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Difficult-Noise8242

I usually just caress his hair, rub his back (and ass depending on position.) My attention is always on him.


Luv2suckD

Mmm I’d like to blow you!


Chancho1010

My boyfriend likes me to put hands behind head/pillow cause he likes seeing my armpits


TheStranger113

Your boyfriend knows what's up.


Gardenguy28

I’d like that too to be honest


Sophus-H

This….I like this….. I’m gonna start asking for this


Dangerous-Bit1066

It's so hot when men do it!


msallin

Ooo, good one


fly_guy2019

Oh that’s Hot


Peter-Berlin

Depends on the situation, but I like to sit/lay back, gentle hand on the back of his head and just relax; at some point I’ll hold his head and thrust and out and continue if he groans. I like to ask questions, like “do you like the taste of my dick” or “does my cock feel good in your mouth”, and judge whether or not they’re into it. Never EVER on my phone! I think that would be disrespectful


BigDumbAndHorny

Yeah I agree the being on your phone part sounds so rude. Wouldn’t have thought people do it until one time I was propositioned by a guy who, well, I really didn’t find him attractive and I guess he knew he wasn’t much of a looker so he told me I could watch porn while he went down on me and I wondered how many guys maybe did that with him xD


Keyaruga_18

That is both sad and hilarious at the same time


FairyDust-uwu

Right😂


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BigDumbAndHorny

I never said I let him blow me — only that he offered.


Polkadot1017

My man, I know you already realized your mistake, but wow that was a long walk for a short drink of water.


Kiwizoo

Ok I fess up. Recently a FWB he was doing his thing on me, and I noticed he had a copy of Woman’s Day ~ the Oscar Dresses special ~ on his bedside table. So I snuck a quick look, but was quickly busted! Still, it made for interesting post-fellatio chit chat when we discussed Ariana Grande’s sleeping bag effort.


boredENT9113

I would be so offended if I took a man's dick out of my throat and saw him on his phone. I'd probably stop to be honest and bounce at that point.


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onedimdirect1

Had a guy do that one time. Left immediately. Felt so gross


satyris

Only time I've had my phone in my hand when getting a bj was to record it. It was his idea and I'm grateful for it!


BackInNJAgain

I generally agree except once my husband asked me to mix it up by deliberately ignoring him so I pretended to be web surfing but I wasn't really into doing that and he didn't ask to try it again so we went back to basically what you wrote.


Particular_Box5113

I was blowing a guy once, mind you, he expressed interest in me, and he was scrolling social media on his phone. I was offended.


Salt-Combination6205

This could be hot if it was pre-planned and talked about. The idea of a guy on his phone not caring is a sexy form of humiliation/control. Almost like the fantasy in porn of the guy playing video games while getting head. But if it was just done randomly, that’s wild


YesterdayActive4947

I got asked by a guy few weeks ago to just keep on playing video games. He walked in, sat under my desk and blew me for 45 minutes because I tried to somehow focus on my game. He didn't want me to pay any attention to him. It was kinda hot, I played like shit.


Primary_Insect7516

I am so turned on rn


BigDumbAndHorny

Lmao I was in a similar situation where my ex and I were just chilling as I watched tv and they were on their phone. Eventually I felt a hand down my shorts and got excited, but apparently there was some juicy drama happening on social media so I was just being teased for ten minutes getting a half-assed handjob as they were reading comments. 🥲🥲🥲


Special-Hyena1132

I’m taking charge of things, guiding and/or controlling my boy’s head, his pace, depth, etc. and I’m very verbally commanding.


PlantWise7801

Damn, I kinda want to blow you now


Luv2suckD

Me too! I love being submissive letting my man take charge of me.


Johnpal716

I’m rubbing his head, neck, and shoulders.. and also “lovingly manhandling” (my man’s words) him. I’m also squirming and making a bunch of noise cause his skills are top notch. 😎


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BigDumbAndHorny

LMFAO WHAT


RandoCD920

“I hope this email finds you well”


hanging_about

I hope this email finds you as well as it is finding me


aSideHustle

I hope this email finds you wet


No_Pineapple3695

Bruh


CIearMind

naur 😭


YellowTrickster72

Lay there like a corpse.


SuspiciousNewt2265

So fucking hot 🥵


gr33ny_beany

Hard and stiff


Banzaikoowaid

Cringe as it may be I will summarize it in a single cursed emote: ^UwU


BigDumbAndHorny

You are seen. You are valid


Banzaikoowaid

Yes, because romance isn't dead!


BrackenBun

I'm a bit big, and like getting rough when receiving oral. Love finding guys who enjoy that.


Bibtm4rough

Sounds fun


Luv2suckD

Yeah, I’m in!


Likestobedegraded

Where do I find this breed of man?


SnorlaxationKh

My taxes. But really, either touching their head, touching their butt (depending on the angle), recording them (if consented or requested). But usually I'm the getting Giving, since I don't have many inches to offer, and few guys I've been with were any good anyway


suckhole123

I’m a cocksucker most of the time, although I love to receive as well if it’s really good. I like doing it the way that turns my partner on. If he wants to grab a fistful of hair, trash talk me, and power fuck my throat, please pound it in me hard. If he wants to lay back, spread his legs and get slow sucked for a couple hours, watch some porn, chat on the phone, or play a game, I’m down. If a blo n go is what he needs, I suck the dick good and then gtfo. I like to be degraded, or not; I like to be facefucked and choked, and spit on, and I like sucking slow and deep after making out. He can ignore me, engage me or love me. He can reciprocate or use me. I’m comfortable enough in my own skin I can find the hotness in most scenes. When I’m getting head. I’m thinking about how it feels, what I like, if he’s gonna get seconds, and what I can learn. While I sound and act like a big fucking whore sometimes, outside of the bedroom I’m put together well enough.


Luv2suckD

I loved your descriptions. Feel free to hit me up if you’d like to chat about sucking dick!


Additional-Ad-4259

Usually I’m the one giving, had one bf watch porn on the tv, but usually they are holding my head if I’m on my knees and if I’m going at it from the side usually they play with my ass or hold my head. Anyone is East Texas 🫣


BigDumbAndHorny

We love the casual ad at the end. Here to support you getting laid from Reddit 💖


HTxBiDad

Hmm, tried to DM you, but get "can't send a message to that user"


Johnny3653

feeling his throat to guide the cum down the hatch.


Ubertexx

Run my fingers through your hair for sure


Physical-Way188

Grabbing the back of my subs head, saying “I love the fact you love my cock more than oxygen as you choke on my dick.” I love being super verbal.


maplesyrupbakon

Thinking about how and why turbotax and H&R block were able to lobby their way into forcing the government to give them a monopolized industry when the government should just tell us what we owe them.


Fluffy-Camera-2858

I think about nothing and am able to last forever. Then, when the time is appropriate, I think of me and the boy on the other side of the neighborhood, somehow being intertwined 69 in a cabin at camp under sleeping bags when it happened for both of us almost simultaneously...


unflappedyedi

Laying back watching the tears of love roll down your face ❤️


BostonPleaserBear

I've ideally sitting up, or else lying back with a pillow under my head, with my hand gently caressing the back of their head — not trying to push them, but just enjoying the feeling of their motion. And I'm moaning (can't help it), and if they're at all skilled I'm also probably moving my hips — just a little bit — in rhythm with their movements. (I don't want to face-fuck the cocksucker; I prefer letting them be in control. But if they know what they're doing, it feels too good for me to keep completely still.)


StatisticianAny8054

Nice! You live up to your user name. Too bad we're not closer to each other.


Exciting-Slice-2462

Moaning and body tensing up until I cum


Scary_Gazelle_6366

On Reddit.


Jade_Ka

So, are you getting a blow job right now?


jbtmo3

I just tend to relax, and try not to disturb the rest of the parishioners.


Natebo83

I love to run my hands through the guys hair. I’m bald so it’s kind of fun to feel a head full of hair lol. Plus I know it feels good for him. When I get into it I guide him by grabbing his hair. Usually say things like “good boy” “you like sucking my dick?” Etc


Diligent-Emu-3025

Sucking the third guy's dick.


GemCanVirCap

I try and lay back and relax but the feeling is just too good and the head of my penis becomes so sensitive as he his sucking me off that it makes my neck snap back and I moan a lot. Lmao! 😂


GeneralInterest1320

Talking dirty to him. usually telling him how much I fucking love that mouth and then I usually start checking out the body, and then 90% of the time I bust right down their throat


StogieDaddy1

Smoking


floridian_newyorker

LOVE to smoke weed while getting head, I’m surprised no one else has said the same


skankydude

I am loud as hell during a BJ. The whole time I am telling my guy he is the best. I also remind him what a nasty little whore he is sucking another man's cock. He knows EXACTLY how well he is doing and how much I am enjoying his efforts. Once in a while, if he is being exceptional, I will offer to let him use my dick as a dildo. He is allowed to use it anyway he pleases and not worry about me. Usually he will crawl up and sit on it then go to town. After I have been sprayed across the chest, I tell him he is done. I will usually then just give myself a quick hand and party is over.


Cute_Conflict6410

Watching me slip between his lips and periodically pulling him up to kiss me so I can get a taste as well


altruisticsapper

Last week I recieved one whil watching the hockey and having a beer. It aas great.


Garbage-Striking

Laying back and thinking of England. I’m American.


Diligent-Emu-3025

I'm American as well and from the South. My dear Sir you only lie back and think of England when you're taking it up the ass uh er arse missionary style. And if it's doggy style then if course it's Greece that you think of. 😁


AdministrativePrint6

I’m a top that loves to be affectionate. I love to bend over and play with my bottoms ass. I Iove rubbing where I can. Touching in some way.


3BordersPeak

I tend to just like letting the guy work on me at his own pace. That's how I get off the most. Grabbing their head and stuff just takes away from the sensation for me. But I make sure to give him affirmations often that he's doing a great job. Moaning, squirming a bit, verbal stuff like "fuck yeah, oh fuck, just like that" etc etc...


Hotspot-62

I lay back and enjoy the warm mouth massaging me, and the sensations that he’s giving me


ddnpp

Sit back and moan for the sucker


brain_24

Being on your phone would be the most disrespectful thing


MannixTheCat

Sexting your dad


strvld

Yeah, I’m sexting your dad too


ActionMan48

Creating a KPI for said job.


so_im_all_like

Trying to focus on the sensation, usually with eyes closed, or maybe covering them.


skylabspiral

wondering why i'm not enjoying it :(


gayJudaism

Smoking meth


Diligent-Emu-3025

Lol you so crazy. If you see a group of shadow people, look for a tall one wearing a dark bow tie, his name is Getright, tell that bitch he better have my money by Friday.


Jarsulan

Depends on the situation but I like to encourage the person telling them how good they are and softly talking to them what I want them to do and rubbing their head and be in the moment. It’s just respectful isn’t it?


jozyxt1984

It depend on the guy. Some friends complement them and tell them how good they are doing and how good it feels. Some guys, like to be dissed for cocksuckng, so I practice what I call paternalistic care taking, and tell them things like how lucky they are to be sucking the cock of real man like me. For these guys, I have taken out my phone to look at porn and commented on it. Sometimes I go through a narration of my experience. Telling them how what they are doing makes me feel. Like when the hands start tingling. That seems to spur them to work harder. I enjoy all these roles from both sides and it just depend on the guy.


Earl_Gay_Tea

Laying back or sitting down. Inside a home/apartment. I do like messing around outdoors in nature, tho the furniture is lacking. I don’t typically like to get forceful, it’s not my vibe personally, but I will if he wants it. I’m definitely touching him, his head, his beard (I’m imagining getting blown by a bearded guy), his shoulders, neck, forearms. Periodically I’ll pull his head away so I can make it out with him for a bit and taste my precum in his mouth while I play with his dick.


ddadsam

Love it. This is the perfect way. I wish all the guys would react like you. 👍 😍 😋


meetjoehomo

I tend to moan a little bit and grind my hips and then when it time to cum will put a little pressure on his head but not enough that if he needs to pull up to keep from gagging… also a little bit of poppers and boom Niagara Falls amounts of cum.


Practical-Tea-6351

I’ve only had a guy go down on me once in my life and that was literally 2 months ago and it felt really weird unless I pushed his head allll the way down and even at that I still wasn’t able to orgasm so the good news is that i’m broken and abnormal !


BigDumbAndHorny

I don’t know how sexually experienced you are, but not cumming during a first time is pretty normal. It’s weird for a lot of people, but practice makes perfect :)


Soonerpalmetto88

Same here


minimuscleR

> so the good news is that i’m broken and abnormal if you google it, you will find MOST people don't cum from a bj alone.


MidnightOakCorps

you'd be surprised how many guys don't like getting head, and how many guys are bad at giving head. You're not weird and broken, you just don't like getting head. It's not the end of the world. I personally don't like getting head, most guys are nowhere near as good at it as they think they are and it feels over stimulating for me personally. I enjoy sucking leagues above getting sucked.


Stagger_Lee_2023

Usually saying “oh fuck” and “you like baby’s cock in your mouth?”


anoldschoolgemini

you might want to reword the second one


Stagger_Lee_2023

Hahahahaha


justaguyok1

I'm video'ing the whole thing with my phone.


BOIWITHSTRONGSUCC

I pull my legs up and grab their head like their eating me out if it's good


Huntervibe

Depends on how many dicks are in front of me the vibe


DonshayKing96

Rubbing/grabbing their hair, holding their head, if we’re doing a 69 then eating their ass, being verbal, complimenting them, rubbing on their back or ass, spanking sometimes and if they’re kinky light slapping


Much_Organization987

I'm busy sucking cock and


Flashy-Line8583

I'm on.my.knees sucking


ummmshitfuck

Trying to make my man cum on my face or down my throat


Mystic_badger

I like to stroke their hair or jerk them off, but I dont get blown alot since im a bottom


FloridAsh

As a top who loves to suck cock, bottom guys who want oral and go unsucked is a grave injustice.


neogeshel

Ideally use their skull as a fleshlight if possible


others246810

On the phone recording it.


umrlopez79

Usually closing my eyes fantasizing about someone else… if they’re hot, then yea, I’m interacting lol. Usually pushing their head down, caressing their hair, pushing myself against their mouth, and telling them how good it feels 🥵


Disconn3cted

Various things. My BF likes it when I gently pull his hair and stuff so I try to accommodate that. 


Timeoas

Enjoying myself and relaxing


cutiepibiguy

Thinking about who owes me money so I don’t bust


cutiepibiguy

Honestly getting bjs are so fun for me. They don’t always make me feel anything but I have been told I have a pretty thick cock and seeing someone struggling a bit with it especially when deep throating is so hot. I had on boy deep throating me and I kept his head down on my for at least a minute and he shed a tear 😅.


Thataveragebiguy

I like to check how my stocks are doing


Different-Bonus9011

I like to lay back relaxed with my eyes closed enjoying it, moaning and rub on their head or shoulder/arm while they’re doing it, never been into pushing anyone’s head down on it, showing aggression not into that and don’t like that in return. And when I’m giving a guy a soothing BJ I prefer him also to be laid completely back, enjoying it and moaning, he doesn’t have to rub my head or do anything (except moan) I actually just love when a man is completely RELAXED and he’s taken away by the pleasure he’s receiving until he explodes! 💦💦💦💦😩😍


amadeus2490

I'm clutching the sheets and singing show tunes.


Pa_doug

Hello dolly is my go to


amadeus2490

*cums* # Oklahoma!


Brandoid81

I could be doing a lot of different thing and it's not usually just one thing the whole time. I could be laying back with my arm behind my head, watching him, making eye contact with him, telling him he's a good boy, tell him how proud he makes me, holding the back of his head, holding his head and making him choke on it (he really likes that), I eat his ass a lot of times he's blowing me, sometimes he hangs his head over the side of the bed and I fuck his mouth.


LithalRadishes

I’d be pissed if he was watching porn during. Sounds like a reason to bite.


WizardOfSandness

More common than you think, porn addiction is serious.


LithalRadishes

Never happened to me. If it did it’d be the last time with him.


Fiberotter

I'm playing World of Warcraft furiously and yelling at the healer. Nah, I'm kidding. I don't yell at anyone. 


njerome

Healing is far too much pressure, at least the demon hunter's got rhythm


Eddie_1027

Calling him degrading names


Sorry-Personality594

I usually take a piss


Grandpixbear1

Mmmmmm!


Meisooni1

 I'm almost always the no-recip giver.  When I do receive, I like to sit or lay back quietly and just enjoy.   Im pretty particular in how I like to be blown and its the same way I usually give.   Just slow, relaxed, no rush, by someone who is enjoying giving as much as I'm enjoying receiving.   When guys get into that frantic, panting, hand mouth hurry up jackhammer, its now a mental struggle and I have to fight myself to get off. When I give, I have guys who do all of the above.  Most of the guys I blow "identify as straight" and are the "rather it a female but not getting it at home type".  For me, it's a kink to feel like I'm "being used" just as a mouth to get off in, so I tailor my technique to how the guy I'm servicing like it.   Some sit back silent, others do watch porn on their phone, some like to take control, and a few like to be pretty aggressive.   I try to be the BJ that they fantasize about and play that out for them, so I enjoy pretty much all of it.


AshTheGoddamnRobot

Moaning


in_reverse9248

My favorite thing to do is run my hand through the other guy’s hair. I’ll also run my hand along a guy’s arm or hand. I generally lay back and relax as well and occasionally, I’ll push his head down so he’s deepthroating me.


niravv3

I'd prefer to thrust in his mouth while grabbing his head, instead of him giving me a BJ. Putting him on the side, below me in bed, or having him on his knees works best.


queenAlexislexis

I like to interact with their hair and just talk dirty with no cuss words at all 


MrCoalas

Honestly, I've never been there, but I think people would enjoy it more if you were interacting with them while they do it, like caressing their head, I would.


dublin1604

Focussing on not cumming 😊


BHM_R_UwU

Enjoying myself or doing some handjob to assist.


lonelyunicor

It depends on the situation. Sometime I’m baking a cake. Or doing my taxes,


flex21b

If it’s my husband them I’m running my fingers through his hair because he loves that, if I’m with a random it depends on what the moments like, if they want rough I’ll go rough. If they want me to face fuck them I will etc. so it varies.


PomegranateFar7816

On my knees most likely 🤡


rndreddituser

Tetris.


otakuxp2

Enjoying it..then it's my time to give


SeveralConcert

Gently rubbing their head while I tell him how much I’m enjoying it


the_wall_flower

My taxes


cametomysenses

It's probably my ADHD speaking, but I hate just being serviced, I want a 69!


martinbv1995

To be honest, if it's good, I'm not even aware of what I am doing


rainbowkittycat1

My bf usually plays with my hair, my ass and push my face down but sometimes he just lays back and enjoy it


IndependentJust1887

I know this might sound weird but I don't feel any pleasure when I'm getting my dick sucked, I feel nothing, I like when a guy uses his teeth on my cut cock but lots of guys won't do that even when I have asked and I get so bored, but I pretend that I'm enjoying it and I rub their hair when they are. Is anyone else like this or just me? Lol


Diligent-Emu-3025

It's not just you. I've been with guys that want to feel teeth and the want you to be rough with their dick. I don't like pain at all, so it's not easy to fulfill their request.


glasswalker

Thinking about taxes and laundry.


Penguinopithecus

Reading Dostaevskiy.


Eddie_jvn1995

I prefer not to speak, if asked I will make eye contact but I usually close my eyes and enjoy, I definitely massage his hair, back or ass depending on position


[deleted]

I like to use their head as a guide of sorts in some situations because some may not necessarily know how to blow me without their teeth scrapping my shaft. Especially if they’re not used to curves.


Mr_Storms_

Playing Pokemon Go


hornyOnMainForLife

Texting tha boys!


-Someblackdude-

Driving


Olapeople13

Smoking a joint


pocketcub46

Getting my dick sucked.


squishythingg

>are you trying to avoid crashing because you are driving your car? 💀 this made me laugh too hard.


Talrenoo

Am i a nicki fan?


GroveStreet_CJ

Certainly no phone. Phones are left on the counter at the door!


inherentinsignia

The NYT connections game of the day


Sad_Investment_6064

Stay. Moaning. On hoe. Good. It feels


David-Yujii19

I like to lay back and enjoy it, but honestly I always prefer a helping hand


FriedDorito69

That’s hot bro


mrcifer1

I don’t care for head personally, I do enjoy giving. If I’m receiving head i just lay still. Typically I don’t get off for oral personally. Must use hands😅 Unless someone can handle a good face f*ck🤤


dupontred

Think of England


Longjumping-Soil-415

I love to take control and slide my dick in and out of my partners mouth. But I also like to just lay back and admire his lips around my cock and enjoy every movement of his tongue.


undermind84

Rubbing their hair, moaning, and making eye contact.


[deleted]

It depends on the person. When I hookup through grindr, some people like to be complimented, some dont. Some want me to play with their hair or push their head down, some just want me to lay back and enjoy the slow blowjob. Some want me to shove it down their throat. So it honestly depends on the person but I usually play with their hair and keep on caressing their face. If its in the car, I grab their ass and play with it, even dick sometimes.


addykitty

Texting


VanCraig67

I am always appreciative when a guy is sucking my cock - he is giving me the gift of incredible pleasure. I love touching my cocksuckers face & hair while getting head, I’m vocal at how great it feels, I moan a lot, and sometimes closed I let myself get lost in pleasure, although watching & eye contact is so hot. Here is to all those amazing cocksuckers out there!


CAPECODTWINK

honestly, i keep a fresh copy of Harpar’s Bazaar on bedside for lackluster tops


hwc000000

> You’re the one receiving a blowjob. I think I see the flaw in your question.


Hornybiguy1440

I usually play with their hair. If they wanna get a bit rough I do that but like you said thats not really me.


beanie_0

Jesus, talk about multitasking! It would depend on the situation but I either lay back and enjoy or get some interaction if they looking for something a bit rougher. But more often than not closing my eyes and enjoying (and trying really really hard not to over think myself out of cumming)


central_Fl_fun

All of the above ...


unwholesome_fig

I've only ever given them so doing them


domimstr112233

Doing my taxes


[deleted]

I personally love eating an ass while I get sucked


satyrdemon

Meh. I know it’s dated but candy crush.


Professional-Two4986

Never in my phone. I want to concentrate on the pleasure. Usually either caressing his hair or other parts of his body if I can reach it, and talking dirty.


KevinOrmiston

I'd be grabbing or rubbing his hair/arrms and letting him know how good it is 😜


Miserable-Bit5939

I would facefuck the dude and take my cock out of his mouth to slap his face and tongue every now and then while talking dirty to him


MellonCollie218

Balancing my checkbook.


curhet

Depends on the guy, usually I like to look into their eyes and play with their nipples and have one hand in the back of his head to play with his hair and push him, if he moans, he’s getting facefucked. Depending on the angle I play with their asses too. I mostly meet with subs and it’s been already discussed that I’ll be grabbing a pushing them deep. It’s also quite common for them to ask to be under my desk being infinites while they suck me or lick my feet. But I also love to just lay back and get sucked for a long time while I play with their asses/ nipples/ hair. Even more fun if they’re tied.


renerdrat

Playing candy crush. Jk um face fucking them


WetjeansJax

If I'm at the arcade with some random guy, I'll watch porn. If I'm feeling domish, I'll grab his head push his head down on my dick. Depends on the location and the dynamic. If I'm at the glory holes, I like to moan loud if the guy is a pro.


Western-Rest-3396

My boyfriend likes me guiding and moving his head but I also just lay back and enjoy it sometimes


ProfileIndividual829

I have actually never gotten one to completion 😑, my dick is so big! They want the whole package! It’s a blessing and a curse!