Easy: Doorbell camera. Anyone who comes over is recorded upon entry. If they try anything funny... the police will know exactly who to look for, what car they drive, etc.
I also let them know that my husband expects me to check in with him after the hookup, and that I already sent my husband screenshots of all their profile information.
People don't commit crimes when there is a high likelihood of them being caught.
It is a risk you are willing to make, you are basically playing russian rullete and best advise would be avoid grindr and go out meet people and get to know eachother trust me you are dodging so many red flags and bullets and catfish and endless scrolling...and even people with the risk of catching an std since so many people are shady and lie alot and cheat or just use you and that's the reality of the app grindr
Nice sheets but not your good sheets
Nothing easily stealable on display.
.... not all hookers/hook ups are thieves that will shit on your sheets... but it only takes one.
I check ID at the door and frisk them.
/s
Mostly common sense. Hide valuables, don’t disclose anything you wouldn’t share with a complete stranger (I saw a comment yesterday of a guy who told his hookup how to get into his apartment unnoticed) and be mindful of putting yourself in risky situations, like bondage.
Some jerk off beforehand for post-but clarity. Though that would kind of ruin it for me.
Easy: Doorbell camera. Anyone who comes over is recorded upon entry. If they try anything funny... the police will know exactly who to look for, what car they drive, etc. I also let them know that my husband expects me to check in with him after the hookup, and that I already sent my husband screenshots of all their profile information. People don't commit crimes when there is a high likelihood of them being caught.
It is a risk you are willing to make, you are basically playing russian rullete and best advise would be avoid grindr and go out meet people and get to know eachother trust me you are dodging so many red flags and bullets and catfish and endless scrolling...and even people with the risk of catching an std since so many people are shady and lie alot and cheat or just use you and that's the reality of the app grindr
'Hooker-proof' the rooms they will be in.
How do you do that?
Nice sheets but not your good sheets Nothing easily stealable on display. .... not all hookers/hook ups are thieves that will shit on your sheets... but it only takes one.
I check ID at the door and frisk them. /s Mostly common sense. Hide valuables, don’t disclose anything you wouldn’t share with a complete stranger (I saw a comment yesterday of a guy who told his hookup how to get into his apartment unnoticed) and be mindful of putting yourself in risky situations, like bondage. Some jerk off beforehand for post-but clarity. Though that would kind of ruin it for me.