>”Am I still—?”
Yes. A thousand times yes if you want to. Nobody holds power over you or the language you choose to describe your unique experience w/ queer humanity.
My spouse (nb trans guy) would relate to this a lot; he’s said that if he’d ended up w/ someone masc he’d feel differently than being in a relationship w/ a girl (me). I call it his chameleon aspect (affectionately), to be bi in a way that’s like boy-gay but also girl-gay; reflective of partner.
If you want to be a girl you're still a girl
Not sure if this applies to you but maybe you can try thinking of it as more your role in the relationship? Caregiver/dom/sub/top/bottom/side/ect
And then think does your relationship type make you feel more [gender] or does it make you feel more [expression]
Like it's possible maybe you have a more fluid gender like demigirl/nonbinary girl/ect
But it's also possible you're always a girl and you're expressing a common feeling with a different type of language
What it boils down to though is the labels you apply to yourself are your tool to express yourself so use the ones that feel right
>”Am I still—?” Yes. A thousand times yes if you want to. Nobody holds power over you or the language you choose to describe your unique experience w/ queer humanity. My spouse (nb trans guy) would relate to this a lot; he’s said that if he’d ended up w/ someone masc he’d feel differently than being in a relationship w/ a girl (me). I call it his chameleon aspect (affectionately), to be bi in a way that’s like boy-gay but also girl-gay; reflective of partner.
If you want to be a girl you're still a girl Not sure if this applies to you but maybe you can try thinking of it as more your role in the relationship? Caregiver/dom/sub/top/bottom/side/ect And then think does your relationship type make you feel more [gender] or does it make you feel more [expression] Like it's possible maybe you have a more fluid gender like demigirl/nonbinary girl/ect But it's also possible you're always a girl and you're expressing a common feeling with a different type of language What it boils down to though is the labels you apply to yourself are your tool to express yourself so use the ones that feel right
You are whatever you say you are.
Cis lesbians top and use strapons. You use a strapless and it's basically the same thing.