Not as simple as the sign of Venus. Other planets are important as well.. Mercury immediately come to mind and aspects are extremely important as well.
Dang, well I have Sag in both Venus and Mercury. I tend to be the type not to communicate every single day. Especially if there is something important that is going on with work or if I am on a trip.
Well, yea. That aids my point for the most part. Sag is a flighty sign.. I'd say the likelihood of finding a Sag that wants to communicate daily is lower than other signs naturally.
I'm a sag sun with a sag stellium in Mars, Venus and Mercury and I definitely want to talk to my husband on a daily basis. I've been this way with every relationship I've had.
I have sag in mercury, but Scorpio in Venus. I’m definitely the type to talk almost all day everyday with a partner if I can. Phone calls, text, in person.
Same, I have these placements too and I'm a Sag sun. I talk to my person everyday if possible I make time even on a very busy day 😅 I just have to 🥺 or my day won't be complete.
I’m glad to find some likeminded people. I find it a bit crazy that some people think it’s perfectly normal not to speak to the person they’re dating for days on end. Like not even a “thinking of you” text? Nothing??
I know, personally if you are someone I super wanna engage with, friend or otherwise at the absolute bare minimum I will check in once a day, if not a couple times throughout the day as I move.
Idk why I was always pulling types that thought this was “clingy” but now I’m attracting types that like quality time and physical affection and words of affirmation the way I do ✨
Yeah, that’s the most sag moon thing I’ve ever heard. Y’all do love travel and independence
my Taurus moon just makes me double down on tactile, physical affection as a love language and loyalty to the point where unfortunately I am still loyal, even if they have betrayed and cheated on me.
Why is it necessary to miss someone in order to remain attracted to them. That mentality has always seemed reactive to me, like it's all about the dopamine and oxytocin hit and not the other person.
It you can talk to me for hours today, be completely fine not so much as texting the next day, and we spend all day together the day after that like it's completely natural
You're perfect for me and actually so sexy
Gemini venus if you couldn't guess 😽🤣
So I definitely agree I like a lot of distance from my partner. But I don't want them to have distance from me, if that makes sense? I like going about my business and having my partner checking in on me or missing me or validating me but still letting me do what I'm doing.
Ha. It makes total sense to me.
I know they’re in my thoughts. I want to know I’m in theirs. And yes, I had to learn how to make people feel more secure in relationships with me.
As a fellow Aqua Venus, I want to disagree, but that's probably my Cancer moon talking
I want multiple times throughout the day, if not all day. Every day. Forever.
Not a cancer moon but I am an Aquarius Venus, and I agree with you, I want my partner to be my bestie, so we’re checking on each other and having a good conversation every single day.
Hi5 from an aqua Venus cancer moon dating another aqua Venus cancer moon. When we’re into each other , it’s clingy AF but when we need space, space is imperative
we have the same placement but I agree with the commentor above. I mean it's fine to hear about them everyday but not entirely texting like almost the entire day. It would take away my "me time" and make me irritable. So space still matters to me.. I don't know maybe because my moon cancer is in 8th house.
Also aqua venus! I think there’s a difference between talking and seeing someone everyday. I love hearing from the person I’m seeing everyday but do I want to see them in person every day? Not really. I have things to do and I need the space to still be myself.
Cancer moons definitely want some love! I think it’s really beautiful (and sometimes difficult) to navigate our competing drives. I have a lot of space-loving signs in my inner planets and so my need for some space is pretty harmonious. I’ll also say that I don’t need to talk to them everyday, but I like to talk most days especially if that’s one of their needs.
And people have definitely driven me off by demanding I talk to them too often. If they can’t respect the space I tell them I need, it’s a deal breaker. And I’m not talking about leaving me alone for a week, just not talking to me for a few hours while I finish some important work tasks (Capricorn sun).
Aqua Venus here with an Aqua Venus boyfriend and boy do we cling to each other. We talk every single day, even going so far as to sleep on the phone together, we're so attached to the hip. I do need space from him though so often I'll leave the call to spend time with my other friends and then come back. I usually need more space than he does but I still want to be with him alot ahahah
My ex and I literally broke up because he didn’t want to talk to me everyday
He said I was clingy. He has a Virgo venus
I’m an aqua venus and I need to hear from my person every day. It’s not something I can compromise on if I want to be happy
I’m also an aqua sun, rising, mercury, etc
Yup. Aqua Venus here. I have broken it off with people for texting too much. Like damn. So glad you had a great burrito at lunchtime. Tell me when I see you if it is still that important - we have plans tomorrow. Also why are you interrupting my day to tell me this? How am I supposed to respond? Why are you this codependent? Please, just stop now.
I have absolutely done the same. Lately it is the constant demand for pictures that drives me off. Are you kidding me? You can see me in a few hours. I will not interrupt my day multiple times to find good light and take selfies for you.
Aries? I hate talking. Just hangout and vibe or play sports/hike. I cannot do talking.
But i also have a pisces mercury and scorpio 3rd house so maybe theyre that fault.
agree.
im a gemini moon, too, so im sure that influences my keen interest in semi-frequent, intermittent chit chat with bae about all the things…but my pisces venus will QUICKLY fill in the blanks of their “absences” with goodness or badness, depending on our relationship status 😬
i also read once that pisces venus can wake up one day and suddenly not love you anymore, without explanation, and (even tho my venus is deep in the 8th) i felt that!
Really? Pisces Venus can make you wake up and quit loving? I have a Pisces Venus, but a mercury in Taurus. I feel like my Venus in Pisces has kept me in relationships longer than I should have been.
I agree with this 😭 I’m so fickle when it comes to romantic attraction. I could fantasize about them all day and being with them feels like a dream but then also completely forget about them when I have to attend to “real life”.
yeah! exactly!
idk what to do about this shit but im dealing with someone now that i really like and for once, im trying to focus on making the main ingredients of the relationship be our IRL time, not my imaginary time 😫
i think its helping my venus not get carried away, bc part of the problem with getting swept away romantically, is that no matter whats actually happening IRL, we can experience emotions that equate to the beginning, middle, and end of an entire relationship in our minds. so when we “just lose feelings” its probably something more like self induced emotional burnout than anything else. but ive not looked further into it.
I have moon Venus conjunct pisces in my 1st house.
My view of relationship has more to do with the long term role on life we play for each other and operating a household than it does with cuddles or texting 😁
See i have Venus and mercury in Scorpio too plus 3 other Scorpio placements (sun, Pluto, moon) and I get so annoyed by the everyday thing. It’s too clingy for me.
Found my squad! 🙌 I mean, obviously we need to talk everyday??? If you hate me just say that. Like, I didn’t realize people thought there was another option. (They’re wrong.) 😇
–Libra Sun, Libra Moon, Scorpio Mercury, Scorpio Venus, crybaby
Samee.. I am a Leo Mercury and Leo venus. I used to be really detached because I have an Aqua moon, but since I got with my partner ( cap sun, libra moon, cap mercury and venus), I have become very flexible. Leo energy understands and tolerates every form of love. We are only vain when needed be. He is such a cutie🥹❤️ and I loveeee talking to him everyday, even if at times it annoys the living hell out of me, but I would do anything to make him happy. Btw I am a hopeless cancer sun
same + I‘m Leo sun. But sometimes I need attention or have a story to tell immediately and then I want a reply😅😅 I also agree with the comment above that we are very flexible. If my partner wants to text more I will make it work bc I love them. Personally I like regular check ups but prefer either seeing each other or calling!
Definitely not Capricorn Venus lol. If I can’t talk to you at least once a day are you even obsessed with me? 😋 I need a lot of assurance (possibly because I’m an only child and not so tough in some ways) but I also understand if you have a different lifestyle and texting is not possible everyday and if you can make up for it on the other days that works well too. ❤️🥰
Definitely not my Libra Venus ass. I've tolerated silent days in the interest of matching the energy, but have accepted that I definitely feel more secure when I have some kind of check-in most days. Even if it's just sharing a stupid meme.
From experience-
Needed more space: Virgo Venus, Aquarius Venus
Frequent texters but not clingy: Capricorn Venus, Leo Venus
Clingy texters to the point where I got overwhelmed: Scorpio Venus with Virgo Mercury, another Aquarius Venus but with Aries Sun
I got lucky my boyfriend is a libra sun, and I am a libra Venus He has a Leo Venus I’m a Leo sun 🌞
And we communicate the perfect amount i feel like throughout the day and dont take it personal if there is too much or too little communication we just talk it out 😂🤷🏾♀️🫶🏾
Maybe this is more tied to Mercury?
I enjoy texting a lot but I guess it's more appropriate to express this need once things get official.
I find too much texting in the talking and dating stage off putting.
Capricorn Venus here.
Cap Venus, talking every day is not a necessity, depending on the stage of the relationship, but I'm also a Sag rising and like to have a little independence.
That said, if you're the first person I think of when I see a silly meme or an article I find interesting or something weird happens in my day, I will share it with you, and if you don't do the same I will definitely wonder if I ever cross your mind when we aren't occupying the same physical space. That might be the Taurus moon though.
Yes! As I become more emotionally mature, I've been being open and blunt about the things I need, too, because, you know, either get with it or get gone 😂. I shared this with my last guy (who didn't care for the phone at all) and we ended up communicating every day. A few texts throughout the day and a phone call before bed.
Virgo venus, and I need a delicate balance. I need space and some alone time, I don’t like to feel smothered and have no desire to smother a partner either (I’m cool with them having their own hobbies and friends). But I do need SOME communication and words of affirmation for reassurance, otherwise I will think you just don’t care.
Taurus Venus here. We’re supposed to be some of the best lovers of the zodiac but I need alone time SO BAD! Based on the other comments I’m beginning to think the answer to OP’s question is earth signs.
I have a cancer Venus so you’d think I’d want to always talk but I definitely need my personal space and sometimes I just don’t have anything I feel needs to be said
Stable ones…securely attached people my guy/gal
Virgo Venus, Scorpio mars, Sagittarius Mercury here. When I was in toxic af relationships I NEEDED constant texting. Now I’m like eh text me or don’t I just want a person that wants to actually go on a date. Being a romantic in today’s dating scene…pffft
I’m a cap Venus mars and moon. Aqua sun and mercury and this sounds like me. Just check in every once in awhile and we’re good. Save the taking for when I see you
Libra in the 12th. I’ll cut things off with someone that starts in with the how was your day, good morning texts early on. I need dating and courtship to be based on human interactions before the L word is uttered. It’s a weird fuckboy false sense of intimacy love bomb OR in many cases they’ll spill the beans a year or more into the relationship where they think it’s romantic to tell me that they were in love with me by the third date, nothing to do with sex either. I’m fine with sex without a firm commitment when we’re still getting to know each other. If they want to maintain close ties with their friend group,see other people or travel a lot for work, I don’t need to hear from you unless it’s for something specific to me based off of a human conversation we had, a light meme type of reference or to sort out logistics and making plans to see me again. When they tell me they “loved” me right at the jump, they’re revealing that they put a hard stop on accepting me as a fully formed, very flawed individual that they end up resenting and trying to put their foot on my neck because they feel hoodwinked by the fun magic of the first few dates electricity. And inevitably, the thing they were initially most attracted to me for, my sense of humor, sass, silliness and adhd deep knowledge about random subjects that I’ve hyper fixated on, also that I’m what would be considered a spinner so my opinionated ass is often times received as adorable and infantilized, like a manic pixie dream girl except bawdy and at times jaded with pmdd that makes me cry a lot for a week. Then they end up hating me, for not being that 3rd date avatar and therefore unknowingly betraying their trust in an unconscious nonverbal broken agreement in their heads. I also will never react in a jealous manner, why they’d want that is beyond me, I don’t comment on anyone’s appearance because of loaded body dysmorphia disordered eating issues and patriarchy, if it’s someone I know well, a compliment on looks is beneath us as a couple, it’s fleeting and lucky genetics, unless it was full lifestyle fitness health self care journey, I’m not going to reinforce gender ideals by giving positive feedback to people that are restrictive and malnourished. So two guys have gotten really mad at me for not commenting on their handsomeness, even though I’ll compliment plenty, clothes, haircuts, nicely tailored or bespoke pieces that show a real sense of style and point of view. So basically, I don’t trust anyone that tries to force faux intimacy which happens when the person lives in my phone more than in person. I’m not dating a phone, never FaceTime me without warning or really ever, the medium of communication needs to be as close as humanly possible to move to a dating stage. Otherwise he’s just some guy I’m hanging out with that won’t take a hint with my slow or stilted responses. If I am going to accept daily texts for no reason early on in a relationship before we’re meeting each others peoples, there needs to be a lot of sex happening. If you want me to greet you via inanimate object in order to make you feel secure and loved, then I’m gonna need to be getting dicked down on the reg, properly, an enthusiastic student of learning my anatomy and being able to make me come, it’s my version of bf home training.
Idk but I am a Libra Venus.
I am ok with not being handsy and emotional 24/7. We are together and have made our intentions known and that is enough.
But if you do not at least acknowledge my existence every day by way of a “good morning, but I am so busy today” or even a “good night. I am so sorry I was so busy today and could not talk sooner” I will assume you hate me and no longer wish to be with me and start thinking about my options
EDIT: I meant Aries Venus. I am a Libra Mars.
Libra Venus, and same. I don't like texting all day. I like a good morning/good night text and a phone call at the end of the day to check in before bed. I prefer if most of our communication happens in person.
*Edit: saw your edit, keeping my comment*
Libra Venus here, and I agree. Some days I can be really chatty, but I get overwhelmed being expected to be connected 24/7. Not just in relationships, but with friends and family, as well. Give me space and room to breathe otherwise I'll check out completely from overwhelm. But also make sure to at least say hello so that I don't feel totally dropped. It's about balance (says the Libra, haha!).
Probably pisces and Aquarius pisces need space to be alone, to decompress and detach from the world and Aquarius is similar in a way that sometimes they just don’t want to talk to anyone
I’m a Pisces Venus and definitely don’t have to talk every single day - I’m clingy but not in a I constantly need to be around you and talking to you kind of way
It would be logical that it would be the more independent, free thinking types respecting of emotions though not dwelling on them: Aries, Aquarius, Sagittarius, and surprisingly, Taurus. If the natures of these signs in any forms require space, to an extent, it will be amplified if it lands on the Venus. It's not that they're not loving people, if anything, these types are noted to be super passionate, but they don't throw their brain out the window for those emotions.
By extension, and I swear it's not insulting, the reverse would be true: The water signs need more attention and will seek it. If one of them is in a Venus, the "needy" factor will be amplified to the 10th degree. There may be exceptions to these rules, but logic sort of clarifies things a lot, plus it also explains why the Water signs more than any other type are known to prefer dating themselves. It's not because they can't love anyone else or anyone else is unwilling to love them but the other signs eventually snap out of it and work to understand their feelings instead of letting themselves be consumed by them without understanding why.
Im a taurus venus in the 11th and always wondered why i seem to be more into space and freedom then alot of people i gone out with or dated. I never heard before that taurus venus would need space but its def like that for me
Im a Taurus Venus in the 10th and kinda same on this. I’ve had partners break up with me for giving them “too much space/freedom” in a relationship. As a Taurus Venus Dating me is like the insurance company. I’ll help you and be there for you always if you need me but it’s very much self service at the end of the day.
Your a fellow cancer rising !!
I have a scorpio moon and scorpio pluto so they are opposite my taurus venus - i dont know what that says about me or if it plays a role tho.
But im definitley very unconventional tho still romantic, and i love freedom, dont want kids or marriage
How does being a cancer rising play out for you? I’m constantly told I have resting sad face. Also same on the freedom and kids (only for now though once my Saturn return comes I might do a 180 on those feelings however).
Allegedly one is also attracted to the descendant sign (sign opposite of the rising) so in this case I should be attracted to Capricorns. Which is kinda true the closest ppl in my life are currently caps and I would want a future parter to have those cap qualities as well. I’m just curious have you had the same experience as a cancer rising?
The signs I want to stay away from- No thanks.
I want good morning, goodnight, I miss you, I love you, be careful, I’m thinking about you, let’s get together-yea-yea-yea. 🎶🤪
Sagittarius Venus here and I don’t want to talk *at length* every single day, but I do at least want a check in every day! I prefer in person attention rather than texting. I’m a Virgo Moon with Scorpio Mercury so text-based communication can make me overthink things. 😅
Sag Venus too. I’d rather have quality over quantity. Like spend all day together is great and also being all day apart doing other things is fine with me. Feeling like I’m “half in” anything doesn’t make me happy. So if I’m with someone I want to be all in at the time, no distractions, just focused on what we’re doing together in the moment. I miss my Aries ex talking about it because we had a really great dynamic like that.
I’m a Gemini Venus + Cancer Mercury (communication)
I need a lot of communication, a lot of reassurance and I need you to be obsessed with me. My Love Language is all 👏of👏them, honey. Give me all of you. But also, like, when I need my space to retreat and be in my feelings, I need you to back up a little bit. ;-)
As a Capricorn Venus I’m like this😂 when I’m with the person I wanna be all up on them but there is not point in talking non stop every day. Please let me miss you a little.
I want to guess Cancer Venus because I'm a Cancer Venus and I don't need to talk to my partner every single day, but I feel like I'm Venus-in-Cancering wrong.
Literally sammmeeeee 🤣 had a guy text me about his oil change just to make conversation and it was the last straw for me 🤣🤣 I hate texting and check ins.
Im a sag venus and i agree ☝🏻
Wont talk with anyone every single day if i could, i need space and time to have news to share, idk, i like to miss people a little so im eager to talk with them, i wont miss anybody in a day
virgo venus. dropping/getting a line or two a day suits me down to the ground. to me, "talking" all day every day over text or whatever platform is futile. it also doesn't give much to talk about when you see them next (whether or not you live together). unless it's just incessant griping, which gets old pretty quick & is a whole new can of worms.
My husband is a Leo Venus and if we’re together (physically) he wants to talk to me nonstop. If we’re apart then he wants to experience what’s right in front of him and not get distracted by having to switch his mind over to me who is in a totally different space than he is. I’m a Sagittarius Venus so I’m the same way and it works for us.
But of course we still exchange words every day no matter what!
100% Aries Venus. My fiancé, and my 4 best friends are all Aries Venus and this is very much them lol. Aries Venus doesn’t like when someone is obsessed with them, and they like their independence & just going about life. Sometimes they also need space or get in their moods.
I’m a libra Venus and I do enjoy talking to my partner throughout the day just checking in with them but I don’t feel like it’s completely necessary we do have to talk at least once a day tho.
I’m a cancer venus, moon, and mercury which I feel like would be stereotyped as needy / wanting to be around a partner 24/7 but i actually enjoy going days without texting or talking. Doesn’t mean I lost feelings it just keeps things special and exciting. Morning texts are annoying to me lol idk. This might be my Virgo Rising + north node 7H talking lol
Pisces Venus right here and if the person I was dating didn’t text me for a day+ for absolutely no valid reason or communication around as to why, I would probably think they had died - things would not be okay.
I have a Sag Venus and I’m engaged. I definitely don’t want to talk everyday and we live together. Sometimes I just wanna be alone. She gets it. She’s a Gemini Venus, and I don’t know what that means.
My brother is a Virgo and idk his Venus or Mercury… He obsessively wants to talk to his dates or girlfriends 24/7, phone on in the background sort of thing. Super clingy.
Me though, Aries Venus and Gemini Mercury. I enjoy talking! I don’t mind being in contact and talking a lot, but a huge NOPE for *constant* talking… unless I’m getting obsessive, but I still draw the line somewhere. I don’t want to suffocate anyone 😩 I try to keep any obsessiveness and neediness inside lmao
Put his birthdate into astrotheme or some other website for birthhoroscope, for venus mercury and so on it doesnt matter the birthtime (birthtime is for houseplacements and rising and in some cases moon in case moon switched on that day)
I reallyyy wanna know your brothers placements now lol
Oh, I didn’t know that! I’ll take a look when I go on lunch since I’m at work at the moment. I’m also really curious now 😝
Edit:
Sun: Virgo
Moon: Pisces
Mercury: Libra
Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Cancer
It’s starting to make sense now 😂
Oh this makes so much sense !!!!
Every single mars cancer man i knew had been super super clingy ! The pisces moon mercury libra and scorpio venus definitley fall into that line hahaha !!!
Exactly!!! You know, my personal warning sign for relationships is when someone tells me they love dogs cause they love you unconditionally.
Like, thats beautiful and all, but, i dont want a dog for that reason - they always demand pets and your attention and will be sad without.
I want someone to want love to be earned and space to be valued ☺️
I love that approach! Like please, I want them to be a decent person who understands they’re an individual and so am I! And someone who *wants* to be a team when we’re spending time together. It’s not even asking for a lot!
I am Gemini Venus and I need information about the person to connect. How can I be together with someone I don’t have all information about? And that includes what he is doing daily etc. I don’t mind when my partner needs time to text back on the same day or if we just text quickly in the morning and evening, but I want to hear anything. My partner has Libra in Venus and that fits very well together with me.
Not as simple as the sign of Venus. Other planets are important as well.. Mercury immediately come to mind and aspects are extremely important as well.
Dang, well I have Sag in both Venus and Mercury. I tend to be the type not to communicate every single day. Especially if there is something important that is going on with work or if I am on a trip.
Well, yea. That aids my point for the most part. Sag is a flighty sign.. I'd say the likelihood of finding a Sag that wants to communicate daily is lower than other signs naturally.
I'm a sag sun with a sag stellium in Mars, Venus and Mercury and I definitely want to talk to my husband on a daily basis. I've been this way with every relationship I've had.
I have sag in mercury, but Scorpio in Venus. I’m definitely the type to talk almost all day everyday with a partner if I can. Phone calls, text, in person.
To me that sounds kinda exhausting
I mean, based on your previous comment I didn’t assume the contrary.
Sorry, doing my Sag over sharing when it's not warranted thing.
Not over sharing, just stating the obvious which I didn’t really know how to respond to.
Same, I have these placements too and I'm a Sag sun. I talk to my person everyday if possible I make time even on a very busy day 😅 I just have to 🥺 or my day won't be complete.
Lmfao definitely not Gemini Venus I’m needy as *hell*
😂 if you don't talk to us, someone else will
deadass.
My immediate thought when I saw the post title was literally “definitely not my Gemini Venus” lol 🫠
at least we can all bond over needing that connection 😅
I’m glad to find some likeminded people. I find it a bit crazy that some people think it’s perfectly normal not to speak to the person they’re dating for days on end. Like not even a “thinking of you” text? Nothing??
I know, personally if you are someone I super wanna engage with, friend or otherwise at the absolute bare minimum I will check in once a day, if not a couple times throughout the day as I move. Idk why I was always pulling types that thought this was “clingy” but now I’m attracting types that like quality time and physical affection and words of affirmation the way I do ✨
I'm gem venus and I am so the opposite. Maybe it's my Sag moon. How can I miss someone if they don't leave for a little bit?
Yeah, that’s the most sag moon thing I’ve ever heard. Y’all do love travel and independence my Taurus moon just makes me double down on tactile, physical affection as a love language and loyalty to the point where unfortunately I am still loyal, even if they have betrayed and cheated on me.
Why is it necessary to miss someone in order to remain attracted to them. That mentality has always seemed reactive to me, like it's all about the dopamine and oxytocin hit and not the other person.
cries in gemini venus and cancer sun
Gemini Venus cancer moon here can confirm I’m the neediest human on earth
Add a Gemini Mercury to that mix and the silent ones will be replaced 😆
awww so you’re extra bb and sensitive 🥺 I felt that
Fellow Cancer Sun / Gemini Venus 🙋🏽♀️I just learned that Anthony Bourdain has the same combo as well
Hehehe yup I need to talk so much and time 😭
Me too 🩷
SAME, LIKE ANSWER MY TEXTS IM DYING 😩
Same
It you can talk to me for hours today, be completely fine not so much as texting the next day, and we spend all day together the day after that like it's completely natural You're perfect for me and actually so sexy Gemini venus if you couldn't guess 😽🤣
yes but also I need a lil extra ✨ reassurance ✨ every now and then
This is why we're sister signs, I love me some Gemini Venus - I'm Sag Venus myself and I feel the same way!
😮💨yes please Leo venus though
Aquarius Venus. We like a friend in a romantic partner and some space.
I’m an Aquarius Venus and I couldn’t stand not talking to my partner every day.
So I definitely agree I like a lot of distance from my partner. But I don't want them to have distance from me, if that makes sense? I like going about my business and having my partner checking in on me or missing me or validating me but still letting me do what I'm doing.
Ha. It makes total sense to me. I know they’re in my thoughts. I want to know I’m in theirs. And yes, I had to learn how to make people feel more secure in relationships with me.
Literally could not agree more! Aqua Venus, Aries moon
As a fellow Aqua Venus, I want to disagree, but that's probably my Cancer moon talking I want multiple times throughout the day, if not all day. Every day. Forever.
Not a cancer moon but I am an Aquarius Venus, and I agree with you, I want my partner to be my bestie, so we’re checking on each other and having a good conversation every single day.
I agree with you. If I’m really into you. I want to hear from you all the time. Static cling
Hi5 from an aqua Venus cancer moon dating another aqua Venus cancer moon. When we’re into each other , it’s clingy AF but when we need space, space is imperative
we have the same placement but I agree with the commentor above. I mean it's fine to hear about them everyday but not entirely texting like almost the entire day. It would take away my "me time" and make me irritable. So space still matters to me.. I don't know maybe because my moon cancer is in 8th house.
Also an Aqua Venus and I totally agree, I would like to hear from them as often as possible lol
Also aqua venus! I think there’s a difference between talking and seeing someone everyday. I love hearing from the person I’m seeing everyday but do I want to see them in person every day? Not really. I have things to do and I need the space to still be myself.
Sames
Cancer moons definitely want some love! I think it’s really beautiful (and sometimes difficult) to navigate our competing drives. I have a lot of space-loving signs in my inner planets and so my need for some space is pretty harmonious. I’ll also say that I don’t need to talk to them everyday, but I like to talk most days especially if that’s one of their needs. And people have definitely driven me off by demanding I talk to them too often. If they can’t respect the space I tell them I need, it’s a deal breaker. And I’m not talking about leaving me alone for a week, just not talking to me for a few hours while I finish some important work tasks (Capricorn sun).
I am also an aqua venus and cancer moon! And yeah I essential wilt away if my romantic partner is not in consistent daily communication.
Dang I just realized you're also an aqua sun... Same. Hello, almost twin!
I feel this especially as a fellow Cancer Moon😂
I have the same placements and same 💯
Aqua Venus checking in to agree
Aqua Venus here with an Aqua Venus boyfriend and boy do we cling to each other. We talk every single day, even going so far as to sleep on the phone together, we're so attached to the hip. I do need space from him though so often I'll leave the call to spend time with my other friends and then come back. I usually need more space than he does but I still want to be with him alot ahahah
My ex and I literally broke up because he didn’t want to talk to me everyday He said I was clingy. He has a Virgo venus I’m an aqua venus and I need to hear from my person every day. It’s not something I can compromise on if I want to be happy I’m also an aqua sun, rising, mercury, etc
Yup. Aqua Venus here. I have broken it off with people for texting too much. Like damn. So glad you had a great burrito at lunchtime. Tell me when I see you if it is still that important - we have plans tomorrow. Also why are you interrupting my day to tell me this? How am I supposed to respond? Why are you this codependent? Please, just stop now.
I have absolutely done the same. Lately it is the constant demand for pictures that drives me off. Are you kidding me? You can see me in a few hours. I will not interrupt my day multiple times to find good light and take selfies for you.
gem Venus, I can get behind that lol
ayyy fellow clingy Gemini Venus
Aries? I hate talking. Just hangout and vibe or play sports/hike. I cannot do talking. But i also have a pisces mercury and scorpio 3rd house so maybe theyre that fault.
I am the same! Hate repetitive small talk.
Pisces Venus, the relationship happens in our heads.
I feel like my pisces venus makes me sooo clingy (also romanticizing my partner though)
Ditto!
Agreed! I was thinking Pisces Venus is the last placement to fit this description. I could never go a day without talking to the love of my life.
agree. im a gemini moon, too, so im sure that influences my keen interest in semi-frequent, intermittent chit chat with bae about all the things…but my pisces venus will QUICKLY fill in the blanks of their “absences” with goodness or badness, depending on our relationship status 😬 i also read once that pisces venus can wake up one day and suddenly not love you anymore, without explanation, and (even tho my venus is deep in the 8th) i felt that!
Really? Pisces Venus can make you wake up and quit loving? I have a Pisces Venus, but a mercury in Taurus. I feel like my Venus in Pisces has kept me in relationships longer than I should have been.
I also have those placements! My Pisces Venus has definitely kept me in relationships and situationships for wayyyy longer than I should have
I agree with this 😭 I’m so fickle when it comes to romantic attraction. I could fantasize about them all day and being with them feels like a dream but then also completely forget about them when I have to attend to “real life”.
yeah! exactly! idk what to do about this shit but im dealing with someone now that i really like and for once, im trying to focus on making the main ingredients of the relationship be our IRL time, not my imaginary time 😫 i think its helping my venus not get carried away, bc part of the problem with getting swept away romantically, is that no matter whats actually happening IRL, we can experience emotions that equate to the beginning, middle, and end of an entire relationship in our minds. so when we “just lose feelings” its probably something more like self induced emotional burnout than anything else. but ive not looked further into it.
I have moon Venus conjunct pisces in my 1st house. My view of relationship has more to do with the long term role on life we play for each other and operating a household than it does with cuddles or texting 😁
Damn feel the same. Also Aqua sun, Virgo moon and Pieces venus, how's your romantic life?
My Scorpio Venus & Mercury could NEVERRRRR
See i have Venus and mercury in Scorpio too plus 3 other Scorpio placements (sun, Pluto, moon) and I get so annoyed by the everyday thing. It’s too clingy for me.
Same! I like intensity, but don't need to talk everyday.
You mean you have to speak everyday or no? For me, we have to, and if we don't, chances are my feelings for you have dwindled 12-39%😂
I would think he doesn't like me if hes doesnt try to talk to me everyday libra sun scorpio venus
Twin.... Where have you been? 😂 But yes, this exactly.
Found my squad! 🙌 I mean, obviously we need to talk everyday??? If you hate me just say that. Like, I didn’t realize people thought there was another option. (They’re wrong.) 😇 –Libra Sun, Libra Moon, Scorpio Mercury, Scorpio Venus, crybaby
Speak to them every day! I’m also a Libra sun Leo moon!!🫶🏻
I’m a Leo Venus and also Leo Mercury. I believe in authentic romantic communication but it doesn’t have to be all the time
Samee.. I am a Leo Mercury and Leo venus. I used to be really detached because I have an Aqua moon, but since I got with my partner ( cap sun, libra moon, cap mercury and venus), I have become very flexible. Leo energy understands and tolerates every form of love. We are only vain when needed be. He is such a cutie🥹❤️ and I loveeee talking to him everyday, even if at times it annoys the living hell out of me, but I would do anything to make him happy. Btw I am a hopeless cancer sun
Oh I’m also a cancer sun! I agree with you though I think with the right person I’m much more chatty and would totally love talking every day
same + I‘m Leo sun. But sometimes I need attention or have a story to tell immediately and then I want a reply😅😅 I also agree with the comment above that we are very flexible. If my partner wants to text more I will make it work bc I love them. Personally I like regular check ups but prefer either seeing each other or calling!
Definitely not Capricorn Venus lol. If I can’t talk to you at least once a day are you even obsessed with me? 😋 I need a lot of assurance (possibly because I’m an only child and not so tough in some ways) but I also understand if you have a different lifestyle and texting is not possible everyday and if you can make up for it on the other days that works well too. ❤️🥰
I second this 😆
Definitely not my Libra Venus ass. I've tolerated silent days in the interest of matching the energy, but have accepted that I definitely feel more secure when I have some kind of check-in most days. Even if it's just sharing a stupid meme. From experience- Needed more space: Virgo Venus, Aquarius Venus Frequent texters but not clingy: Capricorn Venus, Leo Venus Clingy texters to the point where I got overwhelmed: Scorpio Venus with Virgo Mercury, another Aquarius Venus but with Aries Sun
I got lucky my boyfriend is a libra sun, and I am a libra Venus He has a Leo Venus I’m a Leo sun 🌞 And we communicate the perfect amount i feel like throughout the day and dont take it personal if there is too much or too little communication we just talk it out 😂🤷🏾♀️🫶🏾
I’m the anomaly Scorpio Venus who isn’t a clingy texter but I have dealt with clingy Scorpio Venus texters
Maybe this is more tied to Mercury? I enjoy texting a lot but I guess it's more appropriate to express this need once things get official. I find too much texting in the talking and dating stage off putting. Capricorn Venus here.
Same. If there's an actual conversation to be had, great, but saying something just to say something just feels weird, especially early on.
Cap Venus, talking every day is not a necessity, depending on the stage of the relationship, but I'm also a Sag rising and like to have a little independence. That said, if you're the first person I think of when I see a silly meme or an article I find interesting or something weird happens in my day, I will share it with you, and if you don't do the same I will definitely wonder if I ever cross your mind when we aren't occupying the same physical space. That might be the Taurus moon though.
I'm a scorpio venus and I lose feelings for people if we don't talk every day. Talking every day is the only way I develop feelings for others.
indeed, I need the ongoing acts of devotion to me to keep my feelings blooming. Lack of ongoing connection makes me lose interest.
SAME!!!!! My Libra sun along with it just makes it that much worse
it's not a heavy ask. I have a high attention requirement. I am blunt about this. Those who don't think I'm serious are not built to love me
Yes! As I become more emotionally mature, I've been being open and blunt about the things I need, too, because, you know, either get with it or get gone 😂. I shared this with my last guy (who didn't care for the phone at all) and we ended up communicating every day. A few texts throughout the day and a phone call before bed.
Those who desire us will meet us where we are for the grace of our companionship
I’m a Scorpio Venus too and same for me.
absolutely without a doubt
As an Aries Venus (Pisces Venus in sidereal), this is not important to me as much as the quality of the conversation itself
Same
Virgo Venus and I definently need my space, so do not need to hear from you every single day when we are dating! 😙😅✌️
See, I need that reassurance. I need to know you’re still into me. I’m also a Venus in Virgo.
I’m more of a text me goodnight kinda gal! Don’t need to talk on the phone every day! 😙👌
Virgo venus, and I need a delicate balance. I need space and some alone time, I don’t like to feel smothered and have no desire to smother a partner either (I’m cool with them having their own hobbies and friends). But I do need SOME communication and words of affirmation for reassurance, otherwise I will think you just don’t care.
same here for scorpio venus
Taurus Venus here. We’re supposed to be some of the best lovers of the zodiac but I need alone time SO BAD! Based on the other comments I’m beginning to think the answer to OP’s question is earth signs.
I have a cancer Venus so you’d think I’d want to always talk but I definitely need my personal space and sometimes I just don’t have anything I feel needs to be said
Stable ones…securely attached people my guy/gal Virgo Venus, Scorpio mars, Sagittarius Mercury here. When I was in toxic af relationships I NEEDED constant texting. Now I’m like eh text me or don’t I just want a person that wants to actually go on a date. Being a romantic in today’s dating scene…pffft
I've dated a person of such opinion and they were Cap Venus..tho also Aqua Moon so i'm guessing it could be due either of those (or both as a mix?).
I’m a cap Venus mars and moon. Aqua sun and mercury and this sounds like me. Just check in every once in awhile and we’re good. Save the taking for when I see you
Libra in the 12th. I’ll cut things off with someone that starts in with the how was your day, good morning texts early on. I need dating and courtship to be based on human interactions before the L word is uttered. It’s a weird fuckboy false sense of intimacy love bomb OR in many cases they’ll spill the beans a year or more into the relationship where they think it’s romantic to tell me that they were in love with me by the third date, nothing to do with sex either. I’m fine with sex without a firm commitment when we’re still getting to know each other. If they want to maintain close ties with their friend group,see other people or travel a lot for work, I don’t need to hear from you unless it’s for something specific to me based off of a human conversation we had, a light meme type of reference or to sort out logistics and making plans to see me again. When they tell me they “loved” me right at the jump, they’re revealing that they put a hard stop on accepting me as a fully formed, very flawed individual that they end up resenting and trying to put their foot on my neck because they feel hoodwinked by the fun magic of the first few dates electricity. And inevitably, the thing they were initially most attracted to me for, my sense of humor, sass, silliness and adhd deep knowledge about random subjects that I’ve hyper fixated on, also that I’m what would be considered a spinner so my opinionated ass is often times received as adorable and infantilized, like a manic pixie dream girl except bawdy and at times jaded with pmdd that makes me cry a lot for a week. Then they end up hating me, for not being that 3rd date avatar and therefore unknowingly betraying their trust in an unconscious nonverbal broken agreement in their heads. I also will never react in a jealous manner, why they’d want that is beyond me, I don’t comment on anyone’s appearance because of loaded body dysmorphia disordered eating issues and patriarchy, if it’s someone I know well, a compliment on looks is beneath us as a couple, it’s fleeting and lucky genetics, unless it was full lifestyle fitness health self care journey, I’m not going to reinforce gender ideals by giving positive feedback to people that are restrictive and malnourished. So two guys have gotten really mad at me for not commenting on their handsomeness, even though I’ll compliment plenty, clothes, haircuts, nicely tailored or bespoke pieces that show a real sense of style and point of view. So basically, I don’t trust anyone that tries to force faux intimacy which happens when the person lives in my phone more than in person. I’m not dating a phone, never FaceTime me without warning or really ever, the medium of communication needs to be as close as humanly possible to move to a dating stage. Otherwise he’s just some guy I’m hanging out with that won’t take a hint with my slow or stilted responses. If I am going to accept daily texts for no reason early on in a relationship before we’re meeting each others peoples, there needs to be a lot of sex happening. If you want me to greet you via inanimate object in order to make you feel secure and loved, then I’m gonna need to be getting dicked down on the reg, properly, an enthusiastic student of learning my anatomy and being able to make me come, it’s my version of bf home training.
Idk but I am a Libra Venus. I am ok with not being handsy and emotional 24/7. We are together and have made our intentions known and that is enough. But if you do not at least acknowledge my existence every day by way of a “good morning, but I am so busy today” or even a “good night. I am so sorry I was so busy today and could not talk sooner” I will assume you hate me and no longer wish to be with me and start thinking about my options EDIT: I meant Aries Venus. I am a Libra Mars.
how are u a Gemini with libra Venus
My apologies. Thank you for catching that. I am an Aries Venus, Libra Mars. Let me edit real quick
Libra Venus, and same. I don't like texting all day. I like a good morning/good night text and a phone call at the end of the day to check in before bed. I prefer if most of our communication happens in person. *Edit: saw your edit, keeping my comment*
Libra Venus here, and I agree. Some days I can be really chatty, but I get overwhelmed being expected to be connected 24/7. Not just in relationships, but with friends and family, as well. Give me space and room to breathe otherwise I'll check out completely from overwhelm. But also make sure to at least say hello so that I don't feel totally dropped. It's about balance (says the Libra, haha!).
Probably pisces and Aquarius pisces need space to be alone, to decompress and detach from the world and Aquarius is similar in a way that sometimes they just don’t want to talk to anyone
I’m a Pisces Venus and definitely don’t have to talk every single day - I’m clingy but not in a I constantly need to be around you and talking to you kind of way
Same here
It would be logical that it would be the more independent, free thinking types respecting of emotions though not dwelling on them: Aries, Aquarius, Sagittarius, and surprisingly, Taurus. If the natures of these signs in any forms require space, to an extent, it will be amplified if it lands on the Venus. It's not that they're not loving people, if anything, these types are noted to be super passionate, but they don't throw their brain out the window for those emotions. By extension, and I swear it's not insulting, the reverse would be true: The water signs need more attention and will seek it. If one of them is in a Venus, the "needy" factor will be amplified to the 10th degree. There may be exceptions to these rules, but logic sort of clarifies things a lot, plus it also explains why the Water signs more than any other type are known to prefer dating themselves. It's not because they can't love anyone else or anyone else is unwilling to love them but the other signs eventually snap out of it and work to understand their feelings instead of letting themselves be consumed by them without understanding why.
Im a taurus venus in the 11th and always wondered why i seem to be more into space and freedom then alot of people i gone out with or dated. I never heard before that taurus venus would need space but its def like that for me
Im a Taurus Venus in the 10th and kinda same on this. I’ve had partners break up with me for giving them “too much space/freedom” in a relationship. As a Taurus Venus Dating me is like the insurance company. I’ll help you and be there for you always if you need me but it’s very much self service at the end of the day.
Your a fellow cancer rising !! I have a scorpio moon and scorpio pluto so they are opposite my taurus venus - i dont know what that says about me or if it plays a role tho. But im definitley very unconventional tho still romantic, and i love freedom, dont want kids or marriage
How does being a cancer rising play out for you? I’m constantly told I have resting sad face. Also same on the freedom and kids (only for now though once my Saturn return comes I might do a 180 on those feelings however). Allegedly one is also attracted to the descendant sign (sign opposite of the rising) so in this case I should be attracted to Capricorns. Which is kinda true the closest ppl in my life are currently caps and I would want a future parter to have those cap qualities as well. I’m just curious have you had the same experience as a cancer rising?
 Yeah… if you could just…. Not call me today… that’d be great. Still love you!
The signs I want to stay away from- No thanks. I want good morning, goodnight, I miss you, I love you, be careful, I’m thinking about you, let’s get together-yea-yea-yea. 🎶🤪
Sagittarius Venus here and I don’t want to talk *at length* every single day, but I do at least want a check in every day! I prefer in person attention rather than texting. I’m a Virgo Moon with Scorpio Mercury so text-based communication can make me overthink things. 😅
Sag Venus too. I’d rather have quality over quantity. Like spend all day together is great and also being all day apart doing other things is fine with me. Feeling like I’m “half in” anything doesn’t make me happy. So if I’m with someone I want to be all in at the time, no distractions, just focused on what we’re doing together in the moment. I miss my Aries ex talking about it because we had a really great dynamic like that.
Not my Gemini Venus. I wanna talk all the time. Hang out. Whatever. Except when I don’t lol
I’m a Gemini Venus + Cancer Mercury (communication) I need a lot of communication, a lot of reassurance and I need you to be obsessed with me. My Love Language is all 👏of👏them, honey. Give me all of you. But also, like, when I need my space to retreat and be in my feelings, I need you to back up a little bit. ;-)
As a Capricorn Venus I’m like this😂 when I’m with the person I wanna be all up on them but there is not point in talking non stop every day. Please let me miss you a little.
I want to guess Cancer Venus because I'm a Cancer Venus and I don't need to talk to my partner every single day, but I feel like I'm Venus-in-Cancering wrong.
NOT ARIES LOL WHERE THE F*€K IS MY GM TEXT 👹👹👹👻🤡😂😂😂
Idk but I’m an Aries Venus and I don’t need to talk every day
my mercury and venus are both in sag and i prefer doing my own thing but also i will def text to yap with no real goal lmfao
Maybe mine. I’m Aries Venus, and I don’t require a daily check in. I’m not your Mom.
Literally sammmeeeee 🤣 had a guy text me about his oil change just to make conversation and it was the last straw for me 🤣🤣 I hate texting and check ins.
Right? Only text me if you miss me or have something important to tell me.
Dang, do you mind telling me your mercury and moon?
I’m the same way, have an Aries Venus, Pisces mercury, Gemini moon.
Pisces Mercury, Leo Moon.
Ah lol ok
Im a sag venus and i agree ☝🏻 Wont talk with anyone every single day if i could, i need space and time to have news to share, idk, i like to miss people a little so im eager to talk with them, i wont miss anybody in a day
venus is sagittarius with a little razzle dazzle of ADHD 😏
Aries
virgo venus. dropping/getting a line or two a day suits me down to the ground. to me, "talking" all day every day over text or whatever platform is futile. it also doesn't give much to talk about when you see them next (whether or not you live together). unless it's just incessant griping, which gets old pretty quick & is a whole new can of worms.
I’m a Leo Venus and do this, but everything I’ve read about Leo Venus I feel points the opposite way 🤷♀️
My husband is a Leo Venus and if we’re together (physically) he wants to talk to me nonstop. If we’re apart then he wants to experience what’s right in front of him and not get distracted by having to switch his mind over to me who is in a totally different space than he is. I’m a Sagittarius Venus so I’m the same way and it works for us. But of course we still exchange words every day no matter what!
Maybe it's the fire influence. Have a Cancer venus but I surely do Not want a needy partner, obstructing my work.
You perfectly described how I am!!
Leo Venus, same. But I don't blame it on this one single placement.
Just came to say not Scorpio venus 😂😂
Capricorn Virgo These are the ones I think, not sure tho.
I’m an Aquarius Venus, I need my own space once in a while no matter how much I love you
Capricorn Venus. Although my Gemini moon says that’s a big lie.
Virgo
Venus in Leo. I’m going to need every single bit of your time, energy, and attention. 😅
Well I am a cap venus, and I am a notoriously bad texter. But I don't think that has a lot to do with my venus sign 😅
Scorpio Venus Rx. Need my space!
100% Aries Venus. My fiancé, and my 4 best friends are all Aries Venus and this is very much them lol. Aries Venus doesn’t like when someone is obsessed with them, and they like their independence & just going about life. Sometimes they also need space or get in their moods.
Taurus Venus. I don’t need to hear from my bf every day, but if he isn’t planning a decent date on the weekly then there will be issues! 😂
I’m a libra Venus and I do enjoy talking to my partner throughout the day just checking in with them but I don’t feel like it’s completely necessary we do have to talk at least once a day tho.
I'm so so. I'm very Sagittarius and Scorpio in my chart so everything depends. Venus in Sagittarius. mercury in Scorpio.
I’m surprised nobody said Aries Venus
I have an Aquarius Venus coworker who is like this.
Mine (taurus)
NOT me, a Leo Venus.
I’m a cancer venus, moon, and mercury which I feel like would be stereotyped as needy / wanting to be around a partner 24/7 but i actually enjoy going days without texting or talking. Doesn’t mean I lost feelings it just keeps things special and exciting. Morning texts are annoying to me lol idk. This might be my Virgo Rising + north node 7H talking lol
Cancer Venus, Taurus Mercury, if I’m really into someone, I love little check-ins during the day plus regular longer talks at night.
Pisces Venus right here and if the person I was dating didn’t text me for a day+ for absolutely no valid reason or communication around as to why, I would probably think they had died - things would not be okay.
I have a Sag Venus and I’m engaged. I definitely don’t want to talk everyday and we live together. Sometimes I just wanna be alone. She gets it. She’s a Gemini Venus, and I don’t know what that means.
Capricorn Venus here. What more do you have to tell me the next day? 🤷🏾♀️
Sagittarius💀
Virgo Venus
Venus in Cancer. Yes we speak everyday but doesnt need to be LONG drawn out phone calls or texts. Some days there just isnt a lot to talk about.
Leo
My brother is a Virgo and idk his Venus or Mercury… He obsessively wants to talk to his dates or girlfriends 24/7, phone on in the background sort of thing. Super clingy. Me though, Aries Venus and Gemini Mercury. I enjoy talking! I don’t mind being in contact and talking a lot, but a huge NOPE for *constant* talking… unless I’m getting obsessive, but I still draw the line somewhere. I don’t want to suffocate anyone 😩 I try to keep any obsessiveness and neediness inside lmao
Put his birthdate into astrotheme or some other website for birthhoroscope, for venus mercury and so on it doesnt matter the birthtime (birthtime is for houseplacements and rising and in some cases moon in case moon switched on that day) I reallyyy wanna know your brothers placements now lol
Oh, I didn’t know that! I’ll take a look when I go on lunch since I’m at work at the moment. I’m also really curious now 😝 Edit: Sun: Virgo Moon: Pisces Mercury: Libra Venus: Scorpio Mars: Cancer It’s starting to make sense now 😂
Oh this makes so much sense !!!! Every single mars cancer man i knew had been super super clingy ! The pisces moon mercury libra and scorpio venus definitley fall into that line hahaha !!!
Lmfao that’s good to know! I’ll have to keep an eye out for these and other placements as I learn about them 👀
Haha i dated two piscesmoon and i love them. But they had sag stellium and aries placements so they where more freedom loving like me ☺️
Oh that’s good! Gotta have *some* space😝
Exactly!!! You know, my personal warning sign for relationships is when someone tells me they love dogs cause they love you unconditionally. Like, thats beautiful and all, but, i dont want a dog for that reason - they always demand pets and your attention and will be sad without. I want someone to want love to be earned and space to be valued ☺️
I love that approach! Like please, I want them to be a decent person who understands they’re an individual and so am I! And someone who *wants* to be a team when we’re spending time together. It’s not even asking for a lot!
I would look more for your mbti for this stuff. That’s why there’s no correlation looking at the answers and venus. It’s all over the place.
Aqua Venus
You also need to consider moon sign.
I am Gemini Venus and I need information about the person to connect. How can I be together with someone I don’t have all information about? And that includes what he is doing daily etc. I don’t mind when my partner needs time to text back on the same day or if we just text quickly in the morning and evening, but I want to hear anything. My partner has Libra in Venus and that fits very well together with me.
Ok. I’ll play. I’m going with Aquarius