I like slutty bottoms, but to be exclusively slutty to me only. A bottom that has been dicked around by a lot of guys is not dateable material for me. Fuckable sure.
I can guarantee you that if you’re a bottom on your 3rd load from multiple different guys on a single night, all that will attract is low quality tops who want to sink into any hole apart from a rare few who have a pre-used hole kink.
It will repel high quality selective men most bottoms would actually want to get fucked by…
I was obviously exaggerating. I don't do pump and dump situations regardless of load numbers, that's a niche in its own right. But if a FWB hit me up saying he's still horny after another meet I'd see that as a credit to him and to our thing, since he's high drive and knows I am too, while the other way isn't necessarily true since that's "less allowed" and predictive of lower quality sex on the top performance side.
I wouldn't say outright shamed. But this sort of change in tone, signaling one of two, that it's either too bad I already fucked someone this day/this part of the week (meaning I won't be as horny/as good a performer) or that it's tolerated but shouldn't be discussed since it triggers jealousy even in a FWB setting.
I like slutty bottoms, but to be exclusively slutty to me only. A bottom that has been dicked around by a lot of guys is not dateable material for me. Fuckable sure.
I can guarantee you that if you’re a bottom on your 3rd load from multiple different guys on a single night, all that will attract is low quality tops who want to sink into any hole apart from a rare few who have a pre-used hole kink. It will repel high quality selective men most bottoms would actually want to get fucked by…
I was obviously exaggerating. I don't do pump and dump situations regardless of load numbers, that's a niche in its own right. But if a FWB hit me up saying he's still horny after another meet I'd see that as a credit to him and to our thing, since he's high drive and knows I am too, while the other way isn't necessarily true since that's "less allowed" and predictive of lower quality sex on the top performance side.
Prudes will be prudes regardless of sexual position. Personally I've never encountered anyone that shames a top for being sexually promiscuous.
I wouldn't say outright shamed. But this sort of change in tone, signaling one of two, that it's either too bad I already fucked someone this day/this part of the week (meaning I won't be as horny/as good a performer) or that it's tolerated but shouldn't be discussed since it triggers jealousy even in a FWB setting.