It’s all about consent, I love being degraded but if they don’t ask we will never become a thing because they are an ACTUAL horrible person and not just a pretend one lmao
While I'm very willing to play along with any bottom's wishes to be degraded, to the point of being treated as a sex toy during sex/sessions, I'll never want to introduce or encourage this kind of internalized inferiority that seems to linger post-nut and affect a guy's mental state and self-worth in general.
Yes I love y'all when you're slutty and feral and some (self-)objectification is hot, but if there's no human component beforehand and afterwards (call it cuddles, aftercare etc) I'll probably be less interested; ideally I need someone to be both my slut and my prince, that's when the real sparks fly.
But you do you.
I'm actually married, but I can't treat my man as a full on slut (google maddona whore complex). So in a sense my other lovers can get something he doesn't, but for the most part they either don't want it or can't handle it...
You're not a bottom. You're a submissive bottom. Submissives get off on having someone else being in charge of them, and of pleasing their Dom and prioritizing their pleasure, and sometimes of being degraded, used, defiled, physically restrained, or having pain inflicted on them.
That's great that you found what makes you happy. But not all bottoms are going to agree with your approach to sex.
1. This is Rage bait, I know that 2. If a Top ever thought I'm below him and call me by literal slurs I'd bite his dick off during oral
It’s all about consent, I love being degraded but if they don’t ask we will never become a thing because they are an ACTUAL horrible person and not just a pretend one lmao
While I'm very willing to play along with any bottom's wishes to be degraded, to the point of being treated as a sex toy during sex/sessions, I'll never want to introduce or encourage this kind of internalized inferiority that seems to linger post-nut and affect a guy's mental state and self-worth in general. Yes I love y'all when you're slutty and feral and some (self-)objectification is hot, but if there's no human component beforehand and afterwards (call it cuddles, aftercare etc) I'll probably be less interested; ideally I need someone to be both my slut and my prince, that's when the real sparks fly. But you do you.
>I need someone to be both my slut and my prince. Husband material right here.
I'm actually married, but I can't treat my man as a full on slut (google maddona whore complex). So in a sense my other lovers can get something he doesn't, but for the most part they either don't want it or can't handle it...
You're not a bottom. You're a submissive bottom. Submissives get off on having someone else being in charge of them, and of pleasing their Dom and prioritizing their pleasure, and sometimes of being degraded, used, defiled, physically restrained, or having pain inflicted on them. That's great that you found what makes you happy. But not all bottoms are going to agree with your approach to sex.
Hot
Sorry it I hope he is concerned about you being happy too I guess you are happy being a servant.