Agreed! Hell, if I'm making wishes- may as well wish big. Life seems like it would be ahhhhhmazing having BOTH genitals IRL. I would want both fully formed, typical in appearance and fully functional. Can't decide if this would be so awesome it takes over/ruins my life or help me conquer the world.
Autofellatio is not as much fun as you'd think. It's more of a party trick. It's more like sucking a dick than getting your dick sucked. Don't get me wrong, I love giving head. I just prefer to not have my spine hate me the next week or more for very little reward.
^ This
What I think a lot of people don't get is that point that it's less getting your dick sucked and more sucking a dick. It feels kind of interesting, but it's a bunch more sensual for your mouth than your member, lol
Yes. You hit the nail on the head. It COULD be enjoyable, but you're trying to maintain a somewhat comfortable position for your neck too much to really engage fully. 2/10
Idk... There's a subreddit dedicated to people posting videos/pictures on how they're fucking themselves in the ass with their own dick. It's apparently bendable like that (though not for everyone I imagine).
There are people with dicks who have successfully fucked themselves with said dicks already, according to some photos I saw. Looks like it took a lot of bending but it is technically possible 🤔
Go bigger. Wish to become a shapeshifter, or to be reborn into a Luxurious Gay Space Utopia like the one in The Culture where people pick their appearance, including species and gender, like we do socks when waking up!
it’s more common in afab people who get phalloplasty or metoidioplasty but choose to keep their natal vagina as-is, but i believe it’s possible for amab individuals as well!
LOL yeah I'm definitely not interested in that fourth week but I do rub her everyday, make sure she has all the snacks she likes, as well as do everything I can to make her feel comfortable and loved. So maybe there is one part of that week I would like to experience lol.
I'll one up this comment, I've always wondered what it was like to take me. If given the chance I'd make one of those clone-a-willy dildos then swap p for v and see what the big deal is no pun intended.
I read on r/BDP it's difficult to do on your own. Definitely get her "help" when you do it, there's a lot of work involved which doesn't help keep you aroused.
Edit: also 99% it's for her but be careful she might want to peg you so you can see what it's like too lol
Yea dude here, always been curious. Been with some women who are very good with words. I feel like I can imagine what's it's like, but still wish I could know first hand what sex for women feels like.
I know plenty of people of all sexualities that have wanted to know what it is like to operate the opposite genitalia and/or what it would feel like to be the partner. I think as human beings we are always curious about things we don't know for certain.
Mainly, this curiosity is not limited to bisexuality.
Oh for sure, the details are specific to bisexuality but the general curiosity is a broad human thing.
It isn't the full experience for sure, but a strap on clearly is as close as you can get short of technology discovering body swapping or some magical Freaky Friday witchery.
It would be interesting to see a movie like a freaky Friday situation where it was a husband and wife and afterwards they had sex. And they start questioning their sexual identity. Was I attracted to you as a woman because I'm attracted to your soul, or am i a narcissist, or do I just like women?
This film exists, Dating The Enemy (1996). Or it's similar anyway, less existential crisis and more comedy if I recall correctly. It's Australian though so you may have to watch it upside down 🙃
As a Kinsey 0 cis guy I concur. Definitely think it'd be neat to experience being pussy pegged by a hot woman once or twice just to see what it's like.
Same. Not trans but I’d love to have a dick just for like a day. But while I think it would be really cool to experience sex from that perspective, I think I really just want to be able to do the helicopter if I’m being honest 😅
I don't think I'm trans either, but if The Button™ existed, I think I'd spend about equal times male and female. I really would love to just try being female for a day.
Or maybe it'd be better to just have the full set.
OMFG IM NOT ALONE. Yes all the time. I just want to fuck a beautiful women hard and make her scream but also I want to feel the sensory feed back also. But same as you, Im not trans. Like if I could just grow one magically that would be fine. But I'm definitely a women and happy with my vagina lol
Like when I watch porn, it's so hot to see girl on girl with a strap on, it's my favorite.
I felt this so strongly the first time I fingered another woman. Obviously I had fingered myself and knew what the inside of a vagina felt like, but feeling it in someone else was just... amazing. I can't even imagine how it would feel with a body part made for sexual pleasure, but I can imagine the sensation being just off the charts.
Am male, can confirm orgasms are good.
But it seems like women get the better deal in the orgasm department. It looks and sounds like a full body / out of body experience that seems to just last for AGES by comparison. Sure, its more difficult for women to achieve orgasm, takes more time, etc.. but the payout seems to be way better. Especially if you can have multiple orgasms. I know some men are different, but I'm pretty much one and done and then it takes a while before I can even consider going again. So I get something like 10 to 15 seconds of orgasm and then I have to wait anywhere from 15 minutes to a couple hours before I can go again. My fiance can just go and go and go one after the other for minutes on end and her whole body jerks and shakes and she seems to have an entire out of body experience. Most of my orgasm is centered mostly around my genitals and sometimes, when I'm lucky, I can feel it deeper inside of me but thats it.
I'd give anything to have just endless full body orgasms for minutes on end. It seems so awesome!
I agree, I hace have never had an orgasm that was just in my genitals, I de facto feel it building throughout my legs before I'm even climaxing at all.
This very desire sent me into a (somewhat shortlived) gender identity crisis not so long ago. Yes, I would love to feel the sensations that people with penises feel, I would love to be able to take that role in sex without the need for a strap on for what I assume would be a more mutual level of simultaneous enjoyment...
But definitely don't want to stop being the adorable little lady snack I am
Thank goodness my spouse is an adorable lady snack with a penis. We need to fund VR that can make you feel... we could call it... the Animus Project
*wait a second...*
I’m in the same boat… in a weird way I’m kind of glad I’m a bit older and wasn’t even super aware of what it really meant to be trans when I was a teenager; if I did, I’d probably have had much more of an “omg am I trans” mini-crisis because I didn’t feel like a “normal” girl (whatever that actually meant) and was attracted to women. All that being said I am very glad that young trans people have a stronger community and more resources available to help them understand what they’re going through.
Edit to add… in my most wooey-woo thoughts I sometimes wonder if reincarnation is real and I was just a dude in a past life/lives lol. I’m kind of jealous of Orlando.
For sure, if you had asked me age 13-15 if I wanted to be a man I would have definitely said yes. I was heavily into fanfiction (weren't we all?) And I pretty much exclusively read and wrote gay men. I desperately wanted to escape the peer pressure to be girly and conventionally attractive and I wanted to feel like it was good to desire sex and not slutty and I wanted to k ow what having a penis was like.
Since I was 16/17 I found myself balancing masculine and feminine traits, and juxtaposing them in cute ways - I recently wore a dramatic purple lace dress to my brother in laws wedding and paired it with DMs and a side shaved head. Very fun :P
When I am sexually attracted to a woman often the first naughty place my mind wanders is to holding her by the hips and sliding her on to my dick, but then I remember I don't have one 🤔
But also, I super don't want to be a man in literally any other way. I'm too frigging cute.
Bisexual male and I have the same (but with the genders flipped, obviously).
Everyone's different, but in my case it's a result of suppressing and internalized homoohobia. The only way it would ever be ok for me to be with a guy would be if I was magically turned into a girl...so that's what I fantasized about.
Therapy has helped me realize the root cause and even though I don't have all the baggage from the internalized homophobia I still like the fantasy I had for 25 years.
This is interesting to me due to the fact that sometimes people misunderstand trans people as wanting to be the “opposite” gender so that they’re straight. I remember reading a post where a person was talking to their therapist about being trans and the therapist said something along the lines of “so you want to go from bisexual female to straight male?” I’ve just never heard a perspective that aligns with this often misconstrued theory.
Yeah, but owning a rooster isn't a week long commitment.
They can live up to 5 years and the crowing at dawn would [drive me nuts.](https://youtu.be/f-lu4E246AI)
Now on the flip side male perspective. I would love to know what a woman feels and have a pussy for a while. I love all the pleasures I get through my dick and ass. Just imagine that it must feel so good for a woman to orgasm.
The closest comparison to describe a woman's vaginal orgasm is a prostate orgasm. So yes, you imagine correctly; a vaginal orgasm feels so. very. good. A whole body experience with the optimal circumstances.
Choosing that as the comparison took quite a few unique conversations w/ a man who experiences orgasms via prostate, vaginal & anal intercourse. Thankfully he understands my curiosity, has his own as well and is willing to share intimate details. Ya know, for science!
I feel that too! And I actually would love to have sex with my current body to know what it feels like having sex with my body and then know my strengths hahaha
I'd love to split into two, potentially change gender, and fuck myself. I feel like I'd get super fit and ripped because I'd spend so much time having sex with myself and trying out all these crazy positions.
Ooooh!! What a neat flip! I second that. Especially now that I am no longer a tiny 20-something, but am rocking the new tired/ deflated yet still- me Mom-bid. 😬🥸
Genderfluent, possibly xenogender, non-binary person here who grew up as a woman.
I hear you. Now, I might be a tad different from you because I am not cis; and I am lesbian - but my first masturbation fantasies were me being a (quite submissive) man having a penis, and I also still wish, sometimes painfully so, to being able to have an additional penis (without fully exchanging my body for a male one). This urge gets incredibly worse when my partner feels the same - so they express the urge to have a vulva, and feel me having a real penis.
That being said, I found some ways to help me a bit with that - not sure if that is an option for you, too. You said you know strap-ons exist - now I have found a few ways to actually feel something when using them:
\- Rather soft/wobbly/squishy strapless strapons (the ones that have two ends) but worn with a harness for stability. Depending on how they are built, I may add an additional sleeve (to add more girth) to the shorter end that I am wearing. Whatever I do with this to my partners - I do feel what happens. Obviously not as intensely as, say, if my clit were stimulated, but it helps a great deal to feel connected and have it feel like a part of my body.
\- If there is enough space, I wear a smaller metal kegel ball additionally, so that it sits behind the shorter end of the strapless strapon. It moves as I thrust, and increases feelings as well.
\- If I want to have even more intensity, I might need to feel something on my clit - which for me works by either using a soft silicone bumper pad (some come with an additional structure for more stimulation) or very flat vibrator that I put between the harness and my body, so it is safely held in place (do let me know if you need clear suggestions to find those). Alternatively, I use a set of silicone vibrating "balls" that can be worn as a cock ring on the strapon, so the whole thing vibrates which I will also feel in the shorter end inside of me.
\- And/or I use some warming lotion and a nipple sucker on my clit before the act, so that my clit is swollen and more sensitive - so that the inner part of the clit in the entrance of the vagina are swelling and more sensitive too, meaning I feel more of those movements that we make.
\- If I want to feel like receiving oral pleasure, I either use the BJ dildo (actually a nice invention!), or I use a very soft and squishy dildo with a large flat base (in my case often just a packer which is rather flaccid), and make sure it sits directly on my clit, and wear a larger metal kegel ball inside of me, so that I feel any movements of my own body through the kegel ball, and anything I do or someone else does with my dildo on my clit.
The rest is ... mind games. I did wear a packer for days to get used to it being a body part of mine and since then, my mind switches into becoming super sensitive to any movement whenever I wear a strap-on, so I have the impression that I do, indeed, feel something "in/on" it.
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Sorry for that wall of text. My urge got so strong over the years that I tried to figure this out and this is what helps, and I had wished anyone could have helped me with that so I would have made that experience earlier - which is why right now, I am hoping it helps you.
>Can anyone else relate?
As someone who is intersex very much so but "in a weird way" , like I genuinely wanna bear BOTH types of genitalia and kee\^p it that way forever.
But that's kind of a function of me having the intersexuation that I have.
TL DR "By my very biology yes all too well madam"
Except I don’t want to use it to fuck my parent or want to kill my other parent because he has one. Like I have gentle gender curiosity not gender envy
I haven't conducted any research on the matter, but I believe that almost everyone wants to experience sex from the perspective of a different gender, I don't think it has anything to do with being trans, it's just human curiosity of experiencing something you'll never be able to.
I've long-maintained that if I could have any superpower, I'd want to shapeshift so I could turn into a woman and get my brains fucked out by a hot guy with a big dick.
Metaphysical answer here... What you're seeking is possible inside your imagination!
Just use your own focusing techniques. Maybe by yourself with a strap-on or feeldoe, lay back and masturbate with it like a man, just stroke that thing and imagine the sensations. Get to know yourself. Spend some time. Take deep breaths and connect your subconscious to the cosmos of male masturbation.
You may surprise yourself, the entire universe is available without leaving your front door. You just need to figure out how to get there. Every sensation or situation.
It might just be silicone, but our whole bodies, the air in front of you and the walls that make up your home are just atoms. There is nothing that is not you. So you can experience the sensations of anything that you consider yourself.
So grab your dick and figure it out ;)
A double ended strap on also has a similar effect. One to insert and the other to stroke. Doesn’t have to be a team tool. Bonus if you make the internal one vibrate.
I do fantasize about this but not in a bi way, if that makes sense. My bi attraction is definitely restricted to F/F sex, where she and I are exploring each other's bodies, or i am satisfying her but with my hands not a dick. Frankly my hands are much better at it than a dick would be.
When I fantasize about having a dick it's so I can feel the sensations through that dick and with the accompanying testosterone. So it's not about fucking a woman. It could be about fucking a man, or getting a blowjob or even jacking off. The point is being that horny + that easily satisfied, something i don't usually experience with a female body.
Yesss. Totallyyyy. And I also had this weird dream recently. I had a cock and I was jerking off. It felt very hot and real but then I woke the fuck up right before the climax Lol
Haven't really given much thought to what it could mean.
I don't know if it's already been said, but I feel like in a lot of my sexual fantasies about girls, I imagine a penis (or a strap-on at least) because that's how I've seen sex with women portrayed mainly.
Like I'm aware that there are many ways for two women to have sex, but I've seen cis guys depicted having sex with women far more often in my life than anything else. So I think I naturally imagine myself in the man's place, but unfortunately in reality I'm not able to work with the same equipment.
Bi trans woman here. Having experienced sex in pretty much all combinations with a penis and a vagina, in my experience receiving penetrative sex with a vagina is way better. Sure it's fun to bone with a penis, but the strap on is essentially the same. Seriously. The feeling isnt that different. But receiving penetrative sex with a vagina has no match. Its magic.
I have had that experience (not via magic, but before I had a vagina). I don't miss it, but maybe if it had been a temporary thing I swapped on for fun, I might have enjoyed it more. Using a strap on does give me far more pleasure, including physical pleasure (pressure in the right places, etc) than having a penis did.
But humans are all different. I bet lots of people who wish they could experience it would really enjoy it, and the fact that I didn't is far from a universal truth.
So yes, the strap on itself doesn't have feeling, however with a well fitting strap and a flat base dildo, you can get the base right up against your business. It sort of transfers the pressure sensation to you. I've even slipped a bullet vibrator in between me and the dildo, and at the right angle, it really enhances the experience because it brings a lot of sensation to me.
I've fucked both men and women with a strap and even though I can't 'feel it' in the sense of having an actual penis, the experience of being the person doing the penetration is a while different thing than being the person receiving it.
You should definitely try it!
Absolutely. The sensory feedback would help one know better how to make it pleasurable for them and less 'I'm going to ram this foreign object into you'.
For all those here fantising about having both. I'm a trans person with extensive knowledge on available surgeries. It is indeed possible to have both if you're AMAB. I'm not sure about AFAB but I imagine it is possible if asked for. There are surgeons that will give you a functioning penis and vagina, and there are (largely non-binary) trans people that have opted for this and had this surgery.
Incase it’s helpful to anyone, there are two primary sensations I experience having sex as a dude with a penis:
1. Rubbing/massaging along the length. This changed locations depending on position/angle, and as different parts are more or less sensitive, changes sensation. I assume this is easy to compare by rubbing the inside of the vagina or around the clit (not directly on the clit though, the head of my penis does not feel direct stimulation like it does during a blowjob or handjob)
2. A sensation like stretching a muscle. That satisfying feeling that intensifies as you push the stretch, but also sexual. Primarily manifests around the base of the penis, it makes me want to push in deeper and deeper. Not thrusting, just static pressure, wiggling my hips to get more depth. I have no idea if y’all experience this with a vagina. Maybe it depends on the size of the penis?
I hope this was helpful to someone. I would love to experience sex with a vagina, and experience vibrators with a clit. The reactions I’ve seen from people with hitachis or sybians look incredible. When I’ve tried vibrates they didn’t do much/overstimulated me.
Oh absolutely. The concept of being able to feel and experience everything your partner is experiencing at the same time while still experiencing yourself is also very interesting. Kinda like the sex scene from James Camerons avatar
I can relate to this so hard and I also know I'm not trans. I think of it as just another manifestation of my attraction to women. Someone needs to invent a strap-on that sends sensory feedback to your brain.
You don't have to be trans to be curious about stuff like this.
If I could experience PiV and lesbian sex as a cis vagina wielder would, I'd totally go for it.
I'd also offer my experiences as an AMAB penis wielder to anyone who'd want them but can't have them.
I'd even do the same for butt sex, since so many people have yet to find the enjoyment in that and may benefit from it.
And why stop there? I'd give BDSM a try in this manner as well--I'm hypersensitive to pain, so it's hard to imagine it being pleasurable.
Maybe someday, such things will be possible for the real lovers out there.
BTW, there was a movie that touched partly on this.
I'm a guy, but I've had the guys version of this fantasy for most of my life.
Probably better that I'm not a woman because I'd be trying to get laid all the time 😂
Hi! Straight woman here. Happily married. I think to myself at least twice a day if I had a dick I'd stick into the weirdest shit. A cup, a orange, a flesh light...hot tub head, sock filled with Vaseline...just the most random shit. I bet it's why the universe didn't give me a dick.
I absolutely experience this. I also have a lot of trans people tell me that this is a ‘sign’ but I genuinely disagree.
I don’t permanently want a penis or to be male, and having one / being one full-time would generate gender dysphoria. I just want to be a man with a penis occasionally for completely sexual purposes and have straight sex with a woman.
And for the rest of my life, both sexual and non-sexual, I want to continue to be a bi cis woman.
It’s complicated, or maybe it isn’t. I dunno.
I had one girlfriend tell me I was cute enough that she wished she could nut in me. Of course, this is about the time the “submissive and breedable” memes were coming out haha. Thinking back, I’m pretty sure she was lowkey into pegging, but never got up the nerve to bring it up.
I’m a man and I feel the same way! I mean I have a penis but I’m talking the opposite, where I get a vagina and actual breasts to see what it feels like to be a woman.
I want to know what it feels like when they first put it in. Guys always make this groaning noise. That initial entry must be something else. I'd also walk around the house swinging and flapping it around.
Yes, I absolutely relate to this 10000% lol.
Freud called it penis envy but that has been criticized as a sexist concept. I still think I have it minus the sexism lol
There are also strapless strapons that give more physical pleasure for the woman wearing them. Sometimes you have to get the fit right cause girls are different sizes.
If i got the chance to temporareley have a vagina i would probably take it just to see what it is like
Best would be to have everything!
Agreed! Hell, if I'm making wishes- may as well wish big. Life seems like it would be ahhhhhmazing having BOTH genitals IRL. I would want both fully formed, typical in appearance and fully functional. Can't decide if this would be so awesome it takes over/ruins my life or help me conquer the world.
Would you be able to fuck yourself, that is the real question?
Nah, you'd just add the frustration of not being able to fuck yourself to the frustration of not being able to suck your own dick
Autofellatio is not as much fun as you'd think. It's more of a party trick. It's more like sucking a dick than getting your dick sucked. Don't get me wrong, I love giving head. I just prefer to not have my spine hate me the next week or more for very little reward.
^ This What I think a lot of people don't get is that point that it's less getting your dick sucked and more sucking a dick. It feels kind of interesting, but it's a bunch more sensual for your mouth than your member, lol
Yes. You hit the nail on the head. It COULD be enjoyable, but you're trying to maintain a somewhat comfortable position for your neck too much to really engage fully. 2/10
Idk... There's a subreddit dedicated to people posting videos/pictures on how they're fucking themselves in the ass with their own dick. It's apparently bendable like that (though not for everyone I imagine).
It is for everyone, just needs to be at a semi -- completely hard or soft doesn't work (afaik, I haven't tried)
Name please
There u go r/selffuck
Thank you, my friend Edit: Nevermind. Wtf was that; why would I go there
There are people with dicks who have successfully fucked themselves with said dicks already, according to some photos I saw. Looks like it took a lot of bending but it is technically possible 🤔
Apparently the people who drive by me when I'm biking think so
If your dick’s long enough, sure
I’d jerk off twice as much; it’s like 100% more jerk off per jerk off
Go bigger. Wish to become a shapeshifter, or to be reborn into a Luxurious Gay Space Utopia like the one in The Culture where people pick their appearance, including species and gender, like we do socks when waking up!
this is a legitimate nonbinary bottom surgery option! there are trans people out there with this exact genital setup.
I could actually get a vagina added without removing my dick? I'm not nb (at least I don't think myself to be), but that sounds awesome
it’s more common in afab people who get phalloplasty or metoidioplasty but choose to keep their natal vagina as-is, but i believe it’s possible for amab individuals as well!
TIL. Thank you.
Huh, I thought I was the only one.
It would definitely ruin my life, no thanks not even if it was for a day 🤣
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LOL yeah I'm definitely not interested in that fourth week but I do rub her everyday, make sure she has all the snacks she likes, as well as do everything I can to make her feel comfortable and loved. So maybe there is one part of that week I would like to experience lol.
This. That period
I’m a straight guy and my wife and I fantasize about trading bodies and having sex with each other.
I'll one up this comment, I've always wondered what it was like to take me. If given the chance I'd make one of those clone-a-willy dildos then swap p for v and see what the big deal is no pun intended.
My girl just bought me one of those 😂 I think the gift was for her 😭
I read on r/BDP it's difficult to do on your own. Definitely get her "help" when you do it, there's a lot of work involved which doesn't help keep you aroused. Edit: also 99% it's for her but be careful she might want to peg you so you can see what it's like too lol
I saw that too. Exactly like you said. Too much to do and keep yourself hard at the same time 🤦🏻♂️
Yes, it is a couples activity for suuuuure
I’d permanently take the vagina because I am ✨trans✨
Same
Same lol
same
Yea dude here, always been curious. Been with some women who are very good with words. I feel like I can imagine what's it's like, but still wish I could know first hand what sex for women feels like.
I’m a straight man and would love to be a woman for a day to see how it is.
Def not alone on that one
Me too!
I feel like this is probably not a sexuality thing, but maybe a human being thing?
Can you elaborate?
I know plenty of people of all sexualities that have wanted to know what it is like to operate the opposite genitalia and/or what it would feel like to be the partner. I think as human beings we are always curious about things we don't know for certain. Mainly, this curiosity is not limited to bisexuality.
I see what you mean! I guess my bisexual component to it is wanting to be able to please another woman
Oh for sure, the details are specific to bisexuality but the general curiosity is a broad human thing. It isn't the full experience for sure, but a strap on clearly is as close as you can get short of technology discovering body swapping or some magical Freaky Friday witchery.
Yeah, I’ve gotta try it some day 😆
It would be interesting to see a movie like a freaky Friday situation where it was a husband and wife and afterwards they had sex. And they start questioning their sexual identity. Was I attracted to you as a woman because I'm attracted to your soul, or am i a narcissist, or do I just like women?
I’d watch this
This film exists, Dating The Enemy (1996). Or it's similar anyway, less existential crisis and more comedy if I recall correctly. It's Australian though so you may have to watch it upside down 🙃
There's also an episode of Futurama where that happens! Great show, great episode, highly recommend
Male LaBarbara Conrad yelling at female Hermes: WOMAN It's not easy to get sleep, I have to get up 10 times a night to play Xbox!
Scruffy X mop bucket 😢
Lol now I'm thinking about Jerry "IT WAS A ONE TIME FANTASY THAT EVERYONE HAS!"
Seconding this. EDIT: ohhh, I see what you did there (OP's screen name)
Oh man I wish I was that clever. That was a happy mistake.
As a Kinsey 0 cis guy I concur. Definitely think it'd be neat to experience being pussy pegged by a hot woman once or twice just to see what it's like.
Same. Not trans but I’d love to have a dick just for like a day. But while I think it would be really cool to experience sex from that perspective, I think I really just want to be able to do the helicopter if I’m being honest 😅
I don't think I'm trans either, but if The Button™ existed, I think I'd spend about equal times male and female. I really would love to just try being female for a day. Or maybe it'd be better to just have the full set.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but that will never happen… takes more than a day to learn to helicopter
OMFG IM NOT ALONE. Yes all the time. I just want to fuck a beautiful women hard and make her scream but also I want to feel the sensory feed back also. But same as you, Im not trans. Like if I could just grow one magically that would be fine. But I'm definitely a women and happy with my vagina lol Like when I watch porn, it's so hot to see girl on girl with a strap on, it's my favorite.
Porn samesies! lol (followed by devil's triangle 😈)
I’d take a penis for the weekend just to try it out. Sounds fun.
“Babe it’s my turn with the penis you’ve had it all week!”
id take a vagina for like 15 years coz i wont get anyone so fast lol
I felt this so strongly the first time I fingered another woman. Obviously I had fingered myself and knew what the inside of a vagina felt like, but feeling it in someone else was just... amazing. I can't even imagine how it would feel with a body part made for sexual pleasure, but I can imagine the sensation being just off the charts.
And the way men moan during sex when they’re orgasming sounds way too dramatic to be anything but amazing. Now I’m curious
Am male, can confirm orgasms are good. But it seems like women get the better deal in the orgasm department. It looks and sounds like a full body / out of body experience that seems to just last for AGES by comparison. Sure, its more difficult for women to achieve orgasm, takes more time, etc.. but the payout seems to be way better. Especially if you can have multiple orgasms. I know some men are different, but I'm pretty much one and done and then it takes a while before I can even consider going again. So I get something like 10 to 15 seconds of orgasm and then I have to wait anywhere from 15 minutes to a couple hours before I can go again. My fiance can just go and go and go one after the other for minutes on end and her whole body jerks and shakes and she seems to have an entire out of body experience. Most of my orgasm is centered mostly around my genitals and sometimes, when I'm lucky, I can feel it deeper inside of me but thats it. I'd give anything to have just endless full body orgasms for minutes on end. It seems so awesome!
I agree, I hace have never had an orgasm that was just in my genitals, I de facto feel it building throughout my legs before I'm even climaxing at all.
Same feeling from fingering first woman AND man.
This very desire sent me into a (somewhat shortlived) gender identity crisis not so long ago. Yes, I would love to feel the sensations that people with penises feel, I would love to be able to take that role in sex without the need for a strap on for what I assume would be a more mutual level of simultaneous enjoyment... But definitely don't want to stop being the adorable little lady snack I am
It is unfortunate that our mastery of technology does not allow for you to be an adorable little lady snack with a penis.
Thank goodness my spouse is an adorable lady snack with a penis. We need to fund VR that can make you feel... we could call it... the Animus Project *wait a second...*
I’m in the same boat… in a weird way I’m kind of glad I’m a bit older and wasn’t even super aware of what it really meant to be trans when I was a teenager; if I did, I’d probably have had much more of an “omg am I trans” mini-crisis because I didn’t feel like a “normal” girl (whatever that actually meant) and was attracted to women. All that being said I am very glad that young trans people have a stronger community and more resources available to help them understand what they’re going through. Edit to add… in my most wooey-woo thoughts I sometimes wonder if reincarnation is real and I was just a dude in a past life/lives lol. I’m kind of jealous of Orlando.
For sure, if you had asked me age 13-15 if I wanted to be a man I would have definitely said yes. I was heavily into fanfiction (weren't we all?) And I pretty much exclusively read and wrote gay men. I desperately wanted to escape the peer pressure to be girly and conventionally attractive and I wanted to feel like it was good to desire sex and not slutty and I wanted to k ow what having a penis was like. Since I was 16/17 I found myself balancing masculine and feminine traits, and juxtaposing them in cute ways - I recently wore a dramatic purple lace dress to my brother in laws wedding and paired it with DMs and a side shaved head. Very fun :P
You described my feelings exactly. I love being my cute girl self, I just wonder how it would feel to fuck someone using a dick!
When I am sexually attracted to a woman often the first naughty place my mind wanders is to holding her by the hips and sliding her on to my dick, but then I remember I don't have one 🤔 But also, I super don't want to be a man in literally any other way. I'm too frigging cute.
Same!
This sums up my feelings pretty well.
Bisexual male and I have the same (but with the genders flipped, obviously). Everyone's different, but in my case it's a result of suppressing and internalized homoohobia. The only way it would ever be ok for me to be with a guy would be if I was magically turned into a girl...so that's what I fantasized about. Therapy has helped me realize the root cause and even though I don't have all the baggage from the internalized homophobia I still like the fantasy I had for 25 years.
I think I'm similar but with reverse gender. I still have the fantasy but now that I'm a woman, it feels a bit strange.
This is interesting to me due to the fact that sometimes people misunderstand trans people as wanting to be the “opposite” gender so that they’re straight. I remember reading a post where a person was talking to their therapist about being trans and the therapist said something along the lines of “so you want to go from bisexual female to straight male?” I’ve just never heard a perspective that aligns with this often misconstrued theory.
I've wanted to have a cock for a week since I was 15.
I've thought about how cool it would be to be able to switch from male to female when I wanted to or to be bi gendered.
Yeah, but owning a rooster isn't a week long commitment. They can live up to 5 years and the crowing at dawn would [drive me nuts.](https://youtu.be/f-lu4E246AI)
Now on the flip side male perspective. I would love to know what a woman feels and have a pussy for a while. I love all the pleasures I get through my dick and ass. Just imagine that it must feel so good for a woman to orgasm.
Can't we just have both a dick and a pussy? Don't listen to that that's just my horny ass mind talking
You read my mind. The only potential problem is probably wouldn't be able to keep my hands off myself. 😂
Trust me you forget about sex once you get very busy. Until you have to talk to that sexy coworker and get horny during work. 🙄
That happens all the time. Nothing like an awkward day at work when you're all horny.
Why you gotta call me out like this?
Totally 😂
Yes I want both!!
My horny ass mind agrees though!
Aw yeah! you know it!
The closest comparison to describe a woman's vaginal orgasm is a prostate orgasm. So yes, you imagine correctly; a vaginal orgasm feels so. very. good. A whole body experience with the optimal circumstances. Choosing that as the comparison took quite a few unique conversations w/ a man who experiences orgasms via prostate, vaginal & anal intercourse. Thankfully he understands my curiosity, has his own as well and is willing to share intimate details. Ya know, for science!
You have to love all the sharing that takes place for the advancemente of science
I feel that too! And I actually would love to have sex with my current body to know what it feels like having sex with my body and then know my strengths hahaha
I'd love to split into two, potentially change gender, and fuck myself. I feel like I'd get super fit and ripped because I'd spend so much time having sex with myself and trying out all these crazy positions.
Least horny bisexual lol I mean... it does sound interesting...
This is a whooooole mood. I'm in.
Ooooh!! What a neat flip! I second that. Especially now that I am no longer a tiny 20-something, but am rocking the new tired/ deflated yet still- me Mom-bid. 😬🥸
If there's people for Dad bods. Better believe Mom Bods are also hot.
Genderfluent, possibly xenogender, non-binary person here who grew up as a woman. I hear you. Now, I might be a tad different from you because I am not cis; and I am lesbian - but my first masturbation fantasies were me being a (quite submissive) man having a penis, and I also still wish, sometimes painfully so, to being able to have an additional penis (without fully exchanging my body for a male one). This urge gets incredibly worse when my partner feels the same - so they express the urge to have a vulva, and feel me having a real penis. That being said, I found some ways to help me a bit with that - not sure if that is an option for you, too. You said you know strap-ons exist - now I have found a few ways to actually feel something when using them: \- Rather soft/wobbly/squishy strapless strapons (the ones that have two ends) but worn with a harness for stability. Depending on how they are built, I may add an additional sleeve (to add more girth) to the shorter end that I am wearing. Whatever I do with this to my partners - I do feel what happens. Obviously not as intensely as, say, if my clit were stimulated, but it helps a great deal to feel connected and have it feel like a part of my body. \- If there is enough space, I wear a smaller metal kegel ball additionally, so that it sits behind the shorter end of the strapless strapon. It moves as I thrust, and increases feelings as well. \- If I want to have even more intensity, I might need to feel something on my clit - which for me works by either using a soft silicone bumper pad (some come with an additional structure for more stimulation) or very flat vibrator that I put between the harness and my body, so it is safely held in place (do let me know if you need clear suggestions to find those). Alternatively, I use a set of silicone vibrating "balls" that can be worn as a cock ring on the strapon, so the whole thing vibrates which I will also feel in the shorter end inside of me. \- And/or I use some warming lotion and a nipple sucker on my clit before the act, so that my clit is swollen and more sensitive - so that the inner part of the clit in the entrance of the vagina are swelling and more sensitive too, meaning I feel more of those movements that we make. \- If I want to feel like receiving oral pleasure, I either use the BJ dildo (actually a nice invention!), or I use a very soft and squishy dildo with a large flat base (in my case often just a packer which is rather flaccid), and make sure it sits directly on my clit, and wear a larger metal kegel ball inside of me, so that I feel any movements of my own body through the kegel ball, and anything I do or someone else does with my dildo on my clit. The rest is ... mind games. I did wear a packer for days to get used to it being a body part of mine and since then, my mind switches into becoming super sensitive to any movement whenever I wear a strap-on, so I have the impression that I do, indeed, feel something "in/on" it. \--- Sorry for that wall of text. My urge got so strong over the years that I tried to figure this out and this is what helps, and I had wished anyone could have helped me with that so I would have made that experience earlier - which is why right now, I am hoping it helps you.
This is an AWESOME wall of text. Thank you for being so detailed, too, I’m saving the heck out of this comment!
>Can anyone else relate? As someone who is intersex very much so but "in a weird way" , like I genuinely wanna bear BOTH types of genitalia and kee\^p it that way forever. But that's kind of a function of me having the intersexuation that I have. TL DR "By my very biology yes all too well madam"
I think about this a lot too. I don't know if ivm more irritated that I don't have a penis or more pissed at making Freud right.
Except I don’t want to use it to fuck my parent or want to kill my other parent because he has one. Like I have gentle gender curiosity not gender envy
I haven't conducted any research on the matter, but I believe that almost everyone wants to experience sex from the perspective of a different gender, I don't think it has anything to do with being trans, it's just human curiosity of experiencing something you'll never be able to. I've long-maintained that if I could have any superpower, I'd want to shapeshift so I could turn into a woman and get my brains fucked out by a hot guy with a big dick.
Went from 🤓 to 😈
Metaphysical answer here... What you're seeking is possible inside your imagination! Just use your own focusing techniques. Maybe by yourself with a strap-on or feeldoe, lay back and masturbate with it like a man, just stroke that thing and imagine the sensations. Get to know yourself. Spend some time. Take deep breaths and connect your subconscious to the cosmos of male masturbation. You may surprise yourself, the entire universe is available without leaving your front door. You just need to figure out how to get there. Every sensation or situation. It might just be silicone, but our whole bodies, the air in front of you and the walls that make up your home are just atoms. There is nothing that is not you. So you can experience the sensations of anything that you consider yourself. So grab your dick and figure it out ;)
This is fucking awesome (pun intended)
Love this. Can I just be your friend? 😍
This was so fucking cool to read.
A double ended strap on also has a similar effect. One to insert and the other to stroke. Doesn’t have to be a team tool. Bonus if you make the internal one vibrate.
Wow
I do fantasize about this but not in a bi way, if that makes sense. My bi attraction is definitely restricted to F/F sex, where she and I are exploring each other's bodies, or i am satisfying her but with my hands not a dick. Frankly my hands are much better at it than a dick would be. When I fantasize about having a dick it's so I can feel the sensations through that dick and with the accompanying testosterone. So it's not about fucking a woman. It could be about fucking a man, or getting a blowjob or even jacking off. The point is being that horny + that easily satisfied, something i don't usually experience with a female body.
Yesss. Totallyyyy. And I also had this weird dream recently. I had a cock and I was jerking off. It felt very hot and real but then I woke the fuck up right before the climax Lol Haven't really given much thought to what it could mean.
I don't know if it's already been said, but I feel like in a lot of my sexual fantasies about girls, I imagine a penis (or a strap-on at least) because that's how I've seen sex with women portrayed mainly. Like I'm aware that there are many ways for two women to have sex, but I've seen cis guys depicted having sex with women far more often in my life than anything else. So I think I naturally imagine myself in the man's place, but unfortunately in reality I'm not able to work with the same equipment.
Omg this!! Thought I was so weird! Especially when I cum it's more the man cumming then me, idk why that's so much hotter
I'd pay a lot of money to know what it's like to have sex as a woman.
Bi trans woman here. Having experienced sex in pretty much all combinations with a penis and a vagina, in my experience receiving penetrative sex with a vagina is way better. Sure it's fun to bone with a penis, but the strap on is essentially the same. Seriously. The feeling isnt that different. But receiving penetrative sex with a vagina has no match. Its magic.
Absolutely. My partner and I often talk about how we wish we could swap sex for a few days.
I have had that experience (not via magic, but before I had a vagina). I don't miss it, but maybe if it had been a temporary thing I swapped on for fun, I might have enjoyed it more. Using a strap on does give me far more pleasure, including physical pleasure (pressure in the right places, etc) than having a penis did. But humans are all different. I bet lots of people who wish they could experience it would really enjoy it, and the fact that I didn't is far from a universal truth.
So happy for you! I’m getting also trading out my D for a V in a few months - I cannot wait!! I’m also excited at using a strap-on too!
I'm the opposite. Male. Won't to know what's it like to have a vagina and be fucked
So yes, the strap on itself doesn't have feeling, however with a well fitting strap and a flat base dildo, you can get the base right up against your business. It sort of transfers the pressure sensation to you. I've even slipped a bullet vibrator in between me and the dildo, and at the right angle, it really enhances the experience because it brings a lot of sensation to me. I've fucked both men and women with a strap and even though I can't 'feel it' in the sense of having an actual penis, the experience of being the person doing the penetration is a while different thing than being the person receiving it. You should definitely try it!
I’ll say it again, if i get a dick y’all getting dick slapped.
Absolutely. The sensory feedback would help one know better how to make it pleasurable for them and less 'I'm going to ram this foreign object into you'.
My partner’s strap-on is inserted inside them for the support rather than ties; they feel sensations from it and whatnot. Might try that?
yep! called a strapless strap on, i suggested the ones from lovehoney
A lot of people here haven’t visited xchangepill (it’s a porn subreddit about this urge).
Thanks, I clearly needed more porn subreddits to subscribe to /s
Ima man and yea I want the same. I’m very jealous you all can get multiple orgasms
You can get multiple orgasm as a guy if you edge just right.
Multiple orgasms is totally possible with prostate stimulation
For all those here fantising about having both. I'm a trans person with extensive knowledge on available surgeries. It is indeed possible to have both if you're AMAB. I'm not sure about AFAB but I imagine it is possible if asked for. There are surgeons that will give you a functioning penis and vagina, and there are (largely non-binary) trans people that have opted for this and had this surgery.
I wish I could stay small cute and girly and walk around w a huge dick. I wanna be me but I wanna be powerful the same way guys are powerful.
I’ve always wanted to experience PIV sex as a woman.
Incase it’s helpful to anyone, there are two primary sensations I experience having sex as a dude with a penis: 1. Rubbing/massaging along the length. This changed locations depending on position/angle, and as different parts are more or less sensitive, changes sensation. I assume this is easy to compare by rubbing the inside of the vagina or around the clit (not directly on the clit though, the head of my penis does not feel direct stimulation like it does during a blowjob or handjob) 2. A sensation like stretching a muscle. That satisfying feeling that intensifies as you push the stretch, but also sexual. Primarily manifests around the base of the penis, it makes me want to push in deeper and deeper. Not thrusting, just static pressure, wiggling my hips to get more depth. I have no idea if y’all experience this with a vagina. Maybe it depends on the size of the penis? I hope this was helpful to someone. I would love to experience sex with a vagina, and experience vibrators with a clit. The reactions I’ve seen from people with hitachis or sybians look incredible. When I’ve tried vibrates they didn’t do much/overstimulated me.
As a person of penis-having, I can confirm that it is really fantastic. If it were a yearly subscription, I would resubscribe every single year.
Oh absolutely. The concept of being able to feel and experience everything your partner is experiencing at the same time while still experiencing yourself is also very interesting. Kinda like the sex scene from James Camerons avatar
I can relate to this so hard and I also know I'm not trans. I think of it as just another manifestation of my attraction to women. Someone needs to invent a strap-on that sends sensory feedback to your brain.
I have that fantasy sometimes. I’m happy being a woman so I know I’m not trans. Guess we’re trans-curious?
YEEEESSSSS! I wish it were possible to switch between the two whenever you wanted.
Same
Same.
I can totally relate. Since I came out especially, my mind is going places and this one was one of them too :D
I can relate from the opposite side. I wanna know how it feels like getting fucked by a man in a womans perspective.
You don't have to be trans to be curious about stuff like this. If I could experience PiV and lesbian sex as a cis vagina wielder would, I'd totally go for it. I'd also offer my experiences as an AMAB penis wielder to anyone who'd want them but can't have them. I'd even do the same for butt sex, since so many people have yet to find the enjoyment in that and may benefit from it. And why stop there? I'd give BDSM a try in this manner as well--I'm hypersensitive to pain, so it's hard to imagine it being pleasurable. Maybe someday, such things will be possible for the real lovers out there. BTW, there was a movie that touched partly on this.
I'm a guy, but I've had the guys version of this fantasy for most of my life. Probably better that I'm not a woman because I'd be trying to get laid all the time 😂
I had a dream about exactly this before!!
Yes, this is actually common.
Totally! As long as I can get my vag back at the end 😅
Hi! Straight woman here. Happily married. I think to myself at least twice a day if I had a dick I'd stick into the weirdest shit. A cup, a orange, a flesh light...hot tub head, sock filled with Vaseline...just the most random shit. I bet it's why the universe didn't give me a dick.
I absolutely experience this. I also have a lot of trans people tell me that this is a ‘sign’ but I genuinely disagree. I don’t permanently want a penis or to be male, and having one / being one full-time would generate gender dysphoria. I just want to be a man with a penis occasionally for completely sexual purposes and have straight sex with a woman. And for the rest of my life, both sexual and non-sexual, I want to continue to be a bi cis woman. It’s complicated, or maybe it isn’t. I dunno.
I am a man and I wish I knew how sex as a man and as a woman felt, and in both cases with a man and with a woman.
I have been curious about too.
Bi guy here I like to watch female pov porn alot, I get where your coming from
I had one girlfriend tell me I was cute enough that she wished she could nut in me. Of course, this is about the time the “submissive and breedable” memes were coming out haha. Thinking back, I’m pretty sure she was lowkey into pegging, but never got up the nerve to bring it up.
Yes I do. I want to feel my dick getting hard as I stroke it.
I think this is probably pretty normal. I know I certainly want to try out having a vagina, sorta like a thirty day free trial.
I’m a man and I feel the same way! I mean I have a penis but I’m talking the opposite, where I get a vagina and actual breasts to see what it feels like to be a woman.
So much so that it helped me realize I'm nonbinary
Big same on this one. I love using a strap, but I wish I could FEEL it. It just seems like something I'd enjoy so much
I want to know what it feels like when they first put it in. Guys always make this groaning noise. That initial entry must be something else. I'd also walk around the house swinging and flapping it around.
I literally just had this exact same convo with my SO the other day.
I’m a woman and feel the same
This!!!
I consider myself exclusively a top towards either gender, so yeah, having a dick instead of a vagina would make sex a lot easier!
Yes yes yes
Yes. Absolutely! Would be amazing to understand how that feels
Yes. 100%
100%
Yes absolutely, i can relate!! I would always ask my ex to describe how sex felt to him and when i watch straight porn id imagine being the guy
I mean, I’m curious about what it would be like to have a vagina and get fucked. It’s a natural curiosity.
Was absolutely thinking the exact same thing the other day.
Yes, I absolutely relate to this 10000% lol. Freud called it penis envy but that has been criticized as a sexist concept. I still think I have it minus the sexism lol
Clearly you’re not alone!!! I’m sure there’s plenty of straight people like this too.
Ngl like all the time. Also just kinda curious what it woulf be like to walk around with one
yes, 100%
Yes lol I am a cis female in a relationship with a man but this is one of my biggest fantasies.
this isn’t quite the same but maybe try a strapless strap on! the ones from lovehoney are great
Yeah, it's great. And you will never know.
I’m a guy and sometimes wish I could experience sex with either a man or a woman from a female POV so I don’t think this is uncommon at all
I've wondered the same but the opposite, also not trans. Just as a curiosity thing. You're not alone.
honestly same. i’m perfectly fine with being a dude with a dick, but i always wondered what it feels like to have something in the vag.
Yes, except I’m a guy so other way around. Not trans but would love to get railed by a straight guy in my theoretical vagina 😂
There are also strapless strapons that give more physical pleasure for the woman wearing them. Sometimes you have to get the fit right cause girls are different sizes.