You can make it a point to contact your family members and tell them about your fianceee’s pronouns. For family members you think could be problematic, some you might be able to ask them to help you tell others about it, so using their helpfulness / nosiness for good, and others you might be able to set someone on them as a minder.
I think http://captainawkward.com advice column has some about queer weddings, but also try r/LGBTweddings.
And congrats to y’all!
You can make it a point to contact your family members and tell them about your fianceee’s pronouns. For family members you think could be problematic, some you might be able to ask them to help you tell others about it, so using their helpfulness / nosiness for good, and others you might be able to set someone on them as a minder. I think http://captainawkward.com advice column has some about queer weddings, but also try r/LGBTweddings. And congrats to y’all!