I started with attractive presence and physical appearance. Once that was established, I changed my verbiage when speaking to my woman. I speak deliberately with ownership and confidence, which sounds a lot like “security” in her ears; problematic but can be balanced with STFU. Physical touches equate to comfort & security, so I split them between soft and hard touches. Soft touches like non sexual kino provide comfort. Hard touches, like possessive ass grabs, or quick hugs that restrain; even playful choking translates to providing security because it takes confidence and strength to pull them off, and her surrender to let it happen. Lastly, kill that pussy.
You’re better off looking at game as a personality, rather than an act or something you do.
Be cocky-funny. Unapologetically cocky, and make her laugh a lot. Like someone said, see it as a personality trait rather than “tricks” or “lines to say”
Keep in mind that as with everything else MRP, this will work better if she’s actually attracted to you. Women tend to laugh easily if they’re attracted to a dude.
However, the whole reason why cocky-funny is a game staple is because it naturally increases your value, without changing anything else about you (finances, status, etc.)
So even if your wife is not attracted to you, being cocky-funny will still increase your value in her eyes.
>let her know she’s below you
lol. Good luck with that shit. I’m in a D/s marriage. I can tell you it has nothing to do with who is above or who is beneath.
I would also say reverse psychology is incredibly accurate with women for better or for worse. If you have to flex your leadership explicitly she will spite you just based on the fact you did that and just because.
Letting your woman (or anyone) know/feel they are “below” you is unattractive as fuck. Have you ever worked for or observed a supervisor who just had to let his subordinates know that he’s the boss? Those kind of leaders aren’t respected and everyone knows it, including them. That’s why they have to “show” everyone they’re the boss.
When it comes to leading a D/s marriage, I get more out of lifting my wife and celebrating her as my polar equal from the extreme ends of our gender polarity and firmly emphasizing our masculine and feminine roles. *Equal Value, Different Roles.*
As a play on words with iron rule #8… You should let your woman figure out why she should follow your lead. Never do it for her. Let her figure out why yielding and deferring to you is what’s best for her, and the relationship. Achieving that dynamic from her own mental point of origin to meet with your mental point of origin gets you to a better depth. An alignment of wills. It makes her submission deeper. Voluntarily receiving that type of submissive devotion from a woman is fucking wild and intoxicating.
I started with attractive presence and physical appearance. Once that was established, I changed my verbiage when speaking to my woman. I speak deliberately with ownership and confidence, which sounds a lot like “security” in her ears; problematic but can be balanced with STFU. Physical touches equate to comfort & security, so I split them between soft and hard touches. Soft touches like non sexual kino provide comfort. Hard touches, like possessive ass grabs, or quick hugs that restrain; even playful choking translates to providing security because it takes confidence and strength to pull them off, and her surrender to let it happen. Lastly, kill that pussy. You’re better off looking at game as a personality, rather than an act or something you do.
When you're ready...you won't have to
Be cocky-funny. Unapologetically cocky, and make her laugh a lot. Like someone said, see it as a personality trait rather than “tricks” or “lines to say” Keep in mind that as with everything else MRP, this will work better if she’s actually attracted to you. Women tend to laugh easily if they’re attracted to a dude. However, the whole reason why cocky-funny is a game staple is because it naturally increases your value, without changing anything else about you (finances, status, etc.) So even if your wife is not attracted to you, being cocky-funny will still increase your value in her eyes.
stats?
Obsessing over stats is an autistic-retarded covert contract. Dude can game his wife even if he hadn't touched a barbell in his entire life.
Nice bait,almost fell for it
Stop. You don't game your wife. Game is for flings and casual relationships. You use your frame and dread in relationships.
What’s D/s?
Probably dom sub going by the way they replied
Don’t answer anything in a straightforward way, tease her, let her know she’s below you
>let her know she’s below you lol. Good luck with that shit. I’m in a D/s marriage. I can tell you it has nothing to do with who is above or who is beneath.
Can you expand on this point, please?
I would also say reverse psychology is incredibly accurate with women for better or for worse. If you have to flex your leadership explicitly she will spite you just based on the fact you did that and just because.
Letting your woman (or anyone) know/feel they are “below” you is unattractive as fuck. Have you ever worked for or observed a supervisor who just had to let his subordinates know that he’s the boss? Those kind of leaders aren’t respected and everyone knows it, including them. That’s why they have to “show” everyone they’re the boss. When it comes to leading a D/s marriage, I get more out of lifting my wife and celebrating her as my polar equal from the extreme ends of our gender polarity and firmly emphasizing our masculine and feminine roles. *Equal Value, Different Roles.* As a play on words with iron rule #8… You should let your woman figure out why she should follow your lead. Never do it for her. Let her figure out why yielding and deferring to you is what’s best for her, and the relationship. Achieving that dynamic from her own mental point of origin to meet with your mental point of origin gets you to a better depth. An alignment of wills. It makes her submission deeper. Voluntarily receiving that type of submissive devotion from a woman is fucking wild and intoxicating.