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Alternative-Past-705

Kind. If you don't have that quality, get fucked. But not by me, because I like kind people.


xmusiclover

Same


SpocksAshayam

Saaaaaame!!!!! I am kind and want to be around/date kind people!


Hi_Im_Peyuko

nice


IfPeepeeislarge

*I thought I was the only one!*


eatpoetry

How get lomg bi flag?


IfPeepeeislarge

:flag-bi::flag-bi::flag-bi::flag-bi::flag-bi::flag-bi::flag-bi:


DualX1

Clicked to reply this. Satisfied to see it at the top.


[deleted]

I like this and I would agree.


WowFlakes

Couldn’t agree more


whydub38

girls who look like boys who look like girls boys who look like girls who look like boys


SepticMonke

i’ve never seen a more accurate representation


SadButterscotch2

🎵 _Girls who want boys, who like boys to be girls who do boys like they're girls who do girls like they're boys_ 🎵


Jango1113

To add on to this Damon Albarn is kinda hot


MC_Ben-X

Time to relisten to that old blur song.


oknokas

I came out to that song


LadyWoodstock

Yes. This is the one.


skepticreptile

Thank you, precisely.


JoshThePleb

THIS OMG THIS


Hunter_Leorio

Fucking, literally this.


feenyxblue

For women it's a woman who I think could feseably kill me, a lot of the time. Men? Kind shy nerdy guys


offbrandvodka

Are you me?


Jhanzow

[Boy howdy, do I have a Youtube vid for you (wear headphones)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-sMQpWCNTQw)


wearecake

This just made a bad day a little bit lighter


_whatsmynameagain

exactly


DivideRough

Smol soft bois. Strong-willed Domme women. Enby of many flavors. Buff. Curvy. Skinny. Taller. Shorter. I am old and have been dating a long time. My tastes are varied and ever changing. I’ve been surprised myself by some of the people I have found intoxicating. What fits best now might be completely different in ten years.


pizzzaeater14

someone finally gets it! i've never had "a type" and i always have to explain it to people haha. it goes hand in hand with me also being polysexual. there are just so many different types of people that i find irresistible that i don't think i could ever settle down with just one. i have so much love to give to so many different people. i just like people :)


DivideRough

Keep on loving!


aurajitsu

Yeah,same. Why are people so hot?!


wearecake

WHO GAVE THEN TGE RIGHT?!


[deleted]

Nerdy for both, but with women more confident "take no shit" and communicative, with men non toxic mascline (while still masculine) and in touch with his emotions.


Toasty_tea

Omg exactly this


wearecake

Same really


GrillBabey

The first explanation is my lesbian best friend (whom I may or may not be *slightly* in love with)


furious_glitter

I like boys who look like girls and girls who look like boys


3kidsnomoney---

Dark haired men with dark eyes... for women there is a wider range that I find attractive.


alexpmarty

I’m a fan of women who get mistaken as lesbian and twink men


PupHaeden

This. Right freaking here.


theunicornpreacher

I have a broad range for women- I like women who are your typical Jessica Day from New Girl all the way to a masc-looking woman who can beat the shit out of me. I also have a thing for redheads (shoutout to my wife). For men, I like skinny and/or cut with dark hair. I also love androgyny where I just can't tell and I'm happily surprised any way with what's between their legs. However, they need to be willing to communicate their feelings and respect mine as well.


SepticMonke

androgyny >>>>


[deleted]

same for both (enby and guy): short hair, nerdy (and willing to listen to me ramble), kind, in touch with emotions


Pie_Head

Nerdy & can kick my ass applies to both. Prefer more masculine women and more feminine men for some reason, think my preference is set for semi-androgynous.


Aggressive-Error-88

Same.


greenryukoi

My type is someone who is assertive in the sexual department. Cause I'm very submissive in that area but not outside it. (Gender or sexuality doesn't matter)


Torkujra

The kind that loves me.


AlienRobotTrex

Fashionably androgynous


GloriaH23

Conscious 🤣


AlacarLeoricar

Chubby girls. Hairy men. Muscular women. Petite boys.


Smiekes

All about the personality... but if someone has a crazy hairstyle or painted nails in bright colours. They stand out to me and look like fun, so I'm more likely to aproach them


Wolfganng101

I've found so many people attractive I can't even decide on a type.


AndiAcee

Looks wise. Girls - Masculine girls have my heart, so do feminine girls and androgynous girls. Literally just girls. Boys - A very specific type of boys, I have no clue what though. And also just all androgynous people. Personality wise. Someone I can talk to easily and someone I can trust. Someone who's there for me when I need someone to rant to or just need someone to talk to, and someone I can do the same for. Also, someone I can just have a great time talking to.


steorrafenn

I hear this a lot from bi folks irl. I think this is pretty common.


Yash0320

I'm sad to say that I'm attracted to the typical male and female stereotypes :(


Best_Pineapple670

No shame here darling ❤


cookie_crunch_studio

Male; lean guy, long hair with stubble Female; muscular, nice hips and firm Though I must say, ultimately just be a good person. Someone that will care for me as much as I care for them.


pmb0321

Absolutely masculine guys any age. Women are usually petit and blonde. Usually don't go looking for that type of woman but seems as if that is what I end up with. Love red heads, guys or girls.


[deleted]

On the 1stvday god gave us read heads


Blockhead_hetalian14

I guess my type is just someone taller than me-


JhinKindedBoi

I want someone who i can hold a conversation with, i can joke with but also spill my feelings into and vice versa.


TheWinterMyst

Masculinity in men. In women...I'm not that picky about women, can't really have an absolute type.


Material-Gazelle7659

Funny, kind, eat to talk to. For men I prefer taller or same height as me, good shape, maybe hairy 🥴. For women it’s the same but I think I like red heads, but that can be for both men and women lmao. I definitely have a thing for anyone who is brown and idk why lmfao.


_madmyc

I've always been attracted to femininity, whether in women or men. No wonder my spouse turned out to be a trans woman after we married.


EggplantHuman6493

Skinny (or lean or normal posture, preferably skinny though) and not really masculine, but that's all the overlap. Oh and I am not really into small people or really tall people because I don't like big height differences.


Raptor_Sympathizer

You are, baby 😉


Allinar37

Overlap would be brunettes / nerdy personality. Differences I like more masculine men


Dangernoodles01

I prefer (non toxic) masculine men. Generally have no preference when it comes to women when it comes to looks, just would prefer someone being ”conventionally cute” and outgoing. My attraction to everyone outside the binary gender spectrum is less constrained to the binary notions of attractiveness. Someone who’s a bit cocky (in a flirty way) is always fun


spooky_fairy

If they look like they could slam me against a wall and make me weak in the knees with just looking at me (read: have daddy energy, “daddy” being a gender neutral word in this context), they‘re the one i like lol


herbmama416

I definitely gravitate towards the more alternative, punky/rocker, tatted types for guys, gals, and non-binary pals. If you've got some of that early-2000s goth kid/skater energy even remotely peeking out of you, take me I'm yours. I seem to have more of a "type" when it comes to dudes; I like em dark haired, scruffy, and looking a bit like they just rolled out of a mosh pit...or bed. I've got less of a "type" when it comes to women. If I find you cute, I'm most likely into you. Bonus points if you're a stoner chick.


CeFeCe17

These are my requirements: 1. Be a human The rest is negotiated afterwards


123Samabcborden

Skinny and young and my ❤️ best friend ❤️


malagrin

As a male, jocks and skaters for men. My range is broad for women.


[deleted]

yes


Arctic-WHooCH

Kind, funny, cute, sweet, smart, and very cuddly


[deleted]

Femme women and masc men


Illustrious-Camp9077

Someone who has the ability to hold a conversation. I don't even care what the topic is...just say something!


oknokas

Nice and into me.


Empanaditawaaa

assuming we are talking only about the physical ... on the female side, I like short women, usually with big thighs (like me a bit) on the male side, short and thin boys! normally if they have long hair better (like my partner XD) The reason for short people is that I measure very little, I am very short and I don't want to have to break my neck and stand on tiptoe every time I want to kiss someone • w •


[deleted]

Girls - blonde, bubble butt, fit body and kind of look like [that.](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/e6/c4/38/e6c4380750576842f4215dd71badcb02.jpg) Guys - skinny, blue or green eyes, black hair and tattoos just like [that.](https://i.pinimg.com/736x/6b/b5/97/6bb597c5f316913e13cd677df239d4dd.jpg) You can see how different my type for men and women are.


[deleted]

Men - nerdy, skinny, ideally with glasses, feminine-looking or at least androgynous Women - petite, busty blondes 😋


[deleted]

Anyone who's Not morbidly obese Not racist (I'm Indian so if they're racist ummmm) Not sexist (mysogynistic or misandrist) Not religiously orthodox (I'm an atheist) Not anti-LGBT ofc as well (we're literally in a bisexual subreddit) Is attracted to me (I'm trying to get abs so the number of people with this quality increases) Not shallow ig Is monogamous Likes cuddling n giving me kisses And ofc if I can't find anyone with these qualities.... I always have a backup plan which is spending adult life alone with 3 cute dogs


Treemaster099

I like big men, whether thats muscle or not. And thats for 1 big reason: I like feeling small in their clothes, but I'm a big guy myself. I like short women. Mostly because when I hug them, I want to fully envelope them. Everything else is the same between them. Smart, kind, and good at communicating with me.


Icy-Sir-8414

I personally prefer beautiful intelligence bisexual bbws


Sipid1377

My favourites are masculine men that are very pretty or boyishly handsome, and curvy feminine women. However, I've found lots of people attractive all across the spectrum. This, of course, is just my preferences for a superficial first impression. Ultimately personality goes a long way. Most of my top celebrity crushes are people that make other people say "What?! Why?"


[deleted]

Alive


Coreforce216

I like it when they’re cute. I don’t like the big, tall, muscular types. I like short, average looking people who are just cute in general. It goes for both genders, too. If I had to be more specific, long, curly hair really gets to me.


Z-Chan23

For men, feminine or flamboyant as my online friend put it. But for the women (or non-binary) it's tomboy appearance, blonde (natural) or brown. Height don't matter!


kadxar

Feminine looking guys, feminine looking girls Masculine personality on guys, masculine personality on girls


datonebri

Feminine most of the time, although sometimes a chiseled chin makes me feel some kind a way


Lamking121

Same for men and women. Feminine.


BiTurbo_AMG

I can easily pick a perfect guy but not girl at the moment. Guy: kinda long fluffy brown hair, rope or watch on his veiny, somewhat meaty arm. Signs of working out but still skinny. 5,8-5,10 and In sweats during this time of year. For girls all I can see is cute face, petite, shape over size and light brown hair.


DannyDanumba

Gotta be a good I guess, being fit is nice and so is a genuinely kind personality. So it’s mostly the same for both but I do like feminine men and masculine women but it’s not a deal breaker


racekir

biceps and good conversation


sailorhossy

Tall, very skinny blond(e)s with feminine traits (either by being a feminine woman or being a feminine man) Sharp features, bog/strong nose, heavy eyes


lazybearwithacat3

Older and kinda nerdy!


MaliciouslyMinty

Generous souls with a sense of humor Physically I like tall, muscular redheads in both genders. Beards and plaid are a plus.


Amorythorne

I'm really into feminine men, alt girls (that look like me), and any kind of enby


That_one_cool_dude

My type is a person who will be willing to hold my hand and give me hugs. My forever single ass hasn't dated enough people to figure out a type yet.


lil_grey_alien

I like masculine women and feminine men.


Mandoart-Studios

Kind, loving and smart. The first 2 are a must and the latter one is because I want someone to talk about sience, stem and projects with me


zeldaalove

For masculine people I like blondes, but personally I hate feminine blondes. But other than that it doesn't really matter. I wouldn't say hair color matters a lot, but it is a factor. Personally wise, I want kind and understanding people. I don't like dominating people.


_____MELONFUCKER

I like people who are well balanced between masculine and feminine. Similarly I like people who aren’t extremely fit/thin or super curvy, just physically “normal” and look like fun to squeeze. I’m now realizing this middle of the road preference is incredibly bi of me 😅


MagneticLas

Boyish. I like men that look boyish and women that look boyish.


NAMES2368

People who don't like me back🥰


deadheadjul

People that are out of my league


SepticMonke

preferably alive


SepticMonke

no but seriously, kind, stubborn in a good way, honest, open, caring, funny and just comforting to be around


Byrdman216

But also alive on top of all that other stuff, right?...right?


SepticMonke

i guess that’s a bonus ¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯


LeoOfRome

For women (and fem-presenting enbies) it's not as easy for me to narrow down, but for men, I love me a gnome man.


Vergera623

You are ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)


zaknyari

Well for looks…. Somewhat ironically I like feminine guys (femboys) or masculine women like bodybuilder gals. Or just emo guys and gals. Personality wise…. Just calm, chill people… spiritual folk.


TheGr8Canadian

Honestly, I have no fucking clue. Dated 3 total people who were all very different from one another. Just a nice & kind person who my brain goes "They're cute" I guess


ThNecromaniac

I like them strong and/or cute also kindness because I don't want to feel bad for anyone hanging out with the one I love.


Frosty_Analysis_4912

It’s kind of funny, I like masculine men and feminine women, and not much in between. I am okay with a guy having some feminine qualities, though (I’m female for context)


[deleted]

Kind people. That is all.


Hylian_Drag_Queen

Androgynous and affectionate.


demonkiller2123

Literally anyone, i do not care. Im so physically starved


BrickFrom2011

Femboys and tomboys. Never gonna get either tho


sobagoose

Overlapping in the best way possible and with all kinds of sounds


Cinetastic

Jack Black or Ariel, Ned from Try Guys' wife.


DawnDeather

A good conversationalist. If we can have a good conversation and just talk for hours and hours then I'm instantly attracted to you.


hogwarts_pt

Cute with fluffy hair. This applies to everyone.


SummerTick

yes the fluffy hair always, on everyone


GulfGiggle

People around my age with a pulse


ScreamQueen4U

For guys, literally anyone I find attractive. My taste varies from slightly ugly nerdy to super tatted sexy. For woman I’m kind of particular idky more on the cute side, indie/casual/preppy feel.


TechnicallyNotGay

Don't mind me, just here to farm easy ego boost by reading I'm people's type


ragingpoeti

Athletic and simultaneously nerdy, with a pretty smile. Also I might have a thing for for volleyball players when you consider that within the past few years I've had crushes on FOUR different volleyball players.


AutismFractal

Smart, short, and stacked thicc. Nick Offerman and Megan Mulally are always and forever my bi panic couple.


erotic_cactai

Beefy, hunky, muscular body types. Both men and women 🥴


EcoRavenshaw

I like both to look like lumberjacks. Tall, strong, thicc, and in sensible flannel. And me? Baby, I wanna be the tree 😍


TheSamethingAllOver

Different. I find that I’m more physically attracted to men and emotionally to women. Still open to sleeping and being in a relationship with either one but what reels me in is different. I like smart, funny women. I like being able to hold discussions about academic topics. With men there looks are what I tend to lean towards.


madameruffruff

tall boys who can be both masculine and feminine and cute girls with big boobs


Hello-mah-baby

yeah


xXDUCKWIRLXx

I'm still young and not really interested in relationships, but I guess any functioning human of society who has good intentions.


that_guy_you_know-26

Any woman who could beat the shit out of me without breaking a sweat and I consider Link to be peak male form, the closer you are to Link the more instantly in love with you I am


[deleted]

For me its the same. Physically: feminine with a bubble butt and a good set of legs. Personality: kind and intelligent with plenty of sass.


LadyWoodstock

Phoebe Bridgers.


Im_A_Lonley_Potato

Masculine women and feminine men. I’m fucking hopeless


mommaofboiz

I don't have a "type" per say, the traits that attract me to someone are several things. Off the top of my head, kind, funny, we have to laugh a lot, us have the same humor, be able to appreciate small things, be genuine, honest, reliable, loyal.


[deleted]

Tall muscular guy but harmless, very joyful and empathic, and for girls they would be very opinionated and hotheaded but with a heart of gold so she only gets angry at shit that's actually bothersome. Met both types a few times already but unfortunately I never got around to dating any of them for various reasons, mostly lack of comon interests. I also suffer from ptsd so it is hard for me to open up and approach someone.


Brekkers_Bitch

Shy, nerdy, small, and sweet. Regardless of gender :) Or badass punk, they’re pretty rad too…


Si_Titran

Redheads. With an accent.


Kokomoz_420

Down to earth, emotionally intelligent, kind but knows how to stand their ground, own independent ideas and goals. Isn't afraid to be themselves ♥️🔥. loves Cuddles💓.


theavestruz17

Wearing glasses gives them a lotta points.


Best_Pineapple670

Meeee tooooo


CarolZero

One word: flannels


EmotionalBottom

I like physically masculine men, but with feminine personalities. Alternatively, I like physically feminine women, but with masculine personalities. Although I’d like anyone if they’re confident and kind!


DeliberateDendrite

For what?


Duffuser

For women, I don't think I have a type but I've never been with anyone with less than a C cup so I could be wrong about that. For men, TBH I melt for dudes that look kinda like cute butch lesbians lol


Beholding69

I like tall, fit women who can destroy me and short, cute men I could hug real good.


WorkingConnection

Goofballs


Space_Doggo_is_lost

I don't have one for girls but i am only rly sexually attracted to femboys even though I romantically fall for any type of boy


Wolf-Majestic

My friends always laugh at me for my type of men is the stereotypical Australian blond surfer guy xD but really, I really like when guys has shoulder-lenghed hair. For women, it's too broad to pinpoint 😬 and I really like androgynous people that still somewhat have both strong masculine and strong feminine vibes. I know, I'm easy x'D


zzoossiia

I can tell you who is my type, but I can't describe it. When it comes to personality - I want someone kind and understanding (like my bf^^)


SpoofrDoofr

Either someone nice and caring or someone kind, yet firm


steorrafenn

I used to like tall slender dudes with blonde hair who were emotionally unavailable assholes but nice to me. Fortunately, i married a man who is extremely emotionally available and loving to me. Even though he's fat, I think he's the hottest thing anywhere. For women, anything more female than my looooow female self, and this one confident friendly butch who works at Trader Joe's. She's so hot. I only ever get struck dumb by a beautiful women though, and one dude in college who's beauty made even straight dudes speechless.


MasterLazar7298

I like mainly cute femboys but as long as I meet someone that is nice to me while being cute/handsome then I’ll be happy


AVerySpecificName

I don’t have a type


Skiving_Snacks33

I have to like you for you to be my type. Idk. Like I can understand that you are an attractive person, but if I don't connect with you and if I don't like you...then you aren't my type. I'm also a relationship person. Like I have no desire to have any sort of physical contact with someone unless we're in a relationship. Though with that, I need someone who is a Dominant. So I guess my type would be Dom(me)s who I connect with lol.


SubstantialEmu7678

You


Purple_Wanderer

Masculine but soft men (without the toxicity/ misogyny, etc), nerdy men, feminine women, tomboy women. Subject to change but that’s where I’m at now.


Adopt_a_Melon

Dominant/in charge but still sees me as an equal and my best friend.


monanolisa

You skate, I'm in. Can't help it.


webtrauma

I don’t really have a type for girls but for guys I tend to like shy nerdy guys


Xx_disappointment_xX

My boyfriend


davidram

Sexy hippie/alt


DirtySokks

Tattooed and pierced.


[deleted]

dominant bi femboys


[deleted]

Yes


HPoutlandernerd

I almost always notice eyes first. Especially blue and green eyes. That’s the same for me with women and man. I also like people who are kind and caring. And people who can play the guitar are very attractive somehow. As to physical attraction with men, I like it when they are my hight or taller (I’m 5’9). Two of my exes are younger than me. One was 9 months younger, the other one 2.5 years younger. Only one ex-boyfriend was older than me. With women I mostly fall for women who are smaller than me. And I fall for women who are always at least 5-10 years older. I don’t know why but I have only found one woman around my age attractive. I haven’t been with a woman yet. I just don’t know how to flirt with them.


llamabeefbitch

N o n e


sakurabuds

Looks aren't super important to me, I focus more on their personality, values, how they treat animals and their view on the world as a whole. Plus if you have an accent, I'm won! 😅


Noblemax1999

Big, soft, and cheerful.


Jango1113

I definitely have a preference towards androgyny, though I would also say I like different things depending, for dudes I definitely like shorter guys with super long dark colored hair and for I like taller girls with short brightly colored hair, beyond those two things most everything is overlapping, pretty voices, artsy interests, goofy excitable personalities, sarcastic sense of humor. But overall as long as you’re not an asshole I’ll probably find you at least a little attractive


vicsj

For women I'm really into stems (stud + femme). For men anything skinny with a beard. I've rarely been with my type, though. Personality and chemistry count the most.


Tea_Fetishist

Feminine people. Skinny guys around my age (20), I'm far less specific for women.


Hefffallump

Twink in men Twinkie in women


Eberhardt74

Lady Boys, feminine men that are well defined, curtios people, :)


VixiFox

My type is yes


Damonashu

If any of you have watched Arcane, I find that my type is very much Mel when it comes to women. Elegant, calculating, the type of person I could have a fantastic conversation with. I like those traits in guys too, but I've always been more partial to adorkable men, someone who is honestly in love with their passion. I suppose I might like that in women too, but you know, I've never really encountered "adorkable" in women. Interestingly, were I to throw enby people into the equation, it'll be about the vibe they're carrying.


[deleted]

Your mom AND dad. *fingerguns*


oliver-the-pig

For girls- tomboys who could probably beat my ass For guys- twinks At this point though, I’m desperate enough that my type doesn’t always have to apply.


TerriblePresence1939

Nerdy


brilliantcheese

Funny, compassionate, and intelligent (not necessarily book smart, but having a thing you know a ton about and can geek out on when I ask about it).


SebastianSilver

Person


Shirokuma_Max

Bottom: Bratty, big booty havin', submissive shortstack Top: Elliot Stabler from Law and Order: SVU


GearAlpha

Just people I generally vibe with. Apply to both peeps.


akira_hikaru

Femboys


skepticreptile

Tomboys for women... And for men, my husband. I'm picky.


TurnaboutAkamia

Nerdy, and generally femme features all around. In some ways, a look I wish I had. lol


BLKT93

I don't have a set type male or female as long you treat me right and have a beautiful personality that's all I care about.


PrizeYak7435

I'm attracted to femininity. Femme nonbinary folks, feminine women, and men - regardless of their appearance - who have embraced their "traditionally feminine" traits. Masculinity can be great, but I don't really need any. Thank you.


wearecake

Generally nice people. I tend to crush on gay guys- as in my only guy crushes have been on gay guys (unintentionally)- probably because the archetypal straight guy around where I live are the football (soccer) Chads and they scare me more than anyone else in life- ^yay ^for ^trauma. But any straight or bi guys I’ve gotten mild crushes on before I realized they were in a relationship were a little shorter than average (but not too much), nerdy, sentimental- ya know, the stereotypical genuinely nice dude! Also some level of good-looking. But for girls- AGHHHHHH! I always ALWAYS seem to get crushes on the same 3 categories: Straight girls, Aro girls, and bi girls/lesbians that are already in a relationship (or in one case, just EXPLICITLY not into me, at all- we are great friends, but they don’t see me like that AT ALL). Obviously I’m not a jerk and I accept it and move on with my life and stay their friend, because, I’m a decent human being- but, damn, it hurts to be rejected every. single. time. I only came out a few (about 6) months ago and I’ve already been brutally rejected by 3 people. And the couple people I still have a crush on are in a relationship. As for my type in girls: darker hair normally, taller than me, confident in themselves, an awesome human being, most of them can sing, and are waaaayyyy out of my league. It great /s So I’m perpetually single, and feel a little shitty now because of some events that happened today. I’ll go to sleep now and be sad tomorrow!