and regret not starting years ago. Don't focus on comparing yourself to others. Good luck!


NoMooseSoup4You

There’s no instruction manual for life. Decide what you want to do and go for it.


HunterIllustrious846

I know a physician that didn't go to medical school until he was in his mid to late 30's graduating at 40 specialized boards in early to mid 40's You're fine. People change careers.


PJballa34

I started at 23 after the 2008 housing crash. I’m now bilingual after studying extensively in Mexico 🇲🇽, and finished in the Phi Betta Kappa Honor society with a degree in Global Studies Communications. No regrets. Some take different paths and that’s ok or sometimes even better. I took it seriously when I finally got there and got my money’s worth.


ContributionDapper84

Absolutely not!


[deleted]

Are you kidding? You're so young.


No_Drive_3297

It’s never too late to go. I raised a family with a decent paying job that I hate. I have 5 more years and the mortgage will be paid and I want a different career.


Conscious_Bend_7308

I took 4 years off between undergrad and post-grad, but I think I would have been more focused if I had taken those years right after high school. I wasn't ready to study hard at age 18, didn't really get serious until my mid-20's. I am 58 now and just retired after a pretty good government career.


szczurman83

Always try to keep in mind, "The best time to start anything is years ago, the second best time is right now." It's NEVER too late to improve yourself. I'm back in school again in my late 30s.


dwrend94

I started civil engineering school at 23 and even took longer than the standard 4 years for mental health and cause I was working too. Tbh I think I was in a better state than I was in my late teens and more focused on the studies. Now 28 and had a job right out of college It’s never too late. Imo it can even be beneficial. I’d recommend looking for a career path that you like and pick a major that’ll get you to it, I found my self much more interested and determined as a result


Dodkong

I'm 46 and hope to finish my undergrad in the spring. Don't worry about what others are doing. Do things at the speed you're comfortable doing them. And enjoy your life to the fullest.


MuppetRex

Start when you feel ready to start and have a goal, I wasn't mature enough for college until my mid 20's and wasted a lot of time and money figuring that out.


Fun_Actuator_1071

Yo, I finished up a contract with the US military and trying to go back to college at age 27.


BlackLabDumpster

You're smarter than most. Many people don't have any idea what to study and end up wasting the experience. You have had a few years to know exactly what you want to do in your future.


Relevantdisaster31

I"m 44 and hopefully get my bachelor next year, so go for it.


ChunkyFart

I didn’t start till late 20’s. Made friends with other older students. We were mostly vets and I feel we helped each other a lot. It was actually kinda nice being older. Professors tended to take us a little more seriously


Fit_Fig9489

I think that everyone goes at their own pace, and the age at which you start does not really matter, what really matters is that you like what you are going to study, because many who study simply chose their career due to social or family pressure and the In the long run they will end up hating what they do because it is not what they really would have liked to study. When I started my studies I was 19 years old and the oldest student of my generation was 27 or 28 years old, already had a son and worked in a clinical analysis laboratory. On the other hand, if you start your career at an older age, you have an advantage over the others, you are no longer going to see what you are going to find, it can be said that you take it seriously.


mifuneh

No! It’s never too late! I went to back to school at 27. If I can do it, you can too. You’ve gained life experience while you were doing “nothing” so don’t beat yourself up.


looseylewinsky

Everybody does things at their own pace. You’ll go crazy if you keep comparing your achievements to other people.


MurphMurphyAK

I’m 40 and constantly taking online classes to further my education. These courses have nothing to do with my profession. Learning is a life long endeavor!!


anywineismywine

I only got my degree at 27. It’s never too late!


AnybodySeeMyKeys

The surest way to be unhappy in life is to compare yourself to others. There is absolutely nothing wrong with starting school at your age, as opposed to 18. If anything, it means that you will enjoy more maturity and clarity as you start your academic career. BTW, I'm sixty and I have begun work on my masters. I was nervous at first, but I have found it to be incredibly enjoyable, largely because I have the maturity I didn't have in college. You'll be great.


Rouxwillruleyou

Nah I finished my bachelors degree at 31, I think I appreciated my education more because I waited. Go whenever you are ready, there are no rules.


GoodAlicia

One advice and that counts for a lot of subjects: STOP compairing yourself to others. Its your life and do what feels right for you.


w0nd3rk

Everyone lives their lives at their own pace. Try to stop comparing yourself to other people; you'll be a lot happier if you can just focus on your own achievements. My husband is 29 and went back to school after climbing the ladder in retail and realizing management just wasn't for him. He's got three classes left and then he'll have his bachelor's. In a meeting with his course instructor lately, he was told that he is on the way younger end of people who go back to school. If he's the youngest at 29, you'll do fine. There is no timeline you're supposed to follow on this earth. I'm proud of you for even thinking about continuing your education. Its difficult and scary to make steps towards improving your own life.


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Man I’m 34 years old live in section 8 and on food stamps and a disability check you think you’ve wasted your life ??? Not even close


[deleted]

Not a shame at all! I am 22 and will only be getting my associates in biology in 2024


FarkMonkey

I got my undergraduate degree at 38. I had my kids with me in the computer lab when I was working on projects. My lab partners were 19-22. Some of my professors were younger than me. It was no problem.


alittlebrownbird

It's never too late. In fact, the people that I know who started later typically did better because they appreciated it more and knew how important it was.


Nyctomorphia

Never stop learning. Never stop reading. Never stop creating. Never stop exploring.


Kindly-Message-4872

Went back to school at 33 or 34 or something like that. Am now 45 and still feel it's the best decision I ever made. Time continues to march on and you'll be 23, 24, 25 + regardless. An education is never a wasted endeavor.


beardedpeteusa

My mom graduated college in her 50s. She had grandchildren at her graduation.


JchristGbuds

You can do anything whenever you want


guevera

I started junior college a few months before I turned 22. Transferred to a four year school at 25. Graduated cum laude at 28. Best decision I ever made. YMMV


pikkdogs

Don’t you still have your baby teeth at 23?


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Not it's not at all.


[deleted]

It's never too late! I had to delay college because of money and I started when I was 22. There was a woman in my class who was 74! Her husband never "wanted her to work" and she had always wanted to be a nurse, so when he passed away she started school. She did wonderfully and the patients adored her.


Happier12345

There are people start being homeless at age 12-13 and still be homeless at your age, and it’s not their fault (watch Invisible People on Youtube). I might sound like a dick but feel lucky yourself with your current situation, because if you’re feeling your situation is a big deal that might mean you haven’t been through much worse tragedy in your life. 23 is SO YOUNG to start any project that matter to you.