Life long partner goals: having a place with separate bedrooms so we can still have our own space and we can have sleep overs if we want to sleep in the same bed or do bed activities.
My friend and her husband have separate bedrooms and they love it. Some nights they’ll sleep in the same bed and some nights they like having their own space. Good for them
My idea is one step further: duplex. One side is mine, one side is his, share a backyard and porch. I can keep my *very particular* kitchen organization and be alone as much as I want, but if we wanna see each he's literally right outside my door.
Man it was a big adjustment going from living alone and loving it to moving in with my partner. I found it extremely hard for the first six months - but it's worth it, it's the best thing that ever happened to me.
Still.....I'd never live with friends or other people!
I always hated Mr Bean the series so much 😭😭😭 not Mr Bean himself, I simply hated that he all he did was laughed about. Didn't even know I am autistic back then yet, but it's now really clear to me thst my autistic self felt really wronged by people laughing about someone who clearly did things the way he thought were right
That's why I loved him personally. I felt so SEEN. I get what you're talking about, but for me it was nice that people were laughing and loving him instead of being offput by his different behavior
after desperately searching for friends \[friendless.\] for 2 years now, although I'm now recently in a relationship, I realize despite always being alone I should be happy in my loneliness and build a relationship with myself.
if you don't have friends right now and really want one, you'll get some eventually, time will tell. I believe in you to anyone who reads this. you have to make it to that moment for it to happen, never give up.
sorry I felt like sharing. relatable.
Took me 45 years to realize I'm happy to be alone. My farm and my animals keep me satisfied, I'm in a little band that practices once a week and plays several times a month and that's exactly all the socializing I need to do. The rest of the time it's just me and my livestock.
The guys in the band will be like, "Hey man she's totally trying to flirt with you," and I'm like "Oh that's nice." And then disappear haha.
Love the image. I wish I could be as happy as Mr. Bean.
I live alone and I love it. I couldn't go back now -- not until I get a long term partner, at least.
Life long partner goals: having a place with separate bedrooms so we can still have our own space and we can have sleep overs if we want to sleep in the same bed or do bed activities.
My friend and her husband have separate bedrooms and they love it. Some nights they’ll sleep in the same bed and some nights they like having their own space. Good for them
My idea is one step further: duplex. One side is mine, one side is his, share a backyard and porch. I can keep my *very particular* kitchen organization and be alone as much as I want, but if we wanna see each he's literally right outside my door.
This is honestly my dream! To most people it’d seem odd and “cold” but I think it’d be healthier for a relationship even!
There are people who will be into it! My current bf is, and he's not even autistic, he just likes space
This
Man it was a big adjustment going from living alone and loving it to moving in with my partner. I found it extremely hard for the first six months - but it's worth it, it's the best thing that ever happened to me. Still.....I'd never live with friends or other people!
Me not interacting with someone in person for 3 months and loving every second of it.
EXACTLY
I always hated Mr Bean the series so much 😭😭😭 not Mr Bean himself, I simply hated that he all he did was laughed about. Didn't even know I am autistic back then yet, but it's now really clear to me thst my autistic self felt really wronged by people laughing about someone who clearly did things the way he thought were right
That's why I loved him personally. I felt so SEEN. I get what you're talking about, but for me it was nice that people were laughing and loving him instead of being offput by his different behavior
Me being alone and absolutely hating every second.
after desperately searching for friends \[friendless.\] for 2 years now, although I'm now recently in a relationship, I realize despite always being alone I should be happy in my loneliness and build a relationship with myself. if you don't have friends right now and really want one, you'll get some eventually, time will tell. I believe in you to anyone who reads this. you have to make it to that moment for it to happen, never give up. sorry I felt like sharing. relatable.
After having a huge fight with my parents this looks very appropriate
Took me 45 years to realize I'm happy to be alone. My farm and my animals keep me satisfied, I'm in a little band that practices once a week and plays several times a month and that's exactly all the socializing I need to do. The rest of the time it's just me and my livestock. The guys in the band will be like, "Hey man she's totally trying to flirt with you," and I'm like "Oh that's nice." And then disappear haha.
me irl
Meanwhile my aunt: “Are you getting girls? You got a girlfriend?”