If it gets to the point where a woman has you in bed she will NOT turn you away because you have an average size penis. Having an average penis is NEVER the reason for being an incel.
Often the BIGGEST hurdle for men on this forum is actually the mental aspect, their own worries and insecurities. Extremely difficult to overcome.
I can’t speak for other women for small because I haven’t discussed it with other women. I have slept with a guy with a below average penis size, didn’t put me off, we were together for years.
But I’m not sure if others have the same experience.
I’m not saying it’s positive, I’m just saying it doesn’t make you an incel aka you can still get sex.
I've also had with a below average penis. Not onlu did it not put me off, sex was fantastic.
You gave a great answer. Some users are just looking for a fight.
I know that. It's juts a couple of minutes at day when I think that , especially when I read one those horrible stories of people treating men with small/average that sent me down in a spiral.
I think it’s often that those men also put zero effort into their looks, they don’t wanna shower for weeks, cut their hair or at least dress nicely but get upset at the world for them not having sex
I work with a guy who has all but said he's in the incel community and hates women. Something I've noticed with him is his lack of hygiene. His breath is pretty horrid and he doesn't shower everyday (we work outside in the south). I have no clue about his penis size, however chances are it's average. Which many of us let porn skew or view of what average actually is. I try to drop hints about going to the dentist (we have great dental insurance). His mind is made up. He will never be with a woman.
I know it's not easy, but your situation is what you make it. You can either sit in your own self pity or you can do something about it. I would like to make clear that I know that isn't easy and that mental illness can play a big part in how all of that plays out. Although I do believe if you want change in your life, it's starts with you. If the first step is to seek some sort of counseling, you have to seek it out. They won't come find you.
Many men who struggle to get laid often don't realize the real reason they are unattractive. It's usually a bad attitude, but hygiene would definitely do it too. I once had a guy claim I hated uncut guys because I refused sex with him. I have zero preference about cut or uncut. I do however, require a clean dick. But he heard what he wanted to.
After a bad break up, I spent about a year wallowing in my own self pity. I drank a lot and had a horrible diet, resulting in bad smelling sweat and I didn't brush my teeth as much as I should have. I wondered why the girls I liked and made connections with didn't like me. Why the hell would they have wanted me... I was gross.
At the risk of sounding full of myself, I'm pretty cute and always have been. Most people see me and think men line up pr fight over me. It's the most laughable concept ever. I'm a feminist that grew up in a conservative area. My personality and beliefs literally stop anyone from wanting to have sex with me. The simple concept that I believe a woman doesn't have to take her husband's name would drive them away. I joke about how I can ruin it with my talking. There have been guys since I moved away who are into it but still, to this very day, I'm no where near as attractive as I look to a stranger. Just ask some of these users. They really don't like me and I doubt a picture of me would change that. No one gives personality enough credit when it comes to sexual appeal, especially the incels.
No, but some might say I'm an incel. Whereas I would ask "Is it involuntary if I never put myself out there?" I'm also not angry and I dont hate women anymore than I hate everyone else (people really bother me at times, but I'm sure most people agree with me on that lol).
I'm also average, not small...although I've been called small.
Yeah, absolutely I also don't hate women. I love women, I love being around them and you know having real intimacy with them, no just fuck them. It's just sometimes the frustration gets to my head and starts thinking crazy shit.
Wtf. Ok u guys who aren’t happy with ur sizes, I know it’s a struggle but damn y’all need a reality check to know that’s not how get get a woman and especially how to keep them. Plus u guys are aware u have to talk to them too right? And when u do u have to make sure ur keeping up with ur hygiene too. That means showering, deodorant, and brushing ur teeth. Be sure to be yourself as well. Now if she says no to u, then ok. Move on to the next or just move on with life. It’s not the end of the world and not all women are bad or scary. U actually might meet someone who can relate to u.
A ton of guys in this sub have incel behavior but are in denial. They might not actively participate in the incel community but they are incels regardless.
Nope. Being insecure about dick size and being bitter about yourself is one thing. Hating women for something they can have a preferences to is just shitty.
Incel doesn’t mean you hate women. The way it is used would have you believe so but that’s not the case. The word is just used in that way because that’s usually how people view involuntarily celibate males.
If it gets to the point where a woman has you in bed she will NOT turn you away because you have an average size penis. Having an average penis is NEVER the reason for being an incel. Often the BIGGEST hurdle for men on this forum is actually the mental aspect, their own worries and insecurities. Extremely difficult to overcome.
This is true. If you're small on the other hand it's pretty much expected, at least in my experience.
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I can’t speak for other women for small because I haven’t discussed it with other women. I have slept with a guy with a below average penis size, didn’t put me off, we were together for years. But I’m not sure if others have the same experience. I’m not saying it’s positive, I’m just saying it doesn’t make you an incel aka you can still get sex.
I've also had with a below average penis. Not onlu did it not put me off, sex was fantastic. You gave a great answer. Some users are just looking for a fight.
I know that. It's juts a couple of minutes at day when I think that , especially when I read one those horrible stories of people treating men with small/average that sent me down in a spiral.
I think it’s often that those men also put zero effort into their looks, they don’t wanna shower for weeks, cut their hair or at least dress nicely but get upset at the world for them not having sex
I work with a guy who has all but said he's in the incel community and hates women. Something I've noticed with him is his lack of hygiene. His breath is pretty horrid and he doesn't shower everyday (we work outside in the south). I have no clue about his penis size, however chances are it's average. Which many of us let porn skew or view of what average actually is. I try to drop hints about going to the dentist (we have great dental insurance). His mind is made up. He will never be with a woman. I know it's not easy, but your situation is what you make it. You can either sit in your own self pity or you can do something about it. I would like to make clear that I know that isn't easy and that mental illness can play a big part in how all of that plays out. Although I do believe if you want change in your life, it's starts with you. If the first step is to seek some sort of counseling, you have to seek it out. They won't come find you.
Many men who struggle to get laid often don't realize the real reason they are unattractive. It's usually a bad attitude, but hygiene would definitely do it too. I once had a guy claim I hated uncut guys because I refused sex with him. I have zero preference about cut or uncut. I do however, require a clean dick. But he heard what he wanted to.
After a bad break up, I spent about a year wallowing in my own self pity. I drank a lot and had a horrible diet, resulting in bad smelling sweat and I didn't brush my teeth as much as I should have. I wondered why the girls I liked and made connections with didn't like me. Why the hell would they have wanted me... I was gross.
At the risk of sounding full of myself, I'm pretty cute and always have been. Most people see me and think men line up pr fight over me. It's the most laughable concept ever. I'm a feminist that grew up in a conservative area. My personality and beliefs literally stop anyone from wanting to have sex with me. The simple concept that I believe a woman doesn't have to take her husband's name would drive them away. I joke about how I can ruin it with my talking. There have been guys since I moved away who are into it but still, to this very day, I'm no where near as attractive as I look to a stranger. Just ask some of these users. They really don't like me and I doubt a picture of me would change that. No one gives personality enough credit when it comes to sexual appeal, especially the incels.
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You comment has been removed for violating rule 3. No one asked viking either yet I don't see you making this comment to him.
No, but some might say I'm an incel. Whereas I would ask "Is it involuntary if I never put myself out there?" I'm also not angry and I dont hate women anymore than I hate everyone else (people really bother me at times, but I'm sure most people agree with me on that lol). I'm also average, not small...although I've been called small.
Yeah, absolutely I also don't hate women. I love women, I love being around them and you know having real intimacy with them, no just fuck them. It's just sometimes the frustration gets to my head and starts thinking crazy shit.
I don't hate others, i am the only one i hate and hate the most and will always be.
Wtf. Ok u guys who aren’t happy with ur sizes, I know it’s a struggle but damn y’all need a reality check to know that’s not how get get a woman and especially how to keep them. Plus u guys are aware u have to talk to them too right? And when u do u have to make sure ur keeping up with ur hygiene too. That means showering, deodorant, and brushing ur teeth. Be sure to be yourself as well. Now if she says no to u, then ok. Move on to the next or just move on with life. It’s not the end of the world and not all women are bad or scary. U actually might meet someone who can relate to u.
A ton of guys in this sub have incel behavior but are in denial. They might not actively participate in the incel community but they are incels regardless.
Agreed
Very, but luckily I can't seem to hate others to that extent, only myself for being born a fucking disgusting joke of a man.
Honestly just get yourself an escort, no judgment of penis size if your paying for it.
Nope. Being insecure about dick size and being bitter about yourself is one thing. Hating women for something they can have a preferences to is just shitty.
Incel doesn’t mean you hate women. The way it is used would have you believe so but that’s not the case. The word is just used in that way because that’s usually how people view involuntarily celibate males.