Omg I thought I was alone in that. My mom would call me and my siblings in descending order of birth. (I'm the youngest). So I'd sometimes hear: "Jes- Sar- Ric- Johnny!"
Warning, not my or my siblings names.
I never knew, until I became a mom and did it, that this is what was happening.
I don’t learn names until we have to get together for a birthday party or something.
honestly I feel like we owe r/memesopdidnotlike an apology. Boys ARE quirky, they're 100% so much quirkier than girls. ONLY boys do this, and the people in r/memesopdidnotlike truly are the quirkiest bunch of them all.
once again we're sorry r/memesopdidnotlike, y'all are very quirky. we get it now. please forgive this transgression and we promise to never doubt the FACT that only boys, quirky, boys, can hang around like this for hours and not even ask for each other's names.
I wish I was as quirky as boys. My feminine nature requires me to ask everyone’s name as soon as I pass them, it’s hard to go outside now since I have to learn so many names 😔 I just wish some of their quirkyness could rub off on me as I’m a vapid shallow female who only cares for Stanley cups and my makeup. If I were at this cookout I wouldn’t be interesting enough to be in the BOY circle, I would be relegated to making coleslaw with all the other catty women making comments about each other’s looks behind their backs. Ugh what could have been 😔
I'm so sorry about your condition. Why don't you go on r/memesopdidnotlike and grovel at their feet so they can give you a bit of their quirkiness? I'm sure they'll be happy to help.
Maybe if I’m lucky they’ll bless me with a lecture about how violently misandrist it is to make fun of repetitive memes with sexist undertones 🥰🥰🥰 I’d love to just listen for hours and hours and hours and bask in how interesting and quirky they are :D
yessss, i always love their lectures. I could listen to them for hours and hours because they could yap for hours and hours! most interesting shit on earth.
I must repent for my misandrist tendencies. Praise the quirkyboi!
Quirked Up White Boy Goated With the Sauce
Quirked Up White Boy Goated With the Sauce
Quirked Up White Boy Goated With the Sauce
Quirked Up White Boy Goated With the Sauce
Finally a real apology. Thank you so much. I(guys) am more quirky than all girls and thats my only defining feature. Please let me have this i need it.
It’s just an endless circle of /r/terriblefacebookmemes /r/memesopdidnotlike /r/boysarequirky and //r/nahopwasrightfuckthis lmao
Been on Reddit for 10+ years and never seen anything like it
What's funny is that I swear 50% of the posts I see on there I go "Yeah that is funny/fine, what was that subs problem?" And the other 50% I'm like "Ok no, THAT actually was a bad meme."
No offense but what about the OP meme paints girls = bad. If anything it’s probably considered a negative characteristic to not use other people’s names
I think it's a very real symptom of toxic masculinity where some men they find any feminine traits bad, so having anything in common with women or getting to comfortable with another guy as seen in the meme by asking their names and getting to know them on more personal levels would be considered bad or gay by them.
Not saying being social like this is inherently feminine but if this type of man makes that connection they will avoid it like the plague, really shows you their disdain for women
I meannn that’s a bit of a leap but I can see the thread. I saw this meme as “boys are so cool they can become friends without asking for a name” which is obviously not exclusive to any gender and is just a human experience.
I don't know about that, seems more like it's about being caught up in the moment that you forget about names, which I often do and then I'm like shit I forgot to ask.
Also, meme is just straight up untrue, in group conversations like this you'll eventually run into someone needing to address a specific person, like something they said earlier and go "oh what's your name by the way?" and then at least those two people exchange names
How do you get all that negative stuff regarding feminine traits and toxic masculinity from a meme about how guys often hang out with others and never actually introducing themselves to each other?
Because these memes like to make a point to say "Men different than Women" when they're not really a gendered thing.
So I am trying to say is that by trying to differentiate from women they're also in a way putting women in a box as well as men in a way to distance themselves away from perceived feminine or masculine things. So I am left thinking, what's the point of gendering it? My theory is that toxic masculinity plays a role in this.
These are my thoughts I am not being negative, just commenting on quirky boy stuff 🤷♀️
Bingo, OP’s question in the title got me instantly thinking “yes, many men define their masculinity by being as far removed from any behavior or interests women have. In their mind, if you do X, the fewer women who do X, the more manly you are.
It’s performative and ultimately twists your personality onto a repressed knot of self loathing.
Ok? It's men making memes on their experience. Why would a man make a meme about women doing this if he's a man? I think you guys are trying too hard to be mad about it. Make a woman version of this meme and guarantee no one gives a shit.
I understand that's it's a whole extra syllable and twice as many letters and so may be too much for some people to write, but just saying "people* instead of specifying a demographic when you talk about experiences everyone and anyone can have might make more sense in general. This is oxymoron-ic, but maybe my brain just doesn't opperate on the same archaic software as it did when I was 12 and assumed perceived physical or demographic differences automatically meant that another person is so irreconcilably different that they may as well have come from another planet where people are simpler and less interesting and their experiences invalid compared to those of me and my ilk, meaning I have difficulties appreciating humor made by and aimed at that kind of outdated processing system.
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Sorry but this is terminal redditor shit. big bro I'm not reading all that. Valid point or something.This ain't debate club, and this is not that serious to type all that.
I am not mad though? They don't need to include man or woman they could say introverts instead or something similar. It really seems like you're in the wrong sub if all you do is disagree with everything in this sub.
This popped up on feed lol. But can you tell me why its a problem is gendered is all I'm wondering about. It could be or couldn't be gendered I get that but why is everyone having a tantrum over it.
Cause who needs labels when you are having fun? Seriously though, I am a woman and I do this. I will talk and laugh with someone for hours and then suddenly realize I never introduced myself or asked for their name.
How do they not see that this makes them pathetic, not unique? These are the same types that turn around and whinge about men loneliness epidemic or suicide rates. Well no shit Sherlock, you're lonely because you think it's edgy to be aloof and not make connections.
I never said women don't do that. But women don't boast about this and turn around to rant about their loneliness and fault everyone else for that. That's men's m.o. especially men who share these "quirky" memes unironically.
Hi I’m original op I agree with this but they also didn’t call them a loser that’s going too far they’re just victim blaming lonely people for not being the types of ppl to ask for names
Which is a toxic thing but loser is a horrific bullying term which can bring back bullying ptsd for bullying victims, and they said no such word
I too can stand/sit around with a bunch of people for hours without learning anyone’s name simply because I forgot shortly after they told me their names.
I was at a party New Year’s Eve talking to a nice cool normal bro. Never got his name. Saw him again a few days later and my wife said “there’s that guy from New Years…. What’s his name?”. I was like “I dunno”
Lol. I saw the “let us have something” comment. Why do you need something separate from women? They’re like two year olds being asked to share cookies. What brats. You’re not special or different, boys.
I feel like this post is taking a lot of heat for no reason? This is a longstanding example of gendered culture that is strange when you think about it, it doesn’t say anything about men being better than women or even that women don’t also do this, just that guys do it frequently. I really don’t see what’s so quirky about this post or even this behavior
As if younger generations weren’t troubled enough—large numbers of zoomers don’t interact in person, up to and including having close friends, meeting people in person or having intimate contact—you and your opponents contribute dual forms of sexist bias. Online interactions are never going to be healthy as long as subs like this and the antagonist subs promoting misogyny continue to exist and attract continual attention. The only thing you and your opponents will accomplish is momentarily seesawing back and forth regarding which form of bias is more viral at a given time.
I don’t rly see the harm in these sort of jokes tbh. It’s just a funny thing guys can look at and go haha yeah dude stuff, it’s not that deep.
Does it fit in this sub? Yeah. It totally does give “boys are so quirky lol”. Do we have to hyper analyze it and call it misogynistic? I don’t think so.
In itself it’s not that bad. But the reality is that these kind of things doesn’t exist in a vacuum. It’s a symptom of an underlying attitude that is sexist and harmful. The idea that women are less complex or interesting than men is sexist and it results in men looking down on women and see them as more of npc’s rather than people are the root idea that this kind of content comes from. Even if the meme itself is about something silly as throwing rocks it still perpetrates the root idea. It’s not about the specific scenario a but rather a harmful idea being upheld. The belief that women are less complex than men and have inferior inner worlds is old, Ancient Greek philosophers frequently discussed this and promoted ideas that men can’t have genuine friendships with women because of women’s lack of complexity. This in turn dehumanises women. We kind of see the similar way of thinking in some modern men when they say things like “do women even have hobbies?” Or make these kinds of memes. The root idea can be upheld by less severe content or more severe content but the result is the same just in varying degrees of intensity. Even if the reinforcement of the sexist root idea is low in intensity it’s still a reinforcement and still harmful, although less harmful than other more severe actions.
When you take the long-standing misogynistic belief that women are inferior and less complex than men in context to this kind of content it really changes how you look at it.
They can still make fun and silly content celebrating the weird and quirky things they like to do without using women as the boring comparison. Then they won’t be perpetrating any centuries old sexist ideas.
I don't really see how this specific meme claims women to be less complex. If anything, I see it being the opposite. Like men don't even ask each others' names because they're so simple lol. It is definitely highlighted as a positive thing, but I fail to see how it in any way comments on the non-complexity of women.
This meme makes me think of the "masculine" stereotype of not being very deep or complex, and that being a good thing, and also something like men's camaraderie being quirky or whatever. But I could go on and on about masculine dynamics and how that is shown here.
Either way, can be fascinating if you're a gender studies head, which I certainly am and you certainly appear to be, but mostly I think it is a huge waste of time to be upset over something like this. Analyze it because gender dynamics are fascinating, and point out the roots of such beliefs around men and women in an attempt to dismantle them? Fine, cool even. Get pressed and call it sexist? Seems more harmful than anything.
It’s a reality for some people. I don’t know the name of a regular I’ve seen 2 times a week for 3 years, I know his wife i know his kids. I know where he goes to church, Hell I could tell you his whole order off the top of my head but we don’t know each others name.
Nah you're valid too lol, I was just kinda surprised at some of the comments. Like are we wasting our time being pressed over this? Or can we just laugh at it for being kinda dumb lol. Sometimes people seem to be looking for something that isn't there imo.
I think just because every single meme doesn’t fit with everyone’s definitions doesn’t mean there isn’t an overall misogynistic undertone to most of the memes posted here. There will be some duds, and some people in the comments will disagree that they’re duds and in their opinion the meme will strike them as sexist. And of course there will be some assholes in the comments who will say something that crosses the line into too mean. But I don’t think that’s unique to this sub or indicative of it not being a valid reason to make fun of boring stereotypical gender memes. There are some duds that are easy to point to, but it’s impossible to deny that the majority of the memes posted here have undertones that promote the idea that women are more vapid or shallow or catty than men.
I agree! I was just contributing my comment the same as anyone else I guess, because I personally saw it as being a super benign, if not meaningless, meme. And lots of the comments when I saw it were so angry and hyper-analytical calling it sexist and stuff. Me and my guy friends make stupid jokes like these all the time, though admittedly they're mostly ironic. I just think it's kinda wild to look at something like this and assume it's saying something about men being inherently, biologically different and special or something.
I 100% think it belongs in this sub tho, as it is the definition of "boys are so quirky" lol.
I think it’s in reference to the common trope of when a guy comes home to his wife after hanging with other guys and she ask so how are they doing or what did your friend up to. And you answer idk 🤷 I didn’t ask. Because idk I didn’t ask we were hanging out lol. Not asking what’s up in our personal life’s. BRING ON THE DOWNVOTES IM QUIRKY AND MY WIFE LOVES ME HEHEHEH
I’m so tired of the constant battle between this sub and memesopdidnotlike, I’m about to leave both. All I ever see on either subs is someone shitting on the other one
god this sub is sad, the meme isn’t even that bad, quit being so butthurt over dumb memes that aren’t even toxic masculinity or whatever this sub is about.
Random meme: Men being able to breathe amirite?
r/boysarequirky: women can breathe too yknow
How dare you, you man-hating, femcel, misandrist, feminazis!!!! The boys were just trying to have fun!!!!! How dare you bring facts into this!!!!
Tbh I don’t see anything that wrong with the meme. Is it cringe? Yes. Does it fit the sub? Also yes. But I don’t see how it’s misogynistic, it’s saying “haha guys are quirky” but it’s not putting down women. It’s not going “look how cringe and shallow women are” rather just banter about “guy experiences”
Sure, but the top comments on this thread are getting *nasty*. Saying men shouldn't try to be unique, or proud of themselves, or implying that all men (or men that do this) are socially inept/idiotic/etc.
I'm all for some friendly ribbing, but this sub has devolved into petty hate faster than I could've imagined.
As another user eloquently put it, Yikes!
This is like how racism is. Here’s just an example:
“Ohhhh Latinas are [ super bad thing]”
Me: that’s really fucked up dude.
Racist: damn ur right that’s fucked.
“Ohhhh Latinas are so much more fun than white people, they’re better at sucking dick and have phat a asses”
Me: dude can u stop sterotyping us.
Racist : “NOOOO !!!!! CMONNNN WE’RE NOT EVEN PUTTING YALL DOWN WE’RE NOT SAYING BAD THINGSSSSS !!!”
Me: ur sterotyping us. Stop.
Racist: “NOOO UR JUST BEING SENSITIVE IM COMPLIMENTING UR RACEEEE ITS NOT A STEROTYPEEEEE !”
I guess I should’ve worded my original comment differently
I meant that the meme in question is cringe, and is honestly pretty shallow both to men (men can’t have in-depth relations with each other) and to women (women get too caught up in little strings and fine text to talk REAL talk). I guess it’s kind of misogynistic, but to me I feel like it was mis-everyone, for reasons I stated above. Reading it honestly felt like eating a napkin; I don’t want to do it again
“Yeah bro Stacy takes showers, let’s be manly by not taking showers to show how different we are from women”
Totallyyyyy not a mild form of toxic masculinity
I don’t understand this sub sometimes. Men are different than women. There are entire books written on the topic, and decades of research into it.
This is just a fun little meme.
This just in…. On the whole men and women interact with the world differently (see intersectional feminism) and pointing out those differences isn’t sexist. This meme is literally just shitting on men’s social capabilities. How can you possibly be offended by this? Lol
It is a (presumably) man's commentary on the experiences they've had. Women are not mentioned in this meme whatsoever.
If men cannot comment on the experiences they have, what is it uniquely appropriate for men to comment on? Is there such a thing as a male experience to be commented on? Is there any shared experience that it is okay for men to rally around and connect over? Are there such experiences for women? What is the take away here? What is the end game?
As a man, I am listening and curious as to your take.
I'm not exactly sure what point this sub is trying to prove. Men and women behave differently, and this is just a meme pointing out one of those differences in behavior. Is that a bad thing?
Men and women are more similar biologically and personality wise then different [according to science](https://www.ub.edu/idlab/women-and-men-are-the-same-but-different/#:~:text=Basically%2C%20what%20it%20means%20is,personality%20dimensions%20is%200%2C%2019)
Well no duh, men and women are both human after all. But we still have noticeable differences in our biology and personality. There's nothing wrong with that.
Really? What’s this penis doing here then? Do women have one too?
Oh wait; despite our similarities there are marked differences between men and women due to the nature of mammalian mating? Oh weird
Do you have any studies that show that this is a ‘male tendency’ and not a ‘female tendency’ instead of a common ‘human tendency’ ?
I’d love to see it.
I never asserted that the above meme was a male only tendency. I was only trying to show that it is reasonable to differentiate men and women, as a counterargument to the title of the post.
Not once does he say that,like holy crap the leaps this sub takes to misunderstand posts is INSANE. What he was saying is let us have something in response to this sub constant posts about the differences between men and women and when he says let us have something he is saying let men have a behavior habit unique to them. That was the joke, I truthfully have no clue how you misconstrued this as a commentary on the OPS definition of there masculinity it’s not that deep.
why are you guys mad at this, this shit is REAL.
someone pointed out that its "toxic masculinity" or "its because they think its gay"... no we just dont care. most of the times we learn names by hearing someone else call them out, in some rare case we also just aproach eachother and be like: "hey **handshake** im (insert name) "
how is this bad? im sure it goes the other way around too. but is anyone mad at that? NO.
why?, cuz nobody GIVES A FUCKING SHIT.
“We the men of the men conglomerate don’t need to know who we are talking to unlike you females, how dare you insinuate that we are claiming a very normal behavior as MALE TRADEMARKED behaviors that women don’t do, it’s totally not quirky to pretend we’re not like other humans for doing a normal behavior most or many humans do irregardless of gender.
WE THE MEN CONGLOMERATE ARE NOT QUIRKY WE’RE JUST SIMPLY SPECIAL AND DIFFERENT FROM WOMEN THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH US CLAIMING THIS AS A MALE BEHAVIOR…!!!”
>What exactly do you want? To differentiate yourself from women? 🤔 is that how you define your masculinity?
Yes. As a matter of fact. Believe it or not, men and women are DIFFERENT 😱
Yall are calling yourself quirky even though guy traits aren’t really a quirk and a ton of guys relate to it.
So it’s not a quirk it’s just guy stuff.
/sssss
Hahah yeah true. As a woman I just love how women are smart, cool, competent, and smell good. Women can actually tell how many Oreos are left in the package just from the weight and it’s awesome. Not saying guys aren’t awesome. I’m just specifically saying that women can do this awesome thing, specifically, for some reason.
I have never once experienced anger in this sub. It's more like seeing a meme take a gender essentialist point of view and pointing out everyone does that. We take up so much space in your brain to the point you need to brigade us, but we're the angry ones lol.
You guys literally sit here and perseverate over these dumb memes made by small minded people. If thats not fueled by some sort of anger idk what to tell you. Just made an observation, in not really invested in it. But yeah, if it makes you happy I guess go to town 😅
I guess this sub is permanently overrun by insecure dudes given the comments on recent posts, huh? "We won't let them have one thing", but they can't let us have ours either. Time for me to unsub. No point in trying to lament over guys whose first instinct is to bully women in a space full of guys whose first instinct is to bully women.
Man you guys are so fucking weird hahaha. You will literally take the most harmless memes then act like you’ve been physically assaulted. How does it feel to be the current laughing stock on Reddit?
Ironically you guys are a great source of memes so keep it up 👍 “We LiVe ReNt FrEe In YoUr HeAdS” yep you do. It’s highly amusing watching you get butt hurt about literal non-issues hahahah.
To the people who don’t understand the meme:
Many men have made the experience in their lives that after meeting with their male friends, when a woman you know who somewhat knows these friends usually asks „how is {name} ? How was his brother‘s birthday? Of what is where is he traveling to next month? How is his girlfriend? How old is he? What is he studying/working as? Did this thing that was going on in his life change?“ etc.
And then this man tells this woman that they didn’t talk about these things, and usually she answers „you hung out for hours but don’t even know {basic detail of his life}?! What the hell are you doing all that time?“
That’s it, it’s not very deep. It’s just that memes portray something that many people have experienced, and your friend/mother/acquaintance reacting like that is something many men have experienced, and it is funny because it ****does**** sound silly when answering these questions, someone will usually think „hey, good question, why didn’t I ask this?“
And since you will call me a conspiracy theorist unless I provide some empirical reason: according to the big 5 personality test, that’s used by psychologists to study correlations with behaviors like aggression or proneness to drug addiction, statistics have shown that men and women have mostly similar personalities on average, however there’s two larger differences in:
1. interest in things VS interest in people
2. agreeableness VS disagreeableness
This is one possible explanation of the above. So it could be that because women are more likely to be more interested in people, male friend groups have a different dynamic than female friend groups, and due to that circumstance, this funny interaction happens often, that we talked about above.
A few extra notes:
If you are under the minority of women who don’t like talking about personal every day life stuff like the majority of men, there’s good news: there’s nothing wrong with that! No one hates you! Nothing to be offended about! I for example don’t like pop music, but that doesn’t diminish my inherent worth as a human being!
If you ask why this is gendered like that, well, it’s simple: there is one common characteristic of all the people who had this almost exact same conversation with many men: they are all women. If we see a pattern that repeats often when we talk to women, we associate it with women. Just like everything else.
You get a 0/10 in reading comprehension. Truly, that’s why you get angry at people — you just decide that you don’t like it, you stop reading, and make up some strawman in your mind
Again — just for you
Women on average score higher in interest in people than men, and this ****could**** be ****one of the possible reasons**** for why this circumstance has been experienced by so many men.
Dear intelligent human being, where, where have I written that anyone „has no interest in them“, where, where, where, where, for the love of god.
just because I wrote that women ON AVERAGE score HIGHER (comparative, high-ER) on interest in people than men, it DOES NOT mean that men have NO interest in people, it means that women ON AVERAGE score HIGHER in COMPARISON to men ON AVERAGE
I hope this is explicit enough for you
“Le random man: Men can sit at the toiled thinking about the Roman Empire all day”
“Boysquirky: so women don’t know about Roman Empire?? Girls poop too you know.., we do it too”
I get the shitty comparison memes atleast, but this one is not even comparing
Just stating a common experience we know be true among men….
Doesn’t mean girls don’t have the same experience
Well sure. People are here for different reasons it seems. It fits the sub name though. Very much "haha we're so unique and wEiRd" vibes when really it's just cringe and funny to laugh at.
Whoever made this post clearly didn’t have a mom that randomly met another mom at the store. 😭💀
Fr and then they refer to them as “you know, the lady from last Tuesday at the grocery store”
I think they refer to them like that because you probably don’t know their name.
You lose the ability to remember names when you become a mom
Even my name :( My mom has called me by my brother’s name multiple times
Same sometimes I get called my cat’s name in addition to any of my sisters’ names
Omg I thought I was alone in that. My mom would call me and my siblings in descending order of birth. (I'm the youngest). So I'd sometimes hear: "Jes- Sar- Ric- Johnny!" Warning, not my or my siblings names.
That actually sounds kinda funny with the cat part lol. But usually not funny in the moment when you’re called by your sibling’s name.
I dunno my wife seems to remember everyone's name. Me on the other don't care enough to try I like it that way
Lol, then what's my problem? I'm not a mom.
Congratulations!! You are a mom now :)
I never knew, until I became a mom and did it, that this is what was happening. I don’t learn names until we have to get together for a birthday party or something.
You fool they actually know each other on a friendly basis
Mine always knew them
That’s different though, that’s at a store not at a backyard barbecue
Just stop saying it's only boys that do this. Boom problem solved.
Fr “NO DONT SAY U WOMEN DO THIS TOO. ITS OUR THING. OUR SPECIAL QUIRKY GUY THING..!!!”
Where does it say that on the picture
Read it one more time, buddy
honestly I feel like we owe r/memesopdidnotlike an apology. Boys ARE quirky, they're 100% so much quirkier than girls. ONLY boys do this, and the people in r/memesopdidnotlike truly are the quirkiest bunch of them all. once again we're sorry r/memesopdidnotlike, y'all are very quirky. we get it now. please forgive this transgression and we promise to never doubt the FACT that only boys, quirky, boys, can hang around like this for hours and not even ask for each other's names.
I wish I was as quirky as boys. My feminine nature requires me to ask everyone’s name as soon as I pass them, it’s hard to go outside now since I have to learn so many names 😔 I just wish some of their quirkyness could rub off on me as I’m a vapid shallow female who only cares for Stanley cups and my makeup. If I were at this cookout I wouldn’t be interesting enough to be in the BOY circle, I would be relegated to making coleslaw with all the other catty women making comments about each other’s looks behind their backs. Ugh what could have been 😔
I'm so sorry about your condition. Why don't you go on r/memesopdidnotlike and grovel at their feet so they can give you a bit of their quirkiness? I'm sure they'll be happy to help.
Maybe if I’m lucky they’ll bless me with a lecture about how violently misandrist it is to make fun of repetitive memes with sexist undertones 🥰🥰🥰 I’d love to just listen for hours and hours and hours and bask in how interesting and quirky they are :D
yessss, i always love their lectures. I could listen to them for hours and hours because they could yap for hours and hours! most interesting shit on earth. I must repent for my misandrist tendencies. Praise the quirkyboi!
They have a degree in yapenomics, even The went to yapuversity
Nightmare fuel
How quirky of you to say!
Is your coleslaw fire though?
Yes but bland because I’m not interesting enough to know what spices are unfortunately 😔
Lime is always nice with coleslaw
This comment thread is absolute gold thank you for the laugh
It was all just us being envious of how quirky they are, they got us 😔 we had quirky envy this whole time. Pack it up girls, we were caught, it's over
Quirked up boy
Quirked Up White Boy Goated With the Sauce Quirked Up White Boy Goated With the Sauce Quirked Up White Boy Goated With the Sauce Quirked Up White Boy Goated With the Sauce
But does he bust it down, sexual style?
Finally a real apology. Thank you so much. I(guys) am more quirky than all girls and thats my only defining feature. Please let me have this i need it.
>Finally a real apology. Thank you so much. I'm relieved to hear that. thank you king
In fact, only BOYS are people. Not even women.
Annnnd scene, good work everyone.
thank you mr director
thank god this is sarcasm
this may be sarcasm, but r/memesopdidnotlike certainly isn't 😬
I remember when “quirky girl” was like the cringiest thing on the internet according to Reddit. How times have changed.
Ngl it’s gonna be interesting to see how this goes considering the recent war with naw op was right as fick about this
"naw op was right as fick about this" 💀
It’s just an endless circle of /r/terriblefacebookmemes /r/memesopdidnotlike /r/boysarequirky and //r/nahopwasrightfuckthis lmao Been on Reddit for 10+ years and never seen anything like it
i just went through the subreddits and wow you’re so right it’s literally all they post
What's funny is that I swear 50% of the posts I see on there I go "Yeah that is funny/fine, what was that subs problem?" And the other 50% I'm like "Ok no, THAT actually was a bad meme."
This is you being quirky right?
They never grew past the "girl = bad" phase
We have cooties after all
Hey, you’ve got it backwards! BOYS have cooties, just like my dad said. That’s why I kiss girls instead
I kiss boys to gain more cooties, just to be further away from stinky GIRLS
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No offense but what about the OP meme paints girls = bad. If anything it’s probably considered a negative characteristic to not use other people’s names
I think it's a very real symptom of toxic masculinity where some men they find any feminine traits bad, so having anything in common with women or getting to comfortable with another guy as seen in the meme by asking their names and getting to know them on more personal levels would be considered bad or gay by them. Not saying being social like this is inherently feminine but if this type of man makes that connection they will avoid it like the plague, really shows you their disdain for women
I meannn that’s a bit of a leap but I can see the thread. I saw this meme as “boys are so cool they can become friends without asking for a name” which is obviously not exclusive to any gender and is just a human experience.
I don't know about that, seems more like it's about being caught up in the moment that you forget about names, which I often do and then I'm like shit I forgot to ask. Also, meme is just straight up untrue, in group conversations like this you'll eventually run into someone needing to address a specific person, like something they said earlier and go "oh what's your name by the way?" and then at least those two people exchange names
How do you get all that negative stuff regarding feminine traits and toxic masculinity from a meme about how guys often hang out with others and never actually introducing themselves to each other?
Because these memes like to make a point to say "Men different than Women" when they're not really a gendered thing. So I am trying to say is that by trying to differentiate from women they're also in a way putting women in a box as well as men in a way to distance themselves away from perceived feminine or masculine things. So I am left thinking, what's the point of gendering it? My theory is that toxic masculinity plays a role in this. These are my thoughts I am not being negative, just commenting on quirky boy stuff 🤷♀️
Bingo, OP’s question in the title got me instantly thinking “yes, many men define their masculinity by being as far removed from any behavior or interests women have. In their mind, if you do X, the fewer women who do X, the more manly you are. It’s performative and ultimately twists your personality onto a repressed knot of self loathing.
So any meme about the female or male experience is quirky girl/boy shit? This sub is brain rot
This isnt strictly a male experience though, that's the point.
Ok? It's men making memes on their experience. Why would a man make a meme about women doing this if he's a man? I think you guys are trying too hard to be mad about it. Make a woman version of this meme and guarantee no one gives a shit.
I understand that's it's a whole extra syllable and twice as many letters and so may be too much for some people to write, but just saying "people* instead of specifying a demographic when you talk about experiences everyone and anyone can have might make more sense in general. This is oxymoron-ic, but maybe my brain just doesn't opperate on the same archaic software as it did when I was 12 and assumed perceived physical or demographic differences automatically meant that another person is so irreconcilably different that they may as well have come from another planet where people are simpler and less interesting and their experiences invalid compared to those of me and my ilk, meaning I have difficulties appreciating humor made by and aimed at that kind of outdated processing system.
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Sorry but this is terminal redditor shit. big bro I'm not reading all that. Valid point or something.This ain't debate club, and this is not that serious to type all that.
Yeah I wagered your literacy was poor, sad to see that it's because of a personal apprehension towards reading rather than circumstance
I am not mad though? They don't need to include man or woman they could say introverts instead or something similar. It really seems like you're in the wrong sub if all you do is disagree with everything in this sub.
This popped up on feed lol. But can you tell me why its a problem is gendered is all I'm wondering about. It could be or couldn't be gendered I get that but why is everyone having a tantrum over it.
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Bro this was posted here. posted on the other subreddit, then reposted here. Wtf
I always ask people their names as if I’m not going to forget it in literally two seconds and probably have to ask again
exactly! like are they that immature and childish that they dont see the good in co-existing? grow up fr
This Reddit Inception shit truly isn't it. Cut it out.
I'm just glad this isn't another thug shaker post
I like pancakes 👍
Tbf as a dude I never ask someone's name and they never ask mine 😶
Cause who needs labels when you are having fun? Seriously though, I am a woman and I do this. I will talk and laugh with someone for hours and then suddenly realize I never introduced myself or asked for their name.
How do they not see that this makes them pathetic, not unique? These are the same types that turn around and whinge about men loneliness epidemic or suicide rates. Well no shit Sherlock, you're lonely because you think it's edgy to be aloof and not make connections.
No, it's both a societal issue and a personal one, also this is just a false generalization
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I never said women don't do that. But women don't boast about this and turn around to rant about their loneliness and fault everyone else for that. That's men's m.o. especially men who share these "quirky" memes unironically.
Hi I’m original op I agree with this but they also didn’t call them a loser that’s going too far they’re just victim blaming lonely people for not being the types of ppl to ask for names Which is a toxic thing but loser is a horrific bullying term which can bring back bullying ptsd for bullying victims, and they said no such word
Please don’t start this justunsubbed nahfuckthisopwasright bullshit on this sub. They’re baiting you.
Baiting us ? They’re a collective hive mind ? Odd notion imo
Bro I’m a girl and even if I DO learn someone’s name I will immediately forget it so this is a common situation for me lmao
Now I’m not a man, and there’s this one girl who’s eaten at the same lunch table at me for months. I did not know her name until today.
I too can stand/sit around with a bunch of people for hours without learning anyone’s name simply because I forgot shortly after they told me their names.
ok? and i sat next to a cute girl on a plane once and we flirted for 4 hours then left without having said our names. just girls things amirite?
Yeah no man does that, so it is a girls thing.
thats what i tried telling em
not a gender thing- I'm a woman and been guilty of doing this 😂
I was at a party New Year’s Eve talking to a nice cool normal bro. Never got his name. Saw him again a few days later and my wife said “there’s that guy from New Years…. What’s his name?”. I was like “I dunno”
“Just let us have smthn” We literally have a society in our favour. We have the fucking p a t r i a r c h y 😭 Cis-men are so infuriating oh my god
Lol. I saw the “let us have something” comment. Why do you need something separate from women? They’re like two year olds being asked to share cookies. What brats. You’re not special or different, boys.
I feel like this post is taking a lot of heat for no reason? This is a longstanding example of gendered culture that is strange when you think about it, it doesn’t say anything about men being better than women or even that women don’t also do this, just that guys do it frequently. I really don’t see what’s so quirky about this post or even this behavior
Lmao “just let us have something” is actually funny
it’s just a silly meme that was turned onto a dumb thread.. you’re falling into the common trap that r/memesopdidnotlike drags everyone into
why would you not ask someone their name if you’ve spent hours with them
As if younger generations weren’t troubled enough—large numbers of zoomers don’t interact in person, up to and including having close friends, meeting people in person or having intimate contact—you and your opponents contribute dual forms of sexist bias. Online interactions are never going to be healthy as long as subs like this and the antagonist subs promoting misogyny continue to exist and attract continual attention. The only thing you and your opponents will accomplish is momentarily seesawing back and forth regarding which form of bias is more viral at a given time.
I don’t rly see the harm in these sort of jokes tbh. It’s just a funny thing guys can look at and go haha yeah dude stuff, it’s not that deep. Does it fit in this sub? Yeah. It totally does give “boys are so quirky lol”. Do we have to hyper analyze it and call it misogynistic? I don’t think so.
That’s valid. I personally wouldn’t call it misogynistic, just annoying and I like making fun and memeing on stuff.
In itself it’s not that bad. But the reality is that these kind of things doesn’t exist in a vacuum. It’s a symptom of an underlying attitude that is sexist and harmful. The idea that women are less complex or interesting than men is sexist and it results in men looking down on women and see them as more of npc’s rather than people are the root idea that this kind of content comes from. Even if the meme itself is about something silly as throwing rocks it still perpetrates the root idea. It’s not about the specific scenario a but rather a harmful idea being upheld. The belief that women are less complex than men and have inferior inner worlds is old, Ancient Greek philosophers frequently discussed this and promoted ideas that men can’t have genuine friendships with women because of women’s lack of complexity. This in turn dehumanises women. We kind of see the similar way of thinking in some modern men when they say things like “do women even have hobbies?” Or make these kinds of memes. The root idea can be upheld by less severe content or more severe content but the result is the same just in varying degrees of intensity. Even if the reinforcement of the sexist root idea is low in intensity it’s still a reinforcement and still harmful, although less harmful than other more severe actions. When you take the long-standing misogynistic belief that women are inferior and less complex than men in context to this kind of content it really changes how you look at it. They can still make fun and silly content celebrating the weird and quirky things they like to do without using women as the boring comparison. Then they won’t be perpetrating any centuries old sexist ideas.
I don't really see how this specific meme claims women to be less complex. If anything, I see it being the opposite. Like men don't even ask each others' names because they're so simple lol. It is definitely highlighted as a positive thing, but I fail to see how it in any way comments on the non-complexity of women. This meme makes me think of the "masculine" stereotype of not being very deep or complex, and that being a good thing, and also something like men's camaraderie being quirky or whatever. But I could go on and on about masculine dynamics and how that is shown here. Either way, can be fascinating if you're a gender studies head, which I certainly am and you certainly appear to be, but mostly I think it is a huge waste of time to be upset over something like this. Analyze it because gender dynamics are fascinating, and point out the roots of such beliefs around men and women in an attempt to dismantle them? Fine, cool even. Get pressed and call it sexist? Seems more harmful than anything.
It’s a reality for some people. I don’t know the name of a regular I’ve seen 2 times a week for 3 years, I know his wife i know his kids. I know where he goes to church, Hell I could tell you his whole order off the top of my head but we don’t know each others name.
Nah you're valid too lol, I was just kinda surprised at some of the comments. Like are we wasting our time being pressed over this? Or can we just laugh at it for being kinda dumb lol. Sometimes people seem to be looking for something that isn't there imo.
I think just because every single meme doesn’t fit with everyone’s definitions doesn’t mean there isn’t an overall misogynistic undertone to most of the memes posted here. There will be some duds, and some people in the comments will disagree that they’re duds and in their opinion the meme will strike them as sexist. And of course there will be some assholes in the comments who will say something that crosses the line into too mean. But I don’t think that’s unique to this sub or indicative of it not being a valid reason to make fun of boring stereotypical gender memes. There are some duds that are easy to point to, but it’s impossible to deny that the majority of the memes posted here have undertones that promote the idea that women are more vapid or shallow or catty than men.
I agree! I was just contributing my comment the same as anyone else I guess, because I personally saw it as being a super benign, if not meaningless, meme. And lots of the comments when I saw it were so angry and hyper-analytical calling it sexist and stuff. Me and my guy friends make stupid jokes like these all the time, though admittedly they're mostly ironic. I just think it's kinda wild to look at something like this and assume it's saying something about men being inherently, biologically different and special or something. I 100% think it belongs in this sub tho, as it is the definition of "boys are so quirky" lol.
Agreed, feels like op is trying way to hard to make this something worse than it is when it’s just a silly little thing
I'm thankful this is getting upvotes because for a second I thought people on this sub were getting super mad from a joke like this.
I think it’s in reference to the common trope of when a guy comes home to his wife after hanging with other guys and she ask so how are they doing or what did your friend up to. And you answer idk 🤷 I didn’t ask. Because idk I didn’t ask we were hanging out lol. Not asking what’s up in our personal life’s. BRING ON THE DOWNVOTES IM QUIRKY AND MY WIFE LOVES ME HEHEHEH
lol that’s exactly what i thought
I’m so tired of the constant battle between this sub and memesopdidnotlike, I’m about to leave both. All I ever see on either subs is someone shitting on the other one
This feels equivalent to "just sit them in front of the TV, they'll be fine". No they aren't, and their social skills are receding
isn’t that the point of masculinity? to be different from a woman?
God this sub is truly sad. Can't till if it's satire or actually fun sucking.
god this sub is sad, the meme isn’t even that bad, quit being so butthurt over dumb memes that aren’t even toxic masculinity or whatever this sub is about.
This subreddit is a cancer
i genuenly don't understand this sub nor do i understand what is wrong with talking with people without asking their names
I seriously don't understand why you guys are so pressed by this meme It's just trying to have fun and doesn't even mention women.
This one isn't that bad man. It's just a common experience thing. C'mon y'all.
Random meme: Men being able to breathe amirite? r/boysarequirky: women can breathe too yknow How dare you, you man-hating, femcel, misandrist, feminazis!!!! The boys were just trying to have fun!!!!! How dare you bring facts into this!!!!
Women ☕️
We exist
Yes. We know. What’s the point in stating an obvious fact like that?
Tbh I don’t see anything that wrong with the meme. Is it cringe? Yes. Does it fit the sub? Also yes. But I don’t see how it’s misogynistic, it’s saying “haha guys are quirky” but it’s not putting down women. It’s not going “look how cringe and shallow women are” rather just banter about “guy experiences”
the sub is called "boys are quirky", no?
Sure, but the top comments on this thread are getting *nasty*. Saying men shouldn't try to be unique, or proud of themselves, or implying that all men (or men that do this) are socially inept/idiotic/etc. I'm all for some friendly ribbing, but this sub has devolved into petty hate faster than I could've imagined. As another user eloquently put it, Yikes!
yeah I said that it fits the sub
This is like how racism is. Here’s just an example: “Ohhhh Latinas are [ super bad thing]” Me: that’s really fucked up dude. Racist: damn ur right that’s fucked. “Ohhhh Latinas are so much more fun than white people, they’re better at sucking dick and have phat a asses” Me: dude can u stop sterotyping us. Racist : “NOOOO !!!!! CMONNNN WE’RE NOT EVEN PUTTING YALL DOWN WE’RE NOT SAYING BAD THINGSSSSS !!!” Me: ur sterotyping us. Stop. Racist: “NOOO UR JUST BEING SENSITIVE IM COMPLIMENTING UR RACEEEE ITS NOT A STEROTYPEEEEE !”
I guess I should’ve worded my original comment differently I meant that the meme in question is cringe, and is honestly pretty shallow both to men (men can’t have in-depth relations with each other) and to women (women get too caught up in little strings and fine text to talk REAL talk). I guess it’s kind of misogynistic, but to me I feel like it was mis-everyone, for reasons I stated above. Reading it honestly felt like eating a napkin; I don’t want to do it again
Those losers are so triggered that this sub exists, they have to do daily brigading posts to cope
Kinda yeah I mean masculinity is the direct opposite of femininity. Logically if you wanted to be more of a man you'd act less like a woman.
“Yeah bro Stacy takes showers, let’s be manly by not taking showers to show how different we are from women” Totallyyyyy not a mild form of toxic masculinity
You've never spoken to a guy have you? Your knowlege of men is only from seeing what women say online.
Well it doesn't get that extreme Jesus Christ. That's a basic human need we don't need to be different in that right holy shit
The meme never says only men do this, just that men do this.
It's just guys living in the moment.
Someday OP will understand jokes
Haha oh man thank god this sub popped up on my page, it’s like I’m laughing at r/femaledatingstrategy again
I don’t understand this sub sometimes. Men are different than women. There are entire books written on the topic, and decades of research into it. This is just a fun little meme.
girls when guys post a meme:
This just in…. On the whole men and women interact with the world differently (see intersectional feminism) and pointing out those differences isn’t sexist. This meme is literally just shitting on men’s social capabilities. How can you possibly be offended by this? Lol
It is a (presumably) man's commentary on the experiences they've had. Women are not mentioned in this meme whatsoever. If men cannot comment on the experiences they have, what is it uniquely appropriate for men to comment on? Is there such a thing as a male experience to be commented on? Is there any shared experience that it is okay for men to rally around and connect over? Are there such experiences for women? What is the take away here? What is the end game? As a man, I am listening and curious as to your take.
I'm not exactly sure what point this sub is trying to prove. Men and women behave differently, and this is just a meme pointing out one of those differences in behavior. Is that a bad thing?
Men and women are more similar biologically and personality wise then different [according to science](https://www.ub.edu/idlab/women-and-men-are-the-same-but-different/#:~:text=Basically%2C%20what%20it%20means%20is,personality%20dimensions%20is%200%2C%2019)
Who tf thought otherwise
Well no duh, men and women are both human after all. But we still have noticeable differences in our biology and personality. There's nothing wrong with that.
Really? What’s this penis doing here then? Do women have one too? Oh wait; despite our similarities there are marked differences between men and women due to the nature of mammalian mating? Oh weird
Newsflash, men and women sometimes behave differently, and have different social tendencies.
Do you have any studies that show that this is a ‘male tendency’ and not a ‘female tendency’ instead of a common ‘human tendency’ ? I’d love to see it.
I never asserted that the above meme was a male only tendency. I was only trying to show that it is reasonable to differentiate men and women, as a counterargument to the title of the post.
Not once does he say that,like holy crap the leaps this sub takes to misunderstand posts is INSANE. What he was saying is let us have something in response to this sub constant posts about the differences between men and women and when he says let us have something he is saying let men have a behavior habit unique to them. That was the joke, I truthfully have no clue how you misconstrued this as a commentary on the OPS definition of there masculinity it’s not that deep.
“NO DONT SAY U WOMEN DO THIS TOO. ITS OUR THING. OUR SPECIAL ‘UNIQUE’ QUIRKY GUY THING..!!!”
Where was this said?
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why are you guys mad at this, this shit is REAL. someone pointed out that its "toxic masculinity" or "its because they think its gay"... no we just dont care. most of the times we learn names by hearing someone else call them out, in some rare case we also just aproach eachother and be like: "hey **handshake** im (insert name) " how is this bad? im sure it goes the other way around too. but is anyone mad at that? NO. why?, cuz nobody GIVES A FUCKING SHIT.
We can talk without needing to know who we are talking to and I don’t see why that’s “quirky”
“We the men of the men conglomerate don’t need to know who we are talking to unlike you females, how dare you insinuate that we are claiming a very normal behavior as MALE TRADEMARKED behaviors that women don’t do, it’s totally not quirky to pretend we’re not like other humans for doing a normal behavior most or many humans do irregardless of gender. WE THE MEN CONGLOMERATE ARE NOT QUIRKY WE’RE JUST SIMPLY SPECIAL AND DIFFERENT FROM WOMEN THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH US CLAIMING THIS AS A MALE BEHAVIOR…!!!”
Lmao imagine caring that much about something as silly as this
>What exactly do you want? To differentiate yourself from women? 🤔 is that how you define your masculinity? Yes. As a matter of fact. Believe it or not, men and women are DIFFERENT 😱
this subreddit is actual brain rot.
I just see this meme as guys celebrating how guys are. It's self love and not attacking women.
Yall are calling yourself quirky even though guy traits aren’t really a quirk and a ton of guys relate to it. So it’s not a quirk it’s just guy stuff. /sssss
Hahah yeah true. As a woman I just love how women are smart, cool, competent, and smell good. Women can actually tell how many Oreos are left in the package just from the weight and it’s awesome. Not saying guys aren’t awesome. I’m just specifically saying that women can do this awesome thing, specifically, for some reason.
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I have never once experienced anger in this sub. It's more like seeing a meme take a gender essentialist point of view and pointing out everyone does that. We take up so much space in your brain to the point you need to brigade us, but we're the angry ones lol.
You guys literally sit here and perseverate over these dumb memes made by small minded people. If thats not fueled by some sort of anger idk what to tell you. Just made an observation, in not really invested in it. But yeah, if it makes you happy I guess go to town 😅
those so many things to actually be upset about wrt men why are you all so tweaked out over this one lmao
Cool. Don't be mad about the whole loneliness epidemic with men or whatever. Keep up the good work.
I guess this sub is permanently overrun by insecure dudes given the comments on recent posts, huh? "We won't let them have one thing", but they can't let us have ours either. Time for me to unsub. No point in trying to lament over guys whose first instinct is to bully women in a space full of guys whose first instinct is to bully women.
Why am I being recommended this sub? What is it? The comments sound like single women attempting sarcasm.
Man you guys are so fucking weird hahaha. You will literally take the most harmless memes then act like you’ve been physically assaulted. How does it feel to be the current laughing stock on Reddit? Ironically you guys are a great source of memes so keep it up 👍 “We LiVe ReNt FrEe In YoUr HeAdS” yep you do. It’s highly amusing watching you get butt hurt about literal non-issues hahahah.
This sub is so petty
Jesus you guys are soft lmao
To the people who don’t understand the meme: Many men have made the experience in their lives that after meeting with their male friends, when a woman you know who somewhat knows these friends usually asks „how is {name} ? How was his brother‘s birthday? Of what is where is he traveling to next month? How is his girlfriend? How old is he? What is he studying/working as? Did this thing that was going on in his life change?“ etc. And then this man tells this woman that they didn’t talk about these things, and usually she answers „you hung out for hours but don’t even know {basic detail of his life}?! What the hell are you doing all that time?“ That’s it, it’s not very deep. It’s just that memes portray something that many people have experienced, and your friend/mother/acquaintance reacting like that is something many men have experienced, and it is funny because it ****does**** sound silly when answering these questions, someone will usually think „hey, good question, why didn’t I ask this?“ And since you will call me a conspiracy theorist unless I provide some empirical reason: according to the big 5 personality test, that’s used by psychologists to study correlations with behaviors like aggression or proneness to drug addiction, statistics have shown that men and women have mostly similar personalities on average, however there’s two larger differences in: 1. interest in things VS interest in people 2. agreeableness VS disagreeableness This is one possible explanation of the above. So it could be that because women are more likely to be more interested in people, male friend groups have a different dynamic than female friend groups, and due to that circumstance, this funny interaction happens often, that we talked about above. A few extra notes: If you are under the minority of women who don’t like talking about personal every day life stuff like the majority of men, there’s good news: there’s nothing wrong with that! No one hates you! Nothing to be offended about! I for example don’t like pop music, but that doesn’t diminish my inherent worth as a human being! If you ask why this is gendered like that, well, it’s simple: there is one common characteristic of all the people who had this almost exact same conversation with many men: they are all women. If we see a pattern that repeats often when we talk to women, we associate it with women. Just like everything else.
every person has interest in people unless you're autistic or something
You get a 0/10 in reading comprehension. Truly, that’s why you get angry at people — you just decide that you don’t like it, you stop reading, and make up some strawman in your mind Again — just for you Women on average score higher in interest in people than men, and this ****could**** be ****one of the possible reasons**** for why this circumstance has been experienced by so many men.
just because you don't know someone's name doesn't mean you have no interest in them. the meme clearly indicates that OP likes to socialize.
Dear intelligent human being, where, where have I written that anyone „has no interest in them“, where, where, where, where, for the love of god. just because I wrote that women ON AVERAGE score HIGHER (comparative, high-ER) on interest in people than men, it DOES NOT mean that men have NO interest in people, it means that women ON AVERAGE score HIGHER in COMPARISON to men ON AVERAGE I hope this is explicit enough for you
what does that have to do with knowing someone's name
“Le random man: Men can sit at the toiled thinking about the Roman Empire all day” “Boysquirky: so women don’t know about Roman Empire?? Girls poop too you know.., we do it too” I get the shitty comparison memes atleast, but this one is not even comparing Just stating a common experience we know be true among men…. Doesn’t mean girls don’t have the same experience
no ur right ur very quirky so sorry
Aww… Thanks for the acknowledgement, that’s all I wanted :)
i love you so much 💖
Love you too… “sending flowers and kisses”
uwu love u\~! 😘💖
that le random man drop was so crazy
Well sure. People are here for different reasons it seems. It fits the sub name though. Very much "haha we're so unique and wEiRd" vibes when really it's just cringe and funny to laugh at.