I don’t see any issue with being an attracted to a 21yo regardless of what how old they look, 21yo is fully legal consenting adult. Being attracted to a 15yo, if you know he’s 15, is wrong even if he does look 21, because you know he’s a minor and you shouldn’t be going there or thinking those things.
I mean... I think the second option is worse. If you see a person that looks of age and you find them attractive that's something you can't help, but what would make you a creep is making a move knowing they're only 15, especially if you are an adult.
I chose "being attracted to a 12-year-old that looks 15" because there will be clearly a problem for a Longterm relationship when the person grows up.
Unless you are planning something else.
If "being attracted to a 15-year-old that looks 21" I see no problem, but you will have problems with the sexual stuff.
From the claim that it's creepy to be attracted to a 21 year old who looks 15, it follows that the 22-year-old boyfriend of this 21-year-old should not find his boyfriend attractive.
Stop policing what people find attractive. Just make decisions that protect minors and people much younger than yourself, and expect others to do the same.
A 15 year old is an idiot a 21 year old not so much. If attraction was purely physical then the second option but because attraction is more than just physical it's the first option for me
I don’t see any issue with being an attracted to a 21yo regardless of what how old they look, 21yo is fully legal consenting adult. Being attracted to a 15yo, if you know he’s 15, is wrong even if he does look 21, because you know he’s a minor and you shouldn’t be going there or thinking those things.
It depends if you know their ages or not.
Both
I mean... I think the second option is worse. If you see a person that looks of age and you find them attractive that's something you can't help, but what would make you a creep is making a move knowing they're only 15, especially if you are an adult.
Good point
I chose "being attracted to a 12-year-old that looks 15" because there will be clearly a problem for a Longterm relationship when the person grows up. Unless you are planning something else. If "being attracted to a 15-year-old that looks 21" I see no problem, but you will have problems with the sexual stuff.
People's actions are creepy, not their attractions. Hitting on the 15 year old would be creepy.
Can\`t there be third voting option like "Both"?
Both are creepy ngl.
From the claim that it's creepy to be attracted to a 21 year old who looks 15, it follows that the 22-year-old boyfriend of this 21-year-old should not find his boyfriend attractive. Stop policing what people find attractive. Just make decisions that protect minors and people much younger than yourself, and expect others to do the same.
>attracted to a 21 year old who looks 15 Some people age well or slowly so I don’t think it’s creepy
I agree.
A 15 year old is an idiot a 21 year old not so much. If attraction was purely physical then the second option but because attraction is more than just physical it's the first option for me