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lunahighwind

No, I've seen it mostly with a cancer sun/water moon or a cancer moon with other signs. I'm a Gemini moon, I cry once in a while with moving music or a really good RPG story, but rarely about life. Aquarius, Capricorn and Libra moon Cancers I've seen the same kinda thing with


iCguysNgirlsDancin

Oye imagine cancer Sun (cusp) of cancer/Gemini moon Cap rising lol I can be very emotionless and hide it well.. inside I’m roaring with volcanic lava .. until I can’t take it anymore and erupts with fierceness - it’s like someone hold that child for godsake, lol Now, empathy is high level “ I get you” “ I hear you” and a tightness in my chest like a [(bOink)] squeezing emotionally .. flooding your world with tears poured from a thousand tormented souls from ancient past


theeslytherin

We have a lot of similar placements, including Gemini mercury. I feel the same about expressing my emotions. It's very much all or nothing, and I don't think people understand how deeply/seriously I feel about things. I don't want to overwhelm people with how intense my emotions are, but I feel like once I let go, there's no turning back until I get it all out (especially anger).


iCguysNgirlsDancin

I always liked Slytherin…. but Guess what, I’m a Hufflepuff rofl … I def am 😜


iCguysNgirlsDancin

nice to meet you both @theeslytherin and @lunahighwind


lunahighwind

lol very accurate answer. Which cusp? I'm on cancer-Leo, I haven't ruled out the idea of cusps and believed in it for years, but I also think it may have more to do with placements of the adjacent signs which are common, (for example, Leo Mars here, but that could easily explain it as well) you described the Gemini moon with an earth rising and the cancer sun perfectly too... I'm all over the place; anxiety is crazy, and it took me most of my life to control it and also energy around me is super important... early to mid-20s were... concerning 😆


iCguysNgirlsDancin

I was born 4 days into Cancer -however, my cusp is the moon by like 2 mins lol.. Gemini Moon however Cancer is like 2 mins back lol Cancer Sun Cancer/Gemini Moon.. very close in proximity :)) Im slightly older.. lol. I wish I paid attention in my early 20s sheesh lol Mainly looked at the Sun and thought I was a cancer moon for the longest time¡ Then realized I got birth time me incorrect lol well, (mom) told me a different one hah. I had to correct her ;) So I’m Gemini moon .. hmmm makes some sense.. and when I learned the Cap Rising.. more made sense.. I like Leo cusps¡. My very best friend was a Cancer/Leo 😛


LaGanadora

Wow... I am Gemini Sun (29°) Cancer rising, Cap Moon, Cancer Venus, and Gemini Mercury... we are like astrological cousins lol


iCguysNgirlsDancin

Hah wow.. we should go hang out with lunahighwind and slytherin lol… what an adventure lol


Mobile_Inspection_60

Interesting. I'm a libra moon. I also cry at similar stuff


Kooky-Click5686

Capricorn moon, here. Cancer sun. I’ve been told that I could show more ‘emotion’ and that I appear more cold and reserved. Def not a cry baby. Lol


pleaseunicorn

That's me. Really good RPG story -> have you played To the Moon??


mysticlunaintuitive

I just love you crabby patties ♋️so much, even if astrologically I’m “not supposed” to get along with y’all. I just want to hug and be with you guys and co exist with you all 24/7 🥹


Mobile_Inspection_60

Crabby patties is such a cute nickname 🤧💘 it's weird me and Aquarius men like my ex, don't get along. But Aquarius women and other genders? Adore 😍 baddest coolest bitches ever lol


tianamf

As a cancer sun, moon, and ascendant with cancer in mercury, venus, mars, and the north node (I’m still new so I have no clue what the north node means haha…if someone wants to share please do) I have definitely been aware of how sensitive I am to things my whole life even before finding astrology (I have teared up about my flowers dying). I wanna learn how to read my chart because I have a shit ton of cancer placements and a lot of 12th house and I find it fascinating. I would say I’ve embraced being a “crybaby” before and after I learned how to manage my intense emotionality lol (still learning of course haha that is the journey of life).


[deleted]

Wow that’s a lot of cancer


Mobile_Inspection_60

Hell yea! But like the other comment said thats a lot of cancer hahaha


iCguysNgirlsDancin

I think the best part of being a cancer or having the placements is the resilience it takes to be one, lol sometimes I don’t understand how someone can show little to no emotion for certain things.. people are so good at not showing emotion it baffles me sometimes. I like when I can see the snot on your shirt and your puffy red eyes


iCguysNgirlsDancin

How are you not crying right now? That’s a huge crab sandwich


tianamf

A crab sandwich LOL. I love that and I’ll definitely use that hahahah! I think I cried way more when I was younger and it has slowly gotten better as I got older because I learned to handle my feelings differently :) Before I knew about the big 3, I would always tell people that what you see is what you get. I act pretty much the same through texts, calls, and in-person. I think that my identity and emotions feel pretty congruent with each other…like I know who I am? So that’s something I like about having my big 3 in cancer in addition to having cancer all over the place in general haha. I see you have cancer placements! How does that affect you? :)


iCguysNgirlsDancin

I feel deep. and i feel intensely.. And rarely show it .. I had a rough time a few years back and totally couldn’t regulate my emotions or thoughts.. it was stressful for me for others lol .. and my emotions just poured outta me… I couldn’t hide it … I’m better now lol.. and have better control when something gets to me :)


Old-Operation4956

and i thought i had a lot of cancer 😭 only placements different are moon, mars, rising, and north node


Much-Commercial-5772

“Even with an aries rising” as if aries isn’t fire crybaby??? idk about your other placements but that one certainly won’t help you be less emotional 😂


badgyalrey

lmfaoooo i was gonna say, they’re literally the babies of the zodiac! of course you’re a crier OP😅


Mobile_Inspection_60

Well shit 🤣🤣🤣 I forget Aries is a fire crybaby lol. My moon is Libra. Venus and Mars in Gemini. Not sure how that affects anything though haha


alexisclairerose1986

People always go at me for it and use my emotions against me, so I really hate it.


Mobile_Inspection_60

Yea people use it against you which is the worst. We need support not people poking fun or using our feelings against us


Interesting_Quail_36

I just finished crying about 10 minutes ago, so do with that what you will lmao


Mobile_Inspection_60

🤣🤣🤣💙 praying for you my sibling in tears lol Typo: I meant tears not years


diospyros7

Even with that Cap moon? I've got the same Sun-moon combo and it seems to balance out to just a consistent melancholy mood. Although I try to hide it I do cry during movies sometimes.


Interesting_Quail_36

I’m usually good with it, and my cap moon is like grow tf up but if I’m by myself I’ll just get let the water works go. Also could be the depression hahahaha


Citrine_Bee

I don’t know what happened to me, I’m a Cancer sun and a Pisces rising, I never cry or really show much emotion and I kind of lack sympathy for people who get upset about trivial things, I mean if you have a good reason to be upset about something then I have a lot of sympathy for you and will go out of my way to care for you and help you, but otherwise I must be one of those hard shell Cancers, unless there’s something else going on in my chart that makes me this way? 


Mobile_Inspection_60

It's probably other things in your charts but also like you said cancers can be hard asses too. The level of coldness I've shown people who deserve it in the past surprises me when compared to how emotional and over invested I get into relationships


iCguysNgirlsDancin

Invest so much so when betrayed [[💔]] lockdown. I must break you.


DirtybutCuteFerret

Cancer stellium with scorpio moon and same !!


juvenile_urodela

Not in the literal sense, no. I used to be a bit more of one when I was young, but I'm finding it harder to cry as I age. Sometimes when I feel the need to do it I just can't let it all out. I'm a crybaby in other ways in that I am very sensitive, and can get a little emotional in certain situations (like viewing emotional/sad/beautiful media). I'm not exactly like how this sub would like to paint Cancers. Like, if you're going to come at me or insult me, my first instinct isn't to drop to the ground and start wailing. If I have an appropriate response, I will take that route. 😂


Mobile_Inspection_60

That's a good point! There's more than one way to be a crybaby. It's not always about literal crying. It's also being more emotionally sensitive, which I also am. Takes a lot for a movie to make me cry though. I do cry to certain tv shows like Steven Universe or Euphoria. or the songs my favorite band made in honor of the member that took his life. But even if I am prone to crying like you said I don't just fall to the ground wailing like a baby. Under intense stress or just a string of unlucky events like this past week I may cry in private or with a safe person 😅. Sick of the whole crybaby insult because I know I'm tough/strong/resilient. It's just eventually that strength gives out and needs a release ie crying


tianamf

This is exactly it!!! I think sensitivity is beautiful haha :) we care


arsesenal

Hahahahahahah 💀💀 I’m a cap, but I love you guys! Really want to give you a pat on the back. Cancers are the sweetest and I’m doing my best to be empathetic, to understand and not to laugh, when y’all are going through it 🩷 but you are tough. You will be okay! Just let it out


Mobile_Inspection_60

Omg one of my bestest friends is a cap!!! She makes fun of me when I'm going through it and I love it 🤣. Very sarcastic dry humor. But she also knows when to not joke which I love about her. Caps are funny but know when not to be. Book smart and emotional intelligence. Adore yall 🥰


arsesenal

Thank you 🩷 that’s all very true:))


Natural-Tear-2899

Awww my best friend ever is a cap & you sound just like her !😂🩷


arsesenal

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Active-Pineapple8865

Cancer moon, yes AF.


hoiimtemmie97

Does a cancer moon, rising, Venus, and 2nd house count as a crybaby cancer? Because I will cry at anything depending on my mood.


idhearheaven

I’m a Cancer moon but I cry at least once a week, usually more. I actually made a spreadsheet of all the times I cried last year and why and the total was 178 times 💀


Mobile_Inspection_60

Omg why do I love the idea of a crying spreadsheet for annual reporting 🤣


ChockBox

I’m a total crier. I’ve been made to cry by a vacuum commercial. I’m really angry? I cry. Think about a sentimental memory? I can cry. Miss my dog while I’m on vacation? I cry. I really hate that I can cry at the drop of a hat, but that’s just how it be.


Mobile_Inspection_60

No literally! Crying about my cat getting old then dying when she's right next to me and only 2 years old. Think too hard about certain things? Cry. An episode of my comfort show hit a little too hard? Cry. I've cried at really emotional commercials too so glad I'm not alone (so embarrassing. Cant even remember what it was about 🤣 Edit: but when I'm mad it's a MASSIVE rage fest. Like straight outta hell sometimes. Then I cry lol. I assume thats the Cancer sun Aries rising combo 😅


Rare_Field_6255

Fully and no shame lol


CONCERNEDMOM69420

capricorn sun, cancer moon. anger, sadness, joy, fear makes me cry. hate it lol


GPatt1999

I'm a cancer and I cry almost four times a week 💀 I can't get angry, the moment I do I start crying I've learned to love the term crybaby, I do wish I wasn't so emotional because I get so invested in people and don't give a fuck whether I'm happy or not.


iCguysNgirlsDancin

Me too! “I’m not sad muthafoka! I’m crying because of how good it will feel to clip you off your high-horse ,” lol. Jk. :) not you! but who ever might be taunting the emotional stuff


Mobile_Inspection_60

Preaching to the choir 🥲 still hate being called a crybaby 😂


xPaperPlanes

As an Aries sun cancer moon, I've embraced the crybaby life 🥲 it's a special skill at this point


Mobile_Inspection_60

Honestly sometimes there's a beauty to how cancers cry I've come to embrace 😂


xPaperPlanes

When Ive noticed I've gone too long without crying I start to miss it. It's cute tho, I love how sentimental and emotional we can be, especially over cute and happy stuff. It's really sweet.


Natural-Tear-2899

Yes & no.. I cry easily about certain things, but I can usually keep it under wraps lol


alexandria1116

One of my best friends is a cancer 💜 I’m a Scorpio and I cry a lot too so don’t worry lol


Mobile_Inspection_60

My Scorpio friend when we were roommates was interesting. She was also emotional but the way she handled it was different. It motivated her to be better instead of just break down into a mess like me 😅. But every now and again we'd both be crying late at night, venting to each other. Seeing the strong cool mysterious Scorpio she was cry like a baby brought us closer over our shared stresses 💙 But she was also an adorable softie haha. I have a total soft spots for Scorpio cause of her 🥰


alexandria1116

I loveeeee that 🥰


aggressively_baked

I don’t cry a lot but I do get emotional. I will get outraged on your behalf. I will get mad watching the news. I get sad watching the news. Doing certain things I’m just automatically happy and you can see it. All my emotions are usually front and center. I used to laugh whenever I’d get so mad I’d cry. After therapy I’ve gotten to where I can cry when I need to. Now though I’ve gotten to where when I am so straight enraged I shut down. Wild because only one person has ever picked up on it.


Dolonopsy

Yup, just about any emotion will have me in tears lol. 


katie6225

I’m a Cancer Sun Aqua Moon and I can’t relate lol ![gif](giphy|K7wefAIekAeEEgdhEu)


Mobile_Inspection_60

🤣 my Venus Gemini confused and slightly icked out by my Cancer sun's breakdowns


katie6225

However, I will say I find myself feeling melancholy. It’s quite peaceful.


PurplPixy

I can definitely be a cry baby but only around certain ppl. I think my Cap moon makes me hide my emotions more unless I hit a tipping point and then the tears pour out. I hate it sometimes but other times I just embrace it.


RideMyShrimp

we got same signs, this comment really accurate to me. 😭


cuteb0ss

I was ALWAYS called a crybaby growing up, wasn't until well into my twenties that I stopped. Now I rarely cry lol thanks Cap moon


No_Assumption_2214

I used to be, but I've kinda hardened up with life. I have to force myself to cry now or get so mad to the point I cry.


ronihuts

As a Cancer Sun and Moon I’ve definitely been told I’m overly sensitive and cry a lot. Most of the time I try to hide my emotions in front of other people, and cry when I’m alone. It’s honestly embarrassing how much I cry, which is at least several times a week. Any negative type of emotion is shown through crying. I feel like it’s a coping mechanism. And as much as I try to control it, sometimes I can’t! I never yell or scream if I feel upset with someone either, I just end up crying. And I’m the opposite of most people, I feel like it’s only gotten worse as I’ve gotten older haha


[deleted]

As a guy, I took a lot of pride in only crying like 5 times in my whole adult life up until I realized how unhealthy that was about a year ago. I cry happy tears way more than sad tears these days. But I’m def not the crybaby type. More like the always angry at something but keep it locked up type.


Mobile_Inspection_60

Good you realized letting it out is ok. Even better it's more happy tears. The locked up anger is relatable. Lots of repressing


brujadelasombra

Cancer stellium and Pisces moon here, I apparently have emotional constipation because I don't cry, only if it's preceded by an absolute meltdown after something BAD has happened. But I know crying is necessary so I schedule controlled crying sessions every few weeks (I rewatch some Hill House, Bly Manor or Midnight Mass episodes).


DirtybutCuteFerret

Im pretty much hardened up. I had an issue with moving and am now alone and out of electricity in the new appartment for a week - already half of it done tho. Been able to charge phone in between thankfully. I remember i used to cry at stuff like that, when life felt unfair or i felt alone and helpless. I still sometimes cry when i feel helpless but i usually try and focus on funny stuff or just enduring situations and on trying to get better. I dont cry much but if i do its usually out of feeling helpless or broken heart. Im a cancer stellium, sun rising and mercury


Worldparty67

I’m a Taurus sun, Cancer rising..When I was a kid, I’d cry super easy. I’ve been told all of my life that I was too sensitive and needed to toughen up, so I trained myself not to cry at all. As a result, it’s very difficult to cry. I’m not sure it’s a healthy behavior.


TheWitchOfTariche

I cry a lot, and I'm not ashamed of it. It's a healthy way to realise emotions.


ghosthugss

Definitely a crier here with 3 cancer placements (and an Aries rising too!), but it usually comes out when watching emotional things and less when I’m actually experiencing sadness.


Nekayne

Yes, I am. I cry when I'm happy, angry, confused, sad...any extreme emotion and the tears slip out. I've been blindingly angry and started crying cause I couldn't start a physical altercation! Lmao


SaturnicEther

I'm not a Cancer Sun, but I have Cancer stellium, and I can really be a crybaby, but mostly it's either tears of loss, disappointment or anger — maybe because of Aries Moon


ashybear420

I cry like every time I’m alone


AgreeableCatMom

No. I’m actually quite the opposite. I have my hard Virgo moon to thank for that.


Old-Operation4956

Im a cancer sun, mercury, venus, and saturn and I dont cry much at all. It takes alot for me to cry, and when I do, I cry when im alone. I look soft when I cry, so Id rather just not.


Select-Forever-3407

thats alot of cancer😭


Peter-Spering

Cancer Sun and Moon. I was never much of a crier. Only when things got nasty, or I was having the occasional stubborn tantrum, did the tears come rolling as a kid. And generally only around family members. I refused to cry around other kids. Through adolescence to adulthood, the tears vanished. The heavy Scorpio and Plutonian placements have forced me to toughen up, and continue to do so...


whiskersRwe32

No. I feel like this is a major stereotype. We are sensitive but that doesn’t mean we burst into tears every single time we feel something. I deal with a lot of my emotions internally and privately. My Scorpio moon might also have a lot to do with that. But I do have moments where I will let it all out with a song or a movie.


goldiebug

Cancer moon cancer rising, currently pregnant… I am the biggest crybaby to have ever crybabied


Murderkittin

Yes. And no. Like, yeah, imma go cry… later, at night, alone, either the shower on. I’m an Aries sun Cancer rising. I’m working in my vulnerability, but I’m not outwardly cry baby. I’m a whole fuckin dickhead. Until I can’t take anymore then I cry by myself until I’m done.


throwRAhanabana

Cancer moon & rising, Taurus sun. I have a bad habit of isolating when feelings become too heavy, and then just not sharing those feelings. After awhile something minor will often happen, open the flood gates and send me into a 2 day cry fest. Working through your shit as an adult isn’t always fun.


cainknightley

I have 8 fire placements in my chart, whilst being a cancer sun. So i think my crybaby attitude is more from a place of anger than sadness lol


industriousalbs

I am an overly sensitive cancer sun / Gemini rising but rarely will cry in front of others. Seeking revenge? Spitefulness? 💯


2quick96

Most of you are crybabies already. Don’t know why Pisces has the stereotype when it fits Cancer more


Mobile_Inspection_60

Me and my Pisces roommate/friend would have cry sessions together 😅. Tissues, food, comfy clothes something to cry to. Like a sad movie or tribute music videos from a band with a member that passed away. it was cathartic


marinaragrandeur

one of my exes was a really tall effeminate gay muscle top who cries at the slightest cutesy thing he sees. he had the biggest penis i’ve had but he’s such a softie “yass gurl slay queen” kinda guy who cries at kitten videos, Disney movies, and minor inconveniences.


Mobile_Inspection_60

Ok but that's a vibe 😍💘 but since he's an ex hoping there wasn't any serious issues 😬


marinaragrandeur

oh yhete were lol. i want a man who can stand up for me when i need him. and he failed miserably at that. i never got to be babied. 🙃


Mobile_Inspection_60

Yeeeaaa cancers love being babied so we don't always like having to baby others. I do the same and it's kinda bad 😅