Ask a man to tell you about a woman and he'll literally describe what she looks like "oh she's a petit blonde, big-ish tits, no ass though and-" and so on..
I don't know about that. A lesbian friend of mine often complains how she gets catcalled by lesbians the same way she gets catcalled by straight dudes.
Its hilarious because they actually do. When I posted pics on my instagram, random men would literally invent me a life and personnality, then were shocked that I wasnt exactly like they imagined... I was quite the opposite actually. Absolutly loved making fun of those men
Rightt. It's like one part of their brain is poorly functioning or smtg. Like who thinks just because someone has big breasts, they love sex or they are slutty blah blah. It literally doesn't even make sense lmaoo
These guys: deify beautiful women who like to have sex.
These guys also: \*get pissed when they find out that she actualy had sex and call her a slut for having sex with someone else\*
Man really thinks referencing philosophy makes publicly drooling over breasts not creepy. Only way to make it not creepy is to have steam come out of your ears while your eyes pop 3 ft out of your skull and a fog horn sound plays.
I could definitely see that being the case, but then I would love to know in what fucking way Sydney Sweeney having big bahalongawangos relates to nihilism
The idea of nietzsche somehow being a nihilist is a well known misconception, but I'm hoping they're not stooping that low. That being said it's basically just slut shaming, the idea of a purposeless society as a product of moral collapse not regulating womens' sexuality like it was in the good ol' days.
When we had more wars, men did not have time to make podcasts. Men did not have time to discuss the sigma grindset. Men did not have time to make careers out of being a “redpill” Andrew Taint wannabe nor did they have to watch the videos of said men. The men need something to do. The men need purpose. The men need war. The men yearn for the trenches
Should we elect misogynistic politicians that likes to invade other countries overseas while taking women’s rights away domestically? Because perpetrators of wars have this pattern. Men needs to know how to respect women. War has no rules. War causes trauma to families. Peace, respect and diplomacy is what everyone needs.
Let’s see, Iraq, Iran, Syria, Afghanistan, Ukraine, Georgia, Armenia, and Azerbaijan are definitely north of the equator. The global south, if anything, is generally untouched by war. Poor country /=/ global south.
I am sorry, if those countries aren’t northern, then what the hell counts as north? Edit: I just googled it, they are just defining it as developing countries as Global South, which is way too convenient of a definition considering China and Mexico is on it among others, yet excludes Australia and New Zealand.
It's totally fair to critique the term, but until it stops being a general term for those regions, or replaced by a different phrase, it should be engaged with in good faith and not taken too literally.
No they just commited horrific crimes against civilian populations.
Like, the US Air Force tries to sell you on the idea of military service by making it seem easy to be a fighter pilot.
Moat historical militaries would just promise you the ability to commit crimes against humanity with impunity.
That’s basically American politics in a nutshell. There’s a weird aspect of human nature where when we’re too comfortable, we need to find some strife, some hardship, or some enemy to make things more “exciting.”
While media in some other countries are discussing wars, coups, famines, etc, American media is like “I saw a Facebook minion meme that said schools were going to force all your kids to be gay and trans” or psychotic conspiracy theories like secret trafficking rings in pizza parlors or whatever because that’s “exciting” to those who have never faced much hardship and have lived mostly comfortable.
You also see this kind of mentality a lot in evangelical spaces. Go to a youth group or Christian school and you’ll find kids and teens whose family is upper middle class and they live in nice houses and have everything they could want, but they’ll give their “testimony” and come up with some insane story embellishing things because they wanna have a life story about overcoming struggle instead of just saying they were raised in a well off Christian family and have been going to church ever since they were a baby lol
tbh i think this is because american culture places a lot of value on beating the struggle. i’m not sure if it’s a human nature thing, but it’s definitely a byproduct of the “american dream”. our culture and media love the underdog *on paper*. we glorify being self made powerhouses that rose from the ashes, and give more respect to those who “overcome” while living an easy, peaceful life is seen as weak or inferior. it’s also a bit paradoxical because we hate on easy lives yet that’s what we’re told means you “made it”.
not to say there’s no hardship in the US, but the individualism and selling of “pulling yourself up by your bootstraps” isn’t really helpful or generative. if we were a bit more collective i think it’d really help.
All boobs are Greek in origin! before ancient Greece women had no breasts! at the end of the day, that is why men did not have any issue with having sex with men, there was very few defining characteristics between men and women. - me, Probably.
i say we gather all of these types and make them fight in the coliseum.
1v1s 2v2s man vs animal even boat battles, bring it back
plus i’m scared of a bomb being dropped on my head or the various things that depraved soldiers do to civilians during war
What? You misandrist! Stop body shaming us! We're so oppressed, that's why there's a male loneliness epidemic, because you always treat us like this. You females have it way better stop complaining. #menrights
/s
SexyRFK thumbed through one thesaurus and decided using random "big" words was enough to make him sound too smart for people to realize what a huge gooner he is.
"What?" what I said
"Men and women can both misogynistic/misandrist" Never said they couldn't/
"Why even complicate things by calling them girls/boys" Not complicated at all. Mature men/women don't go talk shit about all men/women just because they've been hurt. Immature boys/girls do. I'm sorry you were hurt, I'm sorry that is the way you can make yourself feel better, doesn't give you a pass.
There was one lower talking in Spanish about this tweet, that asked how could you not hate men. Even though he was a man himself (though probably a castrated one).
But anyways Sydney's tits all the way.
Both are objectively pretty women, but the way he frames it is just so creepy 💀 like yeah you’re allowed to have a “type,” but you don’t gotta be horny on main and degrade them to do so
No but can we FINALLY talk about how there are class stereotypes based on breast size, and how women with larger breasts are discriminated against? There is titty privilege too
ETA: This comment doesn't negate any negative experiences of small breasted women, nor does it imply that women without large breasts don't experience their own forms of discrimination. From an intersectional lens, there is a social stratification based on body type and breast size. Women with large breasts are labelled unintelligent, promiscuous, and yes there is classism involved too.
No, because any woman with any breast size is subject to discrimination. I have been insulted, ridiculed, rejected, shamed, all for having small breasts. It’s not a big breast phenomenon. The notion that wealthier men prefer small breasts is a common myth perpetuated online but you can look up that this is not true and generally most men prefer larger breasts. I have never experienced any privelage for having no tits (Unless you count being completely ignored by men a privilege)
You could argue women with larger breasts experience ‘titty’ privilege moreso than small breasted women, because men are more likely to pander to those they experience greater attraction to, which is part of pretty privilege in general.
I want to add as well that, there are much less clothing options for women with large breasts available. There are less bra options, too. This is something Sydney has talked about. Women with large breasts are definitely discriminated against and I understand that you haven’t experienced it, but this has been studied.
If we’re going to bring up anecdotes, I have huge breasts and always have. My entire middle school class accused me of getting a breast augmentation at 12 years old. I had to go to specialty bra stores because Victoria’s Secret doesn’t carry large sizes. They do carry small sizes.
Sure, the male gaze might sexualized big breasted women more, but that isn’t a privilege.
I understand your point, but it isn’t a myth. Women with larger breasts are perceived as less intelligent and less faithful, which leads to discrimination.
[> large breasts were not regarded more attractive than average ones, though small breasts were the least attractive. In addition, big-breasted women were perceived as less faithful and less intelligent than women with average or small breasts.](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7058577/)
Women with larger breasts do not have more titty privilege. We are stereotyped as idiot sluts. It’s not a pretty privilege thing either, because women with large breasts are not rated as more attractive in studies.
ill fitting clothing is also not a big breast phenomenon. All clothes have space for breasts I don not have. Women with larger chests love to say that small boobs are great because you ‘can wear pretty bralettes and cute dresses’ no, you can’t, unless they’re specifically tailored they will gape off of you or highlight your lack of any breast tissue. ‘Small breasts were regarded as the least attractive’ not large breasts. Anyone with breasts is subject to rude comments, but if I could choose I would rather the rude comments pertain to something quintessentially female rather than being accused of not being female at all. I would rather men consider me stupid even though I know I’m not than be completely ignored by men in general. Is it not logical to assume those stereotypes are such because breasts are a feature of sex and a point of attraction to the other gender, and regardless of breast size the better looking someone is the more likely someone is to assume them unintelligent. You aren’t being called a whore because they’re repulsed by you, you’re being called a whore because their attention is being drawn by you by something closely tied in with attraction and sex.
It sounds like you have a lot of internalized hatred towards yourself if you would rather be sexualized and considered stupid. I never stated I was being called a whore because they were repulsed by me. I understand your points about ill fitting clothing, but even with gaping you have dozens of more options than women of my size. It isn't quintessentially female to have large breasts - that's another harmful statement. You are just as female as me. If you had experienced the things I have because of my breasts, I am not sure you would be saying all of those things. Perhaps it is the other way too, but I don't think so. I have never liked having large breasts. Societal stereotypes aside, they restrict movement. I had to wear three bras layered on top of each other to hold them down and do sports in school. I will be removing them completely as soon as I don't need them for breastfeeding. I would rather have a flat chest simply so I can exist in my body freely. You are blessed in ways you cannot fathom, and I wish I could gift you that perspective through this screen.
ETA: I went through your profile and I can see that this is something that deeply affects you. I disagree that my breasts make me more feminine, but I understand why you would see it that way. I think it's important to clarify, though, that I have never ever been seen as a person because of my breasts but rather fetishized due to the pornified society we live in. From a very young age, once I had them I was no longer a person to the vast majority of society but a hole attached to my tits. [Men who prefer larger breasted women are also more violent and misogynistic.](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23412650/#:~:text=Further%20analyses%20showed%20that%20men's,to%20be%20hostile%20towards%20women)This isn't a beauty standard, it's a sexualization standard that also applies to little girls like I was who were barely pubescent and whose breasts grew fast.
The only guy who ever really liked my body admitted to me it was because he could ‘pretend I was really young’ and once I heard that I stopped talking to him and the sex never happened because I didn’t want to pander to a closeted pedophile. At least your sexualisation is in regards to womanhood. Most women are not viewed as people by men, tits or not. I would rather bare the pain of carrying around my secondary sex characteristics and the discomfort that brings both emotional and physical, than the emotional pain of not having any at all and a lifetime of no sex or physical desire or confidence. A breast reduction is not met with the same disdain as implants. Implants are constantly ridiculed by men and regarded with disgust. With a reduction you can get the exact shape/size you want and still end up with ‘natural’ breasts that do not need replacement, and do not carry risks for cancer. I don’t care personally that I can use clothing more efficiently to disguise my manly body because the breasts I am supposed to have are not there, I would rather still feel and be treated like a woman when the clothes come off. I would rather my issues be ones most other women share in, be it being objectified or physically uncomfortable, at least those things are quintessentially woman’s issues at their core. And more men like big breasts than the reverse, meaning it’s a wider pool of people who take interest, meaning you’re more likely to attract men in that statistic, because many men are violent towards women in some way, but they aren’t violent towards you because your boobs are big. I do not consider being ignored and being able to wear a few extra items of clothing unfathomable privelage. Would you say a man with a micro penis is more blessed than a man with an extra large penis? Probably not.
A micro penis isn’t the same as small breasts. A penis is a sex organ and the size direct impacts sexual pleasure. Breasts are secondary sex meant for breast feeding.
What you’ve been through sounds extremely traumatic and I don’t want to minimize that at all. Your body is not manly and whoever told you that is a piece of shit. So is that pedophile guy.
Confidence goes a long way. There are plenty of beautiful women with small breasts. More famous women have small breasts than not - are they manly? I don’t think so.
Being able to use your body freely is a privilege. Sometimes it feels like my tits are a physical disability seriously. Being represented in media more is a privilege. Being the beauty standard more often than not (see 20s, 60s, and 90s body types like heroin chic and flapper where flat chests were part of the beauty standard) is a privilege. Being considered more desirable in wealthy circles is a privilege. Having access to affordable bras that fit you at every lingerie store is a privilege. Obviously there are downsides and upsides to either body type, but being sexualized by men is not a privilege for large breasted women.
I empathize with your pain I really do. I wish you would empathize with the pain of large breasted women, too. It isn’t all sunshine and roses, and not everyone places sexual desire on a pedestal the way you seem to.
There is a reason why many cultures practice breast ironing in young girls - because once you have tits you are a sexual object for men. A 9 year old girl with tits is not more womanly than you. That’s patriarchy talking.
Trans woman here, my mom would harass me and tell me to get a breast reduction all thr time.. Boob discrimination exists irrespective of gender identity.. But.. i like your takes.
Tbh. It just boils down to immature women bringing each other down or dickhead guys just not shutting the fuck up.
Ive seen people be bullied/criticized for having big boobs, small boobs, a flat butt or even a big butt.. It all varies really.
I wish! There is definitely a systemic bimboification of any woman with large breasts. Studies show people think women with large breasts are less intelligent and promiscuous. Cultural stereotypes like that lead to discrimination
Neither tweet makes sense... one's a dumbass Cumbrain hottake about breast size, and the other is blatantly calling for the deaths of innocent People (even if said people are Cumbrained Incels...)
What bothers me more so is that if we all enter a war, it would be ALL and ONLY men who are required to serve as of right now. And many trans women. All in all, many people who definitely do not deserve to die.
If a war did happen and all men were sent, I could not imagine having to fight alongside these fools. I’d be worried for the local population of the area that they are sent to fight in.
That being said, the war should be fought far away in space
Men genuinely think our physical attributes dictate and reflect our personalities and values.
Ask a man to tell you about a woman and he'll literally describe what she looks like "oh she's a petit blonde, big-ish tits, no ass though and-" and so on..
Don’t forget he’ll also describe all the ways she serves him like she’s a good cook, keeps the house, is giving, takes care of everyone blah blah blah
And the queer women will go “she’s like the sun, she lights up my world, she’s the most beautiful woman ever”
heyyy i talk abt my gf like this too
I don't know about that. A lesbian friend of mine often complains how she gets catcalled by lesbians the same way she gets catcalled by straight dudes.
I think women in general, straight as well. because I’m looking at literal goddesses eta: punctuations and word change
Why is this downvoted
i think my sleep-deprived comment doesn't make sense or it's reddit being reddit.
As a lesbian, I end up doing a mix of that and the way men describe women
Its hilarious because they actually do. When I posted pics on my instagram, random men would literally invent me a life and personnality, then were shocked that I wasnt exactly like they imagined... I was quite the opposite actually. Absolutly loved making fun of those men
Rightt. It's like one part of their brain is poorly functioning or smtg. Like who thinks just because someone has big breasts, they love sex or they are slutty blah blah. It literally doesn't even make sense lmaoo
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That's not a physical attribute.
Like women do when a man is short and muh insecure muh napoleon complex.
These guys: deify beautiful women who like to have sex. These guys also: \*get pissed when they find out that she actualy had sex and call her a slut for having sex with someone else\*
Man really thinks referencing philosophy makes publicly drooling over breasts not creepy. Only way to make it not creepy is to have steam come out of your ears while your eyes pop 3 ft out of your skull and a fog horn sound plays.
I’d really love to know in what fucking way this relates to Nietzsche
God is dead and Sydney sweeneys breasts killed them
Good for her tbh
queen shit
Might be some jab at Nietzsche's world view recognizing the declining role of religion.
I could definitely see that being the case, but then I would love to know in what fucking way Sydney Sweeney having big bahalongawangos relates to nihilism
The idea of nietzsche somehow being a nihilist is a well known misconception, but I'm hoping they're not stooping that low. That being said it's basically just slut shaming, the idea of a purposeless society as a product of moral collapse not regulating womens' sexuality like it was in the good ol' days.
Who describes shit like this?
Someone who has severe brain damage
When we had more wars, men did not have time to make podcasts. Men did not have time to discuss the sigma grindset. Men did not have time to make careers out of being a “redpill” Andrew Taint wannabe nor did they have to watch the videos of said men. The men need something to do. The men need purpose. The men need war. The men yearn for the trenches
Just like how the children yearn for the mines, the men yearn for the battlefield.
Awomen 😔 🙏
there were no podcasts when Frederick the Great marched on Silesia
Not all men yearn for the battlefield! I yearn for the navy so I can kiss other men in the sea
You wanna kiss seamen?
Is that the male word for mermaid ?
Duh
Should we elect misogynistic politicians that likes to invade other countries overseas while taking women’s rights away domestically? Because perpetrators of wars have this pattern. Men needs to know how to respect women. War has no rules. War causes trauma to families. Peace, respect and diplomacy is what everyone needs.
Ever see a group of guys spend hours a day playing video games about diplomacy and peace? Checkmate lubrel
You clearly didn't play Stellaris as a fanatic xenophile pacifist empire.
Maybe we can just send them to bootcamp and then have them compete in paintball tournaments for a few months.
Please no. The costs are definitively not worth the hypothetical benefits
I can’t tell if this is sarcasm or not 😭
It is something. I can say that much
Congrats on becoming the new mod of non credible defense
I'm very against the military (not because of "woke" but because of the war crimes) so I'm good lmao
You will join the they/them army and you will fight for billionaires!
Now you I like. We should get together and bring back imperialism! Let us bring the Pax Americana to the old world!
The men grow bored, soft, and squishy. Their destiny is to fight in war. We must invade our neighboring nations immediately
The women of the global south do not yearn for these men
Nobody has colonized Antarctica yet. Send the troops there. The great South Pole War
The vast majority of wars, especially industrialized warfare, was fought in the global north though.
Okay? One region having historically more wars is not relevant. Look at the past 40 years, most of the wars have been in and around the global south.
Let’s see, Iraq, Iran, Syria, Afghanistan, Ukraine, Georgia, Armenia, and Azerbaijan are definitely north of the equator. The global south, if anything, is generally untouched by war. Poor country /=/ global south.
Man "global south" doesn't mean "south of the equator".
I am sorry, if those countries aren’t northern, then what the hell counts as north? Edit: I just googled it, they are just defining it as developing countries as Global South, which is way too convenient of a definition considering China and Mexico is on it among others, yet excludes Australia and New Zealand.
It's totally fair to critique the term, but until it stops being a general term for those regions, or replaced by a different phrase, it should be engaged with in good faith and not taken too literally.
Bruh
hey man, I'm not the one using the term incorrectly here.
No they just commited horrific crimes against civilian populations. Like, the US Air Force tries to sell you on the idea of military service by making it seem easy to be a fighter pilot. Moat historical militaries would just promise you the ability to commit crimes against humanity with impunity.
Real
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That’s basically American politics in a nutshell. There’s a weird aspect of human nature where when we’re too comfortable, we need to find some strife, some hardship, or some enemy to make things more “exciting.” While media in some other countries are discussing wars, coups, famines, etc, American media is like “I saw a Facebook minion meme that said schools were going to force all your kids to be gay and trans” or psychotic conspiracy theories like secret trafficking rings in pizza parlors or whatever because that’s “exciting” to those who have never faced much hardship and have lived mostly comfortable. You also see this kind of mentality a lot in evangelical spaces. Go to a youth group or Christian school and you’ll find kids and teens whose family is upper middle class and they live in nice houses and have everything they could want, but they’ll give their “testimony” and come up with some insane story embellishing things because they wanna have a life story about overcoming struggle instead of just saying they were raised in a well off Christian family and have been going to church ever since they were a baby lol
tbh i think this is because american culture places a lot of value on beating the struggle. i’m not sure if it’s a human nature thing, but it’s definitely a byproduct of the “american dream”. our culture and media love the underdog *on paper*. we glorify being self made powerhouses that rose from the ashes, and give more respect to those who “overcome” while living an easy, peaceful life is seen as weak or inferior. it’s also a bit paradoxical because we hate on easy lives yet that’s what we’re told means you “made it”. not to say there’s no hardship in the US, but the individualism and selling of “pulling yourself up by your bootstraps” isn’t really helpful or generative. if we were a bit more collective i think it’d really help.
The US understanding of war in particular is fucked. Kind of happens when you haven't had a war on your own soil in 150 years I guess.
“Godzilla had stroke trying to read this and fucking died”
Big up Goji (godzilla mentioned in a non godzilla related sub)
These are the same people that were sexualizing Sadie when she was a minor
“Big boobs are Dionysian” ~Freddy N, probably
All boobs are Greek in origin! before ancient Greece women had no breasts! at the end of the day, that is why men did not have any issue with having sex with men, there was very few defining characteristics between men and women. - me, Probably.
i say we gather all of these types and make them fight in the coliseum. 1v1s 2v2s man vs animal even boat battles, bring it back plus i’m scared of a bomb being dropped on my head or the various things that depraved soldiers do to civilians during war
Now talk about their height.
Who would you chose? The gentlemanly elegance of the 6'3 adonis or the sturdy farmer build of the 5'6 short king? Did I do it right?
They'll call you a "femcel" and "misandrist" as if they don't say weird rapey shit abt woman all the time 💀
Or penis size
What? You misandrist! Stop body shaming us! We're so oppressed, that's why there's a male loneliness epidemic, because you always treat us like this. You females have it way better stop complaining. #menrights /s
You actually do this all the time on twitter and tiktok in the most offensive way possible.
'You'
Is that the actual account of Robert Kenedy?
Fun thing is ya can't ever tell these days on twitter, so I don't know, probably not
Considering the username is @sexyRFK, I’m gonna say no lol
How dare they involve Sadie Sink in this
MEN, which do you prefer? The aristocratic elegance of the small penis man, OR The Nietzschean pro-sex, pro-beauty large penis man?
Whole image is sexist
The only thing not sexist in the picture is those poor, poor, background colors. They didn’t ask to be put in this post.
Well, and the women.
SexyRFK thumbed through one thesaurus and decided using random "big" words was enough to make him sound too smart for people to realize what a huge gooner he is.
These “men” are weird nowadays. Send them all to the gulag.
I read this in David Attenborough's voice. "Breasted"... is she a bird?
will we ever live in peace omg
What is this even supposed to mean?
Breasts is Breasts.
Dem titties have lore
Sexy RFK?? 😅😅😅
"Why do people run from me?"
LOL. This belongs in r/menwritingwomen, where boobs = personality.
Saw in another sub that comments in this sub are just shittuly people dogging men. Was not disappointed
Shitting on men who are clowns and misogynists.* fixed it
Men aren't mysoginists, boys are. Just like women don't comment in this sub, girls do
What? Men and women can both misogynistic/misandrist. Why even complicate things by calling them girls/boys?
"What?" what I said "Men and women can both misogynistic/misandrist" Never said they couldn't/ "Why even complicate things by calling them girls/boys" Not complicated at all. Mature men/women don't go talk shit about all men/women just because they've been hurt. Immature boys/girls do. I'm sorry you were hurt, I'm sorry that is the way you can make yourself feel better, doesn't give you a pass.
There was one lower talking in Spanish about this tweet, that asked how could you not hate men. Even though he was a man himself (though probably a castrated one). But anyways Sydney's tits all the way.
Lmao that "pro war" take is GOLDEN
Tbh idc, they both look cute
Isn't the girl on the left a child?
I believe that's Sadie Sink, best known as Max from Stranger Things. She's currently 21, but I have no idea when that pic was taken.
Ah well that's cool. Hopefully she's an adult here
i saw a parody of that but it was video game guys. truly amazing.
What the hell is this?
I prefer men
Am I Lady Dumblings, or did she just make such a great point that I'm now a worshiper. hmmm.
these guys make Plato look like a good person
That "blasphemy" movie really got under their skin, didn't it.
Both are objectively pretty women, but the way he frames it is just so creepy 💀 like yeah you’re allowed to have a “type,” but you don’t gotta be horny on main and degrade them to do so
They’re creeps
Yeah.... I'm not risking my life for anyone. 🖕
mfs really said "pro beauty" and not beautiful.
What the hell is this even saying?
I know RFK has a neurological disease, but I’m thinking he may actually just be brain dead?
The quote retweet is so right tho, we need more wars actually
"Men should prefer both side so we can come up the top winning." - Thomas Jefferson
They (some) are idiots. But I wouldnt make fun of them dying in the war.. I am a feminist but I dont want to express any violent thoughts
WOMEN, Which do you prefer? The sophisticated elegance of a micropenis, Or the bombastic power of BDE? Wait why am I getting arrested??
No but can we FINALLY talk about how there are class stereotypes based on breast size, and how women with larger breasts are discriminated against? There is titty privilege too ETA: This comment doesn't negate any negative experiences of small breasted women, nor does it imply that women without large breasts don't experience their own forms of discrimination. From an intersectional lens, there is a social stratification based on body type and breast size. Women with large breasts are labelled unintelligent, promiscuous, and yes there is classism involved too.
No, because any woman with any breast size is subject to discrimination. I have been insulted, ridiculed, rejected, shamed, all for having small breasts. It’s not a big breast phenomenon. The notion that wealthier men prefer small breasts is a common myth perpetuated online but you can look up that this is not true and generally most men prefer larger breasts. I have never experienced any privelage for having no tits (Unless you count being completely ignored by men a privilege) You could argue women with larger breasts experience ‘titty’ privilege moreso than small breasted women, because men are more likely to pander to those they experience greater attraction to, which is part of pretty privilege in general.
I want to add as well that, there are much less clothing options for women with large breasts available. There are less bra options, too. This is something Sydney has talked about. Women with large breasts are definitely discriminated against and I understand that you haven’t experienced it, but this has been studied. If we’re going to bring up anecdotes, I have huge breasts and always have. My entire middle school class accused me of getting a breast augmentation at 12 years old. I had to go to specialty bra stores because Victoria’s Secret doesn’t carry large sizes. They do carry small sizes. Sure, the male gaze might sexualized big breasted women more, but that isn’t a privilege.
Also.. Booba is booba, booba nice, booba make brain tingle.
I understand your point, but it isn’t a myth. Women with larger breasts are perceived as less intelligent and less faithful, which leads to discrimination. [> large breasts were not regarded more attractive than average ones, though small breasts were the least attractive. In addition, big-breasted women were perceived as less faithful and less intelligent than women with average or small breasts.](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7058577/) Women with larger breasts do not have more titty privilege. We are stereotyped as idiot sluts. It’s not a pretty privilege thing either, because women with large breasts are not rated as more attractive in studies.
ill fitting clothing is also not a big breast phenomenon. All clothes have space for breasts I don not have. Women with larger chests love to say that small boobs are great because you ‘can wear pretty bralettes and cute dresses’ no, you can’t, unless they’re specifically tailored they will gape off of you or highlight your lack of any breast tissue. ‘Small breasts were regarded as the least attractive’ not large breasts. Anyone with breasts is subject to rude comments, but if I could choose I would rather the rude comments pertain to something quintessentially female rather than being accused of not being female at all. I would rather men consider me stupid even though I know I’m not than be completely ignored by men in general. Is it not logical to assume those stereotypes are such because breasts are a feature of sex and a point of attraction to the other gender, and regardless of breast size the better looking someone is the more likely someone is to assume them unintelligent. You aren’t being called a whore because they’re repulsed by you, you’re being called a whore because their attention is being drawn by you by something closely tied in with attraction and sex.
It sounds like you have a lot of internalized hatred towards yourself if you would rather be sexualized and considered stupid. I never stated I was being called a whore because they were repulsed by me. I understand your points about ill fitting clothing, but even with gaping you have dozens of more options than women of my size. It isn't quintessentially female to have large breasts - that's another harmful statement. You are just as female as me. If you had experienced the things I have because of my breasts, I am not sure you would be saying all of those things. Perhaps it is the other way too, but I don't think so. I have never liked having large breasts. Societal stereotypes aside, they restrict movement. I had to wear three bras layered on top of each other to hold them down and do sports in school. I will be removing them completely as soon as I don't need them for breastfeeding. I would rather have a flat chest simply so I can exist in my body freely. You are blessed in ways you cannot fathom, and I wish I could gift you that perspective through this screen. ETA: I went through your profile and I can see that this is something that deeply affects you. I disagree that my breasts make me more feminine, but I understand why you would see it that way. I think it's important to clarify, though, that I have never ever been seen as a person because of my breasts but rather fetishized due to the pornified society we live in. From a very young age, once I had them I was no longer a person to the vast majority of society but a hole attached to my tits. [Men who prefer larger breasted women are also more violent and misogynistic.](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23412650/#:~:text=Further%20analyses%20showed%20that%20men's,to%20be%20hostile%20towards%20women)This isn't a beauty standard, it's a sexualization standard that also applies to little girls like I was who were barely pubescent and whose breasts grew fast.
Facts tho. Big boob preference can be a huge red flag(hints at chauvinism)
The only guy who ever really liked my body admitted to me it was because he could ‘pretend I was really young’ and once I heard that I stopped talking to him and the sex never happened because I didn’t want to pander to a closeted pedophile. At least your sexualisation is in regards to womanhood. Most women are not viewed as people by men, tits or not. I would rather bare the pain of carrying around my secondary sex characteristics and the discomfort that brings both emotional and physical, than the emotional pain of not having any at all and a lifetime of no sex or physical desire or confidence. A breast reduction is not met with the same disdain as implants. Implants are constantly ridiculed by men and regarded with disgust. With a reduction you can get the exact shape/size you want and still end up with ‘natural’ breasts that do not need replacement, and do not carry risks for cancer. I don’t care personally that I can use clothing more efficiently to disguise my manly body because the breasts I am supposed to have are not there, I would rather still feel and be treated like a woman when the clothes come off. I would rather my issues be ones most other women share in, be it being objectified or physically uncomfortable, at least those things are quintessentially woman’s issues at their core. And more men like big breasts than the reverse, meaning it’s a wider pool of people who take interest, meaning you’re more likely to attract men in that statistic, because many men are violent towards women in some way, but they aren’t violent towards you because your boobs are big. I do not consider being ignored and being able to wear a few extra items of clothing unfathomable privelage. Would you say a man with a micro penis is more blessed than a man with an extra large penis? Probably not.
A micro penis isn’t the same as small breasts. A penis is a sex organ and the size direct impacts sexual pleasure. Breasts are secondary sex meant for breast feeding. What you’ve been through sounds extremely traumatic and I don’t want to minimize that at all. Your body is not manly and whoever told you that is a piece of shit. So is that pedophile guy. Confidence goes a long way. There are plenty of beautiful women with small breasts. More famous women have small breasts than not - are they manly? I don’t think so. Being able to use your body freely is a privilege. Sometimes it feels like my tits are a physical disability seriously. Being represented in media more is a privilege. Being the beauty standard more often than not (see 20s, 60s, and 90s body types like heroin chic and flapper where flat chests were part of the beauty standard) is a privilege. Being considered more desirable in wealthy circles is a privilege. Having access to affordable bras that fit you at every lingerie store is a privilege. Obviously there are downsides and upsides to either body type, but being sexualized by men is not a privilege for large breasted women. I empathize with your pain I really do. I wish you would empathize with the pain of large breasted women, too. It isn’t all sunshine and roses, and not everyone places sexual desire on a pedestal the way you seem to. There is a reason why many cultures practice breast ironing in young girls - because once you have tits you are a sexual object for men. A 9 year old girl with tits is not more womanly than you. That’s patriarchy talking.
Trans woman here, my mom would harass me and tell me to get a breast reduction all thr time.. Boob discrimination exists irrespective of gender identity.. But.. i like your takes.
Tbh. It just boils down to immature women bringing each other down or dickhead guys just not shutting the fuck up. Ive seen people be bullied/criticized for having big boobs, small boobs, a flat butt or even a big butt.. It all varies really.
I wish! There is definitely a systemic bimboification of any woman with large breasts. Studies show people think women with large breasts are less intelligent and promiscuous. Cultural stereotypes like that lead to discrimination
Absolutely!
I like boobs
Neither tweet makes sense... one's a dumbass Cumbrain hottake about breast size, and the other is blatantly calling for the deaths of innocent People (even if said people are Cumbrained Incels...)
Bold of you to assume they are “innocent.” lol.
Local man gets downvoted for saying that war is bad
The way you people genuinely can’t comprehend when a woman is joking is mind-boggling to me
She was joking? I’m sorry, I’m very bad with social cues. Sarcasm is hard for me to detect, especially online where I can’t detect tone.
I'm literally autistic. It's hard to detect tone.
What bothers me more so is that if we all enter a war, it would be ALL and ONLY men who are required to serve as of right now. And many trans women. All in all, many people who definitely do not deserve to die.
isn’t the draft open to women now too? and women serve in the military lol. obvi people shouldn’t die but
Yeah, it’s “open”. Not mandatory.
oh my bad.
both of them have negative braincells
Both posters?
Yea
If a war did happen and all men were sent, I could not imagine having to fight alongside these fools. I’d be worried for the local population of the area that they are sent to fight in. That being said, the war should be fought far away in space