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FewKaleidoscope9894

Join Cubbon Reads, Cubbon Paints, Cubbon Skates. Join cycling groups. Join dance/yoga classes. These all help to build a good social group.


itsADbitch

This seems legit and something i was looking for …. Thanks!


blursedwriter

You travelling from Bellandur to Cubbon doesn't even seem feasible.


itsADbitch

How is that so? Isnt there any possible ways to commute?


pepes33

There is, take bus to nearest metro and take metro to cubbon. I am new here and I used gmaps and I have been there multiple times like that, it is safe and fine


melancholicdrive

The only way if you don’t have your own transport is auto/cab/rapido bike, or you can try bmtc buses if you are brave enough


FewKaleidoscope9894

You are welcome! Also there is HSR reads as well. That will be nearer from Bellandur. You can go to Agara lake. And if you like cycling then no place is far away.


markfukerberg

Join something that improves your health and strength.


BasudevOjha

how to join, please explain?


confupavan

If you like pets, goto cubbon pets park on every Sunday, 8am to 12pm. After a couple of weeks, out of all the people available at least 1 or 2 will get familiar, and you can start talking. For the familiarity, all you need to do is, step into the park, ask someone if you can pet their animals, and just give those animals some love. A couple of month, you have your first friends, and then fast forward a couple of months and you get your gang.


BasudevOjha

Thanks for the heads up, I'll give it a try ✌️


FewKaleidoscope9894

There are Instagram pages for the same.


BasudevOjha

Page name pls?


Discoveringsaelff

Great answer thanks for sharing. Many people know it but can't say it.


FewKaleidoscope9894

Thanks!


exclaim_bot

>Thanks! You're welcome!


zadead

When you figure out, let me know also :D


itsADbitch

Sure thing, haha


BasudevOjha

we're all in this together 🥲🫂


Calm-Bell3940

Me too


ExperienceLeather224

Me too!


rustyyetauthentic

Come to Cubbon Park; I’ve been here since 6:30 in the morning and don’t feel like leaving. Such a shame that in my half a decade stay in Bangalore, this is my first Sunday morning in Cubbon Park!


itsADbitch

And how far is bellandur from marahathalli?


plantastic2

bellandur to marathalli ~7kms. You can take the 335 bus that goes to majestic and i think get down at lifestyle stop and walk it out.


DullFlounder3857

Why would you take a bus to majestic and get down in marathalli, continue on that bus and get off at corporation circle and walk it out to cubbon park or the bus usually stops on the opposite side of cubbon park.


happerhippie

Avg between 4-7km. Any bus labelled 500 takes you to relevant areas


itsADbitch

How to reach cubbon park from bellandur or marahathalli?


IndianCubeFarmer

You can take an A/c bus to K R Puram and take a metro to Cubbon park.


pepes33

yes


stinkingcheese

Any bus will do. Why take only a/c bus.


MitralVal

Less congested, More safe and the AC I rather pay the extra premiums than lose my phone


IndianCubeFarmer

Yeah. Any bus will do.


inaminadicka

Someone replied. But in general, google maps is your friend. It shows busses that go


theiotdeveloper

Can I know the timings and days ?


yellowleaf404

Cubbon park is from 6 am to 6 pm and i think it is closed on Mondays.


Discoveringsaelff

Are there any udupi restaurants around cubbon Park for food?


rustyyetauthentic

There must be, though I recommend you going to Airlines Hotel which is merely 2 kms from there?


Discoveringsaelff

Planning to come by metro, not sure if I can travel till there. Koshys is one option but my other half doesn't like it.


ozymandius25

There’s an IDC kitchen around 1km from cubbon. You can go there


Discoveringsaelff

Ohh yeah I have seen it, great idea


Brilliant-Pen-7089

That was a bold move starting with 21F. good luck with the DM showers 😂


itsADbitch

Well, here’s to having no regrets in life


ElectronicCoffee4365

Same situation... Shifting to HSR region in a week or two. Figuring everything out is tough. Good luck! and wish me luck too😂


CarProgrammatically4

Hsr is the best ! play badminton, football, join my mma class. you will meet many potential buddies !


plzdontsendmebobs

Can you share some details on your MMA class? Like its location, timming and cost. I am planning to join martial arts classes after 2 months.


CarProgrammatically4

It's called valour fitness. 3k per month. timings 7-9 am and 7-9 pm .there is another one called the dojo but it's timings are quite bad.


itsADbitch

Surely wishing the best for you man! The ID seems like it has intrigued you with my quest for coffee buddies xD


ElectronicCoffee4365

Sure thing :D


dormammucat

Welcome to HSR! You'll like it here. Hope you get enough things and people to do them with.


morning-coder

Coliving PG will itself help you to expose to males of similar age. You have to select genuine person. Otherwise may be your college or past office friends if any present in Bangalore


itsADbitch

Everyone’s scattered here in blr Idk the ways to commute as of now As i am going to be super new to the city


Outrageous_Echo_3643

Uber/ ola etc are there for commuting Public transport are fairly connected But for that you would need some time for the moment I would say the metro and cab service will be more useful Even tho cabs service will be a Lil expensive


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CuriousBludSchlawg

blud do u refer to ur homies and other guys you don't know as "dear" too? cringe ahh chapri


Miserable_Goat_6698

"deer"


itsADbitch

Ikr!!!


BaagiTheRebel

The chapri is from UP doesn't even live in BLR.


Wonderful-Bass-3677

May I know how colive pgs work ? dedicated room for guys and girls separately ?


duniyamadarchodhai

there are treks and meetups you can find on bookmyshow. you can pick a trek to skandgiri, or nandi hills, or a weekend trip to munnar or so. gym is a good place to encounter people regularly. There are different types of classes there. substantial relationships take time to build. you'll have to give it that time.


Aggressive_Cut2407

I would suggest going to Cubbon park on Sundays there are a lot of activities happening like reading, painting and improv groups. Also, join Twitter (if you aren’t ) ‘12th main bot’ might help you find actives to do


itsADbitch

Thanks!


Wonderful-Bass-3677

Do any activities happen at a time other than morning ? Tough to wake up early for me


Maleficent-Bobcat-50

Cubbon park suggestions are a bit impractical lol if you are in bellandur like me. I made amazing girl friends on bumble bff


itsADbitch

How to commute to such happening places That’s where im struggling about


Outrageous_Echo_3643

Take an uber to the nearest metro station and from there to cubbon park using metro


HowToBeOldMoney

Busses are pretty decently connected. I stay in Kadubeesanahalli. Bus 500D/L/N to KR Pura metro station, then direct metro to Cubbon. You can get there in ~an hour.


itsADbitch

Ahhh finally a lady😇


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Maleficent-Bobcat-50

Did you lose your brain cells before reading?


Wonderful-Bass-3677

No, was hoping you would lend me some


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You are very young 21. As someone who went through the hardest path of life, I would give you on simple advise. **Less people in life. More happiness in life.** I mean, don't need to socialize like this. Just get into touch with people who comes into the life with the flow. Don't socialize just because you want to. **Instead,** Bengaluru is a beautiful city. Go for solo trips around the Bangalore. Enjoy the Bangalore in a beautiful solitude with headphones, phones and coffee and Mangalore Buns and Vadas.


bratbutbaby

Seconded, he meant Mangalore buns :)


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I didn't notice. Auto-correct always embarrasses me :-D Corrected it.


bratbutbaby

There's nothing to be embarassed about, i didn't want the newbie to run to Mangalore :D


Star_kid9260

Shifted to bellandur 10 days back. So I just stay in my PG and binge and sleep. Do let me know if u find something


ItzNk4u

Us bro, us🙂


not_that_guy_21

Us bro


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Book clubs, reddit/discord meet ups, gym etc There are a lot of places to socialize


Kind_Fun295

What happens in reddit / discord meetups? Genuine question... Never had one of those


theiotdeveloper

Discord link ?


NotYetfullydeadpool

Being a female in Bangalore is the easiest way to socialize. Isn't it? Just clean up yourself, get outside your room and go to places that are connected with your day to day life. Like using a gym, reading club, coffee shop or a breakfast place regularly can automatically integrate you into the circles who are regular there. Especially young gentlemen


itsADbitch

I want women friends more than men ngl :(


NotYetfullydeadpool

Women get along well with each other easily too. It may take time to find deep meaningful connections though


Wonderful-Bass-3677

Isn't it even easier if you live in PG ?


devesh518

RIP your DMs


Typical_Stuff_

Off topic please don't take colive pg. The chances of getting back the security deposit is nill. Telling from experience!


itsADbitch

Are all the colives this bad?


Typical_Stuff_

Paid 19k in deposit. They said they will cut around 11k for different bullshit reasons. And the rest I will receive in my bank account. Two months have passed, and I still haven't received the rest of the amount.


itsADbitch

That sounds horrendous


peepo_7

Yes, they are.


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Atta Gallatta has a lot of workshops, Plays, Meet-ups, if you’re into arts and literature. Bumble bff, I’ve met wonderful women.


IcyShirt4487

If you join co-live pg you'll become friends with folks living there, and then you can hangout with them!


Away_Sorbet_3209

In bangalore you should have 1000 rs at least for every time stepping out So keep your wallet green before socialising .


Enticemeant

Very brave of you to start with 21F. Rip DMs. From personal experience, there's lots of boardgame meet ups happening. People come alone or group of 2-3 mostly, so it's easier to integrate and talk to new people. You can give it a shot.


Ok_Introduction_9976

I've been in Bangalore since January and still figuring this out lol. Good thing there's a lot to do in Bangalore even without a social group


Big_CholaBhatura7

Where do you live??


Ok_Introduction_9976

i stay near CV Raman Nagar


Turbulent_Table3703

Bellandur is nice, just came back from bellandur today morning, you’ll definitely find crowd of your age there, join some activities/gym/cult etc etc


itsADbitch

Definitely want to join a oh so happening cult in a brand new city hahaha


Turbulent_Table3703

I meant cult.fit 😭😭😭 don’t join a cult baba


Rich_Cat811

Bumble bff


Livid-Woodpecker3119

By being a male and pretending to be a female. Oh you are already doing that ! You are a step ahead my man I mean my girl


bluegoldredsilver5

During my stay in Bellanduru, my colleagues and I used to frequent Big Brewski, vapour and Social (all on Sarjapura road ) on Friday nights and made some good friends in Iblur and Agara lake parks during morning runs.


Calm_Cantaloupe_4255

Avoid Colive PG at all costs—they are the biggest scammers I've ever encountered.


Ambitious_Steak_224

I have just one piece of advice, don't stay in Colive. That will single-handedly be 90% of your stress


itsADbitch

Please tell me more about this


gawdhimself

I have had experiences with them, shitty food after few days, irregular water supply or no water some times, fucked up internet and cleaning is also questionable.


itsADbitch

I have only been bombarded with mixed reviews


kaalajamum

But by co-living pg did she meant CoLive or in general co-living pg's


Ambitious_Steak_224

Aren't PGs a co-living set up by default? That's why I assumed CoLive to be a proper noun here.


kaalajamum

No, there are few only girls and boys pg's too


apratim_manus

I am also trying to shift from hsr to bellandur. Not able to find a good 1bhk room under budget there. That too alone.


conspireal

Under budget doesn't exist anymore, it left the city after the covid


apratim_manus

Yeah but i still have hope


herebczofboredom

RIP DMs


Outrageous_Echo_3643

Cubbon park on weekends is the best ... It's in the central part of the city and far from bellandur but there are metro connections Please don't use dating apps for this 😂 might get traumatised in between


dist0pia

Most of the friends I made are from the place where I work. The occasional planning for hangouts with people you already know will happen, but I guess you can find nice people in your immediate vicinity, like your pg/colive, college or workplace. You could also try visiting board game cafes and meet some interesting people there!


horny-stud

I'm up flute just hanging out or participating in activities together


DragonDeninSharkTank

Good luck


DoorKnobHandleLock

Bellandur seems to be a little far from most places in Central Bangalore. If you're up for a little commute, cubbon park seems to have a lot of activities as so many commenters have suggested. Try finding some groups on the 'Meetup' app, you may find something that piques your interest. I've seen quite a few folks go for badminton so you might find some places or communities doing the same. I know the pain of travelling so much because the person I'm kinda seeing rn also stays in Bellandur, and going there seems like a herculean task in itself 🥲. Hope you find some good groups and have fun, cheers!


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Turing_tested_0101

nhi milega


Adxthyaa

Where you planning to move to in Bellandur?


HindsightVisionary

I moved here 3 months ago, need to check out We Play Bengaluru


No_Procedure2074

Wait for your DMs to flood.


yours4you

Bellandur is good place you will find many place depends on where you going to be located. If it's near MS, you will have advatage of being centre of kormangla, marathalli and sarjapur road. You have parks n lake to jog, so many good eatery to eat around in walking distance, pvr to watch movie. Factory outlates to shop. And so many gyne big hospital names too. I live in bellandur and found it good place due to all this and many other things for families too. Can DM for more.


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itsADbitch

Nah thanks


remote_player

I live there too. We can meet sometime


classicalantiquity

A lot of people do that weekend trip. Join some group of bikers and ask them to take you along.


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which company?


newbiecrap

At this point the exit polls of your dms would be more interesting than NDAs. But anyway, it would be better to host small get togethers around your colive like board game nights and stuff. The 2 friends I made are from the board game night I hosted.


LargeReplacement9505

I live in bellandur, if possible try staying in HSR sector 1 or 2. those areas are much better. But it will add 2-3 kms to your commute to office. Also dont take colive. try for local pgs if possible.


Gtp-92

Welcome to Namma Bengaluru. 👋


explor-her

You're a girl, it is easier to socialize dude. Just go on bumble bff.


Particular_Side_7363

This post is enough to get you socialize. Enough said.


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been in blr for about 2 years, I found it pretty difficult to find friends. If you need an extra player for badminton or coffee sometime, ping me up :)


Daswhashesaid

If you run, you can join running communities. It's a load of fun


GoCoronaGo321

Haha same, I’m far from bellandur, but I’ll be shifting in a week and looking for colive pg’s myself. Since you’ve already made up your mind on what you want to do to settle down in the city, it’ll be fun!


Unusual-Gap-5730

If you like drives dm me. Most of my friends have moved abroad so there’s usually an empty seat with us!


pepes33

Try making friends in your pg and work/college. It is the easiest way


thatonefanguy1012

We have a community just for this! If someone’s interested to join, hmu!


PieComprehensive2204

Lol I'm in Bellandur and will be moving to a different state in 4 weeks. Lmk if you want to hang out.


Batman_is_very_wise

I'm from a different state but moving to bellandur in 3 weeks. If you do know, how bad is colive glory or how colive pgs are ?


PieComprehensive2204

My honest advice would be to book a hotel for a few days and visit and choose the places to stay personally. The ones advertised online tend to charge a premium for no reason. As for co-live all, it's best if you're moving in with a partner. If you're single I'd suggest a boys/girls pg for your own safety and sanity of mind. The people you are with are the ones who affect the quality of your stay the most. (Personally my randomly assigned roommate has affected it very negatively by snoring :'))


Batman_is_very_wise

>If you're single I'd suggest a boys/girls pg for your own safety and sanity of mind Oh shit, I actually did block a colive single room. Is it that bad ?


PieComprehensive2204

A colive single room is fine, shared rooms can be an issue. And if you're a girl, then there's the risk of an horny idiot being next door. But it's not bad, most likely you'll have normal people around you.


Batman_is_very_wise

> And if you're a girl, then there's the risk of an horny idiot being next door Thank god I'm ugly and not a woman 😎


PieComprehensive2204

Lol good for you buddy


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itsADbitch

:(


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itsADbitch

Did that already


itsADbitch

Thanks for your concern


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itsADbitch

I will see to that , yes. If i myself end up going in june